Being single is better than marrying the wrong man. If Karla marries him, she'll be learning this lesson the hard way.

@mrs.b.5864

Жыл бұрын

He is NEVER going to stop. He is an addict. Gail can’t just say…you can never gamble again…it isn’t going to happen. He is an addict and needs rehab….big time.

@liliyanne8857

Жыл бұрын

Run run very fast Karla

@legzfalloffgirl5148

Жыл бұрын

It's the ease with lying that's so scary. All the explanations in the world- addiction, shame, everything else- doesn't change the fact that being dishonest is supposed to hurt. It's supposed to make people uncomfortable and afraid so they don't do it 😑

@sandram6828

Жыл бұрын

@@mrs.b.5864 Totally agree.

@jasoncreighton5140

Жыл бұрын

The look on her face when she was questioned about marrying him, she should walk away

The husband just wanted the 5k. No way he kicked his addiction in one episode.

@bovnycccoperalover3579

5 ай бұрын

I sadly agree.

I love how Greg tried to call karla out for her spending and what she bought just for her to be like well all my things I purchased are paid for haha 😄 the first thing she said was she had no debt and that she pays everything with cash he still ends up humiliating and embarrassing himself smh

Oh noooo. Don't marry this man. Just don't. He's an addict, and he's barely scratched the surface of dealing with his addiction.

The one making the biggest gamble in this episode is Karla, by marrying this dude. Unless he actually got counseling to overcome his addiction, I really hope she didn't marry him. I don't doubt that he went back to his old ways once Gail was gone, but I hope I'm wrong, would love an update on them.

@MomtoZnE

Жыл бұрын

Agree. This one was above Gail’s expertise alone. He needs to get regular counseling for his gambling addiction. I hope he did.

@Imbatmn57

Жыл бұрын

My father ruined my mom's credit by filling out credit card applications in her name, my mom had to file for bankruptcy to get out of it. Marrying people like this will ruin your life.

@carolmeysenburg9675

Жыл бұрын

I’d run away

@gilliantohver3225

Жыл бұрын

@@Imbatmn57 She didn't want to file fraud charges?

@deborahblackvideoediting8697

Жыл бұрын

@@Imbatmn57 - That's so sad. Your poor mom!

There are so many red flags here.

Never marry a person with opposite money habits. It won't work out.

@legzfalloffgirl5148

Жыл бұрын

If you're not on the same team financially, you're a team, full stop. I learned that from this show

Him hoping Gail would be on his side at the beginning was hilarious. There is no universe where she would agree with him.

@lyndagabriel6539

Жыл бұрын

This. It's right in the opener... he sees her as "mom".... easy to hear the unsaid next part of that sentence

@jenniferwang3489

Жыл бұрын

I think he only did it to make some quick cash!!!

@JAH-iu3yh

Жыл бұрын

Word! I can’t believe HE applied to the show😂

I think he’s gotten through life using his smile and charm rather that hard work and self discipline. It never ends well with these guys.

I'm surprised Karla was still with Greg. Dude has a gambling addiction and he seems not willing to really tackle it. $33,000 in gambling debt and Greg's thinking he should be able to pay LESS towards his creditors. No, sir. That's not how this works.

Karla, run. He will ruin you. He won’t change. He will ruin you.

Never ever marry someone with a spending problem. While getting divorced I got to pay half of debts that my ex-wife took on without my knowledge. In an other instance this is known as fraud.

@rainacherienne1010

Жыл бұрын

The day my ex bf asked me to marry him, we talked about finances. It turned out he had a large consumer debt and he thought I also have debt since this is how he lived, by overspending. I never had any debt so throughout our whole relationship I thought he doesn’t have any neither. That was very eye opening, we parted our ways that day.

This is an extremely immature young man this nice woman should run for the hills and never ever marry him gambling is a terrible addiction he'll never get better

Yes, she is a mommy figure. When a man can say that with a straight face, RUN

@valeriemoran842

Жыл бұрын

She is only the mommy because he acts like a toddler

@sandram6828

Жыл бұрын

@@valeriemoran842 Totally agree.

