Hey lovelies!! 🥰 Tell me about your experiences!! 🥺❤️ Where do you live & do you still feel safe carrying your luxury bags? ❤️❤️❤️ Xx

@sharoncole8249

Жыл бұрын

Omg am so sorry this happened to you Romina am just glad you are ok. This is so upsetting. I will be honest l dont wear my nice bags unless am with my husband but thats because l am a very nervous person and am always thinking the worse .l do think its so sad that we can not go oout in this day and age with out been scared of this happening. Romina please dont get like me and to nervous to do anything. Because l hate how l am l wish l was not so nervous .l also dont think its where you live this can happen anywhere .sendi you so much love big huggssss to you dearXxx

@toofastforyall8590

Жыл бұрын

You may enjoy wearing luxury goods out. But it's not a very good idea in London to wear it as something casual. I'm telling you because I'm British, I would never wear my gold out some of it is 22 or 24k. I'd never walk alone in London past 7pm down a bare street ( it's asking for trouble ) I'm not going to lecture you but it's just reality. I also strongly suggest you look up London areas of crime stats online.

@SweetGo_

Жыл бұрын

Thank God you're safe.. I live in Qatar and people here loves luxury being an Arab country.. I myself always wear my luxury bag/jewelries wherever and its very safe, I even one time left my phone at a restaurant table for more than an hour and its still there.. i hope ur terrible experience will not happen again!stay safe!

@olivierschortgen7814

Жыл бұрын

Maybe he is your subscriber,,,

@paulhughes628

Жыл бұрын

I am very sorry to hear about your upsetting experiences and I trust you will be ok. I have only recently started watching channels such as yours and in truth could not help thinking about the safety aspect. You take care!

Sending you well wishes!🧡 My 85 year-old parents were robbed at gunpoint, one evening after dinner out, in Barcelona, Spain. My mother was carrying an old, beaten-up nylon LeSportsac crossbody bag. They took my father’s 60 year-old wallet and my mom’s bag (containing a few euros). All muggers are scum of the earth. It’s sad. Stay strong!🤗

@katemiller7874

Жыл бұрын

That is terrible two little old people. Boy what a coward to do that. I’m glad they are ok tho

This is why quiet and silent luxury is becoming a thing. You can not walk around looking like a billboard for luxury…. you must pick and choose where you are going to wear your luxury goods or cover them up.

@MummyBrown

Жыл бұрын

I agree with this wholeheartedly. That's also why I don't even want to have a dupe/ replica handbag. I feel like SLGs are much less of a target and they make me just as happy. In the grand scheme of things, this isn't saying anyone is deserving of this, obviously. People are also mentioning that the muggers aren't after the bag but the contents of the bag. Both are true. It can't be denied that people that are getting mugged look like they have something worth mugging. I don't mean that to sound offensive but, statistically, that's the truth.

@VickiMackLataillade

Жыл бұрын

@@MummyBrown You are so right, people are so angry for so many reasons, it is making us reevaluate how we do everything. It's a shame but it is true!

@DashwithTash

Жыл бұрын

I believe your comment is victim blaming and it’s wrong. The best of criminals will know a luxury good when they see one. We can’t assume that wearing the Row or Alaia will prevent women or others from being mugged or robbed.

@MummyBrown

Жыл бұрын

There are several signs that muggers look for in their victims before they strike. On that list is "THE FLASHY." Virtually anyone who wears fancy clothes, carries an expensive smartphone, jewelry or accessories or looks “flashy” in other words, is indeed a prime target for muggers. That's not victim blaming at all, that's a well backed statistic. Not having real conversations that are legitimately backed by statistics is intellectually dishonest. There is of course no real “handbook” that muggers use to guide them in search of their victims, but there are a loose set of rules that are regularly agreed on by both police and former muggers passed on to the public in the name of personal protection. I'll say it again, because I knew someone would go here: This is an honest discussion about prevention similar to those about not walking down dark alleys or leaving your things in a public place unattended. A quick internet search about preventing muggings and robberies will note some form of the following in personal awareness: "muggers/ robbers are often tempted by money, jewelry, clothing, and electronics." The young woman noted above as much as said it herself that,"The best of criminals will know a luxury good when they see one." AGREED, and 'Bingo.' With the quality of good dupes/ replicas these days, some even pass with legit upper tiered shops under close inspection. That could easily be mistaken by a run of the mill ne'er-do-well, no doubt. The comfort you are willing to take for fashion is a personal choice and that's not at all to pass judgement. You do you. It isn't "wrong" and you aren't "asking for it." With all due respect, conversations like this aren't at all meant to say that people that get mugged are deserving of it, that's monstrous. This is a valid point made for consideration that is indeed based in criminal study. I promise that all of us that have law enforcement or criminology professionals in the family can say this lesson, among many others, have been drilled into us for years. I'm just sharing the wealth.

@mariaalmasaniroyalhouse9214

Жыл бұрын

In Dubai you are safe & can dress as you please. Quiet luxury is only only a trend in western feminist progressive places that fail to protect women alone are night where it matters. Go to a patriarchal place like Saudi or Dubai or Oman and you can wear all the luxury you want in 100% complete safety without having to cover up your luxury bag. Where women cover their hair or face, if that country also has money, they don’t also have to cover their luxury bag. It’s increasingly a choice between do you have to cover up your boobs or your bag

Omg, i feel for you, so sad that this have happened to you. Being mugged is never the victims fault, yes we could take precautions, but other peoples misbehaviour is never the victims fault. Much love for you and others who have been through such.

@Anoranow

Жыл бұрын

True but my dad always taught me to never give anyone the opportunity to make u a victim. Why carry flashy things in a dodgy neighborhood. It’s like dangling a carrot in front of a donkey. Just don’t do the things that’ll give someone else an excuse. Avoid it.

I was mugged on Beverly dr. while walking to the Beverly Hills Hotel in broad daylight, but I fought him off and he didn’t get away with my Lady Dior! It’s not your fault Romina, people love to victim blame women

@bsk6707

Жыл бұрын

These days in Beverly Hills everyone is a target. It did not used to be that way.

@MADOUT_VPS

Жыл бұрын

No, I’m definitely not going back to LA for a long time. I think the problem also is that you get these really terrible Democrat politicians running the place Wolk DAs woke judges that keep letting criminals out and don’t hold these people accountable for their violent actions.

