Homemaker without children is wild

@aorg9793

15 күн бұрын

Women love to make easy chores and errands into arduous tasks.

@brianparrett114

15 күн бұрын

Would you rather spend your weekends doing household chores because you both work or spend your weekends doing fun things with your spouse because one of you doesn't work and is able to do those during the week?

@Jane5720

15 күн бұрын

@@brianparrett114not married

@nevillepaul903

15 күн бұрын

If there’s no kids then there’s too much free time for issues or visitors to stop by when you’re not home. No thanks to a kid less home maker.

@Scarface_445

15 күн бұрын

@@brianparrett114dude. It’s not that hard. 😂. I work 70 hours, study, have 3 cats, commute to all jobs. And STILL hav enough time to clean and have fun.

While i appreciate full time mom, i cant appreciate a full time girlfriend. Its a recipe for disaster. If a person does nothing for 6 years, it says a lot about her character.

@kbanghart

15 күн бұрын

Except that he doesn't sound right in the head, so I would love to hear her side of the story.

@siva47931

15 күн бұрын

Sharon Ramsey hasn't worked even though all her kids left home for college

@alexwilliamson8225

15 күн бұрын

But she was married, not a live in girlfriend. ​@siva47931

@ihsv85

15 күн бұрын

It depends what kind of "full time" is: a full time spending useless lazy bag or full time taking care of family and house.

@brandy4530

15 күн бұрын

No. No way. “Girlfriend” isn’t a job. I don’t care how much housework she does. That is not okay. A person cannot just quit working, unless they are being taken care of by another person. It’s not just room and board a person has to worry about. There is retirement, and healthcare, among other things, that needs to be considered. No employer is taking into consideration how much housework goes into being a stay at home anything. Marriage means she is legally entitled to half the marital assets. That is her compensation for staying at home. How well she does staying home is irrelevant. Being a girlfriend who stays at home means she is just unemployed. There is a radical difference between a stay at home wife and a stay at home girlfriend.

This guy made the right decision. Finally a guy that’s not a sucker

@danielrn133

16 күн бұрын

He is a drama queen. I would love to hear her side of the story. He is grandiose and bizarre.

@zetokaiba5867

16 күн бұрын

​@@danielrn133I'm sure you would Daniel bet you'd treat her better too huh?

@markrodrigue9503

16 күн бұрын

The reverse of buyer’s remorse

@miketheyunggod2534

15 күн бұрын

He’s brainwashed. Like you.

@kbanghart

15 күн бұрын

​@@danielrn133yeah, the way he talks about her, I'm glad she got away.

He said "I feel like I'm choosing my finances over her." Well, sometimes that is necessary for survival.

@stt5v2002

15 күн бұрын

To be fair, she did exactly that long before he did.

@carlosmiro4932

15 күн бұрын

What’s easier to replace a career and a life or a girlfriend/wife? The girlfriend/wife, of course. Women are a dime a dozen, as are men in the case of women.

@jugendamthamburg-ggkonform381

15 күн бұрын

He can visit her...

@carlosmiro4932

15 күн бұрын

@@jugendamthamburg-ggkonform381 Why? “What’s done cannot be undone” (Lady Macbeth).

@sherrystapleton2113

14 күн бұрын

No. You did exactly right. Never sell yourself short. Before you reach another decade in your life, you’ll be a WHOLE lot wiser. Don’t fall into this trap again.

Debt has become a massive turn-off for me

@katyedwards3935

16 күн бұрын

Huh?

@tracym8952

16 күн бұрын

​@@katyedwards3935 if your partner has debt they aren't taking care of then joining finances will drag you down. If they can't take care of their own finances then why would you give them a voice into your finances. Relationships are supposed to be a mutually beneficial where you both take care of each other.

@drjlrust

15 күн бұрын

@@katyedwards3935 He means he judges women by their amount of debt and their attitude toward it. He's right to do that.

@katyedwards3935

15 күн бұрын

@@drjlrust He's just doing his job.

@kenmason1461

15 күн бұрын

Congratulations

He started dating this girl at 19 and probably didn’t know these were important deciding factors in a relationship.

@user-yb5bg8im5g

15 күн бұрын

free p@$$y ain't free...

@gmarie3053

15 күн бұрын

THANK YOU! I’m just happy he learned at the young age at 25

@Gabster1990

15 күн бұрын

That's how a lot of young love is.

@jasonbornne7767

12 күн бұрын

At 19 there’s only one thing on a young man’s mind.

@LittleWitch1990

11 күн бұрын

True he seems to be maturing

This guy is extremely lucky!! Lucky he didn’t get her pregnant. Lucky that her parents are willing to take over her car loan. Lucky she cooperated and just left the house without any conflict!! This guy better reflect on this and not move another girl in to his home!!!

Wrong, he ended his relationship because was the right thing to do, Dave Ramsey just give him the wake up call he needed.

Guy made the best decision ever, he dodged a bullet here.

@doctorposting

8 күн бұрын

more like he did her a favor and SHE dodged a bullet

@user-kk3qg5el1m

8 күн бұрын

@@doctorpostinglike why? You mean it would make her get a job

Breaking up with someone over financial issues like this isn't a problem in itself. But this guy is just bristling with red flags.

