Yeah, i had a guy take me out with his friends, but he didn't claim me and when we went to the club to all dance he kind of ignored me, and started to flirt with some other women. 😏 challenge accepted. He was so pissed by the end of the night...taught his ass a lesson. Don't mess with this scorpio.

@sturose637

4 жыл бұрын

Wow am in this situation what should l do please please

@blueblaze9862

3 жыл бұрын

I love scorpios bc they just dont care

@lennertcornette

Жыл бұрын

@@blueblaze9862 What do you mean? Even scorpio's have predator ennemies, even in deserts.

if you have to do all this just to get treated right, he's not worth keeping. cats shouldn't be chasing a dog, the dog should be chasing the cat.

@LGnLA

7 жыл бұрын

💯💯💯💯💯

@thereisnopandemic

5 жыл бұрын

Ya'tuma Actually women do the chasing. Make up is beginning of the chase, and don’t give me the bullshit that women use make up for themselves.

@mgtowdeutschland1152

5 жыл бұрын

The supporter should not chase the supported one. The host should not chase the parasite. The strong should not chase the weak. The independent should not chase the dependent.

@Devotchka161

5 жыл бұрын

@@mgtowdeutschland1152 so when you go to the supermarket produce just flies into your cart or do you pick it out?

@mgtowdeutschland1152

5 жыл бұрын

@@Devotchka161 I picked it but they always jumped in other carts lol

wow, a lot of women need strong men at home. Youre like a big brother talking to lil sis about deadbeats in the world. Thank you for caring enough to talk about it.

@blackmegriffin9240

6 жыл бұрын

Suzy P'z n Q'z and that's the problem. Single parent households have created this monster and it's only getting worse

@LadyofCleves65

6 жыл бұрын

How very true. I love this guy's advice.

@naishlarox23

5 жыл бұрын

🙌🏻

@donnagee4183

5 жыл бұрын

Fakts joan

@francesjeanlouis1650

4 жыл бұрын

So true!😊

That is so true ! A guy I was talking to would never hardly call me, so when he wanted me to come over to his house, I refused the offer.

I cater to no man. I'm the prize, if he not seeing this, I just move on.

@enorahemlee3457

6 жыл бұрын

go girl👍

@randymorobitto5453

5 жыл бұрын

Miss V (or anyone, really...) - Wouldn't it be better to be a partner?

@thereisnopandemic

5 жыл бұрын

Miss V enjoy being an old spinster and start checking what type of cat breed fits you.

@hallebarrymore7567

4 жыл бұрын

Ik this was a year ago but y you watching this video then? Lmao?

@Gapeaches77able

4 жыл бұрын

Joseph Mauricio Flores 😅😂

Thank you Chazz for reminding women they always have options and they need to keep their own life separate from the man.

I am finally over my ex. Since I'm over him I don't have the same feelings towards him. I don't even like him any more. It feels good because I don't think about him, and don't know how he looks anymore. I'm not concerned about his well-being I'm really over him. A week ago I was missing him like crazy. Woke up one day and I wasn't missing him and I realized I didn't love him no more and after evaluating the pros and con's. He don't even qualify for me anymore. I'm happy!!! YEAHHHHHHH

@scooterlovya

5 жыл бұрын

He don't even qualify for me anymore. WOW!!!

@thereisnopandemic

5 жыл бұрын

TheRealVon54Opinion Writes a whole paragraph about HIM. Yeah you don’t think about him anymore. Haha

@itinavarait

5 жыл бұрын

Joseph Mauricio Flores you're trolling huh

@wendystjulien1957

5 жыл бұрын

How long did it take you to get to get to this place?

@painexotic3757

5 жыл бұрын

Youre clearly not over him. You remind me of some chicks I know who claim to be over guys yet find ways to incorporate them in conversations. We can be talking about politics and these btches will say some sht like "Oh I remember when jay thought the same thing blah blah blah". You're over him yet on youtube writing about him? Laughable.

