HOW TO RUIN LOVE : THE PROPOSAL ??? LETS TALK ABOUT IT SANA!! // XOLIGCABASHEVLOGS
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@Elizabeth-vu1tbАй бұрын
That series made me realise that before marriage nhe; HEAL FROM TRAUMAS. Both of them nje had to deal with issues and insecurities. Love alone just isn’t enough. And you’re marrying each others ENTIRE FAMILY too. Did you see how quick his sibling brought his ex gf back into the picture immediately after things hit the roof?. Half of the problems we face in our relationships come from EXTERNAL factors. I was MAD at everyone in that series 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 instead of fixing ourselves, we are READY to just point out the other person’s issues than fix ourselves.
@Tati_moloiАй бұрын
But let’s not forget kagiso didn’t know about the condom. The only problem about kagiso is letting his family play role in his relationship… Zoleka just needed to heal before getting into a new relationship
@KesaobakaSelemela-rw8xx
Ай бұрын
You're right, the condom was used by Katlego and her partner, so Kagiso had nothing to do with it. I think Xoli missed that part
@nonkuhsintofitness1351
Ай бұрын
I think so too
@michellenene2895Ай бұрын
What day it is????? Tuesssssday!!!!!!!!!! Mina sengisignile iregister! Ende futhi Zoli sivukile today, we're at work😂😭 Uthi siyenze njani kodwa mama❤ K, Thanks Love you, Bye (ngiyabuya kodwa)
@rebabaletsweАй бұрын
One thing I loved was the authenticity of the series it was South African it’s so refreshing to see
@SiweFundaАй бұрын
Not just any friend, my promiscuous best friend.
@Ntombi_LusengaАй бұрын
I'm Zoleka. I jump into conclusion and make a drastic decision to break up or leave a relationship. I certainly learnt a lot about myself through Zoleka. I need to take some time to address the issue at hand and make an informed decision based on the information that has been collected.
@tsakamhlabane9269Ай бұрын
Kepha you said you in your creating content era and I’m here for it!!!! Sana pls do these more often coz it comes with a lil advice from Auntie darling ✨ Have you checked the ultimatum and perfect match🤔
@sibusisiwemdlalose1595Ай бұрын
Love hearing Xoli's opinions on things 😍
@awethuthesingerАй бұрын
Not the photographer laying on the ground like a lion 😭😭😂
@ItsWaronaNyodiАй бұрын
We need more of these!!!!!!😍😍 loooveee it!
@leratokgame9200Ай бұрын
Wena o shooting 🌟, let's go
@PhindileMabuzaАй бұрын
notification gang in this channel popopopooooooo❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@angelshungube7Ай бұрын
She comes with gorgeousness again. ❤❤❤
@zandilendhlovu-og3deАй бұрын
We are detectives😂😂😂
@moyahabomokgoloАй бұрын
Two days in a row!! This makes me happy 🥳🎊🎉♥️🤗
@SinethembaPhakakathwayoАй бұрын
The sneaking around nje aaaaaibooo
@zanvernaАй бұрын
Haybo?? I didn’t see this one coming!!!! Darliiinng!!!!! Exactly I’m also with Zoleka😭😭😂😂😂
@Reitumetse_Nthatisi_ManotsiАй бұрын
I'm gonna watch it after watching this neh🥺❤️ Can you also talk about The Ultimatum South Africa 👏🏾
@mercymoyo8992Ай бұрын
Thank u for serving us with *fabulousity* 😘❤❤
@Lwethu_mjacuАй бұрын
I'm not done with yesterday's vlog and now this??? 🙆♂️😭😭🎉🎉🎉💃💃🥂🥂
@B_MillerАй бұрын
hee banna 2days in a row Aunty Darlin ❤🎉🎉🎉😍
@kenosibogatsu7419Ай бұрын
We are always here and loving it here 🌹
@marthamabaso8245Ай бұрын
I can listen to our aunty darling's advice the whole day, she's so good, love it here❤❤
@amandadubazane8080Ай бұрын
It a Tuessssday......Will definitely watch it this weekend
@kealebogawanitah4244Ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤Love these sitdowns i feel like we connecting on a higher level❤❤
@LesediMagotlhwoАй бұрын
heyy darling, you're looking soo gorgeous😻
@kealebogawanitah4244Ай бұрын
Tuesday is officially your day no debates 💯💯🥳❤🔥🔥
@its_bubbyАй бұрын
aweeeeemah !
