How We Say No Matters | Liz Marasco | TEDxBoulder

Scholars in conversation analysis have known for a long time that we try to avoid using the word 'no'. We rely on a number of other linguistic resources to 'say no' in order to save face. So why is this word necessary in one very specific, high-stakes situation? Liz Marasco has Master of Arts in Linguistics from CU Boulder where she specialized in conversation analysis. She believes opportunity and vulnerability exist in every interaction. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

Пікірлер: 17

  • @davekrieger3202
    @davekrieger32026 жыл бұрын

    Brilliant talk. You made it so clear. I want to read or hear what you write next.

  • @theofficialkenleyokerlund2945

    @theofficialkenleyokerlund2945

    6 жыл бұрын

    Dave Krieger she's my cousin😁

  • @DanNitroClark1
    @DanNitroClark16 жыл бұрын

    Enjoyed this. Thanks Liz!

  • @theofficialkenleyokerlund2945

    @theofficialkenleyokerlund2945

    6 жыл бұрын

    Liz is my cousin😁

  • @alexysgonzales748
    @alexysgonzales7485 жыл бұрын

    This was SO great!

  • @Vivita257
    @Vivita2574 жыл бұрын

    So? What's the advice? And she only refers to dealing with partners when the inability to say No affects all sorts of relationships.

  • @hollyjarmstrong
    @hollyjarmstrong6 жыл бұрын

    So good and important! Thanks, Liz!

  • @theofficialkenleyokerlund2945

    @theofficialkenleyokerlund2945

    6 жыл бұрын

    Holly Armstrong she's my cousin 😁

  • @hollyjarmstrong

    @hollyjarmstrong

    6 жыл бұрын

    Lucky you!

  • @aaronstarkauthor
    @aaronstarkauthor6 жыл бұрын

    So well done! You did fantastic

  • @theofficialkenleyokerlund2945

    @theofficialkenleyokerlund2945

    6 жыл бұрын

    AaronStarkAuthor Liz Is my cousin

  • @mariaelenabartesaghi6322
    @mariaelenabartesaghi63224 жыл бұрын

    Great video! Perfect for undergrad and grad discourse analysis classes. But please, data = plural noun.

  • @joesmilk3492
    @joesmilk34922 жыл бұрын

    I was told when I tell people to stop that I don't sound like I mean it. And when I say it, I don't even say "stoooooop!" Or "nooooo!" They only stop when I use violence. So I've just taken to threats. But now everyone knows I won't follow up on those threats and I don't have an answer to sounding like I mean it.

  • @vcg4157
    @vcg41576 жыл бұрын

    wowww !!

  • @theofficialkenleyokerlund2945

    @theofficialkenleyokerlund2945

    6 жыл бұрын

    vianeth cg she's my cousin

  • @SirBalls
    @SirBalls6 жыл бұрын

    6th

  • @mv8564
    @mv85644 жыл бұрын

    Waste of time imo