TBH, as a European, I think “quiet quitting” is a bit of a weird term for “setting boundaries”. I think not taking calls at midnight or responding to emails on Saturday is only healthy. I am available to my employer between 8-6, everything outside of that is up to my discretion.

@buddyryan875

2 жыл бұрын

depends on your line of work and country culture... if you are in the US making a big salary the expectations are very different

@FuegoJaguar

Жыл бұрын

As an American I think exactly the same.

@emilyinnetherlands5295

Жыл бұрын

As an Asian, worked for American listed company in Singapore, and married a Dutch (European) husband and now living in Netherlands (in Europe), I can related to all sides of this discussion. You know, my Asian friends now working in Silicon valley Tech company used to say "the Europeans are so lazy comparing to Asians and Americans because it was just so slow there. In summer, everybody is gone on holidays. " But the reality as I see it is that "actually the dutch people around me all work very hard, no lazy ass". The only difference is Americans and Asians work all their waking hours, but the Europeans "draw boundaries". And so I draw my own conclusion that on this spectrum of "hard working", the Asians and Americans are probably on the end of too hard working to the extend that human got burnt out and not sustainable. And the Europeans (depending on which country you are talking about) maybe to a small extent, can work a lit bit more.

@buddyryan875

Жыл бұрын

@@emilyinnetherlands5295 your comment was an excellent comment. I've worked at a global US based company for 15 years I've worked with every region for years at a time. I'm currently working with Europeans. I believe with this channel host is talking about is the "fight or flight" mode that your body can not turn off. You become so unaware of your state you are in "fight or flight" 24 x 7. Then your management and co-workers expect you to continue delivering the same way you have. I can related and have battled a similar thing myself recently. Thru prayer and belief in Jesus He has set me free of this

@foxycon9059

Жыл бұрын

@@emilyinnetherlands5295 we need more efficiency in our work, not longer working ours... I am working with Japanese, and let me tell you of how inefficient they really are, lots of unnecessary tasks created just to make the employees stay longer at office.

All the things described here as "quiet quitting" have been my work ethic from the start of my career. I graduated into a pandemic and that definitely came with a sense of disillusionment and mental resignation going into the workforce. But I wonder how many more of us there are that will approach our jobs with a "work to live" rather than "live to work" mindset from the beginning rather than feel miserable and absolutely burnt out years into it.

@kingstarscream3807

Жыл бұрын

People exist with a "live to work" mentality?

"Quiet Quitting" is what Europeans just call working. Source: American currently living and working in Europe. I lol'd when i heard that term. I was this overachiever back in the SF Bay Area selling my soul for pennies. Now I've found a work culture that values personal time above all else.

@Katherout

2 жыл бұрын

neeeeed that

@GretaZ-dd3lu

2 жыл бұрын

Seriously, that needs to be our default culture. We need to agree en masse to stoppit with all the "going above and beyond" for corporations that are looking to automate our jobs anyway.

@martinaasterkyjakova7553

2 жыл бұрын

​@@Katherout Hi from Europe, just came here to say what Jenn just said :D Quiet quitting just sounds like regular work

@AmandaPandah

2 жыл бұрын

I mean I think that depends what country in Europe you're in...

@LaLaLaurino14

2 жыл бұрын

THIS!!! I’ve been learning Norwegian and learning more about Norwegian culture and one of the things that has stuck out to me in Norway is that it’s vital for Norwegians to have a work/life balance. It’s common for people to get off at 4pm so they have the rest of the day to spend with family and friends. I also learned you aren’t seen as a hard worker if you stay past your clock out time, you are seen as someone who doesn’t prioritize themselves or their family time. BLEW MY MIND. and Norway is merely just one example, soooo many European countries value humanity over your ability to produce a product and I haven’t been able to look at America the same ever since. We really said we have freedom and ran with it, without ever second guessing what true freedom looks like, we just took what we could get and called it a day.

"Quiet quitting" just sounds like having a healthy relationship with work. I don't understand why everyone doesn't work this way.

@misguidedghost1111

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly! I feel like the term quiet quitting is so unhelpful because what she is explaining is not 'quitting' at all. Its literally working your job without been taking advantage of by your company.

