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@Daniel12.4Ministry

11 ай бұрын

Do you know that there are more than 40,000 different denominational churches within Christendom that are all teaching many different doctrines and teachings from one another? That means that there are thousands of different forms of Christianity that exist in the world today! Paul wrote in Galatians 1: "If anyone brings unto you any other form of doctrine than what we have already brought unto you, he shall be cursed." He also said in Acts 20:29-30 "For I know this; That after my death, grievous wolves will enter in among you that will not care for the people of God. Even from among yourselves men shall arise and speak corrupt things to draw away disciples after themselves." Jude wrote: "Because some men have crept into the churches without being noticed, those that in the past have been written about and they will receive damnation. (Jeremiah 23) They are ungodly men that are corrupting the grace of God, perverting it to allow for their own lusts; They contradict and deny (by teachings and deeds) our only God and the Lord Jesus Christ. (Titus 1:16; 2 Peter 2:1; Acts 20:29-30; Galatians 2:4-5; Jeremiah 23; 2 Thessalonians 2:10-12; Matthew 24:4-5, 11, 24; Isaiah 30:10; Isaiah 9:16; Zephaniah 3:4)" Jesus many times warned about false doctrines as he did in Matthew 24: "Beware, do not let anyone mislead any of you; (2 Thessalonians 2:11) Many will come and claim to be of me, they will even say that I am the Christ, yet they will deceive many and lead them into great error." I ask you, if these warnings are serious about deviating from what was taught in the early church of the first century, why is it that so very few care to examine themselves and the churches that they attend? Do people not care if they are in the true doctrine, or are they just prideful, presuming that they hold the truth? I ask, what does it truly mean to be a Christian and how can we identify false doctrines and teachings and also prove what the true doctrines are? It is simple. It is by looking at the writings of the men that were taught by the apostles and interpreting the scriptures through their understanding and the doctrines that they brought forth. WHy? Because they did not read the bible to interpret it as they chose, but they lived, worked and ate with the apostles and they learned directly from them, having certainly received a much more thorough understanding from them and would have had their questions and the deeper meanings of the scriptures taught to them directly from the apostles of Jesus Christ. Read the writings of Barnabas, Clement of Rome, Hermas, Ignatius and others and interpret the scriptures through their words, and you will be much more likely to come to the original intent of the scriptures and true doctrine. I challenge you to test yourself to see whether ye be in the faith (doctrine of Christ). For God's Truth, get your copy of THE ETERNAL BOOK OF TRUTH, THE NEW TESTAMENT SCRIPTURES. Available on Amazon and other online bookstores.

Once you stop expecting anything from them it gets easier.

@jesswise2354

11 ай бұрын

Amen

@Recoverywithtamye

11 ай бұрын

The solution at it simplest!!! 👏

@kaypendergast5676

11 ай бұрын

So true... especially doctors

@MoonPhaze5

11 ай бұрын

I concur. 😏

@user-hp6md8zl9t

11 ай бұрын

Omg prove he was is a liar calm tried that lol

don't defend, don't engage, don't explain, and don't personalize. (deep)

@labakanurzidil2464

4 ай бұрын

refusing makes it bigger?

@thriftylady1170

2 ай бұрын

This works ❤️

@ChristopherGaslighted

Ай бұрын

It's super difficult with extreme A.D.H.D. and P.T.S.D.

@labakanurzidil2464

Ай бұрын

thriftylady1170 This works - that karolynrice6267 bans everything to you (only she will inflate her ego on costs of others) (s)words - wrong, work, worries, writing, wrath, war(drobe - hypocrisy - words, for example) ChristopherGaslighter It's super difficult with extreme A.D.H.D. and P.T.S.D. - sounds like N. S. D. A. P. - its difficult with your extreme ego, no matter if you call it reckless "normality" or other excuse$$ ... super = unnece$$ary, otherwise you would let it for yourself, not push it to others

I'm just going to say, "I smell gas!", and walk away.

