“He lives in his car… so he wanted you to get out of his HOME” I tried to hold in my giggles 😅

@Itsraebihhh

9 ай бұрын

Ikr😂

@Lovinlife1234

7 ай бұрын

He is using her .pure and simple!

@milanib3066

6 ай бұрын

I didn’t 😂😂

@Nickilove259

4 ай бұрын

He was petty as hell for that. Lmaoo I swear it echoed 😂😂

@milanib3066

4 ай бұрын

@@Nickilove259 😂😂

She need to tell herself she's beautiful and love herself first.

That friend is horrible. She should never have been telling other people about her friend’s past. They both have a past. Leave it there.

I relate so much to Rebecca's struggles. When she smiled at the end I got goosebumps. I hope she's finds the happiness she deserves.

@nekoalbury8606

10 ай бұрын

Rebecca needs professional therapy (spiritual counselling) bad!!!! She is too Codependent.

@mlm1916

8 ай бұрын

She needs to find happiness in herself. She's a good person. And yes, @nekoalbury8606, she can use a competent, insightful therapist.

It never makes sense to me when people in a relationship acknowledge and know their relationships are super toxic and they don't want to break up. I honestly feel that these types of people love the drama and dysfunction; they mistake it for passion.

@odesseyg4179

20 күн бұрын

It’s cause they crave whatever affection they’re getting. With the first couple, she highly insecure and craves a man’s love, affection, and attention. She’s 34 and a virgin… I think she feels time might be catching up to her so she might settle for certain behavior. At least she still acknowledges her boundaries

First couple, To me the guy just doesn’t love her! His body language says it all. He didn’t even sit close to her smh.

@princessthalegend338

5 ай бұрын

Agreed! Forget love her, dude doesn’t even like her & I can kinddaaaa see why. She seems very clingy & tbh, annoying. Like she whines and it’s like you are an adult, she too immature to me for a relationship period & too naïve to leave him because she wants a man THAT bad.. it’s just not that serious … I loved the end of her in the mirror & I hope she continues to tell herself those things & actually believes & mean it .

@sharond642

4 ай бұрын

Doesn’t seem he knows how to love. They’re both immature and don’t know how to communicate. Really sad how people get into relationships and haven’t taken the time to think life through and what they want and need and how to communicate that to someone. Respect comes with love not disrespect. I could go on a bit from this short show but it’s not my show and I have to learn not to be so involved in strangers. I hope they’re truly working on themselves.

@againandneil4608

2 ай бұрын

​ In moo byzygote HBO⁶893

A few mins in & its feeling like her bf is sexually frustrated. She’s a beautiful woman, I wish she knew that & stick to her beliefs. She deserves a man who is also saving himself. He is not the one for her. I’d hate for her to marry him & catch a STD. He’s a narcissist

@vivolinhall2225

7 ай бұрын

Leave his ass alone and the right man is waiting for you to love you for who she is.

@ashleyj7011

2 ай бұрын

Definitely 💯

Did Karamo and the audience miss when she said that he started SWERVING while they were driving, because he was angry? 🤔 That’s dangerous, emotionally unstable behavior, and IMO, it also demonstrates a potential to become physically violent.

@okonkwoifunanya9029

7 ай бұрын

What is IMO please Thanks

@Leishambrwn

7 ай бұрын

​@okonkwoifunanya9029 it means "In My Opinion"

@ananiesegoodwyn9479

2 ай бұрын

Karamo did say that he was unstable

@teresag.destinationmountai7802

2 ай бұрын

😂 6:19 ​@@Leishambrwn

The woman in the first relationship has low self - esteem issues.The boyfriend don't seem to care for her, and I don't see their relationship going anywhere.

That affirmation mirror session with Rebecca ❤❤❤❤

When is enough enough for you. He is toxic. Let him go. You can do better.

This made me tear up. I am so happy you both made it back to each other. Sorry you had the childhood experiences. Sending love.

@RebekkaLien

Жыл бұрын

Hi it’s rebekka, thanks for watching and loving on us ❤

@ashleyj7011

2 ай бұрын

​@RebekkaLien Not yall lol

@takeyla23nc

Ай бұрын

@@RebekkaLien update?

