Addiction: Giving up everything for one thing. Sobriety: Giving up one thing for everything.

@nathankoroush7918

3 жыл бұрын

I like that.

@donaldniklasson1020

3 жыл бұрын

True

@andrewconrad4940

3 жыл бұрын

This is the truth. I have been sober for almost 20 years. I have been blessed more than I deserve

@petercole2339

3 жыл бұрын

people have a tough time getting that..

@mblack360

3 жыл бұрын

@@nathankoroush7918 Thank you.

Cody, your transparency and vulnerability is a gift to a lot of men.

@gamepiggy960

3 жыл бұрын

I'm a younger man and never had a father or grandfather and I envy jack so much, I only imagine where .y life might have gone if I had a father like you'

@robato3991

3 жыл бұрын

@@gamepiggy960 same here. Jack is a lucky young man to have a father like Cody.

@christtheking5217

3 жыл бұрын

COVID has turned you into a mongol lol 1:04

@peteratos660

3 жыл бұрын

game piggy use it as a way to break the cycle. When you have a child be there for them no matter what. Teach them and praise and hold them responsible when they are old enough to be. Most importantly tell them that you love them. To many men are afraid to show emotion. The world is hard and men need to be strong in the world. Your family should always know the real you. Just some advice from a father of 2 boys working on being men.

@warrenotey8258

3 жыл бұрын

Even though I want to drink, I quit in 2011. God is a healer. He makes it easy to choose not to drink anymore!

I just passed 250 days sober after 30 years of drinking everyday.

@yeetyeet3015

3 жыл бұрын

Congrats

@mark929rr5

3 жыл бұрын

good job gregg!

@jenitalia7209

3 жыл бұрын

One day at a time. Good for you.

@drivinolered5835

3 жыл бұрын

Congratulations Gregg. May God continue to show you how a changed life is worth the battle. Praying for grace and strength for you brother.

@robertbrooks4413

3 жыл бұрын

Congrats! Now you remember why you drank in the first place!

I had already been an alcoholic for 8 years and 2020 was my worst year. I almost died early 2021 but im 7 weeks sober now!

@timdowns4629

3 жыл бұрын

Keep it up Krooky! You have people behind you, even we don't know you.

@jeffenglishsetter8339

3 жыл бұрын

One day at a time...Just for today and that adds up

@ng3069

3 жыл бұрын

Don't go back!

@drivinolered5835

3 жыл бұрын

Amen brother! One day, one week, one month, one quarter at a time. Each milestone is further confirmation you can do it. With God, ALL things are possible.

@theruralrenegade8911

3 жыл бұрын

Keep it up, and never quit

My hands have ingested more alcohol in the last 12 months than my liver!

@joetaylor7442

3 жыл бұрын

I don’t know which is worse for you..

@crmcbrideww

3 жыл бұрын

@@joetaylor7442 definitely booze. No one slathers themselves in hand sanitizer and gets into a car wreck.

@jackmanning7370

3 жыл бұрын

@@crmcbrideww depends if your too busy trying to sanitize your hands whilst driving...😂

@daveon677engelbrecht6

3 жыл бұрын

That is just one Brilliant comment! Thanks, i had a real good laugh out loud!

@WaltWW

3 жыл бұрын

It absorbs, wash your hands with soap and water. Don’t use hand sanitizer.

I been clean 12 years from heroin, and haven't even thought about using it till covid and the lock downs started but I just kept busy and every time I thought about using I would start a project to get my mind away from think about it. Glad to say I still have not relapsed.

@jeffenglishsetter8339

3 жыл бұрын

You just describe the phrase "Idle hands are the devil's workshop". Stay busy and productive, relapse doesn't have to be part of your recovery story. One day at a time

@jeffmb45

3 жыл бұрын

Stay strong

@thatoneguy270

3 жыл бұрын

Stay strong and keep busy. You’ve got this.

@rexdelta3367

3 жыл бұрын

a good hobby does help keep the demons away.

I have almost 5 years clean and sober. I was a heroin and meth addict. It's like they say...one day at a time. Everyday is a struggle but we'll worth it.

@floydyoung7329

3 жыл бұрын

Through the eyes of a medic I have seen how hard it is to get clean. You are a strong person. Great job and congratulations!

