Imagine loving someone more than anything else and then you remember that this person doesnt even exist

@jenn9243

11 ай бұрын

It’s true but impossible to stop

@studyonly9994

10 ай бұрын

Same I am dealing with that!

@MISTAAHONCHOOO

10 ай бұрын

Idek wt she looks like starting to think it’s just a feeling

@Manobalan7

10 ай бұрын

Can relate🙂

@succeedingtime

9 ай бұрын

I got abandoned by my GF so its kinda possibel

Imagine u care someone more than anything but they dont care about you its the worst feeling💔

@joev7014

4 ай бұрын

Going through that right now…. I have become attached to a woman who detached from me

@bullyb6182

4 ай бұрын

@@joev7014I’m broken mate, my girlfriend was pregnant she lost our baby, i stood by her side through it all and she’s left me and blocked me on everything. I’m hurting so much

@sgdankmemesv1

4 ай бұрын

so real

@islandgirlmazing3705

2 ай бұрын

😢😢😢

@joev7014

2 ай бұрын

Update, I feel way better and I’m at peace. Thank God it’s over. I can finally focus on things that matter

The fear of being alone.

@StarJesseTaylor

Жыл бұрын

Practice being OK with loneliness and act on your values anyway, if you’re always being a slave to the loneliness, the brain knows how they react to loneliness let’s give them more loneliness because then they do more compulsion, and I can protect them more. That doesn’t mean to build relationships with his relationships proactively not reactively whenever you feel lonely go on Tinder or something.

@darksidecoops

Жыл бұрын

Or the fear of rejection

@strangerdaysss

Жыл бұрын

@@StarJesseTaylor my issue is that i dont feel loneliness anymore. i am so ok with being alone that i've accepted the fact of dying single and alone. i dont let other people love me. i am so avoidant that it makes me sad. i've been alone for the majority of my life without friends, relationships, romantic relationships that i just wont let anyone in my life anymore.

@shine2678

Жыл бұрын

​@@strangerdaysss same even i dont have any friends and im always alone...im practising to accept that its ok to be alone for now,but i may finx people in future who knows...

@chloecardenas2748

Жыл бұрын

omggg literally

Don't let nobody play with you just because you got a good heart

@StarJesseTaylor

4 ай бұрын

Setting boundaries is important

It hurts it really hurts

@egwuekwechima4463

11 ай бұрын

I just had a breakup and I don’t think I can survive it. My heart clenches every second and I legit feel like I’m sick. I hate this so much

@MartinFire13

11 ай бұрын

@@egwuekwechima4463break ups are rough. I had a bad one. Lost a lot of sleep. It takes time, you will be ok. Just give it time.

@ericericc1747

11 ай бұрын

10 years, not sure how long the pain would stay, its killing me

@sursmitrtz8401

11 ай бұрын

Burns

@jom9892

10 ай бұрын

​@egwuekwechima4463 you're not alone remember that. Next... 😉

I pray in god that all of us here will find love and remember he planned everything

How do you break this pattern addiction? Mines probably from loneliness or the affection i didn't get when i was young, so what do I do to fix me?

@StarJesseTaylor

Жыл бұрын

Hi Utkaresh! You are breaking the pattern by not acting on the pattern anymore. And instead act on the things that you value mindfully. That means not spending time with your hair trying to control parents, but mindfully acting on your values

@richardadorno9187

Жыл бұрын

@@pamkay1756 I hope you find someone who loves you.

@pamkay1756

Жыл бұрын

@@richardadorno9187 Awww. Thank you. I.hope so too.

@richardadorno9187

Жыл бұрын

@@pamkay1756 I think if we try to hard for love than it’s not meant to be.

@pamkay1756

Жыл бұрын

@@richardadorno9187 I agree.

