How to stop being insecure

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  • @elizaflower4762
    @elizaflower47622 жыл бұрын

    Her: “Are you insecure, or did someone make you insecure?” Me: “Both...”

  • @hijabi_3000

    @hijabi_3000

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm not insecure nor did someone make me insecure I slay pretty damn hard if I do say so myself😍😘🤩😵‍💫🤩😵‍💫😃🤭😵‍💫🤗🥰😚🥰🤗🥰😚😚😚🤗🤭😃😘🫠😘😍🥵😍🥵😍🥵😱😱😵‍💫😊😊😵‍💫🤪😵‍💫🤪🥵🤪🤩🥵☺️☺️🫣🫣🫣😜😜🖕🫠🫠🤩😣😳😣😲😲😲

  • @MenInSkirts_official

    @MenInSkirts_official

    2 жыл бұрын

    I was going to comment this.. Sorry also..

  • @Minathesimp

    @Minathesimp

    2 жыл бұрын

    Me too you’re not alone

  • @Gaslightgatekeepgirlbossslay

    @Gaslightgatekeepgirlbossslay

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same 😐👍

  • @dr.perruche1278

    @dr.perruche1278

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@hijabi_3000 you’re really helping og rn

  • @rainbowchild
    @rainbowchild Жыл бұрын

    The worst feeling is that I'm already insecure, and then someone pointed out my insecurities.

  • @fabiennekremer7674

    @fabiennekremer7674

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes so true

  • @Saffie15

    @Saffie15

    Жыл бұрын

    Yep

  • @dilnurarustamova8767

    @dilnurarustamova8767

    Жыл бұрын

    It is the worst shit ever

  • @MareliVelasco

    @MareliVelasco

    Жыл бұрын

    Same😢

  • @ilove_sc

    @ilove_sc

    Жыл бұрын

    fr my family used to do that and then i starved myself and was prob depressed and now they don’t stop telling me how skinny i am and that’s why i wear baggy clothes

  • @myusernamehere
    @myusernamehere Жыл бұрын

    "Hating yourself isn't humble - it's stupid" 🙂 Agreed.

  • @Bean8396

    @Bean8396

    10 ай бұрын

    FR tho-😂 doesn't necessarily mean I can stop myself from hating me, but uhhhh... True true

  • @annduruibe625

    @annduruibe625

    10 ай бұрын

    ​@@Bean8396It's okay. From experience people don't hate themselves to be "humble". It's more deeper shit, it doesn't necessarily mean it's okay to hate yourself. First walk a mile in someone else's shoes then you can judge whether it's stupid or not. I guess it would have been more accurate to say "hating your self just because of beauty standards is not wise" Hating your self is deeper shit.

  • @Bean8396

    @Bean8396

    10 ай бұрын

    @@annduruibe625 well yeh. But I hate myself because of depression and anxiety and crap, so yah. Just a lot deeper and I can't stop myself from hating myself, so I have personal experience as well...

  • @j-rodthelibrarykid1166

    @j-rodthelibrarykid1166

    5 ай бұрын

    Great so I'm stupid too

  • @myusernamehere

    @myusernamehere

    4 ай бұрын

    @@j-rodthelibrarykid1166 This was a long time ago ik, but I just have to say - doing stupid things, and "being stupid" are two different things. Don't think of / identify yours as "stupid." "Stupid" is a **choice** , a *decision* and *action* - not a personality. It's not permanent, it's not written in concrete, but in the sand...wash it away with: Better decisions, learning, challenging ourself, and seeking wise counsel! I believe in you, you'll go so far in life! 😊👏 Just don't say "I'm stupid." Ok? 🥺

  • @brynncess2228
    @brynncess2228 Жыл бұрын

    "Mrs. Girl, Mrs. Squirrel" I CANT 💀💀💀💀

  • @user-yf1wi3ue4p

    @user-yf1wi3ue4p

    2 ай бұрын

    IKR LOL

  • @AthenaRiddleQueen

    @AthenaRiddleQueen

    2 ай бұрын

    😂

  • @43john68
    @43john68 Жыл бұрын

    'No one likes a bully yet we bully ourselves the most' -Some wise person

  • @sheila_789

    @sheila_789

    Жыл бұрын

    Some wise person lol😂

  • @43john68

    @43john68

    Жыл бұрын

    @@sheila_789 🤣🤣

  • @kayathrikayu265

    @kayathrikayu265

    Жыл бұрын

    that's true tho 😢

  • @Def_not_aylin

    @Def_not_aylin

    11 ай бұрын

    How is that so true…

  • @mayray6187

    @mayray6187

    10 ай бұрын

    that's why we don't like ourselves too

  • @IonlyKnow1D
    @IonlyKnow1D2 жыл бұрын

    Spencer: "You're insecure" Me: "Don't know what for" My bro: "you're turning heads when you walk through the do-o-or" My parents: "Oh No, Here wo go again-"

