We Autism mommas are the toughest women! We do have our breaking points and moments of depression. I have spent countless times when everybody in my household is finally asleep and I cry it out in the shower. I wash away the day and take the next day as a new start.....day by day....minute by minute. You are the best mom for your child. Please stay strong and focus on the fun....positive things. Even if it's playing a funny movie or blowing bubbles for the kids. I'm sending you an online hug🤗. I understand.....I have two boys on the spectrum too. You are amazing! You are a warrior!

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

PinkRazedDoodleDonut thank you so much xox

@kicosumpter7049

3 жыл бұрын

you sound so great , im awake , my son is awake as usual until maybe 3 or 4 am , if im lucky and if he is lucky aswell ,its enough we all have to deal with our children and your right we are the best , there are not many of us that would do what we do , with love , compasssion ,shire determination , i am absolutley so knackered its been 13 years grabbing sleep when i can wether its in the afternoon , im 50 and so im feeling it more and more , but i would move a mountain for my son , that s how i feel and i will fight so hard to keep him heathly and happy and make life an adventure a memory i know he will never forget but then life gets in the way , and people who i thought had all the answers or at least knew more than i have let me down ie the doctors and so called experts , i have faith in some , but its times like these , i feel like i am knocking my head against the biggest wall , why can't they hear me and just help my son , patience is the key , and for me keep calm, and speak softly i cannot loose it or get angry , like you sometimes i wait til he is asleep to have a little cry but my sons hearing is so intuned , he can hear me threw 3 rooms and 3 doors and i am whispering , anyway , i think , thank god there are mothers and fathers like you around to look after our unique children who love and adore them so much . he is my life and i am his , we are making the most of what we have ,living in the moment , with a glance into the future ,you never run out of love xxxx i thank my son for loving me so much i feel so blessed he does xxxx

Sending prayers and positive thoughts. Wishing Dylan a speedy recovery. You are an incredible mom. Stay strong. You’ve got this!

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much xox

Ah, my lovely strong fellow Asc mummy, I felt your frustrations and your sorrow in this video.. I’m keeping your son in my prayers and you don’t have to be iron built and strong all the time.. you ARE allowed to fall, allowed to be overwhelmed and allowed to need someone to hold you as you hold Dylan.. you will get answers and you as a family will come through this .. xx

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

Mandy Uk thank you. I was so worried to be so honest in this video but I felt I owed it to you all to let you know what’s going on .. xox

Praying for you and Dylan! Thank you so much for sharing this. We love your family and share in your struggles.

Sending you so much love!!! You’re such a strong mama! ❤️

I'm so sorry to hear about all of this. My prayers and thoughts have been sent above wishing the best for you and your family

I am SO SORRY you're dealing with all of this. Prayers to your family as you're weathering this storm.

Keep strong !💕 hoping for a speedy recovery for Dylan, sending love and hugs xxxx

What an amazing mum you are !!!Sending prayers and strength ❤️

You are so incredibly strong and a wonderful mum, hang in there! Sending you and your family all my love. ❤ Thank you so much for your update. It must be so hard seeing Dylan go through this. It's all right to talk about the ups and downs in caring for Dylan.

My heart goes to you and your precious son, Be strong and have faith that everything is going to be alright You and your family would be in my prayers. ❤️🙏

Sending a lot of love your way, and a big hug. 🙏

So sorry your family is going through this! I will keep Dylan and the rest of your family in my thoughts and prayers ❤️

Prayers lifted for you and family and your precious son. Our father knows our needs and will know what to do. Many hugs and prayers lifted 💖💖💖💖

Tara, you and Dylan.. and your family..Are in my daily prayers!! Lotslove

Oh my goodness, my heart sinks! Praying for you... you will get thru this ❤️

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much! x

Tara, you are incredibly strong, loving, amazing mom! Many hugs and loads of positive energy for you to get through this difficult time ❤❤❤❤❤ I wish I could really give you a boost of strength, but from what I saw of you, you will get through it and find a way to help your lovely son. I wish all the health for him and your whole family! Many warmest hugs! ❤❤❤

