I Found Out My Dad's Not My Biological Father Through A DNA Test • Part 2
When Sam got her family DNA tests for the holidays, she had no idea it would completely change her life. Follow her on her journey as she meets her biological father.
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Пікірлер: 862
“He said I could google him... but I already had” honestly same 😂
@jessicalemke4571
5 жыл бұрын
Helena every date I’ve been on
@nodatastored684
2 жыл бұрын
They are the same... very similiar
At least it wasn’t like when that one woman found out her mom was a nurse and she stole her from a hospital.
@ItsmeRenataa
5 жыл бұрын
wait what? that happened?
@GodZanko1231
5 жыл бұрын
divahakyeon Yeah there was a movie on it
@majolijackson6740
5 жыл бұрын
@@GodZanko1231 OMG I remember that movie!!!!
@ashleycortes6849
5 жыл бұрын
Does anyone know the name of that movie?
@nicomartinelli4543
5 жыл бұрын
Ashley Cortes Abducted: The Carlina White Story
She should have respected her brothers choice to not know anything instead of telling him information when he made it clear he did not want to know.
This series isn’t as juicy as i hoped it would be
3:11 “your mom have any sperm left” lmao these texts 😂😂
@imaginesagi
5 жыл бұрын
That is such a guy thing to ask 🤦🏾♀️
@Johannahyaya
5 жыл бұрын
He explained in the video that he wanted to see if his dna had changed after stem cell treatments.
@Rocket_Man.
5 жыл бұрын
Johannah Waggoner *...or maybe if she needed some more!* 😉
@hugs2003
5 жыл бұрын
That kinda bothered me because he already said in the interview that he wanted to know if any of his untainted sperm was left so he could do some testing on it. Then there was that text, and all I can think of now is that this dude's reason for wanting to meet up with her was just because of that damned sperm, not because of her.
@abigailrobertson9863
5 жыл бұрын
hugs2003 same
"does your mom have any sperm left" "omg ok"
@Crimmir
5 жыл бұрын
"I'm gonna go and ask, one sec."
@MusicdudeForever123
5 жыл бұрын
"What's up ;)"
@MusicdudeForever123
5 жыл бұрын
That convo was so weird
I was raised by my stepfather who met my mother when my bro and I were babies. I would have assumed he was my biological father as I had no memory of my real father (too young) but my mom was always super open with family stuff. She never hid any deep dark family secrets and I always knew. However, I still consider my stepfather my dad, he raised me and genetics had little to do with that.
@TiggerIsMyCat
5 жыл бұрын
Nobody says that the man who raised you isn't your dad just because you don't have his genes; it's mainly about giving you the information you need to allow you to make your own decisions, and respecting those decisions once made. It seems YOUR parents have actually done that: you're lucky, and I'm genuinely happy for you, but that's not this woman's situation.
She's so disrespectful of her brother's wishes... If the guy doesn't want to know anything about his biological father, then you let him have that ffs
@TheYasmineFlower
5 жыл бұрын
You don't know in detail what occurred between them. And it was absolutely impossible for the brother to not know anything about his biological father, since his sister was searching and he would have picked up some stuff along the way anyway.
@marywagner3202
5 жыл бұрын
@@TheYasmineFlower But actively trying to tell him about it disrespects his wish to not know.
@Wra8h
5 жыл бұрын
I know?! pissed me off
@sandernista6499
5 жыл бұрын
The girl seems like a serious nutjob...
@sacredsiren
5 жыл бұрын
The whole thing was selfish... she violated this guy's right to privacy by reaching out to his family to get in touch with him in the first place... I'm adopted and I have DNA matches on Ancestry and I wouldn't dream of reaching out to them, because I don't feel like it's my right to violate their privacy if the family doesn't know of my existence. I feel bad for her real father, the one who raised her... I feel like her mania over finding this guy who had nothing to do with her life would have to be painful to the man who raised her...
I feel bad for her real father. Imagine them all going out to dinner with the donor and the father feeling like he doesn't belong.
@jimmothymcjimmersmith8948
2 жыл бұрын
That is her real father. The man that raised them is dad. He made his bed, now he can lay in it
I'm really hoping to see her dad that raised her at the end and his thoughts
@1CaTumbleweed
5 жыл бұрын
Way to slow and repetitive nothing! 🤔
Oh my gosh, she looks just like her aunt. I almost couldn't tell which picture was her.
