I Lost all trust in my self .. how to get it back
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love fam , what's the mood like today ?
@katjaondeck
2 жыл бұрын
anxious but optimistic
@studycs1322
2 жыл бұрын
Sitting down talking the time to write my blog post
@litholistic3614
2 жыл бұрын
Mellow and present
@hiweakness
2 жыл бұрын
sad 😔 but happy you uploaded a new video
@amandad.5102
2 жыл бұрын
Flowing and calm mood today. So nice to catch up on laundry & clean dishes before the weekend! I love little things like that ☺️ Plus got treated to a surprise yummy breakfast from my hubby 👍
Self love is all about self discipline. Doing the things you say you will and not lying to yourself. The worst person you can lose trust in is yourself💯
@fayfriends1779
2 жыл бұрын
YESSIRRRR
@joyariffic4217
2 жыл бұрын
Yes
@joyariffic4217
2 жыл бұрын
And if you notice those without self discipline often lack self love. They go hand in hand
@fayfriends1779
2 жыл бұрын
@@joyariffic4217 Takes notes***
@aam3361
2 жыл бұрын
@@joyariffic4217 wow thank you. 🥰 notes taken 💕
“If you feel off, go back to nourishing the basics of what makes you, you.” 🙌🏽
@mauricecassau6511
2 жыл бұрын
jt you here
@kendrickbrumfield5132
2 жыл бұрын
I appreciate that.
@aleencaeli
2 жыл бұрын
omg somehow i missed that line!!! : o
@sacredrosarium1552
2 жыл бұрын
How would I even know what makes me, me?
@aleencaeli
2 жыл бұрын
@@sacredrosarium1552 hm. good question. maybe start paying attention to what makes you excited! I learned a bit from the book by Julia Cameron called The Artist's Way. (not just for artists) It gently shows you how to reconnect with yourself. I'm sure there are youtube vids about the book too.
I sabotage myself all of the time. I need to trust myself, love myself, respect myself. I rely too much on others to make decisions for me
@flowerbloom5782
2 жыл бұрын
Same here and I feel disappointed that I always seem to need others help to get somewhere because I'm not confident that I can get there myself. But this year I feel like I'm shifting my perspective since I'm aware of my problems. I am going to stop beating myself up and rebuild that trust again. I hope you get to love who you are.
@mostfrozenburrito
2 жыл бұрын
@@flowerbloom5782 I wish you the best in your journey! It can be hard, but you just take it one step at a time and you’ll get there! You and me both!
@Neku628
3 ай бұрын
@@flowerbloom5782 Yeah, it's really difficult, especially after you've been torn apart by aholes in your personal life. It's not like I had any trust in myself to begin with, just my mom telling me that she doesn't trust me. It was devastating. I can only tolerate myself.
Two of my daily affirmations: • I trust me. • I love me.
This video is absolute GOLD. You went so deep into self-trust, the ways to cultivate it and WHY we should do so. I love what you're doing HINDZ. This video showed up in my feed just when I needed it. Thank you for your wisdom and the warm, calm vibes. Is a vibe TING baby!
This honestly could not come at a better time. After I failed two classes needed for my major, I (still) feel as if I can't trust myself to do the most basic things or even trust myself to get my dream job. On top of that, I still feel as if I don't know who I am as a person or what I really want in life(thanks to a lot of childhood stuff). I have difficulty showing myself love since I don't really know what "love" feels like both through platonic and romantic relationships. But, seeing this, I feel that it's okay. I know for a fact now that I have time to learn how to forgive myself and discipline myself (I'm only 22). Things have been feeling off for the past couple months, but I know that it'll eventually get better as long as I try to build myself back up with words of encouragement instead of the usual "they're doing it right, so why can't you?" or "you need to stop. you're not good enough" garbage. I know that I'm good enough, I can always feel it, but I just need to finally believe it and continue to encourage myself to believe it by actually doing it and taking better care of myself. Thank you so much for the words of encouragement. 💛
@DaimonSmith
2 жыл бұрын
Reading this hit home so hard. Right down to being 22. I think you’re wonderful. The world needs you. Stay gentle with yourself through this process ♥️
@hattiebarrington5332
2 жыл бұрын
I am in the exact same position with my degree and have lost faith in my ability to succeed, so throughout revision I have still been basically manifesting failure with my negative self-talk. We are in this together, and ticking off small accomplishments each day will inevitably lead to us finding trust in ourselves again, so we can take control of our lives. Sending lots of love to you!!
