Also make your personal life a haven where you don't need the girl. She is just a bonus.

@MarighnamaniMr

5 жыл бұрын

Yo

@heythere276

4 жыл бұрын

If my life is heaven , why would i need a girl ?

@jsingh6851

4 жыл бұрын

What if there is no bonus 😒

@bouteldjachamssedine798

3 жыл бұрын

Boooo , a time will come at your life when you will need to feel love keep thinking like shit and saying she's a bonus im a guy and i dont really agree with you little boy

@blackdesertcat

3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely

⚠️ GUYS, REMEMBER, if she’s testing you and pulling back that means SHES CONSIDERING YOU AS A POTENTIAL PARTNER. Consider that a compliment, breathe, and relax... she WILL come back⚠️

@motivationda2067

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks

@lordmoki18

2 жыл бұрын

Needed this ⬆️

@galacticscoundrel6390

2 жыл бұрын

Nope.

@randomaccount8086

2 жыл бұрын

that's the dumbest shit I've ever heard.

@Alenoir88

5 ай бұрын

Not always this is true, sometimes they don't come back, so let them leave if they come back good, if not it's also good so don't attach and keep checking your options.

Minimal contact maximises attraction. When you do contact her make sure it is valuable. Less is certainly more.

“When you’re talking to a girl, have some chitchat, but then ask her out!” As hilarious and straightforward as this advice might seem, nobody ever told me this. My god I’ve been an idiot…

I know it sounds cliche but I really wish I'd known this information thirty years ago. You younger men should pay close attention to what Chris is saying. He is 100 percent spot on with this stuff so practice what he's telling you and avoid some serious heartache!

@hardtopart3346

4 жыл бұрын

Yes right.. I'm over 40 and watch it with real interest.. those advices just blow my mind up.. I remember some girls that didn't want my love, attention and care.. crazy but true

@kobzster06

4 жыл бұрын

You guys never heard of Doc Love? He was a relationship expert who became really popular in the early 2000's. He was THE first relationship expert to revolutionize men's dating by stressing the concept of not appearing needy. Back then cell phones weren't as huge as they are now comparatively speaking, but Doc Love stressed the importance of minimizing contact with a woman and appearing aloof. For example, if a woman gave you her number or you went on her with a date, never call her back immediately or even the next day. Wait at least a week before calling her back. He had other variations of this theme, including no gifts on dates and no "I love you's," the main idea being never appearing needy or eager to please a woman. I certainly like and appreciate this channel and the information given, but there was certainly similar advice decades ago like I pointed out. It is nothing new.

@bahaatamer1245

4 жыл бұрын

I feel fortunate to be just 22 with a bank of knowledge about girls!

@MP-ct8em

4 жыл бұрын

@@bahaatamer1245 yes you sure are I just turned 28 I feel blessed with this knowledge

@krazzyvibestv8657

4 жыл бұрын

Ey thanks

Simple trick if a girl doesn't text first after u initiate texting, walk away, she isn't going to be worth your while.

She can't test you if she's the one chasing you. To convince her to do so, you need to stay centered in your masculine core!

When you're unattractive to that person, she will make it difficult for you guys to be together. You should embrace masculinity and be what you should be. But even then, things may not go your way. Accept that as well.

Men get anxiety because they think with logic. They know u have ur phone and try to figure out why no response. Like a math equation. If men and women were subjects in school, men would be math and science, women would be English. Pure logic versus pure communication

@2269drew

4 жыл бұрын

Women would be more like theater class

@freddiehall6433

4 жыл бұрын

@@2269drew very factual

@michaelscott6216

3 жыл бұрын

So if women think with emotions then use that against them

@nocturnaltenebris1168

2 жыл бұрын

women be break time amiright fellas

She didnt responsed my message around 1 month. After that she called me to go out and I sayed I m busy. Thanks

@sachinumax9440

4 жыл бұрын

Told her*

@srujancoolguy1202

4 жыл бұрын

what she said then

@ozkantw986

4 жыл бұрын

@@srujancoolguy1202 She laughed little bit with nerveous way and said okey. After 1-2 weeks she is in park with her friends and I was walking that park with my friend , she saw me and I saw her . I waved my hand slowly like I dont care . She was shocked xD

@oatsuzn

4 жыл бұрын

@@ozkantw986 good job!