Greg shows duping delight in every interaction. That's a covert smirk from being pleased about tricking the person he is talking to. Pause the video to freeze his face and you can see it. In other words, every interaction is another gamble for him - will he get away with his lies or not? - that's what gives him a thrill. It's just like when he bet against Gail without the cards to back it up. This guy's brain is 100% conditioned to look for the next gamble, not to figure out a way to care for his wife and future child. HOWEVER. At core, he likes to WIN. That's why he excelled at the baby challenge. It was a game to him and he was willing to throw everything he had at it. If that aspect of his mind could be redirected, he could become a guy who excels at everything in his life.

@michelecleansup

Жыл бұрын

I would love to know what happened to him. I wouldn't be surprised if he did get that debt paid off for the sake of the win. It's possible that they could make the marriage work IF she remembers how to motivate him. Personally, I wouldn't have been with him.

@Teenywing

Жыл бұрын

I hate to say this but anyone who has to stop and start the video to confirm “duping delight” (I hate that term) is very out of touch with their personal intuition.

@christinebutler7630

Жыл бұрын

There's a broad streak of sociopathy in Greg's makeup.

@r.brooks5287

Жыл бұрын

@@Teenywing I appreciated the explanation.

@christinebutler7630

Жыл бұрын

In short, he's a bit of a psychopath.

Run as fast as you can and never look back! Never marry anyone that you are not on the same page with when it comes to finances.

Gail was usually smarter than this. She fell for his ploy. Nothing would keep him from getting back into gambling debt immediately. Hope his fiance moved out the next day.

Karla just wanted to be married because why settle for this man

I wouldn't even allow myself to share a cup of coffee with a gambler, they could have you living on the street and I don't do street Life.

@absolutelyridiculous6743

Жыл бұрын

Amen! The only gambling I've ever done are silly scratch off tickets purchased with pocket change lol.

I'm very surprised that Gail gave the approval for Greg to work part time as a poker dealer. Karla voiced the obvious concern exactly: He'd clearly really rather be playing. Would Gail advise an alcoholic to get a part time job as a bartender?

@jillneeld477

Жыл бұрын

Some alcoholics can work as Barkeeps, depends on their spiritual condition and length of sobriety. Gale make the mistake that working as a part time poker dealer might helphim see the error of gambling. I bet like the Alcoholic, dealing poker makes him crave gambling !

@childfreegamer8840

Жыл бұрын

@@jillneeld477 I take it you mean mental. There is no such thing as a spiritual condition. I don't think more delusion will help him.

@raymondcunanan1135

Жыл бұрын

Made sense

@jenem9618

Жыл бұрын

I agree. Gail is great, but she's a financial expert, not necessarily a life expert, and that showed in this episode.

@thicccemogf3488

Жыл бұрын

Plenty of recovering alcoholics/addicts work as bartenders. It’s a rampant problem in our industry. The key word to success for those people is to be RECOVERING. Greg is still in his gambling addiction, so he in no way, shape or form should be near a poker table right now. Not until he has a least a year off gambling.

Look at Karla smiling when she asks for their credit cards and says they have to live on cash. Karla’s like, “I got this!”

I wish therapy was built into budgets somewhere. A lot of these individuals have addictions like gambling, smoking, drinking and shopping and dismal communication skills and parent/child dynamics as couples. Gail is amazing but sometimes you need someone specialized in these issues.

@lexalina132

Жыл бұрын

Completely agree! Add an addiction to poor financial choices and it's a one way ride to ruin! I guess the worry is affording it and whether the couple in questiom actually wants to change for Gail? 🤔

I’d really love an update on this couple! My guess is it didn’t last!

Unfortunately the money in this episode was the symptom of a MUCH larger problem. This one was too big for Gail and I’m pretty sure things didn’t work out for these two.

@absolutelyridiculous6743

Жыл бұрын

I'm hoping they split. I seriously doubt he quit gambling. He hid his addiction once, he will do it again.