@antonellapastor861
2 жыл бұрын
I feel you 😔 I studied hard and put a lot of effort in my studies but my GPA is not good. I graduated this semester and it is so hard to find a job or master degree that accepts grades below the average. I felt a huge disappointment in myself and every night I struggle thinking why I am not as intelligent as my classmates, everything I could have done better, all the pressure and stress from trying to succeed in the things I do. I feel lost and scared. How to forgive myself if I believe everything my mind tells me (negative things) is the truth? After I watched this video I realized I haven't give myself the love and care that I need. I have tried to receive from others, but not from me :( I truly hope you can find the encouragement to build yourself up again! Let's get our confidence back step by step, and most importantly, let's find the love we need to give our mind and body to be more happy and confident persons 🙌 We can do this!!
@nael_tm
2 жыл бұрын
Can relate, I failed a module because I had such a hard academic year, and now I'm taking a resit so I can finish my degree. This, with other things, has made me feel like I can't do anything right. But I'm on the way to trust myself again, I know I'll pass this resit, that it's okay I couldn't do my best, and that I am able to achieve so much.✨✨✨
@constanzasilvaa
2 жыл бұрын
I completely understand where you are coming from and everything you are feeling is valid. It's okay to not know what you want in life just yet, you are still young and learning from life experiences! Everything will fall into place with divine timing ✨ the only way is up now! Believe and trust yourself that everything will workout, because it will! Sending you so much love and blessings from Australia 🏹
I was just begging the universe to help me to trust myself again, because I was so desperate. And then u upload. Thank you my angel, this is divine timing. Your videos always cheer me up and help me to understand myself a lot better. Thanks for the healing 🙏
@wanstall.mp3
2 жыл бұрын
same, this couldn't have came at a better time wow
@debrahansley
2 жыл бұрын
Agreed!!
@white.dragon.222
2 жыл бұрын
yes it's crazy right
Yes journaling is very powerful. My trauma specialist has been pushing me to do it.
@xtheslump
2 жыл бұрын
Yesss!!
@griseldamartinez5655
Жыл бұрын
do you have any tip for journaling??
@bethespark6507
Жыл бұрын
@@griseldamartinez5655 to tell you the truth no I don't but I think Hindz has a few videos that talk more about it on his channel. Journaling is something I haven't talked about on my channel yet. Wishing you the best!
“TODAY is the day that we make a pivot.” That👏🏽 right👏🏽 there 👏🏽 My heart is full again. I am ready to face my battles and turn around my life.
Got my hot lychee strawberry tea, a journal and colorful markers ready with me before clicking on this video 🍃🍵takin' notes! we be vibin' ay
@HINDZSIGHT
2 жыл бұрын
oh what that sounds amazing , I need to try that
@Evajjane
2 жыл бұрын
Fina I would love ❤️ to try that tea 🍵
“put yourself in a space to have a sound mind and everything will be alright” thank you ❤️🙏🏼
i used to trust myself alot. there was nothing i couldn't handle. then bad marriages, and i got sick 20 years ago. i haven't been able to trust myself since. my body betrayed me so how can i?? it betrays me all day every day. now, i'm not sure that i can trust myself again. i should bc i am badass for being sick while raising kids. and i'm still here.
@mergyshlergy9083
2 жыл бұрын
You’re amazing ♥️
@mariai.7627
2 жыл бұрын
your body didn't betray you. it saved u
@lynnmiller1287
2 жыл бұрын
@@mariai.7627 how??
@Evajjane
2 жыл бұрын
You can you have to believe that you can and when you’re ready the teacher will appear. I am growing now and I am chronically ill and geez!! It’s hard. Then this book showed up called the medical medium cleanse to heal. Check it out.
“It is the simple things that are the true blessings.” It’s the simple growth of strength I appreciate! And I appreciate the tea pots and joys of life. I love taking care of myself and trusting myself. Cheers to all for learning to trust and getting better and better! 💞💖💝
I love every last one of you! Don't forget, all the people whom are treating you so poorly are only making up for their enormous insecurities. They just need a 38 second psychological boost so they may feel better about their own miserable lives. They are lost souls! You'd be amazed the power of telling them that you love them. It will catch them off guard. Help them! Hatred does not cease with more hatred. Hatred ONLY ceases with love! This is an old rule! - The Buddha You are loved but don't forget, so should be your enemies!
