the baby part hits too hard. tell your “baby” that I’m your baby. you always chose the men over me mom.

@z0mb1e42

3 жыл бұрын

THIS^

@swayy9454

3 жыл бұрын

Ah so thats what that means I relate so much

@clarissabby1511

3 жыл бұрын

The way this just describes everything going on rn

@loll2507

3 жыл бұрын

:((

@aree3667

3 жыл бұрын

Please this comment hits HOME.

nice! *dissolves into a pile of liquid*

@queeenshit

3 жыл бұрын

LOL

@thaicurrysoup672

3 жыл бұрын

i guess you could say that you’re.... liquid smooth (i’ll leave)

@queeenshit

3 жыл бұрын

@@thaicurrysoup672 [lipbite]

@arisduh

3 жыл бұрын

i was crying and this made me laugh

@kurfew7168

3 жыл бұрын

End of Evangelion

I actually cannot physically listen to this song without sobbing.

@jadakayla2557

3 жыл бұрын

Same

@simi5558

2 жыл бұрын

same

@yup6396

Жыл бұрын

late but I hope ur better now

@ain6435

Жыл бұрын

Same.. The tears just fall uncontrollably

@sanestkamishiroruifan

6 ай бұрын

REAL.

my interpretation of this song: you have a bad habit of constantly falling into the same cycle of destruction. no matter how hard you try to stray from it, you know it’s your inevitable path. and while you walk down this path, you are all alone due to this cycle of isolating yourself. you want someone to bet on you, to stay by your side while you make the same mistakes over and over again. you are the losing dog, and you need someone to bet on you.

@tatarashi

Жыл бұрын

thanks! i don’t like knowing this and how accurate it is to me *dissolves into confetti*

@ALHAITAM23

11 ай бұрын

I cried while reading this😭😭

@JoraLaRana

11 ай бұрын

I love this perspective Pov: you are the loosing dog

@8amango

10 ай бұрын

too real :(

@_Chuuya-Nakahara_

10 ай бұрын

i feel a little too seen..☹️

and that's on mommy issues!

@molieres..

3 жыл бұрын

stop 😭💔

@Christine-xc9yk

3 жыл бұрын

yep :)

@insertuserhere8837

3 жыл бұрын

I listen to the my baby part on repeat haha

@rebeccacreighton7250

3 жыл бұрын

@@bestpersonintheworld7386 Chiaki? You okay?

@bestpersonintheworld7386

3 жыл бұрын

@@rebeccacreighton7250 nah

this song is so good makes me wanna die tho

@mars_ffs

3 жыл бұрын

LMFAOHSLALALAHAJA FRR😭🤚

@alaylaronin4835

3 жыл бұрын

same 😩

@haruslover1930

3 жыл бұрын

FRRR

@uhmlol26

3 жыл бұрын

BABY NOO CAUSE SAME

@hahahowaboutno1245

3 жыл бұрын

Yea.

2:10 have I seriously been crying so hard during this song that I've never noticed until now

@r3dwnd

3 жыл бұрын

EXACTLY-

@user-tw3pq8on9v

2 жыл бұрын

I used to cry to this song all the time but I choked on air when I saw this

@tearleaff

2 жыл бұрын

the fact that i thought i was hallucinating lmao

@hellparkcraig

2 жыл бұрын

is thos real

@garlic_bread410

2 жыл бұрын

WAIT I JUST NOTICED THIS BECAUSE OF YOUR COMMENT-

I'm so touch starved but I'm so terrified of touch😀👍🏻

@sincerelymaya

3 жыл бұрын

same-

@itsme-vu9kw

2 жыл бұрын

You and me? We’re in the club now 🎈🎈🏡🍇🥤

@lucykg557

2 жыл бұрын

Same🥲also nice pfp

@hisfavworstnightmare

2 жыл бұрын

i’ve been touch starved and basically love starved for nearly all my life, but i guess i’m still clinging to that little piece of hope that one day somebody will love me. whenever someone tries to comfort me, i start to cry because i just don’t know what it feels like to be properly loved.. long story short, i know how you feel, you’re not alone in feeling like this ♥️

@boo_eth

2 жыл бұрын

same also YCGMA supremacy

I don’t wanna grow up I just wanna crawl into my parents arms and stay there

@laraada_s

3 жыл бұрын

me too :(

@captainqueen3808

3 жыл бұрын

Oof same

@hollywoodhorse34

3 жыл бұрын

girl I did not need to cry today 👁💧👄💧👁

@honeywater4564

3 жыл бұрын

Me too I just turned 15 and it hurts :(

@basil6076

3 жыл бұрын

@@honeywater4564 I’m 15 and my b-day past and lemme tell ya it hurts sm. Just thinking about the past like when I was very young and remembering the happy fun times with my family hurts... it’s not the same anymore...

i hugged my mom for all of yall

@kichihoe9819

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks

@youtubecontent3491

3 жыл бұрын

I can’t wait to hug mine 😞

@drae4526

3 жыл бұрын

I did that too I'm so heartbroken for everyone in this comments section I'm really sorry you're all going through this its a horrible thing to have a damaged relationship with your mum and I hope you are find comfort healing and peace I love you all

@mangop1e

3 жыл бұрын

thank u sm

@ginnyweasley564

3 жыл бұрын

thanks.