HE’S A COWARD RUN RUN RUN 🏃‍♀️LIVING IN HIS CAR- BEING BI-POLAR EVERY 2 SECONDS- SHE NEEDS NOT TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP-SHE NEEDS THERAPY TO GAIN HER SELF RESPECT AND SELF WORTH-LORD HELP HER

The girl in the pink broke my heart. I don’t think she was wrong. I notice they keep saying they lost parents Were they in foster homes/group home together because why were they in the streets at 12?

@corinthiaa

Ай бұрын

From the way they talk they are from B-More (Baltimore, MD). A lot of people have hard lives there. Their parents could have been on drugs, simply poor, had too many kids than they could care for, and/or they could have previously been in foster care then just opted for fending for themselves instead of dealing with the system. Chrisean Rock's stories of B-More really explains so much about life there.

Rebekka needs to leave that man and practice some self love. Also, she does sound very juvenile and maybe she has some growing up to do before she can and should fully commit to a relationship.

Eventually the verbal abuse will lead to physical abuse. She needs to leave and never look back. I have NO RESPECT for BOYS like this guy. Also if he has the money to get a place, why not get one???

I've had my own mirror session. Karamo is the best. This reminds me of myself.

Rebekka fear rejection because clearly,the guy isn't good for her .

This is a sad situation. If you've only been in a relationship for a year and it's been off and on that much then can you really even call it a relationship?

@Karamel0719

Жыл бұрын

THAT part!!!

@meme3903

Жыл бұрын

💯 NO!

@whatstheword1478

Жыл бұрын

Right, sounds like a future Movie Mystery

Why the hell would you be going on a cruise if you’re homeless??! Priorities all messed up

@shineright5818

Жыл бұрын

It’s easy to say that as an adult.

@yolandabowden7508

11 ай бұрын

And again they were young and it sounds maybe they didn’t know any better. It’s always easy for someone who is not in the situation to say what they shouldn’t have done. I would hope they no better now.

@LeshaFBaby

Ай бұрын

To take their mind off of it

Those last ladies got me over here crying at work on my lunch break 😢😅

The 34 year old virgin lady is wasting her time. She's desperate for love and doesn't realize she's abusing herself as well, allowing herself to be tortured, and it's not healthy. She's making excuses for his behavior. She needs to work on her self-esteem. She's living in a fantasy, and he's showing and telling her he doesn't care about about her. She's willing on settling with him.

Why was I the only one clapping when she said why she wanted to save herself 😂

No women should have to go through any type of abuse.

His cheating on her big time when your relationship is off and on some one is cheating !!

The First Lady has to KNOW HER WORTH!! F Him!!

Knowing what i know now i will be a virgin for life

@corinthiaa

Ай бұрын

Your not missing anything! I recommend marrying the right person and then losing your V. If you ever want to have a meaningful relationship. I waited until marriage to lose mine and that was my best decision.

everybody should know by point, miami girls trips never end good 💀

He will not say those words because he dosen't feel that way. Rebecca get it thought your head.

4:23 this is why they say the first love a girl knows is her dad and will let any man treat them exactly the way their dad is whether its the best love or abandon issues! Guys will treat women if they thought about their behavior being on their daughter they wouldn’t like that person for their daughter yet they are that person in their relationships.

@eboneeprice9908

5 ай бұрын

I believe that is so true due to the fact that my dad is so awesome and to be honest it’s hard finding someone that loves me the way he does and I have been divorced and in many relationships it’s just that I’m such a daddies girl that no one can possibly compare lol. My husband knows that my dad is the bar!

OK that's it!..... calling her the 'B' word is beyond ridiculously out of order; she needs to let that go or else it only gets worse. Not usually having men in her life can amount to danger if she insist upon remaining with someone who has shown so many Red flags 🚩🚩🚩 for her to leave.

STOP GOING TO MIAMI WITH YALL FRIENDS🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

That relationship is showing you who he is you don’t need that

He is giving me "Snapped" TV series vibes.Get Gone,girl!Thank you,Casey Grimes-Finley,Chicago,Illinois

The lady in pink can not be blamed, her friend hurt her so bad, she forgave, the honours to seek forgiveness was right in that the lady in green sought it

Outside of Oprah, Karamo is my favorite talk show host. I feel that some guests needed more time and it felt unresolved.