@ConstructionHoney

11 күн бұрын

Together for 6 years. Listens to a radio programme, rents out the house and kicks her out... no discussion... he sounds off as well.

@rebeccapiamonte

11 күн бұрын

He might be good at finances, but he sounds like a jerk.

@healthandwealthdiva

9 күн бұрын

How so?

@JohnPaul-ol5zl

9 күн бұрын

Business is Business, Personal is Personal.....do NOT mix them. You can discuss both and should....just careful not to let the Personal influence the Business. If you co-signing a vehicle, make sure you can take over the payments Fully with NO stress of any kind from your side.....Else don't co-sign at all. Some people have no conscious in leaving you in Debt that was their fault. Regret is Bitter to the max.

@doctorposting

8 күн бұрын

dude sounds weird as all hell and did her a massive favor, yet most of these comments are praising him. shows how braindead the majority of ppl are.

"Why waste each other's time? What are we doing?"😂 I like that, it's to the point.

@dqueenb6692

13 күн бұрын

He cracks me up!

@specialagentorange4329

9 күн бұрын

Sex. He had problems finding a gf

A friend of mine was in a situation like this. 2 weeks after they broke up the other half got a job. For some people the best way to help them is to stop enabling them.

I feel like we have to hear her side of the story before we can make a judgment. Imagine she woke up every morning, made the bed, prepared breakfast, went and got groceries, scheduled repairs for the home, made lunch, and dinner, cleaned the entire home, looks good for him. When he got home, was a good companion, probably listen to him, whining all the time for six years. If she was a good homemaker, then, honestly it’s his loss, especially if he has the money to take care of her. It also depends on how much of a spender she wants, if he was only paying her car payments, and she was using that car to buy groceries and do other tasks that ultimately benefited the household. Nothing wrong with him, paying for them, he would’ve had to spend time doing them instead. Having someone to manage your home and provide companionship to you is not worthless. If you tried to pay for those services, it would be very expensive. I actually feel very sorry for the girl who sacrificed a large portion of her youth thinking that he would be someone she could depend on [because that’s how he made it feel for six years] then finding out that she was dumped because of a TikTok post. I hope she is able to get on her feet, build a career for herself, and never put in a similar situation again. I find the way Americans think to be very selfish, and exploitative of woman. It’s like they expect them to work, and provide 50% of the finances to the family, but then come home and cook, clean, get pregnant, give birth, raise the children, teach them for free! How come men don’t pay women for doing those tasks, if a man, were to pay equal market rate for a maid, a cook, a nanny, a driver, a surrogate mother, companionship, and private teacher for the children. It would be a lot more than the 50% that the woman had to contribute to the household.

@bcd4562

10 күн бұрын

🎉thank you 🎉

@arribaficationwineho32

10 күн бұрын

She had no children and could have easily hold a job and maintain a house with his help which is expected.

@rannoon123

10 күн бұрын

Why the obsession with 50-50? Why should they both work then both split the home tasks? Why can’t each contribute to the house in a different way, work together to build a great home. The problem is men thinking everything that women do is worthless and easy work. They whine that’s it’s unfair that women get to relax at home while they work. Then demand women get jobs and split costs. When the women work, unfortunately most men don’t want to help with home tasks because they feel too tired after a long day.

@user-kk3qg5el1m

8 күн бұрын

@@arribaficationwineho32exactly! What if he was injured , sick and couldn’t work. She is too young to sitting at home and not building her resume

@arribaficationwineho32

8 күн бұрын

@@user-kk3qg5el1m she would leave him in a second

I agree with 3rd date. Don't wait until you both are so invested in the relationship that you want to make excuses for staying together!

@AvecPoesie

13 күн бұрын

​@joanarc7963Bingo.

This is on him. He allowed her to live with him and offered to pay for everything. Why wouldn’t she take him up on that? She’s probably young too. Imagine spending 6 years with a guy you think is going to protect and take care of you and then get rug pulled like that. It sounds to me like this guy thinks he’s a big shot now and can do better. I’m sure she did more than clean the house. It’s a lot easier to be successful as a man when you have the support of a good woman.

@jenniferpearce1052

12 күн бұрын

Right? Breaking up may have been right, but he was a jerk too. He let her think it was ok for six years.

@ClaudiaM-om4em

12 күн бұрын

You have a good point. I truly believe that girl was forever scarred and now she will never trust a man can protect and provide for her. The guy was WAY TO SLOW to realize he did not like the financial dynamics, he should have moved her out by the first year if he was not okay with it. But do not lead the girl into believing you will pay for both of you and it will all be alright. He seems to value money, so he payed for both because he found value somehow in her. A value he could not find in anyone else for six years. But a difference in values and the vanishing of love had to appear. If she was really his dream woman, and he was her dream man they would have found a way to comunicate and reach and agreement. I think some red pilling stuff got into his brain and started to demand from his woman what he had not demanded in the last six years, that or he started to get external influence, he could have moved up to a better level and now he feels she is beneath him, he probably thinks he could get someone better. Yes, the woman must learn to be independent, but if she hears she is to be taken care of and does not need to worry about anything then she will let herself be taken care of. Maybe the guy made a promise he didn't think through or couldn't sustain. She shouldn't have moved in without a ring tho and definitely not wait six years. She was living on a fantasy too.