Thank you for sharing your struggles and your triumphs. My daughter was diagnosed with Pervasive Developmental Disorder about 1985 when she was 5 years old. I learned some 20 years later that was the term then used for children on the autism spectrum. Knowledge and services did not become available until the 2000's. As well she had been diagnosed with another condition which was rare which took precedence in the mind of her Doc. I can relate to your feelings of wanting to do do everything you can for your child and his siblings. It can be very overwhelming. I am glad to hear you have Andrew's support because, as you know so well doing it on your own and keeping your sanity is nigh on impossible. At the time I was caring for my daughter I so desperately needed to hear the stories of others, the good , the difficult and the solutions. One important thing I have learned over the years is the importance of doing one thing in your day to do something in your day that is just for you that can't be undone. Clean dishes, a copper floor, a meal are always undone. Painting your toe nails, a bubble bath, listening undisturbed to a song that gives you pleasure can't be undone. Thank you for your sharing and may Gods blessings continue to be with you.

BIG hug and all my love.🙏💓

Sending my prayers all the way from Africa. ❤❤❤ You are an inspiration to me...I'm also on this journey and I see a lot of me in you; the positivity; the resilience; the fighting spirit and the unconditional love for your children. Aut moms are the best❤❤❤

Big love and hugs hun, you're in my thoughts and I'm hoping & wishing Dylan gets better soon. Xxx

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

Vanessa Millwood thank you ❤️

Stay strong Tara! All my prayers with you and family ❤

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much

Love you tara. Please stay strong. Not just for your family but for our families please. You are the best. You can do it.

You're a wonderful mum and a great inspiration to many mums out there. The lord is your strength. Prayers and positive thoughts to Dylan. Get well soon super man

I feel you..may God bless you and get you through these difficult times

You and your family are in my prayers. Thank you for being open with your story.

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

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Oh Tara You are such a strong, sensitive and kind person. Just hang in there. This too shall pass. Sending lots of love and hugs for you and your son, please dont feel alone. Hope he feels better soon. 😘😘

Appreciate your sincerity, honesty and sharing your life. Hoping Dylan gets well soon.

Big hugs for all of you!!! You’re doing amazing. Hope everything will be good very soon. Take care xxx

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

thank you so much lovely xx

You are hope for lot many parents like me. You are really very strong mom and an inspiration. I cried while watching this. Hoping your son will be healthy and all right soon. Sending prayers your way 🙏🙏🙏

Just saw this now. You are so strong and awesome. I have a autistic son too, I know what you’re going through! Don’t ever give up! This video helped me so much! Thank you! Sending good vibes your way! ❤

Bless you beautiful angel-mom ! ❤️

Dylan is so lucky to have you. You are a fantastic Mom and a beautiful person. ❤️🍀❤️

I am sooooooo very encouraged by your bravery! Thank you for sharing this part of your journey with us. I'm sending a prayer of peace, expedient recovery, and many more blessings for you and your family.

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much xx

Sending you and your family much love and prayers! Thank you for being so real and sharing real life not only with ASD but with everything. I’m a new mommy to a shield with ASD and I find comfort and hope in watching your experiences. Thank you!

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for taking the time to comment . Welcome to my on line family xox

I wish you all the best and may your Dylan recover fast.

Prayers for all of you! God can do anything if you believe 🙏🏽

I’m so sorry he isn’t feeling well! I will be praying for a quick recovery for him and your family! Thank you for sharing!

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you my friend

Oh dear so sorry to hear this praying and sending positive energy

Praying for you so hard right now. You are a such strong mom and we admire you so much Tara. Thank you for sharing.

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much xox

You are such a beautiful mum, strong woman and you will get through this!! I truly believe the power of positive energy and prayers... I'm praying for you n Dylan... Unfortunately I know exactly what you are going through right now, and how overwhelming n draining all this is (hospital, testings, waiting for results...) THANK YOU FOR BEING SO TRANSPARENT this community is here for you too ❤ wish I could give you a cuddle mumma. love you

Sending you lots of hugs! You are amazing mom. And you’ll go through this like you always do. Compare to you I’m total failure for my ASD child. You’re are great example for me and I’m sure many more moms. Stay strong 😘

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

You’re an amazing mum and don’t you forget it all in this together. 🥰

Thinking of you. Sending prayers your sweet boy feels better soon and you get the answers you need. 🙏❤️

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much!