"I always want you when I'm finally fine" DAMN THAT HURT

when my mom looks at other people's daughter and probably wish they were hers instead😀

@huutao3012

3 жыл бұрын

she deserves a better daughter

@App1_e

3 жыл бұрын

no. she’s doesn’t deserve a better daughter. you deserve a better mom. you hear me? YOU deserve someone better. YOU.

@myjams7180

3 жыл бұрын

No :(

@App1_e

3 жыл бұрын

@@huutao3012 I know that kids are supposed to some housework, but you realize, that you’re not supposed to do everything in the house right? You’re probably still a kid, idk your real age, but don’t feel bad for her. It was her choice to get a kid in the first place.

@joharashelail2269

3 жыл бұрын

and when she starts comparing them to you, it truly hurts.

im just gonna... pretend my mother is saying the first bit to me over and over again

@TheAnimationGirl

3 жыл бұрын

I don’t have one original thought, do I? 😔

@alilelie

3 жыл бұрын

@@TheAnimationGirl unfortunately not, people with mommy issues are all the same person deep down 😔

@justaworm4787

3 жыл бұрын

Omg sameeeee

@alex-dm5fw

3 жыл бұрын

I cried thinking ab it, Yessss!!! Mommy Issues!!!

@sam-wf5jk

3 жыл бұрын

pain

She has such a beautiful voice I can’t comprehend

@mirukoo

3 жыл бұрын

I LOVE YOUR PFP

@thebestjunkdrawer5045

3 жыл бұрын

@@mirukoo WHYYYY THANK YOUUUUU

@ri7244

3 жыл бұрын

agree

@deliciouspan3426

3 жыл бұрын

It sounds haunting, like shes crying

@Nayeonlovespasta

3 жыл бұрын

Ikr

Stop I was reading the lyrics and 2:14 managed to snap me out of my breakdown to choke on air 😭😭💖

@mayalol3934

3 жыл бұрын

LMAOO I JUST NOTICED IT TOO-

@mp3bry

3 жыл бұрын

SAME ?!?!?!? 😭😭😭

@mayalol3934

3 жыл бұрын

@@mp3bry I WAS IN THE MIDDLE OF CRYING AND THEN I SEE *THAT* 😭😭✋

@mp3bry

3 жыл бұрын

@@mayalol3934 SAME 😭 I LITERALLY STOPPED MY BREAKDOWN JUST TO RE-READ IT BC I THOUGHT I WAS HALLUCINATING

@mayalol3934

3 жыл бұрын

@@mp3bry LMAOO- SAME

the way this is a song about self sabotage and only being able to watch your life fall apart infront of your eyes and it’s all because of you, the hopelessness that comes with it feeling like a rabid scared dog in a ring trying to claw to get out, you are watching yourself fail that is it.

oh so we ALL have a savior complex and a family that never outright mistreated us but did fail to meet our needs so regularly that we feel alone

@ahappyaxolotl3364

3 жыл бұрын

i feel a little targeted right now aha

@zara-wo1ye

3 жыл бұрын

WHAT THE HELL

@bestpersonintheworld7386

3 жыл бұрын

How tf did you get that so accurate🧍‍♂️

@cloudecol

3 жыл бұрын

this is so loud

@autumgonzales6570

3 жыл бұрын

this had no right to target me so accurately 🧍🏽‍♀️

hey guys just wanna say we have great music taste, but this is screaming for help at this point 😀

@Robinurheart4dayss

3 жыл бұрын

JBHJBGJ

@kaydencesullivan2014

3 жыл бұрын

yeah i know *listens to it again*

@boopydoopy9156

3 жыл бұрын

You aren't wrong

@vic-zn6dd

3 жыл бұрын

yeah ikr

@lisa-fk2pi

3 жыл бұрын

*puts it on loop*

Idk why I thought it was a good idea to try out Mitski while on my period, but here I am, uncontrollably sobbing my guts out

@moon6337

2 жыл бұрын

BRO ME TOO IM DOING THAT RIGHT NOW AND IM SOBBING

alr, but this whole song is a vibe for me. the lyrics starting out with being neglected by your parents and abandoned, leading to needing intimacy and longing for someone to look in your eyes and love you just for who you are (portrayed literally in 2:13 ) when for a solid fraction of your life nobody did. finally a vent song for me like yes please THANK YOU-

@isabelaa8392

2 жыл бұрын

THIS

@Neptunesugar

2 жыл бұрын

TYSM FOR EXPLAINING I LITERALLY DID A DOUBLE TAKE LMFAO

Part of me wants to cry into my mom's chest one last time. I almost want just one last loving memory but the thought of her even touching me is repulsive. I feel physically ill around her.

@ev9099

3 жыл бұрын

this this so much oh my god i just want her to love me but at the same time i feel sick whenever im near her

@donovanstroebl5920

3 жыл бұрын

fr lolololol

@justaworm4787

3 жыл бұрын

I hate my mom so much I can’t stand her

@acidremity.

