This is life changing. I’ve been a chronic procrastinator even though it results in so much anxiety and self hatred. I was told that I procrastinate because “I don’t care enough,” or because I’m “Lazy,” when actually I’m a huge over-thinker. I get completely paralysed by my own mind and the sense that if I think about it enough I’ll be more prepared. Submitting is letting go of your thoughts, your attachment and just focusing on the act. It completely simplifies it in a way that makes it less daunting

@CardinalTreehouse

10 ай бұрын

Check out neurodivergence, it explains a lot of this.

@prapanthebachelorette6803

10 ай бұрын

@@CardinalTreehouse both of you guys are right

@snuppl512

10 ай бұрын

Same here man...

@sanoifsiuanb

9 ай бұрын

Perfectionism 🫠

@medzahra9405

7 ай бұрын

@@sanoifsiuanb can you a little bit developp how it related to perfectionnism

I can't articulate how effective this man is at articulation and communication, he's phenomenal to listen to.

@wantedpwner

Жыл бұрын

There is pauzing in his talking (pause pause pause) and there is EMPHASIS in the WORDS he is trying to make sure you HEAR CLEARLY. (pause pause pause). These are common TACTICS, but also nice is the fact (pause pause) that he is able to SPEAK without STUTTERING (pause) and talking in such a fluent way.

@peace_larva

Жыл бұрын

IKR!!

@goodlifesince90

Жыл бұрын

Hard work = excellence

@shuibabdullah4932

Жыл бұрын

he really is

@kipptrummel2476

Жыл бұрын

and thank gawd every other word isn't "like" or "um"

My dad is in his mid 70s and has worked out (nearly) daily for 40 years. When I asked him how he had the motivation, he said “I don’t. I turn off my brain and I drive to the gym. I don’t let myself think one thought, I just go. Then once I’m there I get it done and I feel better.” He’s in such great physical health and it’s helped his mental health too. It still took me a long time to follow his advice, but when I do it really does work.

@zayedahmed2009

Ай бұрын

thats amazing man, thank you for sharing

It has taken me years to internalize that it's actually my anxiety that causes all of the "Ugh, I don't want to do this thing, it's going to be so hard, it's going to take me forever" thoughts of procrastination, and now that I know what it is, I find myself acknowledging these thoughts and what they are and then letting them go so I can just get to work. It's been a game-changer.

@philthad8906

Жыл бұрын

Hi there. You do the work now, just by beeing aware of those thoughts? It sounds so easy.

@sparkymularkey6970

Жыл бұрын

@@philthad8906 Hello! Like I said, it's taken me a long time to finally get here, and I still struggle with it from time to time. But what makes this mindset shift work so well for me is that it takes my attention away from the anxious thoughts themselves and instead places it on the awareness of my own mental workings. Instead of being trapped by thoughts of "ahhh, I don't want to do this, it's going to be so hard," I now think, "Oh, this is just my anxiety. It's not real. I don't actually know if it will be hard to do because I haven't even done it yet. Let me find out for myself."

@philthad8906

Жыл бұрын

@@sparkymularkey6970 Thanks for the reply. Good that you found a strategy to get into action =)

@jewelsking4756

6 ай бұрын

Have you ever looked into ADHD testing ?

@sparkymularkey6970

6 ай бұрын

@@jewelsking4756 I did! And it turns out that I am a textbook example of ADHD. 😅 I'm on medication and it has been helping, for sure.

"You can escape from your responsibility, but you cannot escape from the consequences of escaping from your responsibility."

@Roddy556

3 ай бұрын

That's good

I am French, with no talent for foreign languages. I was actually pretty bad at it. In 2020, I started watching these videos, first to take control of my life, then to improve my understanding of English, which was catastrophic. And today, this is the first video that I can listen to completely and understand the meaning, without any subtitles. So I just want to thank you. Thanks to your work, I'm getting better at different things : organization, getting things done, cutting out the mental… and english. It was unexpected for me, so sincerely : thank you for these quality contents. I wanted to understand them, so that motivated me.

@Igloo5555

Жыл бұрын

You seemed to have written that with very articulate grammar, I believe no punctuation mistakes and spelled everything correctly! That’s tremendous progress for just under 2 years work and having “no talent for languages”!

@kornel9093

Жыл бұрын

Based comment. 👍

@SirShmoopyofAwesometon

Жыл бұрын

Most people who speak english as their first language have a difficult time understanding it and do not write as well as you did in your comment, so kudos to you.

@Ma-rh7fd

Жыл бұрын

@@SirShmoopyofAwesometon Ahah I checked several times before posting this comment… And I'm not sure it's perfect.