The editing, the voice over, the effort with all the different shots and locations MWUAH *chefs kiss*
I really love how hindz is spreading love. To us. His friends. It's a vibetin
Sir!! You really have amazing timing with these videos. Self trust and discipline is what I'm working on right now. I literally just got through talking about it. Thank you for allowing Yah to use you!
This Video is Powerful! I grew up with a Narcissistic abusive Father who constantly instilled doubt in Me and the Family and using Triangulation to Control everyone till They decided to Move out for the sake of Their Sanity. The difficulty was an obstacle that created all other obstacles, yet my greatest Obstacle I have been working to overcome and show others, was Trusting Oneself through my Confidence Coaching. I needed to watch this Video after feeling doubtful lately and began to catch myself slipping back to despairing habits again. Thank You for sharing this Solidified Universal Light the guide me through the dark recesses of my Mind, many blessings🙏🏼
Hi bro am tahjay. Am 20, feeding my mind with greatness. Freeing my spirit.
@samanthahill2925
2 жыл бұрын
Keep it up young man!! I’m 37 and wish at your age I would have been thinking like that.
@studycs1322
2 жыл бұрын
@@samanthahill2925 thanks samantha! I just feel it's time I take control.
The teapot is a beautiful piece of art.
@Onlinesully
2 жыл бұрын
Yes I thought this too
Experiencing your energy, during times of depression and anxiety, has helped guide me back to my spirit, my truth. Now that I've been able to build a new perspective around energy, god, source, etc., I've been able to heal through past religious traumas and find peace within my spirit. what you say often resonates, and I often find that that truth is expressing itself to me in my life. As you express what's on your mind, you guide me through experiences of growth and healing and help me stay intentional. I appreciate you greatly and I value the content you make. It truly is a vibe.
I’m realizing how relationships with family now in my adulthood are in many ways toxic also at the same time though nurturing .. they’re both ends of an extreme.. and this has served to cause distrust with in myself... becouse I have continued to return to family that have proven themselves to be untrustworthy... instead of forming new family out of my community ... I continue even now ... Showing up for myself in this area is the largest pinnacle of transformation for me ...
Moved from Calgary, AB to Hawaii recently and your vibe is so strong with me here. Learning to trust myself again, and say positive words instead of bringing myself down. Thank you for your videos! Sending you light to continue with your work! :)
@davinaatere5246
2 жыл бұрын
I love this, I grew up in Calgary
@ShannonChanxo
2 жыл бұрын
@@davinaatere5246 sending love to you my fellow calgarian! x
@davinaatere5246
2 жыл бұрын
@@ShannonChanxo thank you 💕
@karamarchand5168
2 жыл бұрын
I'm a little over in Edmonton AB, hope your travels are treating you well ! 🧡🌞
@ShannonChanxo
2 жыл бұрын
@@karamarchand5168 amazing! love our alberta squad. thank you so much!
I found this channel about a week ago and started binge watching immediately… everything resonates so deeply and I always finish the video with a brand new perspective. I love the vibes!!
Much needed. I’ve been learning so many lessons in trusting myself again lately
I needed this so much! Thank you for being here on KZread. You have such a powerful message in every video and in your podcasts. 🙌🏼
Love you man. I can't tell you how much i needed to hear this message today. Thank you for sharing this
This is so so important. I needed this, just in time. I hope others received the message they needed. HINDZ, thank you so much.
THANK YOU so much omg. I thought I was dealing with a fear issue but it's been a trust issue all along. This is how we move through the fear and start taking accountability to move forward to the other side. Appreciate you deeply!
Positive vibes! This was exactly what I needed to hear. I appreciate you! 🙏🏽
teared up😪i’ve dealt with this my whole life.. thank you🙏🏽🙌🏽
I love how I can feel you talking to yourself. You made this video for you but you knew it would help someone else so you shared 🖤
Thank you for sharing the positive messages.🙏🏾
The teapot is really cute! Love the message in this video, self-nurturance is so important. So happy to see your growth on KZread with almost 500K subscribers, and refusing to give up on your dreams. It's truly inspiring 💙
You're literally right on time (as always), thanks so much! 🤍🙌🏼
You just captivated my growth! I am eternally grateful 🙏
Loved the convo, many blessings for you too!