@LSSYLondon

12 күн бұрын

Yup she will never trust another man. But she will get the chance to find another partner. He may not.

yeah he sounds like the typa guy who drives a 2012 mini cooper

@LSSYLondon

12 күн бұрын

Omg he does. He sounds like a man who will not be successful in today's dating market. Lol

@sendit3251

11 күн бұрын

Oh man I hate that car 🚗

@ANQIHO

11 күн бұрын

😂

@KatsDad

11 күн бұрын

My wife has a mini cooper. I haven’t driven out of the parking lot. Terrible car, but she likes it. Happy wife, happy life. But if it was my choice, a mini cooper is an absolute terrible purchase. Notice I didn’t use the term investment.

He shouldn't be living with his girlfriend anyway. She's not his wife. Maybe now she can find a guy who will marry her, not just shack up with her.

So she was a stay at home girlfriend? Nicholas ain't no simp XD

@kbanghart

15 күн бұрын

Glad she got away

@channel1_channel

15 күн бұрын

Machinery and tech has made home chores easy peasy. Running water. Fridges. Clothing outsourced. Cars. Relative ease compared with times past.

@carlosmiro4932

15 күн бұрын

@@kbanghartGlad he got rid of her before she was entitled to HIS assets.

@kbanghart

15 күн бұрын

@@carlosmiro4932 glad she got away

@boston312

15 күн бұрын

first time a non simp ever called this show

This is why I was grossed out when I heard about the stay at home girlfriend trend. Never put yourself in a position where you are so vulnerable and dependent. This is a lifestyle that might seem nice, but if he decides he doesn’t want you anymore, you have nothing. I hope for both of them that they take this breakup as an opportunity to mature.

@taghazoutmoon5031

11 күн бұрын

yeah, but at least she got 6 years off without having to work. i didn't work for 3 years and living off savings. wouldn't mind if my loser exboyfriend would have paid for my 3 years off, but he actually lived with me so i was financing his life even though i wasn't working and paying rent. he even used my car. i kicked him out and stopped letting him use the car. he broke up because he just wanted to use me for apartment and car. would have been nice if i could have actually lived in someone's apartment and used their car for the last 3 years so i didn't have to use savings. but, nothing is free in life. you give up peace and freedom if you don't pay yourself.

So a homemaker without children? She was a bum

@CoffeenSpice

15 күн бұрын

She was a trophy girlfriend or maybe a socialite or smt. 😂

@westbccoast

15 күн бұрын

Was ?

@user-qf7ud5de9h

14 күн бұрын

Discrimination

@chenanigans

13 күн бұрын

Idk my aunt does this for my uncle. He works she doesn't but he literally doesn't have to even put his pants on himself if he didn't want to lol. She cooks every single meal, from scratch mostly too, she cleans the whole home, and even does outside work too gardening and such, she physically pays all the bills cuz he just doesn't wanna be bothered. I mean when I say this man doesn't even have to breathe for himself outside of his 9 to 5 I ain't lying lol. Every dynamic is different.

@staind687

13 күн бұрын

@@chenanigans Yeah that's fair, I get what you're saying. Mad respect to your aunt

Im in the same situation as him. My ex of 10 years was a financial liability to myself for the last 4 years. I love her. But she didnt want to work for 4 years. She has gambling problem. She has debts, depression, and stress. Her life is messed up. She needs help. I have been trying to get out of debt for the last 6 years, but i couldn't! she was a burden for me. I finally broke up with her 6 months ago. It's hard but needs to be done.

@annwallace3441

15 күн бұрын

Yep. You can’t fix someone. If they aren’t going in the same direction as you, then it isn’t the right relationship.

@carlosmiro4932

15 күн бұрын

You held out for ten years? What a waste of time, money, and effort.

@carlosmiro4932

15 күн бұрын

@joanarc7963 Why did you stay that long? But better late than never.

@bruha321

15 күн бұрын

don't ever simp for another woman ever again!

@troytruong8246

15 күн бұрын

@bruha321 Easy to say when you are not in love. She is a kind and good person. She stayed with me when i hit rock bottom 7 years ago. She is pretty, and she can date any men she wanted. She was influenced by her mom and brother. They are gamblers. Not easy to leave when the person you love needs help.

This kid learned some valuable life lessons. Many others should listen and learn from his mistakes.

What an unusual call. It's never good for a relationship when a couple are on two different budgets and have two different sets of goals.