@Ma-rh7fd

Жыл бұрын

@@SirShmoopyofAwesometon I didn't know "kudos", thank for this new word :)

**Saves to watch later list**

@lym3250

Ай бұрын

Did you watch it ?

@megharajesh9013

22 күн бұрын

watch it now

@kelvinalmeda5999

9 сағат бұрын

Same

@zadeeen

4 сағат бұрын

I know, I was tempted to turn it off🤣

You didn't say it explicitly, but this made me think of the concept of letting go of our ego. My ego holds me back from doing things I know are beneficial in exchange for instant pleasure. I need to feel bigger than I am, and this makes me unable to relax into my obligations. I love the idea of submitting in this context, that's a real game changer. Awesome stuff as usual!

@k.vandaele851

Жыл бұрын

Take a look at Eckhart Tolle if the topic of losing your ego interests you.

@philthad8906

Жыл бұрын

And how are you doing so far with this method presented in the video?

@balintvarga5146

Жыл бұрын

That's a really good point as well, the ego. Facing that cognitive dissonance of "I could have and should have done this earlier" feels bad, that's when we need to be honest and forgiving with ourselves.

@wedeservedit

7 ай бұрын

@@k.vandaele851power of now completely changed my life

@likhithmanjunath7213

6 ай бұрын

Very similar to the concepts in the book Creativity by Osho. Erase the ego, and let the Inner Intelligence make the spontaneous, intelligent and creative decisions.

One small line from your video that I think should be emphasized more here is that sense of euphoria when you actually "submit" to doing the scary or hard thing. Its just such a rewarding rush of accomplishment that only fuels and accelerates your willingness to continue to do it more and more. After standing on the cliff staring down for so long, psyching yourself out, when you finally plunge into the cold water the surge of dopamine and "I-can-do-this-ness" is such an empowering feeling for getting over this mental block. As always Joey, fantastic video. Thank you for articulating these ideas so well,

@StreetHierarchy

Жыл бұрын

Freak.

@zDuality

Жыл бұрын

Nice point.

@miguialvarez

Жыл бұрын

In my case, after doing the scary or hard thing, I don’t feel euphoria. I see that it wasn’t that hard ore scary at all, and that there wasn’t no reason to be scared and putting it off and procrasrinate around. Actually, it makes me sad, to see afterwards all the energy and time I wasted procrastinating.

@PipeScholar

Жыл бұрын

Good point, well said

@elchristianez_

Жыл бұрын

@@miguialvarez Actually yeah, I totally get where you're coming from here. I guess there's quite a distinction between doing a hard thing that you know you have to do, and one that you want to do. The euphoria usually comes from the latter, but I think the sense of accomplishment can still help drive to conquer the former.

What a wonderful take on the "just do it" mentality. Sometimes you already know the answer but need to hear it in a different way. Really appreciate this, thank you for all you do.

@W0lskaap

Жыл бұрын

Agreed, 'just do it' sounds like you have to force yourself, 'submit' makes it easier in that you don't have to overpower your procrastinating mind, you just give in to what you already know you should do.

@webbedshadow2601

Жыл бұрын

100%, well said 🙏

Imagine how many people mentally escaped clicking on this video

This video couldn't have had better timing. I am working on an assignment due today and had 15 days to work on it. Every single time I do this, which is every single time, I ask myself why. I had time to work on it throughout the past two weeks, but I wasted time complaining, worrying about it, and regretting not being more productive. Not only that, it is something I have chosen to do, and I even enjoy it, but I still procrastinate. The idea of submitting to the discomfort first to enjoy the reward later (playing video games, watching a movie, or THIS video) really appeals to me. I'll watch this video once a week until the idea sinks in. Now, I'll get back to my assignment.

@Lyonessi

Жыл бұрын

Did you indeed get back to your assignment?

@A.Peacock

Жыл бұрын

@@Lyonessi They might be to busy to reply. Doing that assignment perhaps.

@Lyonessi

Жыл бұрын

@@A.Peacock they might've come to realise they're not who they could be because of wasted time on KZread, sold their belongings, moved off the grid and is extensively finishing all the assignments they never completed.

@j.jarvis7460

Жыл бұрын

The biggest reason I couldn’t do assignments is because I didn’t even know where to begin. The entire trip from beginning to end had no structure and until you find how structure your assignments/find a system you’ll feel the same way. It sucks and I hated it.

To be honest, I already knew all of this, but I forgot. Desperately needed this reminder. I can actually remember now how I used to think about things that I would tend to want to procrastinate. I guess I kind of realized that there were two sides of my brain that were battling about procrastination, and I realized that while it FEELS easier to procrastinate, its actually just as easy to, as you put it, submit to your rational, disciplined side. Thank you sir for what you do it really helps.