@colbyblankenhagen3717

3 жыл бұрын

4 years sober by the power of the Holy Spirit. The old has gone and the new has come. Not perfect but I'm forgiven, Christ broke the chains that bound me! Be blessed and a blessing!

@WYO-FAM

3 жыл бұрын

Many one day at a times add up pretty fast. Good job, we have walked in the same shoes.

You probably don’t realize how many people you have touched with this and how many relate to your situation. Thanks for your honesty.

Overcoming addiction is a mindset, not a timeframe.

@johndunbar2393

3 жыл бұрын

That is a fact! A person has to make a lifestyle change to overcome it IMO.

@metallitech

3 жыл бұрын

Does that translate to "I can quit whenever I want to" ? :)

@TexasRoast

3 жыл бұрын

@@metallitech No

@rpaasse6453

3 жыл бұрын

Youre absolutely right. Change the habbit by changing your mind.

@audigit

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly. It’s a desirable alternative

I turned into a drunk, and even lost my license for DUI. Thankfully I've managed to kick the habit and haven't had any for months.

I stopped drinking after viewing the previous video. It's been over a year now. I'm still alcohol free and feeling great. Good luck!

When my kids started drawing pictures of makers mark bottles after my divorce 15 years ago i knew it was a problem..i quit that day .i was drinking 5th every 2 days.

I quit drinking last summer around June. I was quite a heavy drinker, never ever went out, went to a social event, or even mowed the lawn without alcohol. One day I just woke up and said I don’t feel like drinking anymore and I just quit. Never looked back, never felt better. Also makers mark was my absolute favorite. To anyone out there reading this, if you want to quit drinking alcohol, as hard is it may seem, trust me it is possible. Every day gets better and easier. You will feel healthier and have a much more clear mind.

@BethGrantDeRoos

3 жыл бұрын

Machine Oak you are so right!

@tomashbaugh8891

3 жыл бұрын

Appreciate your story. Your a better man because of it! Take care

@luketdrifter2100

3 жыл бұрын

This is the kind of thing I need to see. Thank you.

@jons2447

3 жыл бұрын

@Predbeau101 Some of us are serious.

@richieb1684

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for this I needed this post.

By the grace of God I have been sober since 2014. I give it every day to Him and live a life of gratitude.

@andriusmeldaikis3120

3 жыл бұрын

14 months and going strong. Also I'm an atheist.

@colbyblankenhagen3717

3 жыл бұрын

4 years sober by the power of the Holy Spirit. The old has gone and the new has come. Not perfect but I'm forgiven! Be blessed and a blessing!

@WYO-FAM

3 жыл бұрын

One day at a time. It works.

@1stCorinthians2_14

3 жыл бұрын

@@andriusmeldaikis3120 Not for much longer you’re not

@andriusmeldaikis3120

3 жыл бұрын

@@1stCorinthians2_14 aren't you inspiring? :D Celebrate positivity, kindness, success of other fellow human beings. Spread love, not hate (hug).

I've given it up altogether, and decided to live without it. Just passed 6 years, and life is good.

I watched my Dad self medicate with beer and ultimately to an early death in 2011. His blood filtering organs shut down and when an infection hit, there was nothing that could be done. I’ll always cheer on those struggling with this addiction. Prayers for all those seeking/making this change.

It is so strange how God knows when to put guidance in our lives. I just woke up, trying to recover from last nights drinking, and I look at my phone and have this video as my only notification. I am literally crying right now, knowing I needed help and it has been provided.

@simonthebroken9691

3 жыл бұрын

God sent the message. Will you answer?

@valeriemckay7064

3 жыл бұрын

Amazing how God shows up in ways that help us know unmistakably that it is him and he is still there for us. He meets us where we are, even shamelessly hiking up his robe and running toward us as in the parable of the prodigal son. Don''t forget how much he loves you and let Him be your strength.

@drivinolered5835

3 жыл бұрын

You’re never alone, even when nobody else is around. I’ve seen so much in the last year, with all things working out in such a way as to bring me back full circle to where I need to be, I have no other explanation besides God’s guidance. I know our Lord can be that for you as well. Praying for His restoration for you and your family.