@bremarie3442

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly!!!! Moral of the story is when you see that your work place is toxic "like when they added traveling to her job description and didn't modify her work load" you have to run. I wouldn't call what she explained "quiet quitting" because it implies that doing your job isn't enough. In some companies that may be the case, but that should be the exception not the rule. Tip: When you get a new role stay on the market for at least 2-3 months in case you didn't pick-up on the toxicity during the interview. If you been in a toxic work envir. (like most of us) and you already know its not something you want to deal with (lets be real some people will deal with it- for yrs); because you rather be happy & not feel burnt out everyday then the only option is to leave. It sucks and you will feel like you are doing something wrong. Talk to people you can trust, who can give you that confidence to transition to another job.

@ampersignia

2 жыл бұрын

If you’re a knowledge worker and your analysis, code, note writing, back-and-forth comms, etc stuff in advance of a significant change affect other people weeks or months later, it can be very hard to just do the minimum. Because people will call out “what about this?” later and it’ll be on you if that thing went wrong. To be low-effort consistently for like a year makes you the bad guy for a ton of project holes. It’s exhausting feeling like the bad guy just because you didn’t plug every faulty hole in a system or a project in advance that costs everyone even more time or actual millions of dollars. It’s not as big of a deal to do the bare minimum as restaurant waiter where the customer’s interaction lasts a maximum of 2 hours and contributes like $60 of revenue. It’s hard when doing the bare minimum translates to literally millions of dollars. On top of that, it’s awkward as hell going through weekly team project updates if you try to just be average. Average can look “bad” in my workplace because everyone else is so productive and our team is supposed to be the experts. It makes me wonder if I’m just shitty or if there is a culture of overwork. I can’t always tell. So I’d choose to try to keep up and work more because I don’t want to be fired for underperforming.

@bremarie3442

2 жыл бұрын

@@ampersignia I understand what your saying. All industries aren't the same. We are more referring to work balance & boundaries. Both ends of the spectrum exist, but if your job description requires you to be a high performer then your likely being paid for that type of skill & you know what it is. Either way I feel that work culture is usually either proactive, reactive or somewhat in between. When it's reactive your constantly putting out fires, things can be extremely disorganized, ppl are stretched too thin & then on top of that you still have your job to do which is usually hard to get through with since all departments are very busy. So there's a difference in working in a reactive work culture for a specific job & taking that same job to a different company & being in a proactive work environment. More people today prefer work life balance. Understanding that if there is a deliverable that needs to be met you will stay later, but the work culture doesnt make you feel that you need to answer emails 9pm because the company is proactive so it can wait until morning

We are in Seattle too. My husband did the same thing after being at Amazon for seven years. He was HUGELY burned out, quit and spent about 6 months focusing on his mental and physical health (he had over a year’s worth of rainy-day funds to cover all our bills and mortgage). When he finally decided he wanted to go back to work, it only took him two weeks, and now he’s working at a place that’s two promotions above where he was at Amazon and pays better to boot. Do what feels best to you and don’t worry about the naysayers that are not in your position. YOU know what will work!

@Katherout

2 жыл бұрын

bless you 😩🥺

I had no idea I have been quietly quitting since the start of my career 😅😂. One a serious note, it’s pretty amazing seeing you grow into the person you want to be. I have been watching you for a while and I have seen you change in the best way possible it’s truly inspiring. Thank you! I wish you the best in whatever you decide to do in the future. 💕

@lauraelise5095

2 жыл бұрын

Me too. I’m like oops. I always run errands during the day and take longer breaks but so does my whole time. Life > work 😃

@jessmess7981

2 жыл бұрын

Me too lmao i love running errands after lunch bc it helps w the food coma plus it breaks your day better

@andreaurueta8669

2 жыл бұрын

Trqqqq

I quit my job without a new one a few years ago and I can not express how incredibly beneficial it was for me. I was in a similar situation to yours and I needed time away from everything. Looking back there are a few huge things in my life that I absolutely love that never would have happened had I not taken the time. The one piece of advice I would give is to not be hard on yourself if you think you’re not doing enough with your time. Do exactly what you want to do in the moment and don’t stress. Be free and have fun :)

I’m glad you’re sharing your journey. I went through the same things and quit my job in October of last year. I was unemployed for 3 months and did the inner work in order to be able to go back to working a basic ass job. New mantra is to work to pay my bills and that’s it. I now have 4 days off every week, make enough to pay my bills, and take much better care of myself than I was a year ago. Thank you for sharing. I love your videos. Thank you for the support.

It’s incredible how you articulate such an underreported experience. Never heard of “quiet quit” before but I related to all of it. Proud of you for taking the steps you need to realign your life & we’re so excited for what’s to come!