@socialfreak2

7 ай бұрын

Here to remind you ❤

@currentfps160

7 ай бұрын

@socialfreak2 thank you!!! I forgot again

@socialfreak2

7 ай бұрын

@@currentfps160 NP! :)

@socialfreak2

7 ай бұрын

@@currentfps160 NOW DO WHATEVER U NEED TO DO!!! LIKE RN 👍YOU CAN DO THIS I BELIEVE IN YOU!!! :D

i like the reverse videos of him showing us what not to do, makes me feel very insecure when i reflect on my past and present.

@HAHA-kk2xy

Жыл бұрын

Lol

@andrxid9548

Жыл бұрын

@@kingsly3690 same, can't find any answers to that for some reason

@Theguywithspectacles

Жыл бұрын

@@kingsly3690 which slave-

@liammeharry

Жыл бұрын

Fear as a motivator only works for so long

@jimkon1479

7 ай бұрын

And it makes the viewer ask "do you see yourself in this situation?"

It takes me some courage to watch your videos because they always make me question my lifestyle and call me out for not living the life I'd like to live. Thank you so much, your content is authentic and helping me become a better person.

@RachelWeeping

5 ай бұрын

Compared to what?

I recently fell into a deep hole in my life, overwhelmed with financial insecurity and a general disdain for the position I currently am in my life. I felt hopeless, almost falling into the deepest pit of despair. When this video showed up on my feed, it changed my life in a way. I realized I had all the resources to turn things around and felt motivated to make a change and developed a more positive attitude towards making decisions that were good for me. Thank you for all the hard work you put into your videos. You really make a huge difference in so many people's lives and that is really meaningful. Many young people these days living on their own don't have proper access to therapy or emotional supports and in a way your videos help some people go through their own healing journey.

@RachelWeeping

5 ай бұрын

I'll wager my pit of despair is deeper than yours. Hell, I had to have an elevator installed just to get out once in a while.

Everything I ever achieved in my life was done with minimal reflection. Overthinking just makes everything harder and held me down. Thank you for this video it reminds me to just go on and not waste my time with rumination.

@RachelWeeping

5 ай бұрын

Rumination GOOD WORD

@bunk95

5 ай бұрын

Are you a slave?

I once read this idea from psychology which stated we seek distraction, thus escape, on purpose. Why? Well, in one of my videos I explained how we prefer to keep ourselves busy to avoid uncomfortable feelings rather than facing reality. But I believe in the long run the pain of regret is higher than of facing discomfort for a short moment by taking action. This is what I remind myself of everytime I'm avoiding the thing I should be doing.

@Justineyedia

Жыл бұрын

"Rather than be void of purpose, man will make the void his purpose" Nietzsche

@chanhnguyen81

Жыл бұрын

It depends on the situation and the action too. I believe people usually escape reality or do silly things to avoid having to face difficult encounters because of trauma or bad experience in the past, or due to a lack of interest in what they are doing. Also taking action is pretty vague because I agree that being distracted and not being able to finish a task and feeling guilt, later on, is way different from making a life-changing decision such as deciding to propose to someone, quitting your job to start a business, etc... it's not simply as "Just do it" just because.

@mostafa275

Жыл бұрын

"You can escape from your responsibility, but you cannot escape from the consequences of escaping from your responsibility."

@pentree986

Жыл бұрын

Knowledge that we likely will regret in the future won't necessarily make you take action in the present though. What's the solution?

@youmakemespeak3t

10 ай бұрын

It's because if you realize you exist and you are so focused on your reality. You'll go crazy

You have literally changed my life and perception of reality with this video. I've struggled with depression and anxiety for many years, which made me live in a state of constant worry and fixation on past and future events. I would always be tensed up and would strain my throat just to speak since I was never relaxed. This is because I was "fighting" the negative feelings of discomfort in my body and mind. After you said the word "submission", what I thought to be my reality just shattered, as I actually let myself accept everything and repeat in my mind that "I'm gonna be ok". It's a very liberating feeling, as for the first time in years I am feeling connected to the present and feel as though I am ready to take on new challenges. Perhaps I have always been like this, but simply needed a reminder and a pat on the back. Thank you so much for this video! Hearing those words meant a lot to me.

@RachelWeeping

5 ай бұрын

As I've always said, "Tonight it will be dark the winters here are very cold and my life will NEVER BE OK.

@abigail5728

5 ай бұрын

How are you now?

