How to Retire by 20 | Kristen Hadeed | TEDxUF

When most of us were children we kept ourselves occupied with games, television, and barbies. Kristen Hadeed was not like most kids. In this talk, Kristen will show how listening to your inner child can take you places beyond your wildest dreams. After all, this young entrepreneur had it all figured out before her 10th birthday.

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  • @stwida91
    @stwida917 жыл бұрын

    This video came out when I was 22. I was doomed before I even started.

  • @MohammadAmine

    @MohammadAmine

    7 жыл бұрын

    same here xD

  • @harshrai6259

    @harshrai6259

    5 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @RadenWA

    @RadenWA

    5 жыл бұрын

    Don't worry, the lady doesn't start her business until 21. The title is a lie.

  • @deleted5876

    @deleted5876

    4 жыл бұрын

    Bro i got a year left

  • @Sailor7sea89

    @Sailor7sea89

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂😂

  • @MuonRay
    @MuonRay9 жыл бұрын

    This is TED folks. Privileged, well-fed business people giving themselves endless lipservice and "power of positive thinking" self-help style motivation and expecting clockwork like applause. Its a secular church, except worshiping the doctrines of market economics, social engineering and utopianism (futurism, feminism and so on)

  • @TheHigherVoltage

    @TheHigherVoltage

    9 жыл бұрын

    This is TEDx. They're second tier, local events. This is not TED in anything other than the name being lent out to independent organizers.

  • @edison4eva

    @edison4eva

    9 жыл бұрын

    ***** *you're

  • @timpoiu

    @timpoiu

    9 жыл бұрын

    Muon Ray You might like this , Slavery and the Eight Veils. kzread.info/dash/bejne/ZoGdqLFxhtCxeto.html

  • @LakshayAiri

    @LakshayAiri

    9 жыл бұрын

    eh its more TedX. TedX is independent but takes the Ted banner so their vetting processes is more likely less thorough.

  • @tobyseraph9435

    @tobyseraph9435

    9 жыл бұрын

    Usually I like TED but on this one I have to agree with you. Like ANYONE is going to start planning as a teenager how to retire when you're twenty. This is such unrealistic bullshit.

  • @mbrenneman0411
    @mbrenneman04116 жыл бұрын

    "i didnt grow up with rich parents, my dad was only a lawyer" - things rich people say

  • @xky1069

    @xky1069

    5 жыл бұрын

    Lol

  • @Built2kill

    @Built2kill

    4 жыл бұрын

    There is a bimodal discrepancy between lawyer salaries. Some of them even make 65k/yeat while some make millions.

  • @MsJordanElaine

    @MsJordanElaine

    4 жыл бұрын

    Not all lawyers make a lot of money public defenders and many lawyers with private practices can make well below the median wage.

  • @alexanderlenard2145

    @alexanderlenard2145

    4 жыл бұрын

    That is NOT what she said.

  • @fearlesssoul9408

    @fearlesssoul9408

    4 жыл бұрын

    😂😂

  • @TruthSurge
    @TruthSurge8 жыл бұрын

    option 1: have rich parents so you can hire web designers and make Facebook option 2: have rich parents who own Hilton Hotels so you can socialite w/o having to retire from anything option 3: be one out of 10,000,000 and win a huge lottery option 4: do what you enjoy so you don't want to retire Just some suggestions.

  • @arifali6762

    @arifali6762

    2 жыл бұрын

    True

  • @landonturner21

    @landonturner21

    2 жыл бұрын

    I am sorry that you think those are the only ways to get wealthy lol. Take a moment and look up les brown.

  • @thaddeusray001
    @thaddeusray0019 жыл бұрын

    It amazes me, or actually saddens me, how cynical people are. She's 23. Who cares if her talk isn't perfect? Who cares if the things she says are rehearsed? Maybe you watched this because you were looking to attack someone, or troll people, and that's pretty pathetic in itself. What have you done with your life that was so great? What had you done by the time you were 23? I personally watched it because I thought it might benefit me positively. I thought it might have a good message; and because I have a daughter, and I thought that I might find something that would be beneficial to her. Granted, it wasn't the most amazing TED talk I've seen, but she still made some good points. Work hard. Be curious. Be creative. Follow your passion. Lead a meaningful life These are ideals that I try to instill in my daughter. And another one that Kristen didn't mention, but that my daughter, at twelve, already knows... Don't be an asshole.