@Katherout

2 жыл бұрын

thank you!!!!!!! :’)))

literally experienced all of this when I quit my job early 2020, woah. The resentment I got from coworkers when I said was taking my own sabbatical - snarky comments like "you're too young for that" - that was eye opening too

This video has really resonated with me. This week I handed in my notice and instead of feeling excited for the future and my new job, I just felt relief. I worked for one of the ‘big four’ (if you know you know) on a graduate training contract. I have spent the last two months crying everyday at work, being made to feel small and bullied by seniors and managers, concerns around my development which I raised over six months ago coming back to bite me (telling me it’s my fault), always being told to ‘take responsibility for my work’ without getting a solid answer as to what that meant, not being paid for overtime but spending 2 hours a day finishing work after hours only to be told I wasn’t doing enough. On top of that, I am having to sit exams when not in busy season meaning I had so little free time to develop and enjoy all my passions outside work, also not being able to take holiday when I wanted as I’d already been assigned to engagements. I have become a shell of the person I was before working there. I have chronic anxiety and stress as well as extremely low self esteem, I now take medication and go to counselling. When I handed in my notice, I thought people would care, turns out it has made absolutely no difference whatsoever. I’d built it up in my head as this big thing and no one cared. Moral of the story, don’t spend 22 months in a job you hate, telling yourself if I just work harder, just stick it out, push through, if I change myself maybe I’ll be accepted. Life is too short.

@Katherout

2 жыл бұрын

the relief is CRAZY

Your so brave Katherine. Hats off to you for taking agency and putting the next best step into your life. This was not an easy choice but you really did it!! Well done. I am in the same boat at the moment and chronically ill but also have 2 kids and wanting a home for them.. To make this move now was the best thing for you. I believe my time will come as Im quietly hoping for the universe to listen. Xxx

I ironically subscribed to you years ago as an overachiever wanting to learn to become even better, and after graduation and the pandemic, cannot help but think the feelings you have are universal. There’s an “a-ha!” moment not every overachiever gets to have, when you wake up and realize your values have changed, and you want to liberate yourself in your present state, with all life has to offer, with the ability to place conscious effort into dreams or pursuits you may have unknowingly put on the back burner for some time now. Thank you for articulating your feelings and thought process to get to this point. People need to know.

Hell yeah Kath 👏 I'm 3 months in to a self-funded break from work and it's brought so much clarity. Wishing the same for you!

@Katherout

2 жыл бұрын

YEEHAW my fellow unemployed person

I've been unemployed (not by choice) for a second and I don't think I will look back on this time fondly in most ways but it did give me so much clarity that I will always be grateful for that. You are such an inspiration to me and the way I want to conduct myself professionally and personally.

I’ve been watching you for yearsss and I’m so glad you’re staying true to yourself on this

@Katherout

2 жыл бұрын

❤❤❤ thank you kelsey

I’ve been waiting for this video‼️‼️‼️so proud that you took the bold move to quit and do what you want to do.

@Katherout

2 жыл бұрын

THANK YOU 😭😭😭

So happy for you!! There's truly no better feeling than that of taking time off after quitting a job that drained the life out of you. I didn't realize how "not myself" I had felt for so long until I finally disconnected from a toxic work environment. Wishing you lots of fresh air and PNW hikes in this new season of life!

Kath, thank you so much for the shoutout and sharing a clip of my video! You rock! Stay abundant.

@Katherout

2 жыл бұрын

your video was so helpful for me, Timothy! Keep on creating xx

You’re absolutely courageous! I’m feeling a little emotion listening to you open up about this because I was in exactly same situation. It felt insane to go ahead and change up my whole life and even if people said it’s not the best decision - I knew it will work for me. Just like it will work for you! The amount of strength you give us all Kath, it’s incredible. By you being vulnerable - we get to be vulnerable, and as a result of those two things - we all get to be brave.

@Katherout

2 жыл бұрын

Wow you are so brave and congrats for taking the plunge to show up for yourself. As you were talking at the end about being able to retire or take time off every so often finally made me understand and validate why I wanna be a teacher and could never could work 12 months a year. Thank you for sharing as it really helped me think about what I want when I enter the workforce next year.

Yes! Good to see you doing what’s best for you. So much of this resonates. I also work in tech sales, it grinds me down everyday. I quit last week! I have no new job to go to. It’s scary but also liberating and it just feels right. 🙌

@Katherout

2 жыл бұрын

YAHOOOOO CONGRATS

Thank you for being so vulnerable and sharing your thoughts with us. I'm so happy for you for putting your own happiness first! Wishing you a restful sabbatical!!

