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@teslasenthusiasm1847

5 жыл бұрын

The longer it is that you don’t drink the less likely it’ll be you ever drink again ..,it’s like you don’t want to break the streak.,it’s not worth it.?you’ll be so upset if you drink now. It’ll be like losing.

@Dream_Weapon

5 жыл бұрын

12 weeks tomorrow since I quit my friend. I would go through a bottle of rum or about 10 pints after every shift... it has been getting increasingly worse for more than 10 years. It's been a tough life.

@extremedoopy1039

5 жыл бұрын

Please rename yourself stranglerstar lol

@wobblysauce

5 жыл бұрын

I have to wait till you pick a 3rd challenge... already doing the first two.

@Spazzycat14

5 жыл бұрын

Doing a great job on quitting drinking, but id advise also not to listen to Owen Benjamin. I used to listen in passing but recently he has gone off the deep end. We are concerned for him, and its easy for some people to believe the things he says and thats a slippery slope, not saying you do, and he has good points sometimes, but he isnt a role model I would follow for sure.

Im only 16. I haven't had much of these situations or things that you have been through or talk about but listening to you makes me try to follow what you say because you're wise and I understand that I should try to be good man when I'm older. For a lot of the words that you say, I try to use those words and shape myself into a good person and I am truly greatful that there is someone in this world that I can listen too, to try and make myself a good man. I have so much respect for you and what you do and talk about, it's all amazing and it's a true blessing to have your videos in my life.

@lauriestlyon8773

5 жыл бұрын

You could choose far worst as a role model. I don't agree with Cody on all things, but as a rational, thinking man I don't have too. I would have no issue recommending Cody as a role model to my own boys. Only little children expect everyone erroneous to agree with Them? I call it a 6 year old mindset! Intellectual integrity is as important as moral integrity. That is why ideological bigots, of both the left and the right, are both infantile and Dangerous! The left always some ts everything going to the ideology. The right is equally bad but it's crime tends to be elitism stand for what you believe to be true but be open to consider you might be wrong,!

@microcolonel

5 жыл бұрын

Not to be that guy, but it can't hurt to pay attention to your grammar and spelling either. It makes a huge difference in life.

@843292

5 жыл бұрын

Hey Comic Book Addict... you might look into Jordan B. Peterson as well. He's got a practical way of putting things and tells boys and young men to "clean up their rooms." Anyway, you might appreciate some of the messages he has and his way of reasoning through life.

@XofJSA

5 жыл бұрын

@Comic book Addict if have not had these experiences... and I speak from experience do not have those experiences as I have been through them they take from you and even if you think they are adding to something they are not

@drobb4207

5 жыл бұрын

You're off to a good start young man! I had Boy Scouts when I was young. The 12 points of the Scout Law are...Trustworthy, Loyal, Helpful, Friendly, Courteous, Kind, Obedient, Cheerful, Thrifty, Brave, Clean and Reverent. They have served me well and will serve you well also. Don

Hitting me hard Cody but I love to hear these harsh words. From a young hard working man that has struggled with drugs and alcohol, its time to drop the excuses and life my life to its full potential. Thank you from Australia.

@fess1of9

4 жыл бұрын

I HOPE IT'S GOIN WELL BROTHER

@fulccrum2324

4 жыл бұрын

Just the random commenter warning you to keep this written promise up, but, yeah, good luck keeping on keeping on

I just passed 7 years without alcohol.7/12/12 was my last drink. Beer was my favorite liquid to ingest. Keep going life only gets better and more clear.

@TotallyFly

5 жыл бұрын

how can you last that long, i barely can go a week, and i want to kill my self..

@TotallyFly

5 жыл бұрын

literally almost did today, cut my self, ended up getting beer and now im pretty drunk:/, someone killl me plz

@Galt4570

5 жыл бұрын

Good job Red, I passed four years on 5/14/15.

