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Don’t forget that you still have a whole month in 2019 to achieve great things 💙

@DaviSouza-kq7xz

4 жыл бұрын

That's what I'm doing.

@Nan7ae

4 жыл бұрын

Even tho 2019 is over...what you said was totally right...it really motivated me!

@adaintydream8759

3 жыл бұрын

I love this comment! I am a perfectionist, i make plans in the beginning of the year but when i get off track, i get demotivated and think the whole year is wasted, and tend to wait for the next year to start over! How can i get rid of this problem, it is easier said than done for me :/ I make plans every week and when i fall off of the plan i sit depressed and demotivated for the remaining days of the week!

@minfires7572

3 жыл бұрын

@@adaintydream8759 I can relate to this on a spiritual level OMG I always set a bunch of goals for myself each month too but get unmotivated half way through and then think I'm a failure and give up. ok what I found that really helped was resetting my daily routine, taking a step back and acknowledge what went wrong and keep going! Just remember to take it one step at a time and take a break from everything for just a day if it gets too overwhelming. Sending a virtual hug

"When you don't keep the promises you made to yourself, you lose trust, and your self-esteem goes down and finally you stop believing in yourself." Ohmygod. This just blew my mind. Aileen, you explained the root of my problem. Thank you so much!

Another tip: don't start January. Start your goal next month instead. That way you can bypass the initial novelty "feeling" that wears off after a few days-weeks and focus on the goal itself. If something is important to you start now.

@Br0wnEyedQueen

4 жыл бұрын

^^^ Yes! A year is simply 365 days, you can really start at any point.

@bigdollsboudoirTV

4 жыл бұрын

Start today!

@madelonmesman6578

4 жыл бұрын

I always like to start in December as a tryout month were i can fail and try keeping motivation

How to set and achieve your goals in 2020 1. Envision. Start with a clear vision of what you want. (Health, career, relationships, personal growth, spirituality, creativity and adventure) 2. Write down the specific goals in each area. Start with the feeling eg glowy, security Also focus on the why, it keeps you motivated. Try keep it in your sphere of control. 3. Prioritise the goals according to the impact of the goal. Make a plan on how you will achieve these goals. 4. Take action as soon as possible. Your power is in the now. ♦️Keep the promises you make to yourself. ♦️Work on your goals daily. Link with reward. ♦️Track your progress daily ♦️Accountability.

@olirmsa

4 жыл бұрын

thanks for improving my productivity

@aranimethma6435

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you a lot 🙂

@alcaynchannelquran2359

4 жыл бұрын

♥️♥️

@rb2807

2 жыл бұрын

People like you are the backbone of society

@dhiadidia3519

2 жыл бұрын

Thankyou 💗

Don’t trick yourself. Make your goals attainable. As Aileen mentioned, if it’s less in your control and more “out of your control” then you may want to reconsider. The WHY is crucial to sticking to your goals. Envisioning your highest self achieving a goal will definitely help. From a self love content creator, great video Aileen. Just in time for this new decade. 💜

@jeanettemerstrand8851

4 жыл бұрын

I love this tip of making sure that your goals are actually attainable and within your control 💕

@veritaseru

4 жыл бұрын

Wow! What a take!

@F0reverblessed

4 жыл бұрын

Embracing Average Thank you! Happy holidays!! 🤗🎊

@F0reverblessed

4 жыл бұрын

veritaseru Thank you! :) Happy holidays! Have a great weekend!! :))

I really hope 2020 brings some joy to my life. 2019 has been the worst year out of all my 17 years in this world bcoz i lost my dad a few months back :( and i have suffered sooo much that even at one point i was ao close to choose suicide but luckily i got help and now i just wish to get better!!! I don't want to go into that dark space ever againnn. I really hope i'll get better and find happiness...

@aliciahrvatin8583

4 жыл бұрын

I really hope so too for you ull find more happiness in 2020, I believe you will ur so young and have a long future ahead of you. I can't imagine losing my dad now Im 19, my condolences to your father Chiku

@vthesaxophonista7190

4 жыл бұрын

Stay Strong 🙏 bro

@F0reverblessed

4 жыл бұрын

Christina Marie Sprinkling more positivity and love your way for this new decade! 💕

@brynne5078

4 жыл бұрын

Sending love your way, my friend 🥰❤️ blessings & growth in the new year!