@Katherout

2 жыл бұрын

thank you sm elaika!!!!!!

Wow, this video really hit home to the point I wanted to tear up. Thank you for capturing so many of the feelings and experiences that I have felt over the past two years and putting them into words. This felt truly cathartic and I hope will inspire me to follow through with the necessary actions to put my life and health first and deprioritize work from the "center of the wheel," so to speak. Looking forward to hearing more about this journey and have complete faith that this path will lead to good. Also love the haircut!

@Katherout

2 жыл бұрын

get it out of the center!!!

I’ve been obsessively checking my notifications for this video and I’m so glad it’s here. Love youuuuu 🤩 I hope you find what you’re looking for during this restful time in your life and I can’t wait to keep watching your videos.

@Katherout

2 жыл бұрын

hehehe finally got it up!

Proud of you Katherine! Follow what aligns with your soul more. You put the work in and deserve some time for you. Cheers!

The one and only Katherout! Proud of you for quitting the rat race my friend. Never sell your soul to a company, job that doesn't care about you at all

@Katherout

2 жыл бұрын

❤️❤️❤️❤️

Yessss girl! I went through the same exact thing working at a major tech company as a HR Business Partner... From the burnout, to making the decision to leave, to coming to terms with judgement from others, I ultimately had to go with my instinct and make the best decision for myself! I quit in May and am currently enjoying my break. Words can't explain the peace I finally feel and the time I have to rest, reflect, and slowly figure out what's next for me. I know not everyone has the means to do this but I agree with normalizing that it's ok to take a breather in between gigs if you can/want to. Enjoy your time off and can't wait to hear your journey!

proud of you!!

Thanks for sharing your thoughts and experiences ! I took a leave of absence/sabbatical this spring and it was a really restful and transformative period for me . I’m glad you’re taking time to reset and wish you all the best on your journey ✨✨

@Katherout

2 жыл бұрын

thank you catherine 😌😌

Loving this personal growth and authenticity. Good for you!

@Katherout

2 жыл бұрын

❤❤

WOOOO love this. this whole idea resonates so deeply with me. ur the coolest & it’s so affirming to feel seen in this way. 100% support u in this & i feel so happy 4 u. love and light

Wow! I just loved this video a lot! You're such an inspiration for getting closer to our authentic selves, thanks!

So proud of you for doing the thing! You have to do what’s best for you, and taking time off to reevaluate sounds like a great plan. I had a job a few companies back that really took advantage of me, had my traveling so often it almost wasn’t worth having my own place, and then tried to force me out so they could re-hire someone in a cheaper state. I showed up the next day and handed in my notice. I had no plan, but I had enough saved so I took three months off to travel for FUN, think about where I saw my career heading, and ultimately found a job that was a much better fit. Whatever’s right for you is what matters. I hope you enjoy this well-deserved break!!

I’ve been watching you since your freshman year vlogs! Good for you for coming to this conclusion and going for it!

@Katherout

2 жыл бұрын

thank u eden :))

Thank you so much for sharing your experience here. I sobbed through almost the entire thing. It really spoke to me. I have been in the thick of quiet quitting (which I didn't even know there was a term for) and trying to convince myself to just leave and take the break I know I need, but it's been a challenge. So happy for you that you were able to take that step!

@Katherout

2 жыл бұрын

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Real question: what is the difference between quiet quitting and good work life boundaries/balance?

@_janetta

2 жыл бұрын

I feel like quiet quitting is when you quite frankly just don't care anymore. You're burnt out and just doing whatever - pushing boundaries in the process. Maybe because you realize you've been "used" for your work ethic, maybe because you're just not connected to your work anymore. Really insert any reason here that makes you not care nearly as much as you once did. Work life balance is more like you still care about what you do and how you're seen at work and your role gives you the ability to create that balance without getting flack for it on the back end. You can work hard and leave satisfied and not drained of life. At least that's how I see them 🤷🏾‍♀️.