Man it is tough to date in modern society lol

@cherisew

3 жыл бұрын

Tough

@aminabesmilin4691

3 жыл бұрын

Yes it is

@beautyswithinu8829

3 жыл бұрын

Yep im over it I've accepted being single

So true! I used to run errands for my parents ASAP and drop everything I'm doing in order to satisfy them but nothing made them happy, I felt like I was never enough; I grew up to be a people pleaser and it carried into my life with friends, bfs, and people in general. They just never seemed satisfied until I left and they realized what they've lost til they appreciate me or when I suggest to them that I have other options.

@aminabesmilin4691

3 жыл бұрын

Yep!!! That’s very true!

why do relationships have to be this damn complicated.

@tcbroussard9562

3 жыл бұрын

Ok! A whole damn job.... with possible pay/benefits.

@shibaanimegameedits2961

3 жыл бұрын

Boredom is the problem..people love drama and spice.. in their relationships and knowing or thinking that you have a lot of options just from being yourself keeps him on his best and interested... If you’re at someone you’re interested in beck and call, you come off as desperate to people...

@rogerseow3878

3 жыл бұрын

Because nowadays people are becoming complicated and demanding! They dunno how to appreciate simplicity!

My motto is if I'm to come out the comfort of my home to do the same *ish in your house I do in mine, I rather stay home! Dayumn that... The city to BIG to be laid up indoors all the time*

@kolakane9228

6 жыл бұрын

lol wys!

@levernejones8588

6 жыл бұрын

I'd rather watch Netflix by myself anyway.

@ejstrawberry9659

5 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@akeiriataylor4759

5 жыл бұрын

Yassss i stay saying that !!!

@mostthegames3723

5 жыл бұрын

Hahaha no shit. I finally came to that conclusion too. What a dick

A man who thinks highly of a woman doesn't need any games. Ladies, the rule works for everybody. Never make yourself available for everyone. People like what they have to work hard for. 😘

@2livenoob

4 жыл бұрын

Except women, apparently, since they aren't expecting to do any work for the man.

@LeeNacola

4 жыл бұрын

@@2livenoob Why do you think it doesn't require any work for a woman?

@2livenoob

4 жыл бұрын

@@LeeNacola What do they do?

@LeeNacola

4 жыл бұрын

@@2livenoob You didn't answer my question.

@2livenoob

4 жыл бұрын

@@LeeNacola Your question is inherited from my first response, and in it is your answer. If you disagree, then answer mine.

Guess what I'm happy now. I allowed someone else in and he's amazing

@parisryan2012

8 жыл бұрын

Aww that's nice ☺️

@GirlSix180

6 жыл бұрын

Is he still amazing? Or

@tejudahunsi9622

6 жыл бұрын

I'm Her lol 2 years later lol your response is funny

@dianeslate4049

6 жыл бұрын

Starlett Rutledge you go girl

Hanging out is one thing. That's friendship. You do have lives. Live them... A serious relationship on the other hand will require you both to put forth an effort to maintain a relationship. No one has to demand and show that you have other options. You have options all the time. You just have to take time to live your lives and incorporate both lives together. If you want to be treated better, then find better. You can't demand better treatment from ones who aren't willing to give it.

@josephBC3652

6 жыл бұрын

Joyce 31202 wow well said

Summary: Control 1) what you give 2) your availability 3) what you're willing to do, example: to not drop everything for him/her, unless he/she is doing the same for you

I guess I was living under a rock. Because I thought come over and watch movies really meant that.

@levernejones8588

6 жыл бұрын

time to get out of the naive zone

@shavir8597

6 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry that was pretty funny 😂

@Aussie0aka0Strales

5 жыл бұрын

Yep and creepy men in white vans offering candy just want to give you candy.