  • @thaddeusray001

    @thaddeusray001

    9 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Man!

  • @powderheadts

    @powderheadts

    9 жыл бұрын

    are all of those "good points" new to you? did this lady open your eyes? have you not been working hard and trying to lead a meaningful life? I am looking for inspiration not the same cliche version of what i already know. dont defend mediocrity thaddeus

  • @clinicalpsychologistwannab7706

    @clinicalpsychologistwannab7706

    9 жыл бұрын

    Tre Ste so maybe you should get a life and not look for this lady to enlighten your bitter darkness and negativity.

  • @thaddeusray001

    @thaddeusray001

    9 жыл бұрын

    Tre Ste Well, I think that what is mediocrity for one person maybe a reasonable goal for someone else. I'm definitely not a champion of mediocrity, but I know people who could benefit from that video, and I'm sure you do as well. Everyone is not on the same place along the path, and it's not always about "me". It just bothers me how cynical some people are, and how quick people are to make these scathing comments about something that could be helpful to a lot of people.

  • @bigbadwolf5175

    @bigbadwolf5175

    9 жыл бұрын

    I wasn't looking to troll anybody. But other TED speakers set a pretty high bar, and this obviously fell short for some people.

  • @88infinitys
    @88infinitys10 жыл бұрын

    "The more curious you are - the more creative you will be." True.

  • @saud3471
    @saud34718 жыл бұрын

    love reading the comments before i totally waste my time

  • @khetiletijana109

    @khetiletijana109

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah

  • @Eli666Ms

    @Eli666Ms

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@khetiletijana109 same!!!

  • @khetiletijana109

    @khetiletijana109

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Eli666Ms glad

  • @oson3061
    @oson30618 жыл бұрын

    I, too, was a little disappointed to find out there is no actual plan to retire at 20, but after summing up her entire speech, I believe her point is "how to mentally retire from the pressures of cultural norms, traditions, and other massively influential societal expectations to become "successful", by age 20. In other words, instead of being another average person that graduates college with a bachelor's degree only to land an insignificant 9-5 type job, think about what YOU would like to do for a living, what you'd actually love to study in college, what gives you happiness, and what might inspire you to look forward to another day of work. In her case, I'm assuming that running a cleaning service for charitable purposes is part of her dream, and that's great. Also, know that nothing needs to be set in stone. For example, she may be working for charity now, but she later may develop a an interest for medical assisting, engineering, environmental sciences, or anything else which she then may decide to pursue (which I also believe is part of her point). I really appreciate this idea, and it gave me inspiration to seriously think about what ' I ' want to do with my life, as opposed to what my parents, peers, local trends, or the rest of the world say. This is definitely something we should all apply in our lives, and if one's dream happens to be a career or something that might be useful in the world, great. It's also a good idea to think about how what you want to do is relevant to our ever-changing world.

  • @utualan

    @utualan

    8 жыл бұрын

    +ezekiel nwaigwe well said Ezekiel I think your point of view is balanced ...

  • @oson3061

    @oson3061

    8 жыл бұрын

    Thanks, Allan. I always try to give positive and helpful commentary:)

  • @LFLvideos

    @LFLvideos

    8 жыл бұрын

    I cannot like your comment due to fault, but yes agreee well said.

  • @oson3061

    @oson3061

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Another Human thank you =)

  • @emmanuelkwofie1570

    @emmanuelkwofie1570

    8 жыл бұрын

    +ezekiel nwaigwe Realy well said!

  • @mitekillem
    @mitekillem9 жыл бұрын

    Behold the product of a privileged home.

  • @eveningcommenter6312

    @eveningcommenter6312

    9 жыл бұрын

    Maybe she was privileged, maybe she wasn't. It really comes down to good parenting that sets kids on the right path.