@mirofeya
5 жыл бұрын
She needs to meet her biological aunt and cousins!
@moniquewilliams3560
5 жыл бұрын
Were both of them not her??
@mirofeya
5 жыл бұрын
@@moniquewilliams3560 her bio-aunt is on the right
I need to get in contact with this dude, not cause he might be my father but because I need a knee replacement and have an autoimmune disease so I need to be his lab rat.
@xSunnyDaysx
5 жыл бұрын
Spiral Breeze 😂
@aquagirlhehe
5 жыл бұрын
You can google him 😂
@gina1003
5 жыл бұрын
🤣
@LadySakure
5 жыл бұрын
😆
@thecatspajamasx2819
5 жыл бұрын
Omg same with autoimmune stuff right back atcha😂
You can call one your "nature father" and the other your "nurture father"
@jess6101
5 жыл бұрын
I use Bio-Dad and dad, but I don't know who my bio-dad is so I guess I just use dad.
@jaymeeleighjx1x
5 жыл бұрын
I use Father amd Dad...my father created me but my dad raised me
@chimeradarkoverlordrosanna1846
5 жыл бұрын
I use dad for the man who raised me and dad dad for my biological father
@mahmah5897
3 жыл бұрын
@@jaymeeleighjx1x no, your father did NOT create you
Idk why people keep calling him the Dad. He’s the DONOR.
@jee7504
5 жыл бұрын
😂 Well, If she fall in luv with him they cant get marrier CUZ he is still her father.
@indiaxlovee
5 жыл бұрын
jammieecx and biological father
@ramonanaya6236
4 жыл бұрын
Yep. I don't call my sperm donor (birth father) dad because he didn't raise me. The man I call my dad raised me.
@7rino896
4 жыл бұрын
If your a jet black african and raised by a russian couple does it make you russian and will everyone treat you like one? DNA is DNA. Donor and father. The man that raised her is the step father he deserves respect but he is still not the real father.
@brutalbingewatcher0986
4 жыл бұрын
Because the sperm is the the male side if her dad gave none their not related
Why was the thumbnail so scary
@tungaabayarmaa
5 жыл бұрын
💀
@alexcansun
5 жыл бұрын
LMAOOOOOO
@veronicasolorzano889
5 жыл бұрын
Its a scary situation haha
@goldenwolfxoxo4337
5 жыл бұрын
MR. Cazoo it’s another Buzzfeed Unsolved. But less dramatic.
@TheHawkBubble
5 жыл бұрын
It's all Making a Murderery lol.
The text convo between the daughter and the dad is a bit.. um 😐
@zabbers
5 жыл бұрын
Foodee Le don't think that's how their actual convo went down... it's just there for some laughs
@arianaalmeida7425
5 жыл бұрын
Zee how do you know that
@sohailahmed8309
5 жыл бұрын
It's not a bit... It is Odd! Even if it was just for laughs I feel the director should have known better.
@Internetpie22
5 жыл бұрын
Its edited in for drama it's not there actual conversation
@somebody2806
5 жыл бұрын
Zee. There would have been more conversations. Lots of directors do that for laughs
.......okay. ya'll stretching this out way too much...
@WhoisKell
5 жыл бұрын
Ciara Chang yeah it does!
@MetaMarcy21
5 жыл бұрын
word
I am donor concieved. Thank you for sharing this story. We need more awareness of everything that goes into this.... On every party's end.
Dad's immediate question-- "Your mom have any more sperm left?" Jesus bruv, relax..
I feel like the guy was using her for the possible frozen sperm
@bambi7563
5 жыл бұрын
Shayla who cares
@samanthanicholas6823
5 жыл бұрын
Meeee
@ThisIsMissCheeky
5 жыл бұрын
So what? She wanted to know him and it just so happens to be that he needs the frozen sperm.
@alexisgold-perez930
5 жыл бұрын
No I don’t think he’s using her for the possible frozen sperm. He wanted to meet his biological child. Nothing wrong with that.
@Kimberly-wt1nu
5 жыл бұрын
ha? how? the frozen sperm is at the bank. She doesn’t have it.
I feel bad for her REAL dad... you'd think that'd hurt his feelings?