This is so true, I’m just used to thinking about him, but I don’t think I’ll be actually happy with him

I fell in love with person and I felt my whole world click yet.. this person doesn't really see it. Sometimes I feel it's all my fault, and other times I just can't let go. Sometimes I cry so hard, and other times I laugh uncontrollably. But I've come to understand that it's actually ok to make mistakes, to miss that person but much more, to love myself more for who I am and live my life not just for that person but for me. You can do it also.... Don't let anyone steal u're peace... Trust You will be alright at the end of it all❤

@s.k1127

11 күн бұрын

❤

The fear of losing them

I also understand this addiction mostly its because of childhood trauma...whether it can be abandonment issues or parents being over protective and so we not thinking independently from childhood....hence while growing into adult we tend to bond with ppl who are similar and controlling as like our parents so that we may feel protected and secure....hence we get too attached and stick to the dynamics of runner and chaser......I was kind of repeating patterns.....hence its very important to recognise the patterns and act mindfully.....we will definitely encounter fear of loneliness and urge to be in a relationship for validation and that happy feelings....but it's essential to control our emotions mindfully.....we should mindfully take a relationship and dating detox for 3 to 6 months.....focus on building urself....focus on loving urself,becoming healthy,fit,beautiful and chasing ur purpose of ur existence....talk your heart out to a trustable friend....just understand one thing ...we cane alone and we have to leave alone...in that short period of time try to live a purposeful life...then our vibrations become stronger and we become independent....then we ll be able to attract the perfect healthy and balanced relationship.....

@precious_diamondajala5985

11 ай бұрын

How to do all this ooo

@Berxwedan.

11 ай бұрын

Thank you so much, you really made my day better

@yogitameera

8 ай бұрын

That childhood trauma thing is so accurate... people mostly tak abandonment issues into their account but there are also people who face trauma because of overprotectiveness too .

I am addicted to my husband, I lived , breathed, everything to make him happy he was my life my world. I felt his pain , I completed his sentences. He was my safety. I depended on him for everything. And then he died 4 1/2 years ago and I’m still in a deep depression

@StayingMindfulShaq

11 ай бұрын

Idk what to say Your so strong I dont think i would survive that

@oohhthatsher4542

8 ай бұрын

I am praying for you ♥️

@intrinsic.valuesss

6 ай бұрын

God protects you ❤️

@GentleZeeBMB

6 ай бұрын

So Sorry, I Hope You Find A Way To Be Happy Without Forgetting Or Erasing Him From Your Mind & Heart❤️

@butterflakess1487

3 ай бұрын

May Allah (SWT) make it easy on you❤

It’s coming from a place where I feel I won’t meet anyone else like her who understands what I do and all the love and passion I put into everything and it just feels like I’m getting in her way cause she doesn’t care

@PRINCE_Of_PRIVILEGE

6 ай бұрын

And I’m putting myself through it because I’m so scared that nobody in this world will understand my hurt my heart. My joy my pride I’ve givin her ALL OF THAT and I’ve done so much for her..but she just doesn’t wanna care like that and it’s hurting me and I know if I stay then I’ll hurt more but I genuinely like her..as a person she’s funny she’s caring she’s wise and I love her so much and I know love is a strong word to use in this situation but I’m not getting love back only kisses cuddles and fuck…

Bro I think you finally opened my eyes. Thats exactly whats been happening in my life all the time.

@roza.D.

3 ай бұрын

In mine too

In my junior year I met a coworker of mine. She was pretty, smart, and a great artist. It wasn’t love at first sight or anything but she grew on me quickly. No other woman made me feel the same way she did before or since. I felt alive when I finally told he I liked her. The sad thing is that she said nothing back. Not even no. Soon after I moved to a new school halfway through my junior year. It pretty much broke me and I spent my senior year picking myself up. She still lingers in the back of my mind through. No matter what I do I can not move on from her. I decided to join the Air Force and I’m moving on with life. I’m going to have to thank her though later. She was the first person I fell in love with and made me realize feelings I didn’t even know existed.

