Thanks for being so supportive of my journey! I love y'all so much! Watching the video back, I just wanted to clarify that I do have real friends, they just don't live in LA. I made it seem like I had zero friends in the world and in my opinion, it discredited my closest girls. So, I would like to shoutout my girl Reana for always being here for me even from Chicago! She's a busy ass girl boss and still takes the time out to check on me. She's moving back to LA soon, I'm crazy excited about that!! and of course Dainá, even from London she is always someone I can count on at any time of day. We will talk on text for hours about any and everything, she's always there for me! Love them bothhhhh

@Travelwithtoi

5 жыл бұрын

I think you should definitely do a meet up in LA for your subscribers! It will help you meet your supporters and give you something fun to do that day:) I love your transparency, keep pushing and stay blessed,

@MrsBrittanyGold

5 жыл бұрын

I love that you’re being so transparent. It helps me to focus on all that I have and not what I don’t. I can go down a spiral if I focus on allllll the things I want and lack but it makes me feel so much better when I start from moving my toes and saying “ thank God I can move my feet” and “thank God I can walk” “thank God I’m breathing on my own and not in a hospital bed”. Idk it works for me.. I pray you feel better... and when I’m alone I like to talk to God and talk to him about how I feel and it always makes me feel better.

@faithjordan8801

5 жыл бұрын

ALYSSA FOREVER Hey Alyssa, I really loved this video it was very raw and real, it’s ok to feel alone. I’m glad that you’ve deemed this as a time period in your life that you can overcome. You should do some activities in your area so you can make friends that are close to you distance wise. Whether that be a cooking class, dance, ex. I think it would be good for you. I know you’ll make it out of this slump and if you ever need to talk or rant we’ll always here for you.

@PositiveVibesONLY_Channel

5 жыл бұрын

I love you and Dainas vlogs! Great chemistry & fun 💖💖

@noor7913

5 жыл бұрын

Alyssa it’s super brave of you to share this. Please know that the negative feelings you are having right now is temporary. Things will get better, just keep pushing yourself. I would love to hang out and do a bunch of activities when I finally visit California this year. You’re never alone sis. Peace & Love

Whose apart of the lonely club 🙋🏾‍♀️ we need to start a group chat lol

@camposyaya42

5 жыл бұрын

Lets start a IG one 😫🤷🏻‍♀️ lol

@adriannac482

5 жыл бұрын

Yeseeeeee

@emiliapetty680

5 жыл бұрын

Yassss

@RivaTheDiva

5 жыл бұрын

Yahaira Campos yessss we should jus go ahead and call it the lonely club lol

@giovannap3530

5 жыл бұрын

Meee 🤦🏽‍♀️

I used to get so disappointed all of the time when friends bailed out or didn't want to do something I wanted to do. Then my mom told me I can't wait on others or I would miss out on so much. Challenge yourself to see a movie alone, go to a happy hour and sit at the bar, have lunch alone at your favorite restaurant or concert. You will be surprised that you can do things alone and you may end up chatting with the person next to you. To this day my friends know I don't wait on them. They can get on the boat or get left. LOL. Yes it will seem scary or weird at first. Try it and I promise you will thank yourself later.

@nca4794

5 жыл бұрын

Best advice!!! It's SO freeing! 💃💃💃

@viviozza6838

5 жыл бұрын

Exactly and by doing this you can even meet new people, form new relationships

@marquitabrooks73

5 жыл бұрын

epiphanyloa same girl same. I don’t mind going out by myself now. I don’t wait on anyone anymore because clearly you don’t want it as bad as I do and I can’t live my life off others.

@Tenetia

5 жыл бұрын

This is helpful I’m going to try it out!

@cegecej

5 жыл бұрын

I do this all the time and always have.... it is liberating

"Its like people don't care about my feelings like I care about theirs." I felt that.

@ericag.7337

4 жыл бұрын

Kalita Lamba jnj

@noname-kf2ez

4 жыл бұрын

Kalita Lamba feltttt

Brought tears to my eyes when you were on the beach talking about being lonely. I always feel the same way so I never go out to do anything because I don’t want to look like the loner that I feel like.