Thank you for this video. You’re amazing and I’m so happy that you came up on my feed. The universe is going to bless you Immensely for sharing your experiences with us 💕
The video we all needed and need because this is something we do not remind ourselves enough about. We spend so much more time beating ourselves up, not noticing it is a need to trust ourselves. Thank you so very much for the reminder and believing in yourself 💜
Your talks are warm, compassionate and healing. You give me hope and I love the concrete actionable suggestions. Getting to know myself, trust myself and forgive myself. Thank you 🙏🏽
Thank you for this video so much, I will need to re-watch this for a couple days to keep this in my mind!! I truly appreciate what you share on here!! sending anyone who reads this good energy 💖
Perfect timing once again I needed to hear this “live the life you love love the life you live” I HEAR you Hindz, I FEEL you 🙏🏽
Hindz, that’s exactly what I needed for today. Thank you so much my friend for being my sincere reminder🤍🍵
I loved this video so much. This honestly helped me with everything I’m struggling with lately, thank you!!
i feel like you always upload the right video at the right time! thank you, you are helping so many people
I had a video of yours in my ‘watch later’ playlist and I had been passing by it for months… I have been having an extremely rough start to August and I finally clicked “the negative cycle you are in” video today and then I began to binge your youtube channel and added your podcast to my phone. You have given me perspective HINDZ…I have been feeling rejuvenated ever since, thank you. You are a blessing ♥️
Havent even finished the video but wow HINDZ this is the content your community enjoys. I want to let you know this helped provide some perfection in the moments i am blessed to live in my life and for that i thank you deeply.
Thank you brother, all peace to you family
I needed to hear this ❤️ Thank you so much for pursuing your dreams, you're helping so many people. Plus, your tea sets are awesome 👌
Dang you really know exactly what we all need to hear! You are truly a vessel for the rest of us. Thank you!!
on the topic of microgoals, i cannot recommend the book Tiny Habits enough!!! i started in June to try and floss everyday as a small goal, and I've been flossing everyday since. it sounds silly, but it's really helped me to increase my trust in myself & it's spread to other things too, like working out 3 times a week and drinking smoothies at least once a week too!! it's totally possible to make the changes you want to see, you just have to start small!! 💖💖💖 love and positive vibes to all u beautiful people out there, you GOT THIS!!!
I definitely needed this reminder, thank you for this video. So beautifully done 😌
Thank you for opening up parts of your life and sharing your experiences. You are amazing!
Your videos have been shaking me up in a spiritually needed way lately… thank youuu.
So timely! Thank you for this, love to you friend
Really needed that 🤍✨ thanks hindz for your creations. Totally vibin with ur vibe. much love and take care
Thanks for another awesome video Hindz💚 i appreciate your content
Today is a new day in trusting ourselves. This showed up just when I needed the reminder 🙏🙏🙏❣
Always speaking such wisdom, thank you Hindz 🙏🏼
I've been feeling horrble for the past couple of days. I hurt a person that I love the most and broke the trust that they had in me. I feel alone and guilty. Forgiving myself for that is so difficult it almost seems to be impossible. I hope I'll make it tho. Thank you for that video, you have a good timing brother. God bless you all ♥️
I needed this video today🙌🏼🙌🏼 thank you for sharing this today❤️
"Live the life you love, love the life you live" loved it, thank you 💗
I got goosebumps watching! Such a timely video in my life and day! Thank you!
every time I feel down, your videos help me get back on track. Thank you!!
I’ve been going through it so bad recently … then just seeing an upload from you this morning (just woke up from a night of tears sigh) gave me the tiniest glimmer of hope … some positivity and people I understand do exist🥺🤣
HINDZ... god bless you brother. Helping grow my attention
Thank you Hindz, just the message and reminder I needed to hear. I just love when watching your videos it’s like you really here as my real best friend guiding and cheering me on with your amazing positive spiritual wisdom! So proud of you for following your dreams and forever blessed for your channel ❤️
Thank you King! I needed to hear this today ❤️
I love you man thank you so much. I needed this more than anything
definitely in a healing journey currently in my life. as i’m unfolding a lot of my childhood trauma , i’m learning that i have no trust in myself because i had to give all my trust and power to my parents at a young age. i was told that basic saying of “ im the parent you listen to me, what i say goes” even if their decisions were harmful and scary to me and to themselves. at that time, if i spoke up about that behavior i was told i was a disobedient child and i didn’t respect my parents and was abused .as an adult now i have a hard time trusting myself because every time i tried to when i was younger , i was either abused or yelled at because “ who am i to make decisions for myself “? seeing this video was very necessary. i’m trying to learn how to trust myself and not be afraid or to question myself. trusting yourself feels weird when you’ve given your power and voice to someone for years. i know i can do it and so many of us can. i genuinely believe in myself and others and just wanted to say thankyou for making this video and just being so informative and self aware. if anyone else is going through this, im proud of you because it’s not easy and just trying to trust yourself and doing the little things really come a long way. progress at the end of the day is still progress. i hope everyone has a great day ✨🌱
Hindz, you really are a kindred spirit... Thank you.