@RustyShakleford1

5 жыл бұрын

you would feel that way if you never drank beer and were living the life you are today without beer. change your lifestyle to an environment and new activities that positively charge you up, instead of work and friends/family that drain you. try new things that peak your interest. when you're doing what you enjoy on a daily basis you will find yourself naturally drinking less and less. don't give up ! make small steps towards a better YOU and goals that will make your life better. give yourself time to grieve and then have a goal and work towards it, you can do it man!. All the best you in life. sincerely, Doug

@krh2

5 жыл бұрын

My last drink and cigarette 2/4/12. Life is great!

I never started drinking or smoking. Even through 2 tours in VietNam. I'm now 72. Still don't drink or smoke.

@bitteroldman3151

4 жыл бұрын

Same here. I promised my mother when I was 12 years old I would never drink. My father was an alcoholic. I have tasted alcohol, but only when someone tried to fool me. Never drank during my military service, my buds even defended me when strangers tried to shame me into drinking. I still go to reunions with those old friends. I met a pilot from my military days, who made an off handed comment about drinking beer. He was quite a drinker back in the day, so probably did not remember or maybe never even knew I was not a drinker. This is what I learned from being a non drinker. It makes many people nervous in social settings. I got many unfiltered comments from people who were intoxicated. Mostly positive, I guess they could not say those words face to face when sober. Alcoholism was a severe financial burden on the family and it was like living without a father and like having another child in the family, one with a severe handicap. When my father finally quit after getting sick, I learned that there was a real person inside that alcoholic. Too bad he did not live long after reaching sobriety. I only started to get to know him once he quit drinking. Don't be that stranger to YOUR family. I also promised myself I would never have children, if this is what life would be like for them living in a home with an alcoholic. I never did. I cannot think of one good thing that could come from consuming alcohol.

@fulccrum2324

4 жыл бұрын

I congratulate you on this success and wanted to thank you for your service, as a teen, I am lucky to have parents that neither smoke, drink, or do drugs Heck yeah, keep on keeping on

@JohnnyRoads

4 жыл бұрын

Try it

@JohnnyRoads

4 жыл бұрын

That was a joke btw^

@richies.3191

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your service, sir. I will turn 50 this year and have never drank or smoked. I do not feel like I have missed anything.

When I was on my first 2-3 months clean from all forms of drugs and alcohol I've felt better, clearer and happier than I've ever felt before! You're doing amazing work so keep it up!

@rswow

2 жыл бұрын

Next step. Avoid fried foods. For a sharper mind and body. And next: Big-pharma drugs.

Quiting drinking was the best thing I ever did! 15 years !!

9 days sober and counting! It was hard at first with headaches but now I'm feeling quite well and stronger each day! Thanks for your video and your efforts!!!

"You can't keep dancing with the devil and wonder why your still in hell." This quote seems related to this video.

@jamesbaxter5516

5 жыл бұрын

Clayton Hummel hate to be that asshole but *you’re

@flatsun2132

5 жыл бұрын

that's a good one

@flatsun2132

5 жыл бұрын

@@jamesbaxter5516 it's the internet you"your're are suppose to be bad at spelling

@serenahiggins1849

5 жыл бұрын

MARINENI BOI as someone who always corrected grammar and spelling I can tell you it just is not worth it. You end up not being able to enjoy things and you get angry quicker. Please don’t waste you life on that. I wasted six years of my life being that person and I was full of hate because I thought in was better than everyone else. I was fat and not a leader in any way and I was angry that people would not listen or follow my commands. But now I realize I was angry with myself and that I was letting words bring out the worst of me. I regret that I let correcting peoples words become an idol in my life and that got in between my relationship with God. Please don’t make the same mistake I did.

@garfielddraper3418

5 жыл бұрын

@@waveoflight arrogant*

"Always do sober what you said you'd do drunk." That is an incredible statement.

@checkpoint3260

5 жыл бұрын

But I don't need to throw up when I'm sober

@canaan5337

5 жыл бұрын

I can think of several ways to interpret that statement. It's certainly something to ponder.

