There is absolutely nothing wrong with being an introvert. It is not a character flaw that needs correcting, in itself it is simply a personality trait which makes you who you are

@TarkMcCoy

2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely true! However as an introvert, I find it leaves a LOT of room for personality disorders to rattle around in.

@SweetChicagoGator

2 жыл бұрын

We absolutely need the balance of introverts and extroverts to make the globe continue to rotate in this galaxy. 💓

@SweetChicagoGator

2 жыл бұрын

@@TarkMcCoy No Shark ! Personality disorders have nothing to do with being an introvert. Becoming an introvert is the direct cause of modern society, friend, family, coworkers, etc; to inflict him pain/suffering that drove him to become an introvert. I am a good balance of both with 3 personality disorders. 🤣🥴😁

@TarkMcCoy

2 жыл бұрын

@@SweetChicagoGator I'd say that's backward; introversion/extroversion is more intrinsic (Big 5 model), and personality disorders are more from the influence of society on the individual.

@scottydoo1985

2 жыл бұрын

I love Susan Cain’s book, Quiet, The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking

I've had almost that exact conversation with my fiancee about needing time to prepare for a social event, and if something comes up out of nowhere it's really stressful for me. I have that same kind of guilt for not participating in social events as much as I could. It's honestly great to hear someone who has that same experience as me, I don't feel like I hear people talking about that, it's good to be reminded I'm not alone.

@lisam2496

2 жыл бұрын

There's a lot of us. I'm not the type who likes the spotlight.. I'm ok with a bunch of people but it took a long time to feel that way. I think as people grow oIder and wiser, you give less of a damn what people think of you 😄. I was always kind of shy. I had friends throughout my school years and college years but besides living with 4 other people in an apartment off campus. I usually always had just one friend. My bestie since 8th grade unfortunately took a jump onto the conspiracy theory and extremism side, and I can no longer relate to her.

@thayerwilliams905

2 жыл бұрын

I'm one of those people. I think we don't hear many of us sharing because we're all hiding out at home, not answering that text or phone call lol

@NickSanders-zf1if

Жыл бұрын

Jesus loves you 🪩🎉🖼😍🎈🪅🎁🥰🧩🤭♥️🎨🎮🎭🪁🪀🏅

@bettina4374

24 күн бұрын

Great, you are describing me. Always thought there is something wrong with me bc I don’t want to go out and meet people all the time. I am not asocial, I enjoy time with others but I also need time at home. I am introverted.

@bettina4374

24 күн бұрын

That helped me a lot. Thx

As an introvert I feel the same way about parties. I've actually been grateful for the covid lockdowns...it's been nice to not be invited to things.

@NickSanders-zf1if

Жыл бұрын

Jesus loves you 🎭🎨♥️🥰🎈🎉♠️🪀🏆🧸♦️🎁🪅🪩

I, too, am an introvert, but fortunately no a depressive. Having been raised in Europe by Europeans, I never felt any pressure to be outgoing until I moved to the Uk when I was a teen. Initially I tried to fit in, but after working in Europe in my 20s, I realised I needed to be me and not be a people pleaser.

@elin_

2 жыл бұрын

UK is in europe

@shuttzi9878

2 жыл бұрын

@@elin_ Its not anymore

@elin_

2 жыл бұрын

@@shuttzi9878 it is. UK is a part of the continent Europe. It was EU they left.

@helenayamez

2 жыл бұрын

I think the point Ely Jane is making is that in other countries of Europe there isn't such social and peer pressure to fit into prescribed social groups, that the individual is respected more not vilified as they can be here in the UK hence the high rates of bullying here, for example. I think maybe being an introvert in other parts of Europe doesn't have such a stigma attached to it and people are less judgey. I don't know, maybe this needs a research project. All I do know is that unfortunately when it comes to people, the longer I'm living in the UK, the less I'm liking it.

@rosenjoroge9373

Жыл бұрын

Id like to experience places where people go about their business without focusing on people's personalities or weaknesses.

Even growing up I've always loved being alone. When we would move and we moved a lot, id choose a tree in the yard and it was MY special place to be alone.

