‘claiming’ to have left the kink community because it was part of the occult and not a safe place to learn - really sounds like he was dangerous and ended up getting kicked out of his local community and is now a sad boy in his feelings… 😢😂

@tobereplaced

Ай бұрын

Exactly! Especially the way he talks about kink, all of the action but none of the levels of communication needed to make those relationships/sessions safe.

@beethovens666

Ай бұрын

Exactly, no club would allow a rigger with

@michelleburchfield1420

Ай бұрын

@@tobereplaced Agreed. Have actually already sent this off to a few local people myself, we were all icked out by the behavior - no matter the gender on my side!

@stytler06

Ай бұрын

He asked to get pegged and had WAY too many requests for his local dom

@DINGOlord

Ай бұрын

He probably has... interesting opinions on safe words

The way he has his seatbelt on and kept changing locations, door light still on, etc. is 100% giving D0ordash driver filming between his pickups in the off-peak hours💀

@alxndria1

Ай бұрын

He’s just filming in the car so he doesn’t wake his 3 girlfriends up.

@candacen7779

Ай бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

Why pay $10 when every job has a creep like this in the workplace giving out this stuff unsolicited?

@user-ug5uz9zg8z

Ай бұрын

LMAO.. yeah just ask craig from accounting

@AmethystEyes

Ай бұрын

@@user-ug5uz9zg8z John Oliver reference?

he has verizon store assistant manager in western massachusetts vibes. got fired from geek squad in 2011 for making female clients uncomfortable energy. the worst townie you remember from your college years (y'know, the guy who'd buy a bunch of handles of admiral nelson and like, one 2 liter bottle of coke and invited 19 year olds to trash his horrible home that had more mattresses on the floor than chairs) has an exciting new career.

@lemonscentedchipmunk6451

Ай бұрын

Disturbingly specific amd accurate

@the_newt_nest

Ай бұрын

That guy has gotten into kink, god help us

@Wzrd100

Ай бұрын

Lmao Berkshires represent

@Alex-pn2hn

Ай бұрын

Oh my god i know like 3 of these guys

@mpnb2162

Ай бұрын

Please tell me you're familiar with chris fleming's bit "polyamorous"

I want to live in a world where a "dating coach" refers to an archeology professor

@iggy14750

Ай бұрын

And where a "pickup artist" is the guy who takes your trash to the dump

@bregowego

Ай бұрын

I'm cackling I love this

@LeftoverBeefcake

Ай бұрын

Yeah, I'm into dating. Carbon dating. I can show you how your relationship with a woman (or man) won't decay like a radioactive isotope. After taking my course your love life won't be a half-life but a life full of excitement and wonder...

@jellyskink

Ай бұрын

@@bregowego heheheh, thanks!

@AdventuRyn_

Ай бұрын

10/10 only time 'dating coach' is valid 😩

I'll bet literally anything this man got blacklisted from his local community for being creepy and not respecting boundaries, that or he's all talk and he's never done anything in the community.

@Noon-jt7gi

Ай бұрын

EXACTLY that!

@dragonfire160

Ай бұрын

Yes! And I'm leaning towards the second one

@xsanguine8

Ай бұрын

One of those guys who's been "mastering ropes" on a mannequin he found in a dumpster when he was fifteen.

@ClutchSituation

Ай бұрын

100% this. I don't buy this guy at all. Really strong "I've carved out an incredibly small pond and made myself big fish in it" vibes.

@tlowery2074

Ай бұрын

same dude who’s probably shaking and crying when he asks for no onions if his server is a woman

Quoting the bible and calling the kink community occult is giving weird conservative christian who’s trying to rationalize being kinky. Also he probably kept getting kicked out of clubs for being a creep

@iamjustkiwi

Ай бұрын

I was gonna say he sounds like the type of guy the legit kink community is extremely sick of dealing with.