They done went and made me cry ❤❤❤

@RebekkaLien

Жыл бұрын

Thanks sister ❤❤❤❤

@msreeree65

2 ай бұрын

​@@RebekkaLienI may be wrong, but I truly believe their comment was for the two best friends.🤷🏾‍♀️

He’s not stable so trying to have a relationship with someone is not the time

Rebecca is acting really slow… she needs to understand him saying needs space give him space he don’t have to explain his love at that time

@cheyb2257

Жыл бұрын

She needs to break up with that bum

Whew!! The second story had me in tears. Karamo is out here doing the Lord’s work!

even you know he doesn’t love you just leave him alone.😰🤔

I need to defend the boyfriend on this one. This woman is so annoying. I want her to get out of my car and she’s not even here.😅😂

@katelynbrown98

Жыл бұрын

I don't think she's annoying on purpose. I think she has low self-esteem, and perhaps because of that, an immature emotional intelligence/view of relationships. I don't really know what exactly she sees in him. I hope she can find a good man through a church mixer or some other Christian group because it seems that's the only way she'll find someone that matches her values.

@RoseRose-hp4rq

Жыл бұрын

@@katelynbrown98 I think he’s being about as patient as he could possibly be. She is clingy and needs to grow up. Even when he asks her to leave him alone to give him some time, she just nags him and keeps bugging him. She actually expect him to leave his own car to go for a walk when she is the one who should leave? She needs to learn to take responsibility for herself as well. Even though she’s not doing it on purpose as you say, it doesn’t give her the right to be a pain in the butt to him every day just because she’s a naïve virgin. You say you don’t know what she sees in him? Well, it’s simple. He’s the only person that will stick around. Damaged people attract damage people. They both have their own issues, hers just seem less threatening than his. But they are both equally messed up.

@normajean7241

Жыл бұрын

Was it the repeated 'like'.having a convo wth her seems like a chore.

@RoseRose-hp4rq

Жыл бұрын

@@normajean7241 she seems like a good hearted person, but she is insecure, clingy, and annoying. Nobody should have to put up with that. If you have issues from childhood stemming from abandonment, then you need to go to a therapist to work on that. Nobody can provide that reassurance for you. Everyone may feel sorry for her but she’s actually very manipulative. She is outright saying “I want him to reassure me every day, so I feel better about myself “ …that is not healthy at all and it’s not your boyfriend’s job to fix your psychological issues. She’s definitely a pitiful person, but I would not be able to put up with her even if I felt sorry for her.

@normajean7241

Жыл бұрын

@@RoseRose-hp4rq dont get me wrong she is a sweet girl and i do feel bad for her .i think she just didn't grow past her teenager years from the trauma and she talks and acts like a young girl.i have massive issues from my childhood but i got help and all jokes aside she deserves healing and someone who loves her deeply!!but she needs to fix herself no one can do that but her..he doesn't seem like a bad guy he just seems broken.

The friend that told the business seems very selfish. She's only thinking about her own feelings. I would forgive her but we could never be beasties again.

There's no love there. They don't know what love is.

He is perfect material for slab city California 👍🤷Living in your car is cool. 👍 You aren't enough, she needs serious counseling. Leave it to the professionals, you need to become whole within yourself. Do you, living in your car isn't normal, work on you, grow within yourself, you can't take on another load. Except that 👍🌹🙏🏽

The first couple has two different ways of “fighting”/arguing. He is the type that needs space to cool off for a bit so he doesn’t end up saying or doing something he will regret later and she is the type that needs to talk about the issue right then and there and expects him to want to resolve the problem RIGHT NOW as well, and if he doesn’t do that, she gets more upset and interprets as him nor caring. A lot of couples have that problem and in cases like that, both need to acknowledge the other persons way of solving issues. In this specific case though, those two have no business being together because of all the other problems.

They are annoying, and they don't need to be together. She wants love, and he wants space

You don’t need a man to treat you like a father

@nathaneillisaluma1457

4 ай бұрын

Need a real man to treat me better than my father. (&& yes mines was very present in my life but sadly mom wasn’t RIP 😔)

I think that the young Lady is exhausting jake, jake only wants to be roommates but she's not going for the roommate set up. She's a good girl but she's way too clingy and will frustrate any man. She needs to work on herself esteem before she settles down with any man.