@thatsfreaky9603

3 жыл бұрын

Good going for no simp September

Folks , she will return even after 5 years , if she wants to. Just stay normal with her. Just be yourself.

Overesponsive men seem desperate to women. I stopped texting a girl after she became unresponsive. Months of nothing, me moving on w my life and possibly her with hers. 6 months later she's the one who initiates the conversation by sending me a text....

@gambit_toys6554

6 жыл бұрын

Same happened to me after 6 months!

@80sday36

6 жыл бұрын

When she holds for more than a month, means she lining you up. You can test her back by making her eat her medicine, let her wait for six months, and see what happen. And please don't wait her to respond until months, approach other women as soon as possible, everyday if necessary. I guarantee you are the one who loose attraction over her, not the other way around, especially when she hold it for over six months, even just over three days.

@MarighnamaniMr

5 жыл бұрын

NICE!! Take her out asap ;)

@fredflinstone8750

5 жыл бұрын

At that point it’s over why go back to a dead end

@dnangel4277

4 жыл бұрын

simon dubya My exact scenario at the moment!

Change your mindset, trust your girlfriend. Neediness and insecurity is simply indirectly telling your girlfriend you don't trust her.

I like the fact you back your claims with both colloquial and scientific evidence. Good shit 🤙🏿

@sucram1015

5 жыл бұрын

Yeah it lets you know he's not making this up. I watch a video not to long ago and he basically said the same thing. He said he's not making this up, this is backed up by studies and research and I've seen and experienced it first hand.

Women test even when you’re married to them. I was married before and my ex tested me till the end of the marriage. Good thing I was always ready to pass it

@krishnamajumdar8987

4 жыл бұрын

Hahaha 🤣🤣🤣

videos are honestly so good

I'm going through this right now and this is a good advice. Thanks, man!

Love your videos bro!!!

Thank you for easing my anxiety during the hard times I go through atm

Love this guy calm on to the point doesnot insult anybody great work my friend keep it going

This guy is the most powerful adviser in the world

Never ever double text a woman.

This guy always makes me feel good!

This guys been a legend 🏆

Chris you deserve a Noble Prize. Thanks mate.

This is a great channel... why? The advice is backed by science. There's no gimmick in this advice. And I've seen it all. But back to my main point.. advice backed by science is fact based... so it's highly focused on what you can actually change in a measurable way.

U say many good things.. the no contact rule works the most...

I like hearing this guy. Keep this up man.

Bottom line: Alot of women constantly waste guy's time, stringing guys along!!!

@XxChuyoxX

3 жыл бұрын

But guys need to be aware of this and know how to respond.

@HungryDraco1771

Жыл бұрын

Never give women free attention.

This man is master in this hope you get millions followers brother

Thank you

This is 100 % true. I remember matching with a girl on Tinder and we started talking .Eventually we exchanged our numbers and social media profiles. After a while I realized she was texting me back in a second every single time and that was the only reason I backed away from actually meeting her. I would go out,and she would text me how em I doing ? When I get back I text her back,of how my night went and as soon as I sent the text,I could already see her texting back. Is a huge turn off. Be busy,do your thing but even if you are not busy. Do not responds so fast.

@justinc2625

3 жыл бұрын

that advice is for dudes, you are too much in demand seems like :) haha man your comment made me laugh. thank you

@armin38822

3 жыл бұрын

@@justinc2625 not that much in demand but I just dont want to hook up with a person thats so into me even before we meet. Space is important

@empowermentplan5476

Жыл бұрын

That’s strange asf as a man… I consider it somewhat an achievement if a girl text me like that… the only problem is that if she continues texting after we smash and signals escalation of relationship.. that’s what am I facing now…