@thehumanperson7448

Ай бұрын

Also, calling the kink community occult would be dark magic. Which would mean that he's saying that if you join the kink community, you gain magical powers lol

@user-ug5uz9zg8z

Ай бұрын

dude definitely got blacklisted from his local kink community for doing weird manipulative shit with consent and now he's gotta cover his ass, LOL

@whathappened246

Ай бұрын

the kink community is weird ill pass

@tinybrownbird

Ай бұрын

He was originally raised as a Jehovah's Witness, apparently.

I heard this guy has 3 girlfriends, and yes, they smoke weed.

@dellagondwana5504

Ай бұрын

Do they smoke weed?

@TheAngryCleric

Ай бұрын

You mean she doesn’t just smoke cigarettes, but weed cigarettes?

@music42380

Ай бұрын

pulled that from the depths of my memories

@miinka

Ай бұрын

Weed cigarettes??

@Terrestriellie

Ай бұрын

​@@TheAngryCleric It's actually called a bunt - not a weed cigarette

Oh god, he's That Kind of Dom. He definitely got pushed out of the kink community after word got around about how he treats his subs. Somehow I don't think he's great at boundaries.

@tobereplaced

Ай бұрын

Exactly! Especially the way he talks about kink, all of the action but none of the levels of communication needed to make those relationships/sessions safe.

@starwinter6845

Ай бұрын

He 100% has never had an actual sub, he's just done horrific things to women who had no experience in kink/BDSM and the moment he encountered an actual sub, his ass got blasted and rightfully so

@offcoloratura

Ай бұрын

WHAT? A guy who became Internet-infamous because of a video describing how you don't take no for an answer is BAD AT BOUNDARIES? 😂 Yeah, dude, if you can't leave a stranger alone who told you "no," what self-respecting kinkster is going to trust you to STOP A DANGEROUS ACTIVITY when they safeword?

@user-ug5uz9zg8z

Ай бұрын

for real. That's not dominance, that's being a fcking predator.

@sorryifoldcomment8596

Ай бұрын

Very much gives off the vibes of an abusive asshole who sees "kink" as little more than cover...and thinks subs like me are nothing more than a convenient breed of females™ who get turned on by abuse. > "Oh wow, I can treat my partner however I want and no one can complain? Sign me up!" This is why I'm scared of finding a man who is already into being a dom. Every good dom I've had started out as a vanilla relationship and was later convinced by me to give it a chance. _(It sucks...but I am technically looking for a man who is cool with hurting me, and the men who would be most attracted to that dynamic are abusive assholes. The man who deserves to be my Dom should be _*_more_*_ hesitant and actually _*_less_*_ eager about hurting me than a straight up abuser.)_

He's definitely filming in his car because his roommates make fun of him.

"I am an expert on dating!" Then why are you single?

@alisaurus4224

Ай бұрын

Because he’s TOO MUCH MAN for just one woman 🙄

Honestly I think the only guys who are afraid of "Me Too" stuff are the ones doing shit they shouldn't be

@xtuffcookiex

Ай бұрын

They take it as we are attacking them and try to be a victim

@starsiadraws

Ай бұрын

They're always like "You can't even TALK to women these days without getting Me Too-ed" while invading womens' (and teenage girls') personal space and making objectifying comments to/about them.

@glitchygutz

28 күн бұрын

If they're so hurt by the truth, they need to take the energy they spend being defensive and redirect it towards actually helping fix the issue

It's giving Angry Rejected "Doms" Crying in the Walmart Parking Lot vibes to me. This guy 100% did not "leave" kink, he was KICKED OUT for being unsafe, creepy, and abusive to women!

Tiktok dating coach "I'm so good with women!" source: trust me bro

@goodbher9244

Ай бұрын

I don't think he's ever had sex. 😂

I am unendingly confused about guys that want girls that don't want them. Like my dudes, don't you want someone who likes what she sees?

@cariandi

Ай бұрын

Unfortunately many people feel they have a right to possess who and what they want. Hearing someone say 'no' is part of the game to them, the first step in ultimately getting their way. They cannot fully comprehend that people do not want them due to their awful personalities so they justify it by saying 'that person I want is playing coy and wants to be chased'.