@NayaKusakabe
5 жыл бұрын
Totally agree... Its kinda egotistical of her... She didn't think of her father at all
@danielew1974
5 жыл бұрын
@@NayaKusakabe I think iwould be egotistic for him to be offended that his daughter would want to learn about her biological family. It's her decision to make, not his. He is a grown up and can deal with the small feeling of jealousy or sadness, and then should also be happy and understanding that his daughter would want to know about her genetics. If she weren't surprised with it so suddenly, it probably would have played out differently. I can say from finding my own biological family (my dad was adopted) that it DEFINITELY didn't mean that I loved my grandparents less, I was just curious! I wanted to know if I had cousins, if I looked like other people,, etc. And I have no doubt that my grandma would be thrilled that my dad now has brothers and sisters to call family since they are gone (and he grew up an only child). I am positive she dealt kindly with her father in going about this process!
@kginmyheart
5 жыл бұрын
I think her main intention is to learn her medical history on his side. It's too much to expect that they will have an emotional connection immediately since he was only a sperm donor.
@52hello25
5 жыл бұрын
@@kginmyheart Medical history comes as a part of the DNA test. She was such being a creep. She had no reason at all to meet her donor, she's just creepy and obsessive.
@AllThePeppermint
5 жыл бұрын
You mean the same adoptive dad that was privy to the lie of her genetic origin? Yeah, I wouldn't care about hurting his feelings. I would care about my history, because my adoptive dad's genetic history isn't mine. I love genetics, genetic history, etc. Every child DOES have the right to know where they come from. Their parents lied for their entire lives.
It looks like he’s about to sneeze and cry at the same 😂
@elizabethm.1653
5 жыл бұрын
Ana loml😂😂😂😂
@mahmah5897
2 жыл бұрын
Omg he does lol
the thumbnail looks like it belongs to a murder documentary on netflix lol
This girl looks so bored throughout this video and the other
@recoil53
5 жыл бұрын
So does the biological father. Being good at telling a story is not in their genetics.
@radiant2052
5 жыл бұрын
Just like her bio dad!
@52hello25
5 жыл бұрын
She probably made up some fantasy in her head that he was going to be amazing and welcome her into his life and was disappointed when she actually found him. I seriously think that this girl is mentally ill and only reached out to him because she was trying to fill some hole in her life.
@rogerwilliams4742
4 жыл бұрын
It was just a way to get back at her mother for being sneaky. The problem is, she is JUST AS SNEAKY.
She had a right to know but she should've respected her brothers wishes. She is hella determined but in doing so, it might ruin the relationships she currently has.
BuzzFeed be announcing in their offices like "ANYBODY GOT A WEIRD LIFE?!"
Your dad was a real pimp... 😂
@mirofeya
5 жыл бұрын
Imagine how her dad feels. He couldn't produce any kids by himself (it is, for starters, is a very painful thing to any man to think) and now his children are found that dream bio-dad - rich doctor, living in New York, world famous and a star, basically. I am living in Russia and have heard of him, his star clients and that stem cells thing, he is really famous. And now that man trying to buy his son attention with the USA Open tickets. Uggggh. And an icing on the cake: his daughter releases the video about that, so many of his relatives, colleagues, and friends find out about him being just kinda step-dad.
@-blurryface-901
5 жыл бұрын
@@mirofeya it's a choice. I'm donor-conceived myself and i do not wish to contact my genetic half but if i did my dad wouldn't be bothered about it. Stop trying to imagine how her dad feels when you don't know everything about her life. He might be totally cool with it.
@Princess-dn7mj
5 жыл бұрын
@@mirofeya on top of that, you are assuming that her "step dad" is holding on to the old belief that men need to be fertile, rich, famous and overall, strong. Because his daughter was raised well and can articulate herself well, i can guess that he has good values which he gave to her. If i am right, you would hurt his intellectual so do not think that far.
@ReflectedMiles
5 жыл бұрын
@@Princess-dn7mj I doubt that there are many people in the world, apart from those who feel bound by engineered social correctness, who don't still lean towards that "old belief" if presented with the choices of being or not being those in actual circumstance. Anna may have no knowledge of the particulars but still be well-grounded in her concern for some of the potential fallout for her dad.
@poolereid
5 жыл бұрын
That is rude! You obviously are very immature.