What a beautifully expressed lesson of self forgiveness and creating harmony from within! Love u man!!!!
I truly needed this support today, very glad I clicked. Cried pretty much through the whole video. Thank you for your words 💛
Thank you kind Sir for being you and inspiring so many to be their best version of themselves.
This video is so special , and a clear breakdown of how to really lean back into our own individual knowing and greatness within . Thank you 🙏
THE TIMING. Thank you!!
Oh Hindz this is such perfect timing. Today I've been doubting myself and worrying about the future. I was able to write and bring myself back and your words solidified the ease and trust I feel 🦋 thank you ❤
Saw the title and I immediately felt a tight knot on my throat. Somehow I felt like I found a description of how I currently feel. I deal with depression in a silent way... But whenever I can't understand the real reason why I'm depressed it's a thousand times harder. Thanks for this🙏
Thank you so much for giving love to all of us watching your videos! I recently found your videos and I appreciate the positive influence you have on me and I have already learned so much from you! I’m so glad you pursued your dreams because you are helping to change many wonderful souls lives! Thank you 😊 🙏
I always feel so good & happy when I watch any of your videos! I can definitely feel the love ❤️
eye loved this video. the part about family advising you to work at FedEx and you telling them why would you do that when you want to chase your dreams although it’s a road of uncertainty REALLY hit home.
NEEDED THIS 2DAY -- YOUR WORDS ALWAYS HIT DIFF SENDING LOVE AND LIGHT ❤️
I’ve been struggling to trust my intuition. I was struggling in life so I decided I was going to save, buy and convert a van and travel. I did and it really took a toll on my mental health, so I came home. After seeking help and feeling much better I decided my next chapter was motherhood. And here I am, early days and I’m really struggling with my mental health and always feeling so sick.
@mariai.7627
2 жыл бұрын
maybe go see a therapist
@meals1459
2 жыл бұрын
@@mariai.7627 scheduled for tomorrow ❤️
I won't even think twice before I say that he's my favorite youtuber yet I discovered him just a week ago😊😊❤️
Love how everyday KZread places a different video you have made in the past years, to see the evolution & literally heal those parts up 😭😭🥺…. Your going to deff hit 1M by the end of this year sending you all the positive vibes this life time could offer you for dropping endless pearls of knowledge into humanity….
you always seem to post what i need to hear EXACTLY when I need to hear it :) thanks hindz
Brother when I felt hopeless that little light in me brought me to your videos - now I’m practicing the art of celibacy and changing my whole BEing - I had to forgive myself subconsciously catch up to that little kid in me and love it when the vicious cycles have started - So blessed to get my life back
@justicemae478
Жыл бұрын
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I needed to hear this, you’re amazing ❤ keep making uploading more videos
I love love love your channel! You always have powerful words of wisdom leading with nothing but love & positive vibes ❤️The new tea pot is EVERYTHING!! I love it here!! It’s a vibe ting ☮️
This has helped more than you know!! Thank you 🙏🏼
Your videos are soo comforting!!! I loovvee it!!!
I just wanted to say thank you from the bottom of my heart for this video, it helped me find exactly what I needed to finally get out of a rut and start healing, forgiveness, within myself, and I'm now able to forgive others too. Love your content so much, love the compassion and unconditional love you share 🦋🥰 wish you the best ☀️
every day I resonate with you and your messages. thank you so much for your voice and your wisdom Hindz, I am very grateful to have found you.
Hindz - what a blessing you have been and these videos have been a huge help. All the way from New Zealand 🇳🇿 Self love/self care is definitely something we need to make a normality. To refill our cup so we serve from the overflow. ❤️
I really needed this right now. Thank You again Hindz 🙏❤
Trusting myself is definitely something I have struggled with. I create Art installations and I’ve found that having a conversation with your healthy adult can really help to ground yourself and trust your real confident self.
I watch you when I first wake up and while I roll up I love having your voice play in the background and it’s nothing but positive tingz and it’s much appreciated- I been feeling lost and stuck and your videos are helping me get thru it Thank you xo
Positivity Gang whaddup 🤟🏿
The more you know yourself the more you will trust yourself. So simple, yet it completely shifted my perception again. Loved today's video, thank you