@terrymassie7656

4 ай бұрын

"I've passed gas"

@MaileyMcAslan

2 ай бұрын

🤣

@ChristopherGaslighted

Ай бұрын

That's a good one! Thank you for sharing this.

@jacquelineglitter4328

Ай бұрын

Lol

Finally i learned, just don't respond. Say nothing. Just stare at them with a somber expression, and walk away. They will understand you saw through them and chose to stay classy. Do not...argue with them. Don't defend your viewpoint. Stay quiet, look them in them eye, turn and walk away.

@NopeNotTodaySatan

5 ай бұрын

I do that! 😬

@ultimateoptimist5217

2 ай бұрын

It definitely works because they are looking for reaction...it's their drug...

Gas lighters use personal information you shared with them against you. I experienced this today from someone. I asked him, "Am I on trial here". He had no answer...

@MaileyMcAslan

2 ай бұрын

🤔 nice one.

Embracing biblical principles has empowered me to break free from the clutches of gaslighting, revealing the strength and resilience within me that no narcissist can extinguish. 🙏

@Biancaancaanca

7 ай бұрын

In Jesus name amen

@labakanurzidil2464

4 ай бұрын

you just invited devils with your inflated ego? but you arent a superman for real, i guess ... so it looks kinda risky ... but saying anything was never responsible i guess ... atleast as just 1 quotation alone ...

Avoid them as much as possible. Resist the urge to talk/argue with them. They're crazy. If they try to talk to you, don't respond! YOU DON'T HAVE TO INTERACT WITH THEM. THEY ARE NOT GOD! P.s. Ask God to help you as this is not easy! I know. I've had alot of experience unfortunately! The Lord will fight for you. You only need to be still. ❤️

@exlesoes

11 ай бұрын

Surely not Also no one needs a word spoken to them. I'm sorry but a word? I mean tell me the language! But otherwise please I'm not talking!

@jesswise2354

11 ай бұрын

Please pray for me I’m going to file for divorce soon it’s so hard not to call him out on his bs…

@pennylynch913

11 ай бұрын

@@jesswise2354 hi. Yes i will! So sorry for what you're facing. Xo

@pennylynch913

11 ай бұрын

@@jesswise2354 hi. Theres a great sermon that might encourage and help you. Look up Pastor Howard John Wesley, 'stand still '. Its helped me alot. Xo

@BarbieKyzar1964

11 ай бұрын

Please pray for my safety and provision. Many thanks ! Also , doing an endless standing ovation 💜 to your comment

Grey rock them until you leave. You are allowed to shake the dust off & move on. 🕊️✨💐✝️💗✝️💐✨🕊️

@jessicafrost9894

11 ай бұрын

Amen! Amen!

@Patricia_Stewart337

10 ай бұрын

Done!

@sunnyadams5842

10 ай бұрын

Yessir!! Thank you!

@stevenr6874

10 ай бұрын

I agree. I'm in that process.Go grey rock and make your plans to escape and do not share those plans with anyone.

@BelovedbyAdonai

6 ай бұрын

@@stevenr6874 exactly ❗️🎯✔️

Walk Away Safely. They long and love to fight. Keep you and yours safe and secretly get out. You can't change or adjust to their horrors. RUN if you have to.

Once I identity a narcissist, I keep little to ZERO contact with them. My life gets better when I do this. If I keep them in my life, I punish myself the Bible says and that’s very TRUE!

@Oilofmercy

11 ай бұрын

You can't get rid of your parent

@christinemccoy4471

9 ай бұрын

​@@Oilofmercy Sure can. Walk away. It's their choice. Choose you

@MsLanlee

8 ай бұрын

How do you identify them?

My spirit knows what it saw so it rests in the truth

Great video, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship, I learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago I and my wife divorced because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together, it was a really bad phase but we got through it.

@wonhur885

11 ай бұрын

there is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things..

@Eltonscruggs

11 ай бұрын

@@wonhur885 its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE.

