I never thought I would have to deal with anything like ASD and the overwhelming feeling that I can’t do this in time. My son is only 6 but each day I don’t really help him feels like I’m neglecting him. This was the 1st video I’ve watched that didn’t freak me out. Hearing Roz was non verbal until 12 and didn’t really talk u til 25 but is now a public speaker, speaks volumes. Thanks for your channel.

@ComingHometoAutism

3 жыл бұрын

I’m so pleased this video helped you. We cover all sorts of topics in our videos so hope they will continue to help you . Continue to love your son and by being there and accepting him for who he is will really help you and him. There is hope and you got this x

@tr7339

4 ай бұрын

​@@ComingHometoAutism please can you help me out with list of foods to give

For the first time this video right now allowed me to finally take a deep breath and know everything is going to be okay.

This is so inspiring! My son is 5 and is non-verbal and not potty trained. Hearing your positive view on not worrying about milestones feels like such a relief ❤️

I needed this I'm living in a country that has nothing free for autism and as a single mom with no income I'm home alone 24/7 with my kid. They put him out if school and this country doesn't facilitate autism or adhd. Unfortunately I'm alone in this until he's old enough to maybe go to work with Me if any employer will allow it. I highly doubt unless it's like house cleaning. We barely have food and clothing but he's so bright and smart. He just can't sit down for too long. I'm going to watch all your videos now. I don't have any help. Thanks for this. You're a God sent.

@ComingHometoAutism

10 ай бұрын

Sending you a big hug you got this . Hopefully my videos can help you and give you strength you can do this x

@markmcallan973

5 ай бұрын

My son is six ,he has autism Ive spent many nights drinking and crying to myself about the situation however he is the most beautiful person Ive ever seen! I will never give up on him! If you don't mind me asking what country do U live in that doesn't have much care for autism?

@Kathrynlove

5 ай бұрын

Hi. What country are you in? I feel deeply like for you. I am a Single Mom too with 4 kids but I have two jobs and help from my state. They pay for my sons ABA therapy, Speech therapy and Occupational therapy. I am so overwhelmed all the time because I have ADHD myself...I would send you some money because I can't even imagine...but I don’t know how to contact you....

@alexguerra1668

3 ай бұрын

Oh my word, mama❤❤❤ prayers up

"Our children don't deserve to never give up on them." I like this line and it works for all parents and children. It's about raising the bar, the standards or in your experience, pushing the limits. Thank you again for sharing your piece of truth and life.

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

Dakinivi thank you my friend x

Hi Tara, I'm a new subscriber and I have a son with an intellectual disability and on the spectrum. I've watch a few of your videos over the past few days and this is my favourite by far. Super honest and full of hope and positive vibes. Thank you xxx

I can't thank you enough for your channel and all the information you have kindly shared. You are amazing. My 2 year old son is going through the process of being diagnosed and it has been a testing time for the entire family. I now feel better equipped to deal with it and your videos have been a lifeline to me these past few weeks. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

Thank you for this, I needed to hear these words today. I have to push him and not be afraid, it’ll only help him on the long run.

Love watching your videos and as a mom with a daughter that has autism i have realized that i have to be extra patient with my daughter even though it's not easy at times. Still learning and navigating the world of parenting a child with autism. Watching your videos just gives me the peace of mind that i need to keep going to help my daughter get the support she needs.

Wow you don’t know how happy I’m that I found your channel thank you for your words to never give up and to always push your child , honestly I was about to give up on my 5 year old son because it’s so hard having a kid with autism and him been nonverbal, but when you said this lady Ros spoke at age 25 wow that really gave me hope because I really want to hear my son talk thank you so much you have no idea how much I wanted to hear something like that.

I just love you. You are that mom who I want as a friend. You are just inspiration

My little boy has just been diagnosed and I’m feeling lost cause I just want to help him enjoy this life to the fullest. Your videos have been so helpful I thank you❤

Thanks a lot for sharing your experience. Wish you all the best!

your channel is a blessing for me, bcoz when you are working with your child and doing different things your mind wears but listening to you makes my mind relaxed

Thank you for sharing this experience, My son is 4 and trying to learn as much as possible to help him as much as I can. ♥️♥️♥️ sending prayers and blessings to your family ♥️

I cried watching this too! I can’t thank you enough for these videos. I discovered your channel last Friday and hearing from someone who understands is immense. Thank you!! Our little girl is currently awaiting diagnosis. It’s a whole new world, Unchartered lands, limited support... emotions I can’t even process yet! This is a huge help. Thank you.