@stoppit9

Ай бұрын

But they all DESERVE the hottest woman they can find

@stringcheese6833

Ай бұрын

A lot of these guys are either delusional enough to think that she'll come around once she sleeps with him, or they only wanted sex anyways. Pity sex, half-hearted sex or drunk sex, it doesnt matter because its all just sex to these guys.

@Expunge6667

Ай бұрын

Lmao yeah, because it's so common to find somebody who does... Even in shape, no dude under six feet is fending them off. Guys need to learn game, but not from this guy

@chickadee1607

Ай бұрын

@@Expunge6667 I've literally only ever heard men comment about how women like tall guys. At this point it feels like something men tell themselves to explain away why women don't want to talk to them, because they can't fathom that it might be their personality.

This guy is broke AF, and trying to cope. It's just sad.

@tlowery2074

Ай бұрын

it’s giving i live in my car

@xiola

Ай бұрын

@@tlowery2074 I think his car would be more full if he lived in it but I'm definitely getting gig-app/doordash driver who works 12+ hours and films these between deliveries in the off-peak hours :T (and seems to cope by spending so much of his driving time fantasizing about his alter-ego who has a lot of dub-con sex that now he's trying to pretend that fantasy version of himself is a real person x_x;)

@Jill_P

Ай бұрын

Yeah, but not every guy will resort to creating cringey, no-effort PUA content that features a clearly misogynistic perspective, that is fraught with endless obvious inconsistencies and lies, as a response to being broke... much like not every woman will create an OnlyFans to make money. This economy and the struggles it is causing is sad, of course, but grifting is clearly not an ethical solution. Sorry, but I do not feel all that sorry for him.

no but the $3000 personal coaching is so funny to me because, like... growing up amab, I could barely go to any family gathering without a middle-aged drunk uncle pushing the same shit on me for free lol Like, where's the demand?? If you're presenting as a boy and you want shitty advice from a guy who claims to be drowning in girls, you can get that from your local frat boy for the price of, like... two Fireball shots aksjfkdjksjksjkswj

@maybeyourbaby6486

Ай бұрын

also, love how he's halfheartedly trying to distance himself from the redpill movement when his website bio apparently ends WITH A STRAIGHT UP RIPOFF OF THE PILL SCENE FROM THE MATRIX 😭😭😭 "the choice is yours; do you allow yourself to reach your potential, or do you let him help the next person? So, what will it be?" maybe he's trying to disavow the redpill movement so nobody figures out where he gets his writing from lmao

@gays4holtby110

Ай бұрын

the target audience (which these guys will never explicitly acknowledge) is people who cannot leave their houses or talk to other people and would better be served by psychiatry or literal children

If MeToo and related stuff is specifically making it difficult for guys to approach women...they shouldn't be approaching women.

As an old attached lady (36), just talk to people like they are human beings. No one worth their salt is using this alpha-beta-whatever nonsense. Find a hobby you love, keep learning, and enjoy life - and you DONT have to be in a romantic or sexual relationship to have a full life. And dont lie to people to get them into bed, thats scummy.

@sunnyandthechlo

Ай бұрын

Exactly. It doesn’t have to be a game where you’re constantly trying to get in their head and make people think this or that, make sure you’re not doing this but you are doing this and finding ‘high value’ men or women... It sounds exhausting. Just find someone you like being around and see if they like being around you too.

@kenon6968

Ай бұрын

by the time you are paying some charlatan it's not even about meeting someone at that point but a whole lot of self esteem issues.

@user-ug5uz9zg8z

Ай бұрын

thank you jocelyn !!! my boyfriend and I are just trying to make each other's lives easier and better. It's not a game of winning and losing, tit-for-tat BS. We're just honest and we like each other. Also, you've got another 30 years before you get anywhere close to "old".

@sprig5173

Ай бұрын

Be kind, be interested. It's not rocket science.

@HollieAndApollo

Ай бұрын

39 and been with my husband for 17 years and I 100% agree! ❤

rule number one: never take advice from anyone who calls or refers to himself as an alpha

Remember $1,000.99 can also be considered a six figure salary.

i dont think he knows the difference between occult and a cult

This kind of thing is so genuinely depressing to me. Sitting in your car, rambling about your (made-up) romantic and sexual success, deliberately presenting yourself in a way that pisses people off and inspires them to attack you. Just seems like an incredibly sad life.