@wonhur885

11 ай бұрын

@@Eltonscruggs this is helpful, I will look her up. I hope this works for me too, I really miss her.

@Eltonscruggs

11 ай бұрын

@@wonhur885 kindly look her up online and you won't regret it.

@shockthetoast

10 ай бұрын

This is not the place for posting your scam referrals to a sketchy voodoo priestess. If anyone else reads this nonsense, please disregard.

When people start playing stupid games, call em out and leave. They start begging you not to leave, too. What crazy people 😩

A narcissist will start building a dependency real or imagined. You may find that there is no need to deal with them at all.

I get that from my oldest brother alot. He has been having a serious anger issues and narcissism problems that's been plaquing my family for years and I desperately want to leave that source of toxicity behind from him.

@missysmessage722

11 ай бұрын

My sister and her husband are Terrible humans. Lie, deceive, manipulate and then attack ppl to get a response then play the victim. It's so difficult dealing with family like that. Sorry for what you're going through.

@geviesanta3631

11 ай бұрын

@missysmessage722 No worries, I'm just hoping for a faithful day that I can definitely cut ties from my oldest brother and leave him forever. I know this might not be the best option that God would want me to go into, but at least that will finally give me peace for my own life.

@careyhuff357

11 ай бұрын

Same, and my sis has complete control. My family won't stand up against hwr. So I'm the problem

@geviesanta3631

11 ай бұрын

@careyhuff357 we should have the courage to confront those family members who have wronged us and have them face the justice they deserve. Even if they don't or will never learn their lessons, they need to either get locked away from us or be disowned by their own family if they keep screwing us over.

@careyhuff357

11 ай бұрын

@@geviesanta3631 I agree ☝️ and I’m glad to see your comment and this channel I’m not alone! God bless you Geviesanta3631

When it comes to A.I..Gaslighting and Rich Elite Government Gaslighting, a person under such duress and trauma, cannot be bound to any E.U.L.A. Agreement. I am sharing this legal wisdom for others to know and use.

I am a christian woman who has a narcissistic husband and he gaslights me along with stonewalling me. I have learned how to handle it this way. I say to him when he starts with one of these behaviors "I have to take a time out and I am leaving". "We can revisit this when you have thought through it more and have abetter understanding of what God has for us."

@Seraphim7

3 ай бұрын

Narcissistic Abuse is Abuse. You don’t deserve to be treated bad… I pray and hope Jesus sends you the Support you Need! …the Support from those that have been through it and understand it.

One of my shining moments... My sister was angry she wasn't in control of our mother's will. I certainly didn't want the responsibility, but I had been entrusted with it. At one point my sister sobbed deeply and cried overwhelmingly. Standing nose to nose I simply and calmly stated, "I don't know why your crying?" Seeing I wasn't manipulated, immediately her continents became wolverine like. Without taking a step back, still standing nose to nose I calmly repeated, "I don't know why your so upset." With that she stormed out defeated. I could write a book on the trials of a narcissistic mother and sister. Here's the point, healing is possible and life can be joyful. However, I don't understand how healing can be obtained apart from God. Secondly healing takes time and in my case separating from the narcissist. Funny I didn't even know what narcissism was until after my mom's death. I had lived under her lies...toxic behavior for 60 years. We were "Created with Purpose" and Kris is here to help along the way! Thank you Kris!

@4gma59

11 ай бұрын

*countenance

@sherry7911

11 ай бұрын

@@4gma59 Thank you, your input will make my post more understandable.

@4gma59

11 ай бұрын

@@sherry7911 I'm in the legal field and a spelling nazi. I meant no offense. Thank you for being gracious.

@sherry7911

11 ай бұрын

@@4gma59 It's a good friend who tells you there's salad in your teeth. LOL! I have the impression you are a good friend.

@theelizabethan1

11 ай бұрын

​@@4gma59 A discipline in which textual sleuths are essential -- a single word, or syllable, changes an entire case.

