You're living in your head, mate. You built up a fantasy life with her in your head because you wanted to escape your life. Then of course having that dream shattered is going to be painful. It was never really about her, you don't know her, you were NOT in love with her, you loved he idea of her, the idea of someone you could escape with. You have to stop over-thinking things and focus on what you can control here and now to make your life better, even a tiny bit. You will feel empowered and stop letting yourself get carried away by these fantasies. Go lift some weights, get some exercise, it is honestly the best thing for the mind and self-esteem. Work on yourself and you'll be able to have a healthy relationship with a real woman.
@KumaBean
23 күн бұрын
Solid advice from a guy who’s got it figured-out. 🤝
@jonwoodmass2849
23 күн бұрын
Dashing a brothers hope. Smooth movd
@SNAFU..
22 күн бұрын
He's a pervert.....no amount of exercise or positive thinking is gonna cure that......watch his short vids.....the one with him wearing a white T-shirt holding a white guitar.....then tell me if he is curable or not....
@hayd7371
22 күн бұрын
Accurate
@evelyna_paula174723 күн бұрын
Do her parents watch your channel? I hope so, in case something happens to her.
@SNAFU..
23 күн бұрын
Well said.... He admitted on film to spying on her from the food isle....What's the probability that he's followed her home as well? Look at his short vids on his channel...the one with him wearing a white T-shirt holding a white guitar....Then think of the danger this woman is in.....
@evelyna_paula1747
22 күн бұрын
@@SNAFU.. She is in danger. I am glad he is leaving the Tesco store, or else I would forward his videos to all Tesco offices to get rid of him. They don't need such employers. It is a well-respected business that feeds everyone in the UK.
@hayd7371
22 күн бұрын
@evelyna_paula1747 lol what a load of deluded bollocks
@SiLLy-g00sE_AJ24 күн бұрын
I think that you need to stay away from social media, it seems like its making you feel worse. 90% of Instergram is false. Just people putting their best view of themselves which in turn is giving you false perpective on what life should be like than what it is in reality, I also think you need to move on from this person, find distractions and eventually someone else will come along maybe this time without a partner in tow. Stay strong!
@SNAFU..
23 күн бұрын
I think he needs to stay away from Porn Sites.... They've rotted the last eleven brain cells he had left.....
@nigelw762623 күн бұрын
She's married. Leave her alone this is borderline stalking behaviour.
@SNAFU..
23 күн бұрын
Thank God she is married....she needs a man around her to protect her from this stalker.....I bet he's followed her home on multiple occasions as well as spying on her from the bread isle...
@Milkster123 күн бұрын
Hey, man, ignore the comments that are not productive at all. Clearly, there is something that is abnormal about your behaviour, but it's something that can be worked on if you get the help required. Councellor, perhaps? Therapist? A mental health professional can make a big difference. At the very least, getting rid of instagram and other social media that you are active on will help. I hope the best for you 🙏🏻
@harveycotton518523 күн бұрын
i looked to see if he has any knife wielding videos or dangerous stabbing posts like that. He does.
@SNAFU..
22 күн бұрын
Same here! First thing I did was look for that dangerous stuff....It appears that getting married might have saved this woman's life..... Admitted on film to covertly spying on her from the bread isle, probably covertly followed her home at some point, has stabbing posts on his channel and has a poo fetish....🚩🚓
@hayd7371
22 күн бұрын
Bullshit
@maddogmclean-ce8cd23 күн бұрын
Get a shave and give your head a wobble tell the truth she knocked u back 😂
@SNAFU..
22 күн бұрын
Truth is....she doesn't exist....
@englishboy99323 күн бұрын
Teenage high school crush example
@evelyna_paula1747
23 күн бұрын
It is sad. He should be posting a video about a mathematical equation he derived, a new business he started, or a smashing novel he has written. I hope he gets help. Or is he trying to prove he is straight? Suspect.
@TheBlueCream23 күн бұрын
nice keyboard playing ...thanks again for your honesty..it has helped me.
@SNAFU..
22 күн бұрын
Pfffttt...lol...
@KumaBean23 күн бұрын
Stop looking for external support and validation, work on yourself in silence, the good stuff will find it’s way to you, but you must take the journey. It’s not about her, whoever she may be, it’s about you. You. Safe journeys Brother 🤝
@hayd7371
22 күн бұрын
Top advice.