@Serjmyhero

Ай бұрын

It might be easier for him to live a lie than to face himself. Cause whatever is left of him cannot be happy.

@duskripper6650

Ай бұрын

Taking "fake it til you make it" to a whole new level

His room mates are his parents and he’s embarrassed for them to hear him talking about his course because they probably make fun of him

@bchin4005

Ай бұрын

"Are you winning yet, son?" 😂

@miinka

Ай бұрын

lol yes, definitely his parents 😂

wait his photo is AI??? could he not afford to put on a nice suit, shave, and have a REAL professional headshot taken???

@softsounds8453

Ай бұрын

He records his "courses" inside his car. You think he can afford a good suit and a professional photographer? 😂

@bsidethebox

Ай бұрын

I mean, the bio sounds like it was also written by an AI trained on Wattpad, sooooo

Things that never happened called, and they want their poor fanfiction back from alphadom.

@yeetymcneety

Ай бұрын

Everyone in the room wants their seats and applause back

@tlowery2074

Ай бұрын

tell that to his private clients that have already successfully held women hostage!

Thanks for getting infected with Alpha Dom so we don't have to. Your swell review saved us all! 😭

I think we need to bring the term "pickup artist" back into the cultural lexicon because I think these guys are just pickup artists who are trying to distance themselves from the bad rep that term (rightfully) has

@minnie7783

Ай бұрын

Pickup artist? Don't you mean garbage man? Pickup artists are the lovely gentlemen who collect my trash on Thursdays, community heroes

he's giving "my three girlfriends. and yes, they smoke weed" energy

@AmethystEyes

Ай бұрын

Where is the reference from?

@madilyn6850

Ай бұрын

tumblr

If a guy said to me “well I’m the absolute best” to my saying “no thanks I’m not interested” I’d probably barf and then die on the spot from the cringe.

The fact he refuses to take No and he's apart of the Kink scene...or was IG? Tells me that most women who would be into the same shit AVOIDS him like the plague. I've heard that the Kink community has flaws but from what I'm seeing....he's the guy they warn you about.

@Sarah-with-an-H

Ай бұрын

He's giving off a certain kind of energy that's equal parts lazy and ignorant. He clearly wants to be a part of very specific communities, but he's not a part of them and he has zero understanding of why rules exist in the kink community specifically. It all feels like he's grasping at straws.

Omg, as soon as you said dating coach, I was hoping it was this dude. He's so damn creepy, obvious lie about talking to a woman, and the awful boundary pushing. The only reason that he has gained any followers is to watch is downfall and troll him. Watching farther, I couldn't agree more. Even though most alpha bros are assholes an have horrible takes, they "back it up" what they're saying with having the dream home, car, drip, ect. This dude is in a shitty car, lives with roommates, and records on a older phone; why would anyone listen to him? He's regurgitating the same garbage that he's been fed believing that he'll blow up. Well, he kind of did, but is getting dogged on by everyone, even some incels.

@Dug252

Ай бұрын

He’s playing the fake it till you make it game except he is absolutely terrible at faking it

@pie8175

Ай бұрын

@@Dug252 truly. I'd love to be that delulu. Then all my problems are someone else's.

@tlowery2074

Ай бұрын

i hope it’s all just very lazy rage bait

@mewho8057

Ай бұрын

@@Dug252 unlike everyone woman he's ever been with...

"My six girlfriends. And yes, they are submissives."

He can’t film in his room because his roommates are his parents.

First time I saw this guy I thought he was one of those guys who “has a girlfriend but she goes to another school so we wouldn’t know her”😂

I mean it’s been a while since I was in the kink scene, but I was way more comfortable at public events with people looking out for one another instead of agreeing to just go alone to someone’s house??

@sunnyandthechlo

Ай бұрын

Yeah he doesn’t want people to be comfortable. He’s probably not ‘safe, sane and consensual.’ And was creeping people out.