What is really terrible is how easy it is for seemingly everyone to do this, except those who are the gaslighting targets...

I've seen people who have no credentials yet insist on being the boss, this is very evil, people who won't let you talk or listen to ways to make things better is very evil. One way to get your joy back is to cling to God and declare that you will rejoice in Hope that God will straighten the mess out and Thank God ahead of time for it.

@NopeNotTodaySatan

5 ай бұрын

I know exactly what you’re talking about!!!

I just refrain from discussing the issues …..knowing that I know the truth!!

Its condemnable offense ro play games wth another human mind. NO way around that truth.

Thank you Kris, you're so right about everything. It's so very true. Thank you for the Godly wisdom. I go through this with both of my parents, and my grandmother since they are Narcissists. I got support from friends from church since I am a Christian myself. I know my worth and values. My peace comes from God. God is great all the time. God bless

@Kris_Reece

11 ай бұрын

Amen. God is great. Thanks for watching.

Thank you. I don't want to be a victim anymore.

Kriss Reese God's chosen Apostle for this deviated world . May the Holy spirit continue to empower you and our believers .May the glittering light of Heaven surround you well forever Apostle .

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

@DavidVelasquez9

10 ай бұрын

@EmilioYepez7 Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

@DavidVelasquez9

10 ай бұрын

@EmilioYepez7 Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

@andreamichelle1

10 ай бұрын

Lord, help us to not be ignorant to satan's evil devices and traps. And I pray that these men who have teamed up together will have godly sorrow that will result in repentance for promoting this wickedness, which is witchcraft.

“The haft of the arrow had been feathered with one of the eagles own plumes. We often give our enemies the means of our own destruction.” ― Aesop

@susanazinger2525

11 ай бұрын

" We often give our enemies the means of our own destruction "... Sadly realized ...✌️

@johnmckenna1776

11 ай бұрын

@@susanazinger2525 Once realized never repeated!

@christinemccoy4471

9 ай бұрын

​@johnmckenna1776 I repeated so many times that I keep any contact with others in the shallow water

@johnmckenna1776

9 ай бұрын

@@christinemccoy4471 Yes I did the same, lesson learned!

I’m SO disabled, for SO long by these assaults on me, that I would rather just avoid them, block them completely.

God is my all in all.

The gas lighter is my husband it's not that easy to get away from someone you live with he screams and swears loudly at me and when I asked him to lower his voice and be kind he tells me he's not screaming or he will start screaming louder he does not own any of his bad behavior and I'm so fed up I got married for love and kindness and fun but since he got the ring on my finger he's been abusive and verbally mean. He withhold affection and withhold sex.

I lived with people like this for years, then the church people was the same way. Praise be to God who heals and set free His people. They individuals will always exist, it is best to remain calm and true to God’s word. Do nothing in your own strength and seek God for guidance with each individual, what worked with one, may not work with another. Great advice Kris again, awesome teacher.

I can’t live like this anymore. My mother is the worst covert narcissist you have ever seen. You can’t do any of these techniques she talks so fast and always has my dad in the background while she’s yelling. I could just have a difference of opinion and she goes off. I am 55 and have just blocked her on every phone I have. I am a good Christian daughter and she has ruined my relationship with my dad she is awful. She won’t let me talk, she talks so fast and everything that comes out of her mouth is a slam against me. Then the next day she leaves a voicemail and says “ are you still mad? “ we love you” after she ripped me to shreds the day before. I have everything recorded on my camera and I was being calm and cool and didn’t do anything. Oh I left out the horrible phone call that evening and the text messages that I do elderly abuse and how her and my dad can’t take it anymore. I had just got done the week before calling my dad and making him an appointment because his heart went into a fib. I am good to them, but it’s like walking on land mines ever time she pickes up the phone. I don’t think god would want me to be abused like this after trying over and over for many years. I am not going to take this anymore, I can’t it’s affecting my life, my marriage, my adult son. It has to be a demonic spirit because who does this to their children. I have listened to every grey rock technique, using certain words, saying I have to go, nothing works with her. It’s mental abuse, there is nothing else that sums it up.