I’ve done everything wrong lol. Video much needed

Here is my communications policy for women I am sleeping with: give a minimal amount of security and emotional validation via text - she can text and send 10 minute rambling voice messages all she wants, and those are cute, but my job is to filter through all the crap and focus on the important parts - logistics. I avoid discussing feelings or problems any more than is necessary, and stay focused on our future plans. I am not obligated to respond to every question or topic she brings up - I just choose the ones that relate to logistics and planning, and respond to them. When we are together in an intimate space; then she gets the pillow talk and the mushy stuff - feelings, problems, whatever, but only face to face. It is direct, and real, and far more emotionally stimulating than any text you could send. This makes it clear to her that if she wants the good stuff, she has to earn it by showing up and getting into bed. If you are texting a girl 100 times a day with love hearts and smiley faces, you are cutting the chase and giving up the validation for free, and she will naturally come to see your affection as cheap and worthless. Before long she will be pulling away and you will find yourself demoted to the friend zone with all the other chumps on her contacts list. Women love value. You need to give her a taste, an appetiser if you will, but then make it clear through your actions that she must follow through and show up with the red panties on if she wants the main course. In the age of Tinder and dating apps, a woman's phone is a constant source of free validation - you need to demonstrate that your validation comes at a price and is therefore more valuable than anybody else's.

@gandalfspeaks64

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for writing this out. Well said

@davidwhite206

9 күн бұрын

My man. The KZread comment section is a goldmine. That is why I read through it often. The videos are great, but the real meat and potatoes are in the comments.

thanks, wish i knew this before

Waiting for a lifetime for a girl to text you back is a rather poetic concept

@amalpsunny

4 жыл бұрын

She will give you a cold response ;) and you will waste your time

@heythere276

4 жыл бұрын

There are more useful things in life.. becoming a womanizer or a texting expert isn't one of them

it works ......! thanks dude ! i'll be married

This is so true.

Chris was referring to me. I am that guy who mailed him.

@Uday.chavan

6 жыл бұрын

Pepe the Frog congrats

@bojackhorseman7493

6 жыл бұрын

uday chavan wat for?

@lol6434

3 жыл бұрын

@@bojackhorseman7493 for getting his attention and help. By this several other people are also getting help.

Thanks bro

thanks

You are my hero rigth now.

Damn, thanks bro

Long distance is especially a minefield. Fine balance between communication and over pursuing

This guy is the coach King of King. He needs more subscribers, he's the best on KZread, I am telling you for real guys. Follow him.

good advice!

This my problem 🤦🏾‍♂️

Hey dude, I will have to try the techniques that you are driving home in these videos, just out of curiosity. I wonder whether they work for older guys and gals (I am highly aged). There's 2 women whom I have encountered recently, and I sense that I connected with them quite well. Sadly, the pandemic has shut down the restaurant where one of them is employed. There's also a fitness babe at my local fitness center whom I like; but it, too, has been closed by the pandemic. She will be more of a challenge.

I love Chris videos more than any other channel. My wife had affair and I became anxious and insecure I’m a different man now. I realize I was alpha before, But long term marriage and someone giving tournwife attention at work is a crap shoot- married woman and single moms are the easiest to cheat/ pick up

@blair5475

Жыл бұрын

You are still married?

Sooo is attraction is all about making the other person needy for you?

What i did with one this week was just texting her to comunicate the place and time where I was gonna meet her, it end up really good

"You don't wanna text her to death" 😂

Yea same happened with me

Over text your guy friends and expect a quick reponse...they'll distance themselves too.

@mrcool665

4 жыл бұрын

Sounds like a form of manipulation

What do I do when a girl says she wants to get to know me before going on a date? How do I keep texting minimal then?

We better start using pegions to send messages so we will understand what is patience 🤣

Hello , Can we have a video about women and their astrological sign ? Does it have an impact ? Is it real ? Thank you for sharing with us your expertise

@DevelopAttraction

Жыл бұрын

Watch out for scorpios 🦂

I agree with trying to meet the girl right away face-to-face so how do you meet her face-to-face without telling her that you’re attracted to her? I pretty much with every woman that I talked to tell them that I think that they’re attractive and usually they say thank you and when I ask them if they want to get together most the time they say yes

@blair5475

Жыл бұрын

Just ask her out, no need to her she's attractive... she already knows that.

What should I do in the meantime while i let her get back to me?

Please cite the sources to the research! Include the DOI if you have to

If a girl doesn't text you back, it's because she forgot about you and she has 100s of guys in her message box wanting to go out with her.

