I have realized I love my best friend of 25 years - But I'm LESBIAN.

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  • @codyjoe87
    @codyjoe8713 күн бұрын

    they sound like good people hopefully she makes it

  • @Lucius2toxic

    @Lucius2toxic

    6 күн бұрын

    Not to burst your bubble but these stories are Ai generated

  • @kakyointenmei2898

    @kakyointenmei2898

    6 күн бұрын

    ​@@Lucius2toxicWAIT FR???? BROOOOO 😭😭😭

  • @imwierdandimproud202

    @imwierdandimproud202

    3 күн бұрын

    @@Lucius2toxicno theyre not, i saw the reddit post itself of this story

  • @imwierdandimproud202

    @imwierdandimproud202

    3 күн бұрын

    @@kakyointenmei2898nah the man's wrong idk why he thinks the story is ai generated 😭 the voice is but not the story

  • @Lucius2toxic

    @Lucius2toxic

    3 күн бұрын

    @@imwierdandimproud202 most of them are

  • @ny13c
    @ny13c8 күн бұрын

    and THIS is why i don’t label myself. i just love who i love :)

  • @Darrthvaderr
    @Darrthvaderr3 күн бұрын

    Dear god please don’t let this be fake 🥺 it’s enough to make a grown-ish man cry 😭

  • @mikeafton3539

    @mikeafton3539

    3 күн бұрын

    Im not crying you are

  • @commanderexplosive4235

    @commanderexplosive4235

    3 күн бұрын

    @@mikeafton3539(pats shoulder) its ok we all are crying

  • @UnfairCoffee3

    @UnfairCoffee3

    3 күн бұрын

    ​@@commanderexplosive4235 yep

  • @tatsuyahiiragi416
    @tatsuyahiiragi4168 күн бұрын

    Bi, with a preference in men so specific he is the only one to fill the criteria

  • @mariannehorn1375

    @mariannehorn1375

    14 сағат бұрын

    @@tatsuyahiiragi416 i think that she might just have romantic but No sexual feelings for him since it's been the same man those years ago, but there's also a Chance that some of the cancer Treatment messed with her Hormones for some reason making him more attractive to her

  • @lozssaddict
    @lozssaddict2 күн бұрын

    This is story book love. It’s so rare for it to be so perfect

  • @CrazyPerson760
    @CrazyPerson7608 күн бұрын

    This needs to be made into a movie istg 😭

  • @kod4kaj
    @kod4kaj8 күн бұрын

    oh my fucking god im literally bawling this is such a beautiful story😭😭 i need a man like this😭🙏

  • @samemask8232
    @samemask82326 күн бұрын

    She didn't just find his soulmate, she found his guardian angel

  • @LilVolcaneo
    @LilVolcaneo11 күн бұрын

    She could also just be bi-romantic, or ace. The way she describes it, she could be demi too? Sexuality is a spectrum, and it’s not always one size fits all 🤷

  • @Literally_A_Tree

    @Literally_A_Tree

    9 күн бұрын

    Yeah, I agree Def sounds like demi

  • @ny13c

    @ny13c

    8 күн бұрын

    this is exactly why in my perfect world we’d ditch labels all together. i think it’s so much less about the gender of the person and so much more about who the person is. i think it’s just so ingrained in our society that “you have to pick one”, “you have to label yourself”, “you need to know who you are”, that people end up warping their thoughts to fit that narrative.

  • @ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh4172

    @ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh4172

    7 күн бұрын

    @@ny13cthat is so true

  • @blanc__a
    @blanc__a4 күн бұрын

    maybe she is demisexual? with repulsion to attraction before connection is made? i have no idea, but this just goes to show how truly strong her bond is with james.