Theres nothing wrong with wanting a breadwinner/homemaker dynamic but it’s for married people with the same values. Living together and having a bill-paying-bf/ stay-at-home gf dynamic for 6 years is…. not wise and left them both burned. Married ppl have legal protections so if one wakes up and decides to kick the other out they legally cant bc itd be a marital home. Whereas a bf or gf can put all your stuff on the curb at the drop of a hat. If you take out debt for an unmarried partner, it’s just your debt with only your name on it. Big L

@kmbelly6356rt

15 күн бұрын

underline multiple😂

@Anonyme67

15 күн бұрын

My dear the first step is dating then girlfriend then fiancé then Married

@uchewb3

15 күн бұрын

@@Anonyme67 Yeah you don’t have to cohabitate and get loans for each other for 6 years before marriage

@nebelung1

10 күн бұрын

Honestly being a permanent homemaker without even having any kids is not a productive way of life. One should strive for more in life is my honest opinion, or to find a partner that wants to do more than just doing some house chores. It's fine for a little bit, like a transition period, like if your partner just moved to your place, just lost their job or just finished their degree or whatever but again this shouldn't be a permanent state IMO.

I think this is a good thing. That woman should be given a chance to learn to take care of herself before she decides to be a homemaker.

@IrishFrank22

14 күн бұрын

Nobody is stopping women from learning to take care of themselves. Men and society actually encourage ye to do so and men don't have to do everything for ye.

@The-Oneness11

13 күн бұрын

@@IrishFrank22 Some girls come from families where are they are not encouraged to learn to be independent. There is nothing wrong with being dependent as long as you have the knowledge and understanding that you know how to be independent if needed. I personally think it's a good thing to be a homemaker but just in case the arrangement doesn't work out a woman must always have a plan B. I think it's important that this woman has that opportunity to be independent even if it's only for a little while before she actually gets married. Some men also have this issue. They live off their parents too long and never actually learn how to be independent. It's not healthy for anyone to not be aware of what they're capable of.

@jennaelizd

11 күн бұрын

I completely agree with you!! This was me! My parents discouraged me from getting a job in high school and afterwards for various reasons. I am now married and more independent today, but still trying to unlearn and develop my independence as a woman and a wife. It has been very challenging breaking that mold my parents set for me.

@IrishFrank22

11 күн бұрын

@@The-Oneness11 99% of women in the west have all the freedom they want. After they hit over 30, they are usually crying on social media on how hard it is to do everything by themselves. Using the excuse women are not encouraged is just that, an excuse. My mother kept me down but I knew as a man I had to go and learn to be independent myself. You have to be self motivated.

@doctorposting

8 күн бұрын

@@IrishFrank22HAHAH men cant even take care of themselves what are you on about?

I didn’t know collision is an industry before this call.

@krogdog

15 күн бұрын

Me neither, but it makes complete sense when I think about it.

@joeplanter7959

15 күн бұрын

Where do you think cars go when they get into accidents?

@bimiup1

15 күн бұрын

@@joeplanter7959 Narnia

@cw5948

15 күн бұрын

@@joeplanter7959 THE COLLISION INDUSTRY

@krassimirpetrov7131

15 күн бұрын

There’s a ton of money in it too if you’re good

Nicholas, you did the right thing. From now on be smart, don't tell the girl how much you make. Girl has to be working, aligned with your $$ and faith values at a minimum. Preferably debt free. Sell the house if the ex doesn't leave you alone.

He made the right choice. He'll be so much better off in life thinking with his big head and not the little one.

@deirdrekiely6187

15 күн бұрын

If only more men realized this!!!!

@benclark1376

15 күн бұрын

Sometimes the little head has good ideas.

@charleslavoie5402

15 күн бұрын

Hahahaha

@carlosmiro4932

15 күн бұрын

@@benclark1376Very seldom if ever.

He woke up before it was too late. Bravo.

6 years.... its not unreasonable to believe she thought they were getting married. She wanted to be a housewife and for years he has shown her that he was okay with that by taking care of her, cosigning on loans, and funding her life. That says in every way possible "I am okay being the working husband who takes care of my stay at home wife." You can’t just up and change someone's lifestyle and be confused why they are resistant. This should have been talked about before moving in, combining finances, cosigning cars. And for those who are gonna comment: sHeS noT a WiFe sheS a GiRLfRieNd... 1. After 6 yrs I guarantee she thought he would propose any day now 2. They were living like a pseudo-married couple for nearly 6 years. A few more yrs and they would've been married by common law in some places 3. He's in control of when she becomes a wife. I'm really not tryna take her side but she showed up in their relationship just as she planned to show up as a wife. She was honest. He went along with something he wasnt comfortable with meaning he wasn't being honest or assertive about the kind of relationship he wanted. There's nothing wrong with the lifestyle that either one of them wanted. She's not a leech for wanting to be a homemaker and he's not less of a man for wanting her to contribute. They are simply just not aligned in their relationship goals.

She knew his family owned "multiple businesses" in Missouri. Of course she wasn't going to work. She thought she found a sugar daddy. Ignore women, acquire currency young man.

@jessicabender1301

15 күн бұрын

Then why sir do married men have more money, higher happiness scores, live longer and have more sex? You sound bitter.

@charleslavoie5402

15 күн бұрын

What’s the divorce rate again?