@AvengingFade

5 жыл бұрын

Also remember that statement came from a raging alcoholic

You’re a wise dude. In my younger years I would’ve said you were lame and rigid, but as I get older I’m fortunate to see the truth in what you’re saying. I’ve seen character flaws in myself that I’ve changed, and I see those flaws in people much older than me at 23 with the those same broken qualities. I’m not trying to boast myself, but the fact that I’ve realized and changed these things but people much older than me haven’t had taught me that some people reach like a max maturity. I hope I never stop growing, because many people just stop maturing and that’s a fear of mine.

As a young man finding his purpose in life, your videos are a source of wisdom and guidance

@ixionn563

5 жыл бұрын

I can relate, it's honestly pretty stressful in a way to be confused about who you are.

@TheZachDayton

5 жыл бұрын

I have a great dad; but there are so many life lessons from this channel that I just haven't found anywhere else. The Wranglerstar family is very blessed by a great leader of a father.

I quit drinking and smoking on 13 April 1988 and I did it with Gods help

@mathbrown9099

5 жыл бұрын

Michael Bouley 21 yr coin must look pretty sweet!

I’m 24 and have given up alcohol 7 months ago but when you started this I followed by quitting cigarettes

@philipgallivan7681

4 жыл бұрын

How’s this going for you still? It’s hard to do so I hope well :)

It's videos like this Cody, that make me a subscriber. There really aren't a lot of people on KZread who really speak from the heart. This kind of honesty is a bonus.

Cody: Been watching this channel since you shot out of your garage in the wrangler barn and did some repairs, saw Jack as a bump in your wife's belly, went through the bans back in the ###$$ 554 days, Saw you and Doc share a fire even went through the first bible study class. This video is your all time best. Congratulations on your hard work and success.

I quit 11 years ago as an example for my son. I have never regretted it.

Thanks, I'm not even religious but took a lot away from this.

@curtisdurfee6392

5 жыл бұрын

@@carpediem5232 I have a good book you should try it is the book of morman

@sherizaahd

5 жыл бұрын

Blind Guardian is a great band!

Keep thinking positive wranglerstar, you are making a positive impact on this world.

Cody this is my true story. I noticed I was stopping on my way home and getting two 24oz Michelob ultra beers every morning. I worked nights. This in my mind was to help me go to sleep. I did like you and decided to see if I had a problem. I said I would stop for a week which turned to a month. Then I realized I was sleeping better than I ever had. I haven't wanted to drink since. No I didnt have a problem nor did I want to earn one. That was 15 years ago. Life truley is better without it imo. I know my kids and my wife hold me in high regard because of it. That's fir sure. Hope my story sends you encouragement friend.

@wranglerstar

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you Chris, it does,

@joeh4295

5 жыл бұрын

Great story

@christopherleveck6835

5 жыл бұрын

I think we may be related......

@Lucky_2847

5 жыл бұрын

@@christopherleveck6835 we might be...lol

@christopherleveck6835

5 жыл бұрын

@@Lucky_2847 I'm certain I've been called Lemacks before.....

Yes this hits home, hard. Thanks for sharing! I too am in my early 50’s and have just gone alcohol free thanks to your video. I can relate on so many levels to what you share, you’ve motivated me to stop again. The clarity of mind, patience with others are just of a couple points that resonate with me.

I haven't had a drink since 9/1/14 I feel much better my family is happier we just chose to not drink!

This is great. Love your honesty and candidness in being vocal with your journey. I can relate to much of what you've experienced with alcohol and this has encouraged me to want to try this for myself. From your first video of you talking about "saying goodbye to an old friend", up until this video, there is a stark difference in your confidence, the way you talk, and obviously your relationship with God/family. Even your skin color in your face is more vibrant! You're doing great and I'm loving all of this content. I'm 26, work on a farm, am a christian, and a husband. I appreciate how you tie in God with everyday life struggles and celebration even if it seems small. Everything amounts to something, positive or negative. Since I don't have a community or work with anyone on the farm, through you being so candid, it makes me feel like I can improve myself knowing and feeling that i'm not alone in this. Working outdoors, I listen to podcasts all day. I'd listen to a you in a podcast in long-form everyday if I could! Thank you

When I got out of the army, I drank HEAVILY.... for a year or two, I drank daily.... then one day I stopped. I didn’t have a drink for almost 5 years and now I may have 1 drink every few weeks at the max. Having control over drink or the desire to drink is empowering and honestly just a part of being a mature, responsible adult. Great job! Keep up doing whatever is best for you!