@thunderandreign

2 жыл бұрын

I dont functionally see a difference either. Ive literally never done more than what i was required to do when i worked 9 to 5s and it made no difference, i got praised for good work all the same and didnt get in trouble for not going "above and beyond." 🤷‍♀️

@kurthummelstan

2 жыл бұрын

agree with what janetta said! my (uninformed) take on it is that quiet quitting is acting in away that you couldn't necessarily justify to your boss if called out on it. like even though a lot of companies may want you to work later, if you only work from exactly 9-5 then you can justify that those are the hours you were hired for. whereas like going to run errands in the middle of the day, if you were called out on that you can't really justify why you were doing something else during work hours. of course if you read stuff like david graeber's bullshit jobs you'll realize that you most likely won't be called out on it in many many jobs, but that's my theory lol

@__mcat

2 жыл бұрын

i think the difference is quiet quitting is where you're accepting of the strong possibility of losing the job eventually one way or another, the approach really is "fuck it," que sera sera, etc, etc.

congrats, Katherine! it’s so inspiring to see you make the right decision for you.

I quit with nothing lined up in April. It has truly been the best, most compassionate decision I’ve ever made for myself. Though I haven’t traveled or done anything too extraordinary it has been a transformative 6 weeks. It’s hard to put it into words, but I’m sure you will do so beautifully in the months to come. I would re-up the advice I saw another commenter give: don’t put too much pressure on yourself with this newfound free time. There is so much rest and reprogramming going on inside - honor it. If you have a 3 day long KZread binge bender or don’t get around to doing yoga everyday, it’s ok! I’m so proud of you for having the audacity to trust yourself and take the leap!!

So happy for you!! Your videos are so validating because I have been feeling very similarly over the last few years, especially since moving to Europe. I'm finishing grad school and moving into the work force soon, and the work-life balance here is so much healthier and more sustainable than in my home country which is a relief because the rise and grind lifestyle would destroy me

@Katherout

2 жыл бұрын

!!!! where in europe?? i am always wanting to experience another cultural relationship to labor

@nitzans

2 жыл бұрын

@@Katherout the Netherlands, where most people take August off and set up an auto-reply email and nobody ever calls you on the weekend 😇

Everything about this video is ittttt!!! I cannot express how much I appreciate you making this because a sis is going through it now.

@Katherout

2 жыл бұрын

so many of us are 😭

Okay congratulations!! Even from just a viewers perspective, it was clear just how HEAVY this job was for you. I think a break will do wonders for you, it can be so helpful to have time off after leaving a stressful & toxic worth environment. Sending you love & the best vibes!!!

@Katherout

2 жыл бұрын

heavy is RIGHT. i'm so much lighter now ☺☺

Wow. That was truly inspiring. This is the healing we all need. Thank you for sharing your journey.

@Katherout

2 жыл бұрын

thank you for watching xx

Wow! I've just started learning about this concept and now you are talking about quiet quitting as well. Thanks again for being so transparent with us.

@Katherout

2 жыл бұрын

always xx

Thank you so much for what you do. This video, and the "I no longer aspire to have a career" video, so drastically changed my perspective on work that I honestly don't know where my mindset and life would be right now if you hadn't posted them. It's just so incredibly comforting to hear someone voicing the same thoughts that have been swimming around in my own mind and to see all these people in the comments sharing similar experiences, especially since I don't have many people in my life who can relate. After a pretty circuitous career path post-college, I ended up quitting my job in January with the knowledge that I wanted to apply to a training program that would set me up for a career I knew I would find more enjoyable/fulfilling than what I had previously been doing. It's because of people like you (and, of course, an immense amount of financial privilege) that I felt comfortable in my decision to quit without having a program acceptance or another job immediately lined up. Taking a few months off -- something I would have found incredibly daunting and anxiety-inducing a few years ago -- was absolutely wonderful. I'm starting the training program today and, for the first time in many years, truly looking forward to what's ahead in my life with excitement, no matter where my career ends up taking me.

I was unemployed from May 2020-May 2021 and even though I wasn't able to really go anywhere or spend as much time with friends as I would've liked, it was honestly a great time in my life. I was not stressed from work, I could sleep in as much as I wanted, and I could just do what I wanted when I wanted like going hiking on a nice Tuesday morning. I'm working now but have been sort of in this quiet quitting mode for a while. I have really not felt any kind of fulfillment from my work and am always thinking of something else I could do that makes me feel fulfilled. Maybe this video and your journey can help push me to do so... Thanks Katherout!

Yes! Good for you, girl. Loved this video.

I relate so much to your story especially the part about the harassment you faced and how the job basically did nothing about it. Smh. I’m so happy you are in a better place. I hope to get away from where I work soon too.