  • @marialondonooo

    @marialondonooo

    2 жыл бұрын

    The fact that your brother knows the lyrics is everything 🤍🤍

  • @evie_hartleyy

    @evie_hartleyy

    2 жыл бұрын

    Haha

  • @sirenblxxd

    @sirenblxxd

    2 жыл бұрын

    HEYY BESTIEEE AFTER LONGG

  • @sirenblxxd

    @sirenblxxd

    2 жыл бұрын

    Clara here!!😂✌💙💚

  • @zoeclasemann4451

    @zoeclasemann4451

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same me and my brothers do the same thing

  • @Meowmeter
    @Meowmeter Жыл бұрын

    As a 52 yr old let me say that the older you get the less you care about what others think of you ... yay!! Also, absolutely nobody is perfect, magazine covers are photoshopped, even models have issues with their self image too. Be happy, be healthy, be you💗

  • @niamhmorrow4101

    @niamhmorrow4101

    Жыл бұрын

    Wise words. Thank you. ❤😊👍

  • @user-kk4kr6kj9i

    @user-kk4kr6kj9i

    11 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much ❤ i needed to hear that today❤

  • @RawBaconEnjoyer

    @RawBaconEnjoyer

    11 ай бұрын

    I made a hoodie in school. I showed it to my sister and her first thought was to say: it's ugly. It made me sad and now I'm scared to wear it bc I dont want to judged. Sometimes I hear ppl commenting on my long hair. I don't want to get judged. I'm so scared that I just go out with the same clothes all the time bc the I look like a emo and not that many ppl judge me anymore.

  • @jessenorton1749

    @jessenorton1749

    3 ай бұрын

    So true👏🏻

  • @sumayaneal1327
    @sumayaneal1327 Жыл бұрын

    I was already insecure, and then someone pointed out my insecurities right as soon as I was about to get over it , and now I cant forget it

  • @carmin9550

    @carmin9550

    4 ай бұрын

    Bruh Fr

  • @itskeiran1701

    @itskeiran1701

    2 ай бұрын

    Same.

  • @directionerswiftie395
    @directionerswiftie3952 жыл бұрын

    THAT "YOU'RE INSECURE" LIT UP MY WORLD CUZ I LOVE YOU A LOT AND I LOVE YOU EVEN MORE NOW THAT I KNOW YOU'RE A DIRECTIONER 💙💚🇮🇪♥️💛

  • @directionerandarmyforever5185

    @directionerandarmyforever5185

    2 жыл бұрын

    💚💙🇮🇪❤️💛

  • @bea5292

    @bea5292

    2 жыл бұрын

    IKRRRRR

  • @blakethestakeig

    @blakethestakeig

    2 жыл бұрын

    U LOVE UR PFP AND USERNAMMEEEEE

  • @directionerswiftie395

    @directionerswiftie395

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@blakethestakeig OMG FANK YOU SO SO MUCHHHHHH

  • @zoe_00
    @zoe_002 жыл бұрын

    “Your insecure Don’t know what for Your turning heads When you walk through the door” Most powerful confidence boosting lyrics

  • @marialondonooo

    @marialondonooo

    2 жыл бұрын

    “Don’t need make up, to cover up Being the way that you are is enough” 🤍

  • @vil1906

    @vil1906

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@marialondonooo make up is not just for a cover up but thats okay 😅

  • @marialondonooo

    @marialondonooo

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@vil1906 I’m writing the lyrics

  • @vil1906

    @vil1906

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@marialondonooo okey ı just wanna say it bcs its not comfidence boost type of lyrics for me

  • @daisywakefield5647

    @daisywakefield5647

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@marialondonooo EVERYONE ELSE IN THE ROOM CAN SEE IT EVERYONE ELSE BUT YOUUUU

  • @jeanmichelsetze4423
    @jeanmichelsetze44239 ай бұрын

    Ligit theres this thing that I didn't mind about me, like I honestly didn't care, never paid attension to it. But when that one person pointed it out, I go crying in my bedroom everyday think about it, even being told that by my own very best friend, makes it worse, but thank you Spencer for all the help you done and made, it helped me alot and Im honestly gratefull ppl like you exist ❤

  • @claire_csi
    @claire_csi2 жыл бұрын

    Spencer says :Your insecure 🎶 The whole one direction fandom is immediately summoned 💚💙🇮🇪💛❤️

  • @samairaffs

    @samairaffs

    2 жыл бұрын

    This.

  • @sophie_creations

    @sophie_creations

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hello Fellow directioner! 💚💙🇮🇪💛❤️

  • @Selina-lk3nm

    @Selina-lk3nm

    Жыл бұрын

    @@sophie_creations oi oi💚💙🇨🇮❤💛

  • @sophie_creations

    @sophie_creations

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Selina-lk3nm FLY AWAKEN

  • @sophie_creations

    @sophie_creations

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Selina-lk3nm FLY AWAKEN 💙💚🇮🇪💛❤️

  • @amberlee5342
    @amberlee53422 жыл бұрын

    My heart skipped a beat when she said *“You’re insecure-“* -I’m a huge One Direction fan. 😂❤️ Edit: I love all the people in the comments. You all just made my day a lot better. 😃👍🏻

  • @amberlee5342

    @amberlee5342

    2 жыл бұрын

    @Grace Gallagher you’re turning heads when you walk through the do-o-or 😌

  • @valentina.chirinos

    @valentina.chirinos

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@SammysShow THE WAY U SMILE AT THE GROUND IT AINT HARD TO TELL

  • @alaynah...