@Mistysmudge122 күн бұрын
Sound like a potential stalker.........
@I_am_BiG_Al24 күн бұрын
🚩
@SNAFU..
23 күн бұрын
🚩🚓
@djmazer202323 күн бұрын
Acting like he isnt quite sure on what he said... What she said. This guy knows word for word. It runs his life. You're actually sick .. leave women alone. This could be my mum, daughter or girlfriend. So back up
@stumbling
23 күн бұрын
You are very cruel. He is being honest and says several times he knows this is not healthy. How about offering some support and guidance instead of treating him like a wild animal?
@SNAFU..
23 күн бұрын
@@stumbling why don't you ask him out for a date if your so worried about him....make sure you watch his short vids on KZread first though..... Mainly the one with him wearing a white T-shirt holding a white guitar.....
@evelyna_paula1747
23 күн бұрын
He needs to be kept safe - in a jail. He is too old for this.
@markw799723 күн бұрын
Mate are you off your meds .
@TheBlueCream
23 күн бұрын
that's an unkind comment.
@markw7997
23 күн бұрын
@@TheBlueCream the guy needs telling mate , or do you let him continue to be disillusional , he could harm himself or others .Hes fixated with this girl and its not natural or right .This is how stalking developes and he could get himself fired .
@evelyna_paula1747
23 күн бұрын
@@TheBlueCream Stalking women is unkind.
@SNAFU..
23 күн бұрын
Let's keep it real....How many times do you think he sat at home a jerked off to the thought of this girl.....That girl needs to beware of this fella.....
@SNAFU..
23 күн бұрын
@@TheBlueCream Covertly spying on women from the bread isle and following them home is unkind.... and illegal...🚩🚓
@TheBlueCream23 күн бұрын
thanks for your honesty, bro...I have had similar thoughts and feelings..seen a lady I really like etc...hope things work out for you
@SNAFU..
23 күн бұрын
Wow! You are a stalker as well....?
@TheBlueCream23 күн бұрын
i get a bit of Obsessive Compulsive Disorder,,I know the thoughts are silly but they come,,,u will be ok, brother
@SNAFU..
22 күн бұрын
You two need to get a room..... watch his short vids...then tell me, do you like poo as well.....?
@rubensano486024 күн бұрын
I liked it.
@gefleigh426424 күн бұрын
Try to be more upbeat.!
@SNAFU..
23 күн бұрын
You mean.....try to be less perverted.
@SNAFU..
23 күн бұрын
I imagine he was very upbeat when he was spying on the woman from the bread isle, following her home etc....
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You're living in your head, mate. You built up a fantasy life with her in your head because you wanted to escape your life. Then of course having that dream shattered is going to be painful. It was never really about her, you don't know her, you were NOT in love with her, you loved he idea of her, the idea of someone you could escape with. You have to stop over-thinking things and focus on what you can control here and now to make your life better, even a tiny bit. You will feel empowered and stop letting yourself get carried away by these fantasies. Go lift some weights, get some exercise, it is honestly the best thing for the mind and self-esteem. Work on yourself and you'll be able to have a healthy relationship with a real woman.
@KumaBean
23 күн бұрын
Solid advice from a guy who’s got it figured-out. 🤝
@jonwoodmass2849
23 күн бұрын
Dashing a brothers hope. Smooth movd
@SNAFU..
22 күн бұрын
He's a pervert.....no amount of exercise or positive thinking is gonna cure that......watch his short vids.....the one with him wearing a white T-shirt holding a white guitar.....then tell me if he is curable or not....
@hayd7371
22 күн бұрын
Accurate
Do her parents watch your channel? I hope so, in case something happens to her.
@SNAFU..
23 күн бұрын
Well said.... He admitted on film to spying on her from the food isle....What's the probability that he's followed her home as well? Look at his short vids on his channel...the one with him wearing a white T-shirt holding a white guitar....Then think of the danger this woman is in.....
@evelyna_paula1747
22 күн бұрын
@@SNAFU.. She is in danger. I am glad he is leaving the Tesco store, or else I would forward his videos to all Tesco offices to get rid of him. They don't need such employers. It is a well-respected business that feeds everyone in the UK.