@WenZee_WendyАй бұрын
Babes I'm still watching yesterday's vlog n bona we are blessed again🎉🎉🎉🎉 sana we ❤you
@user-hg7ti2bq4xАй бұрын
My gal my gee❤❤❤❤ 🎉🎉🎉
@Buhle_M019Ай бұрын
I am on the floor Yoh this was such a nice vlog I love it Sana 🤣🤣🤣🤣 more of these lol you dragged everyone involved 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Yoh I am soo happy lol right after this vlog I am going to watch that show lol
@gaugelomolapo4295Ай бұрын
Omg Xoli I love u so much ❤
@sarah.hanockАй бұрын
I raaaaan lunch can wait
@valentiamucavel3967Ай бұрын
We are here❤🎉
@BucietlhokweАй бұрын
Thank you very much mama for the upload ❤❤❤
@Xolile_Gcabashe
Ай бұрын
You are so welcome
@noxolotonjeni9639Ай бұрын
Notification gang, we UP!!!🥳 wait, wasn’t the condom found the sister’s since when she was living with them? I think Kagiso wanted to make it so perfect but ended up flopping. Personally, surprises are overwhelming and I wouldn’t have wanted it that way, unless if it was intimate just between the two of us.
@Xolile_Gcabashe
Ай бұрын
Exactly my chat !!
@Lerato_kopeАй бұрын
Aunty Darlin your quality is always top two and not two ❤ Please share your camera settings and your colour grading 🙏🏻
@siscaliciousentertainment16 күн бұрын
Can't wait for Season 2 already!😭
@biancangobeni29Ай бұрын
Sila!!📍 ❤
@silindokuhlelindiwe7907Ай бұрын
After watching this video I went straight there and watched it.. I honestly feel like her suspicions were justified even though it wasn’t true … I don’t understand why Kagiso failed to understand that
@tlotlisonyakane4092Ай бұрын
Ke tlo suna wena 😂❤
@gugulethuerasmus912Ай бұрын
🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉kumnandi ka Aunty❤❤❤
@inamnqweniso4266Ай бұрын
Notification gang❤
@kitty.la_deesseАй бұрын
❤we are here
@Thabiso__ThandoАй бұрын
Are we exploring reality TV reviews?! 😍🤭 Enjoyed listening to your views and would definitely love more of these ❤️
@graythellshilwane7336Ай бұрын
Notification gang in the house ❤❤
@misstheng85Ай бұрын
Mina where Kagiso lost me is when he practiced proposing to Zoleka by proposing to her best friend, what was the reason? And also Xoli what does "dubulamazeze" mean? Great video as always😘😍😚
@minimotivations448Ай бұрын
Aybo ma'am iphi le funny teaser ku intro? 😭 Notification genge ❤❤❤
@naledimatwaАй бұрын
Aahaa!!💃🏾🥳
@SNVeeАй бұрын
I wasn't able to finish It, ended halfway on E3 but i understood Zoleka but she is a mean fighter. Her anger is unkind and there is no way one should be with someone who gets angry like that 💔💔💔 The side story of the sister who is "divorced" is one I hope they explore because it is a worthwhile storyline... when couples can't agree on whether or not they should have children or when one partner changes their mind once married. 17:52 wait aunty, it was Zoleka's dream proposal... she kept avoiding he and her dad from meeting so he could include her family but she kept making excuses. He wanted to ask for his permission & include him. If memory serves me right, it was her dream proposal hence her unravelling. 24:30 but me self, i want a well thought out intentional proposal 😂 and Yes... aunty involving my immediate family. Their opinion matters SO much to me so if they ok you and participate in you asking me to spend my life with you 🎉🎉🎉 it is a yes
@philasandemzalisi4937Ай бұрын
Naaaaah. If my man and bestie were sneaking around I’d know they planning something for me. She should’ve trusted them. Especially because neither one of them have betrayed her… ever
@melinamusuku5254
Ай бұрын
It was tricky, the bestie had a history of sleeping with peoples partners.
@tebogomashilo6Ай бұрын
tuuueesssday😂❤ oh we're spoiled, love this for us.
@thithimlotshwa9939Ай бұрын
We are spoiled sana❤❤❤
@Elizabeth-vu1tbАй бұрын
Notifications 🔔 💃🏾💃🏾
@user-wk4ko3vs1wАй бұрын
Oooh we love it, ooh we love it here We love it here as I sing and dance.We love u miss XO.i think if only kagiso didn't sneak around only with zoleka's friend and invole the family in the sneaking around maybe she wouldn't hv played the detective role in the relationship.