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

Han the Homemaker sending you a huge hug I know this bit is the hardest bed once you get a diagnosis there is so much you can do but this bit is a bit like limbo. Always here if you need to chat x

I love every second of this video and I can relate to everything you just said. I have a 4 year old son who recently has be diagnosed with autism and although I have learned so much so far about autism world I know there is still so much for me to learn. So thank you for making those videos and giving me the opportunity to learn more about this whole crazy thing 😁 You are a true inspiration. 🤗 from another autism parent Xx

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

thank you x sending you a big hug x

Absolutely needed this video at this moment. Thank you

This is an awesome video. My son has autism and is 39 years old. He and I are working on creating a YT channel to talk about our journey. Glad I found this channel because it gave me some quick tips and reminders . . . Thanks for sharing!!! Continue the good work. pw

I have a nine-year-old boy on the Spectrum. I also have boy-girl twins who are 6 year olds and are also on the Spectrum. I genuinely really look forward to your videos, I see you as an inspiration and I'm quite thankful.

Love this video. Golden nuggets of advice, delivered with such eloquence. What I take from these videos and see is the Love, compassion, commitment, humour, vulnerability, honesty and your never give up attitude that you have and it inspires me and almost certainly is helping and inspiring others. I look forward to next weeks episode. ❤️

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

love you mama x

Thank you so much for sharing. I feel less alone when I'm awake at night with my son since I've been watching your videos. He's 2 and going through the no sleeping phase. I know you understand and thanks for your honesty it is truely encouraging.

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

SuperCandi82 thank you so much . Your never alone ❤️

You are just Amazing!!! I’m so glad I found your channel ♥️

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

Sarah Issa thank you for finding us and taking the time to comment x

It’s so inspiring... We Moms will never give up on our kids

I learn from you in every single video, the more I watch the more Iearn to help my son. I am so thankful THANKS FOR KEEPING FILMING! All the love from Spain 🇪🇸💋

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

MARIA DOLORES BELCHI GAZQUEZ thank you so much I will try and keep filming as much as I can x

I cried watching this! Thank you so much I needed this today ❤️

Thank you so much. Hearing you gave me such peace of mind. I have been crying the past few days feeling exhausted and drained and confused. I am new to this and still having a hard time getting past the feelings of guilt and sadness. But this video gave me a sweet, light feeling. Thank you. Much love! ❤️

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

sending you so much love its going to be ok x

It is such a blessing to watch this video. My goodness... You are so lucky that there is help support and love for the special children. I for one find this very very hard because I am a solo father of 4 children and 2 of them are autistic. Unfortunately, the mother of my children left our family for another man who can supply her with plenty of money. She left our family I think she is ashamed of the fact that 2 of our beautiful angels are autistic. I can only wish there was support or a special system for special children like my poor autistic boys. Is there a group of parents that I can reach out to for teachings and support in raising my autistic boys? watching this video brings tears to my eyes as a solo father caring for my children. I never thought I would ever speak in such a way of heartbreak.

Thank you so much for all your tips and suggestions. Every time i watch a new video from you i feel more informed and inspired to push and encourage my son. Much love 💗 Thank you so much 💗

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

Blue Bunny this makes me so happy thank you x

What a wonderful video! Thank you 🙏🏻 so much ❤

YOU ARE AMAZING! I appreciate!!!!!!! It’s ok to cry! My son is 6 and is autistic and I push push and push him! We pray together and we keep it moving! I have my nights were I cry, but I wipe them tears and I say (fatman) THATS his nickname 😂! I said we going to be ok! Then I say your going to be Great‼️‼️‼️ period.

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

Jaz Walton and your son is going to be great because he has you in his life x

@brightstar3892

4 жыл бұрын

That nickname is sooo adorable !

@lagemmasims1093

2 жыл бұрын

😂 my 3 year old is autistic as well & his nickname is fat man!

@muradaliqasim

2 жыл бұрын

@@lagemmasims1093hey buddy hows ur son now

Thank you from bottom of my heart...thankyou

WOW!!!! This really spoke volumes to me. My husband and I feel this same way, it is hard at times but we know we have to push our boys to be their best. I too have to catch myself and push them to do things for themselves. Everyday just trying to have a healthy balance in parenting. Great video!

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

thank you x

Oh I would love to hear her speak! I’m going to take these things to heart and try to apply these things.

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

Jana Floyd ros was amazing I’m hoping I will set up another event with her soon x

I'm only halfway through this and I love your advice! My daughter is about to be a year and a half and not diagnosed yet but I have that gut feeling as a mother. Thank you for this!

@ComingHometoAutism

Жыл бұрын

You are so welcome!