Thank you my friend’ 🙂 I’ve figured that out’ big time! The problem was the emptiness within me’ hoping’ praying that it could be fulfilled from someone/ anyone else! It never happened! So I became/ learned to be enmeshed within me’ and I’m feeling’ much better these days ❤

@StarJesseTaylor

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for your appreciation! I’m glad you’re doing so much better

@shweta7050

11 ай бұрын

how did you do it

@user-xu4xj2cd2j

11 ай бұрын

That's great and all but you can't be alone for ever, I was hopping to start a family and get married in the next year now I have to completey change the future I've built for the last 7 years

It’s hard to let go of someone you were dating when you thought you found the person of your dreams, or they make you feel like someone you never thought you would ever need in your life.

@nyanguthii5535

6 ай бұрын

Yeah😢

@karenreyes8348

5 ай бұрын

😢how you guys holding up? Im struggling so hard right now.

@sunbeamcheeks

4 ай бұрын

i'm going thru it now😭

@karenreyes8348

4 ай бұрын

@@sunbeamcheeks it’s been 5 months for me after the break up, but officially 2 weeks now not talking to each other anymore. Just cry it out, 🥲that’s honestly all you can do to get better in a way. Feel it all and just process it slowly all the emotions. It’s the only way to heal😭

@sunbeamcheeks

4 ай бұрын

@@karenreyes8348 no distractions needed, these days i woke up with swollen eyes. I agree with you, that's the only way🥺 thank you, i hope we could heal soon ❤️

Thank you man for solving 99%problems of mine.. It's very difficult to control...

@StarJesseTaylor

6 ай бұрын

Thank you for your appreciation

Imagine loving someone so much and they know it but still choose to ignore you now 15 years later and a 7 year old I'm still in love and alone, maybe it's not love but a pattern addiction, maybe I'm mad that he left me with no words and I chased him all these years and nothing I do will make hims stay not even a kid he asked for 😢

This is what I'm going through right now, from talking on the phone every day to not even talking no more.

It is natural to be attracted to those that we feel good around, to go towards to good feelings, and it is also natural to feel good around those who we are compatible with. Those things can be in action whether or not a pattern addiction is present…

@StarJesseTaylor

10 ай бұрын

I didn’t say anything about that in the video

Its scary how i felt alone even when i was with him but its more scary to think of being alone without anybody.

I just want a soul mate for fock sake .. To hug me

@peaceofmindofpeace1650

8 ай бұрын

Exactly. Human primary need and that's fully legit 😊

I'm addicted like, i paused this video and thought about him for a while then continued watching.. Someone please help

@RosemaryBabyZVllX

Жыл бұрын

It will pass

@StarJesseTaylor

Жыл бұрын

Meditation will help and mindfulness. You need to learn to steer your focus

@fierymoth4330

Жыл бұрын

Same 😆

@miskatnur59

8 ай бұрын

Relatable 🥺😅🙂

I love him in every way, I know I’ll never get to be with him but talking him and seeing him smile and laugh just warms my heart❤️

@StarJesseTaylor

9 ай бұрын

You will love more. Start with yourself. Do actions for yourself

@raghunathn8495

14 күн бұрын

I have the exact same feeling, I don't know if I love her or I'm just addicted but I know for sure that I'll never get her, never ever. She's super pretty, being around her seeing her face watch her smile hear her laugh just makes me feel good. The worst thing is she is my neighbor and I know absolutely that she doesn't care about me but since she is that close to my house I'm constantly distracted and I want to get rid of it, that's why I'm watching this video.

"You are what you love not who loves you" Charlie Kaufman

The way u described this was impeccable

@StarJesseTaylor

10 ай бұрын

Thank you!

I have finally understood my pattern. But it goes way back. Being ignored by my father. So, I have unconsciously later turned to partners who are there but not there. Emotionally absent and that's also the feeling I chased and thought was love all my life. How crazy isn't that. But I also see when I face this how my body and soul get like a stress on blows. Then to just give up on myself and give everything of myself. Destroying myself. Put away men in my life who were really there. For them, I thought it was strange. But after a long period of repairing myself. Even reprogramming me. Am I in a different place in life. But no one got a bed of roses without hard work. As well as starting to see a self-worth.Not afraid to be alone anymore. Have myself. The best friend and partner you can have. The other can come later. But it can be done in peace. No stress. Getting to know each other for a long time. So I see what it is I face. Also that I myself have to be open and vulnerable. Have boundaries. Being able to say stop and no. Because I have never dared to do that. So those I have met have gone far beyond my limits. But no more ever.