Your observation that extraversion is rewarded and introversion is viewed as something undesirable that needs changing, is so simple yet so profound. It totally is the reason why we introverts suffer so much psychologically. When you rid yourself of that notion that is when you become free. I wish I'd done it earlier in life. It happened for me in my late forties when I just didn't have the energy to pretend anymore and realised that if you act more sociable than you are then it keeps backfiring on you because your friends don't get why you don't want to be out every night of the week. I've been dropped because of this. So much better to just be yourself from the get go. Less pressure, more balance, more truth = more happiness. Great video Kyle, thank you 😊 🙏

Hi Kyle. Thank you for opening up and sharing your mental health journey. The more people realize they're not alone; the more likely they'll seek help if warranted. I'm a introvert but never had problems accepting myself because even as a very small child I knew that's who I am. All through school I never fit in with the popular or party crowd. I've always been a outsider. Now that I'm entering middle age I feel the need to socialize a little more but it's still limited. One thing that I've always said to myself is I don't want to be like other people. I'm me and if that means missing out on a lot of good times; I'm OK with that.

@josephmurphy159

2 жыл бұрын

Who defines wot are GOOD times!?....being in a nightclub with a 100 people the majority of them getting pissed and making fools of themselves, then you have the hangover....or being in the present moment walking thru the woods by yourself can be more inspiring especially if your senses are alert...... following the sheep just TO FIT IN and feel accepted is not the way!!.....we are all UNIQUE that means living your life YOUR WAY, NOT THEIRS!!

@NickSanders-zf1if

Жыл бұрын

Jesus loves you

Being depressed is a huge struggle for people like me. I was depressed and lonely for 3 years now and no good things never happened to me for once. Nothing. I do have families and friends that I always care about honestly. But there is one special puzzle piece that I need in my life which is still out there for me and it's really hard to find. Most artists, gamers and everyone else has one but not me. it's just not fair these days for me. They have a special puzzle piece in their life everyday but not me. I still don't know what the last puzzle piece means for me and trying to solve it. Right now, nothing turn up for me yet. I'm just a unhappy artist and gamer online who is trying to do better for myself and still trying so hard to do so. No good things never happened to me when your lonely. I still enjoy helping people and my friends today.😞

I feel this way socially and in my career. Love helping people and I also love being/ having my own independent work space... and working at home. 😩🙏🏾❤️

@SweetChicagoGator

2 жыл бұрын

Hallelujah for Independence and working for oneself ! Be careful trusting others and handing out loans cuz they think that you are independently wealthy being self-employed. They will try to use you !! 🥴 I know I got hit for two mortgage loans by two different families.

I am moderately introverted, and have dysthymia and generalised anxiety. What I have found supportive is being in tune with the patterns of my mind and body, and practising self-compassion as much as possible. I also find it helpful to extend compassion and kindness towards other people (friends, family, strangers, animals). Even if I’m alone, lonely and feeling lousy and lethargic, I can still wish people well silently, because they are human beings like me and may be going through known and unknown hardships like me. When I do that, there’s often a feeling of release and peace in my mind and body, and a sense of connectedness.

hi. I'm Japanese living in Tokyo, and I think Tokyo is introvert heaven. of course , there are many people who loves to meet people but many of us don''t. Is that why so many Americans come here and feel difficulty ? they say they suffer unbearable loneliness. They seem to see this is a social problem that Japan has to solve. But to me as introvert this solitude saving my life literally.

@shahriard8278

Жыл бұрын

One of my wishes is to travel to Tokyo. Im mostly introverted too. Most of the time.

Hi dear. I was also diagnosed with depression very early and later on with BPD. I'm also an introvert and have been struggling with social interaction right now. It feels like a job!! I truly understand that feeling of forcing yourself out of the house and into socialization. It is really hard to live like this: forcing yourself to do things you don't want, but you know you have to, if you don't want to get severely depressed.

I can totally relate to you. I know I'm an introvert and have very deep depression. In fact the past few days have been a nightmare and I don't even see the logic of continuing this painful existence any longer.

@lukel909

2 жыл бұрын

Others in the comments are probably feeling silimar. I have in the past. Do you want to talk about it?

