whoever is reading this, i want you to know it’s okay to not be okay

When you said having high hopes for the video and not feeling it when the day came...I understood that to my core lol. But so happy you gave us this video despite it not feeling perfect, the message behind it was so relatable and I have to remind myself of this sometimes too 💕 Loved the video as usual

Mid-year fatigue, we're all going through it🤞🏽❤ Thank you for always being transparent 🥺

I'm experiencing a big transitional period of my life and now I'm in a farm thousands of miles away from the life I built for myself and hope to return to much stronger and balanced. I feel you. I'm mourning the loss of my old life, while working hard to build a new one. It's not easy and I wish I had more friends around me so I actually connect with adults who know how to connect with other people.

Same here sis 😢 Been really struggling with school lately but I put my trust to Almighty Allah to handle my pain and struggles And I believe you will overcome this period you are in now and May Almighty Allah continue to ease your stress and accept all your duas

The way I clicked out of the video I was watching!!!!😂😂😂 love it here

Such an authentic and relatable video. Honestly, I am tired of seeing aesthetics all the time. Because a day to day life, a true authentic one is never aesthetically pleasing. So I love the video, I love the message, and I love your honesty and authenticity. We all go through tiredness and just feeling like you can’t do anything right. But that’s okay. We are only humans not robots. And we should be okay taking rest and giving ourselves grace and time to go back to our “normal” whatever that looks like.

So grateful you decided to post this! Currently in a similar position! Thank you for sharing 🫶🏽

Hi Tomiwa, thank you for releasing this video. You're truly not the only one feeling this way. I'm sending you lots of hugs. ❤🎉

I honestly love the transparency and honesty that can be found here! cause you're literally me! The clip of your playing with your family was so cuteee to me. their laughs are contagious!

Time and time again, you prove exactly why you're my fave. Thank you for always being as real as you can. I can definitely relate to everything you said in this video. Life really is in ebbs and flows and all we can do is enjoy each one and each season❤

As a creator I really relate. Thank you for sharing Tomiwa. I've been trying to find balance between creating and rest. It's still a work in progress but we'll get there ❤

Thanks for being so real on here Tomiwa❤It takes a lot

Oh Tomiwa!! I can relate to many parts of this video. It’s totally okay to not feel it at the moment. Something that keeps me going is the knowledge that life is in seasons; we appreciate the highs and strive to survive through the lows. May Allah always be there for you and make every season super duper easy ❤ And yeah, this video did exactly what it was supposed to do. Thank you for putting it out, it was real, relatable and wholesome (especially when you were chilling with your cute boys 🥰)

Love that you took a step back to rewind and rest , you deserve it 💕💕

This was so perfectly timed for me. Thank you🤍

Absolutely loved this one, Tomiwa. Very very soothing and just generally lovely. ❤❤

Love this video! I’ve definitely been feeling like this and at times I don’t even know where to start from because of how I’m feeling. But Allah is definitely the best of all planners.

I feel like we going going through the same thing… I woke up this week feeling the same way and I’m glad you should this so I know I’m not the only one ❤

Life isn’t always easy and glamorous and I totally agree, it’s okay to take time off and try to recharge and reset. This was very realistic and authentic and I’m sure a lot of us can relate deeply ✨❤️❤️

Girl I feel you. As a super emotional person I tend to cry a lot. Sometimes for the sake of it. Sometimes because words can’t explain how I feel. Stay strong, we understand. 🤧🙏🏾

More vulnerable videos like this please 😍 love it. Please take care of yourself Tomiwa ❤ this platform needs you!

You’re such a peaceful person Tomiwa❤ this video is so timely and needed!

We love you! This was needed! :)❤

understand how this feels thanks for explaining its ok to turn your disadvantages to your advantages

I could literally cry🥹 the part where you say you’ve been dealing with being in grind mode for weeks then shutting down weeks after, then going back? Wow! I’ve been dealing with that for the longest time and I’ve still not found a solution. It’s so draining Tomiwa. Thank you so much for sharing.