@vv7299

4 ай бұрын

​@@abigail5728most likely still in bed, watching videos like this

This is actually what people need who suffer with this chronic existential crisis of not being who they are supposed to be and that feeling drains all the joy. But you are the first person i came across who explains it so clearly.

@RachelWeeping

5 ай бұрын

In the great book of John, we are warned of the day when we'll be laid beneath the cold clay. I write this from my grave. Been dead since '69.

@rosepierce9382

5 ай бұрын

Rachel, are you okay? I am seeing you a lot under the comments here.

@abigail5728

5 ай бұрын

@@RachelWeepingpeace be with you. I know it’s a lot of work to get better.

"...submitting to the highest version of yourself..." That is beautifully said. Thank you.

You did a really good job of put into words that awful feeling of not being able to enjoy anything because of the guilt and lack of presence in the moment that escapism and procrastination brings. Very relatable, it is difficult to make any progress by trying to use logic against your own sometimes very irrational mind

Summary for my future reference on my notes, sharing here too: 💣 Procrastination and escapism can lead to chronic anxiety and a lower quality of life, affecting everything we do and enjoy 💣 Unresolved issues from the past affect our present 💣 Procrastination affects our entire lives 💣 Change the order of tasks to change the narrative of our lives 💣 Submission is a tactic to overcome suboptimal behavior 💣 Submit to discomfort to overcome it 💣 Submit to discomfort to stop procrastinating and make better decisions

I agree, especially being in college. It’s funny how so many of us college students escape or distract ourselves with instant gratification. Submitting to the difficult and power through it with focus is something I am attempting to grasp. There are many vices that many fall prey to, same as I, but I want to overcome my fears/faults.I want to become my best self, it is a long road, but I am up for the challenge

@namitamekala7315

Жыл бұрын

you can do it. i graduated this year and am on a journey to overcome the vices i picked up in college. sometimes it is a lonely journey but it’s worth it. good luck :)

This honestly couldn’t have come at a more appropriate time for me. I am going through this exact thing right now (if I’m honest I’ve been doing it for years) where I can see the life I know I could have if I just went for it. I don’t know if it’s because I’m scared I’ll mess it up, or if I don’t think I deserve it, but it’s like watching a movie of your better life play out without you in it.

@amihere383

Жыл бұрын

That’s exactly it. It’s like in the moment I’m just so afraid that I freeze up and shut down. Later on I’ll know exactly what I wanted to say, but couldn’t, and just be mad about it.

I think another thing I needed to learn, in addition to submitting to doing the task, was acceptance that a task might not be "finished" today. I'm writing my dissertation, currently writing the literature review and setting up some experiments. This is a multi-year long project where each task is a week or month long effort and the subtasks can be difficult to properly "chunk" into something that could be considered today's most important thing. It's a little nebulous. Read and summarize one paper might be too little or too much depending on the paper and the other things going on that day. Sometimes making "sufficient" progress for the day is hard to pinpoint and time has to be called when progress has stalled. I had to learn to accept the incomplete progress as "done for today" even if nothing was truly "finished". I kept that chronic anxiety and escapism even when I had done my work. I never turned it off to the point it interrupted my sleep. Accepting work as "finished for now" was just as important for me as learning to submit to making progress in the first place.

@ajalipio1

9 ай бұрын

this is relatable..

I tend to avoid your videos out of shame. Your points are so on point, these things at least in my family its so alien. You’ll be called a fool for having feelings and not being mature enough to have killed them yet. Im starting with exercise, more meditation and work on my responsibilities and accept all these pains my body keeps giving me. Life has taken it’s toll on me but i still have faith.

@mikstury

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, sometimes family is just to teach you who you shouldn't become in life and what mistakes should you avoid. Good luck on your journey!

Tip for cold showers: Start the shower off the temperature you normally would, and gradually decrease the temperature throughout the shower until it's cold

This is so true, it hurts. It reminds me of the part from The Screwtape Letters about how, when we don't want to face up to certain things, we'll allow ourselves to be distracted by anything, even if we don't like it, leading us to someday reflect, "I now see that I spent most of my life in doing neither what I ought nor what I liked.” I get that way all the time--I'm putting off what's important, but it's not like I'm enjoying life in the meantime. Thanks for your suggestions on how to rectify this!

@notsomuchhere1387

Жыл бұрын

exactly, it feels like my life is just on pause until I end up doing the thing that I need to be doing

I started taking cold showers almost 3 - 6 months back with a months gap in the middle. Whenever i wake up for school, it feels like I feel like shit whenever i think about getting into the shower but, i dont think that ive ever missed a day where i had to take one just because i was in the moment and centered myself. I listen to music when i am doing this is and to know the feeling that you are doing something that is good for you and is something everyone else would not even try to do is extremely rewarding. When you are in the moment and not thinking about your inner resistance, everything feels much more calmer and it will help you feel more happier and fulfilled as a person. Thanks for this video joey, i have an exam tomorrow and was escaping by listening to music and just letting my resistance get the better of me.