I have always had high expectations for my son since always even before starting to show delays in his speech etc and I definitely agree with Ross... I feel that it has been a very important factor in His improvements now and I keep challenging him and pushing boundaries. I will recognise it is exhausting, you might feel sad or discouraged when you push to hard or doesn’t get the outcome you wanted but time will proved you did the right thing as it might not work the first time, first couple of time but will pay off later. Never give up if it doesn’t always go well. Cry all you need, sleep on it, stop for a while, rethink it and try again as often as you need. Thanks for sharing, knowing these advices come from an autistic person reassure me that I’m doing the right thing. Many thanks.

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

Andrea Ollarves thank you for sharing I totally agree with you x

Love love love your videos ❤ Thank you for making these videos 🙂

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

Annum Batool thank you so much x

This was very encouraging and now I feel ready to take on the day! Thank you 💕

@ComingHometoAutism

2 жыл бұрын

you can do this x

Great video 👍 👏 👌. Thanks for sharing. It requires a different level of patience.

Waiting every Sunday for your video! Thank you again.. :)

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

Eva Filippopoliti thank you so much xox

I am new to your channel but I absolutely love this thanks for being open honest and sharing is helping me a lot

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

Arianna Stockton thank you so much x

Very true! Thank you so much for sharing😊

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

thank you x

I loved watching this with my husband! It was really helpful. We definitely feel less alone now! Thank you for that!

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

Growing Jesse thank you and so happy you watched this with your husband that’s awesome x

@AshleyLaine

4 жыл бұрын

@@ComingHometoAutism I've got him a little hooked on you guys, he can relate a lot to your husband and I think it really helps him too!

I love this video! There is no way you can walk away from it without feeling really encouraged :)

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

Vanessa Ardan thank you so much xx

Thanks for your videos.

Thank you x

I needed this. Thank you.

"Do things WITH me, don't do things for me." Amazingly helpful reminder! Very much appreciate what you shared here today. Thank you!

Omg u r an angel I recently found ur channel my son is 5 today I let him put on his pants by himself and he dd it I been watching ur videos and following what u r saying in a week I swear a lot of changes I see thank u soo much ❤️🙏

I agree a 100% with the high expectations or any kind of expectations …. I have seen NT children have so many shortcomings and parents just naturally keep pushing and trying…. We also have to be comfortable to push boundaries

Thank you!!

Thank you!!! 🙏🏽

thank you this is what i needed to hear right now.

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

Deqa Osman Thank you for taking the time to comment sending you a big hug

Great advice..

My dad was a police officer and my childhood was like being in the military I hated it He scared quite many boyfriends away I never wanted to parent like this NEVER! NOW HERE I am with an Autistic boy 😂 I am truely a drill Sargeant myself I keep giving him a hard time because I see the difference For strangers I seem cruel because they don't understand him being Autistic I haVe gained soo much Grey hair, cry so many nights Believe me I don't like for treeting him like this But this message from Rose helps my heart to be lighter Kisses from Germany

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

Heike Hollas sending you love. And your son probably love drill sergeant and loves the routine of everything x

Thank u so much for motivation

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

thank you for watching x

Thanks again.. Your videos give me strengh.. Kisses from Greece..

Thank you!

I saw Roz Blackburn some 12 yrs ago and actually surprised me that she was still in Nappies and I asked Her carer I f I could talk to her and she said Yes so I went up to her and I totally threw her she was totally Lost so as I could see she was floundering I decided just to say how much I enjoyed her talk! well put together and rehearsed till she has got the talk down to perfection but anything else will throw her out of kilter a very nice women very inspirational we were invited to her talk as part of a professional conference, talk was really interesting.

Thank you 🌹

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

xxxx

very helpful video i really do challenge my daughter alot .. i hope not too much but it has always helped her being patient is hard and doing the little things with them is even harder but step by step every thing is possible thank you Tara for your videos

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

thank you for watching x

I love your videos! Thank you for sharing

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

thank you so much

Thank you for all these information. I will direct my kids' parents to your channel** (I am a paediatric resident hopefully someday a developmental paediatrician) and let them see how other parents cope with autism

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much xox

Very true, i know there are limits but i truely believe my son who is also ASD will have challenges and will have to learn how to make things work for him but he can and will. I do a lot from him but i also believe pushing those limits.