For not preaching, powerful message. Really enjoy when God moves you like this.

Im 27 and I just got five years clean September 24th 2019

Well done. Keep it up! When I was getting very drunk every day I wasn't functioning in many important parts of my life. It was terrible for my mental health and I had no goals or direction. Its been about 5 years sober now - best thing I've ever done. Day by day

Alcohol, not a problem... being habitually late? I need an intervention!!

Wife and I agree you look 5 to 10 years younger since quiting alcohol... Keep it up 👍

I quit alcohol about 25 yrs ago, and my reason was purely that I just didn't want to be subject to a DUI or anything similar, and, safety. I didn't have a problem with it or anything but that. Best decision I've ever made and I APPLAUD YOU.

Thank you Mr.Wranglerstar I truly respect and look up to what you are doing I am 15 and got into bad substances and it is very hard for me to stop, but seeing how great it is working out for you and others is truly amazing

CONGRATULATIONS CODY ON YOUR 60 DAYS!! I stopped drinking 11 and a half years ago with the "never say forever" mentality, but at this point I don;t think I'll ever go back. God bless you for sharing your life and journey with all of us! I've gotta say you and Big Bear are truly doing gods work helping to show a good example of living well, being humble and speaking truth. thanks again for what you do.

45 days with no booze buzz or cigarettes, I put them down on the same day. I'm getting compliments, and it weirds me out. I also feel GREAT. No withdrawal whatsoever anymore. Stay strong!

2 years sober here I love it was the best decision i ever made!!!!!! I did have a problem drinking and i almost lost everything. keep it up im glad you are able to use your platform to document your sobriety.

I have to quit smoking this year.

@sociopathmercenary

5 жыл бұрын

Edibles 👍🏻

@GlobetechtruthJF

4 жыл бұрын

It can be tough but what's tougher is saying something as a future event. Procrastination is as dangerous as the vice itself...If you make it a future it will stay in the future. ..It has to be a Now event to be effective in more ways than one. Take care ...Good Luck

I drank for 25 years, am now 15 months sober and will never go back! If you feel good at 60 days, just wait until you hit 1 year. I have so much more clarity and feel so much better physically. I never thought I would be sober and had no idea it would be this good. If you feel like you want to go forever just go for it. I had an epiphany that I just need to say I am done, no excuses and no outs. When I came to that point it felt good and even a relief to be all in. Thanks for the videos, looking forward to more!

I walk away praying because I dont want to forget, taught that as a young Christian. But I still forget at times. God bless you guys

Good message. Years ago I was called to be a witness in a court case. The bailiff asked me to raise my right and and swear etc. I told him no, but that according to James 5:12 I'd let my yes be yes etc. He looked at the judge a bit perplexed,and the judge just said "He's good." and told me to take the stand.. I think your hair looks much fuller since you stopped drinking..

You’re talking about what I call ‘lip service’ a huge pet peeve of mine, people say something at the moment to look good but never follow through, it’s especially true when alcohol is involved, slowly I’m opening my husband la eyes to this trait. The biggest one I learned was when I was severely ill and so many people said’let me know if you need anything’ then when you’re actually in need they’re no where to be found, but they sure felt like a sincere friend when they said it.

Love your channel Cody! I've been watching for a couple years and appreciate the time & information you present. Today, i can relate to your video as I've been sober for 11 years & quit smoking 12 years ago. I feel better now than i did when I was a young buck in the service! I've lost weight, blood pressure is awesome, blood sugar is awesome and I just feel energized! I admire your knowledge you impart to us viewers. Keep up the great work!