@lisam2496

2 жыл бұрын

I hope you seek some help. There's real potential for you to feel better even though it may not feel that way to you at the moment. Therapy and possibly medication can help lift you out of your deep depression. It's hard for you to get beyond the oppressive feeling that you want to escape your current reality, but please know there's always hope and there's value in trying. If you have family who you have a good relationship with, please reach out and let them find help for you if you're unable to do it for yourself. You matter, you're valuable and there is help.*hugs*

@lukel909

2 жыл бұрын

@UC4VZCJ6_vw5IYHplGCpkKCg That’s a LOT to deal with, i’m sorry. Glad to hear you have some okay days and I hope things get better for you. they eventually did for me it, took time. I started cycling when I was depressed but it got so bad one day I picked my bike up and threw it into the woods. Not my proudest moment. But good work coming off the medication as that might help on your journey to getting better. You really do seem like a great person. and I hope your situation improves and you start to feel better. Don’t apologise for long replies, write as much as you want. 😊

@serin7318

Жыл бұрын

Where I have been dipping in and out of recently

@alexandrugheorghe5610

Жыл бұрын

Psilocybin can help with deep seated depression

I am an introvert and still trying to figure out how to navigate the workplace. I accept myself, but know that there are many out there who may rush to negative judgment. I always feel like the weirdo of the workplace because I don't seek out social interaction much, lol. Think I should have gone into computers...knew my dad was onto something!

@lukel909

2 жыл бұрын

I fully understand the “weirdo” feels. You won’t feel like the weirdo forever, some people accept and are drawn to quieter, more thoughtful people. Loud and outgoing is not everyone’s thing.

@sys9208

2 жыл бұрын

I can understand that.

@Poorstargazer23

2 жыл бұрын

Do you ever feel like you accomplished a milestone of social interaction/meaningful friendship with someone only to realize it's a normal nothing sort of interaction for them because they are extroverted 😅💀

You are speaking to the choir here lol. My husband and I are introverted. Our relationship work because we understand each other.

I thought it was only me that had those thoughts about needing to prepare for time out with other people.

I was so confused with my condition, very helpfull thank you, and specially for Dr. Ramani such a wonderful person !

Your impersonations around minute 12:02 had me in stitches. I watched this from England where I live. Thanks for your good work Kyle. I particular hate commuting to work on trains. The noise and strangers so close to me I find heavy going

I really love this live session! Your great personality is shining through even more. I needed to hear this, I've been asking myself if I'm depressed and introverted or if I'm introverted because I'm depressed lol

This is now my favorite video of you Kyle!! Excellent, awesome and much needed introspection sharing 💕💕💕💕 I loved it! And I loved Iris Hernández's quote (hope you can confirm it later). Thanks!!

Epic. Being alone without being lonely is awesome.

Always informative and very entertaining, thanks for all the effort you put into this Kyle.

here is my youtube entry!!!! ive loved med circle so much you guys have helped me for the past 2 years!!!!!!

When i get really stressed over things people say ot do especially if they are mean and cruel, i run. I have to. I have to be in nature and or just drive. I have to be alone and am ok being alone for hours or days

I was on vacation with my two introvert friends and they were so introvert that they actually never met each other, and barely met me, because each of us had completely different activities.

Hey Kyle! Well, I really like your videos , and this one was helpful and interesting as well. Thanks to all MedCircle team!

I haven’t felt uneasy, guilty, frustrated, or imperfect being an introvert. I am at peace being as I am, an introvert with the dx of BPD. I have learned a great deal from watching Med Circle. The information is valuable and very interesting for those learning of psychology and also learning about their particular dx. Thanks for being honest and open regarding your dx of depression. I can identify I experienced that many years ago. Presently I’m learning what I can about BPD. Thanks Kyle 💖

@SweetChicagoGator

2 жыл бұрын

Coincidentally, even though I am combination extrovert & introvert. I have been suffering from BPD since I was a child growing up in an absentee alcoholic single parent home. I felt very abandoned & that is why I identify so strongly with BPD and the abandonment issue component of it.💔 Best of luck with your BPD. 🙏🙂

@nettle8605

2 жыл бұрын

@@SweetChicagoGator I relate. I also consider myself an ambivert, also diagnosed with BPD. Chronic social pulling and pushing makes it difficult to fully relate to either introversion or extroversion. Best of luck to all of you, too.