@Buhle_M019Ай бұрын
I loved this vlog 😂😂😂 yoh especially how women are never wrong our sixth sense is always 99.9% right when u know you know lol 😂😂😂😂
@Juss_kwazaАй бұрын
I feel so spoiled 😂😢
@lindatafeni9402Ай бұрын
The reason why I don’t like surprises because I would definitely just to conclusion especially in that situation. Their planning was so not on 😅
@nontsikelelonoruwanahealth8035Ай бұрын
Xoli what can i say breathe of fresh hair.
@sindid6928Ай бұрын
I'm gonna watch it only because you said so.
@busisiwediamond7Ай бұрын
It's impossible to skip your video 😭😭
@laquitaJ.Ай бұрын
I JUMPEDDD😩
@tenydeeАй бұрын
Being an overthinker I would've reacted like Zoleka did honestly, a friend did me dirty before so batsi once bitten twice shy.. Tsine we jump vele, in fact we leap to conclusions 😂😂
@nnanamomanye4968Ай бұрын
the face beat😍😍😍
@bagcinelesimelane3670Ай бұрын
Aunty darling i am with you, as women we are detective a d the guy was like he doesnt want to get married,they went to far,do you really need to take everybody just to practice 😅
@zinhlemabaso8940Ай бұрын
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@Reitumetse_Nthatisi_ManotsiАй бұрын
Relationship ya Kagiso le Zoleka lack communication. Ene most men fail when it comes to communication💔
@tlotloshapi6703Ай бұрын
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@unathi_pinkyАй бұрын
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@triciamlotshwa8834Ай бұрын
Tuesssssdy 🎉🥂❤
@thandilempondo2552Ай бұрын
Hello Aunty. Which one is dis wan??😍😍
@zamasili22 күн бұрын
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@lulufierce01Ай бұрын
Photographer laying on the ground like a lion😂😂😂😂😂 yes sis preach😅. Oh Xoli I adore you yho❤
@didintlelemo702420 күн бұрын
Auntie 🥰
@girliemtshali7229Ай бұрын
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@dineotshabalala5720Ай бұрын
Mam 🥹🥹what the day’s 2usday✌️😘
@sinoxolosamatha7520Ай бұрын
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@BusisiweMthethwa-vs9obАй бұрын
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@Buhle_M019Ай бұрын
Just watched it ai Zoleka has issues shame but yea Kagiso’s family is a problem shame 😭😭😭
@boledinchabeleng7359Ай бұрын
What the day is? Tuesday ❤😂
@RixongileMalungaleАй бұрын
What it it? Tuesday 🥰🥰🥰
@phumelelag133Ай бұрын
Hayike😂😂😂"1950's dubula amazeze" that time she's serious 😂😂😂😂Xoli are those people who will make you laugh while she keeps a serious face
@sintumbatha5902Ай бұрын
Yoh ndim uZoleka because i overthink like her & jumo into conclusions
@Monca_123Ай бұрын
We need more❤️🩹😍
@Xolile_Gcabashe
Ай бұрын
🤭❤️
@zanvernaАй бұрын
I also don’t have a bi family and Marrying into a big family would end me, I can’t tolerate people that far.
@pamelalupitasimelane1052Ай бұрын
Girl you speaking to me... indoda must be romantic thats it lol
@BrendaVilakazi-cc2zmАй бұрын
Hi Nana kamama❤
@joeydlaminivlogsАй бұрын
I enjoyed the series. Personally, I don't like surprises because they can backfire 😅. But Zoleka was dramatic and entertaining 😂
@nosiphomkhabela5413Ай бұрын
I am pregnant, with triplets, and they ate all yours, took me out 😂😂😂
@sliindileabbas7826Ай бұрын
😍😍❤
@kattlyletsАй бұрын
M late but oksalayo Sila ❤❤
@AyandaSibanyonАй бұрын
Detective Malebane 😂😂😂😂😂 a woman’s intuition also 💯
@thobekangubane5627Ай бұрын
The spoils ❤❤❤🎉
@Mabee021Ай бұрын
Auntie darling 🎉❤🫀
@user-du2hq4yi8eАй бұрын
I ddnt love Kagiso's planning ,I'll also be suspicious too
@sylvia3249Ай бұрын
What today is ??? We love you !❤️
@user-hs3xl9fm2zАй бұрын
What did we do to deserve this❤️❤️🥺
@Nonssss_29 күн бұрын
The problem was that rehearsal There was absolutely no need 🥴
@nosiphomkhabela5413Ай бұрын
2 videos back to back
@naledimatwaАй бұрын
Sana I am an overthinker, I would have ruined it nami 😅.