YESSSSSSS! I quit my corporate job 6 months ago (bc chronic illness) without going right into a new one and its been the best possible decision. I didn’t realize it was possible to love life this much and look forward to the next day until I left! It was definitely a weird change at first but so worth it. funny enough, I’ve also started embroidering. Proud of you ❤️

Thanks for sharing your story. I am on a similar path. I also quit my job in June for a self paid sabbatical until October. I was the high performer in my team at work, but other than a pat on the back it did not pay to be a high performer. After a request for part-time over the summer was denied (as expected), I handed in my resignation. I am enjoying my summer now. Take care, you deserve to make YOU a priority.

so proud of you!! excited for you to finally take this time for yourself

@Katherout

2 жыл бұрын

thank you :'))

Have been waiting for this video!! Love love watching your journey

@Katherout

2 жыл бұрын

❤❤❤ thank you beatriz

Love this for you! This just made me realize that I have been quiet quitting for some months now.

So proud of you!!!! We stan doing what is best for you!

@Katherout

2 жыл бұрын

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Congrats!! Excited for you to enjoy your newfound freedom and happiness

Just stumbled across your channel and I absolutely loved this video. I just quit my job in an overly taxing field after a decade and it was a scary leap, but it was so necessary and thus far, SO WORTH IT. I also did a bit of quiet quitting over the last year or so because it was so clear that it didn't matter. I relate to you so much! Enjoy your time off. I've just subscribed and I can't wait to see what you do with this self-funded sabbatical!

Girl, that was so interesting! I am new to the channel but great job on the video! And maybe it’s the age thing, but I’ve been having similar thoughts. I am on the verge, trading a lot of my time for quite a lot of money now for 6 years now, and it is seemingly getting better with raises etc but it takes up more and more of the precious time, my 20s are just slipping by. It requires a lot of courage to quit and it might be not the most practical thing, but I know that feeling trapped is not good for your head. Completely unsure of what to do and scared to regret, trying to find balance in what is there now. But I still am so encouraged by people that decide and quit like you did! That might mean something.

woo big decision!! proud of you :) sounds like you're gonna have a funnn summer

I am only 9 minutes in but wow.. thank you for continuing to overshare with us. Every time I watch a video I sit back and really truly think about things in life and work etc. appreciate you for that and for being vulnerable with us

@Katherout

2 жыл бұрын

❤❤

Been following you for many years and I just wanted to say that you are really inspiring. I hope you enjoy your time off. Much love

@Katherout

2 жыл бұрын

thank you :)

needed this ❤ proud of you!

@Katherout

2 жыл бұрын

thank you :-)

A while ago when you said that you no longer look for fulfillment in your labor, that really stuck with me. I wondered if you were right, but I kept hoping for some kind of fulfillment in my work and eventually found some. I think that you are amazing for making a brave decision and I hope you find fulfillment this way.

@Katherout

2 жыл бұрын

loved this!

What a great story!! Very inspiring

This video was so good. I just finished a Tech boot camp and considered Tech Sales as an option. I may need to go back to the drawing board. Thank you for being transparent.

I resonated with soooooo much of this video! I too choose unemployment for the majority of the past year, I was a burnt out primary school teacher who desperately needed time off, not tutoring, not going to another school etc. just having a damn break. I’m lucky and blessed that my husband supported me in this and after 8-9 months I’ve decided to go for a whole different direction, career path and hopefully a more balanced future where I’ll be making more money and having more time - we can pray!!! Haha. Good luck lovely, you’ve got this, may your break be exactly what you need to start a beautiful new direction!

@Katherout

2 жыл бұрын

ah i'm so glad to hear this!!!

I resonate with this so much. I am so happy for you!!!!!! 💓

@Katherout

2 жыл бұрын

thank you so much natasha xx

omg this was amazing and sooo helpful, thank you

Only just reading the title of this video right now but I'm SO proud of you Katherine. You do what so many of us can't or aren't brave enough to do. So excited for your future!

@Katherout

2 жыл бұрын

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ thank you so much

Congrats! I did the same in April and it’s amazing. Can’t wait to see you savor this time.

@Katherout

2 жыл бұрын

❤❤❤ savor is the exact right word

I feel very seen right now, 100% relate on your work experience although I’m fortunate in that my company isn’t that much at odds with my own political and social views. You’re one of my favorite creators and I appreciate you sharing this inside look into your life!!

@Katherout

2 жыл бұрын

ugh thank u so much for watching/commenting!!!