Rational debates with my brain and the questions asked beforehand can be answered sometimes one step into the thing I want to do. So 100% agree with the "submit" strategy!

I’ve experienced this when I’ve gone on walks and it’s cold out. I hate the cold, and when I resist it I feel tense and uncomfortable. But when I accept the cold it actually feels pleasant.

when i was like 10-11 yrs old, i had this "just do it" mentality. i lost it when i fell into depression at 12. I'm now 14 and i'm trying my best to bring that mentality back again. your videos are really helpful thank you so much

@angelicaa2314

7 ай бұрын

🫂🫂

@dittatoo

7 ай бұрын

Kid, keep doing what your doing, educate yourself, and keep this mentality, you can

@DarkyMeecho.

7 ай бұрын

Keep going..... I remember adolescents a tough place to navigate but don't be too hard on yourself, never let the inner strife make you think that's all there is

@nolanwolfe

6 ай бұрын

I’m also 14 - nearly 15 - and can relate to you dearly. I believe in you and hope you keep trying 👊

I think the biggest moments of joy that I feel in life come from finally doing the task that I was so afraid to do. All of my vices that hold me back in life that provide positive emotions and even working out and jogging. Those activities never give me that feeling in my body and that boost of happiness that I get after I do something I knew I needed to do but was terrified of it. I'll be on the verge of a panic attack and fighting nausea right before doing a task but afterward I am showered with these positive emotions. Its a very specific kind of feeling, you can identify it if you pay attention when it happens.

@ajalipio1

9 ай бұрын

u did well. keep it up!

Joey your stuff just gets better and better…you’ve just convinced me to finally start studying for an exam I’ve already failed twice due to procrastination!

@TheKarebear666

Жыл бұрын

That's awesome! I'm doing the same thing. Keep at it!

@hamzahussain7794

11 ай бұрын

Failed thrice here...going 4th time..I just watched this video and like always I have procrastinated away all my time and only 1 month is left. I have lots of panic attacks and anxiety always, I don't know what I am gonna do, I have this fear that its my 4th time and only 1 month left, I just dunno man. Sorry for the rambling, this video is really really insightful and I am gonna start using this from now on

@stemstability_baytiaram.4290

10 ай бұрын

​​@@hamzahussain7794I actually feel you, because I've gone through the same thing over and over again and failed, I feel so terrible about it and the feeling of a big rush of anxiety just keeps coming it hurts. I want to get over it so I can succeed the next time, I do believe we can overcome this feeling one day

@RachelWeeping

5 ай бұрын

If you've already failed twice, you don't wanna do whatever the test is for.

This is the mindset I use to get through things that are physically painful (like going through labor & delivery for my 4 children!). Let it hurt. I accept that the current (usually temporary) situation is painful and that I cannot fight my way out of it. I yield to the river. When I stop fighting it, wishing it was over, trying to make it stop, I find that it is easier to endure. It seems less big, less bad. Still uncomfortable, but tolerable if I let the experience be what it is instead of fighting to control or change it.

He just never fails to blow my mind, yeah sure you can "relate" To things but this guy breaks down every difficult situation and makes it seem so simple and everything he says is just so effective

@RachelWeeping

5 ай бұрын

Like what?

@shizoree5884

5 ай бұрын

@@RachelWeeping like everything you know those behaviors you have and really struggle with but fail to find a solution for. He pretty much explains those actions that you make unconsciously in turn making you conscious of them and helping you fight the conditioning of your brain or it's just a self help video and I'm overly analytical

Great video. I think a deeply-rooted reason we procrastinate is because we have our own internalized expectations of how the thing should go or turn out. I have learned to make the activity as small and unimportant feeling as possible, because that makes it bearable to begin (even if it's a big deal). When we make the activities we want to do and goals we achieve out the be bigger than they are, we make them too intimidating to start because of our fear of failure. Minimizing these things makes it easier to submit to them, and allow ourselves to start. And usually once we start, we see how we are capable of doing them. In chemistry terms, you have to lower the activation energy needed to begin a task. What is the smallest possible piece you can bite off to begin? Momentum can begin from even the smallest of effort.