I’m sorry, you are strong, you will get through this🌸

My thought is with you and is praying for your family. Thank you for your honest talking. Keep going, this too shall pass as you said. 🙏😘

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much , it will i just got to get back up again and fight again x

God Bless you. Stay Strong . You are a Beautiful mummy and a Beautiful person xx

Keeping your family in my prayers! You *will* get through this and be stronger on the other side! You're clearly an incredible mother, and Dylan is lucky to have you! One day at a time, one foot in front of the other. You've got this!!

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

Sorry for the late reply it’s been a bit crazy here as you can imagine I really appreciate your message so thank you very much

Sending you a virtual hug during this particularly challenging time. Thanks for your transparency. You’re an amazing mother 💜

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much! x

We have a son also with Autism. Speak Blessings over Dylan and Speak positive things towards him at all times. He is an angel, And a child of God. As all of our children are.

@ComingHometoAutism

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much xox

All my love and blessings for you, Dylan and beautiful family! 🙏✨🌹💜🦋

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you xox

Loads of love and Healing to D,your doing an incredible job in extremely difficult times Tara. I hope Dylan turns a corner with his health soon and you can build your boy back up.x

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

Katie Vanston thank you my sweet friend. Just feel like I gotta kick myself in the butt and try find a way forward for dylan to make him better x

I love the spirit you have to keep going on. That's the most valuable treatment for anything. I love you and your family. My prayers are with Dylan and you. Dylan will be absolutely alright. Faith, believe and let's keep going on. Love and prayers for your family.

@ComingHometoAutism

3 жыл бұрын

Bless you thank you x

Sending all the love in the world to you and him. You are amazing and it will get better❤❤❤

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

Martina Schiavolin thank you so much x

Prayers and love to you and your family. You are an amazing woman, and you have helped me with these videos. I just found out about my son's diagnosis a week ago. Love and light to you!

@ComingHometoAutism

3 жыл бұрын

sending you a big hug x

Wishing Dylan a speedy recovery. Thank you for this channel. Thank you for your honesty. I see you as my family too..Stay safe. Stay strong.

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

big hugs to you and thank you x

You are an amazing mum and an inspiration. Stay strong xxx

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

Samia Kenley ❤️❤️❤️❤️

You are a great mom and a strong person.... Been following you just since last week. This too shall pass, must just be a phase. All will be well... Prayers for you and your family.

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much! and thanks for subscribing to my you tube family xox

Stay strong tara💕 my heart broke I literally can’t even imagine your pain. Pray pray pray❤️

@ComingHometoAutism

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much xox

Prayers for your precious son. Prayers for y o u and the family. 💕

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you xx

Sending lots of love and prayers Tara. Thank you for sharing such a difficult time in your life with us, we are all in this together and can share what you are feeling. My son was recently unwell with kidney issues and the medical team would be so patronising when I'd say you'll struggle to get blood, they'd almost roll eyes at me until they experienced it for themselves. Questions like "how much pain is he feeling" and I am like he can't really understand that concept yet. Then they decide he is in no pain, until bloods and scans come back showing he must be in pain. It is horrible and heartbreaking but you'll get through this and so will Dylan - all my love and prayers are with you in this hard time. Your an amazing mum and so strong, we love you xx

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

Hannah Ahmed oh I feel you on this I really do! I get that all the time oh we have done this hundreds of times before lol then they try now luck makes me a giggle a bit! I hope your son is ok now? X

You do a really great job. you are the best mother for dylan, i pray for you and wish you a lot of strength also for the rest of your family. Thank you for the Videos. Hugs from Germany.

Keep faith, this too shall pass. Big hugs to you momma.

Your beautiful son was sent to you for a reason, you are so strong and so loving..he is so blessed to have a mother like you❤️ I’m praying for you and your family ✝️🛐♾️

hi all the way from Dubai . God bless you for the good you do . We have a 3 year old autistic son and it has been very hard for my wife . I cannot imagine the pain mothers go through

Praying for your family 😭❣️

I do believe everything will get better!