Okay this inspired me to make a video response to this. I honestly think it’s detrimental to call this “quiet quitting” for a number of reasons

Girl we are on the same wave and this video has been so reaffirming for me!!! So thank you. I am leaving teaching after only a year of doing it. Similar to you, I sped through my degree and graduated in 3 years to save money. I was an honors student and overachiever throughout. Then I went directly into a very high stress job with minimal life experience. I realized I needed to take a step back and figure out who I am as a person when I’m not working. What are my genuine interests? So I quit and am taking three months just working part time until I go back to a full time job I love (nannying). So far I’m mildly failing because I keep taking on more dog sitting and babysitting jobs that I’m offered which is slowly adding up to full time work, but I think it’ll get easier as the weeks go on to ditch that money-hungry mindset. Also I’m thankful my part time work isn’t nearly as stressful as teaching was. We’re in the same boat 💕✨

@Katherout

2 жыл бұрын

ah yes the money-hungry mindset... how do we find the balance of earning what we need but not falling prey to always maximizing profits...

I've been watching your channel on and off for years and I just wanna say that hair and brow glow up though ✨ But also congrats on doing what's best for you

@Katherout

2 жыл бұрын

L M A O it was honestly hard watching some of the old footage

So proud of you 💗

Yay! Congrats! I have been wanting to quit for a while and this is lowkey inspiring 😭😂 hope you enjoy this time!!

@Katherout

2 жыл бұрын

happy to inspire future quittings..

Great video Kath! You truly made the right decision! I think I've been quiet quiting for months but what has made it hard for me to quit is definitely the people in my team, we became quite close and I know me leaving would make their job even worse than it's now... A new starter would also not be able to do my job as it requires 6 months of training at least... I know that ultimately I have to think of me and my mental health first 🙏🏻 I actually applied for a job at my previous company as I used to love working there but lost the job due to the pandemic so I might have something lined up which would also be a gamble since I don't know if I would like this new position!

@Katherout

2 жыл бұрын

yes to prioritizing you and your mental health first!!

Love you!!! Proud of you!!

Just so I don't echo the dozens of other comments saying how proud they are of you (even though I AM PROUD, GIRLIE!!), instead I'll gush about how amazing your hair looks! I'm loving watching your curly hair journey; I've been growing out my hair, so it's been getting less and less curly as it gets longer and weighed down, and your shorter cut is making me reconsider!

@Katherout

2 жыл бұрын

omg thank you! with my newfound free time i'm finally filming my routine so that'll be up on tiktok soooon :)))

It saddens me that many of the behaviours associated with 'quiet quitting' are essentially resistance to internalised and experienced objectification. I don't know if I would label this shift as 'witholding [your] labour value from [your] employers' unless that is the explicit intention, the alternative being simply recognising your multidimensionality as a human being. Rooting for us!

I decided to drop out of college this year in early April after I had a month long depressive episode. Everything you said about the bare minimum and the fear of uncertainty and safety was really keeping me in a place I didn’t belong. I’m so happy to hear someone’s story that is similar to my own and I can’t wait to see what we both do during our rest period!!!!! Thank you for helping me find someone that gets what it’s like. ❤️

the topics you touch on in this video aren't talked about enough, in my opinion. thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences with us ♥

I really love this exploration of your journey. I found the video by Timothy Ward a few months ago and I was like woah there's a name for it!? When I was 20 I joined the military in order to bypass the whole "you need experience to get an entry level job" idiocy and to avoid student debt while still receiving training. I chose a highly technical job and when I got to my first station I was high energy and filled with ideas. Over and over I was told "sit down, shut up, do your job, that isn't how this works" so. Less than 2 years into my "career", I was essentially forced to quiet quit. Then I was harassed by upper leadership because of it even though I had tried to offer contributions but I wasn't playing the right game I guess. After 6 years and a severe mental and physical breakdown later (that I did not seek help for), my contract was finally up. I was immensely grateful for lockdown because I had already quiet quit and I was like ok finally maybe I can recover from this awful burnout. I wasn't able to fully recover and now we're back to 4 days in the office 1 day of telework and am seriously conflicted as to how I'm going to proceed. I'm so excited I found a channel that so profoundly mimics my own conflicts and desires and will be sending you all the healing vibes. Highly recommend planting your feet in some gorgeous PNW grass after an afternoon rain :)

New subbie. You had me at 'burnt out, left-leaning over achiever'.