I don’t really get why she wants to meet him, is not like she was adopted and wanted to meet her parents, she was just the product of a casual sperm donation
@pizzagamingblue7679
5 жыл бұрын
Alex Vallex he is her biological father I would want to know too
@Natalie-zv9wj
5 жыл бұрын
i guess she wants to see what her actual dad looks like, you probably wouldn't understand
@taylormarie5316
5 жыл бұрын
I don’t think you really understand. As a child of a donor, i and many others often want to know what our parents look like and how much they’re like us. It’s very important
@NerdyHomosapian
5 жыл бұрын
I don’t understand either, but I guess it would be important to some people. I really don’t believe I would look for my biological parent(s)
@gadagold423
5 жыл бұрын
@Alex You don't get it? Then you clearly know who your biological father is. How is it 'casual' sperm donation when EIGHT people are here because of it?
I want to know how the non-biological dad feels about all this. I understand that Sam was curious and whatnot, but her bro wasn't. She should have respected his wishes.
@la381
2 жыл бұрын
But, the father who raised her was at the dinner where they all met each other.
“They waited 21 and a half years... so I figured a month would be fine”😂
Some of these comments are crazy and not empathetic enough. Everyone is entitled to know about their origins. It is NOT disrespectful or selfish. There's a reason that the ethics around adoption, surrogacy, egg and sperm donation, etc have changed so much in the last 50 years and continue to.
Yeah, I'm gonna stop watching this story from here. I was initially interested on the concept but unfortunately, I'm no longer enjoying watching this girl. No offense to her but her personality just makes me uncomfortable. I get that she's that focused on finding her dad and all that but the way she treats her family, especially her brother and mom doesn't sit well with me. It seemed selfish of her to tell her brother those details about their dad when he clearly didn't want it. It's fine if she's excited about her dad but did she consider how her brother feels? Yes, he has "the right to know" but he also had the right to choose whether or not to find out. And the way she was passive aggressive with her mom wasn't nice to watch either. Sorry for the long rant. I'm happy that this girl found what she was looking for but I think I've had enough of the story. And viewers, don't let me stop you from following this story to the end. This is just my opinion and it doesn't have to change yours. Peace!
She looks like Dora the explorer
bro the text messages are not ok 🤦♀️🤦♀️
@GlowandLuna
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
The way she speaks and sits is just like the dad. LOLOL
Can I get part 3 now? I've finished part 2😭😂😂
@DM-ct8gq
5 жыл бұрын
Please please 😢 🙂
@kaitlyncooke4788
5 жыл бұрын
It was privated idk why
@thanosmaster-abel559
5 жыл бұрын
Right now
@shara4261
5 жыл бұрын
@ANGRYWOLVES where ?
There is a reason your mom withheld this information and personally I would try to figure that out.
@jasminecrowner3755
5 жыл бұрын
naomi hollywood look at part 1 she says why
@jess6101
5 жыл бұрын
Most parents withhold it because a parent is a parent. I was in the foster system and then adopted. My parents are my parents. My mom is my mom. My dad is my dad. They're not related to me but I see them the same as any genetic child would. The point is, it doesn't really matter. I think out of respect for a child, they should know, but it's literally not the biggest deal if they don't. I've met my birth family, they're great and all, but I didn't gain anything I didn't already have by meeting them. My family grew, but I was already grown and given everything I needed as a child. I can go so much deeper into this but then you'd be reading a book and not a paragraph.
@TooShawn
5 жыл бұрын
gurl!!!!! spill me some tea
@danielarossi7219
5 жыл бұрын
She was so amused by that . that is terribile
@AJtheSiren
5 жыл бұрын
Just because your parents don't talk about your genetics doesn't mean they're hiding something. I was adpoted at birth and my parents told me but they also kept a lot of things from me until I was an adult. There are several cases of adopted children having a mental crisis when they are told about their adoption. Waiting until they're older is almost always for the best depending on what the child's situation was.
I found my biological parents through Ancestry DNA too! Super cool to meet the people who basically formed you as a tiny human
is it just me... or is that thumbnail image *eerily* similar to a very big youtuber’s recent docuseries branding........
@Loops-1
5 жыл бұрын
Drue Q. More like ripped straight from making a murderer
@xRainbowInTheDarkx
5 жыл бұрын
it's a massive cliche in poster design, shane dawson didn't invent that
@laceyrein3223
5 жыл бұрын
This theme of a split face is so common? U never seen a popular mystery movie poster before?