@itsPujaMahapatra07

4 жыл бұрын

2020 WILL BRING YOU JOY & HAPPINESS! DON'T WORRY .. TAKE CARE...

Just realized that the reason why my self esteem is super low is because I don't believe myself. I gotta take action and try to build trust with myself. Thank you for reminding me that :)

@F0reverblessed

4 жыл бұрын

Maya Sakuramoto Wishing you all the best! Sprinkling more positivity and love your way for this new decade! 💕

@lavendaire

4 жыл бұрын

Sending love for your journey 💞

This is the kind of stuff that should be taught in school! Life changing! No one has ever explained goals like this to me, and I feel like setting things up like this makes it much more achievable and feels less daunting and impossible. Thank you!!!

✨2020✨ This new year has such positive energy attached to it already. A fresh new page, a fresh new decade to design our best life and fulfill our dreams. ♥️ Happy Thanksgiving to all who celebrate it! 😊

*my goal next year is to get a job as a yoga teacher at a studio!*

@nimrabatool8543

4 жыл бұрын

May u succeed

@Thefitty

4 жыл бұрын

@@nimrabatool8543 thank you so much; what about you?

@Thefitty

4 жыл бұрын

@Cloe Byeol thanks! And you?

@megneil3766

4 жыл бұрын

omg that's my goal too! it's a daunting process but i'm sooo excited for it to become a reality. good luck love!

@Thefitty

4 жыл бұрын

@@megneil3766 are you certified ?:)

Wow I love your perspective about trusting yourself on your own promises! I’m so excited to start building that trust with myself.

Goal setting is no doubt so crucial.we should be sure about ourselves and take control of our lives .Thanx for this new year motivation.love ya Aileen♥

Yes! That's a video that I was waiting for! I'm super excited about new year and I really hope 2020 is gonna be a good year. I'm also waiting for your artist of life workbook to plan out my goals in details ❤️ and also to all people who read this: don't overwhelm yourselves and take everything slowly step by step - you're gonna get where you want, just stay patient

I’ve been a big fan of you for 4 years (since I was 18 that was the most depressed time) and I finally got a workbook in 2020✨✨ I am so excited how my life is going on!!! Love you so much from Japan🇯🇵 🌸💕 You are sunshine ☀️

@lavendaire

4 жыл бұрын

Wow thank you!! ✨🙏🏼

Progress is more important than perfection♥️ I'm working on building trust in myself by keeping the promises I make to myself while still having grace and patience with myself💕

This is totally my jam since my entire channel is focused on goal setting and personal development! Thanks for the great content as always!

💫 2020 💫 is almost here and I've realized that 2019 has changed me so much. I love this video because it'll help someone as chaotic as me with my goals. Lovely video Aileen! Thank you always 💖

Goal setting is so important to make sure that we keep improving and working towards the life that we want 👏❤️ I am so ready to achieve my goals in 2020! Let’s do this everyone!

@F0reverblessed

4 жыл бұрын

Christina Marie Wishing you all the best! Sprinkling more positivity and love your way for this new decade! 💕

@rsophieramlal8625

4 жыл бұрын

Goodluck

I’ve started my goals in September am so excited to continue this 2020 to make it the best year and take my goals to a new “chapter”. Hope everyone finds this 2020 a happy year. 💕🙂

Lavendaire, thank you for your content! I am absolutely in love with every piece of content you upload. I also need to point out a fun tip, it's important not to talk about your goal with others constantly, because it kind of sets off this chemical in your brain and tricks you into thinking you've worked on your goal already!!!!

This strengthens a lot of the things i already paracticed this year and it worked way better then simply setting goals and then forgeting about them

These are great tips. Especially the part about tracking your actions throughout the year to actually achieve the goal. I also encourage everyone to think about the goals they are setting. Do the goals bring you joy? I've set so many goals based on the stuff I should be doing as opposed to the things that actually felt good to me. I appreciate you discussing "understanding your why".

@lavendaire

4 жыл бұрын

Yes!! The why is so important otherwise you’re just chasing a goal blindly

This was the most clear and beautiful 2020 planning video I’ve seen. It helped the missing pieces become clearer for my own planning. 😌💕💕

almost done with writing down my goals and feelings... i already feel so much more motivated and happy from those imaginations of my even more happier and satisfied version

Who is excited for 2020!! BTW love you Aileen,you always inspired me.

@Br0ken_tv677

3 жыл бұрын

@Shikha Chaurasia well, it's been a roller coaster lol.

What an amazing video. I watched once just surfing, than saved it to watch later and watched it at least two or more times with all the going back I had to do because of the density of amazing information. Gratitude and love!