This is so appropriate! I just had a conversation with my wife about me saying, "I'll take car of that tomorrow." Before I know it, I've got 20 things that I will "take care of tomorrow." Trying to be more intentional on keeping to my word. Your honesty is always appreciated.

Easily one of the best videos I've ever watched, on any channel, not just yours. Thank you, truly.

Someone from this forum replied to something I wrote here. He said that non drinking Christians were an American thing, and it only started here in the last century or so. (Or, something very much like that.) I have no quarrel with that. But it is a good idea to give up worldly activities and pursuits anyway. We are called to be separate from the World when we belong to Christ. We have heard of churches that have rules. I have decided these rules are worth taking a calm, honest look at. I know that leaving alcohol, not dancing or going to movies are the most famous rules, and things like them. I see that it also saves me money, and by complying, I have also avoided social situations where I might have trouble, injury, loose a friend. I am not forced into this peaceful lifestyle. I choose to live this way. Some call them rules. But I say, Thanks for pointing out a better way to live. I appreciate God's desires for a good life for me. So I am a volunteer. How many of us recall that God would like us to dress and act sensibly. And to be modest. And humble. I choose to follow the ways of humility, simplicity, respect, and other things on this order. But place FAITH at the top of the list. Thanks for reading my input.

You are doing us a favor by giving us something for nothing. “Putting your family first” by spending the day with your family is a great excuse for being a little late on announcing a giveaway. Still I understand what you are saying. I try very hard to do exactly what I say I’m going to do. Sometimes we all fall short. You are a good man Cody. Try not to beat yourself up too much.

There's nothing wrong with NOT having a beer after work as well. The resolve should get stronger the longer you've been away from it (it has for me). You are right, the benefits of not drinking far out weigh the benefits of drinking.

Cody, I have been praying for you on this journey of abstaining from alcohol. I also agree that there is nothing sinful about having a drink now and then but coming from a line of alcoholics I have seen the damage it can cause. My view on it has always been “is it profitable?” . This was a great video and I appreciate your honesty brother. I will continue to pray for you and your family.

When somebody asks you to pray for them we should start praying on the spot with them you help me realize that thank you

Thank you for posting an update :) and I look forward to the rest of the video

I did what you’re doing back in 2011 quit “for a while” with the same thought that maybe someday I’ll drink again. Since then I’ve drank twice and hated it both times afterwards. This is so tough though, so much of social activity is centered around alcohol and when someone offers you a beer and you say no they kind of look at you suspiciously and then you tend to be outside the group. I respect anyone who is constantly on the path of self reflection and correction

Bless you Cody for your humility, shared wisdom,and encouragement!

Hitting 7 days of no alcohol despite daily offers from friends to "just grab a beer". Started with making excuses not to and now comfortable with just saying no. I feel 1000 times better already and have no plan to pick it back up. Anyway amazing video and message, keep up the excellent content!!!

@uncommonsense5876

3 жыл бұрын

Change your inner circle if they're not going where you want to be.

I really like these videos of a man really doing some deep self-reflection. It reminds me to also do it. If I'm being completely honest, then there are things I have/haven't done I'm not too happy about. Now that I've identified them, it's time to fix them. Thank you Cody. P.S. Congrats to Henry

Just a thought. As he mentioned some will say there's nothing wrong with a drink, true but this is his personal conviction and doesnt expect it of anyone else. I think we understand that but on the same token, hes is apologizing that he didnt keep his word to us. Many say no you dont owe us an apology. But, yes he does owe us an apology, this is his personal conviction and he feels he fell short. I dont want to offend by refusing someone's apology or infer that his conviction isn't worthwhile. Thank you, and thank you for your example of your devotion to your convictions.