@slimtmedia

5 жыл бұрын

Lol

@bxndo5ive

5 жыл бұрын

It has never meant that lol

I think this video could also be titled "demonstrating personal boundaries-- unapologetically" 👏

MIDDLE FINGER UP INDEX FINGA FOLLOWZ...........LMAO CHAZZ!!! YOUR SUCH A GODSEND AND A COMEDIAN 2 I LOVE IT!!!

I understand this message but when I drop things for a guy it's usually because I actually like him not because I don't have options. I always thought it was pretty obvious that other guys would be trying to get with me too. Do men really think they're the only guy that asked for my number or my attention? When I'm not putting up with a guys crap it's usually because I'm not into him like that and I feel like he has to actually WOW me before I take another step forward with him.

This man I was dating only wanted to come to my house. I'd suggest for us to go out and here comes his excuses. I legit had a bath last night, cried my little heart out & blocked him on everything. It was a little blunt but I had to. I hmu saying "I'm gonna be busy for a min dont hmu anymore." Blunt but had to let his ass know so I can heal. He had to go 🤙🏾✂️

@msladysofie

5 жыл бұрын

hugs... I hope u healed and u can do better *hugs* 2 cute bops that get me on my shit after a fuck nikka is (1) shoulda known better by Case (2) enough cry by Mary J Blige fun Brooklyn... girl bop n get to life! f that nikka u betta than him!

I had to show a few guys that I was dealing with that I had options. OK one just wanted to get up and have sex, which was his idea of chilling. I used to say to him we nvr do anything or go anywhere, however you want me to come over & (chill) have sex.. So I stopped responding to his texts, I stopped making it convenient for him and in return he saw that I took back my power 9n that aspect. So now he calls or texts me to say do you want to hang out or do you want to go to a movie, etc. . Sometimes even if I'm not busy with doing something else I just ignore him just for gp just to let him see that I'm in control and that I do have other options ..Believe me it works..Chaz you hit the nail on the head with this one..

@Peace43587

6 жыл бұрын

Queen Destined Sometimes guys do what they have to for the sex

@anthonypetty1655

6 жыл бұрын

I'm curious after a year how are you doing are you in a steady relationship?

@theuncensoredaboriginal

6 жыл бұрын

Anthony Petty Right!

@margaritagaribay4419

5 жыл бұрын

Queen Destined 💍😜

This was always my problem giving my all too soon and basically hitting him up far more than he was🤦🏾‍♀️

A good man will plan out the date, things if you're special to him; and men gets paid more than females at my work, even if the guy has less seniority than me and other females; men should pay for a date dinner etc. out then.

That so true. That’s why it’s nice to date 3 guys at the same time with the 90 rule 💋

@orubek355

4 жыл бұрын

👌👌👌

That the middle and the index finger follows lol you are hilarious

Chazz, Chazz, Chazz! Seriously, the light has just came on in my head! Best advice I've gotten on this subject hands down!! Thank you! I am so tired of being taken for granted! A change is gonna come!

Honestly I prefer to be low key and not let it be own that I have options because he'll think he's in control and it's like SURPRISE no you're not the only guy I'm talking to. Most guys assume so and treat the girl like she's on the back burner thinking she can't do better than him and tolerate his mistreatment

@blackmegriffin9240

6 жыл бұрын

NewJohariClassic well honestly that's the best way. Cause if he will Disrespect me in public he will not have me in private. Operate as if you are Oprah nobody knows who she's fuckin and nobody should 😋😎😑

@alle126

3 жыл бұрын

yup me too. I don't say nothing let him think its just him then BLAM lol

Thank you for keeping it real. You are a good man and you are doing a true service to this screwed up world, your work is changing humanity for the better🙏🏻

Chazz...I CANNOT thank you enough for these videos, You don't know how valuable your insight has been to me, I'm back on the dating scene and it seems like the game has changed! Thanks!