@Bella77260

11 ай бұрын

She sounds mentally ill quite frankly. You need strong boundaries. Sit down with your hubby and son and talk about what those might be. It might be you have limited contact and on your terms. I wouldn’t be engaging with her when she is in that state. The moment she yells, say you are not tolerating that, you’re happy to chat when she’s calm and leave. I would also reply to to the elder abuse accusation and tell her that that behaviour is not acceptable and you won’t be engaging with her without an apology.

@4gma59

11 ай бұрын

@@Bella77260 It doesn't work. It just doesn't. It will last until the next time she decides she needs a "fix" at the daughter's expense, and then it's ''here we go again." Been there, lived it, tried it. You can't fix this disorder unless they decide they want change. But they don't think change in themselves is needed. The only change they think is necessary is that you agree to be their verbal punching bag.

@jenm981

11 ай бұрын

@@4gma59 yes thank you I totally agree. Even if you say you have to go they somehow call you on a surprise attack and get you another way. They are evil

@jenm981

11 ай бұрын

@@Bella77260 thank you, I have tried that tactic but she won’t apologize because if you have another opinion with a covert narcissist you become an enemy. The only thing I can compare it to as an example is like having a popular girl in high school that bully’s a girl that she competes with from jealousy and will be revengeful. She uses my dad as a weapon against me, “ always stating your dad is real mad at you. She puts the phone on speakerphone and when I have a difference of opinion she talks real fast so I can’t speak and makes it sound like she’s in an argument with me. He then starts yelling in the background “ hang the phone up on her”. I just cry because of the mental torture. Then I forgive and the cycle happens again. I started recording calls back in 2016 occasionally and even then she would always state how mad my dad is at me. He used to be close, I even saved his life from dying of low platelets in 2011 because I found the remedy that worked. She sends me text telling me how they can’t take it from me anymore and last month she said elder abuse. I am a devout Christian, I use to take care of the elderly through a home care agency in the 90’s, all my patients loved me. I never argue with anyone, but she has figured out that I know her tactics so she has found new ways to hurt me. She treats my dad bad also but he just takes it and she has instructed him over the last 10 yrs that he needs to discipline his children. He yells at my brother also when she disagrees with him. There has to be a demon in her or her brain has been damaged at some point. It’s really sad because she could have had a wonderful relationship with a daughter that would have loved her, but unfortunately I can’t because accusations like elder abuse will be taken seriously by the right people. 20 yrs ago she had her family doctor document in her chart that she thinks her husband is poisoning her. She’s crazy! And dangerous

@Bella77260

11 ай бұрын

@@jenm981 l get she will probably never apologise the reason l put that there isn’t so much for a result although it gives her an opportunity but rather for you, that you are setting boundaries that are strong. Walking away does work. I’ve done it and saying no more is the only answer. Basically in walking away when she yells, or terminating contact at that point or even limiting contact sends a strong message that you won’t tolerate it but more importantly protects your emotional well-being. It’s not easy and l feel for you but setting firm boundaries and limiting contact as sad as that is really is the only answer.

I loved the dialog back and forth between the inner you and the outward, because I also was like, "When can I tell them off (in a Christian way lol)?" and step 2 was a game changer for me!

@madiruiz3814

3 ай бұрын

🙋🏽‍♀️😂

Totally. Some need to feel better by putting others down.this Lack and feardominion is wreaking havoc on hopes and joy in general.pulling dark energy as some say makes sense.

Peace and harmony in family relationships is what drives me to put up with thoughtless and unkind behavior. THANK YOU for your wisdom in teaching me that I am not being sinful in avoiding their toxic and manipulative behavior. I realize that I needed this person in my life to teach me that I can only count on our Lord and that all man/women will let us down at one point or another. It has made me lean on the Lord Jesus Christ during these encounters.