I love that your not afraid to speak truth to everyone thank you

Well said. This one pricked my heart. Following through on what we say is important. A few years back I realized that I was doing exactly what you said about praying for someone. So, I began stopping at that moment, where feasible and safe, to say that prayer. Thank you

How's it going I haven't seen your videos for some time I'm glad I caught this one! Congratulations on your 60 days Yahoo that's Great bro! To have a glass of wine may not be a problem, for a non-drinker... I've heard a few recovering alcoholics say my next drunk is a drink away, which keeps them from drinking. I respect your honesty it had to be hard in the beginning 60 days back and every day that led up to that first day, a being sober, so congratulations keep up the great work God bless you bye for now I look forward to hear from you Ken

Thank you Cody! I live in Wisconsin where our whole culture seems to be based on drinking. Seen terrible things in my life because of this. Been sober now over 25 years. Just because I didn't like what it does to people, myself included. Good job Cody! And all you people staying sober!! Rock on!!

Thanks for your video and for your honesty. I have not had a drink in 8 months now and I am honestly disappointed with the results. No weight loss, no real increased mental function or perception, at least that I can tell. I doubt I will ever drink like I did again(If anything just because of the expense) but I will occasionally at special events. Keep sharing your story, thanks

Thank you Cody. It takes a brave man to take on an accountability partner and be completely honest with them. You've taken on a million of us.

Thanks Cody! Needed this reminder. This is why you have such a great following. You set a great example for those of us who are younger and do not have as much experience or life lessons learned.

Best things about not drinking in my mind are the money savings, calorie savings, and peace of mind while driving home from things. I've not had any alcoholic beverage for the last 9 years, no deception, I didn't have a drinking problem and quitting was a challenge socially and with some situations (like at a German restaurant).

I always really enjoy listening to your guidance content, mostly because it hits home and it is what I need to hear.

Man, I needed to hear this. I took an oath to the Lord that I would never drink that my future family wouldn't have to go through what I did. Lately I've been wanting to try it, but God spoke to me in this. Thanks!

@turnersparadise8368

5 жыл бұрын

@@ericzeigler8669 Call what you want, Eric. You are blind and ignorant. God talks to those who listen.

On the 7th of November 2018 after smoking for nearly 40 years I decided to quit. I had tried many times in the past but my mindset was not right obviously to achieve the goal. I have now gone almost 8 months without one, the first thing I really noticed after a few weeks was how my sense of smell and taste returned. It's taken a little longer for my lungs to start functioning better but after a few months I could do more for longer. I do regret I wasn't able to do this when I was younger but I don't dwell on it as it can't be changed. I now have the energy to play with my grand children, something I really didn't have the time or energy to do with my own children and for that I have apologised to them.

Good for you, Cody! Respect. You look to have quit aging a few years ago. And now sans alcohol, you're actually reversing the time clock!

I was just about to go get a twelve pack for tonight and I saw this video... I'm thinking I'm going to quit starting today. Been drinking almost everyday for a few years now. I'm saved, but I know I'm a stumbling block to friends that may be watching me thinking in a terrible example of a Christian. Thanks for this video... God had this for me to watch this very day... Thanks

I've been a follower for awhile now and while we have different religions (mine being Buddhist) the fundamental goals are the same, I'm so very glad that every once and a while you put these life affirming videos into the mix so that a casual subscriber will come across it and maybe watch it and have a period of reflection. The worst thing anyone can do is keep their personal path to spirituality to their selves.

One of the greatest sources of anger I get from common stories, TV, Movies, etc... is a character promising something they can not keep. "We're gunna be ok", "I will return" when going to battle... stop it! You can't make that promise. I do my best to make sure I don't do this in life.

I don't like it when people come over early to my house cuz I never have everything ready yet

I remember as a child that my sister and would try to get my mom to promise us something we wanted. We knew if she PROMISED, she would follow thru. Getting her to PROMISE was hard, however, because she knew that she had to/would follow thru with that promise. She was very sparing with her promises. I try to live the same way.

I needed to hear this. Thanks!

I can't agree more with this video. It's amazing how once you haven't had alcohol in a while, how other better, healthier beverages start to give that same refreshing feeling, and just make you feel so much better. But sometimes it takes us to get to our lows to realize maybe we need to change that ends up helping us better define our true self, and one can not let their lows define you. I think that's what I admire most out of these videos, is how when you take your lows, and mistakes, and let them define them into a better you. These are some of my favorite videos of yours. Keep it up!