3 жыл бұрын

same.. i wish i could hug her and kiss her without feeling uncomfortable about it, even when shes tried holding my hands lovingly as she drives i just pull away cause i really cant show anything to her anymore because ive given up on fixing our relationship a long time ago and i just know the moment she gets over that loving phase its back to ignoring me and not messaging me for months :(

@houndstoothbruises

3 жыл бұрын

cut my mom completely off 4 years ago and i never have regretted it, but i do feel this so hard

hello emotionally neglected kids

@jehangalban3470

3 жыл бұрын

hi bestie

@YAYA-vj6lg

3 жыл бұрын

My parents have always been open. I'm just the issue I think

@anila7164

3 жыл бұрын

@@YAYA-vj6lg no u aren't

@_lxneyy_6875

3 жыл бұрын

hi there

@jasmine-fp1qg

3 жыл бұрын

LMFAOOO hey man

The song is about failed relationships, but I can't help but think of all the projects I've started but never finished, and also if larger goals in my life are going to be worth the effort, like continue the degree I'm pursuing or choosing something else. A melancholic feeling.

@emmi5550

Жыл бұрын

this.

It’s sucks to be a losing dog sometimes, I feel this song on a deep level. I just wish someone would bet on this losing dogs once.

it’s MY mental breakdown 🙄🙄🙄 i get to pick the music 🙄🙄🤚

@k-4234

3 жыл бұрын

Ay Jataro🤸 *got that mum issues too, huh*

@jatarokemuri2835

3 жыл бұрын

@@k-4234 yup 😰

@k-4234

3 жыл бұрын

@@jatarokemuri2835 dayum🏃🏻‍♀️

@k-4234

3 жыл бұрын

@@VeryGoodDad oMg tWins?? i'm a jataro kin too LMAO

@tiredofcryinglmao9283

3 жыл бұрын

That's so relatable ☺️

You know the feeling you wanna cry but the tears never fall, yeah. :(

@ferrn6864

3 жыл бұрын

yeah my eyes are watering but not sweating

@fionagallagherapologist5968

3 жыл бұрын

its the worse feeling ever

@deadoutside311

3 жыл бұрын

beste thats a symptom of depression my therapist told me that

@ferrn6864

3 жыл бұрын

@@deadoutside311 oh fucky wucky isn't that great

@ferrn6864

3 жыл бұрын

@@deadoutside311 yeah bestie I'm joking honestly to help me cope woaaa

I lost my doggo and this song gives me the need to hug any and all dogs in need of a hug. I'm sorry to hear about everyone's parents. My hugs are for any human that needs one too

@irenesouvatz1935

2 жыл бұрын

I am sorry for your loss. I lost my doggo too. We put him down several months ago. We were best friends for 15 years. While the vet was putting him down I was hugging him, trying to comfort him and this song came up to my mind. From then, I can't listen it without crying. I am sorry for writing this here, I really wanted to share my story. And I also would love to hug any human that is in need.

@dreamsandmemories4807

Жыл бұрын

I’m sorry for your loss as well. A couple of days ago I also lost my dog, she’s been with me since I was three years old. We were 15 going on 16 together. It’s my fault she died. My parents were going shopping and I was scared they were going to get in an accident so I went with them, with no one to watch our dogs we decided it would be best for them to stay outside until we returned. We were only gone maybe 5 hours but when we got back my beloved Chica was dead in her cold dog house leaving my other dog to panic. She was acting off for the past month, troubles with breathing and such and that morning she didn’t want to eat but we didn’t think anything of it. I don’t think she died of the cold but it definitely helped. If I had just stayed home to look after my dogs she might have made it to Christmas, or at least died in her warm bed in the house she and I were raised in. This song reminds me of her, and with how lonely I feel now I would also appreciate a human hug and give any to whoever is in need.

@BARK910

Жыл бұрын

@@dreamsandmemories4807 You couldn't have known the cold would put her to rest a final time. I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope you feel comforted by all the good memories you had with your best friend. I know she's still watching over you, all dogs do, they never leave your side. Take as many hugs as you need today, give as many as you can as well. Stay safe, stay warm, and it's ok to cry. It isn't your fault. I know it feels like it is. I also sometimes feel it's my fault I lost my Chloé, she was a dachshund mix so it was inevitable her long back would give her problems. I'm here if you need to talk, even if it's about random things, I don't know you or your dog but I will mourn the loss with you, you're never alone 💙

i don't wanna become a teenager, i just wanna cuddle and kiss my parents forever and ever and never stop because i love them so fucking much and regret wanting to grow up :(

@elm000l

3 жыл бұрын

It'll be okay, you'll be okay even if the idea of growing up is scary there will always be a person with you who cares and will love you so no matter what focus on what you have now rather then what you'll have in the future. trust me when i say it'll be alright 💚 - from a teenager

@Gooseey

3 жыл бұрын

@@elm000l I can agree with that whole statement. And you can always love your parents no matter what age, becuase they'll always love you back no matter where you are in the world, - a fellow teen aswell ✨

@l0vlunaa226

3 жыл бұрын

don’t worry, you’ll always be their “baby” in their eyes. i feel the same way. i’m 15 and i feel so old.