Hiii Tomiwa Happy Thursday Loved today's video and it was so refreshing and relatable, I'm just staying positive day after day. Ever since my mom passed away this year, I've just put on a strong front on the outside but on the inside i'm a terrible wreck. I know that with time everything will get better 🫶🏾♥️🤎

I love, love, loveeee this video… This side of influencers should be shown more often and I admire you for doing that because we as an audience think they’ve got it going when they actually haven’t so I appreciate how authentic you are. I will keep saying this, that you keep making me proud of you every single day. I love you so much Tomi☺❤ and I love that you keep being you and I am very happy to have met you on this journey called life 🥰🥰

I needed this, thank you ❤

Thanks for letting is in on what's going on in your life.. Sending you love ❤

Thank you! all you can be is your authentic self and cultivating built in rest into my daily schedule has been keeping me going more than I know. In shaa Allah you are able to incorporate rest in the best way that works for you

I hope you feel better I just came across your channel and I love it thank you 😍

Hi Tomiwa thank you for sharing this video burnout is a serious thing I felt like this last week and I just had to take a few mental health self care days for myself. I definitely felt the difference. Continue to give yourself grace and rest when you need it.

Appreciate your transparency! We all have low moments and it's okay.

Thank you Tomiwa for sharing your experience, this is life, and your not alone salute you queen. I also agree that I choose peace and balance as well as honoring my strength and weaknesses.

Hi girl, i love the transparncy its not easy take as much time off as you need

Everyone's funk is different but something is def in the airrrr bc i've been in a funkkk oml but we got this and this def motivated to get myself back up

you being vulnerable on camera is definitely great because as viewers, we have this unrealistic expectations when it comes to content creators/influencers🥺❤️

YES! I love you so much tomiwa, thank you for this

Girl trust me, i relate. Sometimes it seems like no matter what I do, I’m not doing my best

dear Tomiwa. Ive watched you for a minute now and honestly what a time, I've gone through some very difficult times with your videos and I could give anything to be for you what you were for me during those times. Im so proud of how far you've came ,it literally feels like you were celebrating 100k not so long ago, then it was 200k. you are doing such an amazing jobs ,I see how you're being intentional about what you say hence the vlogs are getting shorter and honestly I love the growth, I love seeing you evolve as an individual and as a creator , I love seeing what an amazing and thoughtful daughter, sister you are to your family its refreshing, it makes me feel like I'm your little sister and honey I'm all the way in South Africa lol. I say all this to say if you have burn out like you're saying, its completely normal and take all the time you need off social media and posting if that's what you need, I promise we won't hate or forget you because we understand the need for just a minute to feel grounded and just to recharge. EVERTHING WILL ALIGN FOR THE BETTER DONT LOSE HEART babe. and remember that moments of stillness are sometimes Gods way of wanting us to observe and give him honour for all that is here(it could be family, heck it could just be food that you are able to have) You will be better than what you are now, we forever evolve.Rest,maybe God is saying you need that for what he's bringing your way next. but anyway I know you'll figure it out, you always do. I love you so much

@mimikutu

10 ай бұрын

Yeah I needed this as well

@ChiqaLancaster

10 ай бұрын

This is so sweet and honestly made me feel so good and it’s not even about me. You’re amazing Bridget ❤️ and so are you Tomiwa ❤️ Just look at the people you’ve helped us become 🩷🩷

Such a calm video, I love it 🥰

Ooooh bbz 🥹 just yesterday I was telling my sister how much I miss blogging and how much you inspire and motivate me 🥰 However I understand you I’ve been there and you are only human, I really appreciate you shearing your downs as shearing your reality. I hope Allah Always guides you and you feel way more better and motivated too keep being you as we all love 😍