You have helped me so much with your great true to life videos,my six year old great nephew has non verbal autism. In tears watching today,so worrying and frustrating waiting to get results,whatever the outcome you will be amazing and even you don’t feel it,once you know what is the problem you will be able to start tackling it with all your strength and love. Thinking of you all x

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

thank you my friend x

Sending so much love ❤️ so thankful for you ❤️

Dylan is lucky to have you ❤️❤️❤️ I wish him speedy recovery and calmer days for your entire family ❤️

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you so very much x

I watched a few of your videos last fall, but haven’t watched again until I just saw your latest video now. I have a 2.5 year-old Grandson who is a late or delayed talker. He’s had many tests but has not received a diagnosed of Autism. I have been impressed w/your strength, dedication, and fiercest love for your children & family. I am a Christian & believer in God and how He answers prayer(s). I will add Dylan’s health issues and you and your entire family to my prayer list! God bless Dylan, you, & Dylan’s medical Doctors that they will get an accurate dx SOON! 🤗🌹♥️🌷💝

I was hoping to seen some more videos on the channel, but I truly understand. .. Hope you all are coping and everything. ❤️🙏🏼

@sarahw.mcelyea5655

11 ай бұрын

Ok, now I see, I was just looking in the wrong spot. 😊 I'll subscribe now and hopefully watch some tomorrow. .. Autism Moms!!! Sistah. 🌹

Thank you for sharing this. As a mom with a naughty toddler, I sometimes feel tired to take care of the family and work at the same time. But after watching a few of your videos and see other parents with autistic child's comments, I feel I've been spoiled. You taught me and other parents who haven't been through all these what it is like to be strong for our own child! You'll get through this! It's just another obstacle to concur and a phase in life to remember.

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much x

Love and hugs, you are amazing, everything gonna be ok, thanks for your pure feelings

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

I appreciate that thank you so much x

You’re an incredible Mama to all of your children. I hope your son feels better soon. I will keep praying 🙏🏽❤️

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

Sarah Issa thank you xox

Thank you for sharing your story, once again, even though it is so hard. Health challenges with our ASD children can be especially trying, to be sure. Your family will be in my prayers. +

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much that means a lot

When you cry it makes me cry as well because my son is autistic too , i can understand you very well . I hope 🤞 your son get better soon , tnx for sharing your vedios with us ❤️

@bunnybird9342

4 жыл бұрын

Why is autism bad?

Cried along with you... Really hope is just a phase (cuz don't we get a lot of those?) and everything is fine with Dylan. Allways say this with my boy... We can handle all the neuro problems but, God, please keep him healthy... That's what I hope for you, aswell, for Dylan to be healthy and for all this bad stuff to go away soon! Sending to you, momma, a big, big hug!

You are just such an inspiration to everyone and every parent. You’ve been such a great source of comfort and reassurance for all of us with autistic children in our lives and families and as a thank you for your soul, your honesty, your compassion and your insights I will pray for you every day. As a Muslim we pray 5x a day and I most certainly will remember your family and Dillion in each of those prayers. Please god he makes a full recovery. Amen. Please god he has no untoward or serious diagnoses. Amen. Please god he and all your family are blessed with good health, peace and strength. God bless you. You are such a strong fighting spirit and you’ll carry your son through this.

I'm praying for u ,praying for us moms for more strength, patience 🙏 and grace 🙏 keep been strong. We are learning from u each time u post. I learn and prepare myself for days like these 🙏

@ComingHometoAutism

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much

Be strong dear ,hugs to you and Dylan not forgetting everyone in the family.Take care❤️

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

sikhulile Tshuma thank you so much 💗

Oh dearest, God love you precious lady and I will pray daily for you and your family. You are not alone and I know how brave you are. You have such a gorgeous family.

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for your lovely message sending you a big hug

This cant of been easy to share, thank you for being honest & showing that when they do get poorly Autism still impacts them, sending virtual hugs xx

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

thank you so much, really wondered should i share or not .. sending big hugs back to you x

I found your videos a few months back. We intuitively knew our grandson was on the ASD and were going through the diagnostic period, doing what we all do (research). Thank you for being there, a calm, honest light in the storm. From the comments there's validation in the worthiness of your efforts. I know you are about to teach us much in this scary part of y'alls journey. God bless you. Now is not the time but, in future, please do that video on getting blood work done. My grandson is 2 and already too strong for all but his big, strong father to constrain. His mom and I cry every time. I'm positive this is a common traumatic issue for most. I'd say stay strong but you already are and you'll get your "baby" through this struggle as you have all the others. My heart goes out to you.