@seblolwth6033

3 жыл бұрын

yikes good luck

@larasbigmac77

2 жыл бұрын

Same

Not me forgetting all the trauma my mom caused me and wanting a hug

@carnivalboy6265

3 жыл бұрын

fr id give anything for my mom to even look at me again

@drae4526

3 жыл бұрын

Its ok to want a hug and its ok to get a hug i love you all

@thedogmotif

3 жыл бұрын

she makes me ill, the things she’s done to me makes me ill. but i’d give anything for a hug from anyone right now. it hurts. i just want to be comforted.

@rohann2967

3 жыл бұрын

@@thedogmotif hey babe, i'm here...thanks for sharing your feelings, i love u!!!! Thanks for existing!!!

@avery3834

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah, I know she did bad things, she hurt me, but I can hate her, she loves me and I completely love her. I want to hug her.

my mom just told me that she would choose my dad over my brother and i on a heartbeat the "tell your "baby" that i'm your baby" line hits so much harder now

@somebody2809

3 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry. You both deserve better than that. I hope you both find someone soon who will prioritize you.

@spvrkly_

3 жыл бұрын

@@somebody2809 the tears in my eyes,,, thank u very much

@princess_punk

3 жыл бұрын

@@spvrkly_ how are you doing right now,

@spvrkly_

3 жыл бұрын

@@princess_punk i came out as nonbinary to her today, she accepts it but she says that she's sad she's lost her baby girl

@kiaurii2461

3 жыл бұрын

Sadly it is a thing that's normalised. All couple theraphists say it is "hEaLtHiER" to prioritise your relationship with your spouse. It is bullshit to me. Your child is your flesh. A child only has 1 set of parents. They need to be a priority not a relationship that might end at any moment over things as trivial as lack of sexual chemistry. LEAVE SEX ASIDE AND PRIORITISE YOUR KIDS PLEASE. They need to be loved. They need to feel like they're on the first place at least untill they grow up.

the chorus is so pretty i imagine it as a dog race where she purposely bets on the dogs in the back so that they don’t feel bad when they lose because she lost with them too

I don't think my mom realizes how much she hurts me at times. I don't think she realizes the reason I'm constantly sad and crying and why I never come out of my room is because of her. I don't think she realizes why I never want to spend time with her is because OF HER. I don't hate her, Im just..disappointed in her. In our "relationship". a mother is supposed to love her child, to teach the child how to love themself. How to do stuff, or how to handle scary situations. My mother taught me "if you don't know how to do a certain thing, youre stupid." "No matter how smart you are, you will always be stupid if you don't know this certain thing." For example, today she screamed at me because I didn't know how to do plumbing stuff. She called me stupid and dumb..but I know I'm not stupid. Im very advanced in literature, in math, art, and music. I know I can be a bit dull sometimes, but im NOT an idiot. Its like my mom doesn't realize shes killing her own child right in front of herself. And I bet she's gonna be surprised when she drives me to suicide. Whenever I try to vent to her, she always finds some way to make it about herself or other people. Shes under the impression that "sad = ungrateful". Don't get me wrong, I am very grateful for eveeything I have but.. Is it so bad that I just want to be heard and understood? I know some people have it worse than me, but I think my problems are still valid. I mean, how would you feel if someone who you KNOW should care about you and love you, was constantly screaming at you, hitting you, and being awful to you?? I need help..I need someone..I have nobody. I am nobody. I just want to be understood..please..

@hisfavworstnightmare

2 жыл бұрын

it’s okay, i understand how you feel. sounds like you and me have very similar mothers.. mine once shouted at me for not having many friends. it’s going to be alright, just look after yourself and one day you’ll find love in other places ♥️ you can get through this xx

@KellsBells-gm1ou

9 күн бұрын

You should never apologize for the way you are feeling about how someone else has been treating you. Your feelings are absolutely valid and important, you are SO DAMN important and i hope one day you’ll get everything you deserve and so much more, im sorry that your mom’s disappointing you, its not YOUR FAULT and it has and never will be your fault. I hope you get alll that you truly deserve from this world.

this song makes me wanna crawl into my mother’s arms, and stay there for a little while, and feeling her chest rise against my head; i want what i can’t have...

@nicholegallo1090

2 жыл бұрын

Oh my god I feel this so deeply

@annikakeithmusic

Жыл бұрын

Damn, that's deep and relatable.

@annikakeithmusic

Жыл бұрын

I feel like I lost my mom. She's still alive but she's not as wonderful I thought she was. :/

imagine growing up in a house where you get all the toys and stuff you ask for, but in a replacement of love. you grow up too early and dont wanna let go of that. and at the age where youre about to go out in the world your parent have another baby. they get love and everything they want.

@kylee7629

3 жыл бұрын

this is me. i don’t want my mom to buy me stuff. i just want her to tell me that i’m special to her and that i matter. her and her girlfriend are planning on adopting soon. it hirts

@kinoqVT

3 жыл бұрын

@@kylee7629 yeah it sucks. My mom gives me money and just forgets me. She's the reason I have anger issues

@cyberpunkdeadbqy

3 жыл бұрын

Me.