@maryamalmohammed5939
5 жыл бұрын
Drue Q. Oh ..wait ..yes
@arianaalmeida7425
5 жыл бұрын
Drue Q. MmmMMmmMmmm sounds like Shane Dawson
Again, this whole thing seems disrespectful to the dad who raised her...
@kimberlytrew
5 жыл бұрын
Yeah, God forbid she should want to know what her grandparents are like, find out what genetic issues she might pass on to her own kids and have a conversation with her bio father. How “disrespectful” of her.
@daniellai7712
5 жыл бұрын
Why? Obviously she spoke to her father first before trying to find her biological father
@TiggerIsMyCat
5 жыл бұрын
It's not disrespectful. She's not trying to replace him or anything, she's just trying to get an understanding of her own body; and frankly, I find her parents disrespectful to HER for denying her the right to control the information about her own body.
@princesstania123
5 жыл бұрын
it was disrespectful for her parents to not tell her the truth
@neeks2210
5 жыл бұрын
If her dad had an issue he wouldn’t of done it in the first place
Her dad's friends are dirtbags...worrying about if the kids are trying to fleece him. Let me guess, they're rich doctors who don't tip well.
@52hello25
5 жыл бұрын
Are you serious? It's hella sketchy for someone to randomly pop into somebody else's life claiming to be their child. Most people are going to be cautious. They weren't being "dirtbags" for warning him not to meet her.
@bobanderson6656
3 жыл бұрын
Yes! No doubt! LOL
He didn’t want to be found, most of the time that’s the case for an DONOR.
I feel sad for the man who raised her :(
@jrpejones
4 жыл бұрын
Why? He agreed and they kept it hidden
How a disrespect to the father who raised you... I feel sorry for him
@owltalon97
5 жыл бұрын
Not really. She is allowed to search for her biological father. She not looking to replace who her dad is. Knowing who you came from and family history is good for possible health stuff.
@l.m.t.l
5 жыл бұрын
Angry Jared finally someone with some sense
@indiaxlovee
5 жыл бұрын
Joey A ??? For meeting her biological father?? That’s literally her lineage, she
@indiaxlovee
5 жыл бұрын
Joey A probably wants to know her family medical history
He looks like Kent brockman from the simpsons
@HLB313
5 жыл бұрын
I Magic John Keeeeeeeeeeeeeent Brockman.
@ramonanaya6236
4 жыл бұрын
Lmfao
I love when people think loving travel is something unique 😂
I am glad you two got married. You sound very happy.
Lol they have kind of the same tone and also they look alike lol
@selenacole2760
5 жыл бұрын
Yeah, their voices are alike.
@staciii
5 жыл бұрын
They are related so... 😂
@thesarcasticpotato646
5 жыл бұрын
On Wednesdays we wear pink. Yeah she looks a lot like her dad lol
@ramonanaya6236
4 жыл бұрын
Lol love your name and profile pic💗
I feel bad for her actual father who raised her
why does he look like a old pink john krazinski..
@subahraman6815
5 жыл бұрын
omg!!!!!LOL
@sarahaharper
5 жыл бұрын
Favorite comment omg
@BAHARBINSON000
4 жыл бұрын
He sounds jewish lol
Their story is both beautiful and scary at the same time.
My family had a similar story to this but he met his half siblings instead. It was throw 23andMe but my dad was aware already his dad was not biologically related. But when my dad met his brother it really showed the nature vs nurture. They had so many similar interests and they both even had weird Facebook meme pages that at times had the same reposts. They like the same sports, had some common hobby’s, but lived hundreds of miles apart and never knew each other.
I love that he mentioned Delivery Man, because when I was watching part 1 of this I was thinking of that movie.
Was waiting for this to drop.
@evareine04
5 жыл бұрын
same
I am so fascinated by these stories of nature vs nurture, identity and the idea of “family.” Would love to see more of these!
I'm so glad my mom was always honest with my sister and I. My dad and her divorced but I know who he is and I know my other family. I care about them all and I'm glad my mom didnt keep that from us. Everyone should know their history.
I just finished part 1 and went to check if there was a part 2 and to my luck it was posted 13 minutes ago
@melo13melo
5 жыл бұрын
Do you think the girls mom is just keeping the sperm in her freezer or something? He could just go back to where he donated to get the sperm he didn't need to meet the donor family.