Its so good to be in a peaceful state of mind, till a person "push your buttons" to take it all away, what's worse is when you respond and end up giving them just what they wanted....😮😮😮😮😢

Absolutely Right on Gaslighting people Verbally. Sometimes, I feel I've taken one step & 2 backward. 😢 But, I just keep moving forward 😊

Thank you, Kris! Great advice, as usual, given from a biblical view with a sense of humor and wisdom. I am grateful😊

My family is full of them because generations of abuse and alcoholism. I got help for this many years ago. I grey rock a few I'm around. If they start with their abusive behavior I dont talk to them for weeks and they can't stand that. I have to pick my battles and its not easy. After one narcissist in my family dies I'm done with all them.

I get that you are correct but you cannot change these ppl. It is definitely “from such turn away”

@keshiabroadwaycaraballo3002

11 ай бұрын

God can change them

@kellymackie4836

11 ай бұрын

@@keshiabroadwaycaraballo3002 yes for sure! If they would let him - but the one that destroyed my son thought he WAS God

Being informed is the best defense and also; not reacting!

Thanks Kris!!! Needed this today❤🙏🏼

Absolutely an amazing video I learned so much. God bless you Kris you are really helping a lot of people .

I have been praying to God to help me handle my sister, who is very toxic. She’s caused havoc and pain for my mother and her children. Thank you as I believe God led me to your channel.!!!

Love your teachings! God is speaking in my situations

I’m immune from the Gaslighters. 🔥🧯🚒💯 Galatians 6:17 From henceforth let no man trouble me: for I bear in my body the marks of the Lord Jesus. ❤🎯💯

@tional5266

11 ай бұрын

Scripture is definitely the vax that does give immunity

@yolandaholliday4964

9 ай бұрын

Hallelujah!!!!!!!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾💯🔥

Thank you Minister Reece God Bless you ❤️🙏🏾😇

Nice narrative on being able to play both parts and thanks for your knowledge it is very important as well helpful ❤️

I want to thank you for all that you have shared ❤️🙏🏻

Thank you so much. I am trying to learn these most appropriate strategies.

Soooo good. Appreciate the way you teach us how to respond. Gaslighting is a big issue in these relationships and in many relationships.

Thanks for helping me . This video helped me a lot spiritually . I am still learn and growing .

Thank you! I needed exactly these informations 🙏

No contact That is the best possible outcome 💯 it's possible But in my situation right now I can only grey rock it out and hope

When I had a gaslighting female minister boss at a Baptist church in my twenties, she would say that someone was upset with me about some failing or mishap that was not really my fault or beyond my control. Then I would apologize to the so called upset person, and they would say oh it's nothing. I could've said to my boss, I found out she wasn't mad like you told me. From now on, when you tell me what anyone said concerning me, I will double check with them, to ensure their message to me or about me does not get lost in translation. That's what I will do from now on to facilitate clear communication because we all just want resolve, rigghhhht????? 😃 LOL! Wish I knew ! But I do now....

@kimparke6653

11 ай бұрын

Absolutely, trust, then verify.

@Jaxmusicgal23

11 ай бұрын

Had this happen to me. No one was upset but her and she wanted to validate her anger with me. She didnt like sharing the load because she needed to be wanted and do all the work for validation herself. When I stepped in to help or was asked to- she hated it and projected her attitude onto me and mentioned “complaints” no one ever made.

@kimgordon3695

11 ай бұрын

Higher ground Sister

Thank you pretty lady for helping people!

I love these videos. I listen to them over and over here and there. It’s like retraining my brain! Thanks for these videos. I wish I could like them every time I listen.

Thanks for sharing your knowledge.

I really like you! Enjoying the lightness; other videos on this subject are so heavy. Thank you 🙏

Thank You for sharing this amazing Godly wisdom 🙏 God Bless Your Journey 🙏

Thank you for your Christian witness! Amen!