    @alaynah...

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@SammysShow YOU DON'T KNOW YOU'RE BEAUTIFUL!

  • @bananathemango1751

    @bananathemango1751

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@alaynah... oh-oh U DONT KNOW U BEAUTIFUL

  • @Shreyaghatge

    @Shreyaghatge

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@bananathemango1751 that's what makes you beautiful

  • @amberrodabaugh
    @amberrodabaugh2 ай бұрын

    I was only insecure of my weight, teeth, and thighs until i met one of my male friends. Now I'm insecure about my arma, forehead, nose, feet, hands, ears, and personality. Thanks for making me cry myself to sleep. Thanks for me growing obsessed with you so i can't leave

  • @duck7647
    @duck76472 жыл бұрын

    Her: think about it, r u insecure or did someone make u insecure? Me: I’m insecure 😂

  • @Negativity-rat

    @Negativity-rat

    Жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @daniellehill1644

    @daniellehill1644

    Жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @princess_potato_2744

    @princess_potato_2744

    Жыл бұрын

    Same bestie

  • @sohaib_t

    @sohaib_t

    Жыл бұрын

    Fucking exactly

  • @huffletoast4351

    @huffletoast4351

    Жыл бұрын

    Fr tho-

  • @purvakharabi8709
    @purvakharabi87092 жыл бұрын

    You summoned the whole fandom Spencer 💚💙❤️💛🇮🇪

  • @hannahbell31

    @hannahbell31

    2 жыл бұрын

    We are everywhere

  • @purvakharabi8709

    @purvakharabi8709

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@hannahbell31 ikkrrrrrrrr we are crazyy 🤣

  • @Isaa8769

    @Isaa8769

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes yes

  • @liv5661

    @liv5661

    2 жыл бұрын

    LARRY

  • @Ari.x22

    @Ari.x22

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@liv5661 LARRY STYLINSON 💚💙🥺

  • @ZaZa_278
    @ZaZa_2782 ай бұрын

    I wasn’t insecure about my run until my BESTFRIEND pointed it out and I cried for weeks😢

  • @nadaou6896

    @nadaou6896

    9 күн бұрын

    What run does mean?

  • @aylagrieve
    @aylagrieve Жыл бұрын

    “Miss girl miss squirrel” ilysm Spencer! You motivate me so much and help build my confidence!

  • @ellaakate
    @ellaakate2 жыл бұрын

    spencer: “yOuR iNsAcUrE”🎶🎵🎶 me: *goes to the comments to find my fellow directioners*😂

  • @dreamland6672

    @dreamland6672

    2 жыл бұрын

    💚

  • @dreamland6672

    @dreamland6672

    2 жыл бұрын

    💚💙

  • @obviouslyproudofliam12year7

    @obviouslyproudofliam12year7

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes😂 I'm just looking at all the comments right now and laughing😂 (and I have my own comment here...)

  • @koolvein_klein

    @koolvein_klein

    2 жыл бұрын

    me: your insecure you dont know what for the way you are is enough-

  • @farzanakausaryt

    @farzanakausaryt

    Жыл бұрын

    💚💙

  • @dh.6215
    @dh.62152 жыл бұрын

    “ miss girl, miss squirrel.” IM DEAD IMAO 😂

  • @independent7492
    @independent749211 ай бұрын

    the fact that social media points out most of our insecurities...

  • @KyndraRubio
    @KyndraRubio2 ай бұрын

    "miss girl, miss squirrel" -Spencer hahahah

  • @ava-tw1rf
    @ava-tw1rf2 жыл бұрын

    the way she started to sing one d made my day 💚💙

  • @zaynspotato8004

    @zaynspotato8004

    2 жыл бұрын

    yesss sameee

  • @directionerandarmyforever5185

    @directionerandarmyforever5185

    2 жыл бұрын

    Directioner💚💙🇮🇪❤️💛 And btw love ur pfp

  • @rosecrossing
    @rosecrossing2 жыл бұрын

    "miss gurl, miss squirrel" why did that make my day 😭

  • @blaire_reeves

    @blaire_reeves

    Жыл бұрын

    😂 omg I just died too

  • @Luv_Basketball
    @Luv_Basketball9 ай бұрын

    People make me insecure

  • @user-ec9jl5yd6r
    @user-ec9jl5yd6r10 ай бұрын

    thats true i have like the kind of skinnyfat legs until this bully came and teased me about them but the bully is really skinny so i used to be so jealous that she was skinny and i was fat. but one day i confronted her in front of everyone and no one liked her anymore so if you have the same or even a similar story to me all you need to know/do is stand up for yourself girlies you are perfect my queens

  • @larrysluv3754
    @larrysluv37542 жыл бұрын

    How to stop being insecure: listen to one direction See and listen to Spencer Life Is perfect

  • @estersmejova

    @estersmejova

    2 жыл бұрын

    Heyyyyyy! You're a directioner too 🎉🎉 And you chose to speak factsss

  • @khloeelaine5187

    @khloeelaine5187

    2 жыл бұрын

    LITTERALY

  • @lovelylittleharry7706

    @lovelylittleharry7706

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yay!