I wear the bag under my coat so no one sees it. I wear a raincoat and put a few bucks in the pocket. That’s if I’m in bad areas or large crowds. Once at the Marble Arch station, train came in people started boarding, someone put their hand in my 6’2” marine husbands pocket, he caught him, almost broke his arm.

@pure_indulgence8144

Жыл бұрын

In the cold months I also wear my bags under my coat!!! And I only wear top handle bags in places with a lower crime rate but there is no guarantee! If folks want to do wrong, they will. Glad you’re okay!!!

@eudesodoroidefrance9643

Жыл бұрын

You do that in warm summers too?? 😮

@marshanadahlia

Жыл бұрын

I wear my bag under a coat, jacket, or sweater...even in the summer.

It’s never your fault. EVER. NO ONE IS EVER ENTITLED TO ATTACK ANYONE! It’s shocking and frightening. I hope you are recovering well, what a terrifying experience but to endure it twice, just vicious. Thinking of you xx

@RominaRoseMay

Жыл бұрын

Thank you soo much, lovely!! 🥺❤️ Xx

So sorry this happened to you twice Romina. My conclusion is they were after the contents inside any bag, and that no one is really safe out there. I’m glad you are okay and hope those bruises go away, as well as the psychological and emotional stress.

@dixiesmitherman6898

Жыл бұрын

As sad as it is to say I don’t travel around at night alone. I do believe though they wanted what was in your bag and not the bag itself. Also, carry pepper spray with you in your free hand.

OMG I'm so glad you're okay!! You did exactly the right thing. All the studies show that the meeker, more quiet you are, the worse it goes for you. Screaming and putting up a fight is the BEST way to deter criminals. They just want to grab and go -or grab YOU and go. They rely on our socialization to be quiet and not scream or fight. They don't want to have to wrestle with you, and they definitely don't want to draw attention to themselves. A victim who makes a loud difficult mess is not their preferred target at all. You did exactly what you should have done. I'm so sorry this happened to you, Romina. It's bloody terrifying.

I don’t think someone targeting you as a mugging victim is analyzing your bag. They’re just trying to snatch your purse for whatever is in it, a crime of opportunity.

I’m so thankful you’re okay ! Sophie Shoet talks about the mugging problem in London on her KZread channel and what precautions to take while going out it’s very important to bring this to every one’s attention as we all don’t think about this as much and it can happen to any one at any given time! She gives a lot of tips tho on things to do when you want to wear our designer bags ect ! I’m so glad your okay Romina that has to be scary ❤❤❤

Happened to me…but I have a scar from the tip of the knife he had. My heart goes out to you Romina. Being violated is part of my PTSD. P.S. it was broad daylight. No logo on my wallet and he was sorry he chose me. I grew up with 6 brothers and was trained in self defense for my job. He got😊 his share. Please be well and talk to someone. I was in Santiago and had just walked out the door.

@barbaramelville6320

Жыл бұрын

Omg 😱 so scary I would never want to see anyone getting mugged 😢

I was mugged walking home from work in Washington, DC a year and a half ago. I was wearing an orange Tod’s bag and had my favorite gold Prada saffiano wallet inside also. Still miss them both. But was grateful I just had minor injuries and could afford to replace all that was stolen. I was distracted looking at my phone but it wasn’t late at night. I also screamed my lungs out, and someone came to my rescue and chased them to try to get my bag back for me, and they maced him in the face. These moments make you realize what’s important in life. I feel comfortable now carrying my bags but it took many months to get over the PTSD when walking down the street after dark. I’m more vigilant now. Hope you recover soon! And be patient with yourself. It takes longer than we think to feel safe again ❤

@PriHL

Жыл бұрын

I had minor PTSD just from living in London and constantly being on alert and taking precautions and having my wits about me at all times because I know how crazy it is compared to where I'm from. Where I come from, I could be walking around with a Himalaya and nobody would ever know what it is and how much it's worth. And I must say I really like it and want to keep it this way. Being safe is the biggest luxury.

@laceyr_8322

Жыл бұрын

Good grief. Sorry to hear this happened to you too. What part of DC was this in, if you don't mind me asking? (I used to live in VA so I am a little shocked that DC is becoming this way) 😔

@Lee73Lee

Жыл бұрын

@@laceyr_8322 It was on L St. NW walking from downtown towards McPherson Square not far from the White House. During the pandemic, the streets were pretty barren (and still kind of are past 8PM) since most people were 100% remote, but those of us who work in the private sector on K St. had to go in hybrid already from over a year ago. Witnessed lots of crime in the city those couple of pandemic years! It's starting to normalize now that more people are forced back in office and have to travel into DC from VA and MD but still not as bustling of a city as it used to be.

@laceyr_8322

Жыл бұрын

@@Lee73Lee That's crazy! Things definitely aren't how they used to be, unfortunately. Stay safe!

Glad you are ok! Im so sick of these people that steal. My apartment was broken into some years ago in a safe area in the US. It is the worst feeling ever. People go for any opportunity so never think it was your fault. Things can be replaced but we cant. Once again so sorry.

Let me say one thing: you are in no way at fault for what happened. I live in a city in the Midwest, about half a million. Attacked at night right outside of a party where several of my friends were inside. Ended up in the ER, cash stolen not the purse, assaulted badly and was unconscious but thankfully alive and my car wasn't stolen. Men and women have to be vigilant 24/7. I was already that type like you and it still happened as well. I still have my luxury items but I pretty much take them out during the day or weekend when I'm with my fiance. Or I take a very low key piece if I'm by myself. I rarely go out at night by myself anymore due to this incident. I would encourage women to travel in pairs, preferably with a man if they're going out at night, and during the day if theyre in an unfamiliar area or easily distracted. Lately there are women making reports of unknown men following them in the grocery stores in our $$$ areas in the daytime. Too many crazies, too much human trafficking and too many drugs. I think as the economy and inflation gets tougher we're going to see more incidents like these because of what's happening. I don't carry my gun with me, that is for home use, but I do carry pepper spray. Again I'm so sorry for what you went through! Stay safe! Be careful everyone! This is a heavy topic but education is necessary and can be lifesaving! 💖

@Commentator541

Жыл бұрын

Now that is truly bad. I am glad you’re ok

@abbyvanhoose3997

Жыл бұрын

Listen to this gal,you got away lucky also,Romina if you think these people don't know bagson vacation the room service gals would call out hi we love your Chanel .My grsndsons even know my designer bsgs they sre 9,14,and 15,you better believe they know.Thank God it seems quite a bit of us made it through without it being worse,I pack every where I go...38 special

@Elizabeth_lowkeyluxuries

Жыл бұрын

@Commentator541 thank you! It's taken a long time to work through. But I'm grateful as it could have been much worse

@RominaRoseMay

Жыл бұрын

I'm also glad you're ok!! 🥺❤️ So sorry you had to go through that!! ❤️❤️❤️ Xx

Omg 😳 I was living in London for quite a while and I wasn’t caring anything luxury during that time. That city is crazy. Also, I think that this quiet luxury trend is growing because of global recession and people not wanting others to know that they have money on hands basically. This is so disturbing. Take care ❤ I recently bought two beautiful Polene bags and I more than happy to carry them around instead of my Dior and Chanel..