@Cedesthegemini

5 жыл бұрын

alexasimmons15 you aren’t a loner 💯 & you’re beautiful!!! Keep ya head up mama

@pennyduncan2002

5 жыл бұрын

We all are loners where born alone and we die alone embrace it.

@ArmyBarbie

4 жыл бұрын

Definitely a loner now too.... idk where this came from😩

Don’t depend on people for happiness. Find it within yourself. People are temporary.

@cegecej

5 жыл бұрын

One of the best comments on here

@Listening4n0w

5 жыл бұрын

Ash ley Let's be real here, we naturally desire companionship as human beings. Be it family, significant other or friends. People may be temporary but a friend lasts a lifetime.

@diving.deep.

5 жыл бұрын

Preachhhhh

@darliciatv8040

4 жыл бұрын

Humans need humans. You just gotta find the right ones.

It's kind of sad but a lot of us our age especially millennials are really lonely. I've been there before so I understand. That's good you went out the house. Rooting for you babe.💓

This is for the 2% that will read this...... I just want to let you know that YOU are beautiful inside and out, and any struggles you're going through you will get through it. Remember you have to weather the storm. And when you do, there is always sunshine at the end.

This is so real, I relate heavy. Cmon growth, love this

@lledo3296

5 жыл бұрын

Kasi Alae I said the same thing...totally relate...

also use my alone time (on beach etc) to journal (manifestation), meditate, read, think about my future blessings, think about my current blessings, my goals. Don’t use the alone time to break yourself down, use it to build yourself up!!!

@nibabi

5 жыл бұрын

Ash Project This is great advice!

@chosen2467

5 жыл бұрын

Amen well said !!!!

@nieciescott2868

5 жыл бұрын

Yes! I wished I lived by a beach and go by myself, hear the waves and be with God🙏🏽

@WillaMorton

5 жыл бұрын

Perspective is everything! 👌🏾

@yanisaortega9537

5 жыл бұрын

That's beautiful! 💖🖤 thank you for those words.

She’s literally the friend every introvert wishes they had .... me... I’m introvert

Girl I was soo young when I was pretty much forced to do things alone. Then I started to really enjoy and love my own company. It’ll come as you start to do more and more things. For my 22nd bday, I went to ATL alone during Super Bowl weekend and had the best time. Then that’s when I knew I could really conquer anything fr. This is a cleansing time in your life and you would much rather be alone than have toxicity flowing everywhere. The right people will come organically & also when you start manifesting. You got this boo 🖤🖤🖤

Finally a KZreadr I could relate to when it comes to having no friends lol...I feel like all the other KZreadrs stay going out with hella friends and I just can’t relate 😩

@Kharris6

5 жыл бұрын

Yesss

@lilangel1773

5 жыл бұрын

yesss 🥺😭😭😭😭😭😭

Girl I ain’t got no friends either lol

@Zahlit20

5 жыл бұрын

Sameee 😭🤭 It's gon be okay tho, we gon find someone who values our time and actually cares about us

@llllllllll9577

5 жыл бұрын

I'll be your friend 😘 I'm 33 female I'm just like sad 24/7 anymore

@llllllllll9577

5 жыл бұрын

I ain't hittin on anyone I'm just a normal person :/

@Theshaaymariie

4 жыл бұрын

Same ! Maybe if I had money so I can enjoy things by myself 😭

1- you're hella pretty. (THAT MAKEUP??) 2- i love how raw and real this video is

10:37 “don’t worry y’all, you’re in a basket, that’s why you’re like this, but don’t worry, you’re not gonna fall” aww lol

I appreciate how raw this video is. I love it so much, you remind me so much of me.

@Novi_poppin

5 жыл бұрын

Unique Martinez I was think the same thing.