@Beeanimates

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly- my mom is like this she can be loving sometimes but she yells SO MUCH its just overwhelming

@shhwayy

3 жыл бұрын

watching my mom care for my brother the way she never cared for me hurts yet i feel so relieved

and that’s on being emotionally neglected 😍😍💞💞💞✨✨

I'm crying so hard to this lol I just want to be loved again by my mother like she used too when I was kid:(

@ferrn6864

3 жыл бұрын

same omfg

@joannapatena2138

2 жыл бұрын

no cus fr

this is my first time listening to mitski,,, are y'all alright?

@thefisherman6627

3 жыл бұрын

no

@rem-9060

3 жыл бұрын

No

@Star-xu5fh

3 жыл бұрын

No

@beetlejellies

3 жыл бұрын

no

@parkjiminiestan908

3 жыл бұрын

no

i'm gonna turn 18 in 2 months and i've ruined my teenage years by being sad and afraid of the world lil update: i turned 18 a few days ago. i decided to let go, i'm trying to be more open for my own good and i already feel better and more positive. it's only a little step but i know i'll be the best version of myself soon. thanks for all the sweet replies

@ninasalih4986

3 жыл бұрын

you still have time bub. ur teen years arent over and u still have a long way to go. stay safe :)

@Cherrypiem

3 жыл бұрын

Same but I have 4 months

@butterflyyfly

3 жыл бұрын

I know the regret. I m sorry to hear. Have hope, everything is going to be okay. In those moments it was the right decision for you. Trust me. I ll send all my love to you❤️

@ghostmchaunted604

3 жыл бұрын

This one hit a little too close to home

@sheepbeepbeep

3 жыл бұрын

i'm 25 and i promise you it will get it a lot easier !!!! being a teenager is AWFUL i didn't leave my house hardly at all the entire time i was 18...you will have a beautiful little life because it is your life!

0:07 for anyone who wants it on loop, ily🖤

@summero-my5in

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you ❤️

2:15 was a little 𝒻𝓇ℯ𝒶𝓀𝓎

Well mitski is my mother figure now..

@frootiloops7711

3 жыл бұрын

Aaaaa same 😔

@lemon_boy577

3 жыл бұрын

honestly I would be happy to have her as my mom

@Alex-oc7ck

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed

@Fyolai-sc4nm

3 жыл бұрын

Same

Finally reconnecting with my mother after her years of drug abuse. Shes the same women i remember before I lost her to her addictions. I missed having my mom

@ainharavivarrojas3016

3 жыл бұрын

I am really happy for you! I hope both of you are forever healthy and happy ❤

@angel-bt2lq

3 жыл бұрын

Im sorry but the song is not abt moms lol

@lucie2693

3 жыл бұрын

​@@angel-bt2lq Maybe not but song interpretations are subjective, wether people want to associate this song with their mom or not is up to them :)

@Caakano

3 жыл бұрын

I wish u both so much happiness on your reuniting journey

@angel-bt2lq

3 жыл бұрын

@@lucie2693 no its literally not related at all. You can’t interpret apple as bananas

Everyone’s commenting about moms which is super sad to read. I love you all and I hope you all find peace and love! For me, this reminds me of loving someone so much, but they don’t love you nearly as much as you love them, or at all. Romantic crushes, friendships, teachers and mentors. All people I recognize that don’t love me or even like me, but I ignore it and give them everything, because dammit I love them too much to completely let go. Betting on losing dogs :,)

n e one else listen to this song and think ab how they've always been there for other people and just want someone to be there for them too except intense fear of any and all vulnerability about emotions from years of prioritizing others + constant "my problems aren't valid" mindset + not wanting to be a burden prevent you from doing so or-

@sincerelymaya

3 жыл бұрын

literally me- 😃

@littleladnora

3 жыл бұрын

yes

@summero-my5in

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah this exactly ngl

@yaboileo3843

2 жыл бұрын

Same here. I have a best friend and I always listen to her and help her. But she often doesn't ask about me so I feel like a therapist friend

@amirulsyafiq8925

2 ай бұрын

u can just type anyone like a normal person

betting on losing dogs i love that :( even if that’s metaphorical for something deeper those pups have no one else believing in them because everyone knows they’ll lose but she bets on them because she wants them to have someone :((( i love that

@tutty5403

2 жыл бұрын

are you serious? its not about puppies lmao

@eivor7640

2 жыл бұрын

@@tutty5403 im not stupid, if you read my comment you can see that i know it’s a metaphor, i know that the song isn’t literally about dogs 😐

@saradiamondheart6337

Ай бұрын

They’re allowed to interpret the song how they want as anyone else. They know it’s not actually about dogs but it still made them think about the dogs that people gave up on which is valid. Songs can have so many different means and bring on different emotions, including this one.

Hey guys, I just wanna say we all have great music taste 😌

@octopleb9370

3 жыл бұрын

Nice Killua pfp 😌

@jazlynnorellana6479

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks 🙈

@rebecca4979

3 жыл бұрын

I think you spelt " we all have crippling mental health" wrong 😩🙏

@becks.s7857

3 жыл бұрын

@@rebecca4979 yeah we all have that too🤠

@0riginalx

3 жыл бұрын

And depression

I don't think a song has ever made me so viscerally emotional and vulnerable before. My ex who was my first love said to me I'm like a dog. Naive, loyal to a fault, would follow her anywhere do anything she wanted, and was easy to please when we broke up. Since then I've become cold and tried not to fall in love or act like younger me. The first time I heard this song I broke down and felt like this was something I was waiting to hear to get me to feel again.

