I Love You But I'm Not IN LOVE With You | My Wife is Not In Love With Me Anymore

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As a relationship coach, I see so many people who hear the words 'I love you, but I'm not IN love with you', and are certain it's the beginning of the end of the relationship. Learn the meaning behind the phrase I love you but I'm not in love with you and why it's not as bad as you think. withmyexagain.com/coaching
My name is Coach Adrian. I want to dig deeper and put this 'I love you but NOT in love with you' in context. I was coaching a man in his 50s who lives in Paraguay, South America. He said to me "My spouse says she loves me but that she's not IN love with me'. My client was devastated and thought it was the beginning of the end of his marriage. Learn what his spouse was really trying to say to him.
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I Love You But Not I'm Not IN Love with You Meaning:
This is the short version but basically what I told my client what his spouse was saying was that she cares about him but she lost faith and belief that he can make her happy. That is what this means. I love you but I'm not in love with you. "I care about you, but I don't think that you can make me happy."
Ultimately it is not as bad as you may think it is because if there's love there's definitely enough to make a relationship and even a troubled marriage strong and healthy as long as you approach it the right way and have a clear plan.
Over many years of giving relationship and marriage advice to men, I find men become a shell of themselves in marriages. They start to depend on their spouse for everything and stop inspiring their spouse in the process. Wives no longer feel secure and safe and no longer see their husband as the inspirational person that they fell in love with.
The Goal:
How do I make my wife feel happy again? How do I make her feel special? The goal is for him to be able to inspire his wife and create an environment in which she can feel happy again, but most importantly where she can feel safe and secure. Learn how to speak your partner's love language.
How to Rekindle your marriage and bring excitement back into your relationship:
1. Take a step back and make sure you understand truly what went wrong
2. Don't try to do grandiose acts of love to try to make them fall in love with you again
3. Put daily actions into place to shift the perception through actions
4. It’s not what you say that will make her happy with you, it's what you do
5. Focus on speaking your partner's love language every single day
6. Don't be overbearing or too needy
7. Make sure your thoughts, actions, and your words are in harmony
8. Don't try to control and let your fears get the best of you
9. Reinvent yourself and in turn, change the way your partner feels about you and sees you
10. Be patient.
In conclusion:
Ultimately they had two children and they've built a wonderful life together. What she knew was that she wasn't happy and that something needed to change. She still wanted to be on good terms and have him to be in her life. Because love coupled with happiness and fun and new activities and new excitement and new energies can enable a woman or a man to understand that deep down inside that in love feeling can still be recaptured.
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  • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
    @LoveAdviceTVCommunity4 жыл бұрын

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  • @donhenhawke3385
    @donhenhawke33854 жыл бұрын

    It's not anyone's responsibility to make another feel happy, that comes from within .

  • @mphomolapo1562

    @mphomolapo1562

    4 жыл бұрын

    Wow. You must have caused a lot of pain & unhappiness to be so blaise about this. It takes accountability & effort to right your wrongs and this is what the video is asking partners to do. Really, just Put daily effort into your relationship. Simple 🙄

  • @jcporosity4764
    @jcporosity47644 жыл бұрын

    My wife has a negative friend that gives her bad advice. She's jealous of my wife

  • @jcporosity4764
    @jcporosity47644 жыл бұрын

    My wife told me this 1 month ago we have 2 kids. It hurt soo much.. why I was never home and was not able to be there. Im changing everything ima give her time and space. Im learning i have faith.

  • @ackm42
    @ackm423 жыл бұрын

    This hit home for me.. I’m at the point where I don’t know what else to do..

  • @cococha
    @cococha4 жыл бұрын

    so said when that happens.. Sometimes you can win her back sometimes you can't

  • @chrissyw.7500
    @chrissyw.75002 жыл бұрын

    My ex moved to California after a long distance relationship that we started a year before. He came out here and we moved in together right away, unfortunately I got sick shortly after he moved here to be with me and things just went downhill from there. The woman that he fell in love with was not available anymore. This illness forced me to make some extreme changes in my life, including joining a gym and going on a diet. Recently, he told me that he loved me but wasn't in love with me anymore because I had become somebody else. Now I'm concentrating on improving myself and regardless of if he comes back or not, I am becoming more and more self-confident and healthy and will inevitably attract the right man.