I was mugged at gun point in 2008. I had just got my very first designer bag. Was a Fendi zucca print mama bag. I was so devastated I have never bought another designer bag. I stick to coach and Michael Kors and Kate Spade. Feel like no one will think about them. And if I’m going out after 5 I just take my card holder if I’m going to be taking public transportation. Glad you’re ok!

I had my bag stolen at a restaurant so now I never put my bag on the ground or on a chair next to me. I am hyper vigilant since that happened to me. Take care. ❤❤

@KS-zd4ew

Жыл бұрын

My husbands LV luggage was taken when he left it behind his seat while he ate at Paris outlet

Romina, so sorry. I hope you heal very quickly from this trauma. ❤ I’m 73, and walk slowly with a cane - every mugger’s dream. So… I (often) carry a small, flat crossbody under my coat, sweater, etc. Only the bare essentials. I might also even carry a nice (but expendable) bag as a decoy on top of my coat. In it I carry anything not too valuable that doesn’t fit in the “hidden” bag, a fake credit card or ID, a fake key, $20 in cash (give them something, you don’t want them angry). Sometimes, I just carry whatever I want, though. The heck with it.

my heart was in my mouth as you were telling your story, thank goodness you are okay, and luckily it was just the bag they wanted. As much as you can, don’t be out at night on your own, it really isn’t safe. On the other hand, I’m so glad you showed that toe-rag what you were made of, and didn’t let him get anything. 💕

I am so happy that you're ok! I am coming to London later this month and i'll be 31/32 weeks pregnant. Now I am giving second thoughts to packing my Chanel bags.

@lorna7717

9 ай бұрын

Ubers are so cheap, we went at the wkend and literally got an Uber everywhere! If you can afford Chanel a £5-22 ride is worth it honestly!

I am so sorry that this happened to you and I wish you strength to recover from it properly - physically and mentally. I live in Berlin and I never wear designer bags when I use public transportation. When I take my designer bags with I ALWAYS call myself a taxi or an Uber to make sure I get home alright! I have heard of too many incidents like this, which is why I always try not to create too much attention on my outfit or specific items I am wearing when I use public transport, for safety reasons (which I do use on a regular basis).

When I was in London, I felt very safe, but 1) I didn't wear a handbag and 2) I didn't wear 'fashionable' items. (Jeans/t-shirt, runner-type shoes). I DID have a very flashy ring and necklace but didn't feel like anyone was eyeballing me. So sorry to hear about this happening. It sucks that us womenz have to worry about what we're wearing and the handbags we use. ARG!

Hi Romina! Firstly I am glad you are safe and secondly thank you for sharing your story - its important to raise awareness. I have heard of a few stories from friends recently that there are regular thefts in South Kensington and knightsbridge, criminals targeting people for lux bags, jewellery and watches. In some cases I have heard of people getting life changing injuries after these events too 😞. After hearing these stories and feeling like they are too close to home, I have become more self conscious about wearing obvious luxury items. I can definitely see the benefit of having quiet lux pieces and I think I have subconsciously started to adapt my collection toward this. I wish your hand a speedy recovery also. Take care! ❤

It definitely isn't because of the brand of the bag. Majority of the time, robbers and muggers don't know what bag is what. They are just after easy prey aka women. And being a woman at night alone unfortunately makes us an easy target for them. Where I live, lots of people are getting mugged daily and they arent even carrying luxury bags. Crime rate is just up all across the country sadly. Please be careful everyone.

i lived in new orleans for a year and never walked around with a bag or wore jewelry. i also never kept anything in my car but it got broken into none the less. you can be as safe as possible but something might still happen.

@sarahterry2140

Жыл бұрын

I’m in Houston and do the same unless I’m in Uber Black door-to-door - this is smart.

I’m glad you’re okay. I live in NYC and until March 2020 I felt very safe. After the riots that month NYC is no longer safe. I would now be afraid to carry a luxury shopping bag or luxury handbag unless I’m with a big group of friends in the daytime.

I'm so sorry this happened to you. I live in the United States and I never go anywhere at night. The whole world is in a sad place.

I’m sorry this happened to you. Strangely enough my mom got pickpocketed yesterday while traveling in London with my brother and his family. When it’s late, it doesn’t matter what area of town I’m in, I take Uber home. I live in NYC and I don’t feel safe walking by myself even in an upscale area, I just don’t know and safety first and foremost. The world is different sadly.

I'm so sorry to hear that :( I live in Istanbul and I feel safe, there are so many fakes here, it's a big market so people just assume all bags are fake which is why this does not really happen. Of course I am cautious in metros and walking at night though

@Rwissam1987

Жыл бұрын

Haha same in Morocco, but still they go sometimes for what's inside the bag lol

@Aleksssssssss

Жыл бұрын

@@Rwissam1987 Especially in those touristy places ahah, I'm an immigrant so sometimes I get mistaken as a tourist as well😂

@barbaramelville6320

Жыл бұрын

Is it safe for an American 🇺🇸 girl 👧 safe in turkey 🇹🇷????????? I don’t think 🤔 there would be able to sell replica bags in turkey 🇹🇷!????????