Is there a video when its finally time to let her go and you still think about her years after when its hard to stop thinking about her is there something like that from this guy please send me a link

Phone calls are better than texts not sure why people still text nowadays have people forgotten that phone calls are another tool to communicate

I wish I watched this 1 year earlier

Thanks for making a video on how to not fall into traps for WOMEN 💜👍🤣🤣🤣

When should you assume low interest? she takes hours to respond and recently she just stopped all together. I am going to meet other women but when should you just assume she doesnt like you?

@TacticalxRecon

5 жыл бұрын

I walked up to her in the streets, had great conversations, gave me her number then this. Test or Low interest?

In the days of landlines before texting and before email, it was much worse for men, because parents or roommates could, at any moment, destroy a budding friendship by not relaying a call or making it look like that is what happened. You mostly couldn't get a word in edgewise about why someone should see you unless you somehow charmed her brother or grandpa. Or you went to the sorority house in person where you would either win your case or look really really bad in front of others who may have been better as friends to meet . And for what? Maybe you wanted to hang out with one person so you could meet someone else through her, but since your intentions were assumed to be sex or romance with that one individual whom everyone knew you were trying to get in touch with, you'd look bad all around. Email and messaging gave men the power to make their intentions clear and to make their case *privately*. This goes against the video saying your intentions should be unclear. If she's not responsive, she's already assuming your intentions, however. A man can now say he wants an introduction to her friend, not her, for instance. None of that nuance was really possible in the past.

I have stopped cared if she text me back, i let her take the next step. If not, bad for her. Like i saw in another video, a girl always come back in one time or another, try to have faight 👍

"Why did you ignore me!?" Bro that's such an accusation.

Also they test. Bc some men get angry and will physically attack women if they are not at their beck and call

@zackpolanko5764

6 жыл бұрын

Thomas, that is a great reason that makes a lot of sense!! Thanks, buddy!!! So, in the end we discovered that shit tests are actually useful and serve a purpose!

@gambit_toys6554

6 жыл бұрын

zackpolanko glad it resonates with you! We have all occasionally spoken with other men that show aggression but feign niceness like us.

@zackpolanko5764

6 жыл бұрын

Thomas, indeed!

Good for me that I found this video in my early 20s, now I can be more a wild confident man.

Tell these women you’ve got better things to do then them, they eat it up!

Who the fuck is constantly disliking the videos?

how responsive is too responsive, I respond but maybe once a day (not as common, usually several days) to every 3 days, when I can, I'm not sitting there chit chatting all day everyday but if I can reply once a day I will occasionally (not all the time), when I take like 3 days they always respond fast and I feel kind of bad not replying within a day or so if they do respond fast. Am I texting right atm? I never double text, if I get left on seen I leave her alone until I get a message back, it doesn't matter what girl, I always do lol. if I get sent 5 messages ill send like 3 small ones back is that wrong? It'd be nice to get some clarity on this as I've seen quite a few of your videos but I'm a little confused on this as I don't want to come across as a dead fish like you say in some other videos.

@XavierY828

11 ай бұрын

I would say you are overdoing the unresponsiveness a bit

even i have turned off my crush ,now what should i do to rebuild the attraction?

@Uday.chavan

6 жыл бұрын

Sankalp Haldankar same question

Hey Chris! You look better and more professional wearing tailored button-up shirts like that one than wearing a V-neck T-shirt with a suit jacket on top..

@TacticalxRecon

6 жыл бұрын

But man the V-neck suit jacket combo is the the canwell classic hahaha

@jnava1427

6 жыл бұрын

Who gives a fuck! He's a KZreadr geez

@michaelramirez4162

6 жыл бұрын

Tactical x Recon That`s true haha

Step 1: be attractive

From 2:35, exactly what happened to me.

Can you make a video on testosterone whether masturbation reduces it

@absG290

6 жыл бұрын

Ayoub Zahiri nah girls masturbate me

@markwanchik1783

6 жыл бұрын

Take more zinc, Do sqauts

@DevelopAttraction

6 жыл бұрын

Excessive masturbation does reduce testosterone and kills desire to take action. I'll make a vid on this later.