@SweetChicagoGator

2 жыл бұрын

@@nettle8605 I shared this episode with a friend of mine who says she is an introvert because she seems to attract the worst of the worst ! LOL ! In my opinion, ambiverts are the happiest or most content cuz they can vacillate from one side to the other. 🙂👍 Best wishes to you as well !

Hey Kyle. I just want to thank you for your videos. They have been incredibly helpful and supportive. (And you’re funny!) I look forward to more videos. Take care, everyone!

Awesome podcast! Thank you for sharing your experience with us. Your honesty is refreshing. I think I am becoming an introvert with age, loving & needing it. I cannot be around too many people for too long. I enjoy my space & just being with my dog for some quiet time and reflection. Thank you 🙏

I suffer from PTSD and anxiety and depression. I went thru so many tramas and abuse as a child and growing up.

@alexandrugheorghe5610

Жыл бұрын

You're not alone. I suffer from CPTSD, extreme anxiety, depression and dissociation. Here's for the more damaged of us.

I can relate to your experience. Thank you for sharing your journey. I needed to hear this today.

Hi Kyle! I totally hear ya! I don't know if you checked out Susan Cain's book "Quiet" but its a great book that made me feel good about my introversion. I think it's wonderful what you are doing on this channel. I think your nine year old self would be proud of you.

Amazing video, Kyle. Thank you!

Hi Kyle Thank you for this video and all the helpful videos.This is where I discovered the amazing Dr. Ramani who has been a wonderful help to me

When the pandemic hit, and I walked out on the street, and no one was there...it was like a dream come true. I'd been praying for that for years. Introversion is the mystical path. The inner-life is shunned in society, because most people don't have anything inside them. No inner-dialogue. No ability to reflect, and consequentely, no will of their own. Their thoughts are just other peoples thoughts.

Very insightful and helpful, thanks Kyle!

Hey Kyle. I've been an extrovert since I can remember, however since beginning trauma therapy for narcissistic abuse I've become an introvert; the pandemic enables it. Thank you for a face-to-face chat with a healthy person (you!). I look forward to meeting people like you when I begin stepping back out into society.

Much respect Kyle.

I am an introvert with anxiety and you have really helped me to understand myself, thankyou, much love

Being an introvert is awesome (99% of the time). Depression and learning disabilities suck. I’m an introvert with hidden learning disabilities and this plays into my ever so ups and downs throughout my 38 years of living. If I did not have hidden learning disabilities, there is no doubt that I would have a high end job that would help me bury my head into my work and my life would be more fulfilled. All my jobs I’ve ever had, it’s the same thing where people that have the high end jobs were extroverts that did not put a whole lot of effort into their jobs and then would look at me knowing that I would try harder and could not understand the job like they could and then on top of it I was introverted so then it was “man you are one weird person”. I do like to talk to people sometimes, but a lot of times with most people I’m not good because my learning disabilities come into play. Short term memory issues play a part in that. So if people get short with me or I can tell they don’t like me because of something I said or am to quite - then I sometimes get depressed. So now The last 3 years I would say where I’ve learned about there is a thing about being by yourself gives you energy there’s nothing wrong with me on that part. I’ve isolated myself from everyone which is both great and bad - mostly great though. I can’t get hurt this way. But depression does come in every once in a while still. One week life will be great and then the next day I’m like “what’s the point of life”. I think life will be more difficult the older I get.

Well said in every aspect! Thank you and I love your humour!!! ;)

Excellent show!!! I needed to hear this! You are the same as I am.

I think we introverts suffer from depression and anxiety because we are withdrawn in our world and dont communicate with a lot of people. I think the more we connect with people the better for us to disconnect from depression

@emh8861

Жыл бұрын

Depends on the people you meet. Some make you feel worse.