@Aleksssssssss

Жыл бұрын

@@barbaramelville6320 I’d say it’s safe. But I recommend bringing a friend or family member so you’re not alone which is better in some areas. And yes it’s full of replica bags here, the bazaar is basically a whole replica mega store🤣

Hi Romina, I’m so sorry to hear that you went through this, and I’m happy to see that you’re okay even though I know how traumatic something like this must be. Even though I’m 6’7” there are times where I feel sketchy out and about, and even bags I won’t carry if we’re going to unfamiliar neighborhoods or lots of public transport, because you can never be too careful these days. I hope this never happens again for you, please stay safe out there and take time to process what happened. 💕

@RominaRoseMay

Жыл бұрын

Thanks, Caleb!! 🥺❤️ I really hope this was the last time this happened - let's all try & stay safe!! ❤️❤️❤️ Xx

@heatherchandler1184

10 ай бұрын

I’m a big person as well and I definitely do the same. I bought a Chanel 6 years ago and worn it out twice. Maybe I’m being a bit too cautious, but yeah. People have tried it with me despite my height. Crazy is as crazy does

We got mugged in Brazil. Bunch of kids surrounded us and within 5 seconds they snatched by friends gold necklace and ran. Its so scary that you had to even defend yourself. Sending you healing vibes.

@witchingbrew3

Жыл бұрын

Reminds me of that kids scene in hostel. Where the kids surround the guys.

Merci. Sorry to here..The uk is going in s recession. Carrying a chanel bag can be risky in tough times. Better off use a less pricey bag.

I’d be getting out of London. I don’t feel safe especially in the evening. I’d never go out alone in the evening. So glad you’re ok.

I am so happy that you are alright! 10 or so years ago a guy try to robbed me in the center of Athens, in the middle of the day. I wasn't with luxury bag or anything and still...I start to yell at him, something like "What are you doing?", and he ran. I was so scared the he took my passport because I was flying home the next day, but all he succeeded was to open my backpack and to scare me.

So sorry, Romina! I was moved to tears! In my experience, I will tell you that I was robbed 3 years ago in Las Vegas of my Christian Dior bag, which I got back, but he managed to steal my Chanel Pilot sunglasses and case. I was nearly robbed of my Chanel Gabrielle in Victor, New York but got away from 2 young girls and my husband stopped 2 young boys in Syracuse, New York from taking my other Christian Dior bag in the mall! You have to be super careful. I never take out my good bags when going to Walmart but as you say, you can be in the best neighborhood (like Harrod's) and still get robbed. I know a woman who has an office in Beverly Hills, Rodeo Drive and there are "smash and grab" robberies all the time of precious jewels. It's a wild world. Please be careful and NEVER stop wearing your bags. You love them! Enjoy with caution! xoxo Karen

@RominaRoseMay

Жыл бұрын

Thank you soo much, Karen!! 🥺❤️ Xx

Im so sorry this happened to you! This is so scary… I am glad that you had the courage and presence of mind to scream and make as much noise as possible in this recent incident. You were so brave! ❤

OMG, both events are so scary! I’m very glad you’re ok and thank you for sharing your stories. It’s important for all of us to keep aware of our surroundings and how we carry our bags. Times are increasingly desperate as the economic stressors rise and it doesn’t seem to matter if the neighborhood is more well-off than not. All the best Romina! ❤

Hi Romina, I live in London and shop in Knightsbridge as well as you . I see those opportunists on the streets all the time . I am very aware of my surroundings and turn my bags around so the logo is on the inside. But I always have my husband with me nevertheless. He walks behind me where is lots of people just to keep an eye if anyone is looking at my bags. Stay strong. Hope to see you around Harrods😊

I am so sorry you had to go through this experience, truly horrifying and saddening to watch! A couple of months ago someone tried to mug me too! (I live in a very small town.) It was in a park and he tried to get my bag with threats but thanks to God, I fought him off as I’m very tall and have experience in martial arts…. Please please please people, be very mindful of your surroundings, especially if you have earphones like I did… I sadly learned that defense classes are a great and much needed investment if you already invested so much in bags and jewelry

Dear Romina, thank you v much for sharing. It must be terrifying and I m so glad you managed to escape it, it could have gone much worse. The bruises will eventually fade away and disappear, not so the psychological bruises. It will take longer, however talking as bout it and sharing it can definitely help to heal. I lived in London for many years and still go to London quite regularly and I generally commute by Tube...I usually wear my designer bags cross body under a coat or trench. I also carry a tote with make up pouch and even a pair of sneakers to change into once I am through my meetings. As you said, I have always felt reasonably safe in London. According to the latest update from Met, the areas in London with the highest mugging crimes are currently: Kensington, South Ken, Chelsea and Knightsbridge, especially around Harrods. In fact, it's here that people are more likely to carry lux items, from watches to handbags to phones and jewelry. So, the wealthiest areas are actually the targets of muggings. Take care.lots of love And again thank you for sharing 💕💕💕💕 XxxC

I am happy that you are safe and I am praying for your healing and moving past. You are amazing and a strong woman. I live in the US in a big city and I’m very aware of not carrying my nice handbags unless going to work or nice event. Thank you for sharing because this makes all of us more aware- no matter the location. Blessings and hugs

I’m so sorry this happened to you. And please don’t think at all that it’s your fault or you did something to warrant this. It doesn’t matter what you wear , what bag you carry, if people are bad they are gonna be bad and so bad things. You yourself never do anything to make yourself a target, they are simply just going to do it no matter what. So please don’t feel like it’s your fault and you think you shouldn’t carry certain bags. It’s terrible how someone can just do something to you and you’re left to deal with the damage , emotionally, physically and everything. I really hope you’re okay darling. And well done on reacting as fast as you did the second time. It’s not easy to react in the moment. You’re so strong and fabulous. Sending you so much love 🖤✨

Sorry this happened to you. I live in the US near San Francisco. Crime has gotten really bad and it seems that people who ordinarily wouldn’t commit crimes are joining in. I do not feel comfortable walking the streets with anything that’s recognizable in the last few years. Most of the crime has been targeted toward merchants, but I feel like it’s only a matter of time before purse snatching starts. My every day walking around bag is a Gucci purse and while it is just my daily bag, I realize that others might see it and think that I am wealthy. I tend to turn it around so that you cannot see the logo. You make a valid point about them possibly having a knife. A bag is never worth your life Let go and find safety.

So sorry this happened to you. I try to be aware as possible when I am carrying my bags but even so, you just never know. I’m glad you are okay❤

A top tip someone told me. Phone , keys in pockets (secure pockets!). Never in your bag. That way if something happens you still have your phone etc. so bad people think it’s okey to mug someone xx

So sorry this happened! Glad you are ok and you are so brave to be able to defend yourself and scare the mugger away. This is why i am slowly selling off my luxury bags. It is not fun anymore i do not feel safe carrying these bags.