@sunday4754

5 жыл бұрын

Unique Martinez it’s so amazing n this is how all videos should be like.

alyssa i felt like i was watching myself in this vlog. thank you so so so so much for being transparent in a world where every influencer, every person is trying to put out this happy lifestyle where they have fun all day everyday and have a whole gang of the best friends. i never comment but just want you to know you are appreciated and i'm praying it gets better for those of us who feel like this. glad u still decided to go to the beach, you inspired me cause i probably would've went home :(

When you said, "I'm tryna downplay my feelings". I felt that

I'm about to faithfully watch your videos to better understand myself bc good lord we are to alike

Believe it or not this whole day happened exactly how it was supposed to. You are going to look back at this video one day SOON like “look at how far I’ve come”. I’m excited for your growth and journey! Prada you ✨

" I feel like people don't care about my feelings as much as I do" I felt that Alyssa. My problem is, I give too much to people and I care way more about them then they care about me. I need to practice self love, put myself first before others, and be happy with my own company. I love you so much. Been following you since aimhighflyhigh❤both of us (including others) are going through hard times for a reason. To become the higher versions of ourselves. Stay strong. Your videos keep me uplifted.

@Abmarp

5 жыл бұрын

Fact

@deborahawe5428

5 жыл бұрын

Amen

Why not try volunteering. Great way to meet people and share or learn new skills

@SharelB1

5 жыл бұрын

hunny blush absolutely. I suggested that a while ago in another video. I think it’d be great for her.

@clairerenee1660

5 жыл бұрын

hunny blush agreed.

@kthename08

5 жыл бұрын

Yass, I love volunteering too! I feel bad when I can't go as much as I like

wow, i feel like i just watched myself in this video. I can relate heavy. I appreciate this type of transparency within social media because it’s REAL. Many blessings coming your way pretty girl. 💕

This video is so important. So many people feel so isolated and don't know why, so I think it's amazing that you're able to be so open about your experience with that. Not sure if this will make you feel any better, but I think that heavy sinking feeling is sometimes hard to get out of and for me the only way out of the sadness was through it. Maybe that quicksand is pulling you into something that you need to sink into. But on a positive note, I love your videos, but hope that on the days when you want to just sit and be alone or introspective, that you know we're all wishing the best for you. Keep on this path girl. It's worth it.

We have to protect our energy girl. You gotta start associating with people who respect our time and presence in their lives. Period! Glad you were real with yourself about your feelings because they’re real and valid! It does feel like rejection and sometimes it is rejection. 🤷🏾‍♀️ That’s why we gotta be selective with our associations! Edit: This video was perfect. You’re at least willing to do the work to get the life you truly want. This was so beautiful to hear you speak about! Hang in there girl... we out here dealing and figuring it out together!!!

Idk why KZread recommended me this video but girl I just subscribed, you’re so raw and I felt this on a spiritual level.

@youtubischill1303

5 жыл бұрын

SAME !! i just like her by her videos she seems like a real one .. they are often kinda lonely in this fake ass expensive world haha

@maricela_lopez

5 жыл бұрын

Maryam x’ same

I be lonely as shittt but I know the best thing is coming when I least expect it. I just keep working on me so that I can attract the right attention. Everything I am gets magnetized to me. Hang in there hunni!!

I commend you for going anyway because I might’ve gone back home. 😩😩😩

I actually like traveling and doing things solo, I feel more at ease.

I was also overwhelmed applying and going into law school, dealing with a break up and being completely out of my element. The only piece of calming advice I got was just to imagine that no matter which direction things go in they WILL workout. ... I graduated and just took the BAR :)

@lawyerportal5226

4 жыл бұрын

GoJhaneGo I’m in the same position as you at the moment. About to apply to law school and going through a breakup. Seeing this gave me hope :) I hope everything is okay now xx

@SO01j20

4 жыл бұрын

Congratulations I’m in law school right now it’s nice to hear a positive genuine outcome

I don't know why but I have a strong feeling that LA is not for you. I feel like things would be better in a different place. Yeah I know - who am I to say lol but it's just a strong feeling I have

@SarahHubbell

5 жыл бұрын

LA can be a toxic place that's just the reality

@kittypawz27

5 жыл бұрын

u just gotta find the right ppl lol blaming la is so annoying

@tikdoe7563

5 жыл бұрын

@@kittypawz27 Different cities have different cultures, sometimes the culture of that city just isn't for you.