  • @aditriiii

    @aditriiii

    2 жыл бұрын

    Especially listen to little things luv

  • @larrysluv3754

    @larrysluv3754

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@aditriiii ikr

  • @leahstyles-tomlinson8009
    @leahstyles-tomlinson80092 жыл бұрын

    My heart went 💫💫💫💫💫when she said “your insecure” my 1D heart went crazy

  • @jaderose5886

    @jaderose5886

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @recina4385

    @recina4385

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same 🤌I am singing *What makes you beautiful* right now

  • @robertfuentes9677
    @robertfuentes96775 күн бұрын

    Ugh she is just so gorgeous

  • @Wave.s27
    @Wave.s275 ай бұрын

    “Hating yourself isn’t humble it’s just stupid” -Spencer Barbosa 2023

  • @dinosaursmate4738
    @dinosaursmate4738 Жыл бұрын

    the way one line from wmyb summoned the whole fandom 😭😭

  • @ardenc0121

    @ardenc0121

    Жыл бұрын

    fr 😭

  • @rylee6159

    @rylee6159

    Жыл бұрын

    literally tho

  • @drxcslvcr

    @drxcslvcr

    Жыл бұрын

    fr not me singing the whole song after

  • @gracefaithinthefuture

    @gracefaithinthefuture

    Жыл бұрын

    frr

  • @kylagwyn
    @kylagwyn2 жыл бұрын

    the fact that I'm listing to what makes u beautiful rn is....just lol

  • @khamyaa6689

    @khamyaa6689

    2 жыл бұрын

    😂

  • @iviake3241

    @iviake3241

    2 жыл бұрын

    Right, I don’t think she got a big forehead or big ears

  • @pewpew3490

    @pewpew3490

    2 жыл бұрын

    Me too I'm a directioner 💗

  • @whyyousoshyproudofliam9562

    @whyyousoshyproudofliam9562

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@pewpew3490 sameee💛❤️🇮🇪💚💙

  • @shriyapargi4950
    @shriyapargi4950 Жыл бұрын

    if someone else made me insecure...that only means that my insecurity is prominently visible....that's just going to make me feel worse about it...if it is noticeable...its worse

  • @Rolandsbluejacket
    @Rolandsbluejacket Жыл бұрын

    I had a friend tell me last year "you need to shave your arms". Those words actually hurt, and even today she still points out ny insecurities that i’ve had, and ones that I’ve never had until she mentioned them.

  • @madi..morris
    @madi..morris2 жыл бұрын

    No one gonna talk about how Spencer said “So mrs.girl, mrs.squirrel”

  • @xemerald_amuletx3534
    @xemerald_amuletx35342 жыл бұрын

    The "if you're insecure" was amazing 😭✨

  • @Country_girl1300
    @Country_girl13003 ай бұрын

    both! i am already insecure but the girl that bully’s me at school says that im ugly so i believed her but watching your video made me not insecure about myself anymore!!♥️♥️

  • @Ella-gm2db
    @Ella-gm2db2 ай бұрын

    This is a lovely quote “you will never be judged by someone who is doing more than you only by someone doing less then you”

  • @bicuriousdirtbikeboi2594
    @bicuriousdirtbikeboi2594 Жыл бұрын

    Insecurities don't necessarily go away with confidence, you just learn how to deal with them properly

  • @thedon1262

    @thedon1262

    Жыл бұрын

    You completely right, insecuritys are just thoughts. Its just your own way of thinking that makes the needles thoughts anything wurth. However, acceptance and being confident will get some of the thoughts appear less so its also easier not to think about the insecuritys when the thoughts are not appearing through your mind every time. In that way your insecuritys will get less important and can fade away. Confidence is necessary for the insecuritys to go away. Without self love you never can find acceptance and it makes it hard to love yourself becouse of that. Like a sort circle. Thats why its so hard so solve it. I actually think its necessary to have other people love you before you can love yourself. Humans are social animals and have always been depending on eage other. There are many people who dont get the love they need, the accepance from others who they are. And without others we are noone.

  • @xxahid

    @xxahid

    Жыл бұрын

    @@thedon1262 Thankss :)

  • @thedon1262

    @thedon1262

    Жыл бұрын

    @@xxahid ❤️

  • @Hayondrolinhix9999

    @Hayondrolinhix9999

    Жыл бұрын

    You can end them by fixing yourself and not neglecting yourself.

  • @bicuriousdirtbikeboi2594

    @bicuriousdirtbikeboi2594

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Hayondrolinhix9999 Again, they don’t go away. All you can do is learn how to focus on the things you do like about yourself.