Aaand then the daughter becomes part of his science experiments... 😈
Thanks for your donation, Dad!
You are very fortunate. I will be 70 years old this year and will probably never know who my father is. Very distressing.
@indiaxlovee
5 жыл бұрын
Debby Williams did you take the dna test
Daddy's fillers are so great. between his interview shots and older shots at work he looks so different. great work
My heart is racing!!!!! I need part 3. So curious how your Dad feels about all this.
Surprises like this throw people for a loop. If people tell you otherwise they have no idea. You can love who raised you…..and it’s a huge shock. Some don’t need to know and they can do whatever they want - just like you. 💛
“Omg ok”
I don't understand why people has to judge her, it's her life, her decisions and everyone around her seems OK with the search she did, even if they weren't it wouldn't matter since everyone lives their own life, I wouldn't blame her for trying to find who her genetic father is and trying to at least become friends with him, she just wanted answers and she got them, so happy for her!!
HE IS A DONOR, ITS NOT LIKE YOU WERE ADOPTED
This confirms my want to get a dna kit. As a child of closed adoption I’ve always had questions of what makes me, me? I’m going to order my kit now. In hopes that I’ll find out more of where I came from.
This is so cool she found him! I did an Ancestry DNA test a few years ago & never got anywhere. My dad was adopted, and passed away in an accident when I was a baby. My (adoptive) grandparents were the most amazing people I could have ever had in my life - but there’s definitely and obvious void where my dad should be. I did the test to try to see if I looked like any of his potential biological relatives, not to start a relationship with anyone. Plus medical reasons as well - since my dad didn’t get to grow old and experience what that entails. I guess it’s just not meant to be for everyone - but this story is truly neat & so amazing for them that they found each other and it went well.
Why is this a 4 part series? Seems we have the whole story and if the next two parts are going to be the family becoming bffs with a random guy who came inside a cup decades ago, I will feel very bad for the REAL dad (the one who raised them) if this guy is just going to be in their lives from now on. I’ll probably finish the series because I do want to know if this will go well but I suspect this relationship is going to get cringey for sure. She’s right, everyone deserves to know where they came from but in my opinion, you should do that on your own and leave your real family out of it unless it becomes necessary. Make boundaries before you start something like this. I mean email them and meet once and get to know their story and then leave it at that. Maybe keep in touch through emails now and then. Sperm donations have created many happy families, but cumming inside a cup for money in no way equates to any kind of work or sacrifice deserving of a close, familiar relationship. To each their own, it’s just my opinion, but its super weird to me that they are even in this video together or that they decided to be a part of this at all. And now he’s about to meet her mom... yikes. Unless we find out her real dad wasn’t good to her or her brother, I hope they just decide to be acquaintances.
@TiggerIsMyCat
5 жыл бұрын
There is no work or sacrifice to parenting if you put your own feelings above your child's RIGHT to A: be in control of the information regarding their physical body, and B: their RIGHT as a separate human being to make their own decisions regarding their body and their actions in life. When you chose to raise a child, it's no longer about you and your feelings. She's an adult who's allowed to live her life however she pleases, and her parents need to recognize that. As long as she's happy, they've successfully done their job as parents and need to respect her autonomy as an individual human being, regardless of their personal feelings. She's not their property.
@melo13melo
5 жыл бұрын
I don't even think they should have met tbh. Stalking your donor's family is super messed up to me. And the whole idea of "well with technology now they should expect to be found." BS. And the donor organization could just give out people's names but they actually care about these people's privacy and many of them don't care to be contacted. She could have shown a little restraint is she thought about his feelings on the matter in the slightest.
@Alexandra_K_
5 жыл бұрын
TiggerIsMyCat yes she is an adult and it seems like her parents raised her well which is why I exaggerated that this was just MY OPINION. And you must not not have kids if you don’t think raising a child involves hard work or sacrifice. You love your child more than you love yourself or anything in the entire world, and their happiness becomes your happiness. That does not mean parenting is easy and you will be happy all the time. So don’t put that notion out there. There are millions of good parents out there struggling and not feeling good enough. They need to know things won’t always be or feel okay and that okay.
@eveeegee
5 жыл бұрын
"random guy who came in a cup decades ago" hahaha
He needs to chill his forehead
@juliannavelazquez4400
5 жыл бұрын
this comment is so underrated
@christytea4691
5 жыл бұрын
Ted peer you know yo going to hell for this comment lol.