@gothicshawty5676

5 жыл бұрын

LA is filled with a lot of people who are doing anything to make it, so I can see how it may not be a fit for some genuine and sensitive people. But I also think it’s filled with creative people who have passions. Not just LA but California in general. You just have to find those people who are geeks about what they love and are trying to make it through passion. It is tough though.

@FaithsStardust

5 жыл бұрын

@@kittypawz27 I'm currently at Univercity in a smallish city withinin England, and what I have learnt in my two years of being here, is that the culture in this small city just isn't for me. There are nice people here, but ultimately, the town/city is trapped in a bubble that glorifies getting smashed (getting drunk) whilst going to pubs & clubs every f*king evening (I've noticed it's their main topic of conversation ..it can get boring). That's the culture here in this city/town.. which simply isn't for me. Same goes for their fasion. It's the same shit. No originality. The only ones that stand out fashionably here, are the Univercity students, visitors & Goths. I am from London originally, so this is a shock to me ... In London, a Goth usually blends in due to such divercity in clothing styles, so for a Goth to stand out here as the only/main 'alternative' dress sense....reaalllllyyy says something. I have all but 1 friend who is actually from this city the rest are from outside. Why? (If it wasn't obvious already) The cities culture.

Sis stop over thinking ! And Live !!!! You are fearfully and wonderfully made !

Your content is helping me through a very rough time in my life. I’ve never related to anyone more. Thank you for sharing your personal life.

Omg I wanna hug u man. I hate when that happens to me ... I wish I had friends lowkey also. I freaking feel u!!!! I can see u so heartbroken and bouta cry usually I just keep going u know. The world doesn’t stop..

girl I really feel you. I'm so introverted yet can't feel my emotions sometimes. almost every time I have plans they cancel/ let me down. much love

please don’t ever stop these! whether you see it or not your videos and your transparency is really helping others! keep it up sis ❣️

When you complain the universe gives u more to complain about. The same is true for gratitude. U sound like the old me which was not too long ago. Until I realized I control my happiness. There is so much in my life that I can complain about, like not having a job... But I choose to say thanks for all the little I have. I used to believe I have no friends till I stopped and realized that friendship is a two way street. If someone doesn't reach out to u, u can reach out to them. Nothing in life lasts forever also remember to live for moments and not days. Days are made up of moments, make each one count.

@miznikki2u

5 жыл бұрын

so true!

Yesss girl totally felt your mood in every sense but thanks for putting this out and to show that you kept going with your day and still did something for yourself. Thank you for encouraging us out here that be on the same boat 💓

So relatable! Thank you for opening up. What I am learning now is that you teach people how they should treat you. People will treat your time and presence as “insignificant” because you allowed them to treat it like that. Speak up! Even if your voice shakes! Much love and stay Blessed!✨

Alyssa, you’re in a beautiful state. Blessed and privileged to have the time to enjoy the beach. I think getting regular exercise and getting stronger physically would help your mood and focus.

It looked like you had a lot of fun by yourself. I'm proud of you

Your emotional honesty is so refreshing! Thank you for that!!!

$900 ain’t a lil’ extra to some people girl lol but love that you appreciate the struggling artists ✊🏽

I have the same sentiments. Your feelings are valid. There are people like you, like me. We’re here, there are people with the same feelings.