I hope she doesn’t marry him. She’ll be in for a lifetime of heartache. 😢

Look at his eyes. He is a master manipulator. Gail was out of her element with this one.

I’m the grandchild of a gambling addict. Dump him. A gambling addict will continue to gamble behind your back as long as they think they can do so without getting caught. After my grandpa became disabled from strokes, my grandma resumed gambling and lost their retirement. Now she’s living off social security after my grandpa passed away a few months after she was forced to retire due to disability.

"That's exactly the girl I was looking for" "I want someone to take care of me" as with the gambling, dude is all about gratification. The good thing is gambling debts can be paid not just with money 😬

@jtidema

Жыл бұрын

I thought that was really weird. Like I don’t want someone who picks me from a picture, without even knowing me. That’s a bit creepy.

@rosemarylindop335

Жыл бұрын

@@jtidema it is weird. Shows he's a narcissist, as they fall in love with the 'image' of you in their head, not the actual person.

This guy really bugs the hell out of me. He is a freaking man child who is using her like she’s his mommy and is going to take care of everything so he can play games all day. He pisses away his money and wants to move on to pissing hers away too. The dupers delight smirks gets are so transparent! He has no intentions of quitting gambling he’s salivating at the $5000 he can go gamble away

He will NEVER stop gambling. He is an addict and needs rehab. Gail needs to address that issue here. That woman needs to RUN….NOW. he will never change unless he gets professional help.

I don’t like the fact that he made extra money by being a gambler dealer so his life is still involving gambling

I really hope that she didn't marry him.

I really hope that Karla didn't go through with the wedding.

I hate people where they are so inept they think its their spouse's job to fix/parent them.

The stresses of marriage and children will absolutely increase the risk of addiction behavior. If he is refusing to give up his vices when the waters of life are pretty still, there is no way he will maintain sobriety during a storm.

@terimiddleton736

8 ай бұрын

There is a chance he could if he gets professional help like gamblers anonymous. Don't marry him for god's sake!!!

Run and Run Fast! This a disaster waiting to happen. Yikes 😱

One word for Karla: RUN !

It’s all fake for this dude. He just excelled in these situations because it was a “challenge”. He reminds me of all the alcoholics I have known, sociopaths! Don’t marry him, girl!

@samanthafreeman4315

Жыл бұрын

Did you like his face when Gayle told him $2000 a month to pay off his debt? He was like, "no way am I paying that. Watch me."

Greg, no disrespect to you. But you're a risk. Someone marrying you with that debt and addiction would have such a negative impact on their mental, emotional, and financial status.

@joycef8443

Жыл бұрын

I agree. I believe that Greg needs treatment for his ADDICTION. GA may work or regular psychotherapy but he needs help. A wife and children do not need to be added to his self destructive ride.

Excellent episode. Gail at the poker table was priceless.

I really want to see where they are in a year. I know a man who went home and told his wife to pack everything up, he had lost the house in a poker game. He did this twice! (Died in a single car accident driving fast as he could on a winding country road). Gambling is an addiction. He needs help.

He is a problem and I hope she doesn’t let him start using her for money

@carojames6776

Жыл бұрын

She needs to take charge of ALL the finances and give him pocket money.

@juditharsenault2131

Жыл бұрын

He is so sweet and good natured, though. He has such a good attitude about the challenge. I can see why she loves him.

@fourthprince1099

Жыл бұрын

@@carojames6776 see but he is an adult, I would just never get married she still has her partner can even have his kids but the money has to be separate and should not help him with his debt. He dug that hole

@fourthprince1099

Жыл бұрын

@@juditharsenault2131 I don’t think he is, what I think he does do it adapt, a gambling addiction is to serious for me to accept good behavior as genuine. He is a poker player… poker face in my mind. However the way he took care of the doll shows he does want the same things she wants and it willing to work but he has to stop gambling. I think even dealing is slippery slop…. Maybe I’m just too suspicious

@purpurina5663

Жыл бұрын

@@juditharsenault2131 I don't see sweetness, I see a "I'm a nice guy" attitude to get out of trouble.