  • @mitekillem

    @mitekillem

    9 жыл бұрын

    Yes...Having influence and large sums of money do nothing to help people with start-ups.

  • @eveningcommenter6312

    @eveningcommenter6312

    9 жыл бұрын

    Daniel Gregory I see.

  • @johndoe-1974

    @johndoe-1974

    9 жыл бұрын

    Evening Commenter You're stupid being privileged from birth is %99 of it

  • @eveningcommenter6312

    @eveningcommenter6312

    9 жыл бұрын

    John Doe- Either way, rich parents can abuse their children just as much as poor parents can. If you come from a non abusive home, your life is generally easier because you'er not going to be damaged and will always have someone to support you psychologically.

  • @NickPowersMusic
    @NickPowersMusic10 жыл бұрын

    Why is she taking so much flak? All of you harsh commenters are insecure enough to bash this woman who you don't know personally, which is pretty pathetic. It's not the greatest TED Talk I've ever seen, but it's a good message and it hits home for me. She's telling us to follow our dreams rather than taking a job that pays well that doesn't inspire us. Money isn't everything.

  • @brittanywilliams275

    @brittanywilliams275

    10 жыл бұрын

    Nick, that sure doesn't go along with the title of the talk. So, at the very least, the title is all wrong for the message.

  • @brittanywilliams275

    @brittanywilliams275

    10 жыл бұрын

    jake lapham Nick says: "She's telling us to follow our dreams rather than taking a job that pays well that doesn't inspire us. Money isn't everything." The title says: "How to Retire by 20". Your logic doesn't add up.... (Hint: You need MONEY to be able to "retire" by 20. Unless you're planning on dying around 20.)

  • @sayeeda9399

    @sayeeda9399

    10 жыл бұрын

    Brittany Radcliff The point of her message is what Nick said. But the title just implies that when you do what you love/passion- You are not working. Hence you are retired. Retiring from a job in this context means only from a job you don't really like, so your just waiting on retirement. Since you are so passionate about what you do its like not working at all. Hope that helps. Good talk (not everyone is a dreamer). There are logic thinkers out there and everyones opinion is different when they listen to a message. Anyways (I'm one of those dreamers so the message hit home for me too).

  • @neestovekin8251

    @neestovekin8251

    10 жыл бұрын

    ***** I suppose you'll tell me that that last comment was "educated" and not at all judgmental. Do you know that education means being open-minded to others' opinions and how what your words/actions affect them? Granted, being able to construct sentences with correctly spelled words, using grammatical sense and the right combination of punctuation, is part of what education entails, however, that's all that it is! If that's what you believe, of course you'll be disappointed; your bar is set inappropriately high for a place like this -- people don't always consider perfect grammar and spelling to be a necessity when expressing themselves in the comment section of a youtube video. Recognizing that standards of a place may not meet what you expect on a regular basis -- that's using common sense. Ideas and opinions can still be valuable if they're not expressed with perfect spelling, grammar and punctuation -- you just have to allow yourself to let your guard down and appreciate them. It doesn't have to happen with EVERY opinion or idea you encounter, however, it's an experience that you have to know exists and can bring positive consequences in order to stop feeling like the world's against you. That's it. Let's see what criticism you have to offer me. +Everyone else I know, I know -- first rule of the internet, don't feed the troll -- but I couldn't help myself; replying to these sort of things can be fun.. Or a waste of time.. Yet I choose to remain optimistic.

  • @NickPowersMusic

    @NickPowersMusic

    10 жыл бұрын

    "Retire by 20" is obviously not meant literally. It's figurative, and just a title. If you clicked on the video expecting to learn how to never work again after age 20, then you're a freakin idiot and you shouldn't be allowed to use a keyboard.

  • @gp5
    @gp58 жыл бұрын

    Literally anyone can be a TED speaker now...

  • @chrishorton7218
    @chrishorton72188 жыл бұрын

    if youre in a job where retiring seems desirable, is it really your passion?

  • @jessesmoot1285

    @jessesmoot1285

    8 жыл бұрын

    +chris horton wow that's actually really true

  • @PozitiveVibrationz

    @PozitiveVibrationz

    8 жыл бұрын

    +chris horton I like you pal. Best comment.