@caydenpo1001

15 күн бұрын

@@jessicabender1301 Because men with more money, higher happiness, healthy, etc, are more likely to get married. Correlation does not always imply causation. Y'all keep qouting that stupid ass statistic like women are out here marrying bums.

@lordbendtner7021

15 күн бұрын

​@jessicabender1301 Source: trust me, bro.

@masterpooshi6031

15 күн бұрын

@@jessicabender1301every thing you said is false.

Guy just was fed up for the long time that she didn't contribute, and finally got the catalyst from the video to actually stand up for himself and do something. Good! Dont fund the lifestyle if stay at home girlfriends, in most cases they are leeches!

@IrishFrank22

14 күн бұрын

All cases these women are leeches. No reason at all for a girlfriend to stay at home.

@user-lt1jd1ye3v

13 күн бұрын

What if she was cleaning and cooking for him for years saving him time, that means nothing to you?

So he's OK with her staying at home if they were married. So why didn't he put a ring on it?

@BlueDauntless

15 күн бұрын

This! I’m so confused!

@stephenshelton4267

15 күн бұрын

He said he's ok with her staying at home if they had a kid. Maybe one or the other doesn't want, or can't have, a kid. Also that wouldn't resolve the issue of her being irresponsible with money.

@dayanarab6874

15 күн бұрын

Men want you to work like slave even if you have a kid with him or you are seriously injured, thank god I got divorced nobody is bother me or my daughter, and my injured is healing good.

@thelvadam5269

15 күн бұрын

If they had a kid. No kid = you work. It’s the 21st century things are expensive.

@maedux

15 күн бұрын

It's not just about staying at home. More importantly, it's about being aligned on finances. This includes making money, saving, investing, spending, debt... etc. It's clear they weren't aligned. He sounds like she just wanted to be taken care of regardless of whether she was contributing anything or not and didn't have financial discipline. He waited too long IMO.

It's one thing to have a wife and mother stay home with the kids....it's quite another for a young person, man or woman, to not work. That's weird. For the first 3 years of our marriage, my wife and I both worked full time. Then, I went back to school, worked part time, and my wife kept working full time even after she had our first child. My wife's last day of work was the Friday before I graduated and she has not worked outside of the home since (26 years). I am not "dragging her along"- we are full partners and all income is our income even though the check has my name on it. When Dave said that, I think he was talking about attitude, not income.

@AngieLyke

15 күн бұрын

You are married. And your wife worked and has an awesome work ethic. You were partners while you were in school even. That's a big difference between your wife being a homemaker before you even have children and staying that way while you're going to school.

@williamerazo3921

15 күн бұрын

Good.

This couple absolutely made some seriously bad decisions. Her staying home while they weren’t married is absolutely delusional. Him allowing her to move in with him and not work is also absolutely delusional. They don’t need to be together. I’m glad he is doing it now instead 20 years from now. I get that he wants someone who is accomplished, and has goals. In order to find that, he can’t let women move in with him, and just live off him. He needs to think about what he wants his future to look like, and that woman needs to think about her own financial security.

@littleme3597

15 күн бұрын

What is funny, that males don't think, doing laundry, cooking, cleaning the place, grocery shopping, is NOT WORKING! One man I dated, hired a housekeeper to clean his place, took his laundry out to be done, folded, went to restaurants, rather than cook fo himself. All chores required him to PAY and extra for eating out. The woman does that. NO WORK.

A "homemaker" without children and coupled with a young man is guaranteed to hardly be doing much. Most young men living on their own easily handle cooking and cleaning and necessary maintenance and errands. A childless couple with one calling themselves a "homemaker" makes absolutely no sense, unless there's some serious issues with the layabout.

@gigiwoodlawn2142

16 күн бұрын

Ramen noodles and a nasty bathroom.

@tracym8952

16 күн бұрын

Yeah reality has it's work cut out for both of them

@jumpiam8477

15 күн бұрын

I'm a homemaker without children because of my health problem. It doesn't mean I stay home and do nothing. 😅

@BlueDauntless

15 күн бұрын

@@jumpiam8477I feel like that’s the exception not the rule.

@viperbreeze

15 күн бұрын

My wife is a homemaker, and we have no children. She had a stroke in 2020 and has since been diagnosed with various heart, gastrointestinal, bone, connective tissue, reproductive, and nerve disorders. I’ll grant you that you’re probably correct with your statement 99/100 times, or 999,999/1,000,000 times, but I can tell you there’s no layabout issue in my home.

Why does he need a "homemaker?" He has no kids and is a young single guy.

@maneli3769

15 күн бұрын

Please say it again: in CAPITAL LETTERS; in bold ; underlined and with a gigantic question mark.

@blackworldtraveler3711

15 күн бұрын

Yeah really isn’t much to do in the household when there are no kids messing up and breaking things.

@Kaktus965

15 күн бұрын

Cuz the 🍆 don’t shine itself…..

@the1anonymouse

15 күн бұрын

He didn't. He was being used for free rent and a meal ticket for the better part of a decade

@938quilt

11 күн бұрын

maybe it's a bed warmer he was ok with for a while

5:47 You guys combined your life before you were even aligned in life. Whew.... Take a breath. That's a great nugget George!