Hi Kyle. I don't want to be an extrovert, I love to be by myself with a good book too.

With what Irene mentioned it's kind of like how Introversion is like your skin and anxiety is the outfit you wear. I myself am an Ambivert and can relate to both introvert and extrovert. Solitude and quiet (subject due to change depending on individuals) is needed but not required everytime while socializing personally on a one on one basis to large groups of 35-100 is invigorating (nerve wracking at times) but thoroughly enjoyed! I have "manned the fort" on solo projects while also running groups of up to 17 for immediate consultation and direction. Currently I'm expanding my profile and projects to a larger scale while starting to take on individuals clients personally. Thank you Mr. Kittleson for being so courageous by opening up about your life and what that entails, such beautiful insight Good Sir. Thank you MedCircle KZread channel for sharing. Don't forget to enter for the giveaway and the healing program by Dr Ramani KZread channel. MedCircle KZread channel provides such incredible support, thank you.

"Nothing else to give" .. perfect! My house is chaotic and I love it, but many times, I love it at a distance. I'm in my room alone. I can hear the fun n energy and I get joy from it. But I'm keeping to myself. I love plants! Lol 😆 the cats are too needy

Kyle !!!!!! You are speaking my language !! Omg ; thank you for this !!

Get excercise and eat healthy that helps,hang with family and friends!

@ExacoMvm

2 жыл бұрын

If you're rich and can hire personal Chef and a Trainer ( or at least buying workout/meal plans from trustworthy athletes ), then yeah I guess it would help. Otherwise it's a hassle and time consuming as healthy meals take way more time to prep and exercise takes time too, but not only that you also need to eat more daily which means more cooking too, otherwise the workout is useless as eating is more important to gain mass + meal plan and workout research ( learning about Omega 3/6 balances, muscle related stuff such as hypertrophy, macros and so on ). Been doing that for around a year after I quit junk food, alcohol and smoking, it very slowly got more and more tiring also my depression became worse and job performance too ( working with tight deadlines ), it takes lots of effort to do that and it won't make things better if you're not super disciplined to begin with and especially if you used to procrastinate a lot in the past. It can also be of course rewarding, but it doesn't always outweigh the labor. Depression is just way too complicated and different for everyone which might require different treatment, for some ppl "dopamine detox", cold showers, meditation works for example.

Kyle is handsome with or without gray hair. I'm 39 and have a fair amount myself. You can't stop time! I've been battling depression since my mid teens and it's been bad lately. Definitely don't identify as an introvert though and I get incredibly lonely, especially being single and gay. Fewer to chose from bc there are fewer gay ppl and many seem to be shallow and vain. Thanks Kyle, I'm a fan 😄

@alexandrugheorghe5610

Жыл бұрын

He might understand you very well as Kyle is gay himself too

@bobbyball1057

Ай бұрын

I can definitely relate

Loved this

Growing up in a large extroverted family, and being an introverted child, I learned to protect my own energy by finding a quiet space in the garden to read books and spend time in nature. My extroverted family was concerned about my nature, however, being an intravert helped me excelling in my studies and became a health professional. As an adult, I have learned to put heathy boundaries to protect my energy and I let everyone know that I am perfectly well spending time on my own.

Sad I missed this stream, really enjoyed watching this though!

Brilliant video! I totally feel you!

At 9 minutes in you explained exactly how I feel and have tried to convince myself there’s not something wrong with me. Thank u!!!!

“by being by myself, maybe w a dog” I FELT THAT

Thanks Kyle, for your personal story. I can relate to it. 🌞☺️🍀🧡

I used to be very extroverted when I was younger, up to like.. 23-25. Now I'm more like an ambivert, or an introverted extrovert. I can definitely relate to the mental prepping part before an event. I enjoy hanging out with people, but it can easily become too much. I definitely need my alone time, and I don't wanna hang out with people every day. Absolutely not. I have a quite low energy level nowadays, even if I have adhd. I also have depression.. and anxiety.

@alexandrugheorghe5610

Жыл бұрын

I've depression and anxiety as well.

@elin_

Жыл бұрын

@@alexandrugheorghe5610 I'm sorry you have to deal with that. Are you OK?