I should be a dating coach. I've been married for like 16 years and haven't dated in a long time but I've stayed married😂 my best advice is "be hygienic" and "maybe try to have fun on early dates and if you are thinking about making it serious think about it you are financially compatable. This doesn't mean you make the same amount of money but do you agree on what married couples do with money. Also, what kind of debt do you have each?"

@montananerd8244

Ай бұрын

👆👆👆x1M. Also tho “be hygienic” for real ❤❤❤ I am 50+, considering dating again after a long hiatus, but between the herp & the syph (omg it’s back), as a pan enbyish woman, instead of everyone looking good, all I see are 🦠 🦠 🦠 any time I do feel an attraction 😂

@aksez2u

Ай бұрын

Solid advice.

@greeny.official

Ай бұрын

agree u should b the dating coach bc ive never considered these things (BESIDES FROM HYGENIC) b4 LMAO

@bec7080

Ай бұрын

@@greeny.official seriously people literally Wait until the day after they get married and then say "let's combine checking accounts" and the other person says "no way this is my account, we can't get an account just for bills" and then arguments start over who pays what bills and it's like... This is a pre marriage discussion 🤷

@Grace-er9ep

Ай бұрын

I definitely think people who have been married HAPPILY need to be the ones doing the coaching on how to find and keep someone to actually build a life with and ways to go about building said life together

Say what you want but the guy clearly cares about road safety (not womens safety tho)

@xiola

Ай бұрын

he clearly got fired from a customer service job because he's a creep and is now an app delivery driver filming between gigs on the off hours while waiting for calls 🥲

@Rawfrogs

Ай бұрын

I'm sure this guy absolutely loves cops so he'd NEVER break a traffic law

We all threw up in our mouths 🤮.

I don't understand why some men so badly want there to be like a formula for finding someone to date.

When you mentioned he was buckled and changing locations all I could imagine was Christian Grey Doordashing and having "business meetings" in the corner of a parking lot 😂

Nothing says TAKE ME NOW like a man with backne wearing a seat belt in a honda civic

Not everyone needs to sell a course. Not everyone needs a podcast. Not everyone needs to write a book. No credentials and a couple of alright ideas doesn’t make anyone an expert.

he’s probably buckled in so he can move locations quickly after getting embarrassed every time someone sees him filming

Like the kids say, I FEEL THE ICK. I am angry and creeped out at the same time.

This guy lives in my state and his picture gets spread around local Facebook groups to steer clear of him. Also he gets regularly kicked out of places for harassment

As a terminally offline acearo in their mid-30s I would like to thank you for your service.

His comments about the kink community are all I need to know - someone's big mad that the community focused on consent and not coercing people excluded him 😂

4:07 I had to pause after he said "professional dating coach" to hold my head in my hands. Then I hit play and he said "to help guys understand the female mind" and I had to pause again to screech, my goodness how awful. Thank you Swell for saving us all 😂

I've been here all of 6 minutes and 50 seconds and this man just smells like onions. ... Wait, I meant Onision.

How to understand the female mind: listen to a woman when she talks and explains it to you. Really difficult, I know

Everyone says this guy probably got kicked out of the kink community, but I don't think he's even gotten that close. My guess, dude went to one of those sex expos, saw a booth about BDSM, and listened for 30 seconds tops before walking away. I really want to know if any women have posted online about their experience with him...but I doubt he's actually been with anyone.

Booktok is fantasy. FANTASY. I can't even comprehend why men think this is what we want.

I heard he has 3 weed smoking girlfriends on tumblr.

@bchin4005

Ай бұрын

He has three friends who are girls that smoke his weed. There, I fixed it 😂

Had a brief run in with ol’ Alpha Dom a few months back. He’s absolute clownshoes.

@lemonscentedchipmunk6451

Ай бұрын

Wait what happened?

@michaelhaydenbell

Ай бұрын

Your just a jaelous haterr beta mail!!1!

@ladylark10884

Ай бұрын

bro spill don't leave us hanging like that 😭

@Noon-jt7gi

Ай бұрын

Well, now we need to know

@jocelynsmyth6604

Ай бұрын

Oh I definitely need to know

I expect that he films in the car because he doesn't want mom and dad to hear his course.