My Dad told me as a young man, "John you know that they make alcohol to sell not to drink".

@LoLbeautifulsorrowx

3 жыл бұрын

I like that.

@FarmerSarducci

3 жыл бұрын

That was the old-school way of saying don’t get high on your own supply.

19 years sober. With God’s grace and mercy. 12 stepper.

@duffweld

3 жыл бұрын

AA Steps 3,7,11.

@chrishenderson9826

3 жыл бұрын

God could and would if he were sought 🙏

Such an honest dude. Most people don't have the fortitude to be open about their own human weaknesses. Bravo Cody.

You’ve taught me more than school has.

@nickreeves6039

3 жыл бұрын

I’m with you on that one

@sskkuuddrraa

3 жыл бұрын

Wrong school, mate.

I became forced into retirement from a motorcycle accident, and out of boredom I started to drink to much. No more church and no more Accountability. Pray for me please my name is Sean. God help me. It affects my beautiful wife and I. Thank you for this video. God bless you and your family.

@Rakmarok

3 жыл бұрын

You can do it, Sean. The lord will give you strength. Do it for yourself and your wife, quit the booze. God bless you and your family.

@isaacedmonds5242

3 жыл бұрын

I pray 4 u Sean that the lord wipe the craving from u . thank u 4 this lord. An Sean have a blessed day....

3 жыл бұрын

Same struggle. Let's pray for each other.

@PhiLeo7973

3 жыл бұрын

God Bless you and your family brother Sean. In the name of Jesus your life is about to change for the better.

@mrtank1967

3 жыл бұрын

@@Rakmarok Thank you for your thoughts and prayers God has got me on this earth for a reason. He will help me find it. God bless.

Cody keep the faith brother, I’ve been a friend of Bill W. For almost 7 years without a drink. My relationship with with my God is crucial and the help of his children keep me accountable. My life is better in almost every way. Proud of you for sharing your struggles it shows strength as a man of god. I would love to help and will keep you and your family in my prayers

I stopped drinking for about 7 months, but then I had a reunion with college roommates. Now I’m at 14 months again without alcohol. I don’t miss it. Although I won’t go as far to say I’ll never drink again.

"One is always too many and two is never enough"

Let's pray for each other to be led by the Holy Spirit.

It wasn’t COVID that made me a drunk it was 17 years on the busiest engine in the southeast. COVID made me sober. When you spend that much time with your kids you realize life is more important

If this helps anyone with this struggle...Just ask yourself this question constantly ...Is what I'm doing now making me accessible to my family? If your wife/child/mother/father had a health emergency and you were too drunk to act...How would you carry on.

@joshuasedore

3 жыл бұрын

That's a great point

I actually turned sober due to Covid!

@totes_muhgoats

3 жыл бұрын

Dude, me too. I don't know what flipped in my brain. Just didnt want to anymore.

@monk12314

3 жыл бұрын

@@totes_muhgoats exactly! I never had a problem per say, but I figured “well I’m not doing as much physical work anymore so might as well cut out the unhealthy stuff”

@IRVisionPrints

3 жыл бұрын

Me too, didn’t have a single drink in 2020, only broke the 12 month stint as was celebrating new year

@johndunbar2393

3 жыл бұрын

Great job all of you! Keep going! Whether it was a "problem", or not, it's never a bad thing to cut out of our lives.

@TheBritishPatriot

3 жыл бұрын

Kinda same actually, it wasn't drinking (I don't drink) but I do struggle with other addictions that I've been actively trying to get rid of for the first time ever - due to the lockdowns. Everyone's different, some people turned to their addictions because of covid, some developed new addictions and some recognized their addictions and worked (or still are working as in my case) to get rid of them. Congrats on your victory!

Haven't touched a drink in years, not bad for an Irishman.

@diarcon

3 жыл бұрын

@@Sash2016 or was the drink just 'resting in their stomach'?

@googies12a

3 жыл бұрын

Go on, go on. Didn't drink much anyway, but I've drank much less since March 2020.

@terrysadlier8456

3 жыл бұрын

I'm a drunk 😖☘

@jons2447

3 жыл бұрын

@@terrysadlier8456 The True God wants to help you-you need only to ask.