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That series made me realise that before marriage nhe; HEAL FROM TRAUMAS. Both of them nje had to deal with issues and insecurities. Love alone just isn’t enough. And you’re marrying each others ENTIRE FAMILY too. Did you see how quick his sibling brought his ex gf back into the picture immediately after things hit the roof?. Half of the problems we face in our relationships come from EXTERNAL factors. I was MAD at everyone in that series 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 instead of fixing ourselves, we are READY to just point out the other person’s issues than fix ourselves.
But let’s not forget kagiso didn’t know about the condom. The only problem about kagiso is letting his family play role in his relationship… Zoleka just needed to heal before getting into a new relationship
@KesaobakaSelemela-rw8xx
Ай бұрын
You're right, the condom was used by Katlego and her partner, so Kagiso had nothing to do with it. I think Xoli missed that part
@nonkuhsintofitness1351
Ай бұрын
I think so too
What day it is????? Tuesssssday!!!!!!!!!! Mina sengisignile iregister! Ende futhi Zoli sivukile today, we're at work😂😭 Uthi siyenze njani kodwa mama❤ K, Thanks Love you, Bye (ngiyabuya kodwa)
One thing I loved was the authenticity of the series it was South African it’s so refreshing to see
Not just any friend, my promiscuous best friend.
I'm Zoleka. I jump into conclusion and make a drastic decision to break up or leave a relationship. I certainly learnt a lot about myself through Zoleka. I need to take some time to address the issue at hand and make an informed decision based on the information that has been collected.
Kepha you said you in your creating content era and I’m here for it!!!! Sana pls do these more often coz it comes with a lil advice from Auntie darling ✨ Have you checked the ultimatum and perfect match🤔
Love hearing Xoli's opinions on things 😍
Not the photographer laying on the ground like a lion 😭😭😂
We need more of these!!!!!!😍😍 loooveee it!
Wena o shooting 🌟, let's go
notification gang in this channel popopopooooooo❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
She comes with gorgeousness again. ❤❤❤
We are detectives😂😂😂
Two days in a row!! This makes me happy 🥳🎊🎉♥️🤗
The sneaking around nje aaaaaibooo
Haybo?? I didn’t see this one coming!!!! Darliiinng!!!!! Exactly I’m also with Zoleka😭😭😂😂😂
I'm gonna watch it after watching this neh🥺❤️ Can you also talk about The Ultimatum South Africa 👏🏾
Thank u for serving us with *fabulousity* 😘❤❤
I'm not done with yesterday's vlog and now this??? 🙆♂️😭😭🎉🎉🎉💃💃🥂🥂
hee banna 2days in a row Aunty Darlin ❤🎉🎉🎉😍
We are always here and loving it here 🌹
I can listen to our aunty darling's advice the whole day, she's so good, love it here❤❤
It a Tuessssday......Will definitely watch it this weekend
❤❤❤❤Love these sitdowns i feel like we connecting on a higher level❤❤
heyy darling, you're looking soo gorgeous😻
Tuesday is officially your day no debates 💯💯🥳❤🔥🔥
aweeeeemah !
Babes I'm still watching yesterday's vlog n bona we are blessed again🎉🎉🎉🎉 sana we ❤you
My gal my gee❤❤❤❤ 🎉🎉🎉
I am on the floor Yoh this was such a nice vlog I love it Sana 🤣🤣🤣🤣 more of these lol you dragged everyone involved 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Yoh I am soo happy lol right after this vlog I am going to watch that show lol
Omg Xoli I love u so much ❤
I raaaaan lunch can wait
We are here❤🎉
Thank you very much mama for the upload ❤❤❤
@Xolile_Gcabashe
Ай бұрын
You are so welcome
Notification gang, we UP!!!🥳 wait, wasn’t the condom found the sister’s since when she was living with them? I think Kagiso wanted to make it so perfect but ended up flopping. Personally, surprises are overwhelming and I wouldn’t have wanted it that way, unless if it was intimate just between the two of us.
@Xolile_Gcabashe
Ай бұрын
Exactly my chat !!