As someone in the kink community where I live, an experienced person consistently bringing new people into the space can be a red flag... the community can be very tight and word-of-mouth goes a long way when there's a problematic person around. When you can't find play partners in the community, bringing people in from outside becomes your only option.

He’s probably just vaping. I get that vibe from him.

@lemonscentedchipmunk6451

Ай бұрын

Biiiiig vaper energy

@Zeffer32

Ай бұрын

Definitely a vapist

It’s unfortunate that wanting to get women isn’t about wanting companionship but power. And the appearance of superiority

The first clip of him literally made me gag. Anyone who says "you'd have to be ok with my mastery of ropes" is immediately not someone you want coming near you at all, let alone tying you up

"so I'm currently writing a book right now" "Dear God"

"You do NOT have to accept her rejection." Yes, you do. Yes, you fucking do. NO. MEANS. NO. I don't know why this is so fucking hard. Sorry, but I agree with you. If he's the master of the course, invest in some good equipment.

@Roadent1241

Ай бұрын

I volunteer, as a not very girly girl who's repulsed ace, to pester him and teach him what it's like to not accept rejection. He wants to play Yu-Gi-Oh with me, right? Right?? RIGHT????? THAT'S WHAT THE BOYS LIKE??? YES??? CARD GAMES????? No? POKÉMON BATTLES THEN??? I HAVE POKÉMON DND LET'S PLAY~ Let's see how stubborn he is~

Alpha/beta/etc is just boy astrology

Oh my god as someone who has been in kink communities everything he said in that description is a huuge red flag. It sounds like he got chased out because he was being a creep. Seriously so many self styled ""Doms"" get rejected from kink communities because they use it as a power trip and get weird and self obsessed with the title "Dom" and he gives me that vibe 100%. Good Doms don't tend to use the title outside the context of their partner, and certainly understand styling yourself as Dominant in all things 24/7 is grossly unrealistic and unhealthy.

26:53 this is really giving "people kept getting mad at me for being extremely weird in kink clubs/online and im saying the kink community is a cult now because the whole safe, sane, and consensual thing is sooo boring >:( what do you mean it's weird to ask strangers who I've had 0 conversations with to call me master and get collared???"

@Sarah-with-an-H

Ай бұрын

He's also giving rapist energy

God his about section just sounds like self-insert fanfiction. Some real mary sue energy right there.

Swell being more of a dom ripping apart this guy's complete lack of production than the "alpha dom" tells you all you need to know about tiktok dating coaches

I predict that any 'book' ever 'written' by this 'alpha' dude is generated via AI.

i have a gf now but i rarely ever walked up to women to try and date them for multiple reasons but not wanting to come off as a creep was a big one. girl say no thank you i say ok have a great day with a smile, and walk away.

Alpha Dom is like the most un-serious un-professional person trying to be serious and professional and just lying all the time.

I need- NEED- the women that have rejected him and/or his ex-wife to step forward on TikTok and talk about their experiences with him. BEGGING the universe to get his ex-wife on TT.

This is giving me flash backs to someone I used to know who always had to tell obviously made up stories about how many women he had been with and how much money he was making from "investing". Anytime someone would tell a story he would have to butt into it and he always did something bigger and better. The level delusion is incredible.

@justadude2807

Ай бұрын

The level of insecurity, far too much 😂

I bet you anything he doesn’t know the difference between cult and occult

@Sarah-with-an-H

Ай бұрын

My bets are he went through school in special Ed classes, not that there's anything wrong with learning disabilities, it's just very obvious he's lacking in the brains castegory

why do men love a/b/o so much 😔

ew. ew ew ew ewewweweweewweewweewewwewewew. Everytime he shows up on screen, I feel my scalp shrivel up into a ball.

We love a road safety king 😆

But frreal I wish there was a non-toxic dating coach for women, about women, because I'm bi too and FINDING A GIRLFRIEND IS 100000000000000% HARDER than finding a man 😭

Is he saying the kink community teaches magic?