Your internet besties Love You. You’re helping more people than you know, Don’t Ever doubt yourself ❤️

and that beautiful positive energy you have to alway seeing the other side of a situation is golden in this life. you’re a rare gem and I appreciate you for existing w that mindset in a world where people are so dead set on themselves and being selfish. you will understand why this all is soon, keep pondering on your existence and why you react the ways you do. you can’t control life circumstances but you can control your reaction to them and I love how you understand that. I definitely just subscribed

I appreciate how emotionally intelligent she is. I related to this soo much, thank u for sharing Alyssa💓

Wow why is this my life my exact situation, feelings etc. That’s why I held on to my ex for so long because at least I could turn to him. But I realized the fact that I can’t be alone and happy is a problem. I should be able to enjoy my own company in a relationship, friendship, single etc. I’m challenging myself to do more things alone, and not rely on others that way I’m not disappointed when they let me down. I’m able to do it myself... no problem. The best things about being alone is the day is completely yours to plan. You don’t have to please anyone, compromise.....nothing!!! I have full control of my day. Keep Pushing yourself Alyssa.... after awhile it will become second nature to do these things solo. I even want to do a solo trip.... ppl say you should travel alone at least once.

@nibabi

5 жыл бұрын

Ash Project Yes! I love being able to run my day without anyone else interjecting.

This makes me feel not alone, and relatable. Getting to see it in someone else's life is almost beautiful bc you can see growth of self love, and self care. I've been to myself, relearning me, and caring for the times when this happens to me. Even in that sadness, honesty, and rawness just shows you more of you. Needing where to grow, and really loving you, for you. When you can be truly honest to yourself to this level shows how your ready for things to change around you, and preparing yourself for it. Thank you for sharing this Rawness of emotions.

Awww Alyssa! I teared up listening to you on the beach. You need a big hug ♥️🥺 I hear you girl, keep pushing!

Thanks for posting! Honestly, can relate! Keep on doing what you do, whether it’s with someone else or just you!

I can relate to caring sooo much for people. It sucks Im usually by myself for the most part now.

@kiagray

5 жыл бұрын

Whew yes.. it sucks

$450 a piece. I can’t wait for the day where i can blow 900 dollars on art lol.

@epiphanyloa

5 жыл бұрын

That dude is an up and coming artist and I bet she could have talked him down to almost nothing. I know he was doing the happy dance when she paid for them. 😂

@jewelofwisdom8279

5 жыл бұрын

Right! He was probably shoookkk!!!! That’s why you don’t make financial decisions when you’re in your feelings. She wanted those paintings b/c they were colorful and might make her happy and they won’t b/c material things never do and will likely regret buying them but she helped dude and she can always share the art with someone else.

@Mini-rt8bm

5 жыл бұрын

@@epiphanyloa even though he's up and coming. If he feel like that's what his pieces are worth then so be it. He hustling like everyone else.

@JazmyneAlexandria

5 жыл бұрын

Right just so casual about it 😂

@tiaraw872

5 жыл бұрын

Ruby InspiredIt or OR maybe she just wanted them. We feel emotion all day

I would just like to thank you for posting these videos of you going through this journey with yourself. I identify with practically everything you are going through and the fact that someone else is going through the same things makes me feel less alone than i feel literally everyday and for the most part I am around ppl all the time with the job i have but i like no type of social life. So thank you girl! You motivate me and give me positive energy to move forward! Keep ya head up, we gon figure this shit out!!

You’re so real and authentic. I’ve thought a lot of these same thoughts. You’re not alone ❤️ thank you for sharing this, it makes me feel less alone too.

There is so much peace in solidarity girl. You are the universe, the universe is inside you. You are you're best friend and you don't let yourself down.

I would love to just ride a bike on a beach in L.A ,eating some mangos ,enjoying the view ,with music and some 🍃ALONE💯 .Count your blessings ,Feel better bonita ✌🏽💚🙏🏽

Realist video I’ve seen on KZread!!! I love that you did show the real side of you because reality is we’re not always happy go lucky and it’s normal to feel alone and sad sometimes it’s how we reflect on life. You go girl!!!!🦋🦋thank you...