@maryd3779

Жыл бұрын

I’m sorry this has soured you on having these things

Omg Romina, I hope your ok. I’m from Canada and they are warning us that if we want to go to London on vacation to be extra careful because there’s a lot of pick pockets and not to carry any luxury items. Be safe my beautiful lady.

@c.m.7734

Жыл бұрын

I go twice a year. I’m from Canada. Take cabs to and from if your going out to dinner dressed fancy. Bond Street and surrounding area is fine. If your out and about all day go “low key”. I’ve been 20 times?! Roughly. Never had a problem.

@geogirlforever

Жыл бұрын

I just read a comment on here that they are from Canada and don’t feel safe taking transit bus anymore unless with husband. I wonder which province. I do know some areas are sketchy and yes, we do have crime too. But didn’t realize that it’s that bad. I know a guy who’s ex military and a transit driver in one of the large cities, haven’t heard terrible stories maybe 1. But I do know some in the federal level and I just hear about traffickers, prostitution and drugs, yes that all high everywhere. I still love Canada and will put up with the crappy winters over all the rest of the stuff.

I’m so sorry Romina you had to experience this. Stay strong. I live in NYC and this is very dangerous time here too. I carry my luxury bag everywhere. However I have on my hand a strong pepper spray. Everyday I pray before leaving my house. I do not take public transportation I drive everywhere. But I’m never out late. Stay safe love and feel proud you fought back. Always be careful

Sadly, people stealing is more common than ever. The economy isn’t great and that appears to be a driving factor in my state (live in the US). I’m so glad you weren’t hurt. I never go out late alone however and it’s because I don’t want to get robbed or something even worse. Nothing is more valuable than your health and well- being. ❤

I’m glad you’re okay!! Please let go of any bag because your life is way more important. You never know what could happen if you try to hang on to a handbag. Anyone being attacked is a different scenario and warrants a fight!

I'm so sorry this happened to you. A few months ago I had my bike stolen outside of my home. It was locked but the thieves must have had a way to break the lock. I only told one friend because I was afraid of victim blaming like why did I leave it outside. A very good friend of mine was targeted and robbed because she was carrying a monogram LV bag in a big city. Last year I saw on the news of an attempted robbery of a woman carrying the damier speedy bandoliere...she was wearing it crossbody and the thieves tried to take it. She struggled and the bag was damaged and the strap tore in the struggle. She managed to hang on to the bag but shots were fired and by sheer luck they missed. The news media showed pictures of the bag which is how I found it was the bandoliere speedy. I discussed this with another youtuber friend that I thought the DE print was more understated and she said thieves know what popular designer bags look like now. She herself rarely carries her Chanel bags when she is out and about. It is hard to say if one is targeted for the contents inside of the bag or for the designer bag. I think it is a mix of both. I personally would not feel comfortable wearing the LV monogram print and I parted with my felicie for that readon...I just wasn't using it. Safety is a big concern currently for me. I do gravitate towards understated bags now but I think thieves are very savvy now and they know what a Celine bag looks like for instance even though bags with logos are more noticeable. I tend to wear my bag under a voat in the winter months and now that spring has arrived, I gravitate towards a crossbody bag. Today I'm only carrying a card case with me along with one of those reusable totes because I took public transport to work. It sucks so much to have to be vigilant all the time and limited in terms of what we wear because honestly I love fashion with logos. In addition to robbery fears, I also have to be aware of my surroundings because I am an Asian female and there have been so many hate crime attacks against Asians in the U.S. I have been called many racist names because of my race. Lastly, if robbers tried to take my belongings I would not fight back because the robberies in many parts of the U.S. have been armed robberies. Tragically quite a few people have lost their lives when they were being robbed of their high end watches and there was a struggle. It is so disgusting that people in our society blame the victim. It is never the victim's fault...it is always the fault of the perpetrator.

Glad you’re ok! Stay safe out there, everyone. ❤

Hey Romina, first thing I am so happy that you’re safe, I live in Florida and here you have to drive everywhere because there is limited public transportation but in your case since you live in the city, would you consider taking a Uber or a cab late at night versus walking? I never feel safe walking around late at night just because it’s dark regardless. I feel much safer in a car where I can lock the door.

I’m so sorry, I was mugged when I was eleven, by a big group of older boys on bikes… I’m so impressed you had the presence of mind to scream. I didn’t make a sound. Just gave them my little hello kitty purse and my radio. Your screams saved your bag which is great, but it kept you safe, which is even better. My feeling is that cabs are a lot cheaper than my bags. My husband and I often take the train for a night out in our medium city, but we usually take cabs home. I always use cabs for nighttime events when I’m alone.

You are so courageous and so strong. I'm back in London after 3 years of being away. A couple of weeks ago, my neighbour (a tough looking guy) had his phone stolen. A week before that, I witnessed a guy holding his neck outside a local restaurant, 10 minutes later police put tape all around it (he was knifed). Many years ago, my bag was stolen late at night, I was walking home after a book signing, many people were around at 10pm at night when I was walking home. It was a cheap bag - I screamed like you did. I believe these guys have no idea what the bags are (some might know) but many just want the phone & cash. In Sydney I carried my Lagerfeld bag everywhere, here I will stick to no-name simple bags and keep my designer stuff at home. I have designer wallets though - that is fine, they are tucked away. You can wear your designer gear when with your husband though :)) Sending love and hugs and thank you for sharing and bringing awareness - it's tough out there at the moment - but it won't be like this forever, the world will change and we will be more free again 💕⭐

@RominaRoseMay

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Thank you soo much, Svati!! 🥺❤️ Xx

@mariaalmasaniroyalhouse9214

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London is crazy. Sadly Rome, Paris are bad too. Tourist traps in general. I live in Ottawa and everyone could care less about my bags. I love that I can wear what I want, stay out late, am safe and there are police near the major downtown bus stations, nobody gets mugged that I know of because government town. But when I went to Rome I saw pick pockets

@svatisingh1

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@@mariaalmasaniroyalhouse9214 Sydney (my other hometown) is also safe like Ottawa - good to know of your experiences, I'll definitely be mindful when I travel to Europe again - stay safe 🙏

I’m from the Philippines and whenever I go to London, I just use cab/taxis especially when I wear luxury stuff. But if it’s just Longchamp/Polene etc I use the bus. Keep safe love.