I completely agree with you Kyle. I turned into Introvert because of ACE and Later an Acute Introvert due to Depression. But now after Joining Medcircle and Understanding the Reasons of my Mental State I say that the Pen I hold for my Counseling Session has become a Extremely Bold Extrovert 🙂

Watching from Jamaica. Blessings. One love.💕🇯🇲🙏

I accepted it in college after getting in a committed relationship. It felt so refreshing and recharging not being with friends almost everyday and every weekend out.

@saritasidana8979

3 ай бұрын

How do you talk with your partner?

Thank you for all you do I hate when people think your sad when depression is not the same its a whole different ball game 😉

@maimyabaebaby8146

2 жыл бұрын

True!

Loved that live stream

I am so like you!! I need .. need that time to myself and cherish it.

Thanks for this Kyle! Very helpful to this older girl nearing senior age. Not trying to be extrovert-ish any more 🙂

Thank you, Kyle. Being around (anxious) extroverts is exhausting😅

I remember in collage and during the first year in Uni - I tried so hard to "become" more extroverted - it ended up with me getting problem with social-anxiety and anxiety in general. It took me 3 years or so to 'fix' those problems....and after that, I simply accepted that I'm an introvert. (But that was also more easy to do after I'd learned that there was such a thing as extroverted and introverted "personalities"/personality traits....that wasn't something I knew anything about growing up - or had even heard of!). I'm probably a 'social introvert', since I have a handful of close friends which I have a deep connection with and that I enjoy socializing with. Even though I still spend most of my time alone - which I need. And crave after any social gathering. That is - I have finally learned about the concepts and also simply 'accepted' who I am now.

Thank you so much for this very helpful video! Now I can understand and accept myself better! "Introversion is my way" can be my new mantra to stop feeling guilty about it, haha!

I feel you. 💟

I enjoyed this discussion very much! Thank you! I always knew I was introverted, but as I began to heal from childhood abuse, I began to wonder if I would have had a bit more extroversion in my character. I love being alone, and I've been alone for yeeears without human contact until recently (have a boyfriend now, ooo lala). I couldn't imagine doing what you do for Med Circle, Kyle, very open brave and extroverted IMO! I don't have public social media, not even LinkedIn. I hate the idea of people staring at me. Ayooo to everyone who has the fun bag mix of social anxiety, CPTSD, and introversion! Let's take a selfie! But seriously if you grew up with abusive parents, what came first: the chicken or the egg? the introversion or the coping mechanism? I used to hide in my closet to avoid the yelling, fighting, and abuse. I'd say my home is like one big closet really. Just food for thought.

@alexandrugheorghe5610

Жыл бұрын

I've CPTSD as well. Got diagnosed alongside extreme anxiety and dissociation.

I appreciate your thoughts. Thanks

I don't feel alone in the world anymore and it helps a bit. There are more like us.

The way I was finally able to even begin accepting myself was finding a woman who accepted me first. I met someone who truly and fully accepted all parts of me. I am definitely an introvert. I also have BPD. I assumed I would die alone, never having anyone who made me feel less alone. The journey and work is still my own, but she lit that spark that I’m not horrible and broken. I am marrying this woman in 5 days! There is always hope that any day, any time, your life can completely and radically change for the better. I used to live in mental hospitals. There is hope.

Introversion is where I find true peace, my true atmosphere of calm and rest. I don’t mind telling people at work I am not going to a party because I need to spend that night getting regenerated alone because I am on empty and I am a introvert. Extroverts get recharged around people where I as an introvert get depleted being around others for hours . I look after 36 residents who mostly have dementia or Alzheimer’s so as a introvert at the end of my work cycle I need a lot of alone time. I never feel guilty telling people I need alone time to stay healthy for me. It is my medicine to keep me healthy! Thanks for your video! Keep up the excellent work! And happy valentines coming up. From Manitoba Canada 🇨🇦

You're right. But people around don't think the way you do. My whole life I have been again and again pointed out that I am an introvert, quiet, not very social, bad at communication, and I felt bad overall because of it. My total opposite side is my anger and rage, and losing it all because of the temper. People ask me to be loud and rough, but they don't understand I become angry and mad when I speak loudly. Anyway, this channel is a big relief. Thank you.