I just want the comfort of being held tightly in someone’s arms

i just want my mom to hold me like i'm still her baby and not this stranger that i've become

@anila7164

3 жыл бұрын

stop

@june0136

3 жыл бұрын

anila 7 i literally need a loop of mitski saying my baby my baby you're my baby is it to me for hours 💔

@anila7164

3 жыл бұрын

@@june0136 man💔

@theSkin_of_a_Killer_Bella

2 жыл бұрын

I'd wanna ask why you refer to yourself as a "stranger" since sometimes it can be for many reasons😕 What I usually see is that some loved one around us will refer to us as "strangers", or that they "dont know u anymore". And often enough, it's not really the one on the receiving end's fault. Or not completely bc we are capable of pushing others away, but that itself usually has a specific reason behind it too. The point is, no one should need to beat themselves up for growing and changing. Even if u yourself can't understand it, or maybe even not like it. A large portion of us are both inherently good, but also inherently flawed. And focusing on just one out of the two wouldnt do any good. This was 6 months ago, and idk the full context behind ur comment- but I hope your able to give yourself a break sometimes, instead of perhaps frequently paying attention to a flaw u may have found in yourself.

@zalazupancic34

2 жыл бұрын

@@theSkin_of_a_Killer_Bella i love u gangsta mango :(

hey are u ok? This song has been on repeat :/

@yellojolly824

3 жыл бұрын

im trying so hard and the only person who sees it is across the country

@telikno

3 жыл бұрын

no💔

@sunnyyyyyyyy01

3 жыл бұрын

I'm trying.. so hard

@jsyesii6159

3 жыл бұрын

ik :( i’m just crying over our my mom called me ugly words

@user-ec2ms4ct2z

3 жыл бұрын

No I’m coping with the tma finale

my mom died 😀 i was 16 (18 now) and i had the best thing in my life ripped away from me. i remember getting terrible anxiety over school and bawling my eyes out and shaking in fear and she would just hold me and pat me and tell me that everything would be okay. she always called me her baby and other nicknames like sweetheart and darling. she was sick and i remember leaving home one morning for school, i hugged and kissed her and told her i loved her and to feel better. she said she was improving, and she felt like it was all going away. i came home that evening excited to see her and tell her about my day as usual but when i entered my room i saw her laying there on my bed, she had passed away right there. my anxiety is worse than ever and now i cant help but wrap my arms around myself and pretend she's right there with me as i cry. i think of all the things she would say. oh my god i miss her so much it hurts. my neglectful father also ended up totally abandoning me like 2 months later. so i'm parentless now. i cant help but replay the beginning of the song and think about her. she was everything a mother should be. besties, we are so ill 😍

@thegirlnextdoour

4 ай бұрын

I know im late, but i really hope you find someone that will love you endlessly and will be there by your side at all time. I hope youre feeling okay ❤

Mitski's voice sounds like a cup of warm milk and the lyrics are like the cup has gone long cold. It's the mommy issues ig 🤷‍♀️

The beginning of this song reminds me of my abusive mother’s lullaby that she used to sing to me “mom loves you, pretty baby, baby I love you” and I’m here playing this dissociating to my old memories

@cyberpunkdeadbqy

3 жыл бұрын

1.im so sorry 2.i was already crying i didnt need this

@patrickbatemansbitch

2 жыл бұрын

We are the same person omg

whom disliked this i just wanna talk

@namescossie4515

3 жыл бұрын

the people that disliked this just hasn't come to terms with their mommy issues yet

@toby2633

3 жыл бұрын

@@namescossie4515 pretty much

@offline8931

3 жыл бұрын

@@namescossie4515 "yet"

@dr0wnedsewerrat129

3 жыл бұрын

whoever disliked this was probs crying too hard and accidentally pressed dislike

@nasjordan2598

3 жыл бұрын

yes...whom?🤨

*Me crying my eyes out* 2:12 💀

For me this song is about being in love with someone who does not love you the same, because they are already in a solid relationship with someone else. "Tell your baby that I'm your baby. I bet on losing dogs..." It's immediately what I felt at hearing it, because I went through it, having feelings for a happily married man. The worst. You bet on losing dogs because you want to believe an impossible relationship can somehow happen, but at the same time you know it will not. You still keep a hope, because your heart wants you to hope.

@sukanyabiswas7014

2 жыл бұрын

Yesss. I'm in a same situation

i don't even interpret this as a song about mother and child, i feel like it's a person singing about their lover they lost a long time ago, their 'baby'...