@louise730

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Btw safest place for travel in my opinion is Japan. ❤️

I had a friend get mugged in a pretty decent area of my city (Philadelphia) a few years ago; the mugger was 16 and broke her nose bad enough that she had to get surgery to fix it. Since then, if I go out at night and am going home alone, I would rather take a "quiet" bag than anything with logos. In America, our violence is rising, particularly gun violence, so fighting back isnt much of an option since I simply assume that any attacker has a gun because they are just everywhere.

Omg! I'm so sorry to hear this happened to you . Thank you for sharing what happened both times. It is natural to always reflect back and see how we could have changed our behaviour but unfortunately we live in a world where people will do anything including violence for their gain. I'm glad they did not get away with your bag the second time. The last thing a mugger wants is attention so it great you screamed. I live in a large city just outside of Toronto, Canada. In general I feel safe but I always keep an eye out no matter where I am even in crowded places with or without luxury bags. I usually wear my luxury designer bags during the day with others around. Whenever I take public transit, I don't wear my designer luxury bags because I find there are sometimes some very unusual people on transit. I hope the bruise heals quickly 🤗😘💕

I’m sorry this happened to you. You and Mel in Melbourne are among the few luxury influencers who I feel are genuinely kind people. I hope that you’re OK and want you to know that this is in NO WAY your fault. Good vibes always.❤

i’m glad to hear you’re okay. this is exactly what i’m so afraid of. i currently live in a city which is very affluent but it’s also being targeted esp at supermarket parking lots. i hate to say this but i’m so afraid to shop without my husband in today’s economy. i feel safer when my husband is with me. when he’s not around me when i go out, i mostly wear bags that are under the radar of any potential robbers but i know the pieces i have inside my bag are luxury for me & that makes me happy too. these days, i’ll only wear my luxury pieces when my husband is with me or if i know a place or shop i’m going to is very safe with security & a lot of people are around. i hope your bruise has healed & that you have a lovely week ahead 💚💚

I feel so bad and sick earing this. It must be terrifying... Never happened to me but I never feel safe wherever I go and I don't live in a big city. I always carry with me a bag and a cloth tote. Some times I put my bag inside the cloth tote. We never know what can happen when we are walking alone. And we can be targeted carrying a designer brand or not. We have cellphone, credit cards, sometimes money... These people are always looking for the perfect timing and the perfect target. I'm so glad you're okay ❤

First of all so glad you are okay!!! The most expensive bags I buy are LV and I admit I told myself not to buy anymore for this very reason. Crime is out of control everywhere!!! My area isn't TOO bad right now but I do worry about carrying a designer bag now when I haven't worried about it in the past. Also I am getting older so please please be careful!!!! I bet your husband is worried now!!

Oh Romina! I’m so sorry this happened to you..twice! Hope the bruises go away and you heal emotionally. Sending you lots of love & hugs.

I am so sorry this happened to you Romina and I’m so happy that you weren’t more physically injured than you were. I’m sure emotionally you feel very beat up. I can see the change in your spirit. I hope you won’t let this get you down but I must say I am very concerned for the future of people all over the world. We are headed down a very dark path and it breaks my heart.

I’m hyper aware of my luxury bags because I save hard for them. I always wear them cross body if I’m out and about anywhere. They are on my lap or on the table / chair or a bag hook if I’m in a restaurant or bar. They all have apple tags hidden under the liners. They are all insured and they are hidden in my house, although I am going to display them when I move. I’m sorry this happened to you Romina and I’m glad you’re ok

So sorry this happened to you! Really there's nothing you can do in major cities to prevent mugging, it's not your fault and you could have had any bag with you and it still may have happened. I live in London and i never have my phone out if I can help it, I've seen so many people have their phones taken straight out of their hands even in busy or 'safe' areas.

So sorry this happened to you. But I'm glad you are okay now! When I'm out alone, I always wear my bags backward ( with the logos on the inside) so it is harder to see. With that said, I rarely go anywhere on my own these days unless I have to. Not only am I a petite person, but I am also Asian. I've been harassed a couple of times due to my race.

Glad you are ok, I’m so sorry that this happened to you, note that it’s my belief that the person wanted your contents ( wallet, money, credit cards) not really the handbag. Women with slim built are more likely to get targeted due to believe that they won’t fight back. Please be careful and always be caution of your surroundings. Stay safe

Thanks for sharing this and very relieved to know you are okay apart from the bruising. You were very brave to have the wits to fight him off and to scream. I had my bag stolen from inside a hotel lobby in Barcelona, where the thieves are very professional. It was a horrible, scarring experience. I hope your hand heals quickly.

I don't even know what I would do, the fear of being mugged is what is keeping me from buying my first designer bag, I feel safer sticking with SLG's

I live 25 miles from New York City and my husband and I never go into the city even though it is a direct train ride from our area. It is not safe. With shopping online, we do not need to go to the city, ever.

I'm so relieved you are okay, Romina 💝 This is scary. I hope you take the self-care time you need to step back into the world. Hugs and positive thoughts to you 💝🙏🏽🐍

So sorry to hear your ordeal, hope your hand will recover soon. I was almost mugged in Paris underground years ago, afternoon in Autumn, I was wearing my Chanel bag cross body. I was on the escalator, full of people with my husband behind me. He always watch out for me. All of a sudden, the escalator did an emerge stop, someone shouted in French, “he is going to grab the bag”, my husband covered me up with his body, all happened within seconds, the guy went past me, someone then tried to chase after him. Later on, we found out it is a very common way in Paris to steal bags. My husband took me, in a spilt second, he saw him was going for my bag. They worked in group of 2, one to stop the escalator, the other grab. To be honest, it took me over 30mins after the incident to realise what could have happened to me.