@thatcarlchick7655

Ай бұрын

Yes! The magic of negotiation, consent, and respect! (yeah, I know it's corny, but I had to!)

I would agree that Russel can come off as a well put together dude that other dudes can maybe take advice from, but Tate is such an utter joke that only kids can take him seriously, and they do, which i would argue, is terrifying.

"For all the people who haven't bought in to see what I actually have accomplished " This dude is definitely signs in to one of his burner accounts and looks at his own page and tries to believe his own bs.

His paying audience, to the extent he has one, is young children right? That's always the answer with weirdos like this.

9:03 "he's buckled in and parked" Amanda how could you not respect this safety king

Restraining order! Jail! Gallows!

amanda i love your videos but PLEASE use actual captions. its hard enough for me to hear people as is, but when the guy's videos are sped up i literally have no idea what he's saying. autogenerated captions are often barely a step up from nothing & messes up constantly. please consider your viewers who have hearing issues & make your videos more accessible to us

Are we sure he's not living in his car? Having to move his car to film the last 90 seconds of a video screams "have to move my car every hour" 🤨

Honestly, I feel bad for guys who think like this and both make and purchase this type of course. What a really freaking sad life to be living.

I have a feeling his roommates are mom & dad.

I need you to roast the terrible decisions of house flipper tiktok. They never once touch the actual issues like piping and insulation.

Anyone who uses "god-tier" in reference to dating has never dated. Sorry to hear about your rejection, Swell, they missed out on a gem.

I think the real problem is how content that is more extreme gets more engagement on a platform no matter if the content is good or bad. The red pill community has only gotten more and more extreme with their takes and ideas because dating advice that actually works is realistically, kinda boring most of the time. I think you mentioned before how at least Andrew Taint has a super car but like, if a bald head is a deal-breaker for me, then all the super cars in the world can't win me over. Also simple stuff like preferences and mental health they seem to just gloss over. It seems like a huge house of cards based of of mens own insecurities honestly, and when it falls a lot of men are gonna be lost and misinformed.

His bio sounds like someone from a 2000s pick up artist forum

as a kinky guy, we do not claim him.

As a *very* active member of the kink/fetish/BDSM community, I can nearly guarantee you that he was blacklisted from the scene and unable to get any positive references from within the collective group because of the manipulative, predatory, and sexist behavior he undoubtedly displayed towards any of his partners/potential partners. It's giving very "You can't fire me actually because I QUIT! Ha!" energy. 100% I would never participate in any form of play with this dude if I saw him at an event and I'm guessing that other women felt the same. It also seems like it's a way to preemptively discredit any assault or other similarly foul claims that will come out against him because he'll just say the accusers are a bunch of occultists or devil worshipers or whatever the fuck. Super lame. Makes the whole fetish community look bad honestly.

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Honestly he's giving I have a fantasy energy, but never having even said as much as two words to anyone who is actually involved in the community

This guy reminds me of open mic comics who flex like they're established, paid stand-up comics. Then they start a school. Re: "If you don't look up to the person giving the course, don't take the course.". I concur! Which is why we have this thing among open mikers who swear by The Comedy Bible (it's really titled that) which if you look at merely the author's bio she nobly admits that she quit stand-up comedy after 3 years and became a motivational speaker (and author) instead. She offers fairly straightforward wisdom of public speaking, strict set structure in terms of joke writing. It's a book that I regret buying. But brand new comics swear by it! I think it's a book of decent stage habits that kills the artistry if you honestly continue with them. Bah, your comment about choosing well who you take advice from struck a chord with me, obviously.

The second hand embarrassment. Oh good god 😅 make it stop haha.

If you are selling a course and any of the following are true I am refunding or contacting my cc company for a chargeback. A: You have garbage production value B: The course is incomplete C: There is no evidence you have any credentials in the space in which you are teaching This guy managed to hit all 3.

Is he a door dash driver or something and he’s just filming these in between delivering 😂

Parents take their child home when he enters the park.

My old landlord in LA was a marriage counselor who had never been married. Similar energy

Do you think his book's on Kindle Unlimited? Wattpad? 😂