I was a bottle of wine a day drinker (sometimes 1.5 are sometimes 2) I am in my 3rd day of not drinking and already sleep better, feel better in the morning and thinking maybe I will never have another drink. My wife is with me on this journey and its great that we're both supporting each other. The evenings are a bit of a grind and I have found that I need to keep active. I am putting more time into my hobby (rc planes), assembling them with great care and enjoy being productive rather than clouded by alcohol.

I agree with Mrs. W. Before I made it to that part of the video I thought the same exact thing. You have a clearer/brighter glow about you. I’m 31 and haven’t drink a drop of alcohol since I was 23. It’s still not easy to not drink! But the benefits of clearness outweigh perceived luxuries alcohol provides. Keep up the good work.

I'm coming up on 1 year sober on Dec 1st. It's one of the best things I have ever done.

Cody, God bless you and your family for setting a godly example to them and others. You've been an inspiration to others struggling with their demons.

thank you. I quit drinking and your message and hearing what you had to say about your experiences, and hearing your stories in other videos has really helped me get a new perspective on myself, and who I am and what I hope to be. Its very refreshing and enlightening when you talk about god or scripture, and you aren't doing it to prove youre right, but to prove he is right. I hope youre doing good in your life.

I was in the corporate world for 40 years and I did thousands of social drinking sessions. My drink of choice......7up with lime. Others never knew except I always fit in.

My grandfather made large financial transactions on nothing more than a handshake and his word back in "the day". It was always instilled that you ARE only as good as your word. IF you tell someone you'll do something, be somewhere, buy something...it's a done deal in my world. I also do my best to give others the benefit of my trust in them until such time as they prove untrustworthy. This world would be MUCH better if more would do the same I think.

Right on! I quit smoking about 35 years ago and took my last drink about 15 months ago, at the age of 67 (oh yeah, didn't have to, just chose to do it. Like you, I think that I may go back occasionally and enjoy a glass of wine with a meal, etc…somewhere down the line, but like you, I'm feeling good about things and I probably won't. If I do, I'll diligently pray about it and let the Lord be my guide. I too, enjoy me some "Papa" Hemingway quit a bit, but I'm not really an avid reader yet I do read a variety of topics, etc. Many years ago (1980-ish), I was well into my 26 Navy career and was stationed in Adak, Alaska (Aleutians) and when I wasn't out backpacking and mountaineering, I tended to be curled up with a book…most often something outdoors-ish. I was devouring some old Robert Service tales & epic poems about the Alaskan Gold Rush and I read a line, in which one prospector was making a promise to another, and the other prospector commented that he wasn't certain if the guy would keep his promise. Then the original old "Sourdough" commented very succinctly, "A Promise Made, Is A Debt Unpaid!" You could've knocked me over with a feather. That moment began another chapter in my life, where I did not make promises…PERIOD! And for the next 39 years, when someone felt I should promise to do something, I blurted out that quote and explain that I'd make every effort to accommodate them but I wouldn't "promise". Then, I got married a few years later and I made the promise to my bride that I'd never be unfaithful to her and shared the "Promise Quote" and that's the way it's been. We still did 15 years of my Navy career together as husband and wife; and I never broke that promise even though I traveled all over the world many times, without her by my side…but she was there (in Spirit). Sorry to be so verbose, but wanted you to know that you've got a big support group out here and you don't need to worry about the rest. (BTW, the "Quote" came out of the Epic Poem, "The Cremation of Sam Magee" - - "Scooter" in East Texas

I never really liked how dehydrated alcohol makes me but i love it's craft

This is a really important lesson. Thanks for sharing!

Such a great message from such a great man, no one is perfect but what is perfect is you realizing your faults and addressing them and doing something about it. Hope you have a great Tuesday Cody.

Wow, You have never struck me as a person that would drink at all. I do not drink for support of a loved one, but have never been drunk nor do I desire it. I have never known a person who has had a positive come from alcohol; but, I know many that have had great joy of being free of it's curse.