  • @bfarren5693
    @bfarren56932 жыл бұрын

    when she said “youre insecure” i was like and mcyt fan and a directioner at the same time

  • @jades_simpass9
    @jades_simpass92 ай бұрын

    Multiple people made me insecure about how far apart my eyes are and now I want to make them closer because people call me sid the sloth. 😭😭

  • @Fay_the_fairy187
    @Fay_the_fairy1874 ай бұрын

    “Mrs squirrel”❤❤

  • @meadowdufrane756
    @meadowdufrane7562 жыл бұрын

    You know what I realized when watching this video. Most people are so focused on themselves that they don't notice you. I didn't notice ANY of your insecurities until you pointed the out and even after that I didn'tnroice anything wrong with you. So thank you so much Spencer!!

  • @paige3868
    @paige38682 жыл бұрын

    I love this video and ABSOLUTELY relate. My family made me feel insecure about my weight so much I began to believe them. I hated my stomach, my arms, legs and my chubby face. But... I managed to get over everything they said. We are all prefect the way we are, if you want to change do it for yourself not other people❤ #bodypostivity

  • @dankdayeet3851

    @dankdayeet3851

    2 жыл бұрын

    Awe this really hit home, and yea- it got to the point where I have an eating problem and keep losing and gaining weight ;()

  • @popstarpigs6677

    @popstarpigs6677

    2 жыл бұрын

    That's just how I felt... But it was those around me, not my family. I can relate.

  • @lemontartplayz901

    @lemontartplayz901

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes this happens so much my mom is like you just ate or no more snacks and every time I walk away crying bc it makes me think about my weight

  • @someoneontheinternet7490

    @someoneontheinternet7490

    2 жыл бұрын

    my grandma makes so many comments about my weight to the point when she takes me to go to mc donalds or something everytime i say what i want she comments about how much fat it has in it to the point where i had an eating disorder and didnt even know it like literally its dinner time for me right now didnt eat all day asked my family to get food and they said later honestly this isnt healthy but whatever sorry if im bothering you

  • @lemontartplayz901

    @lemontartplayz901

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@someoneontheinternet7490 so sorry you have to deal with that no one should ever go through that I hope it gets better❤️

  • @starfireeee082
    @starfireeee082 Жыл бұрын

    She always make me fell better about myself

  • @ArmandoRodriguezzz737
    @ArmandoRodriguezzz737Ай бұрын

    This girls a god send!! May god give this girl long healthy life

  • @OneAddiction369
    @OneAddiction369 Жыл бұрын

    Spencer really just summoned a whole fandom with just 2 words 💚💙🇮🇪❤️💛

  • @sophie_creations
    @sophie_creations Жыл бұрын

    Spencer: “You’re insecure “ Me: *starts aggressively singing WMYB lyrics while dancing* 💚💙🇮🇪💛❤️😍😂💕

  • @stellaarose89

    @stellaarose89

    Жыл бұрын

    YESSSSS

  • @NoellyMelgares

    @NoellyMelgares

    Жыл бұрын

    Me as a directioner too!!!!!!!

  • @shivangibharti4929

    @shivangibharti4929

    Жыл бұрын

    You're insecure...

  • @shivangibharti4929

    @shivangibharti4929

    Жыл бұрын

    Don't know what for....

  • @holly16909

    @holly16909

    Жыл бұрын

    You’re turning heads when you walk through the do-o-or

  • @bibblekibble
    @bibblekibble9 ай бұрын

    The internet made me insecure.

  • @user-gb9oi2lg6m
    @user-gb9oi2lg6m3 ай бұрын

    My old toxic friend ( dumped her) would make me feel insecure about my weight and my birthmarks even though I was much prettier than her ( trying to be humble 😂) you are beautiful and so am I ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @slytherinswiftie9756
    @slytherinswiftie9756 Жыл бұрын

    Spencer: "You're insecureee" Me: DON'T KNOW WHAT FOR I came to the comments to look for my fellow One Direction lovers 💚💙

  • @NoellyMelgares

    @NoellyMelgares

    Жыл бұрын

    Me too!!

  • @harshadaafaithinthefuture199

    @harshadaafaithinthefuture199

    Жыл бұрын

    here I am🤡

  • @randomdirectioner7841

    @randomdirectioner7841

    Жыл бұрын

    Right here 💙💚🇮🇪💛❤️

  • @azuretommo

    @azuretommo

    Жыл бұрын

    Here..

  • @tanzilakhan8903

    @tanzilakhan8903

    Жыл бұрын

    U found me 😚😁

  • @ilovetosing27
    @ilovetosing27 Жыл бұрын

    This is so true. Almost all my insecurities come from people pointing them out to me (and then proceeding to laugh) but STAY STRONG BAE because every single one of you is beautiful 💕💕

  • @anqelic7797

    @anqelic7797

    Жыл бұрын

    Same with me. A kid named Nicolas in 2nd grade mentioned i had hairy legs and arms and that overtime started making me insecure about. Im also insecure about my stomach hair and back “hair” which is just peach fuz but the stomach hair is a lot.