@nasjordan2598

3 жыл бұрын

😂yeah whys that everyones automatic immediate thought about the song?!😂😂

@NephilimFeathers

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly, i mean at the end she's talking about wanting someone to watch her cum, and that she keeps wanting them back again when she's finally over them again. Like ew, y'all, listen to the song all the way through. I'm not invalidating any trauma these people have gone through, I feel so much empathy for them, but i get avery strong idea that this song is not meant for mothers or fathers lol

@chocoberry6501

3 жыл бұрын

@@NephilimFeathers oh god I kept repeating the first part I didn't see the ending until you said it 😭😭😭😭 oh god I was crying now I'm laughing so hard

@k9carniv0re

3 жыл бұрын

i personally interpret this as a bit of both (no, not incest), where parental neglection leads to a strong longing for intimacy and affection later on in life considering how a portion of your life was absent of any kind of affection at all. but i dunno, that’s just my view on it and it’s anyone’s guess on what this song means.

@taylorradick1431

3 жыл бұрын

@@k9carniv0re ilook at it like neglectful parent lead too attracting people who arent the best so worship u to boost the ego

Im tearing up so hard right now, my mother is so focused to my sister that she didnt know or even notice I was sick for 1 week

@pocky5137

3 жыл бұрын

are you alright? I'm sure that must be hard for you.

@dreezydrakeeee

3 жыл бұрын

omg girl i feel you, my family is falling apart and i’m the only one of my three sister who goes to see my dad every weekend yet i’m still not enough for him, he always ignores me and talks about my sisters :(

@pocky5137

3 жыл бұрын

@@dreezydrakeeee ​ Dude that's terrible, I'm sorry. Why don't your other sisters go see your dad at all?

@kanekisimp8897

3 жыл бұрын

omg chongyun 😟

@eioroma

3 жыл бұрын

@@kanekisimp8897 yes. chongyun supremacy.

"Where I'll be looking in their eyes when they're down I wanna feel it" I really want to feel what it's like to have someone supporting me and being by my side even when I'm losing

I DONT KNOW WHEN WE ALL DECIDED THAT THIS SONG HAD SOMETHING TO DO WITH PARENTS BUT YOUVE MADE ME FEEL THINGS

I listen to this since my mom honeslty does love me and I do to but after coming out to her it feels like we’re disconnected. She believes I’m lying and that this is all a phase even tho I’ve been like this since I was little, she’s in denial and all I can hope is that she comes around soon. I miss u mom...

@parvoux

3 жыл бұрын

just be normal stop being gay lmao

@milfski2256

3 жыл бұрын

@@parvoux stfu

@skullcidd

3 жыл бұрын

@@parvoux cant tell if this is bait or just the worlds most unfunny joke

@nimenhao8553

3 жыл бұрын

She'll come around. If she genuinely loves you: she'll accept you as you are. Some people need time to process their kids being different of what they imagined, but loves overcomes those feelings eventually (if they truly love them). And if she doesn't come to her senses, think about your own safety and happiness first, you don't own anything to someone whose purpose is to love and protect you, not the other way around. Stay safe, and I hope everything turns out okay.

@nathan-wu6dk

3 жыл бұрын

@@parvoux getting this as a shirt thank you

i hate myself because i can’t love my parents innocently. i just wanna know how it’s like. i just want to love them

@L_Maris

Жыл бұрын

......???????????

0:59 this part make me cry 😭

This song holds such a meaning for me. I just wish to be held, treated with care and gentleness. Don’t we all? I look at my younger sister, she’ll never live through the mom I lived through. I wish I was still mom’s baby. Yet, since I cannot be, I always open my arms so other people can be my babies. I bet on losing dogs, my money goes to lost causes, my time is gone to people who don’t actually want it. I know they’ll never change, I know they’ll never win, yet I’m there to lose by their side, because I want to carry them into my arms like I was never carried. I’ll love the losing dogs, hoping someday those I supported will support me back

This song makes me want to curl up in my mother's arms and feel loved again

@snoutts

3 жыл бұрын

nice name lmao

The guy I was completely head over heels in ghosted me to join the military and his friend just told me he got married and moved away... and I thought I was over him until i got that news.. so the line “I always want you when I’m finally fine” really fucking hits home

Y’know, I don’t usually cry to songs But this one got me absolutely bawling over here

There's a line in a MCR song that goes "you only hear the music when your heart begins to break". That's how I feel about this song. I used to be so confused by the comments about how this song is about mommy issues, but I understand now. This song is about betting on the hope that you'll be loved, that you'll be cared about, and knowing inside it's never going to happen. That's the losing dog she's betting on - the idea that she'll ever be loved. I get it now

The memories of us seem so faded she caused so much pain and trauma but as soon as she does ONE nice thing I feel horrible and like it’s all my fault

@marie-rq7rg

3 жыл бұрын

same :(

@sincerelymaya

3 жыл бұрын

same ://

the way this song makes me SOB

@kaydencesullivan2014

3 жыл бұрын

SAME ALSO I LOVE YOUR PFP!

@lillylee8924

3 жыл бұрын

Its so fucking powerfull

“ I only want you when I’m finally fine” this…. This right here

This hits different when your dad isn't here, your mom emotionally and psyhcologically abuses you, and your being raised by two twelve year olds because you have no one else

This makes me want to have a mother so I can cry into her, (I grew up in an orphanage)

@gibgib1013

3 жыл бұрын

Awe :(( I wish I can give you a hug

@wendyhere1837

3 жыл бұрын

* I’m sending you a warm virtual hug

day 4: hi again!! i painted my mirror and it looks really cool and ive just been hanging out with my cat all day lol

@yahmammy5901

3 жыл бұрын

that's good :)

@ncuqncuqncuq6927

3 жыл бұрын

hiiiiii

@yellojolly824

3 жыл бұрын

where did you go?? i wanna hear about your day

@thatWheat26

3 жыл бұрын

what did you paint on it?