@terrysadlier8456

3 жыл бұрын

@@jons2447 I hope so buddy for my children's sake 🙏

Cody, this is extremely admirable and encouraging for every person watching this video and struggling with ANY addiction. Just seeing someone else going hard after life change is inspiring and the kick I need myself. To the point on pornography, the Conquer Series has helped me and many of my friends start to break free of the grip it can have in our lives. Accountability is absolutely key. Thanks for posting this and God bless!

One of the most genuine videos I've ever seen in KZread, not sure if I can do it right now, but makes me think of all the reasons I should. Picked up so many useful things from your videos, thank you for these, they do reach people

I'm glad I quit 7 years ago, wish I would've never started. I wasted a lot of my life, wasted. I was never able to have just one drink.

@cletus7419

3 жыл бұрын

This was the same for me. One was always 10 or 11

Im 27 and I did sober october and had a blast with being sober for the first time in about 10years I descided to start off 2021 dry. 2months in and its been pretty fun seeing the world through clear glass

So much truth in this message, brother. Awesome of you to share it and I pray it hits the heart of all who need it and that you have deliverance from draw to alcohol or any form of addiction.

You have no idea how much this hits home. Could be the best video you have ever made. Thank you and God bless you.

It almost had an opposite effect on me. Being a mostly social drinker, I'm definitely not socializing or partying as much as before, and consequently less alcohol. Thanks for sharing.

“One thing that I love about God is that he never takes anything away from you that he doesn’t replace it with something better.” - I really needed to hear these words today. Thank you.

@almadeckard8360

3 жыл бұрын

NT 1 Cor. 10: 13 There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation {also make a way to escape}, that ye may be able to bear it.

@jeffenglishsetter8339

3 жыл бұрын

@@almadeckard8360 you neglect as many do to tell the whole story and this is only a piece grater than yours of the whole story "6Now these things were done in a figure of us, that we should not covet evil things as they also coveted. 7Neither become ye idolaters, as some of them, as it is written: The people sat down to eat and drink, and rose up to play. 8Neither let us commit fornication, as some of them committed fornication, and there fell in one day three and twenty thousand. 9Neither let us tempt Christ: as some of them tempted, and perished by the serpents. 10Neither do you murmur: as some of them murmured, and were destroyed by the destroyer. 11Now all these things happened to them in figure: and they are written for our correction, upon whom the ends of the world are come. 12Wherefore he that thinketh himself to stand, let him take heed lest he fall. 13Let no temptation take hold on you, but such as is human. And God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that which you are able: but will make also with temptation issue, that you may be able to bear it. 14Wherefore, my dearly beloved, fly from the service of idols."

Love that I found this video by you. Never comment but follow a lot of your wisdom and this truly hits the heart personally. Thank you friend. Stay strong and safe.

Awesome video, while I can't take part with you right now, you're message really hit home and could lead to me stopping soon. You lay everything out to where I can relate to so well and I love how you throw God in there. For me alcohol has been such a great friend for getting through covid and basically all the craziness that has come along with it. I really hope the best for you in making this change and hope I'll be shortly behind you. Stay strong brother.

Been 2 years come March 16 and will never touch the stuff again.

@jeffenglishsetter8339

3 жыл бұрын

Stick to not drinking today. Do that every day and your statement may be accurate.

@JasenWoodworth

3 жыл бұрын

Im also 2 years March 23 I'll never drink again. No question

@jeffenglishsetter8339

3 жыл бұрын

@@JasenWoodworth Hey cool, March 18 here..2006..just one day at a time, not never

Hi cody. Im a paramedic suffering from bipolar disorder as well as alcoholism. This past year has been very tough for me. Thanks for the content cody.

@PhiLeo7973

3 жыл бұрын

Hi Joshua. Prayers to you brother.

@coalknob

10 ай бұрын

hope you're doing ok now

I spent the first half of my life drinking. I’m going to spend the second half of my life sober and in great shape. I’ve been sober for two weeks now and I’ve quit before, but I’m so over drinking now. It’s not even close to being on my radar!!! Stay strong out there fella’s, you got this!!! 👀👍💯💪🇺🇸

@martinl2930

6 ай бұрын

Give me an update? Have you had a drink?