  • @natalieeuley1734

    @natalieeuley1734

    6 жыл бұрын

    What if I have a lot of things I want to do with my life? Like, I want to be a software developer, which I am studying for, but I also want to start a school, and be a scientist, and be a park ranger, and create a news station, and, and.... the list goes on lol

  • @ajlee613

    @ajlee613

    6 жыл бұрын

    relativity, and exclusivity. if you love something it is marked with attention greater than other things. if you love nothing, but are overall a positive and energetic person, it results in having a lot of passing interests. it is like the middle school kid who has a lot of crushes, but changes every 2 weeks. and thinks they are in true love every time. if you have a passion, you will be much more limited.

  • @RoryFisher
    @RoryFisher9 жыл бұрын

    who the fuck would want to retire at 20? your job should be your passion, you should LOVE what you do. you SHOULDN'T want to retire

  • @RoryFisher

    @RoryFisher

    9 жыл бұрын

    Eric Essertaize Is that supported to be an insult? Sounds like you have a shitty life and a shitty job, lol loser

  • @misanthropy6690

    @misanthropy6690

    9 жыл бұрын

    What? The point I'm trying to make is only in your perfect little world do people get to make money doing what they love. In reality, most people work their jobs because they have to or because it makes them good money and aren't as privileged as the little rich kids selling property from daddy's bank account like you.

  • @ZeppinnEU

    @ZeppinnEU

    9 жыл бұрын

    hmm, " you should love what you do".. what if, you love being retired. lol :)

  • @RoryFisher

    @RoryFisher

    9 жыл бұрын

    ZeppinnEU what would you do then?

  • @ZeppinnEU

    @ZeppinnEU

    9 жыл бұрын

    Rory Fisher I don't know, it would be up to the individual person.

  • @jdog14976
    @jdog1497610 жыл бұрын

    Retire at 20? It's a good thing we're all born to wealthy families, have lots of friends, and the natural ability to manipulate our peers!

  • @jayleno2464

    @jayleno2464

    10 жыл бұрын

    Exactly, this is absurd. Some of us weren't even born in the countries in which we currently reside, thereby impacting our potential occupational efficiency, whether it's due to poor living standards or linguistic and cultural barriers. Some of us are financially disadvantaged, not everyone is born into a wealthy or financially stable upper middle to high class family. Some of us have not been able to pursue post secondary education because we have not been living in a secure bubble that lacks any sort of responsibility. Some of us are mentally or physically disabled, either from birth or at some point during our lifetime. Meaning, we can not simply ignore the fact that we are missing limbs, struggling with visual or audible impairments, or dealing with malfunctioning immune systems. There are limitations placed on us that the average person could not grasp. Some of us do not have the ability or the time to create large social networks. The list goes on. Do I have these issues? No, but fortunately, I understand and attempt to empathize with other human beings that are going through difficulties in their lives. There are obstacles, dealt by others on a daily basis, that I can not bear to imagine having to deal with. Hence, I do not claim that I know the secrets of success, which would be universal, thus rendering my advice largely obsolete and misconstrued. Just because I have it easy, it doesn't mean that I don't appreciate it, and it certainly does not mean that I have any sort of right to "show off" or prance around with an aura of superiority. This type of talk is disturbing on many levels, all we have here is a narcissistic entrepreneur babbling on about her false sense of uniqueness.

  • @jdog14976

    @jdog14976

    10 жыл бұрын

    "Oooo look at me, I had such a difficult upbringing, and now look" - This Chick needs to pull her head out.

  • @ProteinShaykh

    @ProteinShaykh

    10 жыл бұрын

    Are you kidding? "Wealthy Families" - What part of anything she did requires a rich family? She cleaned houses... "manipulate peers" - Try sales skills: negotiation, influencing power. You can build and learn these. "having lots of friends" - Again, you can learn to build your communication and social skills, just as this girl did. All of this is just excuses as to why you live an average meaningless life.