  • @zainabbello8730
    @zainabbello87304 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for such a great video! You said so many things that deeply resonated in me ❤️

  • @palebleudot7292
    @palebleudot72924 жыл бұрын

    This was ultimately the demise of my relationship. And we still live together. He broke up with me last Friday.

  • @Amber-ri3zy

    @Amber-ri3zy

    4 жыл бұрын

    Mine too😭🤧 and we were suppose to be engaged

  • @alonuloaye1456
    @alonuloaye14564 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much, coach Adrian. Now, I understood my feelings for him. Your advice was right in time of need😃 Love from Nagaland 💕

  • @JoshuaCyberNerd
    @JoshuaCyberNerd3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your excellent insightful video. Although I’m not fully in this position I don’t think my situation is all that far off either. I’ve been thinking I’m in a difficult situation as I have 2 children with my wife but the way she has treated me since we got married has been abusive and toxic. She has a past which makes it difficult for her to treat her loved ones in a good way, but at the same time, I and her other loved ones including her children deserve to be treated better. It’s not easy to stay in a relationship, and and stay in love, with a person like this.

  • @evazquez404
    @evazquez4044 жыл бұрын

    I love and am so grateful for your advice. Thank you.

  • @jazzr3616
    @jazzr36163 жыл бұрын

    This is the best advice I herd so far

  • @damianohall
    @damianohall2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you man, this is really helpful

  • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity

    @LoveAdviceTVCommunity

    2 жыл бұрын

    Glad it helped!

  • @presleymiller22
    @presleymiller222 жыл бұрын

    Dayum this is good. Thank you.

  • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity

    @LoveAdviceTVCommunity

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for watching Presley!

  • @GOLDENLOTUS
    @GOLDENLOTUS4 жыл бұрын

    Can you make a video about how we can do fix this problem

  • @neilinnes8852
    @neilinnes88523 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this Video. I'm in this position and made some of them mistakes you takes about. I really could be the man you refer to first. Great advise. I just hope it works for me

  • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity

    @LoveAdviceTVCommunity

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your feedback, Neil. Coach Adrian

  • @willowmay12
    @willowmay124 жыл бұрын

    ❤️ thank you so much

  • @zoehunter5513
    @zoehunter55134 жыл бұрын

    Just want to say thank you so much for this Chanel and your coaching sessions! If anybody is stuck and doesn’t know what to do I can’t recommend their coaching sessions enough they are incredible in what they do! I wish I had booked one earlier, I now have a roadmap and I’m focused on the right track, words can’t describe how happy I’am doing the radio silence now and am determined to do this for myself! 💪And I’am already seeing positive results, love you guys what you do from bottom of my heart thank you so much ❤️ Lots of love Zoe xx

  • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity

    @LoveAdviceTVCommunity

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Zoe for the post Glad you are focused and going better! Keep it up! Coach Adrian

  • @jamesemerton1193

    @jamesemerton1193

    Жыл бұрын

    @@LoveAdviceTVCommunity hey I'm in this position is there any help please?

  • @staceymariethomson
    @staceymariethomson4 жыл бұрын

    I became a self of myself. I know this and feel like that was why he left. I stayed at home with our kids and had no drive, no life anymore. We broke up 8 months ago, he has been in a relationship with someone else since then although he says it was 5 months but they want to move in together now. I have taken steps for myself and do everything for my self I just don't know how he moved on so quick. Any advice?

  • @agentcannabis
    @agentcannabis4 жыл бұрын

    What about “I love you deep down but I don’t love you the same way anymore”.

  • @isacha1
    @isacha12 жыл бұрын

    I’m the stay at home mom he is talking about. Plus him traveling 99% of the time for work didn’t help. Now he wants nothing to do with me. We have 2 kids.

  • @shakahutchinson

    @shakahutchinson

    2 жыл бұрын

    Say ok and move on. Prey to God for your strength. I've been there

  • @sungod8870
    @sungod88702 жыл бұрын

    I appreciate this

  • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity

    @LoveAdviceTVCommunity

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much Greg!

  • @Angie-dx8tf
    @Angie-dx8tf4 жыл бұрын

    What if he said that she love me but not the same as before and he wanted to break up because he dont want to pretend and hurt me anymore. But right after that, i see him doing things like caring, that he used to do to me to other person that i used to be the reason of my jealousy.