Hey Cody - thanks for being so upfront. As Believers we don't usually do the AA "Token/Coin" thing but if we did, I would send you your 60 day award. I grew up in a full blown drinking family and the damage 72 years into life is still visible in me. Drugs and alcohol have no hold on me so I take no credit but still, zero is the right amount. Jack, Sweetcakes, and Mr.s W are God's ample reward to any change that He wants you to make. By the way, the cameo appearence of the HeartRacer was a treat. That dog is a hoot!!!!! Bob Jarrard

Man you really picked me apart in this one 😳 Thanks for the message Cody👊

Cody, your rant on people not respecting others time was preached to me by my (late) friend. He and you were right. As you mentioned the Bible tells us 'let your yea be yea; and your nay, nay; lest ye fall into condemnation' (James 5:12). I never forgot that lesson.

Cody, we are very proud of you. I think it would bennift you greatly to stay off completely. Ray, Oklahoma

Cody, thanks for being a man’s man, and putting your humanity on display, raw and real. I absolutely love this channels and how you inject truth in your videos and the Holy Spirit leads you. I’m truly inspired and challenged.

Congratulations on 60 days. I’ll pray that you have the will power to keep going (as long as it’s right for you...).

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Willpower is not the way to stay sober . Relying on God is the way to stay sober

Cody, congraluations to you Keep it up. I have been dry now for 14 months. And I feel great, I no longer have the urge to drink. Beer and Jack Daniels were my crutches for years. I finally decided I could have even more fun without the drinking.Tnhanks for sharing. God bless

You are absolutely correct. I’ve wasted 30 years drinking excessively. I quit cold turkey a few years ago. It’s a long story but I’ve lost nearly 100 lbs and became financially secure however, about twice a year I I’ll have several Makers Mark and/several Ultras. Each time I’m reminded of how absolutely wonderful life is without alcohol. I’m constantly improving my character and recognizing that ALL of the road blocks and set backs in my life are due to my decisions. For me , alcoholism is not a disease, it’s a character flaw that I am defeating it. For whatever reason need a reminder as to why every so often... YMMV Anybody out there who needs further explanation or help in fighting whatever it is that’s KILLING you, contact me. Always available to talk. I’m a high school teacher in Texas. I often here other teachers say, he/she is just seeking attention when there is a behavior issue. I ALWAYS say, attention is free and pretty easy to give every-time.

2 years and counting here I feel this was one of your best videos Cody

Proud of your honesty and perseverance. Keep up the good work Cody

I love that the "not drinking" thing is working for you. And I love that you're doing it for you and your family and screw whatever anyone else says. Keep up the great work!

I smoked for 30 years. When I quit I wanted a smoke and thought about how much I missed having a smoke when I was stressed, or after a meal. It was then that I realized that the tobacco owned me. I had formed the addiction and had spent 30 years looking for the perfect smoke break that never really happened. It was then that I knew I was truly done smoking. Now I no longer think about it. I see a person smoking and it does not make me want a smoke, and I can sit with my friends who are smoking cigars and not feel the need to have one. So if you think that you need the drink to enjoy the moment then the drink still holds you.

Thank you for sharing your heart on this matter, for me personally, I can't see myself forgoing alcohol indefinitely. But your videos has helped enable me to stop drinking in the working week. It's been really hard which for me highlighted a issue that I have. So thanks, brother. God bless mike London UK

I haven't watched your videos in a while because I had my account banned and I just kind of lost track of a lot of the channels I enjoyed. You look really surprisingly good and young. It's truly amazing for only a 60 day change!

Thanks for a lot to think about. This helped me realize that my choices aren’t for me they are for those around me and I need to start thinking about them more.

My sobriety date is 12/6/1988. First 90 days is usually the hardest. After that, often-times, people say, "I've shown that I can do it, so now I can drink again". You could find out if it's OK for you, and it may be. If you find you shouldn't drink, then you have to try quitting again. On the other hand, if you already say that your health and outlook is better without alcohol, why would you want to find out? What are you missing? Even if you can drink again, do you need to?