Thank you for your ministry Cody. I have been struggling for a long time. Thank you.

This is crazy. This is a question I am asking myself all the time. Since Covid hit (here in Germany), I've been drinking more, for sure. Not to an alarming rate but to a degree I am not really comfortable with anymore to be honest. I keep myself entertained by making KZread videos, my university degree and my job but yet - somehow I drink more than usual (even though all this stuff already takes up almost 90% of my time). I believe it was Tacitus who said that the biggest strength and weakness of the early Germanics was their ability to drink a lot. On one hand they could drink all night long but once they were drawn to the alcohol the romans provided them, they were easily pursaded and turned into roman puppets. It's hard to see ones potential go to waste because of something like that. I don't what this video means for me but it's eerie to watch it because I recognize myself in a lot of what You're saying Cody. You're such an inspiration on how you're taking care of your family and how you are approaching life in general. May your video have a positive impact on all of Us. Kind Regards Wicki

It’s been 3 years this June for me since I’ve touched the drink. I’ll be standing in your corner with you on this journey. Good luck brother and prayers be with you

Thanks for sharing Cody. 12 years sober at age 31 by the grace of God.

Thank you for your honesty. I feel like this is just further evidence that it’s best just to never let alcohol in your life. I’ve been very blessed and fortunate to have parents that did not drink so alcohol was never ever a temptation I’m glad it wasn’t because I don’t know, I may have given in who knows. I’m definitely not stronger than any other man. But for the sake of my children I’ve decided never to allow alcohol in my house. seems like that’s the best choice. Some people can handle it, some people can’t, might as well not take the chance. Prayers to all of you who are trying to overcome the addiction. I can’t imagine how hard it would be.

What an example you are. Thank you for being such a great role model, to so many. I don’t think I have ever commented on a youtube video, but I can not contain myself. The Bible tells us to admit our faults to one another, how sad that many Christians forget that we all have faults. We are all living this life, and face the same trials, hearing someone else vocalizing it, helps to reassure us. Thank you for wonderful, clean content.

Great message man. Im 2 miles deep on a Mtn bike trail right now watching this on a quick break... I needed to hear this today. God Bless you. Continue.. Just got back and finished watching the whole video. Man, im in the exact same boat. 3 cases of miller lite a week now..and all the stuff your talking about is whats happening to me and what im feeling. With a wife, 3 kids and a small business , its putting some unnecessary stress on my life... I gotta really do something...you got me thinking my friend. Hope to watch the livestream tonight.

@jasondrennen1197

3 жыл бұрын

Shred it bro!

@ChrisBrown-cg2by

3 жыл бұрын

@@jasondrennen1197 come to Black Mtn NC and try Kitsuma trail. I was on it today.. Its a good ride.

@steveedwards7231

3 жыл бұрын

Kudos for owning up. I think you'll see a lot of people are in the same boat (aluminium?) here in the comments. If I could offer a little bit of advice it would be to go see a professional to help plan your way through. You'll probably have a few slip ups and regressions so having a plan to deal with those can be the difference between long and short term success. What better hobby than mountain biking to share with your family as a substitute. Good luck

@Iwannagofast79

3 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing this! How has your journey gone?

Hey Cody, I'm 23 from upstate NY (aka east Coast Man). I found this video to be very helpful, I've been watching your channel for the past few months and never would have thought you to be struggling with alcohol like I am. I work as a groundskeeper on a beautiful piece of property, and since, I've gotten into the habit of having 2 or 3 drinks every night after a long day of work, especially now as the days get colder there's nothing better than a couple craft beers in front of the fire. In the back of my mind, I am always thinking about the ways this habit could be affecting me and my goals. It's really wonderful to hear you be so open and talk about your own struggles. Your channel has had a great impact on my life. thanks for being the male role model I've been needing.

Cody, you are very courageous to tell us about your experience with alcohol. It's an Achilles heel to so many people including myself at times. Keep up the good work.