SO ready to make POSITIVE changes in my life, remain consistent and FINALLY see some progress in my life. Thank you, Aileen ❤️

@F0reverblessed

4 жыл бұрын

Kat Hernandez Wishing you all the best! Sprinkling more positivity and love your way for this new decade! 💕

@TheMakeupxKat

4 жыл бұрын

D.E.Y.A thank you so much ❤️

This video comes to my home when I really need that. Thank you so much for your help! In this fifth semester, I realize that I lost my track to achive my goals, and having no interest to doing anything. But I will try to keep my promise to work on my tasks everyday and give myself reward. Keep going, Aileen!

The most needed video EVERRR 💫 THANK YOU LAVENDAIRE 🌟😍

It's good to have you in this 2020

Finally I found the reason I love this channel;because I love her voice and speaking style that's also why it makes me take action

"The moment of now is the only moment you can control." That's so important to remember.

@marianzambe2518

4 жыл бұрын

That's so true!

I really enjoy whenever I watch your video. It's not just about your tips, I also improve my English by watching your video as well, your accent is really nice and makes me feel comfortable

Probably one of my favorite videos of yours! Thank you for sharing your tips, strategies, and words of advice💘 goal setting is always so easy - but it’s the follow through and daily action that really makes a difference.

Excited for 2020! My 2019 Artist of Life workbook was super helpful for achieving my goals this year. I didn't quite reach every goal but I made a lot of progress.

So excited to start working on my Artist Of Life Workbook!

Indonesian, Spanish, Thai, and Vietnamese subtitles are available! Click "CC" and check the video settings. Thank you to the contributors listed in the description 💕

You make the most inspirational videos ever, your amazing and your my role model, stay the same Aileen 💖

I know it probably defeats the purpose but sometimes I just listen to you speak instead of focusing. It's calming. Thank you ❤

Your video is amazing, right now I want to try following your method, my plan for the next year is graduate from fashion school, finish my collection, and I hope my youtube channel will grow as well. I personally have so many goals but I want to focus on the most important and things that I love to do.

You channel makes me happy. Feels like coming back home

Thank youuu! This really helped clear my vision for the new year!

Hi Aileen, I'm from Vietnam and I watch your video every single day to learn English ❤️ I just want to say thank you so much for everythings . Hope you will have great 2020 ❤️

Great tips, some of which I haven't read/heard anywhere before. Thank you!

Loved this!!❤🎉thank you lavendaire for creating this wonderful video for all of us, i gotta plan my calendar like you said, gonna achieve so much ,yayyy!!!!!!!🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤

Thank you for changing my life for better, Aileen !!! I Love you! ❤

I desperately NEEDED this..Thanks Aileen💕

You have beautiful ideas, beautiful way of speaking and doing a beautiful job. Thank you and good luck.

Your break down of the steps are elaborative and concise. Great message

Thanks Aileen, everytime I watch your video I get myself motivated..

Im so happy sadie aldis talked about you in her last video! I love hearing different ideas on how to set your goals and achieve them. Right now im currently in between jobs and trying to look for one. Im a welder so its hard to find a welding job. But my potential goals are to get healthy and be more active. I started yoga the other day and it helped me a lot. I also want to find a job where I don't have to worry about living paycheck to paycheck. Right now I only have like 5 or 6 bills I have to pay and I have to pay off medical bills and im trying to build my credit. I have a lot of goals I want to achieve. And I even talked to my bf that from now on we are not going to spend our money on stuff we don't really need. He likes to collect different things and I like to buy random stuff that in the long run I probably don't need or will use in the future. So I really want to get my finances in order and build my savings account.

Thank you Aileen i just discovered your channel and i can't express how much i love the content, it helps me with the plans i have to build up a new me , GREAT LOVE from Algeria

You have so much energy in this video, I feel empowered just by watching :)

Hi. I wanted to thank you for this video, and all your content, but this one hit me differently. It's the first time i actually took notes from a video, and now I'm actually taking the steps to achieve my goals. Since i had a quick encounter with death recently i really want to appreciate the time we have and use it to do something meaningful...

Love love loveee the new thumbnail style!

This came at the right time. Much needed one❤️

@F0reverblessed

4 жыл бұрын

Vishala Reddy Wishing you all the best! Sprinkling more positivity and love your way for this new decade! 💕

I like the opinion that you start with the feelings of how it feels if you want to achieve your goal.