@StarJesseTaylor

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing that! Really great to see those things for yourself

I have stopped this pattern addiction and haven't been in love in 10 years and have been focusing on myself for the last 10 years and I don't miss being in love or wanting a person so bad anymore

the desire to love someone and feeling safe

@StarJesseTaylor

9 ай бұрын

Yes we all have that

It’s companionship. Being alone, is lonely. We are meant to have a community and people around us.

I’m just lonely and tired of constant rejection

I thought chemistry was hard

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to move on, I really loved her so much i can’t stop thinking about her and the memories we shared. I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail. I’m frustrated, and i don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts, but i can’t. I don’t know why I’m saying this here, but i really miss her and i wish i could get her back.

@MoloSaidu

26 күн бұрын

I have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about three years ago, but i could not let her go. So i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back. We are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.

@kanereall

26 күн бұрын

Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach one?

@MoloSaidu

26 күн бұрын

Her name is Maurice Gleti, and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

@kanereall

26 күн бұрын

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

But how do you actually get over it? because I like this person. and we are friends. But i know he doesn't like me in that way. and I've tried everything. I tried new hobbies, making new friends. I just don't know what to do. especially because he's the only one who understands me. What do I do? its kinda got out of control I'm crying over it. I don't know what to do.

@leefirth7439

11 ай бұрын

I also Know i cant go on like this.

@chinatsumatsumoto8143

11 ай бұрын

​​same situation although she's a girl and always unsure of it to the point it becomes platonic

@leefirth7439

11 ай бұрын

@@chinatsumatsumoto8143 I mean no offence but at least I'm not the only one struggling with this stuff.

@buzz6989

5 ай бұрын

How are you now? Im in a similar situation

@leefirth7439

5 ай бұрын

@@buzz6989I’m not going to lie I’ve managed to get over him just about well more or less he’s still my best friend but I don’t see him as the person I need in my life. And how are you?

I needed this today

Damn I wish I was emotionally addicted to this person but they treated me like shit for years yet I still want them Becuase I don’t see them as just that even though I get mad and it pisses me off at times and sometimes I would let it out on them. But I really love and care for this person and I’d want to be the best for them.

@Meenakshii9038

10 ай бұрын

ur love is so pure. thats all

You feel safe and happy with them conforted

@user-xu4xj2cd2j

11 ай бұрын

Yeah and the thought of having to start up again from scratch

If you seeing this comment so , please focus on your goal and hangout with friends... That can definitely heal you little by little..... It's my personal experience

Found out that the girl I once loved has a boyfriend, so I’m here to learn how to let go. 😢

But what if you love someone because of who they are? It's like you found someone you would love because all you wish in a person is in them.

@StarJesseTaylor

11 ай бұрын

You still only know hundreds of people in person. There’s billions out there that you don’t know. There’s at least hundreds of thousands that you could be in love with. But you were saying it’s only this one.

@rkanegaming4860

11 ай бұрын

​@@StarJesseTayloryeah maybe you're right, I hope she likes me back whom ever that person that I like that much.

@Redboy.23

11 ай бұрын

​@@StarJesseTaylorand....how do i know if i really love someone? and it's not just a "patern" ?

@trinityp8575

9 ай бұрын

@@StarJesseTaylorjust because there are billions out there doesn’t mean you will meet someone for you. Some people never do. Some people only meet one true love in a lifetime. Truly special someone is not many. It’s rare.

@user-xu4xj2cd2j

9 ай бұрын

Yeah I wouldn't take advice of this guy he's probably someone who never gets a girl and says it because he doesn't want one lol

I definitely needed to hear this today. Tysm great advice & just subbed

Thank you for this I started crying when I realized that this is how I am feeling

@StarJesseTaylor

2 ай бұрын

Thank you for your appreciation!

You hit the nail on the head

@StarJesseTaylor

Жыл бұрын

Thank you!