There was no truth when my family was gaslighting me for years. I would just let them say things to me because I had no idea what this even was. When I found out one was specifically making up lies about me and spreading it, even to my kids... not okay. It’s just weird to me. They can think what they want, but what ended up happening needed to be confronted.

Good message! Also love the background music. 🎶😎

I love your videos! I’m so happy you share verses from the Bible!

After being gaslight recently, I called them out right then in public. Npt sure whoheard thenconversation. They did the same behavior again to irritate and dominate me, which was crossing the same boundary and they did it in a smartelicy way, like you are being too sensitive. No, I clearly was in the right. It has been a few weeks and this person no longer comes around. In fact, they stay in their own boundaries. Communal narc that doesn't want to lookmbad. A lot of people think meekness is weakness. The other person who was also putting them up to it, no longer crosses a boundary they have tried pushing for years.They think because I am a Christian doesn't mean I am weak. They got chewed out royal and they deserved it. I felt God was saying I did the right thing. These people are in every walk of life.

love these videos!!!

Merry christmas ! God bless!

Many thanks, Esteemed

Excellent video!

Great Advice, Love it! Thank you for sharing your Godly Wisdom! God Bless👏🙏

@Kris_Reece

11 ай бұрын

Thanks for your constant encouragement Sherrilynn. :)

Very insightful.. thank you very much... i am longing for to kiss this energy waste goodbye.. will listen to this vid until it goes deeper..

Very nice. I like the way you teach. God bless you dear Kris may God use you more n more as Jesus Return is Near Maraynatha!!!

@Kris_Reece

11 ай бұрын

Thank you Masood!

@ms.chrisie8040

11 ай бұрын

AMEN🙌😊

This was great advice Kris!

@Kris_Reece

11 ай бұрын

I'm so glad you enjoyed it. Thanks for wathing.

We don't need to get with a christian counsellor grounded in scripture when we've got You ~ you're the best, 🌷 in 35yrs my Narc has never ever validated me quite the opposite he takes the side of the one who's offended me ~ who's upset me, the odd thing is my Mom did the same she was a raving Narc,

I tuned him out it all I feel this way you do this never ask about me how I feel what I need.

I've no hope!!!!

Hi Kris, thanks for your videos, these are really great tips, and these types of incisive direct statements are my natural instinctive responses. The elephant in the room, however, is that while these responses will give pause for thought for self-regulating people, these responses do not always de-escalate comunication interactions with people who habitually engage in gaslighting. Even when delivered calmly and non provocatively, escallation, obfuscation, and outrage often ensue. With difficult relationships that still matter to me, digging deeper into my Christian faith I attempt to limit opportunies for conflict by completely honouring my 'knowing' of when communication is dishonest and unfair (as you have also suggested) - and by restricting my responses, avoiding handing out home truths about their manipulation, but refusing to get hijacked and still clearly stating my case from my side of the fence. I also choose very carefully where and when to initiate any important, potentially difficult, conversation with controlling people.

Yes! I am dealing with this.

Amen: "Pax Tecum" My Sister ... Great Clip!

@johnchacko1425

3 ай бұрын

your my sister in Jesus Christ

Can u do a video on how to handle a narcissist who plays victim to a crowd/ family...

