You making this video helps me also realize I’m not alone either!

@ChelseaCallahan

Жыл бұрын

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To be honest these are my favorite kind of videos! Totally real life stuff, feels like I'm chatting with a friend. Keep going

@ChelseaCallahan

Жыл бұрын

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Don't hate me or anything, but this is actually a great thing you're experiencing right now. I'm serious. The fact that you have these emotions means that you're growing as a creative person. It means you invest into what you're creating. And you're into what you're doing. This suffering will subdue after a while, it's like a tooth growing - painful and you can't get it out of your mind while it's uncomfortable, but then you end up with one heck of a useful chewing thingy :-) I wish you all the patience and inspiration in the world. And remember - nothing is ever in vain. Good luck, Chelsea!

@ChelseaCallahan

Жыл бұрын

Love this insight, thank you!!

Don’t worry, sweetie. Keep your heart held up high. Do not be embarrassed. You should feel proud. Stay strong ❤ You’re worth it

Thanks for sharing this. From one overwhelmed 30-something woman to another - thanks for making me feel less alone! x

I love your videos and honestly, I like the sitting-on-the-couch vibe better than the office vibe, so good job!!

Hi Chelsea!! I'm from São Paulo, Brazil, and I love to see your videos because is so honest to what is the real life. I'm having a hard week too, actually, this day have been so far full of tears, anxious about the things that I have to do, and I know that is just because I nedd to clear my mind, do things that realxing me, but I cant because I have the other priorities to do hahaha so yeah, I get it. But you know, it will pass. We just have to find how to see things more clearity, because when we are like this is like we are in a very claustrofobic box, and can't see nothing right. Hope your next week be better. And just one more thing, sometimes we know what we want for results in things that we do, but just to get that, we have to just acept that we are in the way, you know? Maybe you only gona get the type of videos that you want if you post the video that you're not 100% satisfied, maybe you gonna learn something only after you post it. You know? You are great, dont push youself to much. Big hug, Fernanda.

@ChelseaCallahan

Жыл бұрын

Much love to you 🤗 thanks for you wisdom and for watching. Hope you feel better soon too!

I just started a new channel and a coach said just put videos out there even if they don't feel quite "ready". I, too, am a perfectionist but found that I was avoiding starting the channel for a couple of years (!) because I don't have a camera, fancy editing software, etc. I completely understand the overwhelm of trying to pursue a creative endeavor on top of a job, taking care of yourself, cleaning, maintaining relationships (and music, for me). Keep going, you're doing a great job!

@ChelseaCallahan

Жыл бұрын

We’re all in the together 🤗

thank you so much for sharing this :") i had my first break up a few months ago, i also graduated at that time so it's been months for me to be jobless, everything feels so painful and i do everything inefficiently due to my mental health rn, life feels so hard i only able to express my emotion by crying at night before sleep, that's the only time where i don't have to pretend i'm fine in front of my family, it's such a light to find a channel that shares this unpopular side of life :") please keep going

I love how you are just you. I've had a horrible couple of days and now I don't feel alone. And I smiled. Several times. That lighter looks like it would hurt.

Hey Chelsea! I just found your channel today (while I was trying not to have a meltdown at work) and I subscribed after 1 video cause I think you are such a lovely and relatable person. :) I have been watching your videos throughout the day and I love your content. :) And you know what, it kind of makes me feel a lil' bit better about my life here on the other side of the world because what you mentioned in your previous videos about the idea of NYC - that lots of people imagine it like we see it SATC and other movies and series - it is actually a relief that that is not the case so I can stop craving after something that doesn't even exist - for most people anyways. Also, it is interesting to see people having the same struggles that far away and it is great to see someone that shows us the reality no matter what it looks like. By the waaay I should be working right now but I'm totally writing this comment for my stupid little mental health cause I think it does more for me thank working haha. *insert nervous laugh Remember, perfection is the enemy of good.

@ChelseaCallahan

Жыл бұрын

Hi!!!! So glad you found my channel. Sending you all my good vibes! I love that you’re prioritizing your mental health 💪🏻 take care!

I DID need this. I wish it came a few days ago when I had my own meltdown 😂😅 Continued mixed feelings of guilt, conflict, pressure, embarrassment, stress, shame + frustration, maybe bit of stubbornness, anxiety, feeling selfish, like a bad person. I broke down in tears in a library 🤣 I laugh about it now but it was difficult in the moment. I felt like I had to go through it though, I'm not one to hold stuff in, even in public. I'm really glad that I'm not the only one. I sit with a cuppa as well and do what I need to do to calm no matter how long it takes before I move forward. Mental health first. Can't do shit if that's not taken care of first. You keep it so real. Thank you for being brave to show your vulnerability. Not everyone can do that, but I admire it and needed to see it happens to other people too. Love from Sydney 💖

@ChelseaCallahan

Жыл бұрын

I love how you let it all work through you until it’s gone! It’s SO easier said than done. Thanks for sharing your experience, it helped me to know I’m not alone too. Sending hugs to you for a better week 🤗

Watching during a tough week in the future. 💜

@ChelseaCallahan

7 ай бұрын

Sending hugs 💜💜

Your videos are so real and raw and important (to me anyway). I'm moving to NY in a few months and so I began looking for KZreadrs who could offer insight into what to expect - you were a recommendation from a friend. But as my KZread algorithm has learned my interest in NY guides, I'm being suggested really problematic KZread channels. People who are offering objectively bad advice, spend most of the time 'presenting' in shopping Chanel hand movements or just promoting the worst kind of things. Your videos are comforting and interesting, but (as much as one could discern from KZread) so warm and honest. Means a lot and this video was really reaffirming as I can relate. I'm an editor and it can be super isolating sometimes. Anyway. All the best energy to you!