Its easy send her a text saying "baby come to bed" there

After how many minute we should reply ? :) ( Please Reply🙏🙂 ) Need help 🙂🥀

@janmeshsharma4068

3 жыл бұрын

Not just minutes...but an hour or two

I fucking hate texting

If she hasnt responded in a day, is she testing or not interrested?

@oliverallen5324

5 жыл бұрын

stop caring.

@nothanks8349

4 жыл бұрын

Her knees went red.

@RevRumble_

3 жыл бұрын

Both

hlo I wanna ask my gf last month broke up with me she forgive me but now she says that she has no feelings for me and last week I call her and we have a smooth conversation but she says she talks with me once in a week so should I now use no contact rule to build re attraction or continue the conversation with her

@sucram1015

5 жыл бұрын

Since she said that she has no feelings for you(no attraction) and she's only talking or talked to you once a week(which ever one it is) and your wondering what you should do to rebuild attraction. Here's the thing...she's already stated her having no attraction for you, and she's only talked or talking to you once a week. Move on with your life and focus on yourself and forget about her. She has no feelings for you(as she's stated) and yes implement the no contact but remember she has no feelings for you at all(unless she's testing you) but still whether she's testing you or really doesn't have feelings for you anymore, move on with your life and don't worry about her. If she contacts you don't become needy, remain calm, cool, and collected. Don't put her on a pedestal.

@nothanks8349

4 жыл бұрын

Why bother? There's plenty more fish in the sea.

@jakemf1

4 жыл бұрын

Never chase move on- best of luck

❤️

👍🏻

Be dump n dont care she will love you more

I agree with everything with the exception of just sending 1 text message to a girl and waiting a lifetime. If after 1 text message she doesn't respond wait awhile but if you never hear back sometimes it takes another text message or 2 before she responds. You have to show that your interested if not she will never get back with you.

@jarrettthomas4865

6 жыл бұрын

I agree. But there is a fine line with that

@sucram1015

5 жыл бұрын

Doing that is still displaying neediness, over pursuing, insecurities, and desperation.

Well now i realize i do all the bad moves.. Now she lose interest in me..

@guyver77

4 жыл бұрын

Lost* not lose

Borrowing

Would she test a Celebrity? I guess yes...

I’ve been texting chit chat to girls all my life like a little bitch 😩😩😩

She ignores my message , but after no contact she posted on her facebook that she is interested in me , what my supposed to do , do I comment or text her?

@lightworker28

5 жыл бұрын

Stop caring honestly,meet up in person

When I have to tell my crush that I like her.?? Someone explain

@DevelopAttraction

6 жыл бұрын

You don't tell her that you like her. You kiss her and touch her and show her through body language and action. Less talk, more action!

@Uday.chavan

6 жыл бұрын

Develop Attraction inshort, when I meet her I have to flirt. Next I have to text simple message like great meeting.. and set another date.. again flirt. Same rule again. But never show her in chatting conversation that i like her. Only show her personally.. is it good Chris.?

@michaelramirez4162

6 жыл бұрын

You are awesome giving advice Chris!

@djremix8503

6 жыл бұрын

Develop Attraction I texted a girl I know one time only her name and waited for her to answer so that I would’ve continued on with the conversation but she never replied. It has been 3 months now. And the weird thing is that the next time I met her she was the one who stared at me first and then we said hi and I complemented her sunglasses and she too and then she said she had to go somewhere where a friend of hers was waiting as we were together. What shall I do in texting her or when meeting her again ?? Please just tell me what does this mean and please tell me what to do or give me an advice. Thanks in advance

@dhruv261

5 жыл бұрын

Develop Attraction so true Chris. But what should we do if we are in a long distance relationsip ? We cannot kiss , touch etc.. Here we can just do texting , voice msg , video call or voice call. In this situation how to show her that i love her too much. Pls help Chris. I'm in depression. Help me out brother 😕🙏

😆👍😆

this information not work for lgbt

@DevelopAttraction

Жыл бұрын

Obviously

😆😆😆

Tell women nothing.

On the other hand, just MGTOW.

So we cant tell her she is sexy via text....absurd. Thats nice guy behavior