Today would be the 49th birthday of a Man who I KNOW loved me. I stopped by his grave earlier & sung happy birthday and it JUST hit me how having missed a call from him, not calling right back, and then hearing he was killed has impacted me in my relationships to this day, when you were talking about forcing your availability... 'WOW!" I believe he brought that to my mind thru you, Chazz& I am grateful. I get it!💞 HAPPY HEAVENLY BIRTHDAY DONOVAN!!❤️ 😇🤩🥳

I find the best relationships result when people do not have to or think about playing mind games ...if you have to play mind games it will never work long term...live you life for you and not live their life to suit/meet their needs

I’m tired of this kind of love 🥺

Give the guy the free will to choose the things he wants to do in his life because the more you become manipulative with him, the more he gets uninterested with you. Show him that you are independenrt, that you will be doing fine without him, in that way he will put more value on you.

EXCELLENT VIDEO! Thanks for helping us ladies! Much appreciated!

Now i was watching another guy for advice, but he wasn’t being Pacific ....YOU on the other hand BEST ADVICE IVE HEARD thanks for the video!!!!!! You now have a new subscriber !!!!!!!! ⚠️⚠️⚠️⚠️⚠️👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

@jddouet5192

4 жыл бұрын

Specific*

Thanks for all your inspiration and advice! This has changed my life.

Chazz your advice is so divine and real.

You are awesome. I also like it that you look right into the camera, Which shows that it’s something that you know and not reading it from a paper. Thank you for all the advice

One of the best videos I've seen on this topic! Thanks Chazz!

okay, so are men just completely devoid of respect for women? i'm confused because it sounds like you have to deal with men trying to see what they can get away with in a relationship. do normal boundaries and basic courtesy/respect not exist anymore?

@blackmegriffin9240

6 жыл бұрын

Iroc314072 you are correct. Most males don't respect their mother and some low self-esteem broads will also allow him to be a piece of shit. So he'd rather be on they level so yeah hon it's a losing game out here I'd start taking trips out of the country if you can.....

@Shani_Gumbs

3 жыл бұрын

Even when they have utmost respect for Momma, that doesn't mean he'll have the same for you. He'll respect you ro the extent he's required to. Otherwise he'll trample all over you and convince you, you're the problem. Keep both feet planted.

Great video and very helpful. Right on point as always.

This actually works!

Chiiiiiiild, you are most certainly telling the truth.

Your so on point I'm in 😭. I was too available and received the short end of the stick...but I'll be alright. Keep doing what you do I really appreciate you

I really love your advice. Lots of good examples. Keep it up!

Your advice in this video is so right on!! That's whuss up!!

*Dont you ever get to thinkin ; “your irreplaceable”!* Remember, Queen B already marked that!! 🎤😉

haha you just described my last eight years with guy who calls every three weeks and wants me to come watch Netflix but really wants something else. On a good note, I dropped him a while ago but funny...my exact story :)

Thanks Chazz, your videos have helped me so much! 👍💗🤗

Thank you so much for your advice....is hard to face the truth...but I learned that is worth to keep going ahead even when it hurts..

This is spot on.

Thanks Chazz I needed 🙋🏽to hear this 😘😘.

I just told him over the phone "I have other options, i dont need you." I hit 'em where it hurts

But, i suppose you're right. I just am seeking for a deeper and wiser kind of man, than just a normal guy.

You’re comical; love it!! I was weak off your side comments (smash, dueces, Mike Tyson 😩😂😂😂💀)

I soooo needed to hear this. Thank you!

your analogies are amazingg!! you are so wise thank you so much really.

Thank you for creating this amazing video of insight and precise information about men and dating. I now feel more inspired and aware in making more conscious decisions in dating men as well as creating a high value relationship!

I do have options! My life is full of worthwhile creative actions and activities. I'm sure just about everybody on this planet has worthwhile things to do.

I never saw a live stream I need to check it out cuz it's no more videos! Make more videos!!!!!!! I'm going to donate so I can get some more help with relationships!