  • @user-po6pk2qi2g

    @user-po6pk2qi2g

    Жыл бұрын

    @@anqelic7797 There is nothing wrong with your hairy legs/stomach etc. There is nothing wrong with body hair in general. We all have body hair. Some people have more some have less.. some people's hair are noticeable and some of them don't haven't noticeable hair. Its okay. There is nothing wrong with that. You are YOU. And you are unique. Society makes us think that body hair on women is something to be ashamed of. However in reality ITS NOT. It is just a part of ourselves. I mean have you ever heard that if you have hair in you arms mosquitoes don't bite you or something? Lol. So you know its a part of our nature. You can do whatever you want with your body hair. There is no need to feel pressured about plucking them or waxing etc. I mean you can do it if you want. But you can also dont do it! Its your PERSONAL CHOICE. If someone is not okay with it, its their problem. NOT YOURS. You can do or don't do whatever you want with your body hair. Just remember whatever you choose do it for yourself! Not others or society. Embrace your uniqueness. Embrace yourself ❤️

  • @literally.laurenn

    @literally.laurenn

    Жыл бұрын

    Same! Like a lot and hun I mean A LOT of my insecurities come from my oldest sibling projecting THEIR insecurities onto me to cope Used to love my body.. Now I hate it

  • @user-po6pk2qi2g

    @user-po6pk2qi2g

    Жыл бұрын

    @@literally.laurenn Don't let ur sibling to do that to you. U can discuss about it together and you can explain to him/her how his/her behaviour makes you feel about your body and yourself in general ✨

  • @thv903

    @thv903

    Жыл бұрын

    Yea, same abt me they point how I look weight, colour...wth bruh like my whole existence🥲

  • @ioliiosif
    @ioliiosif3 ай бұрын

    People have made me feel insecure.

  • @gamegamer9523
    @gamegamer952316 күн бұрын

    I blame myself not hating myself. And for it helps me grow because it makes more self accountable.

  • @sydneymcmillian
    @sydneymcmillian2 жыл бұрын

    Family made me feel insecure about my weight and I’m insecure about my body and weight🥺 that’s why I plan to loose weight and feel good again🥺 like I used to❤️❤️

  • @toolazytothinkofaname1728

    @toolazytothinkofaname1728

    2 жыл бұрын

    Mine too they always make me feel like a woman always needs to have a perfect Body and face.. And now I am insecure

  • @sydneymcmillian

    @sydneymcmillian

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@toolazytothinkofaname1728 yea and honestly whenever I go clothes shopping I always get compared ti my sister and they always take me to plus size which I’m not🥺 I’m a size small/medium but that always pick out clothes and assume I’m a size xl/2xl and insult my weight etc which I just don’t wanna buy any clothes anymore😔😔 which hurts and it sucks

  • @toolazytothinkofaname1728

    @toolazytothinkofaname1728

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@sydneymcmillian shopping is the worst cuz when a size doesn't fit me they say it's because of my weight

  • @sydneymcmillian

    @sydneymcmillian

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@toolazytothinkofaname1728 same when I realise that so my clothes I currently have are getting too tight and I try to diet but I don’t keep up with diets😭😔😔 But I hope that you overcome your insecurity and I overcome mine🥺

  • @toolazytothinkofaname1728

    @toolazytothinkofaname1728

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@sydneymcmillian Thanks and don't let other people get to you Just keep believing in yourself

  • @ellamont000
    @ellamont0002 жыл бұрын

    Thank you spencer you’re helping me so much.and Because the your insucure made my heart skip a beat Here’s some more tips I would recommend listening to little things by One Direction it really helped me with my body image and it’s a good song to just cry to Or you can flat up just listen to any One Direction song most of their songs are about teenage struggles or girls problems that they wish girls didn’t have problems with if you look up some One Direction quotes you’ll realize they are very sweet guys Here’s my favorites 1. Louis- there are a lot of insecure a girls out there and I wish I could just hold them and tell them how perfect they are 2.Niall-i’d rather be called a boy and play with paper airplanes then be called a man and play with a girls heart 3.Harry-it only takes a second to call a girl fat but she will take a lifetime starving herself watch what you say 4. Liam-The worst thing a boy could do is ignore a girl. When she’s giving him her whole heart 5.Zayn-just because you don’t have a prince does it mean you’re not a princess

  • @Sdghjj401

    @Sdghjj401

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hey bestie. Thank you

  • @ellamont000

    @ellamont000

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Sdghjj401 you’re welcome ❤️

  • @nicolejones3686

    @nicolejones3686

    2 жыл бұрын

    Eeeeeee! all of these make me smile.