7 years has passed, and yet there is still a little bit of faith in me, but with the faith.. there is a huge pain behind it

This is actually true, I started dating her and now that I am I’m not even happy we’re are breaking up soon

Thanks, needed to hear this

what I want and what makes me feel good is just simple that I can’t understand why it’s wrong except for the fact that when they aren’t there I feel awful. It’s a terrible life to live. But as soon as I’m in his arms or his company I feel so good that why wouldn’t I want that but then again like I said,the shitty feeling when I don’t have that. Now we aren’t together and I have had to learn how to be ok with being alone again. It used to love alone time and liked my own company until I dated this detached avoidant man who made me anxiously attached when I’m normally not when I’m with a man who isn’t being avoidant. It was probably just as bad as coming off of hard drugs when we broke up. I don’t ever want to feel like that again so much so that I’m scared to try again and I have never been scared to try again.

All living things are designed to move toward pleasure and away from pain. It is our survival mechanism.

Idk want to say, that I just like the way they are, their humor and jokes, but idk how to stop this addiction, I think it is affecting my mental health...

when I told her about what I felt of her, she said, "okay..". and I asked, "what do you feel about me?"..She said, "i dont have feelings for anyone at the moment." I've known her and loved her for 5 years then. it's the 6th year.. I thought i moved on, but it kicked in again. Suffering of it rn..

that hurts.. THE REALITY MY HEART IS PAINING

That’s it ! Pattern addiction is what i’ve had my entire life . Thais why i can’t tolerate changes in my life . If anything altered my lifestyle pattern i would become very fearful and insecure . A Pattern of emotional security is of course addictive . It’s like breathing air or drinking water .

THANK YOU FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART!!!

@StarJesseTaylor

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for your appreciation!

When you enjoyed the experiences and the time you spent together

I believe in you! Don’t give up on love . Just work on yourself kings 👑

Pattern addiction happens to me all the time 😢

The reason I’m addicted to him is because I crave real love. Love I haven’t received in years from family or friends.

I just wanna see her happy (the happiness i never got)

This guy sounds like he’s doing a bad Christopher Walken impersonation.

makes so much sense. i am extremely avoidant so i dont do this with romantic relationships but i do see this with other aspects of my life.

i love her so much it physically hurts me and i want to continue be in a relationship but i don’t want to smother her by constantly texting her and stuff. it affects my life too because i’m constantly thinking about her. i want to love her but it would be to hard on her and myself for this relationship to remain as one sided as it feels.

I remember a guy liking me for this exact reason. I knew that. So I didn’t give him what he wanted. He is now less needy, and he is growing. I am glad I was able to do him a favor by staying away, because I am sure the only reason he wanted that is to feed off of it, and not to help it to thrive. Stay sharp ladies

@StarJesseTaylor

9 ай бұрын

That’s very aware from you

@yumtaco7376

9 ай бұрын

@@StarJesseTaylor thank you 😊

Thank you. I’m in love with a dream, I need to better myself and stay focused and self confident if I’m ever going to make my dreams a reality. I need to let go of the old so I can embrace the new good things coming my way

I met this girl two years ago... We both fell in love in just 1 month, but since we were far away from each other , she was getting tired to accept this fact... It affected her happiness... So she set boundaries So that she should not feel very dependable on me... But i wasn't ready for all this , she never actually talked about this , or even when she did, i said, it will work out. I dont know how to set my own boundaries... My mind is constantly just thinking about her How can i help myself

@merveuzun2536

Жыл бұрын

She probably seeing someone elses

Being all alone, then a person enters takes away your loneliness and you start living with them get feelings for them and they leave you breaking all the promises. It destroys even worst when you get hurt by the same person who once healed you i dont know if i will be able to get over her but i first time believed that someone can stay and hold and this thing is eating me badly i cant focus on things just suffering badly

@vwahbhaiwahr7501

9 күн бұрын

Us bro us 🫂

This is really helpful, thank you.