Man you are so right all the time 🙌🏻

Lmao @ "I'ma pretend like I didn't hear him" 😂😂😂

living under a rock 😂😂😂

Really nice video!

Thank you for the loving advice.

Thanks for your advice... Great help😊

I'm alwayss turning down dates and acting as if options are few because I thought it was being respectful.... It's so true though that's it's taken for granted. Hmm

@theelizardqueen

4 жыл бұрын

Same... i had someone ask me to be their gf, give me a key to their apartment and send flowers to my house on vday as a surpise. And this guy was just a friend. I didn't tell my bf out of respect and because he always assumes cheating (i've only been with him since we first hooked up ever). Meanwhile my bf forgot valentines day and even after he remembered didnt take me out and we were together in person... Tbh after that nothing he said could convince me I'm his special woman and I don't see him the same. I think we did get taken for granted by acting as if our options are few. Tbh i did it to save myself from abuse because he punishes me for everything I do that takes away control from him over me. Its really sad because I love him but kinda dont see a point anymore its all just gross. How hard is it to take me out to dinner on valnetines day. I'm thinking hes cheating because he acted soo weird abt his phone last time I was over and didnt want to have sex. I'm just over it, like truly losing that feeling for him because I cant respect someone when they treat me that way and its just always like this, always a reason or excuse but nothing I say is valid.Over it

Wassup wassup wassup its your man chaz ellis once again.. Luv it

Jazz you help me so much thank you so much! I’ve been dealing with this guy for about a month now and I have borderline personality disorder so I Chyna wear my heart on my sleeve and I get attached way too quick therefore I get my feelings hurt a lot anyways you’re coaching videos have helped me exponentially up my game and the way that I handle situations thank you very much Chazz I’m forever grateful

Love the video!

Thanks you give great advice 😊

I totally agree! I can so relate to this! ♡

your so right. great video.

👍!!!!!!!!! You spoke in volumes!! Thanks!!!

WOW! I really am glad that I watch this. I really needed this information B-I-G B-I-G time. Thanks for this video

I like this video. It was short, informative, and one that I will show to my women's empowerment group. The only thing that I would add is that she should actually have options, and not pretend to have options. Actually go out with her friends, pursue a hobby, update her vita/resume, take a class/go back to school, etc. Actually be unavailable, instead of pretending to be unavailable. She'll build her self-worth, be happier with her life, and be more attractive to men because her life does not revolve around her suitors.

thank you for your advice!

This is gold mind info ‼️🗣

Very accurate,

Thank you. I learned a lot.

Problem is as follows, guys have more options because we choose, they don't choose us.🤔🤔🤔🤔

Thanks for mind opening principles for life.

Spot on video.

I thank the heavens for finding you👍💯

Great advice Chaz 😊😊

Thank you for important information.

Great video !

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Thank you for the advice!!!!!!!!!!!

Thank you....I needed a men to tell me this.

Great vid chaz

On point once again. .

I use to be such a sucker...not anymore. I luv these type of channels.

Thanks for sharing bro...it makes sense. I do have other options and it's noticeable so I don't have to pretend... I just want to be myself.

you are sent from above....trust me...wish I found you 2 years ago or more

I find your vids very timely and extremely helpful for me. How did you learn all these. Is there a "Relationship" University, or is this from life's experiences?

Great video!!!👍👍👍☺️☺️☺️💗💝💜💙💚

I always thought I should have to hide it. Wow!!!

Sounds like the woman needs to move on if you have to play so many manipulations and mind games.

@josephBC3652

6 жыл бұрын

Dawne Yekeen thank you sweetheart for the word of wisdom so true

@levernejones8588

6 жыл бұрын

I think the purpose of all this is to test the men, not get them to do what you want.....its to eliminate those who don't have good intentions, something you have to do just to protect yourself. Thanks Chazz

you are awsome! ☺