I love this series! So raw and real & I can relate. Good for you for going on with your day regardless if it felt lonely

I love how you’re channel embraces the real and raw struggles that come with true self evolution & how your vids are becoming a series of entries that show the process of overcoming internal conflict ! This transparency is much needed Alyssa 😌🦋 I love seeing you dive deeper into yourself ! 💕

Omg your such a Gemini 😭I’m the same way I be wanting to throw a fit when people cancel on me but I try not to show my emotions

Thank you so much for showing this side of you. I relate to what you are feel right now !!! Don’t worry everything is gonna get better I know it’s tough now but keep it up and stay true to yourself Love ❤️

So happy you mentioned your therapist. And sat to really express your feelings! Therapy and self reflection is so necessary.

I swear to you we have the same emotions... I’m just so glad you are able to voice it and identify your emotions. Love you girl! You inspire me EVERY upload!

Bump that chick!! Glad you brought us along with you to the beach, THANK YOU!

Just here to support you and send good vibes your way ❤️ we’re all struggling but you’re strong as hell for showing the world, much love boo!

You've become one of my favorite influencers lately. I resonate soooo much with the authenticity of your videos lately. Thank you for sharing, honestly 💜

I relate to these feelings SOOO much. Just have to believe things will get better.

Sending love from VA 💚 trying to make friends as an adult is soooo hard

@illreel5169

5 жыл бұрын

Especially when you move from another State etc...👑✨👑

@beyoutifullyunique03

5 жыл бұрын

Junelle C. Yes it really is!

@msceandra

5 жыл бұрын

Yep it truly is

Thank you for your transparency! Self reflection is everything! 😊

You deserve more.. you’re the sweetest girl ever, honestly. Just keep pushing, keep being kind and keep doing you! The real ones will shine through eventually. It’s always just a waiting game which sucks but in time, what you deserve, will come ❤️

Take yourself on a dinner date!!!! Get dressed up, & just go!! You will eventually love the alone time

WHO ELSE LOVES ALYSSA BTW I'm a KZreadr too!

I love how your actually taking time to think about things/yout emotions

It’s powerful when something bad or out of the plan happens to you a you make a choice to say this is not going to ruin my day. I’m really proud of you for still going to the beach and stuff despite them standing you up‼️that’s growth💕💕

I’ve been feeling the same way this year as well and I just talked to God like he’s one of my friends and I can feel at peace. I’m praying that God places that friend that you’ve been waiting for in your life.❤️✨

Alyssa instead of focusing on being alone you should have enjoyed your time. You make your day the way it should go, if you want to be happy be happy. No one can make you happy. You must make yourself happy alone so you can be happy with others. xoxo.

@infinitedreaming222

5 жыл бұрын

But first she had to ALLOW HERSELF TO FEEL THAT EMOTION. Then she was free to enjoy the day which she did....

Thank you so much Alyssa for being so honest and open! I needed to hear this. You are not alone, I too live in a city where I have no friends. I've been told I'm too nice, it has caused me to be an introvert. I have recently decided to have fun and live my life and the rest will follow. Hang in there girl, you seem like a super likeable person, the right people will come into your life at the right time.

I’m a new viewer/subscriber and I appreciate your raw honesty! I can’t tell you how refreshing it is to see on KZread! Really makes me think if I’m truly recognizing my true emotions when stuff doesn’t go as planned. So thank you for that 💕

I'm sorry you were feeling so lonely. Hopefully when you look back at the footage you'll see what a beautiful day you had and that maybe the time alone was for a bigger purpose. It would be just like God to have used you as a blessing for that artist. 🤗

Y’all it’s hard being a Gemini 😭😭 i can relate 100%

@MarvelouslyMaya

5 жыл бұрын

Kenyatte Johnson I hadn’t realized we were all like this! I thought it was only me 😭😭

@itserinera8746

5 жыл бұрын

Funny I feel like it different for me. I seem to push people away or not let them in. The amount of people I have on delivered is crazy 😂😂

@itserinera8746

5 жыл бұрын

Kenyatte Johnson 😭😭

@kenyatteeeee

5 жыл бұрын

ItsErinera I’m sometimes like that too lmao. I think it’s my cancer moon

@reemohlabane

5 жыл бұрын

I knew it!!! I knew there was a reason I related every single she said! Thought I was crazy

I felt this on another level. Literally how I've been feeling and this pops up into my recommendations. Just subscribed-- thanks for being so raw. It feels good to know you're not alone.