  • @paige5555

    @paige5555

    2 жыл бұрын

    Aww mate...this is so touching

  • @urfavswiftie10
    @urfavswiftie10 Жыл бұрын

    “Ms. Squirrel” 🤣 I love her 🫶🏼

  • @sunrisetwx_moon
    @sunrisetwx_moon2 ай бұрын

    “if.. you’re insecure🎶🎶🎶” my directioner soul screamed

  • @kcleckler1270
    @kcleckler12702 жыл бұрын

    When people say “How are you so confident??” Response: My favorite influencer Spencer Barbosa! I love you ❤️

  • @wowthisissweett
    @wowthisissweett2 жыл бұрын

    “I want you to think of all insecurities” I could literally do a presentation about all of the things i am insecure about cuz broooo i literally hate everything about myself 💀

  • @kaylanek1

    @kaylanek1

    Жыл бұрын

    Same. But most are from other people which is lovely. I’m sure we are both beautiful/handsome. Let’s slay

  • @wowthisissweett

    @wowthisissweett

    Жыл бұрын

    @@kaylanek1 🫶🫶

  • @danasyt.
    @danasyt.2 ай бұрын

    usually when someone judges others looks they do that to feel better about their looks cause the truth is they are just really insecure, so to feel better they are gonna critisize others looks

  • @__ducky__97
    @__ducky__97 Жыл бұрын

    I broke down crying immediately when she asked if we were insecure or if someone made us insecure. After so many toxic and abusive relationships, I have so many insecurities, and this helped me realize that I am perfect the way I am. Spencer, thank you so much; you are helping so many people feel comfortable in their own skin ❤️

  • @annawise5019
    @annawise50192 жыл бұрын

    All I’m saying is why did god bless us with this angel, she’s gorgeous and amazing.

  • @kristykreme2623

    @kristykreme2623

    2 жыл бұрын

    I have that strong feeling again. It hurts so much. Do very much. Want to scream. Cry. And * * *

  • @Brittany4387
    @Brittany4387 Жыл бұрын

    Pov: all the comments are about the “YoU’rE iNsEcUrE”

  • @OneAddiction369

    @OneAddiction369

    Жыл бұрын

    Cause Directioner are everywhere 💚💙🇮🇪❤️💛

  • @artanimations5166
    @artanimations5166 Жыл бұрын

    “If, ✨yOuR iNsicUre✨”

  • @Pparkg
    @Pparkg11 ай бұрын

    I used to be pretty confident but people have called me ugly “as a joke” so many times I started to believe it

  • @rshorses7010
    @rshorses7010 Жыл бұрын

    I like how the most prettiest, perfect looking women was or still is insecure herself like girl😭 u a goddess

  • @atrinamalikstylinsonproudo3677
    @atrinamalikstylinsonproudo3677 Жыл бұрын

    "don't know what for " Directioner was summoned ✋🏻❤️💙💚💛🇨🇮 ( Plus I really like it how your spreading good energy and kindness 😊)

  • @maderac0

    @maderac0

    Жыл бұрын

    🫠

  • @imjustagurl318
    @imjustagurl318 Жыл бұрын

    *definitely someone else made me insecure*

  • @Sunny-ok9bq
    @Sunny-ok9bq2 ай бұрын

    why is this so true...🥺

  • @kelliefillet6818
    @kelliefillet68182 жыл бұрын

    ok i love 1d so this is great

  • @whyyousoshyproudofliam9562

    @whyyousoshyproudofliam9562

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same Bro HAHAHA

  • @pewpew3490

    @pewpew3490

    2 жыл бұрын

    LLN same

  • @michaelakrumwiede
    @michaelakrumwiede2 жыл бұрын

    *you're insecure-* my brain: don't know what for

  • @Zo-j34n
    @Zo-j34n2 ай бұрын

    THANK U i am well was insecure until I saw your videos

  • @user-mg6ve3tw7g
    @user-mg6ve3tw7g3 ай бұрын

    GIRLLL!!!! WHAT ARE YOU INSECURE ABOUT? U are literally perfect and beautiful 😍

  • @abilin1922
    @abilin19222 жыл бұрын

    This helped me so much I literally started balling like a baby, when I reached the age 11 I was starting to become ✨insecure ✨ just because all the other girls had skinny body’s and I thought I was fat as a pig I actually feel good about my body for once thank you

  • @NKOSi1415

    @NKOSi1415

    2 жыл бұрын

    i'm slender being skinny is not all that i look weird in bikinis and long in clothes. I get bullied too, my friend said i should be the frog sense i'm long lol..ugh sucks i still think about it , i cry too.

  • @hermioneg6470
    @hermioneg647011 ай бұрын

    It's so hard to stop hating my insecurities when that person is right there everyday commenting on them

  • @user-hs9wc4eh7n
    @user-hs9wc4eh7n9 ай бұрын

    IM NOT EVEN JOKING like for real spencer as soon as i stared watching you i felt like myself aging i loved my body as im little over weight casue i used to love my body but THE BULLIES AND FAMILE TELLING ME IM OVERWEGHT EVEN MY OWN FRIENDS but watching lighted my dad and im happier then else

  • @juliejanesmith57
    @juliejanesmith572 жыл бұрын

    This is so true. When looking at others we focus on the parts we don’t like about ourselves.