This girl probably when from mom and dad's to his house. She didn't learn how to grow up, pay bills. And mom and dad are bailing her out again with the car. Sounds like breaking up is for the best.

He made the right decision. Don't do it again. You need to be equally yoked with your other half so that means shared vision and values, no matter who brings in the income or how much.

I'm a single man who cooks, cleans, does all his household duties, and debt free. Having a gf with no kids who doesn't work is crazy to me when I can do everything a homemaker can without the burden of taking care of another human financially

george and ken are so good together

Their synchronized reaction at 1:46 is hilarious 😂

In the whole conversation I didn't hear a word about LOVE...

"I feel like I'm choosing my finances over her." No, you are choosing your worldview over her worldview. And that's okay. It's best to be with somebody who is inline with your worldview. Things like finances, religion, work ethic, etc.

Something is off about this story- I feel there is something missing. Something is off...🧐🧐🧐

@xxx0ox0

15 күн бұрын

Sure but the things he said like no job and getting into debt I don't think that's a lie. She is a mooch

Reading betwee the lines: She was waaaayyyy out of his league, he got her as a trophy, and took care of her to inflate his own ego and show off to his friends but then he got buyers remorse.

“Don’t combine your lives before you are ALIGNED in life” that’s good George! 🙌🏾👏🏾

My WIFE doesn't work. Outside of our house. She certainly works though. Idk what this kid is on about expecting his girlfriend to do anything.

@gladylagy3565

12 күн бұрын

I'm sure yall have kids. If you think cleaning and cooking is work. Than you got a weak ass wife.

He may have made the right choice but his enabling decisions didn't push her to become independent. It kinda late when he added her to his checking account, signed for her to get a car, and moved her out of her parents home. This is the perfect example of a person who is young and didn't make the best decisions overall thank God they didn't have any children through this relationship.

I guess it depends on how she occupies her time as a "homemaker". The question is, would she still be with this guy if he earned half of what he does.

@CoffeenSpice

15 күн бұрын

What if he didn't earn anything and was also homemaker? 😂

Why is it important that we know what your parents own or do?

@oatmilk606

12 күн бұрын

To let us know his background and the household he was raised in. How you grow up decides a lot of factors in our character when we become adults. What he was letting us know is that he is not used to someone in his life doing nothing for themselves.

Nicholas realized probably no one else wants him in spite of Being in the Collision Industry and having a 2012 Mini Cooper 😂

@StackingOZs

16 күн бұрын

I used to think the worst thing in life was to end up all alone. It's not. The worst thing in life is end up with people that make you feel all alone

@nevillepaul903

15 күн бұрын

😂

@bjkarana

15 күн бұрын

He already sent one gold-digger packing.

@jessy7884

15 күн бұрын

@@bjkarana if you don’t have gold then there is not gold digger for you!

@bjkarana

15 күн бұрын

@@jessy7884 Did you not listen to the call at all? This makes no sense.

Context is always key because this was really making me angry! Saying that homemakers need to put in and help with finances but yet it wasn't even about that it was about she was hoping with debt!! But yet this dude thinks He didn't have no part in it but he had all a part in it!! He was the one actually taking out the loans!! But yet you complain that she took it out? Dude stay single!!

@kbanghart

15 күн бұрын

Exactly!!!!!

@BlueDauntless

15 күн бұрын

Homemaking is for married couples. This couple was just playing house. And he set the standard that she didn’t have to work for six years. Now she has to and has a huge gap in her work experience. This entire situation is weird.

@darylcansino

15 күн бұрын

He let it be this way for 6 years…I can’t believe all these comments blaming the girl 😆

@gorkyd7912

15 күн бұрын

@@darylcansino Why would it be his fault when he stands up for not standing up before? How do you know? The man's heartbroken over it, of course he tried to make it work already and she didn't listen obviously.

@gladylagy3565

12 күн бұрын

Ummm he made the money, he can take out loan if he want, she's taking loan out, using his money . Homemaker without kids, isn't hard at all .

Good decision Nicholas! She will never change! You will find someone who is just as motivated as you are.

I worked full time until we had kids and switched to part time. After the kids were driving I went back to full time. When I say part time I was still working 32 hours a week.

Sounds like there's something else that he is leaving out? Why rent out the home. Just to move someplace else and pay rent? Which is more likely then his mortgage. In the 6 years of dating, he never talked to her about getting a job?

@fromheaventoearth5779

15 күн бұрын

Owning a house just to rent it out can work depending on your situation.

@jugendamthamburg-ggkonform381

15 күн бұрын

Maybe to apply pressure to the former girlfriend to move out sooner rather than later.

@08baby25

15 күн бұрын

Yeah, 6 years is a long time. You would have thought he should have said something the first 6 months.

@08baby25

15 күн бұрын

​@fromheaventoearth5779 Yeah he rented out so he could probably move and downside.

@whosaidthat9265

15 күн бұрын

@@08baby25he’s 25. They started dating when he was 19 and was probably ‘so in love’. He was blinded by that. Happens to a lot of people. He was also hoping she would change and she never did.