  • @jayleno2464

    @jayleno2464

    10 жыл бұрын

    ProteinShaykh Wealth is measured on a global scale, and we are fairly wealthy in the Western world. I reckon she started her business from the ground up, and she also paid her way through school, like I did? Nope, her mom and dad paid for it and that alone makes her fairly lucky. I donate pens and pencils (alongside other school supplies) to children in Kenya, and the program that I invest in is not nearly as effective as it should be. Only an elite few students are fortunate enough to receive one or two school supplies per semester. As for this speaker having sales skills, she overviews a service at the very core of her business, thereby mainly exploiting people in difficult financial situations (nobody wants to scrub shit off of a stranger's toilette), she clearly has a manipulative aura to her, whether you like it or not. Her speech is far too self obsessed, it would make narcissus proud. As for social skills, again, not everybody has the ability to be born in and raised in one sociocultural setting. Quit being such a cunt, Johnnie was making a fair point. Either way, I completely support his stance, and I currently earn a higher salary in my mid-20s than this presenter, due mainly to my multiple university degrees. Just because someone finds problems with the quality of a presentation and its message, does not mean they have a meaningless life. Making that accusation only makes you look like an imbecile.

  • @ProteinShaykh

    @ProteinShaykh

    10 жыл бұрын

    Jay Leno your post made me face palm really hard. It should go without saying this talk is not directed to the 3rd world, but can be easily applied to most of us living in the west. Exploiting People - thats a gross exaggeration, she doesn't enslave people, she offers jobs, its fair to assume she abides by minimum employment standards. Kudos to her for actually following through with her entrepreneurial dream. Manipulative "aura"? Maybe thats based on your sexist image of a woman needing to be soft and yielding, that image of tougher woman you automatically assume the worst. If a man went up on that stage and gave the exact same speech - you would consider him a tough businessman. Social Skills - theres always room to improve, even the most socially inept (i.e. those afflicted with autism) are taught how to improve those skills. Great, you have multiple e-degrees and a massive e-salary, what else of your e-person is colossally brilliant and superior? how is that relevant to this discussion at all? You seem to feel the need to show off your accomplishments in order to validate what you are saying... it does not change the validity of your statements.

  • @Retroscoop
    @Retroscoop8 жыл бұрын

    The daughter of a former boss of mine once made plenty of photocopies of her hands when she was 6 or 7. When her dad caught her in the act, she was told it would cost her let's say 10 cents for each photocopy she made. The total would be reduced from her pocket money. Three days later, her mom heard from neighbours, the same little daughter was selling the photocopies of her hands for 1 dollar each, and indeed sold some. In the end, her father even gave her a reward, because as a shop owner, he could appreciate the entrepreneurial flair and initiative of his child .... I always liked that story.

  • @nhprman

    @nhprman

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Benoit Vanhees That story you just told was better than this girl's story in the video! Excellent.

  • @Retroscoop

    @Retroscoop

    8 жыл бұрын

    nhprman Thanks :) It really happened, and if you would have seen the daughter when I knew her, she was about 14-15 by then, you wouldn't have been surprised at all, she really looked shrewd in a funny way. My guess is she's by now a manager in the company, together with her sisters. (the company is called Districos, it's a Belgian cosmetics company)

  • @jovenice2494

    @jovenice2494

    3 жыл бұрын

    How on Earth did she convince them to buy a photocopy of her hands??? 😂

  • @Samura1gamer
    @Samura1gamer8 жыл бұрын

    i took a small loan of 1 million from my dad when i was young and some time after that i became a millionaire

  • @futuredocquin7519

    @futuredocquin7519

    6 жыл бұрын

    Samuraigamer haha 😂

  • @MikeRita

    @MikeRita

    6 жыл бұрын

    Samuraigamer ttony melo

  • @HazelGrey.

    @HazelGrey.

    5 жыл бұрын

    Iconic.