  • @mariannehorn1375

    @mariannehorn1375

    23 сағат бұрын

    Or sexuality attracted to women and romanticaly attracted to men

  • @emapocubayova4763

    @emapocubayova4763

    11 сағат бұрын

    My thinking too. Lesbian but also demisexual

  • @xandervc26
    @xandervc268 күн бұрын

    She might be a lesbian and is a demisexual when it comes to him. Anyway, it is a pretty cute story. I hope(if this is real) they got their happy ending. ❤

  • @DANYELASF

    @DANYELASF

    7 күн бұрын

    That's not how it works

  • @xandervc26

    @xandervc26

    7 күн бұрын

    @DANYELASF if you can educate me on this, it'll be greatly appreciated. I recently came out as gay and am still new to learning the sexuality spectrum.

  • @DANYELASF

    @DANYELASF

    7 күн бұрын

    @xandervc26 basically, the aro-ace spectrum just explains the level someone feels sexual/romantic attraction, but it doesn't change the attraction, if someone is lesbian and demisexual it mean they have little sexual attraction to women's and women's only, no attraction to men's in any format or shape , so even though she could be ace she can't be a lesbian or any other label for only loving women, because she has romantic feelings for a men

  • @xandervc26

    @xandervc26

    7 күн бұрын

    @@DANYELASF so is she Bi maybe?

  • @DANYELASF

    @DANYELASF

    7 күн бұрын

    @xandervc26 since she hasn't chosen a specific label we could use the umbrella term that is multisexual

  • @jaikobie1353
    @jaikobie13536 күн бұрын

    Bros so smooth he turned a gay women straight

  • @PB_J.9732
    @PB_J.97329 күн бұрын

    Ok but why does this sound like a movie fr

  • @-zack8960
    @-zack89604 күн бұрын

    There’s been no update on this story in a year. I fear the worst has come to pass but I hope to all that is good that she’s better and they’re just too happy and busy to update everyone.

  • @taka-wy3pk
    @taka-wy3pk5 күн бұрын

    even if this maybe fake it makes me feel so lonely😭😭

  • @silverpanseckhual6504
    @silverpanseckhual65049 күн бұрын

    If it needs a name it's Homoflexible, but I think it's just...love. that's the only label it needs.

  • @AmadeusHemmitt
    @AmadeusHemmitt8 күн бұрын

    Jesus Christ. I want James!

  • @meirionpenddraig2127

    @meirionpenddraig2127

    6 күн бұрын

    I'm a straight man, and even I want James now 😅

  • @fajernauman5720

    @fajernauman5720

    6 күн бұрын

    Me too 😭

  • @funcrafter99
    @funcrafter997 күн бұрын

    Make this a movie 🗣️🗣️🔥🔥

  • @v1nc3nt_bl4ck4

    @v1nc3nt_bl4ck4

    7 күн бұрын

    Defo worth paying the overpriced ticket to go watch this if it were to turn into a movie but it’s gotta to have likeable actors

  • @Butterflies_blackcats
    @Butterflies_blackcats8 күн бұрын

    Not me sobbing

  • @glitteredeye
    @glitteredeye8 күн бұрын

    That’s a beautiful story.

  • @Akeqo
    @Akeqo7 күн бұрын

    Great now I’m crying I want love like this T_T

  • @MWWMWMWMMWWMWMWWWMWMWWWMWWMWMW

    @MWWMWMWMMWWMWMWWWMWMWWWMWWMWMW

    7 күн бұрын

    Yeah

  • @Akeqo

    @Akeqo

    7 күн бұрын

    @@MWWMWMWMMWWMWMWWWMWMWWWMWWMWMW long ass name ngl

  • @mslizzieforbes
    @mslizzieforbes7 күн бұрын

    It sounds like bestie is ace spec

  • @edgarallanalejandro641
    @edgarallanalejandro6418 күн бұрын

    She is most likely Bai but only for one man.