  • @Sandeep_In_America
    @Sandeep_In_America4 жыл бұрын

    The girl i loved also said the same at beginning she was lyk my gf but after her x bf came she said this to me i love u so much as a frend ur special to me but i dont have romantic feelings bout u

  • @rebeccab.4090
    @rebeccab.40903 жыл бұрын

    I enjoyed listening to you, thank you. I wish I could speak to you in person. I have so many questions. I feel like an unmanned ship sailing the waters desperately looking for a destination I’m not sure even exists. My heart hurts. My head hurts. I’m tired. How do I make it better. How do I put myself first, but also make sure I put my impressionable child’s needs first? I think I know the shores I so desperately want to find, but how do I get there?

  • @valerybarragan9652
    @valerybarragan96524 жыл бұрын

    Do you guys do any personal one on one sessions ?

  • @franciscovalentim3116
    @franciscovalentim31164 жыл бұрын

    In case of neglecting a partner should I use no contact??

  • @menonr20
    @menonr203 жыл бұрын

    How to handle same scenario in long distance relationship?

  • @EyeSurpri
    @EyeSurpri4 жыл бұрын

    It's shocking. This wife sounds selfish and still needs to grow up. Love and security come from within. If you end up relying on someone else for this and happiness, you've got a rude awakening coming. I feel really sorry for the husband.

  • @mphomolapo1562

    @mphomolapo1562

    4 жыл бұрын

    *What's the point of being married if this person makes you feel unloved, unhappy & insecure??* I don't know what miserable low-effort relationship you want but this is not what MOST people want. A partner that builds you up and you build together is so much better.

  • @ccarter7292
    @ccarter72922 жыл бұрын

    A month ago my wife said the exact same words to me. And asked me to leave the house. Recently she allowed me to come back home however she said she still needs space and time to heal. She wants us to date each other again. The last few years I stopped watering our plants which is a great way to describe things currently. I'm wondering what do I do next?

  • @wildman_jessie2447
    @wildman_jessie24474 жыл бұрын

    my wife says she's not in love with me anymore but I don't know why I want to know how to resolve our love and relationship

  • @winkbeauty2266
    @winkbeauty22663 жыл бұрын

    My Spouse of 3 kids just separated 2 weeks ago and we had a pretty messy breakup. He told me he loves me like family but can’t see me romantically anymore would this fall in the same category?

  • @sumaiyahakhalwaya6588
    @sumaiyahakhalwaya65884 жыл бұрын

    Hi I need some advice after 1 year my ex and I broke up I started talking to someone else and when he found out he got really angry so I stopped talking to my ex it's been 2 months but all he does is talk bad about me why do you think that

  • @MsLinzoo
    @MsLinzoo4 жыл бұрын

    He says that he is still in Love with me but he doesn’t show it, could this mean he’s still hurt? He doesn’t want to get back together and I don’t know what it means I’m confused 😭 please give me your advice!

  • @kentgerardbaroy6091
    @kentgerardbaroy60914 жыл бұрын

    Sir? Does no contact rule effect if youre the one cheated?

  • @sshhffdhshs3343
    @sshhffdhshs33433 жыл бұрын

    What if your already broken up ??

  • @jamesemerton1193
    @jamesemerton1193 Жыл бұрын

    I'm in the same position how do I get some more advice please?

  • @cristinaliro8227
    @cristinaliro82274 жыл бұрын

    Is it possible that an ex couldnt go back because she doesn't want to experience the break up again with the new relationship? Or this reasoning will be useless once she sees that i truly evolve and able to inspire her again to be happy

  • @MrSinCityKing
    @MrSinCityKing3 жыл бұрын

    What about a yr...u get to a point where u just stop trying and want some space ur self and then she tells u "well if u ever realli loved me like u said u did then u would stay my friend" says she wants a divorce but yet to go get the papers??

  • @uhavemooface
    @uhavemooface Жыл бұрын

    I am not married but I have been in a relationship for alost 15 years now and she is done with me. I don't know what to do to make her happy. I am a big failure. I feel lost. I don't know what to do.