That’s what the devil hate, good job ladies❤❤

I need to be Rebekka’s friend… so we can have a talk. And I can have a “talk” with Jake.

Jake needs psychotherapy and spiritual therapy as well too. Karamo called him out.

As for the friendship of these two ladies. TRUST is an issue especially when Tia revealed confidential information to strangers in front of her best friend that's not cool that's down right evil.

Different culture, culture clash, asian and white communicate differently.

Everyone seem nuts

Alcohol was a huge part of this. 3rd party obviously lives on Drama. He is fired drop him, he lives for this mess🚫🛑👉👉👉👉👉👉👉👉

Karamo is the best talk show host we ever had in history. That had a lot to do with his educational background as well. Oprah ain't got shit on Karomo

@ashleycrafter239

8 ай бұрын

None

@angelowens7497

5 ай бұрын

Oprah has a lot on Karamo!! Leave Oprah alone!!

I need to go on Karamo about a now old best friend of mines. I been holding soo much inside and never seen or been through nothing like this when it comes to friendships

@viashay

4 ай бұрын

sameee 😭 but i hate the thought of scratching an old wound :(

@88jasmineallen

4 ай бұрын

Me too. But I don't have the courage to do it. Just gonna leave it be 😢

😢the way I cry like I’m there I’m tough like omg 😂

They both confused.

@rosegallus4048

Жыл бұрын

The woman is overly desperate 😔

This is an awsome show.

Honey, don’t stay with this person!! SO MANY RED FLAGS. This is the BEST it will be, Honey. This guy doesn’t deserve you. He definitely has narcissistic tendencies!

@dalealfred3877

5 ай бұрын

He is furtureless' he is homeless

Like, like, like... Like totally dude 🤙 🙄 Like, really? 🤣🤣🤣 Like hilarious! Like that's all I can hear. Like for real, dude.

@taffykins2745

Жыл бұрын

Like even he does it. Like for real. Like how can we even, like, take you two, like, seriously.

@yah7130

Жыл бұрын

These comments are like making me dwl. Like why?😂

@boitshokonengu7306

Жыл бұрын

@@yah7130like you know 😂😂

Move on girl and for him find someone else who has the same values as you because you both deserve the best in this short life. Girlfriend this life is too short and forgive each other.

I will only let Karamo tell me about myself 😂😂😂

Thank you for your forgiveness. Good heart ❤

I have all brothers, they hate the crying as they see it as attention seeking manipulation, and I understand, no body died, your feelings are just hurt, that man is not qualified to make up what your dropped, stop all the needy needy it's annoying, give him his space you sound like an irritating pain. Stop. Not every guy is going to chew your food for you. Let this go seriously grow up, and he doesn't know what to do with you. Pump the breaks, it's reckless. STOP 🛑 you need a counselor not a boyfriend. You need to grow alone for a while.

I'm not crying I just have allergies 😢

Seems like she is more than he can handle and he wants out. Its in his body language. She needs deep therapy. It was hard to see her hurting and in fear

Life is so short! I stopped talking to my bff of 26 yrs because i was going thru some things. Didn't talk for 2 yrs!! I got the call she died in her sleep n i haven't been right since! Forgive apologize cause time waits on no one!

karamo can't you just fixed them up with a good dinner in a nice restaurant to kick start their friendship again?

They had their moms but at 12 were they runaways?

If you have to tell a man what to say about you, you don’t need that because if those are the feelings, he feel he will tell you that

You all trying to blame the dude and if he is toxic she is just as much toxic as he is. Have you all ever been with someone or have a friend who has NO self esteem, its a job constantly! I am not saying that these two people needs to be together but at least they are wanting help! To me, she will drive someone to do things that they would not ordinarily do....she too much frfr❤

I feel so bad for all the women in this episode. Lord.

that friend in pink is something else..you punched the girl in her face and then u vex when she left you.. Didnt u know u had no other way to get home in the wilderness, when h=u decided to try to knock her out. Even though she was wrong for talking her business, she is not ur child so u have no right to discipline her..if u dont like her ways end the friendship and walk away..she shouldve pressed charges and added something else to ur problems so u would understand that ghetto behaviour of putting ur hands on people is Not acceptable. Then she still vex that her friend didnt call her when her mother died... why would she talk to u again to get another punch..u dont know how to communicate like an adult..stupes i wouldnt want friends with her anymore cause she will do it again the next times she feels belittled. No one can make u feel belittled...u belittle urself.

