With the right person.

The timeline did indeed made me see that new person😀

Thank you brother for ur advice 🙂

I am going through something similar where they clearly said we are friend not in a relationship not dating but friends untill we get to know each other..it's a long distance thing ....they are busy and don't text or communicate much but we do talk at night when they finally get the time ....I grew anxious and wanted something meaningful but they said this is what they can offer yet and if I wanted to go I can ....but I am staying and giving them the time and space so things can unfold

I had that..he was too busy with work and one kid that he saw once every two weeks. But didnt mind at all the/his suggestion of us being FK buddies. I was good and everything he wanted as long as it was a F buddie..lets just say We no longer talk to each other. If all you see me as is that, then no. Go pay a call girl or escort..

@sherriflemming3218

10 ай бұрын

👍 Good for you for telling him to pay an escort. He had nothing worthwhile to offer.

@888hereandnow

10 ай бұрын

Psalm 139

You can with the right person, but if that right person goes or changes to something that doesn’t suit you then you’re still back to square one. I think it’s imperative you do the work yourself on healing your wounds as well as finding someone compatible to meet your needs because otherwise you can become very dependent and lose any sense of autonomy. Relationships can be healing, but you shouldn’t get to a stage where you allow anyone to be that ultimately source for you because it’s not fair on either of you and most importantly yourself because they will never be able to heal those wounds permanently. Only you can ❤

Love waits. Love is patient. I have lots and lots of examples of couples where they had to wait to be ready. And that's not bad or wrong. We learn love, we learn how to love. Yet, God *IS LOVE* and love comes from him. Not only bc He created it, but because *HE IS.* We are talking about His essence. So, who better than HIM to teach and show us how to love, what is love and etc. And Bible contains many examples and stories proving that real love waits. It's not attachment. It's a decision. That's why we need to be wise in opting for that decision. But it's a decision. And waiting makes part of that if necessary ❤❤❤

@rickys369

10 ай бұрын

Amen to that you angel 😇 I can't have her I don't want anyone her safety is more important then my happiness make a the laziest man get up at 5am kinda love I agree love waits well at least the true stuff does. I don't speak for all women and I no most are different and talk to lots of guys for months/years on end but any guy that's spends more then a month getting nothing but confo after he's made it clear and asked you out he doesn't like you he loves you

@rickys369

10 ай бұрын

You are a true blessing of one of Gods Children I hope you have a blessed one

@anlili8474

10 ай бұрын

💡❣️Yes, but has to be a Limit ....otherwise that guy will never make a decision.....because it might just be convenient for them for some reason...and He knows is Wasting your time and He might keep in living his Life you do not know even what s going on....in certain case/circumstances that is unacceptable ❣️

@anlili8474

10 ай бұрын

💡❣️Yes, but has to be a Limit ....otherwise that guy will never make a decision.....because it might just be convenient for them for some reason...and He knows is Wasting your time and He might keep in living his Life you do not know even what s going on....in certain case/circumstances that is unacceptable ❣️

@rickys369

10 ай бұрын

@anlili8474 I will give up everything and act like she's my wife for the most part, treat her like the princess she is but that has a limit if its going no where. I can't give up my life to stay in the friend zone. I'm getting so old😔

There IS no "right" person Just commitment

Hi Matt, This is common with guys on dating sites.... You meet up with them, think they're good / interesting. Many of them say lets see how it goes.. When you like them, it's very difficult on day one to say what you're looking for without coming across as desperate.... There isn't much choice on dating sites to be honest and if you quietly and confidently state your case you'd end up walking away on date one / two..... I'm in my 60s, but time is not on my side to 'let's see how it goes' It's a pattern I hate with date sites!

Leading someone on who does want a relationship just to get sex out of them or money and sex makes you a bad person

Yer true I can't speak for her I don't no what's she like or what she actually wants, il never be fully ready but I'm ready now but I don't think it will happen till I change her mindset and that happens next month. But your right its all about two people being at the same place. I never wanted it the whole family deal but she made me I want to Give her everything good of God that make her smile. We fell in love then we went to war now it's semi peace time but its long overdue that we made real love instead of all this drama and hatred with brief magic moments

Ya true

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This gives me some hope

Cent per cent ❤❤❤

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Matthew, now I understand you completely why you were with Camila or like me. You deep down know that those relationships aren’t for you still you get involved. You don’t want any relationship you hate love but you’re too proud to admit it and that’s why you always end up with wrong girl. I used to think you didn’t understand anything but now I know this is your escaping from the truth that you believe , in reality that’s not the truth. Look at your parents they still are together. You also can have life like them stop chasing the wrong girls and trust me most girls only need love. If you love without scepticism any girl will love you way more. Look for the right girl and settle down with her.

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Okay

But him playing with my feelings damn well knowing he wasnt ready for a relationship makes him a bad person, right?

Where is 🤕 from the bank to get my current application form from the new account manager for your time and I will be there to work with the help

This man doesn't have a job. This is a calling to sort out yll messy shenanigans. 😂

LoL

NO. NO. RELATIONSHIP. JUST. FRIENDS. TOO. SUCCESS. TOO. MUCH. DRAMA. RELATIONSHIPS. ARE. .........

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