  • @someoneontheinternet4518

    @someoneontheinternet4518

    7 күн бұрын

    The real bisexual women experience - being attracted to every woman and then 1-4 weird men

  • @jeanfraga5322
    @jeanfraga532210 сағат бұрын

    "Seems like you're bi, isn't it..." Our new society became so attached to labels and classifications that we forgot that in the end, everyone is still human, and love is universal. It doesn't matter how you identify yourself, don't block your life from new experiences. I know it sounds easier than it is, mostly because most generations post-2000 grew up in this neo-segregated society. But look at what happened here; she had to go through cancer to understand the meaning of love.

  • @mikeafton3539
    @mikeafton35393 күн бұрын

    Im not crying you are

  • @TiredAeris
    @TiredAeris6 күн бұрын

    I WANT TO BELIEVE THIS IS FAKE BUT I CANT UGHHHH

  • @sanketchodankar2909
    @sanketchodankar29093 күн бұрын

    My heart 🥹💙

  • @NoraMoon10
    @NoraMoon108 күн бұрын

    Bro im literally crying this is beautiful 😢😭

  • @Olives1306
    @Olives13069 күн бұрын

    Platonic love is real

  • @zeroandthezeroclanderact1408
    @zeroandthezeroclanderact14089 күн бұрын

    What ifs she’s not gay or straight why can’t she just love a certain person? Or maybe she’s not gay but she doesn’t like the thought of being with others guys other than him and got her ideas mixed up I’m just saying we don’t have to slap a label just because there are labels she’s in love with dude that’s the only thing that matters it doesn’t need a label it’s not gay straight bi or any of that crap just love simple and the truth

  • @charitabletrader1581
    @charitabletrader15815 күн бұрын

    I hope she survives it and they’re happy together! ❤❤❤ such a beautiful story!

  • @ephyx_
    @ephyx_7 күн бұрын

    I am SOBBING

  • @KaijuAdobo
    @KaijuAdobo7 күн бұрын

    im worried for him because she said she is lesbian. i hope she cant love him back the same as he loves her. i dont want this mane to get hurt down the line.

  • @hevinm8374

    @hevinm8374

    7 күн бұрын

    💀💀💀

  • @skully70

    @skully70

    7 күн бұрын

    Love is love. It doesn't have to be romantic or sexual. They are chosen family. That's all that matters!

  • @Pig__Slayer
    @Pig__Slayer6 күн бұрын

    My bro is the lesbian cure lol

  • @hdhsjabxhsk
    @hdhsjabxhsk4 күн бұрын

    this makes me feel like autumn and finny if they worked out

  • @stevealdridge7385
    @stevealdridge73857 күн бұрын

    This made me cry!!! It’s so wholesome and cute!!! 😫🥹

  • @smashmaniac2008
    @smashmaniac20082 күн бұрын

    Why can’t he be my man damn

  • @otta2874
    @otta28744 күн бұрын

    I NEED ME SOME LOVE LIKED THIS😢😭

  • @gamingwithall3741
    @gamingwithall37417 күн бұрын

    He is the type of boy I was but I changed for that one girl and is hurts me 😢😢

  • @kingxx9

    @kingxx9

    7 күн бұрын

    Love is a gift and a cursed man

  • @TacticalLeo
    @TacticalLeo5 күн бұрын

    I cried. It was soooo sweet!

  • @annvinadenae6587
    @annvinadenae65877 күн бұрын

    I just want to be loved like this 😭

  • @cyberwolfy37
    @cyberwolfy379 күн бұрын

    Sounds too fantastic to be real.

  • @beverbii
    @beverbii10 күн бұрын

    Romantic and platonic love are always gonna be hard to distingushe. This sounds like playonic love mixed with presure from her family to like a man romanticaly :/

  • @heyder9403

    @heyder9403

    10 күн бұрын

    I mean she could be bi, there can be preferences to only sexual or romantic attraction to each gender

  • @garethscott418

    @garethscott418

    9 күн бұрын

    She could be a bi-romantic lesbian, She could be bisexual with demi-sexual attraction towards men.