  • @chetfreeland1920

    @chetfreeland1920

    4 жыл бұрын

    Haha perfect

  • @chetfreeland1920

    @chetfreeland1920

    4 жыл бұрын

    @Verda wrong

  • @pflubber
    @pflubber9 жыл бұрын

    Such strange criticisms here. She's talking about herself? That's not egotism. She's sharing her story! You want her to talk about someone else? Someone else can speak for themselves. She's bitchy looking? Attractive? None of that has anything to do with the content of the talk. Cliche? Predictable? Well, success stories will have stuff in common. "Follow your dreams" can never be told enough. Unrehearsed? Too rehearsed? Whatever. Just hear her out. She's done more good going up there than she would by keeping it to herself, and certainly more good than most of these comments.

  • @lealea9021

    @lealea9021

    9 жыл бұрын

    Agreeeee

  • @reneforrester1689

    @reneforrester1689

    9 жыл бұрын

    yup partly too its called PERFORMING something people dont seem to get, if she or anybody else just got up there and just read out rehearsed facts of their life imagine how borin that would be ..... then theyd be bitchin about that

  • @rimetime6423

    @rimetime6423

    9 жыл бұрын

    Tho she's sexy as hell, i look past it and listen. She's admirable. Her talk was that of a girl who was brought up in a nurturing family. Good for her. I admire her a lot

  • @BasicCoverMan

    @BasicCoverMan

    9 жыл бұрын

    Her talk has no real value though, it is literally a woman standing telling an exaggerated story of her childhood and then telling us she's been successful as a young adult with no real lesson or message. She wasted time that could have been taken by someone who actually wanted to educate the audience and had an education to impart.

  • @hremaddox

    @hremaddox

    9 жыл бұрын

    Has nothing to do with her looks. I just thought it seemed like a video resume instead of offering anything to anyone else.

  • @Smiles5s5s
    @Smiles5s5s10 жыл бұрын

    All her business endeavors as a child make it sound like she was more interested in money and having power than in what curiosity really is - which is finding things out. If one was curious, she might think "I wonder what makes my teacher's breast cancer so hard to treat" not "it's now time to reveal that it was me and my friends behind project pink the whole time!".

  • @parkerholberton4664

    @parkerholberton4664

    2 жыл бұрын

    The answer is outlined in this video, and cancer is curable if you look hard enough. Dr Joe Dispenza has much KZread content, books and audiobooks, for one resource to begin; a pretty analytical scientific angle, not too woowoo :) You see what you are. Her beckon to the inner child is such a key thing and reading this comment section is tough, but I’ll do my job to brighten it up, or try where I can in the hellhole that is a KZread comment section 😂🤣🥲 But sure she could have dove deeper. Everybody could have done more. She’s done great. We don’t need to criticize her. What’s to be found in this WEALTH of knowledge by experience; literally, the person who proved and shows how cancer can be cured. That cannot be understated, for non-believers, it’s pretty tough to go and say that. Anything is possible. Being connected with what some call god, some call your inner child, some call your inner being, highest self, superconscious… The things go hand in hand. I’ve said plenty, but Abraham hicks is another great place to start. Chris Duncan, as well. Jeffrey Allan. There are wealths of resources in this world 😋 those last people are a little more woo-woo. Chris Duncan least of which, so, Abraham most.

  • @marwawa2733

    @marwawa2733

    2 жыл бұрын

    Really interesting

  • @Erfnurgen
    @Erfnurgen8 жыл бұрын

    I don't like when people complain about others being "born rich". Sometimes those that are "born rich" have a lot of good points and helpful tips that can actually help a lot of people.

  • @Erfnurgen

    @Erfnurgen

    8 жыл бұрын

    Chris Thomas Very true

  • @ThunderstormRTB

    @ThunderstormRTB

    7 жыл бұрын

    cry more

  • @TruthSurge
    @TruthSurge8 жыл бұрын

    She had it ALL figured out before her 10th birthday. That's nothing. Before I was born, I had half of it figured out.

  • @tas640
    @tas64010 жыл бұрын

    Despite the misleading title of her talk, she has not retired at 20, nor would she have the funds to do so if she did. The pointless jive and buzzwords and catchphrases that followed the pointless autobiography of someone who seems to have had a very wealthy upbringing had me screaming for her to get to the actual point of her talk. Kristen instead spoke about her feelings and how she takes advantage of people to get ahead. She probably doesn't even know she's doing it and would come up with some bogus excuse or not care if it were explained to her. While other TED talks have people talking about how they are creating new things to help the world or explaining some very interesting research and its implications, Kristen goes on about how she has become successful by exploiting people; starting with her friends who trusted her.