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

absolutley xox big hugs and love to you x

That was so inspiring dear.Thanks

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

thank you x

Goosebumps

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

hugs x

Thank u so much

Oh pls never stop making videos!! I learn so much from you! Your the best mom 🙌😘

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

thank you so much this honestly keeps me going x

You’re such a blessing ❤️❤️❤️

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

Madam Luis honestly thank you so much xo

@valm.0

2 жыл бұрын

Totally

Ros sounds amazing 💕 is she on Twitter? I think all asd parents could keep learning as just when we think we have it all sussed..... something comes and pushes us back to square one again. I have started to realise we need to help our son how to handle situations and how he copes/reacts is something we are working on every day! Keep being the fab advocate Tara! ❤️

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

Kay Bennett hey love no she isn’t . She doesn’t even have a mobile phone. I’m going to try arrange another event with her next year though soon. So I will let you know x

Thanks for sharing this video with is tara

@ComingHometoAutism

2 жыл бұрын

My pleasure 😊

Thank you for your videos. Today is one of the days where I woke up defeated, and thinking that thing are never gonna progress for my kid. Now I feel that there is hope, and ready to work on it again

Great video. I totally agree and my son is 3 he come to me for biscuits he has to look at me for one and we working on words. I also agree with not doing things for them but with them and also words my husband is the one to much language. I listen to a guy with autism he amazing. Thank you for making these videos XX will share and will put a link in my next video as doing play lost on communication x . Michelle

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

Michelle Townsend thank you so much Michelle x

I so glade I ran across your video the way I felt my heart melted I a single mother for two my daughter is older then my son by 11 months my son has ASD and ADHD he’ll be 4 in a couple of days just watching your videos gave me so much hope because these last couple of days have been trying for me I talked and cried to my family but I still feel like they just don’t understand because it’s not there child to to see you with your so gave me so much more hope for me and my son it just hard at this point my kids are so close and they both need attention and sometimes my son requires more attention and my daughter react well and by them being practically the same age it’s hard for her to understand is there advice you can give me thank you in advance

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

Triple K Royal Family first of all i want to give you a huge hug and tell you what an awesome job you are doing! Wow your incredible . This is hard for you right now as your babies are close and your on your own. Your son can he go to a specialist nursery setting and I’m guessing school next September. If you have anyone that can help during the day so they can take either your son or your daughter so you can spend some one on one time with them? If you son like iPads or tv don’t feel guilty letting him play on mums phone while you cuddle play with your daughter . This helped me with Dylan and luca when luca was younger. I’m sorry I’m probably not much help but just sending you love xox

@kavonadeberry7177

4 жыл бұрын

This was very helpful thank you so much so inspirational I appreciate the encouragement you gave me 💪🏽 ❤️

Inspirational!

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

Robin ❤️

Very interesting video as you know I am now 18 with ASD I am not mute I have over places we’re I struggle my sister is only just starting to talk to strangers at 12 she has really struggled and the lady who delivered the speech you spoke about is so right you do have to keep pushing your child because we live in a world we’re we have to adapt to everyone els to get a job and be successful xx

@oliviaann5535

4 жыл бұрын

And humour is very important.

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

yes it is x

Casually crying at this (ON my partner account) I'm a mam with a son who's in the middle of diagnosis and they said we wouldn't see an improvement in him till between 6-11 but Ros seems so inspiring :)

@ComingHometoAutism

Жыл бұрын

❤️sending hugs d

I have autism and my child might have autism 😫 i just found out a year ago and I’m learning how to take care of myself the best way.

I have twins with autism im home every day taking care of everything

Good deeds 🙌💯

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

xxx

So easy for people say it but so hard when you do it all by yourself

My son Noah was diagnosed at 3 with ASD and ADD, he is now a few months from his 5th birthday. Raising him will be the hardest thing I'll ever do in my life, I have anxiety and depression that is revolved around his future. I never think about the present, I worry about how long this phase will last or if it will ever get better. I get stuck in a funk often because of Autism and i'm not afraid to admit that it is hard to handle as a mother. I didn't sign up for this. WHY am I a special needs mom? WHY me? WHY my son? I have a lot of questions. I struggle to live in the moment and find things that I can do with my son. I frequently do things like dressing and feeding for him because it is faster than letting him do it himself. I am in Florida USA. I just wanted to write a comment cause I stumbled across your channel. I love your calm videos and your accent. Thank you for sharing!

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

i know its hard lovely , and its hard to think of the now and not worry to far ahead in the future. i worry too and its normal and natural . does your son like swimming? try find something you can together and make sure you take some time for you also. i used to think why me too , i was on a totally different career path and i gave it up to help him and to now to help others. in a way its made me a better person and i always say my lows are the lower than others, but the highs are higher than others.. sending you a big hug

@jackielowrey3032

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much 💕 Please keep up with your videos. It helps me so much to hear what has worked for your family. I hope Ros will speak with you on your channel! If she’s uncomfortable you can keep her face out of the frame maybe filming over her shoulder and the video being focused on you? I’m not sure if that would make her more comfortable.