@deathbytwilight

3 жыл бұрын

@@thatWheat26 i painted the frame white and then did little strokes of black on the designs on the frame😁

I just want someone in my arms while I repeat “my baby my baby your my baby”

@joannapatena2138

2 жыл бұрын

fr

THIS IS LITERALLY MY COMFORT SONG I CRY EVERY TIME IT PLAYS PLS

*cries really hard* damn

@lillylee8924

3 жыл бұрын

Same here

@joannapatena2138

2 жыл бұрын

*sad twerking*

only listen to this because i never got that comfort from my mother leading to mommy issues leading to not seeing her as a mother figure then leading to mental illnesses

okay so here's my interpretation of this song. mitski is talking about a woman who cares about men more than her own children.

I think I am unable to love or be loved. I've been pushed away, bullied and neglected ...... I don't know if I know what love feels like, but I want to. I long for it in a strange way, but I can't let anyone in. Not my parents ... Not my friends and no strangers. I think there will never be a person that really cares about me . That scares me ... i don't want to be alone but also i cant let myselfe be hurt like that again....

This song makes me feel something that doesn't exist

Its MY mental breakdown and I choose the songs

I just lost my cat an hour ago, and the entire time we were there it this was playing in my head, mainly the my baby part. I know nobody will see this but I just needed to get it out there.

@poncho1046

11 ай бұрын

I’m so sorry for your loss. Losing a pet can be hard I hope your ok. Take it easy❤️

I love it when my mum says she loves me and says "you're my baby" to me but I dont say it back because the next thing shes yelling at me for how i dress and act and comparing me with my friends saying "you act like your friend"

vent!!! I want a mom "best friend", mom that i can cry to, mom I can talk with, not mom yelling at me when I don't do my homework or clean my room, I want it to be like it used to be, I love you mom.. I don't want to grow up, I wanna be your baby forever.

@SheriffBraylie

3 жыл бұрын

same :/

@rin2619

3 жыл бұрын

Fr

@movedchannels1543

2 жыл бұрын

This is so relatable it’s sad…

@normanlaurens2189

2 жыл бұрын

Although I’m not a girl..I’ll gladly take that role.

@steveed6247

2 жыл бұрын

this comment made me cry

I'm not crying, ur crying-

This describes how I feel with someone I don't talk to anymore because they were really toxic. "I always want you when I'm finally fine" describes how I feel so much.

God, this song hits me in the feels when it comes to my friend group. Seeing them fall into bad habits and overconsumption, pushing away meds and therapy in favor of gaming, and just generally not doing well. And in the process I also slip into those habits, stop valuing my academics, and start to feel even more alone than before. But at least I have someone to watch me die

I almost kms but the way my mom hugged me crying after she found out I just can’t.

@angelmogere1348

3 жыл бұрын

I hope you feel better now?

@slydakota8143

2 жыл бұрын

I’m really glad that you have that.

this songs makes me wanna just run away from everything but i can’t listen to it without SOBBING

This song is what I listen to when my mother gets mad at me and I don’t understand why. She yelled at me for “breathing in a disrespectful manner” and she’s only nice to me when my friends are around. She’s constantly trying to fix me, but never to help me.

OKAY IS THE BABY PART COMFORTING TO ME? NO, BUT IT FEELS LIKE WHAT I NEED TO HEAR EVERYDAY SO I CRY TO IT AS IF IT’S COMFORT CRYING BUT IT’S LONGING TO HEAR THAT FROM A SPECIFIC PERSON WHO WILL NEVER BE IN YOUR LIFE YA KNOW??

this song makes me feel as if I won’t ever feel that happiness she’s given me ever again even though she was the one who took it away

i know that this song isnt literally about dogs but imagining a dying dog while listening to this songs always puts me in my feels

This is the most depressing Starbucks, urban outfitters, bubble pop song I've ever heard. It's even making the like button "blue", poor fella

Whenever I turned 18 I cried so hard because of the fact that my childhood was officially over. As in, I became an adult. This meant I could never try again to have a better mom or dad, I used to think about calling CPS and spilling all the terrible things my parents did so I could be in foster care and if I was very lucky, find actually nice caretakers. I would daydream about being adopted by parents who loved me. When I turned 18 I knew, even though these were fantasies, there was no way any of it could happen now. And no one owes me anything, including my parents. I have nothing, and no one.

my comfort song

my family never outright hurt me but im the loosing dog. and no one bet on me. no one was on my side. this song hurts me. its the comfort i never got, but always give to others. i wish someone would do the same

i don’t like being touched but i want to hug someone :(

@therakshawolf

2 жыл бұрын

Same here. I hate it so much but I'm just not comfortable enough with anyone.

@L_Maris

Жыл бұрын

Same

"I bet on losing dogs" 🥲 why does my mum keep going back to him, she knows that it will always end the same