The poor dad thought he was free but now has to take over her loans 😂

Guy doesn't know the difference between dating & living together!! The eye rolls of the panelist Nicholas was priceless!!

I had this convo with my partner on date number 3. It’s worked out fantastically for us

Times are changing but a lot of guys make so much more than their significant other that it's negligible. If he loved her it shouldn't have been a complete deal breaker.

@bilalmehireche2928

11 күн бұрын

What does it mean?

@specialagentorange4329

9 күн бұрын

She brought NOTHING to to the table financially!

@realChewky

9 күн бұрын

@@specialagentorange4329 and your wife does?

I have been a homemaker without kids for years. We had to adopt at one point after the waiting. I increased our income with my ability to buy stuff at lower prices, even if it was bread. Never in my wildest dreams I thought about going out and buy expensive stuff like I had a sugar daddy!! Being home is not the problem, acting like you won the lottery is

Love George’s response

This guy says he listened to Dave and then combined finances before even getting married, never talked to her seriously about money and planned on renting instead of selling a property with good equity that he no longer needs. I think he needs to listen to Dave for a little while longer

Ramsey team... Not everyone wants marriage. Deal with it.

@kaylynntorrez5157

8 күн бұрын

Well don’t call into a show that preaches debt free, marriage if you’re going to combine finances, and religion if you don’t want the advice lol

@laundrygoddess4

8 күн бұрын

@@kaylynntorrez5157 or they could adapt to their audience, get with the times, and get out of their one way or the highway mindset which is making people disregard them even if most of what they say makes sense. Adapt and you'll be more successful.

Sounds like he let her stay at home, didn’t push that she should work, combined everything, and then 6 years later figured out that was a bad decision. I wouldn’t let a relationship go past moving in with someone who didn’t work 🤷🏻‍♀️ he was either fine with it or wasn’t firm enough about it bothering him.

@gorkyd7912

15 күн бұрын

Men are wired to provide. He was providing. And then he realized all she was doing is taking.

@caydenpo1001

15 күн бұрын

Are we talking about an adult or a child here? Why does a grown ass woman need someone to push her to work?

@jenniferpearce1052

12 күн бұрын

@@caydenpo1001 Maybe he was happy with his stay at home "wifey" in the cutesy goo goo gaga phase. And so she thought he was ok with it and that he wanted a stay at home mom wife and then all of a sudden she's out on her ear. He let her take care of all his crap for 6 years and now she's screwed with nothing. Yes, she had her life funded for 6 years but she's 6 years behind on getting a life of her own. And if she really wanted to be a SAHM, 6 years of lost time trying to find someone who really does want the same. Oh, plus she has to get over him and learn to trust someone that tells her he wants the same thing she does.

@ClaudiaM-om4em

12 күн бұрын

​@@gorkyd7912 truth there, but what took him so long to figure out she wasn't reciprocating? He finally snapped because she didn't reciprocated financially, but he had been fine with it all along. So what bothered him was that she didn't (or stopped to) reciprocate in the other ways that mattered to him. Or suddenly finances changed to first priority for him and that's why he didn't feel supported anymore. Could be her slacking in her supportive loving role, or could be him just changing his mind and values, who knows.

@ClaudiaM-om4em

12 күн бұрын

@@jenniferpearce1052 yes, true to all that. They both jumped into the lifestlye without two key ingredients: full knowledge of themselves and their wants and true commitment. They weren't in a mature enough space to either get married or walk away. So why go live together. Recipe for disaster. He was finding value in her being a homemaker until he changed his mind. She shouldn't have gotten in without a ring and without the desire to build a family.

Never knew collision tech was a thing, pretty cool! Also, playing house is not usually good long term.

I’ve been married for 6 years, I’ve never not had a full time job. I have no children, and would love to be a stay at home mom when the time comes (if it does), but until then…

You made the right choice. She didn’t ever want to work and just live off your success. Find someone with your same financial goals.

Wishing everyone a blessed happy mother's day praise God praying for Everyone everyday God bless you all

Glad he come to his senses finally. I'm glad they held him accountable too.

I like Ken’s approach 😂

If they had kids and she's a stay at home mom, yes, he should provide. But until then, she should work.

Never date someone who doesn't work. Period. Also never get married

Good job

Good for u Nicholas I was stuck i a similar situation until she broke it off i was back to my financial track and found a better GF with same values

The next relationship, don't waist her time for 6 years. Within the first month of dating learn if she has a career. Learn about her moves on debt.

@djpuplex

15 күн бұрын

She chose to be there. She deserves the boot.

@gorkyd7912

15 күн бұрын

Career = who cares. She'll quit anyway, and you'll want her to.

Did he already mention that his family owns many companies in Missouri??? 🙄

@CoffeenSpice

15 күн бұрын

I'm sorry must have misheard that in all those collision industry mentions 😂

That conversation should be had...Before the date or on date #1!

Perfectly normal breakup for a kids relationship that started before 20. People get more mature in their 20s and have finally an idea where life should go. Make money and get a nice wife when you are 30!