@ChelseaCallahan

Жыл бұрын

Thanks so much for such a kind message! Good luck on your move ✨✨✨

You're amazing Chels!

Thanks Chelsea ❤

I broke down last week. imposter syndrome+ non stop pressure + increasing responsibilities = meltdown. thank you for sharing your experience

All you need is good tea and sarcasm... life is life.

@ChelseaCallahan

Жыл бұрын

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Bless you, I really do enjoy your vids, what ever you post, I will watch any vids you post, you are stressing yourself out for nothing, your vids are great, keep doing what you are doing, we all get overwhelmed and you are doing a fanatic job with everything cheers

@ChelseaCallahan

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching!! My stress is valid though but I appreciate the support 🤗

I actually needed this video. I’ve never had such a bad 2 weeks right around Christmas and into new years. Thank you for this

@ChelseaCallahan

Жыл бұрын

Sending you good vibes ✨✨✨

@shoktrupz3219

Жыл бұрын

@@ChelseaCallahan Thank you. It helps. I’m glad your videos hit my feed. I subscribed for sure

I just came upon your channel a few weeks ago. I feel there’s a script or a book or a dramatic sitcom that can come from this. Or maybe that’s already in the works. Keep it up.

Hello Chelsea I can relate to every single moment of this video. Sending you my best wishes.

@ChelseaCallahan

Жыл бұрын

Sending you my best wishes too 🤗

No need for perfection. Just be who you are. Also...do t be so hard on yourself....no matter what, there is SOMEONE SOMEWHERE in this world that has it worse than you. I always tell myself that! 😊

You are a beautiful human being you’ve got this I promise….

I am having the same week. Im going to cancun and I just got my aunt visiting.... Thanks for this video, your like a big sis I needed.

@ChelseaCallahan

Жыл бұрын

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Moving to New York soon and these videos have been so crazy helpful at calming my anxiety, but weirdly this one just hits. On the oof , anxiety is anxiety level. Anywho. Yeah. Thanks for the anxiety solidarity content.

@ChelseaCallahan

Жыл бұрын

Good luck on your move! Anxiety solidarity for life

I get these often to so its good to share hugs

The stress as a content creator is real. I had to record a video for work and after 5th try I decided to just use the last take lol and people enjoyed it even though I wasn't a fan of it (good ended up being better than perfect). Wishing you all the best 💫

@ChelseaCallahan

Жыл бұрын

you understand!! you're so right, sometimes it's best to just get out of our own way. Wishing you the best too, have a great week!!

I know this video is older, but I am in this exact spacd right now. I am going overseas for the first time in 2 weeks, I might be going to school in Europe in the fall, I owe on taxes, I have a teaching English as a foreign language volunteer job....it just goes on and on. Too many new things. Good things but too much. I have zero life support and I'm nearing 40. I have no idea what to do. It happens though and we just have to self soothe and get through it.

Very honest…very authentic 😊

Don't overthink ;)

Sh*t like getting stuck in the elevator happens to me all the time --- I just joke or I'm a complete smartass about it. I don't really care if ppl are offended, but it's nice to get a laugh at the situation. At least for me.

I appreciate your videos!

@ChelseaCallahan

Жыл бұрын

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Like everyone i also feel glad that i found you... Especially wen i am feeling yhe the same

You Rock!!!

I support you whichever way you go. If you have to drop a few things (including YT (yeah, I care about you that much 😢)) for a season, then please do it. I believe you would still do great even if you came back to some of your to-do lists later. On the other hand, if you have set your mind to really grow as a creative and these tough times are just the motions of doing that, then I encourage you to keep-going, this pain is how growth looks like💪... Basically, I think you should choose a few priorities, maybe three or four maximum- and say no to the rest. And its not a rude NO, it's like "Not now, I will come back to you later sweeties" kind of no, if you can understand me (lol). Whatever that means to you...and whether that means to YT or not to YT. Oh, and one last thing- you sound like you need some *true friendship* at this time in your life. Do you have that? I hope you have someone that makes you feel very understood, that can be the difference between a manageable (or lovely) day and an unbearable one. Cheer up Chelsea, sending hugs from afar 💌

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We know you are going to kick butt. PS Have you tried that Tajin seasoning on avocado? Lol You got this!

@ChelseaCallahan

Жыл бұрын

No I haven’t!! Only on watermelon and mango… thanks for the tip!

Have you read "What I Talk About When I Talk About Running"? It seems right at the intersection of your interests!

This video reminds me so much of myself. 😵‍💫

What was that cool blue-light thing that you did at 3:43?

If your apt is so dark...can't you get some lights?? That might help! Cheer up your videos are great

You have an innate gift. You are a natural for KZread. I think🤷‍♀️ Your numbers don’t lie. 700 comments ! Have you considered posting a video without editing? Side note: You mentioned Neil degress tyson( spelling)??? And said if you don’t know him you are living under a rock. Maybe explain why he is interesting . Also that analogy of the sunset in NYC and Stonehenge I didn’t really understand. I’ve only been to one and it wasn’t in NYC.

Your vids are BETTER than Taylor Bell's and and your channel posseses wayyyyyyy more character. Now i know you prolly want to relax with your family right now but if you record some of your trip....just some....it would be great 🎉great to start 2024.

I like your videos. But I think you should leave some space between your sentences. If I'm not wrong, your editing out the silences. Please don't do that because it turns the video into one long nonstop sentence. Gives me a headache

@ChelseaCallahan

Жыл бұрын

sorryifidon'tdoitthenithurtsmyaudienceretention. noneedtowatchmyvideosiftheygiveyouaheadache!

@CatherineShoresHMN

Жыл бұрын

@@ChelseaCallahan😂