@euku1

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for your comment, I’m glad I’ve read that

@AbbysalWarrior72756

8 ай бұрын

I have a huge problem with this

Acknowledge that the work you are suppose to do is difficult. Feel the feeling of tension Let it go Do it anyway❤ Submit

I get the idea but to me this feeling is the opposite of submission. I actually feel like the one in charge as I face it head on knowing that this is what I'm supposed to be doing. One the contrary, procrastination feels like submission as I get the feeling I can't escape it even though it's not I want to do.

Bro im holding back tears. 6yrs divorced and i turned 39 this summer. Slowly recovering from a back injury and struggling with having my daughter live with me full time again since March (admittedly with support from her mom which i appreciate but i always fear some ulterior motives due to our past). 6 years of feeling so stuck and lost and always taking the cowardly route of avoiding and escaping my problems and responsibilities. Thank you

Crazy how underrated his videos are. Glad to be part of your community, Joey!

I'm finally at a point in life where I'm ready to take responsibility. The topics in this video are something I've been coming to terms with for a while, quite a while actually, but I did it. One of your best videos on this channel. Thanks for everything!

Thank you for uploading this video during my sister and I's finals week! I have a couple of assignments I just started making up mere hours before you posted this. Love how you included the cold showers talk & the golfing footage. You really have a way of encouraging people to move forward without fear. Thank you (KZread algorithm)!

Weirdly I’ve found that when I lean into discomfort I find comfort, and the previously perceived comfort of TV, avoidance etc starts feeling icky, too warm, too soft, smothering. At one point I listened to “Can’t Hurt Me” by David Goggins and “Hell Week and Beyond” by Scott McEwen and the stories they had were so extreme that it felt wrong to not seek discomfort afterwards. Thanks for continuously amazing content bro.

@kyliechen8732

Жыл бұрын

Goggin's mentality of "embracing the suck" is essentially echoed through the idea of "submitting" in this video. Great insights.

@FrootKat

Жыл бұрын

@@kyliechen8732 yeah, exactly. And the suck is rarely as bad as you imagined once you’re in it, anyway 😃

The way he gives the informations, the editing, the humor.. and how realistic he is.. truly inspiring :) u helped me alot men! Thanks 💗

It motivates me to see how far you have come I was with you since the early days even before the 30 days challenges. Please keep on ascending to higher levels and spreading the light of your knowledge

Super timely and really needed to hear this! Thank you! I think because of the amazing deals for Black Friday and Cyber Monday paired with some stresses in my personal life, I've been online / online-window shopping a lot, picturing how much 'greater' and 'happier' my life would be if I just had this one item. Ultimately tho, this is just cheap dopamine and it's a distraction from my reality; I just have to face it head on. Love the message of this video and happy to see you back! Hope you are well!

I wish I found this video earlier! I never knew procrastination can effect you this badly, I felt so light and free yesterday after completing years long left tasks. Amazing video! Thank you ❤

@Smileguy21

Жыл бұрын

You watched it 4 hours after it was uploaded. I dont think those 4 would have changed anything

I can't express enough how much you are helping me. You are a genuine, human being with experience sharing his wisdom. All your videos I've been watching so far are a huge hit. You aren't motivating. You are opening people's eyes. You are amazing.

It's uncanny how you manage to release videos just as I need them or would appreciate advice, on very specific things I'm feeling about my own productivity. Thank you for your videos.

Hi Joey 👋, It’s good to see you back on KZread! What I’ve learned from this video is that once you start acknowledging that the task needs to be completed despite its difficulty, not only would you end up feeling surprised that you did it, but you would also feel more empowered and confident in yourself than ever before. Sending you lots of love!!! ❤️❤️❤️🤗

I really want a Joey Schweitzer podcast at this point. The stuff you come up with is just brilliant. The simplicity in everything you say makes it even more meaningful. love it!

I´ve been following your channel for a while now and just wanted to say thank you. The way you approach ideas & concepts and find such strong, fitting and relateable symbols for them is highly impressive! It seems to me like a lot of content jumps from the roots to the logical conclusion of a certain challenge, whereas you are emphasizing the process of encountering it. It really helps me in understanding and sparks my own emotions and thoughts on the topic. Chapeau and keep up your great work! Lots of love & respect from germany

I don't know why there aren't more people like you, this is so helpful. Thanks, really thank you man. I had addictions that were close to ruin my life completely, and now I'm working on them.

You put words to my thoughts. I am so happy that I have been following you for awhile, because I have realized my purpose is to be this. An inspiration. Thank you!

this is a gem !!! resonates with my inner thoughts about fixing problems.

This is one of your best videos and it deserves more views.. Thank you !

I have been doing this submission for a while now. I guess I just discovered this myself after years of suffering. What you say can’t be true enough. it is about letting go of the feeling of resistance. And that will make you submit without conflicting with your own mind! 👏👏

Thank you for everything you do!