@barbaramelville6320

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Omg 😱 scary I can’t get on the escalator so I can only imagine what that’s like 👍

I’m so sorry this happened to you Romina, thank you for sharing your story. The main thing is you are now safe and healing. For any luxury viewers, always remember to insure your luxury items too 😔❤️

I am so sorry and thankful you are OK!! I’m in the US, Virginia. I have never had this happen and am not out a lot at night. When I travel to Europe, I carry a very nondescript black crossbody that I can put on under my top and let the bag itself come out at the bottom. I always carry it on the front of me and the latch to get in the bag is rather complicated. Also, I wear no flashy jewelry. It’s disgusting how bad crime is now. What’s the point in having beautiful things if you can’t enjoy wearing them! ❤

Romina! Thank God you’re safe. I’m crying watching your video. I’ve had one attempted mugging that I fought off successfully with some bizarre super strength that filled my body and one robbery…at a small private party where someone took a Chanel wallet out of my coat pocket! I live in NYC and I’m very very careful. Blessings to you sweetheart 😘

Thank you for sharing this story because people must be more aware. I got bag stolen once in Prague's bar about 16 years ago, since then I have been followed in Paris, the second we left the store with a shopping bag, but we got Uber, so we were not walking more then 1 min so it was fine but I can tell you it was so obvious if you looked at the two guys, my hands were shaking. I am all about cross body bag wearing, definitely taking uber black if I am by myself at night anywhere. I am very sorry this happened to you twice OMG 🥺 but luckily your physical health was ok after the attack's because we have only one health.

Oh, Romina, I'm so SO sorry this happened to you. Absolutely terrifying, this is a major fear of mine, esp carrying designer bags or even being alone. I'm extremely aware of my surroundings due to Sex trafficking and mugging. I live one hour outside Atlanta, GA and when we go down there, we go to midtown. That's the very weathy area of Atlanta. Tbh, that's the only place i would consider carrying a luxury bag. It's still risky, though. The state we live in, we are legally allowed to carry a pew pew for protection. My husband always carries when we go down there bc we've been put in some scary situations before. Other than that, when I'm in my local town, i feel safe most of the time. I don't go out at night, though alone. I think the best way to avoid this happening again is maybe not being out late by yourself. I know that sucks, but when your in a large city like london or new york etc. You never know who might be out to cause harm. Someone also mentioned wearing your bag crossbody under a coat where it's not visible.

Hello From Florida 🥰 We Get Alot of People From All Over The World Traveling Here For Vacations.When I go shopping in a crowd I don't carry a Designer Bag I carry something nice but not much inside.When I go shopping I am always looking around to see if anyone is watching me especially the Holidays.I think you should always have a Large Bag to put your Bags inside so no one can see what you have and Hold it over your shoulder with your armed crossed when walking around the shops.I don't shop at night it's not safe.I always drive so I will always have a ride and I also Carry with a License to Carry so Hopefully I never come across a situation like that because here in my state it's self defense so I will take up for myself if I have to. I don't go to places that are not safe I avoid those areas at all cost.I am sorry this has happened to you because your such a kind person please be very careful out there and take care of yourself and always stay aware of your surroundings.

Oh my word. Sending love and comfort. (I avoid top handle bags due to my fear of this. I also keep my luxury crossbody bags under my coat -- especially on public transit when possible -- though admittedly, it's *not* always possible. I'm very glad you weren't hurt even more than those jerks did to you. Take care.)

Romina I'm glad that you're okay! You have to keep your head on a swivel in these streets especially being a well known blogger who is also very high caliber in fashion. Stay safe 🙏🏿

Oh my god, very sad to see and hear what happened to you. 😢😢 The world has really become a world of hurt, really very glad you're doing ok. It is a relief with you being very cautious anyway. The lovely city of Vienna is not a safe place neither any longer, at certain times, places, it surely has changed drastically unfortunately, speziell nach 2015ff. 😢 Stay safe & alles Gute, Romina. ❤❤❤

@RominaRoseMay

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Danke dir!! 🥺❤️ Xx

I used to work 10 minutes from Harrods shortly before a guy got killed for a watch in front of Harrods and there were also several moped muggings in the area. For the 3 min. walk to the South Ken tube station I allowed myself to wear a nice green tote from Primark, so was making the risk of someone pulling it of me bigger, however I walked there always in daylight, during high traffic and tourist hours, so I thought that I can just pull it off. Anywhere else I wore a really ugly, big crossbody bag that fitted in a lot of things (I once watched an interview with a moped / knife crime thief and he actually advised to wear a cross body bag as it's more difficult for them to quickly pull it off you, so your chances of getting attacked are lower). This bag was like 5 quid. I never felt safe in London knowing what's going on with the crime and I'd never wear any luxury items in this city. It was violently mental back then and with the current post-pandemic and cost of living crisis I don't even want to imagine what it's like now. Nearly anyone I know who lives or has lived in London has either been mugged, at knifepoint, burgled or a witness of a violent crime. Not to mention that riding the bus home from a night out is a traumatising experience with all the possibly drugged, crazily and dangerously behaving people. The UK is not a safe country, maybe in some small village, however also small towns now experience knife crime, machetes etc. There are less and less safe places.

I’m so sorry that happened to you! I’m just glad you weren’t seriously injured! You were brave and strong! Thanks for sharing your story because can help all of us if ever in that situation.

So sorry this happened to you but so glad that you’re okay! My bag was stolen in Barcelona a long time ago but I didn’t notice it because it was hanging on my chair…it cost me a lot of money but that was all. Most of the time when I wear my designer bags my dog is with me (I don’t live in the city) and she is very protective (it’s a Dobermann) so people don’t dare to come near me 😅 but if I were you, I’d call an Uber next time, no public transport late in the evening anymore…Thank you for sharing and get well soon Romina❣️🙏😘

I'm happy you were not severely injured. Material things can often be replaced, you can not be🤗 I'm in America and the addiction crisis is unfathomable at this point. I don't know if the crisis has reached the UK, I think many steal to find their next high. They may have no clue what the bag is, but like you said, it's the contents. I hate this happened to you. I carry my luxury items. I've worked hard for them, I'm going to use them. I'm cautious even in my smaller, suburban area. Crime is everywhere. Heal well and be safe. Lots of love to you❤

So sorry to hear that this happened to you 😢 I do understand that this is happening more often and especially during more difficult financial times, ive been wearing my luxury less in central London because of it and it doesn't help that I am an Asian female who "looks like I have money". I don't get much attention my local town so I'm happy wearing outside of London, but it really depends and you generally can sense if it's ok or not okay like your 6th sense as you mentioned. I hope you are okay and healing up! Sending big hugs to you xx

I'm so sorry this happened to you. I'm glad you are ok. I was never mugged but in front of my front door someone broke into my car for my designer tote I was using for work. I didn't need it that night so I just left it in the car. Never again. It makes you feel violated and unsafe

@katemiller7874

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Same thing happened to my daughter they broke her car window to get that neverful years ago.