Addiction expert Gabor mate said "The question is not why the addiction, but why the pain"

@P_steez

3 жыл бұрын

Very true

8 years ago i said good buy to two of my best friends Hops and Grain , I used to live pay check to pay check .Now i have a bank account . I think the best thing is waking up every day without a HANGOVER!

Cody, always appreciate your humility, vulnerability and call to action. My last drink was 5 years ago, very similar journey as you shared. One of the best things I ever did and God delivered me from it. I am better for it, my wife and kids have benefitted tremendously from it and I am proud of the man I see on the mirror. Stay the Course and Finish Strong. I am here to support you brother. Much Love, Sabo

Thank you for the honesty, staying honest if/when you drink again will be the hard part.

My co-worker recently said, " I'm not an alcoholic. I'm a drunk. Alcoholics have to go to those silly meetings." Well, I'm an alcoholic that finds picking up a 6-pack after work everyday just too easy and I've never been to a meeting. Cody, if you stay alcohol free then so will I. You keep me honest and I'll return the obligation. Much love from Ohio.

Find out what your triggers are, Plan on how you'll handle them before those triggers happen, work your plan, adjust your plan as needed to keep your triggers in check.

It’s tough to get honest and hold yourself accountable. By putting yourself out there and admitting maybe you have a weakness or vulnerability you’re taking a huge step in the right direction. This is something that I have struggled with for years and hearing folks that I respect admit that they are having similar experiences always helps me out things in perspective.

Humility is a true sign of a good man. Your posts on alcohol awhile back were so helpful for me to a step back and evaluate my own relationship with alcohol. Thank you for your leadership and taking the first step.

this is what relapse looks like. you need to get help, go to meetings and get a sponsor

Active duty military here stationed overseas .. going through the same thing .. thank you for the transparency

@valeriemckay7064

3 жыл бұрын

Thank-you ... Take all of it to Him. Will pray for you.

I really appreciate this. Alcohol hasn't been my struggle but it's effected my family in terrible ways. When I was little my cousin came to live with us after both of her parents were killed by a drunk driver. Seeing the pain that caused had a big impression on me and really helped me avoid it my entire life. I'm like you in that if I get into something I really get into it so I knew drinking would be a bad path for me to take. I'm a kentuckian so I find a strange pride in that being your favorite but I wish we were famous for something else.

This has really struck a nerve. Thank you so much for being so open and transparent about this. Every word resonated with me. We are both walking in such similar shoes.

Cody, the thing I appreciate the most about this subject within your faith is that you don’t think alcohol is inherently sinful. I’ve never had a problem with alcohol, but I get berated by a lot of brothers and sisters in Christ for drinking a beer.

@mikealfieri641

3 жыл бұрын

Monks invented lots of alcoholic beverages. And that whole judge not thing should apply.

@brw3079

3 жыл бұрын

Jesus certainly didn't turn water into grape juice at that wedding.

@morrisonjohnw

3 жыл бұрын

This, I’m sure, is one cause for alcoholism in the church. The topic itself is so taboo that anyone struggling with it fears the thought of reaching out for help and cannot find a support system in their church. God only gave us ten laws to follow - if He thought alcohol had no place in man’s life we would have 11 commandments.

@thirzapeevey2395

3 жыл бұрын

If alcohol is a sin, then Jesus is a sinner who cannot take our punishment because he has his own to pay. Anytime your understanding of the Bible makes Jesus a sinner, you have the wrong understanding. That said, the Bible certainly does make drunkenness a sin, over and over and over. As long as you aren't getting drunk, it isn't a sin.

My dad always said, “First the man takes the bottle then the bottle takes the man.”

Cody. Keep the struggle up. I’ve been sober for 26 years and I don’t miss it

You’re a great role model and friend. Thanks for everything Cody. Been following since the start.

Congratulations, Cody. I grew up with an alcoholic dad. He was a great guy, and not a violent or abusive drunk. He just got dull-minded every night, then fell asleep. You wouldn't think that would affect a guy, but it really does. Also, I really want to see fishing videos.

If you wanna quit drinking, put every empty bottle or can into a room that you don’t go into or rarely visit. Throw in the receipts as well and after a month look at all the empties and how much you spent... it won’t be long before you quit!