  • @anxnymxususer
    @anxnymxususer2 жыл бұрын

    "You're insecure" "Don't know what for, everyone else in the room can see it everyone else but YOU"

  • @user-gv7sz4hb9r
    @user-gv7sz4hb9r5 ай бұрын

    I'm a boy and when I watch you, I get so motivated❤

  • @SlayQueen735
    @SlayQueen735 Жыл бұрын

    YOU MADE ME SMILE WHILE WATCHING THIS❤️🌷✨

  • @MusiclLover2028
    @MusiclLover2028 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this I needed it today. Over the years my self confidence has been brutally crushed by bullies and this video made me open my eyes to realize I am important to someone in my life. Thank you for this video and have a great day.

  • @ProfessionalRaider-ey8tj

    @ProfessionalRaider-ey8tj

    Жыл бұрын

    As a closeted trans girl who is also a bully victim, my self-esteem is at the rock bottom. I am sorry for what those horrible people did to you. Hoping you will come to love your beautiful self one day. You're a queen, go slay it

  • @mmirudhulha1424
    @mmirudhulha14242 жыл бұрын

    When you realise the fact that your own mother made you insecure 🙃

  • @onlyylana
    @onlyylana Жыл бұрын

    Ur videos helped me a lot and now i dont got no insecurities SLAYYY 😮‍💨

  • @simplyyheidislife
    @simplyyheidislife10 ай бұрын

    i used to be so insecure abt everything but u helped me sm. im not insecure anymore, i think i slay damn well if i say so 🥵🥵🖕🖕😍😍🥰😊😜❤️❤️❤️❤️😍😍🥰🥵🥵😍🖕🖕🖕🥰😍❤️😘😘🖕😍🥰🥰🥰🥵🥵🥵🥵😍😍😍😍😘😘😘🥰🥰

  • @Mega.bibleprincess
    @Mega.bibleprincess10 ай бұрын

    Good point. Everything I was insecure about I made a plan and fixed it… guess I’m really not that insecure I’ll try to remember this video

  • @Frenzy_goated
    @Frenzy_goated2 жыл бұрын

    I really appreciate this especially as a guy everyone expects you to be all tough and strong and I’m insecure about a lot of things so I really appreciate this

  • @krishadoshi9935
    @krishadoshi9935 Жыл бұрын

    People made me insecure from childhood and right now I'm 18 it's really hard to accept and love myself as a person but I'm trying i hope I'll heal❤

  • @bee4497
    @bee44977 ай бұрын

    so, i’ve hated my smile and never smile with my teeth, and i try not to laugh because when i was younger my sister made fun of it, my laugh and my smile, and it’s been YEARS and it still effects me to this day

  • @ilovehimsosomuch
    @ilovehimsosomuch2 жыл бұрын

    I ABSOLUTELY LOVE THE FACT THAT SHE SAID “MISS GIRL, MISS SQUIRREL-“ I LOVE THATTT--

  • @Zoe-fm1qt
    @Zoe-fm1qt2 жыл бұрын

    I grew up with a cousin who is 1000x stereotypically “prettier” than me (long blonde hair, really skinny, clear skin) and she would always remind me how much prettier she was

  • @crystalmartin3422

    @crystalmartin3422

    2 жыл бұрын

    Literally me. My cousin is a gorgeous blonde who works at hooters and can get any guy she wants. She’s 18 days older than me and won’t let me forget 😭

  • @Zoe-fm1qt

    @Zoe-fm1qt

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@crystalmartin3422 yesss mine is 10 months older :/

  • @maddie-vw9sv

    @maddie-vw9sv

    2 жыл бұрын

    Those kind of cousins disagree when you tell them they're pretty.

  • @Zoe-fm1qt

    @Zoe-fm1qt

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@maddie-vw9sv yep 100%

  • @ashleyy535
    @ashleyy53510 ай бұрын

    The worst is when your friends point out something that you were not insecure about, but now you are..

  • @mercyjuluat8926
    @mercyjuluat89268 ай бұрын

    Shine bright like a diamond like a diamond in the sky

  • @naps411
    @naps4112 жыл бұрын

    I love this girl, literally the best big sister ever

  • @daretospeak00
    @daretospeak002 жыл бұрын

    I just love your wide eyed face expression 😂😂😂 Makes me laugh every time

  • @melissadudleson886
    @melissadudleson8862 ай бұрын

    Your energy is ELECTRIC! I think you're a beautiful soul and I genuinely feel positive after watching your videos! Thank you! ❤

  • @dafrick.
    @dafrick.2 жыл бұрын

    When Spencer said: “your insecure” THE FIRST THE I THOUGHT OF WAS ONE DIRECTION- HUN

  • @princess_potato_2744

    @princess_potato_2744

    Жыл бұрын

    Whoop whoop

  • @sabrinaislam8545
    @sabrinaislam85452 жыл бұрын

    I really love you for pointing that out. I really feel beautiful when I look at myself in the mirror, but then again, all the things that others say just come to my mind

  • @Vv_The_Swiftie_13
    @Vv_The_Swiftie_133 ай бұрын

    Her: Think about your insecurities. Me: Give me an hour.

  • @maniac_onna
    @maniac_onna10 ай бұрын

    She's the one who makes me more insecure about "myself " _ _

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