@BestStockStrategy

4 жыл бұрын

Hi. We are in Florida too. Feel free to reach out to my wife on IG at assel_jaffee we have a 3 year old with ASD

It’s the same with any child, the more you do for them, the less independent they become. I was always determined to create an independent and self sufficient child, but having an autistic child has thrown a spanner in the works, I’ve definitely had to adjust my expectations, but I’m still determined for him to become independent. I feel like it’s the role of a father to make sure the mother is not too much of a soft touch and to ensure the child is still challenged regularly.

@Vgallo

Жыл бұрын

@Alexander Mike what was your sone diagnosis before treatment and how old was he? I’m definitely interested to hear more

Best advice

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

xox

It's very demanding role but worth it x

I am a mother and I have autism. I agree with the essence of all of this, but with a big caveat that hasn’t been acknowledged in the comments here: If everything is new, it’s too much at once. The example of slowly increasing the requirements to be allowed outside is a good one. That’s at home in a familiar environment. But once you start talking about new places and new people, it’s so easy to go too far at once. To someone who doesn’t have autism, it may seem reasonable that “kids need to learn to go new places” so they need to be just brought places. But I’d suggest making sure lots of other things stay the same when that happens. Make sure familiar people are around, that your kid is wearing familiar comfy clothing, and so on. The last time I was at the dentist (which normally isn’t a problem for me) I had a new hygienist who used a different type of scaling tool, I sat in a different chair, something wet touched my face, and the sounds around me seemed different… it was too many changes at once. I could have handled one or two of those changes, but I had to stop the appointment. A kid in my situation (with autism, maybe without) could easily have had a screaming crying fit, without anyone knowing why because those changes weren’t so obvious to anyone else. Teach kids to try new things at the pace they can manage. These parents talking proudly about pushing their kids may be trying to do this already, but it isn’t really clear here and I think it may be hard (for people without autism) to identify what is causing upset some of the time.

When I met Ros some 11 yrs ago she gave a talk and having kids on the spectrum And not knowing what to expect with kids on the spectrum I had a few questions so asked her carer if I could speak to her she said yes of course but when I approached Ros it totally threw her and as I could see as a neural typical I withdrew as she was getting a bit agitated by my presence. I found it intigueing that she could be so able to give a talk yet still be in nappies and not get the concept of toilet training. Now my step children are adults on the spectrum And the youngest being so able in some respects yet so Profound autistically in other respects.

thanks for telling so much about autism, my son is diaganosed with autism 2 day before n i dont know what to do .

@ComingHometoAutism

3 жыл бұрын

Sending hugs ❤️

thanks so much for making those videos. have you done anything different when conceiving or during your 2nd and 3rd pregnancy? can you make a video addressing it?

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

Hanae Chiar I will do. I’m going to address lots of questions for next Sunday’s episode x

@hanaechiar7563

4 жыл бұрын

@@ComingHometoAutism great! thanks dear

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I am from India. My baby is 2 years 4 months old. My child is not responding to the name. I am very stressed because he is autistic and does not respond to the name. If you have a trick, please tell me about the name response...please please please

I have three children with autism ages 13, 19 and 22

I have a topic that I would love for you to touch base on if possible!! I have a 6 year old son name Ayden who was diagnosed at the age of 2. I now have a 3 month old and I see Ayden becoming jealous. Ayden doesn't really like to be around the baby at all so with that being said he gets jealous and isolates himself more than usual..how did Dylan do when his sibling was brought home how did he handle it and how did u deal with bringing a new baby to the house? I wanted to have a sibling for Ayden so he can have a forever best friend but there are times where I feel like I made the wrong decision because Ayden is having such a hard time adjusting that he's not the only child. I would love to hear your story.

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

Jackie Qualls heybthere I will do I’m going to be answering questions next Sunday x

I will NEVER GIVE UP ON GABBY.

Thank you from a granny.

U r great mom plz share good probiotics n supplements

@ComingHometoAutism

4 жыл бұрын

Sidra Sidraimran thank you . I talk about probiotics in my video autism and diet x

M

Mine is 15. She won't use the toilet for number 2. It's tough. I'm trying different strategies. In the interim... Bath and body works has good sales on hand soap hahahahahaha

Did your son do ABA therapy?

My daughter goes quiet on long journeys and acts all tired and wants to sleep when in the van. Other times she can't sit still, driving sooths her.