  • @annvinadenae6587
    @annvinadenae65877 күн бұрын

    Stop I'm literally crying 😭

  • @Saint._.Fortune
    @Saint._.Fortune8 күн бұрын

    Shi hits a lil too close to home

  • @greenmario6598
    @greenmario65988 күн бұрын

    I love this

  • @samanthadolcine793

    @samanthadolcine793

    8 күн бұрын

    Same I cried a little at the end. Hope she gets better

  • @DG-cj4cw
    @DG-cj4cw19 сағат бұрын

    The whole story is about a dude who had so much rizz he reset his girl to default settings

  • @nobody1v274

    @nobody1v274

    10 сағат бұрын

    Bro😂😂😂😂💀💀💀

  • @annabloem5533

    @annabloem5533

    8 сағат бұрын

    im trying to keep quiet here at 1am and you're not helping!

  • @iihrtu
    @iihrtu9 күн бұрын

    god i need me someone like james :(

  • @myUwUzi
    @myUwUzi7 күн бұрын

    I’m not crying

  • @Eclipses_Monkeys
    @Eclipses_Monkeys7 күн бұрын

    Not trying to make this seem bad but this sounds like one of the GOOD and I quote gacha story 😭

  • @danielspeights9919
    @danielspeights99197 күн бұрын

    Its love true love

  • @lollollolool3330
    @lollollolool33308 күн бұрын

    Tell him you love him your life might be short he needs to know but if you don’t make it tell him you want him to move on

  • @ilksmi
    @ilksmi7 күн бұрын

    Uh.. Anyone know the ending after the continuation vid..?

  • @riliena

    @riliena

    7 күн бұрын

    What do you mean?

  • @ilksmi

    @ilksmi

    7 күн бұрын

    @@rilienalike technically doesn’t anyone know of any updates after the updates in this video ^^

  • @yes-indeed

    @yes-indeed

    7 күн бұрын

    @@ilksmi Dear God, what did I do to deserve this man? I teared up again and he held me one last time. Then the doctors came in. He kissed me goodnight. We both said I love you but it felt so different. It's never felt so good to say or hear those words. Then he smiled at me and left. I was so excited the first thing I did was call mom and she was just ecstatic. I think she might be happier than me, which is saying something lol. As soon as I told her what happened and that James and I are together she just started crying and talking about what a good boy he is, how she just knew this would happen and that she can rest easy now because she knows I will always be loved and taken care of. Plenty of her "destiny" talk which usually gets on my nerves but honestly I was so happy tonight, fuck it I'm on board. Maybe it was destiny. I guess sometimes mom really does know best. I feel like a teenager again. I never thought I'd feel this way again in my life. I never even imagined if I did it would be for a man. God I love him so much. Now I can't understand what I was ever worried about or why I didn't do this years ago. Thanks so much to everyone who read my story and helped give me the perspective and courage I needed to finally do what I should've done years ago. Now as long as my health cooperates… I'll be one of the lucky ones too, because I am his Awww this is so nice. The writer in me is also very happy the formatting on my first post was fixed here, because I couldn't edit it in my original post and it was all messed up =(. I guess as another small update -- things are going pretty well for me considering the circumstances. Oncologist is still very optimistic and I am feeling better (not at the moment, but that's because of chemo last week). I'm responding very well to treatments and things are continuing to look better and better on the health front. And James has just been the absolute best. He was already such a huge source of support for me before I told him how I felt and we became a couple -- but since then... man, there's no words for it. I guess he feels like he doesn't have to hold back on the affection/support and it's been absolutely wonderful being cradled in his love basically every hour of the day. I feel so lucky and I am so glad I told him, and so thankful to everyone who responded to my post and helped me muster the courage to do so.