Tomiwa playing with the boys just really shows she’ll be a good mum🥹🥹

As much as i tell myself that i do rest, i lie to myself, i dont know what rest looks like because i dont have time for rest but for everything😢

Sending you lots of positive vibesss 🧡

On a side note, the short/reel you were editing is one of my absolute favorite videos of yours (especially 7:29 😂). I’ve seen it manyyy times 🫣 Love it so much 😂😂

Oh tomiwa ,thank you for being honest .Take a break ❤ we will all be here after you come back.Also girl I learnt a lot not only aesthetic parts but the little things ,like your faith ,working hard and taking rest .

exactly this, so annoying these times everybody is just so busy in its heads that its very exhausting, no one is accepted unless yhet bring something to the table instead of being at peace on a daily

Awwn Tomiwa I’m not gonna say too much, but I hope and pray you feel better and that Allah give you the strength to do whatever you need to do. Take ur time and know that as a fellow follower I will be here waiting for u whenever and that u are very much loved by me 😊❤❤❤

Assalam aleykum siz❤just a small reminder, Allah (SWT) according to the Quran says he created us mankind from clay, so just lyk a clay pot exposed to the outside environ sometimes cracks or even breaks apart, so yh we us humans we bound to break at some point, yes we need a break and step a little closer to Allah for ease, as he says after any hardship comes ease, and yh it was very thoughtful of you to showcase urself on your lowest mode, so that, that one viewer who thinks that life is always smooth well it's not. Anyways inshallah u will be okay, Bi idhni llah 🤲

Can’t wait to watch ❤

We all have these moments. You've been busy. You need rest.

Lately just been super sad and have excessive worrying

I went for a master class, got great footage and some how 2 days later i mistakenly deleted all my footage. Was so sharted since then i dont have courage to pick a camera. Felt like that was my big hit for my channel cos it was so different.. thank you for the motivation Tomiwa 💕

My favorite yayyy!!!🥰💃

Yes girl I'm tired too. 😅I'm about working on taking a nap that will last into the night till tomorrow 😴💤 Nap party in effect!😅

Girl yes to this! The constant check lists and running around is exhausting. We owe our bodies rest. Btw you look absolutely stunning w/o makeup allahuma barik do you have a skincare routine?

We all love you tomiwa ❤❤❤

Love ur vids

Life is a marathon not a race 💯

4:18 just saw tomiwa in those eyes🥺 So cuuuuuute❤

I really felt this , all this fixing to do where do i start 😭

Keep going ❣

I’m here 🥰❤️

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Nice video ❤more of daily life routine 👌

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Have a nap during the day ❤

notification ganggggg🥳

@asiyahimam

10 ай бұрын

Hereeee ❤

You Look Comfy Stay Safe Have A Good Thursday

I really pray Allah eases our affairs.... Please, when are you doing a get to know me vlog for your new subscribers and black youtubers recommendation. Do not rush, just take your time.

Wow im first for the first time 😢

I love your peejays in this video. They are pretty and you are beautiful.

Not me feeling exactly this way throughout this week and I just came online today to see my fav KZreadr talk about the same thing, and the comments section?🥹the girlies are sweet, I’m glad to not be the only one feeling this way. I’ve just been giving myself a lot of grace in this season and learning to do the best I can whilst listening to my body and mind when I need a break.

Watched the ad for you beautiful !! Anything to to show we care💕🥹🫶🏽 Keep going !!

I hope you always remember that you can come on here no matter what state you're in 🤎

Recently I stopped posting content because I’ve just needed a break. This video showed me that it’s okay to take mental breaks. But it’s also a okay to be present at those bad times. I’m so glad you decided to post the video. (It ate anyways lol) Nobody is perfect! 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍

thank you for sharing this and for being so transparent!🤍 i related to this video so much!! finding the perfect balance can be so difficult… thank you for reminding me that it is okay to have an off day/season and that it’s important to dedicate time to recharge and reset! 🤍🤍🤍

Can’t wait to watch ❤

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