@jongustavsson5874

3 жыл бұрын

@@remodz6385 Depends on where you live I would take it. Cheapest vodka you can legally buy in Sweden is 25 dollars for a 70cl bottle. A heavy habit will make quite a dent in an average salary. (not to mention if you're drinking at a bar/restaurant, hard pressed to find a drink under 15 bucks, a beer is rarely under 8. )

@jeffenglishsetter8339

3 жыл бұрын

Negative ghost rider

Praying for you on your journey. Thanks for opening up and sharing your life.

I like your complete honesty and not sugar coating things.

I guess I don’t have an issue with alcohol. I can just have on drink every once in awhile. Now food, especially during the lockdowns, is what I have turned to.

@jeffreyyeater1780

3 жыл бұрын

I used to weigh 220. 240 now .

@JPBennett

3 жыл бұрын

Food's harder in some ways. You can't just quit eating to solve that problem.

@suspicionofdeceit

3 жыл бұрын

Jonathan Bennett No, but you can make better choices and eat less.

@hobypatrick

3 жыл бұрын

@@jeffreyyeater1780 a year before the lockdowns I did no sodas, less sugar a d a keto friendly diet. I was losing 2 pounds a week. Lost 30 lbs down to 199. Lockdowns hit and I have gained it all back.

You are a example for jack...That should be the reason for RIGHT NOW.

Thanks for sharing. It takes courage to do what you are doing. But, I've struggled with the same thing. You give me strength, and i appreciate your videos.

God bless you Brother! I have struggles too and your honesty and transparency helps me

It's funny how many friends you lose when you quit drinking, and how little of a loss those types of friends are.

@davislake5176

3 жыл бұрын

Amen!

@TheBelrick

3 жыл бұрын

I took up homebrewing out of boredom. I wanted to make beer as good as any craft beer. So i drank and drank. Never to get drunk. But because lots of beer was on tap. And i kept brewing more beer, striving for that goal. You know what? I reached that goal. My beer out of my cheap setup is as good as any you can buy. Now i have stopped brewing and drinking. because alcoholism is a function of escapism just like playing video games or spending all day on snapchat/youtube. People running away from the real world. Im done running.

@MeldinX2

3 жыл бұрын

While i do still drink on occasion(just because of the taste, and small amounts). It's still kind of sad how many friends can't spend time togheter unless they are drunk.

@johndunbar2393

3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely! I never had alot of friends to begin with, but that number dwindled pretty quick when I quit drinking.

@MeldinX2

3 жыл бұрын

@@johndunbar2393 Also some friends i had did not drink but still went to the party sober. And it's always annoying how many people are trying to pressure them into drinking.

Cody, if you have not I encourage you to watch the “Chosen” series. Really powerful.

I love your honesty and humility. I do not have a real struggle with alcohol but I have given it up about 90% because it makes me feel horrible after a beer or two. Best thing, my Saturday and Sunday mornings are mine again....Thank you for your message and openess.

Glad I watched this . Someone told me if you have to talk about it , chances are you have a problem. 2 years sober next week. You can do it! You said some really good stuff so you know what to do. Be kind all yinz and try your best to be kind to yourself , you deserve it !🤟🏼

That’s why in the Simpsons movie, at the end of the world, all the church people run into the bar. And all the bar people run into the church. Hilarious and true.

If you drink very moderately, to enjoy the brewer's/vinter's/distiller's art, instead of to get a buzz then you'll still stay basically sober.

@petertaysum8947

3 жыл бұрын

If - one of the biggest words in the English language.

@jasone9

3 жыл бұрын

That's a statement made by a non addict or an addict in denial.

@instinctivearcher6146

3 жыл бұрын

@@jasone9 Well if it tastes really good you might get a little buzz but you'll always be ahead of the game if you never pour a drink with that intention.

@berts5535

3 жыл бұрын

We all make that excuse to ourselves. But it’s just an excuse. Quit all the way.

@instinctivearcher6146

3 жыл бұрын

@@berts5535 No it's a very civilized custom all over Southern Europe. They sip a "digestive" after dinner, they don't start doing shots. You heathens/protestants seem to have a hard time controlling it so yeah maybe you should just give up and quit.

Not alone at all my friend! Hang in there and keep your head up. This really hit me. May god bless you.