  • @kateamanda208
    @kateamanda20811 ай бұрын

    He broke up with me because of age difference and he lost feelings for me, what will I do coach

  • @nevisnavinjohnkennedy5172
    @nevisnavinjohnkennedy51724 жыл бұрын

    hi Adrian, how are you?? I need your help, I was in a long distance for 3 years haven't met each other till now, but we use to have good conversation on daily basis.. but due to some misunderstanding she dumped me.. but before she use to call me and talks to me and says that am a special for her.. but I was needy and desperate before so she just blocked Me... now after few months I started focusing on myself by your advice.. later after couple of months when I reach out she was happy and we had very good conversation like before... but after due to some misunderstanding she just blocked me and says it's been 3 years we broke up move on that's it... and now it's been 3 month of no contact, but she said to her friend that am a very good guy and I have good character but she Got bored with me and she had no feelings for me and she didn't loved me and she don't like emotional connections with people .. what to do please help

  • @jahkaiwhitfield
    @jahkaiwhitfield Жыл бұрын

    Hello my lady says same I judge her awhile back the thing is we still go out touch her etc.but she not in love she says we have kids what can I do

  • @aex4496
    @aex44964 жыл бұрын

    Hello I have a online relationship wich is not really good but I care so much about my ex we broke up yesterday bc I made a mistake but I want to show him that I changed so much but he said I hate you so much and I don’t want to talk or see you again wich hurt me so much I told my ex to give me 1 last chance but he doesn’t wanna , he said he will block me and indeed he did I tried to say it was a joke but he doesn’t believe me we have been in a relationship for 1 year and losing him hurts me I try to move on but it’s too hard to bc I wanted to commit suicide for a long time but I didn’t bc he was my only hope and my family too he said I changed so much since we got in a relationship wich makes me insecure so can u please make a video about online relationship I’m trying to let go but I want him back thank you.

  • @gnomeking6568
    @gnomeking65683 жыл бұрын

    I got a chick that's in love with me, but im not in love with her... Ive tried to give her reasons that she should move on & date other people... But she wont go anywhere... 🤦🏽😩🤷🏿

  • @jcruz617
    @jcruz6174 жыл бұрын

    First i would love to say that i love the vive you bring into the videos.What if you never stop watering the plan and this still happened. She also said that she only married me because of appreciation because I helped her a lot when we met. We have been married for 15 years with 3 boys, one of them is my stepson who is now 24 which I raise and he considers me as he’s dad. I’ve been a committed father and husband. She now tells me that she met someone else and says that she doesn’t love me and I ask why and she says she doesn’t know and she can’t control it. She knows how involved I am with my kids but she tells me she will be moving out of state knowing how painful that means to me. She knows how much I love her abs how much I want to save my marriage. I continue being a loving person. I still cook and continue taking care of our home and I continue to workout. I’m hurt and confuse because even though I ask what have I done she says that dmi did nothing that she can’t control her feelings. I need help to save my marriage please.

  • @ted2136
    @ted21362 жыл бұрын

    My take away.It means she has lost faith in me. She does that think I can make her happy in the future.

  • @patrickmercader238
    @patrickmercader2383 жыл бұрын

    I am 3 weeks too late in finding this video. : (

  • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity

    @LoveAdviceTVCommunity

    3 жыл бұрын

    Glad you found the video, Patrick. Thank yo for watching! Coach Adrian

  • @salmanjaved6105
    @salmanjaved61054 жыл бұрын

    Heyy i wanna ask something i was begging my ex for 2 months she didn’t listen to me and stop replying and blocked me i wasn’t blocked on iMessages but i decided apply to contact rule and its day 11 she unblocked me from everywhere is it working? Should I contact her now or continue no contact?? Please help me

  • @MsVynix

    @MsVynix

    4 жыл бұрын

    No. Wait for her to reach out. She knows that u know she blocked u.

  • @Obaautodetailing
    @Obaautodetailing3 жыл бұрын

    Man i needed this one please if you’d reach out to me that’ll be Awesome

  • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity

    @LoveAdviceTVCommunity

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for watching the video. Please visit www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ so that we can help you on a personal level. Coach Adrian

  • @eddiehernandez7806
    @eddiehernandez78062 жыл бұрын

    It's not the responsibility of the spouse to make you happy.thats on the person.marriage isn't suppose to make you happy.But Holy more like Jesus when we love our spouses in the eyes of God then that's where the intimacy come in to play.remember to be successful in your marriage takes patience and work.you will never reach a pinnacle.it will always have it's good and bad.

  • @mariadelosangeles7980
    @mariadelosangeles79803 жыл бұрын

    :/

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