I noticed that when employees are giving signs that they are about to quit; management always seems to purposely give their employees either a small- meaningless promotion, raise, or other small meaningless rewards. Just to give you a false feeling of hope and guilt that you were just thinking bad; and that if you stay a little longer everything will work out and live happily ever after. In the end, it all just becomes a big never-ending cycle. just like an abusive and toxic relationship. You must always put yourself, your mental and physical health, and, most importantly, happiness first. After all, to them, you are just a replaceable no-body. Love yourself.

So happy for you!!

I am very proud of you! Thank you for this video! I hope that I can quit my job soon!

Loved loved loved this video

“Quiet quitting” just sounds like how you should work normally 🤷🏾‍♀️ 😂 I been quiet quitting my entire life I guess @11:55 This is how you’re supposed to deal with work. Work fits into your life, not the other way around.

So proud of you!

So happy for you and proud of you! It’s not an easy decision to do what’s best for yourself and what you want. Made me feel better about my own decision - I’ve just finished my undergrad and couldn’t afford a year off before my masters, and have been working part time throughout my whole degree. Exhausting. So, I took the plunge and decided to quit my part time job and make it work, and give myself a month off before starting my grad degree. I just want to sit on the floor for a bit!! Life is the most important thing and the sooner we realise that and deconstruct from the capitalist hamster wheel, the better! Good luck with your time offfff

@Katherout

2 жыл бұрын

SIT ON THE FLOOR!!!!

Fucking congrats Kath. Been here for a few years now and I cannot wait to see what you do moving forward. S/O Patreon gang

@Katherout

2 жыл бұрын

THANK YEWWWWW LFG PATREON GANG

I relate to this video SO MUCH and honestly it came at the perfect time for me.

@Katherout

2 жыл бұрын

i'm so glad!!!

You are absolutely brave. Hindsight is 20/20, and you will hopefully feel the relief and liberation soon. I had to leave my first job without having another job lined up. I was doing a postdoctorate fresh out of my PhD and was basically fired. I ended up getting a part-time job at the nearby grocery store to bide my time while looking for a new job and it turns out that that was a very important 4 months of living real life after having been a student for so long. I learned so much more about myself and created enough distance from the academic world to recognize how toxic it was and that I am one of the lucky ones who was able to get out of it. I have a job now that I love with a much better team and work environment and despite how awful my first job was, I don't know that I would have gotten here if I didn't have that first experience to understand what I'm actually worth and what is truly important to me and how to find that in a job. So good for you, enjoy your time off, and when the time is right, you'll find that next gig that's meant for you.

@Katherout

2 жыл бұрын

def considering getting a job at a local shop and taking a break from corporate life!

My love and support are with you girl. It's not an uncommon ideas to prioritize your well being. Your doctors, therapist and youtube comment section are here to root for you if a little spice of external validation is needed. Also you mentioned ennagram type 3, I would really love to explore the subject of Ennagram if you bring it to your channel

@Katherout

2 жыл бұрын

maybe i'll talk more about enneagrams on tiktok or something! not sure i'd have enough to fill a whole video

Very relatable video!

Fuck yeah so happy for you Katherine! No need to defend your decision at all, life is fucking short and you deserve to pursue happiness as much as you are able to. You are obviously an incredibly intelligent and capable person who is going to do well in whatever avenue you choose.

I am incredibly happy to see you finally taking time for yourself. I know it can be scary, but I also know that you will have such an amazing time. I was laid off back in 2018 and stayed unemployed for a year but not by my choice, and I was stressing about money since my parents were covering my needs. I got to travel with them though and that was amazing. I stayed for two years in my next job, but I was feeling burnt out by the lack of a team. I also interviewed at places but no luck. I was scheduled for an interview for a part time office job the week I had decided to quit, so I chickened out and waited for the job offer before quitting. This time was even better bc I had savings but I didn’t have to completely dip into it since I had money coming in. I got to overcome my fear of driving enough to get myself on the road. My dad passed not long after that, so I had to go back to full time hours and I’m not too happy about it. But I’m trying to see if I can get a job I like that pays a bit more with health insurance at least. I am incredibly happy and excited for you in this step of your journey. I know you’ll have a blast and grow a lot from it 🥰

@Katherout

2 жыл бұрын

thank you so much for your support 🥲🥲🥲

Ahh we support you ❤️

@Katherout

2 жыл бұрын

❤❤❤

I been waiting for this one, turn it up

@Katherout

2 жыл бұрын

hehe

I love your editing it’s very unique with the internet 2.0 sound cartoon. Not sure how to call it. I think it’s normal for tech sales girlies to feel burn out, rage quitters, and travel. Very relatable. Been there