I’ve already fallen off my goals for 2020 in the 2nd week of January, but starting Feb I made new goals or reframed them differently in my mind, so I hope to keep those up throughout the month. Annual goals are a little intimidating, so I like setting 30-49 day goals (if your goals are habits, 49 days is the length that best solidifies habits as routine).

Thank you Aileen, hopefully next year going to be another beautiful year

You are truly inspiring. i know u can help me change my life for the better

I really needed this, I always struggle with my goals but this was so inspiring, organized and onto the point 😍 Thank you aleen🌻

I rlly love you n your channel cuz everytime I watch you my changes n I turn to a happier person cuz of the positivity u have UWU 💛

That was amazing! 😍 thank you for all the tipa, can’t wait for the new year’s videos 😍 love you ❤️❤️

I love goal setting. Helps me achieve my goals more efficiently. Btw your skin is glowing.

Timeless advice! I'm using this expertise for beginning of October 2022. 💪🙂👍

OMG I was JUST thinking about your book!! What a great time for a give a way! 😍

Immediately clicked when i saw the notif..co'z i love how you inspire others❤️

Thanks Lavendaire for helping me be a nice and productive person😍

Hi Aileen. I learned so much from you! Thank you for the opportunity to improve my life and my future. Huggs from Italy❤️

Watching this for 2021 now! Thank you for this amazing video 😊

THANK YOU!!!!!! YOU UPLOADED AT THE RIGHT TIME!!!!!

I just bought the workbook! It's amazing and I'm not regretting it

Wow thanks, can now set my goals for the year.

Thank you for making this content, Aileen.

Hello Aileen..you are very sincere in every words you say..

This video was so helpful!! Definitely going to use these methods to set my goals for next year

Loved this one! Hoping to see more of planning videos Love from India

marked every tip i really need them for 2020

I want to make my next year amazing. For that I have to start journaling Today.🌺🌺

I'm here from the begging love you lavi! I'm obsessed with your videos!!❤❤❤❤

@lavendaire

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you!!

I really need this video thanksss 💖

i m so grateful to u sweetie ur content really speaks to me

This is so inspirational! Wow! I'm so glad I found your channel!

What is my 90 days goals? I would love to build my own channel that envision both myself and the audience to keep up the mindset of self nourishing through the English learning community. Also, I am going to take an IELTS exam as I postpone the test for years by reading and practicing English every night. Lastly, I am going to eat more healthier and work out with my friends at least twice a week. Love you so much Aileen, your video always sparks my joy of improving myself. I really appreciate what you have created. My English skills is gradually better. Always support you, from Thailand.

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@Toronto2011NiA

4 жыл бұрын

I agree with you.

@dr.ukkhan92

4 жыл бұрын

I don't have instagram.... but Really want that lovely diary

@josealejandrovelasquez1667

4 жыл бұрын

Cheers for this, been searching for "goal setting examples" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you ever come across - Conoah Goalify Gotchie - (Have a quick look on google cant remember the place now ) ? Ive heard some super things about it and my work buddy got amazing success with it.

@meliodmld7456

4 жыл бұрын

Appreciate Video! Forgive me for butting in, I would love your thoughts. Have you researched - Patlarny Ancient Secrets Principle (do a search on google)? It is an awesome one off product for maximising your life using a simple goal setting strategy minus the normal expense. Ive heard some unbelievable things about it and my friend got excellent success with it.

I really love your t- shirt and thank you for being sunshine to our lives :)

This ! Is gonna be my year !! 2020 you're welcome

It s very clear and helpful, thank you for your sharing

i love watching your vlogs. im inspire to start my vlog

This really helps me!!!! I am so ready for 2020!!

I've been waiting on this video since last month... thank you for inspiring me and changing my life this year. Hopefully next year is a more successful one for me.

@F0reverblessed

4 жыл бұрын

Mariam Boo Wishing you all the best! Sprinkling more positivity and love your way for this new decade! 💕

Loved it. I watched it twice and did some note taking too...❤️❤️

Thank you. This was great advice!

This is very thoughtful, not superficial. I came from the recommendation in Veg News magazine for your channel, and subscribed. TFS!

You are so inspiring 😄. Love u so much.

your video is the best birthday gift i ever gotten it really came at the right time thanks

I loved this video!

IMMIDIATELY CLICKED FIRST BC IM SO HYPED FOR THIS CONTENT SKDJSJSK

@lavendaire

4 жыл бұрын

🙌🏻🙌🏻

Awsome video full of practical tips & infos thank you Lavendaire..