I admire you honesty , your a brave man to talk about this. I love your channel by the way.

I’m no longer much of a drinker. Been 12 years since I basically just stopped. Now, I’ll have a beer or two, but that’s about it & those are few & far between. I started making homemade wine in December & I enjoy the process more than drinking it, but it’s good & a glass every once in a while is ok in my book. I have gave away much more than I have consumed.

I don’t know if I can join you on this journey but I’ll sure show up to support ya.!

Man, I really appreciate your honesty. I came across your channel when you did the woodworking bench. I'm happy with your channel.

I’ve been clean/sober for 29 years. I work as a substance abuse counselor. Would you like to know how I’ve stayed sober for so long? I didn’t drink. Once you stop doing that the rest is relegated to how do you want to feel and what would you like your life to look like? The insidious piece to addiction is that it works. As in, it changes the way you feel. Once you stop drinking you have to put effort into your spiritual, emotional, mental and physical well being. It’s a multi-pronged approach. You matter. Those around you matter. Sobriety holds value and you are that value. Keep working, Cody. Anything with having is with the effort you expend.

Knew you were hitting the sauce a tad hard when you gave yourself that haircut lol. Jokes aside good luck on your journey!

@yourdaddy3756

3 жыл бұрын

That's funny.

@01AceAlpha

3 жыл бұрын

Haircut? You mean wig selection.

I respect your decision and wish you the best; but, as for me, I’ll keep my drink.... for life is hard enough.

@derekcollins1972

3 жыл бұрын

Me too.I enjoy life, alcohol is included with that only untill it hurts others.

This really helped me, I'm a year sober and have been having a hard time with it recently but this gave me hope! Someone knew i needed to see this. Thank you.

Glad you talked about this . Always helping . Bless you all

You literally hit the nail on the head I've been going through the same thing basically since covid started

@mnlvill

3 жыл бұрын

Same here

@kaseyh1460

3 жыл бұрын

Evan. As I was reading the comments before yours, some were nice, some joking but none seemed to take Cody seriously until yours. Owning up to the issue is a must. I wish you well and hope you follow others like Cody trying to be the best man they can be. You CAN do this. You are not alone.

@etzlermilling1621

3 жыл бұрын

@@kaseyh1460 Thanks for your words Kasey much appreciated we are all in this together!

I too had a problem....but i've been sober for 42 years...i quit for my wife and kids....wife still left about 10 years later....but i've managed to stay strong....an old saying i heard one time....1 drink is too many , an a 1000 not enough....good luck to you....it's a hard road to travel for a year or two , but it gets easier..

Really appreciate your honesty, takes bravery to actually admit you have a problem. Good on you for recognising that

Your honesty is refreshing. Thank you for posting this, I didn’t know how much I needed to watch it. I love the accountability idea

I've been sober 12 months thanks to covid.

@johndunbar2393

3 жыл бұрын

Good job Mr. Critic! Here's to another 12 months!

@mr.critic

3 жыл бұрын

@@johndunbar2393 💪💪

@paullebel3967

3 жыл бұрын

24 months for me and feel fantastic, keep it up

@johndunbar2393

3 жыл бұрын

@@paullebel3967 Doing good Mr. Paul! I'm proud of both of you!

God bless you, brother. His Grace is sufficient of ALL your needs. Nothing gets the ear of our Father more than hearing his child cry out “Help me!” Continue to humble yourself before the Lord and He will lift you up.

I actually found your channel in October because of the video “goodby to an old friend”. I had just stopped drinking to take a break and reset with some healthier habits. 4 months later I’m still dry and in great shape, and that video is saved on a playlist which I watch every so often to keep me motivated. I actually watched it a few times and took a few months before I even checked out the channel to see what it was about...turns out I really like it and have many similar interests and ideals as you. I was hoping for an update, glad to hear you’re going at it again. I’ve already spent more than my savings on tools! Lol

Thanks so bery much for your honesty and openness!! Means TONS to me. I've been drinking daily for last 5 yrs. My life has gotten WORSE! Goal of looking forward to something special I would like is FANTASTIC! Will try starting today! THANKS SO MUCH. Struggling together also helps greatly!