People should stop telling other people how to live their life, for real. This things are in trend now. Videos like this changes people mindset, they try to become what they're not. You're pulling an army of people who will follow your instructions that will eventually leads to a trash. Every single people are unique in their own way, one should not teach others how to live their life

This shitty boy named Isaac that I have a huge crush on, me and my friends were at the park (he was one of my friends) he took my into the bathroom, (knowing that I had a crush on him)he pinned my up against the wall, and made out with me. This went on for 30-40 minutes leaving me completely flustered, then he stopped talking to me. He turned the other way in the hallways, he sat at a different lunch table, every class we had together he just sat as far away from me as possible. Making me feel like shit. It made me feel like the only way to feel that happiness again would be to go back to him. Then he started talking to me, and started hugging me and sitting next to me. He started ignoring me again, and I’ve been super depressed for months now because my mind tells me he’s toxic, but my heart tells me to run back to him again. It hurts.

@katelynmarran

Жыл бұрын

sounds like it could possibly be love bombing. they treat you good for a little, then treat you horribly and as soon as you’re almost over them and they realize that they start showing love again whether it’s by compliments or buying you things. that becomes patten and recurring until you’re completely dependent on that person. plz save yourself from this type of person ❤

@ItsAsparageese

Жыл бұрын

Either he's intentionally being hot & cold (so he's a manipulative jerk) or, more likely, he doesn't really know what he wants & is following impulses without considering the effects on you (so he's an immature boy who happens to be unintentionally acting like a manipulative jerk). Could be some blend of both. But in any case, that's not a situation you belong in, you deserve better. If someone isn't committed enough to show you they consistently care, they're not good enough to reward them with any part of yourself at all. I get how hard it can be once they've made you feel good especially when you've kissed, that makes it extra intense psychologically, but the sooner you recognize that you owe it to yourself to have firm boundaries, the better. Don't let him use you, even if he's sweet & you really believe he doesn't mean to be. It's not only best for you, but also best for him if he learns not to treat people that way. Good luck

@clover-kun4004

Жыл бұрын

@The plural is actually "asparageese". I'm actually in a much better situation now! I started dating a boy named tristin about 3 weeks ago, and he's treats me so well and he's so understanding of past situations I've been in. I've know him since around 5th grade. And he's likes me Sence about 8th grade (me being in 9th now) he's everything I could ask for. He askes about how I feel before he does anything about how he feels. He always puts me first

@ItsAsparageese

Жыл бұрын

@@clover-kun4004 Right on, that's very sweet, I'm glad you're not letting a jerk toy with you anymore :) I hope things go well for you. Be sure you encourage your new beau to consider his own needs and be kind to himself too 😉 Take care young'un (I can't believe I'm unironically saying young'un lol I'm not that old {cries in aging millennial})

@clover-kun4004

Жыл бұрын

@The plural is actually "asparageese". shiit dawg he broke up with me and told me to kms 💀 I'm done dating boys😭 I'm just gonna try and focus on me 😂

Thank you!!! I had a head injury and got attached I was confused

It’s not an addiction. It’s normal human need and desire. It’s like saying to a baby or a child - stop your addiction to a parent. It’s normal . We are born to be connected and be in unions.

I was traumatized as a child and growing up with this person made me distracted from constantly feeling and thinking about it…. I made them my home without them choosing to be… I’ve chosen them far and way before they even know and could ever now. So now I’m choosing to let them go, and having to heal from making a decision for someone/ a very important role in my life someone never asked to be in.

After going through this stuff in real life by myself, ive got to say he's damn right. Losing my girlfriend was hard, realising i maybe never loved her, and just tried to replace the happiness i cant give myself. Life your life and let people come and go, it will help you much more than finding a human who fills something, your supposed to give sourself.

I want to be with him because he is literally the man of my dreams, prayers, etc.. but we met at a bad time and so I screwed it all up and now have to let go.

thank you, man. I think I need to see this video everyday

@StarJesseTaylor

5 ай бұрын

Thank you for your appreciation!

Thank you for explaining things to me much clearer.