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

thank you for taking the time to comment. I am going to do one on blood tests soon as i have learnt so much in the past few weeks about it x

Just stumbled across your video and it touched me. I'm the mom to a son with autism as well, and the challenges and victories that come every hour of every day with autism. He also had what we thought was just a particularly horrible entry into adolescence but turned out to be bipolar disorder. He became so delusional that he had to be admitted to a nine month residential facility in order to stabilize and heal from his psychosis and I found myself having to share custody of this child who is my world with strangers who don't see him in entirely the same way as I do. It was beyond stressful. We got through it, as families do, thank God, and we are on a much better place now, though it is a day by day process. All this to say, you're not alone, even when this journey makes you feel completely isolated and beyond exhausted. There are others who really understand, who are from within the same situation and are struggling too. Hugs and peace to you!

be strong mum. i know its hard but this too shall pass mum. you are a great inspiration.

I needed this more than ever right now. You are not alone Mama! Thank you for the honesty and showing the ups and downs. You have no idea how much you’re helping other parents going through this by sharing his journey! Sending lots of love and well wishes for your beautiful boy and family. Take care ♥️

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

Kaylah Garcia thank you so much felt so vulnerable sharing this. But I want to be honest always x

You are amazing mum And strong . Thinking of you and pray things get better soon. You are the rock of your family . I watched from day one. Much love to you.

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much!

Just seeing this video now and it makes me want to just give you a hug. I hope things have gotten better for you and Dillon.

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much. Dylan is slowly slowly getting better ❤️

Sending my prayers to him and i wish him well, you’re an amazing mother you helped me a lot god take all the bad things away from your family . ❤️❤️❤️

Stay strong tara. I can totally relate to the pain when u see your child struggling. Just hold on. Dylan is a brave boy and so are you. U will get through this.....

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

anjali sinha thank you xox

Thankyou for being so honest xxx. I am having a hard time at the moment with my 11 year old boy. Feel like I can't cope. You are allowed to break down.

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

Foz it’s such a difficult age. I’ve heard it does pass though so hang on in there x

God I cried so much!! I’m sending you love and lots of prayers. Our Noah is turning four in two days, and we are constantly worried about such issues, he gets better in some aspects of his development, but then goes through phases were it’s hard and scary, and no matter how much I read and watch stories of other parents talking about this, you always end up in a dark place....praying for your baby to get well ♥️

@ComingHometoAutism

3 жыл бұрын

thank you so much x

Thank you for sharing your life with us. I am so sorry.

I’m so sorry what you all going through. My heart goes out to you. Poor lad. My son hate blood test too . I will prayer for you I have a home group we will pray my friend. Keep strong xx

I understand completely what you are going through. I’m about to say my rosary before I get to sleep. Please know I daily remember your and your family. My idea on autism has made me realize no two kids are alike and consequently there lies the difference. . You are going to be fine. Such a precious family. I was hoping to get to Ireland and spent some time with my twin, sadly that isn’t going to work. We are the youngest of a family of nine and the my sister has Alzheimer’s. I can’t believe seven of my siblings are deceased. It reminds me of how fleeting life is. God love you all, thanks for sharing and do be kind to you.🙏😘😉

I have just come across your videos today. I am watching all. You are so wonderful, and strong. I will be praying for you all. My son is just 4 the end of March and has ASD. Thank you for your strength. Sending you a BIG hug! My son is back in his program with one on one and they are only allowing a few kids back in and wearing mask etc. But I must tell you as well i am so emotional everyday about COVID-19 and praying i am making the correct choice by sending him back. he needs his therapy. Stay Strong Mama you are amaZing! Thank you again for your videos. My day has gotten better as I sit here watching them. HUGS!

Prayers for your child ..hope everything becomes easier for you ....you are great more power to u

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much!

Hey, thank you for your honesty. So very sorry that Dylan is unwell and has lost an awful lot of weight. Be strong for Dylan and positive for your family. I am certain, if anyone can find the way out of this situation, you can. Will keep praying for Dylan, you and your family and may the good Lord bless all of you, always.

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

Cheng Lim ❤️❤️❤️

You know it can happened to woman who is so strong. It Is obviously painful and you are in the stress continuously. You're great mum great woman!!!! If it's possible take your time and pamper yourself. Love you!!

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much it was a rough patch for sure I’m feeling so much stronger in myself now that I know what is wrong with him x

Your doing a great job! This too shall pass. Better days lye ahead for Dillan.