@marypalm

6 ай бұрын

I9

@Prexiousp

4 ай бұрын

I was looking for this comment she was pissing me off.Like the girl in the Green was wrong but she was obviously remorseful and apologized multiple times girl in the pink like why now you didn’t call me when my mom died LIKE DID YOU CALL HER NO so she need to stop acting so innocent

You are beautiful. Run from him he is toxic.

@RebekkaLien

Жыл бұрын

Thank you

As the saying goes "Jaw, jaw stops War,war."

Karamo i need a personal advice from you on a dire situation

Does Rebecca thinks for q year and a half he's not sleeping with anyone plus he lives in his car tells her to get out and calls her names, she needs to move on instead of making excuses for him.

This man has an emotional maturation level of about 12 years.

I hate those women had to do those things, especially as children 😢

The first couple dude wants out the relationship 💯‼️ bro just leave all that toxic stuff gets played out after awhile and at the end u pay for it. Just leave

That's Ethan Klein. Not Jake 🤣🤣

Crazy thing I work with the first couple

That first couple if I was that lady I would've run so far from that man. He don't ave not one ounce of Love for you Just look how far he sit from you. Lady open you eyes and run for your life.

What are Their Goals as a Couple? (First Story)

Don’t tell business you don’t want told

first sign of narcistic behavior

Get out of that relationship woman

No relationship can last if the two think of themselves instead if the other. Relationship is about acceptng and compromising. But not she or he should be doing this. Love you need to nurture it. It cannot grow overnight

It's the beautiful accents for me...where are the ladies from?

@RosalynnAnne

10 ай бұрын

I think Minnesota

@reanathompson8389

6 ай бұрын

Gotta be Maryland

she is so naive...keeping her virginity for him is gonna be her biggest regret. If he wasnt cheating, he would want to prove it to her by allowing his phone to be checked. She wants him to respect her virgin boundaries but she doesnt respect his when he is ready to talk out things may not be when she is ready and she needs to accept this. He blames his behaviour on his toxic childhood. The way u treat ppl is how u feel about them or respect them. dont blame it on childhood. U control ur actions now as an adult. He is manipulative and he knows right from wrong but she is naive so he can get over her...she needs to run far from him..they wont work out.. a naive 15year old she acts like and he will trick her to death...she is a fool to think he not cheating all this time on her

You live in a car? What are we doing here!!?

What I don’t understand if both of them have parents and fathers why was they out there at 12 and 13 years old selling their body if they had parents

I have these two young lady do better next time they fight and like the Tia brought out that life is too short it’s not wroth it to lose a friendship as after growing up with each other, I would say if you got a friend that you love them it’s worth fighting for and practice forgiveness.❤😢. Just wanted to say I will remember when I had a close friend when in grade school we did everything together until she told a lie on me to my own mom and unfortunately I got hurt 😞 I move and, we try to move forward but, we we’re just never the same after that! Ik it seem silly to sill think about a friendship that ended back in grade school but it was the only one I had outside of my immediate family 😢. I love the kind of friendship we had before we fell out it’s really sad i have never found that kind of close relationship with another female 💔, I love the memories of our friendship and I love having a close friendship with a female so maybe one day I will find that again idk 🤷🏽‍♀️ ❤

The first couple … baby move on he doesn’t want to be there …. And you can’t complain about a place you keep putting yourself into !

The first couple.. I think she has booksmarts but common sense is not there at all. It’s clear of day that man doesn’t want her, and she’s still reaching to think he does. Also she seems kinda childish, focus on yourself some and work on yourself then get into a relationship

I can say one thing, Rebecca, you are a very beautiful woman. I love you for your values and sticking to them any man would love to be with you you are very beautiful and I would like to meet you. You do not need to be in this relationship with this man. I fear that you are going to get hurt by him and when I say hurt, I mean physically and you do not need to be in that type of relationship, I love your values and waiting to be pure until your marriage. I honor that you’re a very lovely woman.❤🌹🌹

Where are the two ladies that were friends since 13 from? The accent is so strong but I don’t recognize