@StarJesseTaylor

10 ай бұрын

Glad it was helpful!

loving someone taken is something different, especially having to chain your feelings when you're with that person really breaks a man/female

@dakshmassey1059

10 ай бұрын

I’m in the same position bro. She’s like one of my best friends, we are together all day but she’s in a great long distance relationship and it hurts me a lot to hide my feelings and jealousy. I really want her but can’t have her. I can’t even try to come in a relationship with someone else. It’s hard rn but I just keep moving

@eross899

10 ай бұрын

@dakshmassey1059 to be honest bro atleast shes next to you, if i was you i would confess

@dakshmassey1059

10 ай бұрын

@@eross899 i kind of told her before but since she’s in a relationship she couldn’t do anything about it so i just told her I’m over her now. Honestly bro being with her all the time is much harder than if I didn’t see her at all

@eross899

10 ай бұрын

@dakshmassey1059 to be honest its better to distance yourself, and show up after a while of improvement when they are either free or you are done with them

I hate this emotion of love always ignored it and now not again

Literally thank you ❤

This literally means, i never even fall in love with anyone.. And that life motivation i got from loving(not sure anymore cause of this video) will disappear if i try to kill this addiction that you kept sayin. I will be left as an empty shell again. Not all addiction is bad

If u been with that person for years it's not easy to just drop em I'm having problems n I want peace but I cannot let go

No man i just loved him, i don’t need him to be happy but he’s just in my heart 💔

Welp that explains the feeling I have with the girl I liked for 10 yrs since kids till now and when I ask for a valid reason saying cuz we’re too close… u may sound like a psychopath but trust me I’m not… I just exerted too much effort to the person to the Point that’s I don’t hate her nor love her….

You are so right my friend.

@StarJesseTaylor

5 ай бұрын

Thank you!

I was happy with him , I enjoyed our time together,and than the time he actually had left after new job went elsewhere.

I really really REALLY liked this guy. He lead me on for like two months (talked and flirted EVERY day, I went to his house and we made out (which he initiated)) time comes ofc that I tell him I like him and he said he wants to stop flirting and just stay friends because he doesn't like me like that. It hurts so much dude

Attachment leads to suffering, whether its a thing, or person.

The only my way I got over my ex was to literally think like they don’t exist. As far as I know they died. It helped

It’s such pain when you fall in love with a older person and things can’t go well even when both of us are in love but due to age gap we have no future it’s so heartbreaking.

@StarJesseTaylor

2 ай бұрын

Unless one of the people is under 18 that’s not true. Age doesn’t matter in love. You’re brainwashed by social construct.

Whoa. This accurately describes me

Elian if you see this while scrolling troe youtube I love you

But it's really hard to leave that person whom we loved the most 💔

@StarJesseTaylor

4 ай бұрын

Yes, that’s really hard. But you gonna meet so many more people that you can love And first of you want to love yourself by doing actions that support you and stop spending time in your head on that person use your focus

She's shy and cute when she talks her voice is soft but on the outside she looks strict and mean. Her small height that's relatively close to mine makes her look beautiful. Shes a really nice person, funny, kind and caring. The thing i love about her is that she's everything I'm missing.

It's that feeling in my chest that I need to get rid of. that's all 😢

Bro knows everything 😮

@StarJesseTaylor

10 ай бұрын

Thank you

This is true I only have one friend and I don’t talk to many people so when a guy talks to me and makes a conversation something clicks inside my head and I just start to have a crush on him I need to get over a guy rn because apparently he’s dating someone and I had no idea 😭

When the devil can't get any further he sends a women

I wanted the person too..but the main reason was her story...really sad...I wanted to make her life better..

He literally made all my dreams about love come true. He made me feel love I never thought would happen to me because I didn’t believe in love. I really thought we would be together for longer. It hurts so much. I never thought I’d find love like that only to lose it. How much I wish we had continued to be friends.

@StarJesseTaylor

4 ай бұрын

Watch the how to heal your heartbreak video. You will notice that it’s your brain warping your reality because you are spending time on the obsessions

It’s so true it’s come when I hear some songs .I think I avoid it first then it will be easy to forget him ….