I appreciate this video so much, thank you. Reminds me a lot of what Adriene says from Yoga with Adriene. She says the hardest thing is getting to the mat. And as someone who could never get into consistent intermittent exercise habits for my whole life. I finally decided to “get to the mat” and her videos guided me through my first month, then my first year, and my second year. I’m still doing yoga every day and it’s been well over 850 days. Yet I’m still such a procrastinator and so prone to escapism into all sorts of media. This video really helped me to breathe and see this similarly to ywa’s “get to the mat” and I feel that this will help me approach that discomfort with mindfulness, let go, and just do the thing. Thanks again 💜

I loved this video! I start my day by reading a memo I wrote stating the one thing that I want most in life. I then proceed to go about my day doing the most important tasks first and so forth. It's not easy and I've only just started doing it recently however through doing so, I am no longer a slave to seeking pleasure from things like KZread and Netflix. I've submitted to the 'cost' of achieving my dreams. Once I'm done with my day and look back on what I've completed throughout the day, I tell myself that I've lived a life in line with my wants & values. This has really helped with my anxiety. Starting my day with my memo and knowing why I have to do things that are difficult makes it so much easier to get them done. Plus if you get the hardest things done first, the day gets easier and easier until you can finish it with a reward of your choice.

@medzahra9405

7 ай бұрын

Can you develop what is memo

At a time when therapy is expensive and University counselors aren't doing much for me your videos have helped me get back on my feet, thank u smuch

This is the best video I’ve ever seen for fighting against procrastination

You have no idea how much I needed this video, at this specific point in my life. Years and years earlier, too… but I REALLY needed it now. Thank you.

Thanks for this video, actually came at a perfect time, I'm currently experiencing it, trying to find a way around it, it's tough, for now I've just been brute forcing though it, some days it works, somedays it doesn't , anyways thanks for the wake up call, you videos always help me clear my head

I love this video Joey and this is how I keep myself from not procrastinating but instead working 93 hours a week. Just feel it and label it as good. Few people understand how powerful we can become if we choose to interpret everything that happens to us in our own favor every time

A video that I come back to time and time again. Truly changed my perspective on decision making.

This is one of the best videos I've ever seen on KZread and definitely the best of 2023. Thank you so much!

Nailed it again, man. Sometimes I even procrastinate watching your videos now because I know they will make me want to put in more effort to change haha. I will see you have a new video and be excited about it, but then put it off for days, convincing myself I need a whole day off or something for the 10 minute video. It's really annoying how the most effective thing I am at doing is doing nothing. Crazy brains!

Holy shit Joey! I've literally been struggling with this for the past 2 weeks now. Mental Air Time usually kicks in for me around the holidays - when I'm focused on food and gifts; things start to slow down a bit at work; it's cold outside and warm and cozy in the house; oh and God of War: Ragnarok! I get comfortable and lazy AF. The longer that thing I"m supposed to do lingers, the less confident I feel about pursuing my goals. Thanks for this well time reminder to just SUBMIT now, rather than later.

Gratitude only for this video! Thank you ❤

You're incredibly good at delivering the message. This video is kind of a masterpiece.

I'm 28 and I have been escaping everything for about 6 years of my life, I just didn't have the support for it or the help I needed. Life hit me pretty hard. I'm actually coming up with a resource that helped me become the man I am today. I used to live in Miami around street violence, I used to eat $3 a day, 25 cents noodles, expired toast and canned campbell tomato soup. I survived the Boston Marathon Bombing which was a few feet away and I saw all the blood the people screaming and I was alone at 18. I also used to live in a room with no kitchen, trash bag as a window and bugs crawling on me at night. I also took boxing to protect myself and learned how to defend myself and channel my emotions. Now I live in a cabin in the nordic woods of Sweden where I go down to a lake to breathe and heal my past and I post on KZread to help others who need it the most 🙏🏽💜

@trevorfranks69

Жыл бұрын

I saw you turn into a grifter instead of finding your own niche.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts on procrastination and its impact on our lives. It's interesting to think about how our past actions can continue to affect us in the present, and how our tendency to put things off can impact our overall quality of life. Your suggestion to do the most important thing first in order to change the narrative of our lives is a great one. It can be difficult to overcome procrastination, but finding emotional tactics, like submission to the task at hand, can be a helpful way to overcome it. Thanks for sharing your insights!

This has got to be the best and most concise explanation of the concept of "allowing yourself to get bored". It expounds on the idea that the only way is through, that the better version of ourselves is just right at the other side of that negative experience and we can get to that if we just surmount that challenge ahead.