They say gambling is the hardest addiction to over come from, I hope he got help.

Blinded by the guy’s clean shaven good looks. But an addiction is still an addiction. He will always have this devil to fight on the daily. With online gambling, it’s a hard battle. I hope she didn’t marry this guy. He is exactly opposite of him.

Him as a poker dealer is like alcoholic working as a bartender, I have mixed feelings about that.

Oh my God, you've got to leave the guy. You are both so far apart on money, it's a blessing, you're not already married.

A gambler is no better than any other addiction. He will go bankrupt and will still gamble.

This guy is one huge red flag!

The fact that he said he wants Gail to come in and let him continue his gambling. 😂 He needs some professional help for his gambling addiction.

@absolutelyridiculous6743

Жыл бұрын

The delusion with this one is palpable!!

She is the biggest fool for wanting to marry him. If she decides to have a child with him then she will be mothering two children.

She has at least set up this woman's escape route from being permanently tied to this guy and his Gambling addiction/dependency. Obviously if he cannot keep this up in the year before the wedding, it is off. He has a clear set of goals to reach and if he cannot pull it off when the stakes are so clear, she is well rid of him.

RUN! RUN FASTER!

It felt so good to watch this. Thanks for uploading it!

Love Gail! Love Gail’s “Prince$$” and “Til Debt Do Us Part!”

@verolly31

Жыл бұрын

She also hosts Money Morron

@legzfalloffgirl5148

Жыл бұрын

@@verolly31 gotta look that up now

Best thing I did was leave a gambling spouse.

I wouldn’t even get to engagement with someone like this!

I had a dearly loved uncle that was a poker addict. Always looking for loans when he was on a losing streak and the most generous man in the world when he was winning. I'll always remember one time when I was about 19 years old... he asked me for a loan and when I didn't have anything to give he asked my best friend. He was in his fifties. Very sad he came to a couple of kids looking for money. A great guy, but an addict till the day he died.

I wish we could hear the rest of the story. Did he get out of debt?

he lives like he's single

I really feel for Karla who is genuinely invested in their future but that dude has a real addiction problem which he needs therapy for..Karla is taking a huge risk in even considering marrying this man child..she should run 🏃‍♀️ for the hills and safeguard her own money 🙏 if you can’t control his impulses or if she can’t trust him, she needs to dispatch this dude..otherwise she’s going to have a life of struggle..which will be a lot worse if she has his kids as well 😮 he will bleed her dry..if you don’t have trust in a relationship, there is no relationship, period 👍😊

This guy is a full on man child he literally said I like someone to take care of me just wow im flabbergasted

Karla,this man is a joke,I wouldn’t wipe my shoes with him!once a gambler always a gambler,get rid my good lady!!! You will never have trust in him ever!!!

Love these so much! Thank you for uploading!

If these two get married, it would be a big mistake. He's an addict. And, addicts can't just quit like that. He will need professional help, as well as really want to give the gambling up.

At 1:48, he referred to his gambling as his "slot machine gambling career". 😂Yes, career. 😐He's not done with gambling.

I think this is why divorces come about. A couple who know they have unworkable problems planning on marrying.

@jenem9618

Жыл бұрын

Agreed, this happens all the time. Denial, plain and simple. Any incompatibilities you have with the other person are just going to get worse after marriage. That is common knowledge, but people have a tendency to think they're the one exception.

Please somebody research these people and let me know if they got married. I really hope they didn’t.

Karla, Don’t marry this man…. You can’t change him.

Loved her, but hated him. I hope he either completely changed or that they are no longer together.

While his behaviour in the show was surprising and encouraging, that single-minded focus on the baby is a character trait... that kind of focus can as easily apply to gambling again, if there isn't a sustained huge daily change. So I wish them luck.

Gambling is as bad as any other addiction I would address that before saying "I do"!