@waterbaby7834

3 ай бұрын

My hubby's mother held the leading role of poor poor, put upon, self sacrificing, martyr victim. Evidently, she owned the only hotline to God. She received revelation and blessings directly from Him. Through which, she could decide who were deemed worthy or not. By the time she passed, the whole family was worn out with her constant crocodile tears and crying wolf. She would feign illness so often, we never knew if it was real or not. She had everyone running in circles trying to comfort and soothe her. All the while, she triangulated and dropped hints that so and so wasn't doing enough. It became a pissing contest to see who could out do who. What a wild ride that was. I decided to always treat her the way I wanted to be treated (God's golden rule). With respect and kindness (despite receiving neither from her). I decided to leave my emotions at the door and not react. Since she did not hand pick me as a worthy specimen for her son to marry, she loved to try to diminish and hurt me. I wasn't going to give her the satisfaction. I sidestepped the traps/snares that she set. I let her jealous/passive/agressive/veiled insults roll off me like water off a ducks back. She once arrived at my home for a Sunday dinner I hosted and prepared for her, FIL, my husband, our grown children, and their spouses. I started to make small talk (How are you? Glad you came. Etc.) She immediately asked me to do her a favor and to not talk to her. I casually said, "I can do that." Then proceeded to smile and have pleasant conversations with everyone else that evening, except her. (One of the best dinners, with her, that I ever had). It became a comical show. I showed up and acted as an observer. I was genuinely kind to her and thanked her for raising her son, my husband, to be a wonderful, Godly man. (It burned her up to hear that one). When she died, bless her heart, I can truly say that I had learned to love and accept who she was. I held my head high, knowing that I did not jump into the sty and roll in her mud. I can honor her And I am free of her. She is buried in the same cemetery as my beloved grammy. It brings my heart so much peace to know that, I don't have to visit my Mother in law or lay flowers at her grave. I reserve that for those who cherish me and treat me right.

The keyword at the start of the video for me was the term witchcraft that's all I needed to hear to pause the video and proceed to insert my comment. Thank you!

Brilliant, brilliant!! Thank you, Kris. Your teachings are as if you were living my life! (Just clarify, not my marriage)

Thank you!

Projection. I never expected anything from others. I freely give to others.

It has been an incredibly distressing seven years😢

Set the bar lower as they move the goal post further away.

This Hair Color suits you perfect!!! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

Thank you

This is a great video! What makes me laugh is I bought that exact ladder from Amazon for my bird a year ago! And it is well made and my bird loves it! With that said I had no idea what some co-workers were interacting to me leaving me as Kris says emotionally upset and not reflecting Christ's light. I have some liberal friends and they say what I believe and read - even from credible resources is "disinformation" and that they are surprised how many people are so ignorant. Your video helps a lot! Thanks

“i accept your faulty perception of me.” ⚖️No Doc’ My life. My rules. 📌You are in MY house, and under MY roof and you will Obide by MY rules or leave. In some cases best not to respond to a narcissist but give them a blank stare and let them have the last word. I was with a narcissistic minister for prayer and he prayed that God change me? So in turn i asked God to have mercy on me to grant “that change” be upon him. And he was filled with wrath for staing the obvious. And asked God to givr him humble pie. I chose not to explain to “them” what humble pie refers to since narcissists speak in riddles. The prayer was not an open rebuke. But for God to bless his servant to see others with a brand new perspective as God see’s us “in His image.”

Great video

THIS!! 👏🏿💯🙌🏿‼️👍🏿🎯

God's words. Wise counsel 👍🏼🎯 I wish ap ko bohat pahly listen It's seriously too late i feel.

Well I no longer care From now on its me 1st and their not worth my time

My mother is a gaslighter. She comes out with all these phrases. She ALWAYS puts the onus on me & cannot accept anything negative about herself. She frequently denies she’s ever said or done something & will go so far as say I’m making it up (especially if I challenge her). As you were giving your answers, I thought “yes, they’re good” but then thought of how she’d come back at me. 🙄😖😞

@sandi5276

11 ай бұрын

It's hard, frenzy - it's really hard to get that person as your mom. I know But YOU are good. Please always remember and never forget - YOU are good.

@frenzyviz6296

11 ай бұрын

@@sandi5276 thank you. God bless you.

@robertaturk

10 ай бұрын

They are hollow shells and their story is all they have so if you are in a different script they have to shut you down because they have nowhere else to go.

11 min mark just hit me. Thanks

So good to see someone fully recovered and awake to all the narcissistic nonsense. To deliver your message with humour and authenticity makes it all the more powerful

Thank you!!!! Kris, for your videos, they are a blessing. What do you think when the spouse used Ephesians 5:22 telling the wife that she needs to follow the husband wherever he goes.

Great video!❤ I now want some butter pecan ice cream, too!