I’m sad this happened to you Romina and am glad you’re ok. Thinking it through before it happens is so important and you could react automatically and scream which likely saved you. It’s dangerous everywhere. Don’t travel alone at night and stay aware certainly but I think keeping your wallet/card case and keys NOT in your bag is essential moving forward. So if your bag is stolen they don’t get those essential items. I’ve seen slim belt bags (for under your coat) or card cases you can wear as a necklace with a cord under your coat…or in your pocket is better than traveling with those items in your bag. Thieves are so brazen. I’m glad you weren’t seriously injured - people are crazy. Take it easy. ❤️🙏🏽🥰

I’m so glad you are ok 💖 It’s really sad how this is starting to happen everywhere in the world, people are getting desperate with how expensive everything is these days, specially basic needs like food and housing. I live in Canada and here I don’t feel safe taking the public transportation anymore. I’ve been trying to avoid it as much as possible. I wear my designer bags when I’m out with my hubby and try to keep my phone on my pocket at all times instead of placing it inside my bag….we shouldn’t have to live in fear like that.

@geogirlforever

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Which Province? I’m in Canada too and would only feel that way in certain Cities (sketchy areas) and night. But sad that a fellow Canadian feels this way.

@danaleiva6611

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@@geogirlforever Ontario…public transportation system: the TTC.

@geogirlforever

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@@danaleiva6611 Yes, that’s an extremely large City and many weirdness when dusky out. Sucks when people need to use that transportation and feel uncomfortable or not feeling safe.

Bin froh, dass dir nichts passiert ist und du sogar deine Tasche schützen konntest. Auch wenn man vorsichtig ist, leider lässt sich sowas nie komplett vermeiden. Oh je, ich war bisher nur 1x in London und habe mich dort sehr sicher gefühlt, war allerdings auch nicht viel abends unterwegs. Wohne in einer kleinen Stadt sehr nah an Frankfurt, aber auch hier gibt es Straßen, da fühle ich mich abends nicht so gut.

I am so sorry to hear this incident Romina, but I am so glad you are okay now and not harmed or heavily injured, I really hope you will recover from this traumatic experience soon. I am going to London next week to celebrate birthday and this incident really reminds me to be aware of these situations in london and when travelling. I am living in Bath and I am very comfortable with carrying my designer bags around, but as I am going to London next week and I am planning to carrying my Dior oblique crossbody bag, but this got me thinking if I really should still carry it as it may make me a target. But this should never be our fault, definitely not yours in both of your cases, so please don’t be hard on yourself and blame yourself. In future reference, when you are vlogging with your phone in London perhaps keep it discreet or when it’s less busy, or in a safe area, so people won’t target you. Please stay safe over the Easter holiday and enjoy your holiday with you husband and your loved ones x.

@RominaRoseMay

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Thank you soo much, lovely!! 🥺❤️ Happy Easter to you & your loved ones too!! ❤️❤️❤️ Xx

Oh no, Romina, I am so sorry to hear this happened to you, thankfully you are ok. I am as you know, a Londoner too and always on high alert when I am out. To be honest this is one of the reasons why I prefer to carry a cross-body bag, especially when they are luxury. Living in London, you have to be constantly aware - and I often see tourists being at risk, as they forget to be alert. So glad you are ok, sending you much love 💕

@RominaRoseMay

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Thank you soo much, Hanne!! 🥺❤️ Yes, we should always be aware of our surroundings!! ❤️❤️❤️ Xx

I am so sorry this happened to you. I can tell you that in New Orleans there are no "good areas" To think that we are safe in any area is a falsehood. My son was walking and was robbed. He was shot 3 times and is now paralyzed. He is a miracle. My point it thank goodness you are ok and no bag or possession is worth your life and safety. I sold my Hermes Kelly and I rarely carry my Chanels. Today I had a Gucci tote and after this video it reminds me be mindful X

@Elizabeth_lowkeyluxuries

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I'm sorry about your son 😔 I'm glad he's a miracle 🙏

@RominaRoseMay

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So sorry about your son, lovely!! 🥺❤️ Wishing you & your family all the best!! 😘❤️ Xx

Thank goodness you are okay and safe! If I do wear one of my luxury bags or even one of my luxury watches, I definitely consider where I'm going and if my hubby is with me or not. I live in a fairly big city in a decent area in the states, but some neighborhoods in the surrounding area aren't the greatest. That's why I own quite a few cheap purses that I enjoy, like Longchamp (total of 4). I use those for basic running around. I've recently this year decided to switch to more "quite luxury" items, whether that's handbags or jewelry. I feel this helps and also being more aware of how things are in the world nowadays. It's quite sad. 😞 Try and take care! ❤

So sorry to hear this happened to you. I live in London too and am aware of this problem. I always carry foldable canvas shopping tote bag and whenever I feel not safe or come back home late, I put my designer bag inside this shopping bag so not to attract too much attention.

Whenever I go into central London I will pay to get an Uber or a taxi. My logic is if I can spend £5k on a bag, I can pay a little extra to get me from a to b safely. I know we shouldn’t have to do it, but it’s worth it to me to feel safe. I personally would never get a bus while carrying any of my designer bags, I’m just not that confident and as I mentioned, paying the little extra on travel is totally justified if I’m spending thousands on luxury goods

@Elizabeth_lowkeyluxuries

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One criminologist also recommends not telling the Uber or taxi that you're going home, that you're going to see friends so they don't know it's your home address and that you possibly live alone

@hnm-24k5

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@@Elizabeth_lowkeyluxuries oh that is good advice, i will keep that in mind!

I'm so sorry this happened to you. Beyond scary. I carry mace as this has happened to too many people I know. Sending an abundance of love your way.

Omg I am so glad you are ok. I live in a big city and I am never alone at night. I Uber and never walk or take public transport. I have a tiny fanny bag that I can wear under a jacket and carry the least amount in it. I do not believe many of these people even know designer bags. They mostly throw them away. Most are looking for cash and a credit card that they can use quickly. I still wear my designer bags in the day and if I do use them at night I am with my husband or a group of people. I am short so I am an easy target so I worry about these things. I am so glad you are ok