Aunty Darlin your quality is always top two and not two ❤ Please share your camera settings and your colour grading 🙏🏻
Can't wait for Season 2 already!😭
Sila!!📍 ❤
After watching this video I went straight there and watched it.. I honestly feel like her suspicions were justified even though it wasn’t true … I don’t understand why Kagiso failed to understand that
Ke tlo suna wena 😂❤
🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉kumnandi ka Aunty❤❤❤
Notification gang❤
❤we are here
Are we exploring reality TV reviews?! 😍🤭 Enjoyed listening to your views and would definitely love more of these ❤️
Notification gang in the house ❤❤
Mina where Kagiso lost me is when he practiced proposing to Zoleka by proposing to her best friend, what was the reason? And also Xoli what does "dubulamazeze" mean? Great video as always😘😍😚
Aybo ma'am iphi le funny teaser ku intro? 😭 Notification genge ❤❤❤
Aahaa!!💃🏾🥳
I wasn't able to finish It, ended halfway on E3 but i understood Zoleka but she is a mean fighter. Her anger is unkind and there is no way one should be with someone who gets angry like that 💔💔💔 The side story of the sister who is "divorced" is one I hope they explore because it is a worthwhile storyline... when couples can't agree on whether or not they should have children or when one partner changes their mind once married. 17:52 wait aunty, it was Zoleka's dream proposal... she kept avoiding he and her dad from meeting so he could include her family but she kept making excuses. He wanted to ask for his permission & include him. If memory serves me right, it was her dream proposal hence her unravelling. 24:30 but me self, i want a well thought out intentional proposal 😂 and Yes... aunty involving my immediate family. Their opinion matters SO much to me so if they ok you and participate in you asking me to spend my life with you 🎉🎉🎉 it is a yes
Naaaaah. If my man and bestie were sneaking around I’d know they planning something for me. She should’ve trusted them. Especially because neither one of them have betrayed her… ever
@melinamusuku5254
Ай бұрын
It was tricky, the bestie had a history of sleeping with peoples partners.
tuuueesssday😂❤ oh we're spoiled, love this for us.
We are spoiled sana❤❤❤
Notifications 🔔 💃🏾💃🏾
Oooh we love it, ooh we love it here We love it here as I sing and dance.We love u miss XO.i think if only kagiso didn't sneak around only with zoleka's friend and invole the family in the sneaking around maybe she wouldn't hv played the detective role in the relationship.
I loved this vlog 😂😂😂 yoh especially how women are never wrong our sixth sense is always 99.9% right when u know you know lol 😂😂😂😂
I feel so spoiled 😂😢
The reason why I don’t like surprises because I would definitely just to conclusion especially in that situation. Their planning was so not on 😅
Xoli what can i say breathe of fresh hair.
I'm gonna watch it only because you said so.
It's impossible to skip your video 😭😭
I JUMPEDDD😩
Being an overthinker I would've reacted like Zoleka did honestly, a friend did me dirty before so batsi once bitten twice shy.. Tsine we jump vele, in fact we leap to conclusions 😂😂
the face beat😍😍😍
Aunty darling i am with you, as women we are detective a d the guy was like he doesnt want to get married,they went to far,do you really need to take everybody just to practice 😅
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Relationship ya Kagiso le Zoleka lack communication. Ene most men fail when it comes to communication💔
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Tuesssssdy 🎉🥂❤
Hello Aunty. Which one is dis wan??😍😍
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Photographer laying on the ground like a lion😂😂😂😂😂 yes sis preach😅. Oh Xoli I adore you yho❤
Auntie 🥰
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Mam 🥹🥹what the day’s 2usday✌️😘
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Just watched it ai Zoleka has issues shame but yea Kagiso’s family is a problem shame 😭😭😭
What the day is? Tuesday ❤😂
What it it? Tuesday 🥰🥰🥰
Hayike😂😂😂"1950's dubula amazeze" that time she's serious 😂😂😂😂Xoli are those people who will make you laugh while she keeps a serious face
Yoh ndim uZoleka because i overthink like her & jumo into conclusions
We need more❤️🩹😍
@Xolile_Gcabashe
Ай бұрын
🤭❤️
I also don’t have a bi family and Marrying into a big family would end me, I can’t tolerate people that far.
Girl you speaking to me... indoda must be romantic thats it lol
Hi Nana kamama❤
I enjoyed the series. Personally, I don't like surprises because they can backfire 😅. But Zoleka was dramatic and entertaining 😂
I am pregnant, with triplets, and they ate all yours, took me out 😂😂😂
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M late but oksalayo Sila ❤❤
Detective Malebane 😂😂😂😂😂 a woman’s intuition also 💯
The spoils ❤❤❤🎉
Auntie darling 🎉❤🫀
I ddnt love Kagiso's planning ,I'll also be suspicious too
What today is ??? We love you !❤️
What did we do to deserve this❤️❤️🥺
The problem was that rehearsal There was absolutely no need 🥴
2 videos back to back
Sana I am an overthinker, I would have ruined it nami 😅.
@preciousnxumalo9877
Ай бұрын
Same here 😂