This video was so necessary Alyssa. Thank you

You got this girl. You’re just fine, on the right track. Everything will come to you in due time, keep good thoughts and good energies around. You got this ❤️

This video hit hard, like it was so relatable. This is me 100%. Thank you for being so raw & honest with your feelings.

thank you so much for being raw ang genuine with ur emotions this is exactly how i feel rn u aren’t alone 💗

I feel this way all the time and so do many others, you're not alone with this

Alyssa seek God and keep him first.

@chosen2467

5 жыл бұрын

Amen, I concur. Alyssa God wants some alone time with him so that he can talk to, minister to you,give you what he knows that you need.

@soleil2269

5 жыл бұрын

Yes but sometimes that don’t help though

@cegecej

5 жыл бұрын

@@soleil2269 It does if you don't give up and finish going through your process.

@lailonnib

5 жыл бұрын

Seek Faith girl 🙄

@Sheknewnothing

5 жыл бұрын

@@soleil2269 Facts lol I love God, but dang some times you need like a real hug

So proud of you for your transparency & growth 💜 your struggles are so relatable. I have watched you for years & love you to pieces 💜

Thanks for sharing your journey with us. I commend you for still going and also acknowledging your real feelings.

Love the super real and authenticity! It’s so relatable

I’ve learned that balance is the key. It’s ok to feel lonely and be alone but don’t stay in that space forever. Reach out to others and check on the people in your life, and when you connect be honest and open.

I feel exactly how you feel in your life right now. I feel lonely and lost. It makes me feel so much better to watch your videos bc it makes me feel like I'm not the only person on the universe who feels like this. Never forget that by just being you're helping someone else out there! !

As a nearly 40 yr old woman who’s about to start therapy for the first time, this video is right on time for me. Watching you process and listening to you vocalize your feelings, I recognized most of the same feelings within me, but have been unable to find the words. Thank you, thank you, thank you!

There is a reason for Everything Sis God will give you time of solitude before huge blessings flow into your life so nothing or NO ONE can detour you from receiving them🙏🏽🥰

You are stronger because you’ve shared how you feel! I cried Watching because this describes how i feel, except i have all these people around me who don’t understand! Anyways thank you for sharing girl❤️ keep pushing through Alyssa! This too shall pass.

Welcome to the Quarter Life Crisis. Between the ages of 25-28 we all begin to question everything and where we are in life (family, friends, finances, goals, career, etc.) Trust me, it gets better. At this time, you have to discover who YOU are without the influence of other people. Learn what Alyssa likes and what is important to Alyssa and be unapologetic concerning the way you feel. What you don't comfort will continue to resurface. So if you're sad, be sad, but don't stay there. If you're happy, be happy and learn to enjoy the moment. Just know that growth is uncomfortable, but necessary. You got this chica!

@Infinitelydopeco

5 жыл бұрын

CC B that’s really good advice!

@UrUrbanRockstar

5 жыл бұрын

@@Infinitelydopeco Thank you.

What you focus on EXPANDS!! Don't keep repeating those words into your existence: "sad" "lonely" "depressed." When you do, you're getting exactly what you wish for, which is what you DON'T WANT!!! You're giving away your power when you focus on negative thoughts and feelings. Instead focus on what you DO WANT. So, even if/when you're not feeling it at a particular moment, tell yourself: I'm "happy," "I have a healthy social life," I'm a magnet for friendships" etc. Speak, think and most importantly FEEL those positive thoughts and words into your existence and watch how your life will change. XO

you got my respect for how real you are, even addressing an talkin bout your feelings even when you wanna ignore them.. many people can relate, thank you for that an keep doing what you doin💓💓