1:41 ... Love what you did with your nails!!! Amazing message/content as always.

This is exactly what i realized a couple weeks ago. For me it was even more extreme. I didnt do any of the Things i was supposed to do and it affected all of my life. My relationship with my parents and all other people. I now have this under control and it feels so amazing

Beautiful video very helpful in understanding the zoning out behaviour. I don't know how to put it but, currently I am working on stopping myself from zoning out constantly, by consciously volunteering in meaningful (sometimes) conversations and I see some changes, but it is a constant work in progress

thanks sir, your videos provide me soo much comfort whenever i am feeling sad,,, never stop making these videos !!!!!!!!!!!!

This is life changing. I used to just escape mentally. Now I escape mentally by watching videos on how not to do it.

Yep, submitting into crying after watching this. Can't explain how much this helped me with some "irrational" fears today. Thank you. 💙

this is basically the “just do it” mindset lol. it is very effective though. once you start to shut out all of the arguments and anxieties that come with doing something and just do it without thinking, then it becomes easy. that’s why planning and meditation are so important.

@5yrniki

6 ай бұрын

exactly!

@joshuagleeson4776

6 ай бұрын

It's 'just do it' but in a way that tells you how to actually do it. 'Just do it' is kinda meaningless when you think about it, but this video presents that idea in a way that we can properly conceptualise and, at least in my experience, see taking an active role in how we approach our responsibilities.

@5yrniki

6 ай бұрын

@@joshuagleeson4776 YESSS!!! I AGREE 100%

Wow. This makes sense. Thank you for putting it in words. Thank you so much

This was such an exceptional video. Thank you!

This channel is so great.Instead of talking motivational crap,it gives practical way and approach to the problems that noone talk about it.😊

I actually never had a problem with procrastination, and looking back, maybe it was because one of the most valuable things my dad teached me. He always used to say: "If you do your obligations first, then you can do whatever you want after that" or for the short "obligations first, fun later". There is no better feeling in the world that to live with the sense of accomplishment. (3:12)

bro has basically answered all the problems which i thought were exclusive to me I have on a daily basis

High quality!!!! Script, content, sound, all the cut away footage! I'm subscribing!

I never thought about it this way, but it makes sense now, that I've started doing things differently some time ago. By differently I mean faster and without fear, and I did some progress I feel awesome about. Also I've been working on shadow integration and stopped blazing on daily basis. I'm hitting the gym soon, I'm in constant contact with personal trainer, my brother's very good friend. I'm certain that's not everything, but have no idea what has changed. And I feel excited and energized about these changes and plans. Try do things differently, guys and gals. You never know what will work.

For the past month I've been ascribing to the mantra of "let it suck" while working out. It helps me stop resisting the burn and fatigue. It's been remarkably effective, allowing me to push much farther than I thought I could. Personally, I can say the idea of submitting as presented by this video is a strong tactic for overcoming the resistance of change.

@RachelWeeping

5 ай бұрын

I prefer Jim Beam

I just discovered your channel after watching movie "limitless" and exploring one of your video on it. Afterwards I binged a few more of your content/ videos that spoke to my current life goal of self-improvment. You are actually talking about the core issue and self-improvment to the foundation and not just superfical tips anyone can find on the internet.. also thanks for book suggestions at the end of every video. I am glad i found your channel!

Every video you manage to inspire me man. Thank you so much!

I'm a very big procrastinator and this is the exact video I've been waiting from years and now I finally know what exactly to do to overcome it. Thank you so much sir🛐 Lots of love from India sir🙏 Edit: I submit🙂

This has a lot of acceptance vibes, accept things as they are, and do what you can do to get the results you want

Been watching this channel for years, and while I might have improved in some areas of life, I've been going through a rut. This really might be the video that has struck a chord with me. This is just a reminder to come back to it whenever I find the opportunity to.

Thank you for this. I needed this.

Submitting to hard tasks eventually becomes a habit. When that happens, you'll start itching to do them, and not doing them will feel painful. They become an addiction, but a good one. For example I've been going to the gym every morning (exept sundays) and I feel drawn to going to the gym. If I somehow miss going to the gym I'll start to feel bad (not in a procrastion kinda way but the addiction kind)

A really good way to combat the cold in a cold shower is to simply pretend that the cold is mint, mint leaves, fresh lemons and refreshing, icy water on your body. The sensation from chewing a mint is simply just on your body. You feel the mint. That way, showering is more fun! :)

The scenes in this were uniquely captivating. Your editing skill and ability to create a story cinematically is truly remarkable. Thank you for sharing your content for free here on KZread! I think you have serious potential at creating dramatic movies!