  • @yes-indeed

    @yes-indeed

    7 күн бұрын

    ⁠@@ilksmimy ckmment is ops most recent update and by the way, these videos leave out a lot to make it shorter and sometimes harder for people to find so if you want ypu can search up “I am battling cancer. I’m gay but i realized i have loved my best friend of 25 years. I need to vent and am looking for advice on whether to tell him or not” everything about the story will be on bestofredditorsupdates

  • @ilksmi

    @ilksmi

    7 күн бұрын

    @@yes-indeed TYSMMMM

  • @fajernauman5720
    @fajernauman57206 күн бұрын

    I need an update, please 🙏

  • @BookWormLA
    @BookWormLA13 күн бұрын

    Whoes breaking it to her she is pansexual? Like she’s not attracted to men she’s attracted to this person and women. Seriously though I’m so happy for them I hope they make it

  • @gsic_hookup4784

    @gsic_hookup4784

    13 күн бұрын

    Bro shut up

  • @KytSpade

    @KytSpade

    13 күн бұрын

    I think the problem is that we’re so quick to prescribe labels but sexuality is different for everyone and people should be allowed to identify with whatever they feel best represents them or forgo it altogether

  • @sleepingguard01

    @sleepingguard01

    13 күн бұрын

    Life is more complicated than that, and while some people want to have labels all figured out some people don’t mind the gray areas. I think op can still totally ID as a lesbian, no problem. She isn’t “actually” anything, and doesn’t have to change it if she doesn’t feel awkward with the label. It’s up to her to decide (if she even wants to think about it more deeply) not us randos on the internet :-) I’m just glad they’re happy! Queer people come in all styles!

  • @nugget3878

    @nugget3878

    11 күн бұрын

    I'd say that too but at the end of the day , sexualities don't need labels , I don't like labels but I use them to make it easier for others to understand

  • @Arias19

    @Arias19

    11 күн бұрын

    ​@@gsic_hookup4784 Look at youuu so proud being an A hole :-)

  • @DANYELASF
    @DANYELASF7 күн бұрын

    then.... she wasn't a lesbian

  • @skylarhoward4483

    @skylarhoward4483

    5 күн бұрын

    More than likely homoflexible. Where a gay man or lesbian woman feels occasional attraction towards the opposite gender, or sex in some cases.

  • @aspa11

    @aspa11

    2 күн бұрын

    ​@@skylarhoward4483or maybe bisexual

  • @ProfessorWhooves11

    @ProfessorWhooves11

    15 сағат бұрын

    @@aspa11I agree with that. I’m bisexual, but more attracted to men than women. So she’s more attracted to women than men.

  • @jdmozee12
    @jdmozee125 күн бұрын

    I hope he got some kids out of this

  • @rickeyg2485
    @rickeyg24856 күн бұрын

    This is God at work! Praise Christ

  • @user-zk1ye8bc7x
    @user-zk1ye8bc7x6 күн бұрын

    As a Christian I can’t say her sexuality is aligned with my beliefs but I hope she is happy.

  • @tammystewart7429
    @tammystewart742910 күн бұрын

    So in other words she isn’t gay but just can’t admit it. Heterophobia.

  • @Literally_A_Tree

    @Literally_A_Tree

    9 күн бұрын

    No? She is exploring her identity Is that a crime?

  • @BeanieBear528

    @BeanieBear528

    9 күн бұрын

    No, a more accurate thing would be "so in other words she loves him romantically but isn't attracted to him or his gender as a whole"

  • @Hav.en_

    @Hav.en_

    9 күн бұрын

    Or yk she could be bi

  • @user-kn4fn8pg7e

    @user-kn4fn8pg7e

    9 күн бұрын

    Bro, take it from me, a bisexual, it's totally possible to feel this way. Bisexualilty doesnt even have to mean liking all genders equaly and in the same way, fx., I have a preference for Men, and I am also more demisexual when it comes to women. Still gay tho

  • @gregyanni3800

    @gregyanni3800

    9 күн бұрын

    No… she’s dated women and she knows she likes women. It’s just her best friend who is a man that she likes.

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