@hayd7371
22 күн бұрын
@evelyna_paula1747 lol what a load of deluded bollocks
I think that you need to stay away from social media, it seems like its making you feel worse. 90% of Instergram is false. Just people putting their best view of themselves which in turn is giving you false perpective on what life should be like than what it is in reality, I also think you need to move on from this person, find distractions and eventually someone else will come along maybe this time without a partner in tow. Stay strong!
@SNAFU..
23 күн бұрын
I think he needs to stay away from Porn Sites.... They've rotted the last eleven brain cells he had left.....
She's married. Leave her alone this is borderline stalking behaviour.
@SNAFU..
23 күн бұрын
Thank God she is married....she needs a man around her to protect her from this stalker.....I bet he's followed her home on multiple occasions as well as spying on her from the bread isle...
Hey, man, ignore the comments that are not productive at all. Clearly, there is something that is abnormal about your behaviour, but it's something that can be worked on if you get the help required. Councellor, perhaps? Therapist? A mental health professional can make a big difference. At the very least, getting rid of instagram and other social media that you are active on will help. I hope the best for you 🙏🏻
i looked to see if he has any knife wielding videos or dangerous stabbing posts like that. He does.
@SNAFU..
22 күн бұрын
Same here! First thing I did was look for that dangerous stuff....It appears that getting married might have saved this woman's life..... Admitted on film to covertly spying on her from the bread isle, probably covertly followed her home at some point, has stabbing posts on his channel and has a poo fetish....🚩🚓
@hayd7371
22 күн бұрын
Bullshit
Get a shave and give your head a wobble tell the truth she knocked u back 😂
@SNAFU..
22 күн бұрын
Truth is....she doesn't exist....
Teenage high school crush example
@evelyna_paula1747
23 күн бұрын
It is sad. He should be posting a video about a mathematical equation he derived, a new business he started, or a smashing novel he has written. I hope he gets help. Or is he trying to prove he is straight? Suspect.
nice keyboard playing ...thanks again for your honesty..it has helped me.
@SNAFU..
22 күн бұрын
Pfffttt...lol...
Stop looking for external support and validation, work on yourself in silence, the good stuff will find it’s way to you, but you must take the journey. It’s not about her, whoever she may be, it’s about you. You. Safe journeys Brother 🤝
@hayd7371
22 күн бұрын
Top advice.
Sound like a potential stalker.........
🚩
@SNAFU..
23 күн бұрын
🚩🚓
Acting like he isnt quite sure on what he said... What she said. This guy knows word for word. It runs his life. You're actually sick .. leave women alone. This could be my mum, daughter or girlfriend. So back up
@stumbling
23 күн бұрын
You are very cruel. He is being honest and says several times he knows this is not healthy. How about offering some support and guidance instead of treating him like a wild animal?
@SNAFU..
23 күн бұрын
@@stumbling why don't you ask him out for a date if your so worried about him....make sure you watch his short vids on KZread first though..... Mainly the one with him wearing a white T-shirt holding a white guitar.....
@evelyna_paula1747
23 күн бұрын
He needs to be kept safe - in a jail. He is too old for this.
Mate are you off your meds .
@TheBlueCream
23 күн бұрын
that's an unkind comment.
@markw7997
23 күн бұрын
@@TheBlueCream the guy needs telling mate , or do you let him continue to be disillusional , he could harm himself or others .Hes fixated with this girl and its not natural or right .This is how stalking developes and he could get himself fired .
@evelyna_paula1747
23 күн бұрын
@@TheBlueCream Stalking women is unkind.
@SNAFU..
23 күн бұрын
Let's keep it real....How many times do you think he sat at home a jerked off to the thought of this girl.....That girl needs to beware of this fella.....
@SNAFU..
23 күн бұрын
@@TheBlueCream Covertly spying on women from the bread isle and following them home is unkind.... and illegal...🚩🚓
thanks for your honesty, bro...I have had similar thoughts and feelings..seen a lady I really like etc...hope things work out for you
@SNAFU..
23 күн бұрын
Wow! You are a stalker as well....?
i get a bit of Obsessive Compulsive Disorder,,I know the thoughts are silly but they come,,,u will be ok, brother
@SNAFU..
22 күн бұрын
You two need to get a room..... watch his short vids...then tell me, do you like poo as well.....?
I liked it.
Try to be more upbeat.!
@SNAFU..
23 күн бұрын
You mean.....try to be less perverted.
@SNAFU..
23 күн бұрын
I imagine he was very upbeat when he was spying on the woman from the bread isle, following her home etc....