Letting a gambling addict be a dealer is like letting an alcoholic bartend,………maybe after rehab or counseling….but it’s just too enticing to an addict. Gail dropped the ball here.

@derinaries

Жыл бұрын

No, she didnt. Shes testing him. She is proving that his entire mindset revolves around gambling; which equals an addiction.

@mrs.b.5864

Жыл бұрын

@@derinaries sorry….I disagree…..I’m allowed to have an opinion…it just so happens that it’s not the same as yours.

@derinaries

Жыл бұрын

@@mrs.b.5864 I agree. I was stating MY opinion which disagrees with YOURS. 😊

Karla, you're the real high stakes gambler in this casino of life! Greg is chump change compared to the wager you're placing!

Greg doesn't think he needs to work on getting out of debt - because I guarantee you, he is still thinking that the next bet or a big win will pay it all off - so why bother? I've seen how gambling addicts think and they are delusional. I found Karla online but I can't tell if she married Greg.

A gambler? ..hell no!

This guy is totally selfish centered and immature. She needs to run and run fast. He will gamble again and he will lie again.

If I was Karla, I'd move on, but, I'm not Karla. If she does stay with Greg, I would not marry him for a looong time, until he proves he isn't addicted to gambling, could pay off his debt and could save money. I also would keep our money separate and there is NO WAY I would have joint credit cards with him.

Beautiful red hair

Seeing these videos make me so very happy that I'm single 😁

Gambling is a real addiction, I don't trust that he stay away from it. Don't trust addicts.

Run, Karla! Ruuuunnn!!!!!

Not all junkies have missing teeth and scarred veins, and he’s one of them. I hope she didn’t marry him.

Run girl , run !!!

Remember that movie "Run, Lola, Run"? All I could think during this video was "Run, Karla, Run"!

Gail is out of her depth with a lot of these people. Shopping addictions, cigarettes and booze, gambling - sometimes years of therapy are needed to solve these. In this case, where are clear addiction issues, she should not be in any way encouraging Karla to think that there is a quick fix for Greg. He needs years of a 12 step program and even then he is likely to relapse. I hope Karla found someone else.

I hope she didn’t marry this dude.

She looks like Mary from Downton Abbey ♥️ and wven sounds like her

Gambler's Anonymous can help Greg if he wants the help. His problems run much deeper than the money.

Girl run! and don't look back.

One month does not cure an addiction!!! He needs professional help like a gamblers anonymous meeting. Don't trust him yet I'd put off that wedding for another 3 or 5 years see what happens!!!

Drop him like a hot potato or you’ll always be in debt.

Gorgeous home. Gorgeous wife. I don't believe he is sincere.

They did not look comfortable at the end when Gail mentioned they can use money after their debt is paid off towards having a baby

Is there anyway to see where they are now? She should have never married this guy.

She needs to get a life insurance on him that's minimum a million dollars make the payments monthly have some kind of clause in there if he gets murdered or suicide or whatever she still gets the money and just call it a day.🖤

@sarahnorment

Жыл бұрын

Wait, are you implying what I think you're implying? 😂😂😂

@ManifestingShrink

Жыл бұрын

Insurance doesn’t pay out for suicide I don’t think

@joycef8443

Жыл бұрын

Most life insurance will pay out after a couple of years if there was suicide. Shop around

@purpurina5663

Жыл бұрын

Problem is if he gets into serious trouble they can go after her. She's not just putting her finances at risk.

@pamelahaze3211

Жыл бұрын

Life insurance can be deadly.. I ain't having it.

Karla seems to be talking thru clenched teeth in the intro. She is pissed!

It doesn't say if they're renting or buying a house but if they are buying I hope it's in her name and not his

Here we have another women with a gambling addict and again, am wondering what are these women doing with man like this? Love is the only answer i have. Gambling addiction is still an addiction. The compulsive element is very much a thing and if that's not properly addressed, you are just putting a bandaid on the problem.

Run Carla

33 years old. 33 thousand debt. .. earned 914 and 33 cents. Lots of 33 in this episode lol funny/weird cause I always see 33