I grew up with a very extroverted (and narcissistic) father who would simply force my brother & I into social situations...as if that changes a person, lol. He wasn't "mean" about it. He just didn't understand...thought that being super talkative and out there was the "right" way I guess.

@emh8861

Жыл бұрын

I have a sister who keeps bugging me to go places with her. It really pisses me off .

@alexandrugheorghe5610

Жыл бұрын

My father used to talk a lot and without much sense. Narcissistic as well. 😕

Thank you for publicly sharing breaking down stigma. Also you help make things ok for me. Im not diferent

You resemble Max Greenfield (actor). Just subscribed. So impressed with this channel and the content providers. I'll be binging a lot of your topics.

Hi Kyle. I grew up with 13 people living in a very small house. I love being by myself. My family always feels that I should always be going out with someone and doing something. I live in a 55 and over building and my family feels I should be out doing all of the activities but these people exhaust me. I am glad I am not crazy.

@emh8861

Жыл бұрын

Omg that’s my family too. So annoying!

Very recognizable. Let 's not pretend to be otherwise. The pression though can be high

Love weighted blankets! Great for anxiety. Not great when your hips or body hurts from FND or fibromyalgia

Best video yet! Love it and laughed. I vacation alone!!!!!

Thank you 🙏

I completely understand what you mean.. When I m depressed, I feel depressed.. it's totally different from recharging myself by staying away from people

I'm borderline and am addict, i love my subscription and Kyle and I've learned so much.

@Shortkonner

2 жыл бұрын

Kyle i can't be alone either.

Knowledge is power. Understanding is wisdom. This is an educational video.

Very interesting ... a family member is an introvert and i would always say come we're going out and she'd say no i want to stay home. I'd always feel i was not doing a good enough job if i didn't get her out because i thought she was missing out on fun, until she convinced me she was happier and content at home. Want to ask you as an introvert if you ever feel like you are missing out or are you totally content as you are. Find you incredibly relatable and engaging and very easy on the eye 😉 Thank you for an amazing channel

I identify fully Kyle with my on introversion because I found it has saved me over the years. Socially being forced to be more sociable than is natural for me is like being in a battle between fighter planes where I am caught in total flak finding myself wanted to bat sensations away. I can be a better version of myself when I can take a break from people because and when I feel slammed.

I’m an big introvert (INFJ), but hiding it because 95% of people I see think something is wrong with me on a low-key way. So I try to fit in and hide it and make excuses like I’m sick or some bs excuse because just needing alone time is unthinkable in today world

Maybe I’m projecting, cause I’m going through a rough period again, and not to sound rude or anything but ohhh Kyle you look worn and depressed in this, sending you love, light and support 🥺💌

Introvert too!!! Wish I would have met you before our grays came out!

Society thinks the extroverts lead and do all the paving, but it takes the humbleness and gifts of introverts to compliment the world. Being an introvert is a positive trait. What if everyone was extroverted? The world would be more chaotic than it is now. Introverts have beautiful gifts to give to others.

I really liked this. 💯

Thanks for sharing your experience , I would like to know from an expert or others, if is possible to stop being introverted, or to change from introvert to introvert-extrovert type. I say this because I used to identify as an introvert but lately I have been more outgoing , without this necesarily draining me ( at least not always) and be able to socialize in bars, clubs, etc without much anxiety while before this wasn't the case.

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You probably have learned how to take care of yourself, over the years, so that now you can socialize and not experience the anxiety before nor the exhaustion after. That's great that you have found a nice balance while still being your natural self.

Honestly is the best policy in mental health !!

lmao Kyle, I need a personal channel now because you're so witty & humorous aside from the great mind.

It is so draining traveling with an extrovrt.

You look great with great hair ! ❤️

Welcome to San Diego!

Hello, handsome proud of you and your accomplishments. your amazing hope you’ve grown to know you are ❤️

Good topic, good performance, like watching you, i myself have mental disorder. I was extro, now i am introverted