It would have been worse if he had married her. You made the right decision friend.

This dude is so weird

@fauxbro1983

16 күн бұрын

Be wierd or be broke

@brianahuerta3699

16 күн бұрын

Yeah he ended a 6 year relationship over things he heard over the internet? 😂

@supernotnatural

16 күн бұрын

@@brianahuerta3699 she was a gold digger

@delishadae5736

16 күн бұрын

He could potentially have unexplored autistic traits, everything was very matter of fact, then a sudden unexpected boot out the house to the gf.

@toluani7690

15 күн бұрын

​@@brianahuerta3699his approach is not the right way but she also comes across like a deadbeat golddigger. But again we're only hearing one side of the story so who knows the relationship true story.

All these dudes moving women in and are not married. Kings, do not do this!

@wonipowa7542

15 күн бұрын

I see women do this too - they have jobs and the guy doesn't work and they just move them in. The worse is if they marry them and the guy still never gets a job...

@The-Oneness11

15 күн бұрын

​@@wonipowa7542Yeah I notice a lot of young people do this.

@liberator9248

15 күн бұрын

@@wonipowa7542that rarely happens.

@UGotTheFunk

15 күн бұрын

How can you marry someone without knowing what it's going to be like living with them first?

@linuxsurfer2002

15 күн бұрын

@@UGotTheFunk Plenty of people do this, including me and my wife. We did not live together before getting married - celebrating 18 years this month.

We need to hear from the lady.

@BlueDauntless

15 күн бұрын

Why? She leeched off her boyfriend without a commitment for six years. What I want to know is why she wasn’t working?

@MaingainingIsAPsyOp

15 күн бұрын

Whoever speaks first seems right, we need to hear from the woman to cross examine

@bahwickee

15 күн бұрын

@@BlueDauntless I want to know it all. Why didn't he propose and why didn't she peace out sooner. And if she actually never worked.

@whosaidthat9265

15 күн бұрын

@@bahwickeebecause he’s smart and was probably hoping she would get her act together. I’m glad he didn’t propose. She would have tried to keep the ring

Good job ! Standin on business

At no point did he say he loves or misses her. SHE'S the one who dodged a bullet.

@og6433

15 күн бұрын

The reason he’s considering dumping her is because the romance is gone. He’s just looking for a moral validation of his decision.

@KB-sg7tv

15 күн бұрын

Why would he miss her?? She was leeching off him for SIX YEARS. He provided her for as if she were a helpless child. Men don’t love or miss women that leech off them. Hello!

@Nardaa-ox3be

14 күн бұрын

Life is not a Disney cartoon.

@Shannon_Stamm

12 күн бұрын

@@Nardaa-ox3be No one said it was.

@annako22

7 күн бұрын

this!

If you are listening, you'll know before the third date. We need to do more paying attention and less talking

My brother you did the right thing ., I was in exact your position but engaged and was about to get married . 5 years have passed and I have saved 300k . Some people just see debt as normal and live paycheque to paycheque…. I can’t

I want to hear her side of the story. Being a homemaker is a job.

@gladylagy3565

12 күн бұрын

No the fuck its not. When there isn't kids .

@annako22

7 күн бұрын

@@gladylagy3565 ooh, so you think she made dinners just for herself, and he did his? and laundry, and cleaning up, scheduling handy man etc...you have such a :charming: mindset...i hope youre not marreid

Hey big ups to the homie. Ain’t no free rides on his bus. Love that for him

@bjkarana

15 күн бұрын

Amen brother.

Been there done that, he made the right decision! Life is too short to be dragging someone along!!!!!

Good job Nicholas 👏

This man is on a mission...and a little obsessed with the dave Ramsey way of life... Dave's way or the highway......Yeee to the f******* HAW man!! 🤠

Guy was trying to take shortcuts in relationship..

You gotta define what "partner"means to you. And there's no wrong answer. Some of the most solid marriages only ever have one income. Some need both to be bringing in money and both doing the chores. I think those rarely work, myself, but hey... You gotta be on the same page, same plan.

i swear I wish a guy friend of mine would do this. His wife refused to do anything and he paid all her bills for years while they were separated. They have no children! sick of it and he wonder why he cant get ahead

The problem is majority of Americans think debt is okay.. unless they are following Dave Ramsey plan then good luck finding someone

@BlueDauntless

15 күн бұрын

Maybe DR needs a FPU dating app.

You should NEVER live together before marriage. Your decision to be with her for 6 years living together was wrong. If you had 3 dates with her and wanted a committed relationship, then being exclusive followed by engagement was the next step. This is what my husband and I did, and we were married for 32 years before his passing. Our home and 2 vehicles were paid off along with other debt. If you're thinking that as a homemaker I did nothing, I took care of our house and 2 children as well as managing our income, so our debt could be paid off when the time came.

I guess I'm too practical. My husband and I talked about our views on money when we were just friends, before we even thought about dating, as well as the politics, religion, and children questions. We talked about them again in a specific way right before we got engaged, but I would not recommend waiting months to even broach those topics. That is a lot of wasted time and energy!

This young man needs more life experience