@t.j.7789
5 жыл бұрын
That's what happens when you DON'T chill your forehead hahah! Clearly, no botox!
You are such a brave woman I would be very much scared along with other negative feelings if I were you and wouldn’t dare to find out who he is. So glad everything worked out well. Life is good 👍🏼
The thumbnail is ....👀interesting
When I was 18 I found out about my biological dad. My mom asked if I wanted to meet him I could but I didn't have to. Knowing that the father figure that I had in my life at the time was a toxic human being I thought to myself " Well, this couldn't be any worse then what it is" So i gave it a shot. I totally get the whole " awkwardness" of meeting your dad for the first time. Its a weird experience and you don't know what to say. I was lucky to have my mom with me at the time when first meeting it but boy was I anxious af. We are good now, we have a healthy relationship. I don't call him "dad", kinda hard to do that when someone was absent for almost 2 decades of your life. But it is what it is.
NOOO THE SUSPENSE PLEASE UPLOAD THE NEXT PART IN 10 HOURS PLSSSSSSS
I was told from the get go - I'm glad that's the route that was taken. It was absolutely the right thing.
It’s so interesting how often this happens! My mom and uncle found their long lost brother this past Christmas through 23& me. My mom had been looking for him for years.
Aww he seems like a really nice guy. I think it's awesome that she was able to find him. I think it's awesome that he actually studied about stem cells and is an orthopedic surgeon.
They're personalities so much alike. The way they talk....so similar. So cute.
The real father is a gay man, no one sees this?
@judithsantiago70
5 жыл бұрын
TheSoloAsylum 🙋♀️🙋♀️
@kamryn1911
5 жыл бұрын
Yoo hoo 😂🙋🏽♀️
@vulpin7150
5 жыл бұрын
If he ain't I'mma be surprised.
@yorkandpomona
5 жыл бұрын
I thought so too. Its kind of cool.
@brownleeal
5 жыл бұрын
Everyone sees it, even blind people see it.
Your nurture father would be soo sad.
She looks just like his sister!
i actually love this mini series! great video idea despite the debatably traumatic circumstances. super happy it seems to have worked out for you all though
She obviously got her curiosity from her dad! Love it!!
The text messages got me dying😂😂😂
Everyone is talking about how this is disrespectful to the dad, how do you people know her dad wasnt completely on board with this process and totally ok and possibly happy? This is her right to find out who she really is. Sheesh
She seems glad that her real father is a popular doctor
You do favor him. I also agree with him that you look like his sister. I was adopted but had the tests myself and discovered an incredible amount of information.
Very interesting and glad her and her dad both seem to be enjoying things!
@t.j.7789
5 жыл бұрын
Both narcissists. LOVE the spotlight! Same with her biological "mother."
My dad must of done the bird box challenge because he never came back
So cool that you found such a nice genetic father like Brian. True, the more to love.
I love my stepdad. My bio father was nothing more than a donor. I have met my siblings from him and i have all the info i need. Stepdads are Poppas too
*starts strumming on ukulele* ~Philip’s not your dad~
I can't believe how she seems to find it amusing that she didn't tell her parents they had found the donor and says "a month is fine". She's completely insensitive throughout this whole video to the consequences of her actions on everyone and is especially insensitive to the feelings of her "loved" ones -- those that have given her so much for her entire life
This is so awkward
@brunofbneto
4 жыл бұрын
So unnecessary
She is so to tough how she didn’t even tear a bit during the whole 2 parts im sobing wtf
I can relate to this, because my father has had problems producing children however, never have I ever wanted to know who the guy was I even did the Dna test also but I just wanted to see what ethnicity I was. Personally, I don’t feel empty because my father who raised me will never in my mind not be my father I know who I am and my parents don’t determine who I am I do. So when she said she felt like she didn’t know who she was really doesn’t click with me because knowing your parents don’t determine who u are. I was expecting more of a scandal but this was okay I guess.
This is anti-climatic. LOL.
Looking forward to part 3! Wonderful story so far.
Plot twist: the mom get with donor dad and fall in love
@djr_creative
5 жыл бұрын
@Warped Yeah, I was gonna say "or the donor falls in love with the husband."
@alishaxoxos
5 жыл бұрын
There’s a real life story like this. They’ve from Australia.
this was interesting... I never thought about this before