  • @ihopeutubedies
    @ihopeutubedies9 жыл бұрын

    I didn't take the title seriously from the beginning so I wasn't disappointed. She talks about something very true which is to listen to your inner child. That voice that speaks to you kind of like a warning when you are about to make a decision that compromises your beliefs. Basically if your heart isn't in it it isn't worth doing despite what others may tell you. You shouldn't allow to betray yourself.

  • @9RedJohn9
    @9RedJohn98 жыл бұрын

    The amount of 'I' in this video is just too much.

  • @davyt5183

    @davyt5183

    8 жыл бұрын

    Baldó Buczi so is your profile picture Mr. Muscle? but you are right about the vid

  • @9RedJohn9

    @9RedJohn9

    8 жыл бұрын

    Davy T I'm sorry if my body offends you. Oh wait, I'm not :)

  • @davyt5183

    @davyt5183

    8 жыл бұрын

    Baldó Buczi The +11 likes on my reaction to your comment finally got through to you... poor boy :)

  • @TaoPhysiques

    @TaoPhysiques

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Davy T He can always block you and your comment, but I guess you being the keyboard warrior you are, you thought it offended him. :)

  • @davyt5183

    @davyt5183

    8 жыл бұрын

    ***** naah, wrong guess ;)

  • @UdoADHD
    @UdoADHD7 жыл бұрын

    this ted talk is like an autobiography that I didn't ask to listen to

  • @The-kw1wm

    @The-kw1wm

    7 жыл бұрын

    clicked on it, heh ? :)

  • @UdoADHD

    @UdoADHD

    7 жыл бұрын

    Ole Braun I fell for the click bait :(

  • @joramponi249

    @joramponi249

    7 жыл бұрын

    well said...

  • @galimir

    @galimir

    7 жыл бұрын

    exactly!

  • @octane2344

    @octane2344

    7 жыл бұрын

    this comment is a comment I didn't ask to read. #negativity

  • @FusionDivisions
    @FusionDivisions10 жыл бұрын

    Message of this video: "The world is your doormat!"

  • @artistryartistry7239
    @artistryartistry723910 жыл бұрын

    I'm four minutes in to this presentation, and the urge to click away from it is overwhelming. The only reason I've stayed THIS long is because it's a TED event, and TED has a reputation for quality. Then again, nobody's perfect. The problem with this speech is that she spends a significant portion detailing her personal experiences as a child. This is the first person equivalent of showing other people your childhood family videos. Maybe if she were Bill Gates or someone similar, that sort of context might engender the idea that the stories are worth sticking with. But she isn't. So far, she's an anonymous person talking about their childhood. Not exactly something people go out of their way to hear. Hopefully it will get better.

  • @widjadija
    @widjadija5 жыл бұрын

    They should change the title of this video to “ Me bragging about all of my accomplishments in life and trying to pass it off as self-help advice”

  • @tinab3627

    @tinab3627

    2 жыл бұрын

    Omg. I thought the same thing! Lol

  • @unitedworld6429

    @unitedworld6429

    2 жыл бұрын

    Lol

  • @TrueLondon

    @TrueLondon

    2 жыл бұрын

    U sound salty, I found it inspirational

  • @widjadija

    @widjadija

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@TrueLondon not salty, I found it funny. it is inspirational to see, but it could’ve been so much more inspirational had she worded it differently. Whether it’s intentional or not, she seems into herself here more than she seems she wants to inspire people.

  • @fr3ak1shh
    @fr3ak1shh8 жыл бұрын

    I've never heard of a single person that actually believes curiosity is a bad thing. Also, the last 5 minutes was her delivering the same message over and over but just switching her wording.

  • @ImOnlyChasingSafety959
    @ImOnlyChasingSafety95910 жыл бұрын

    These comments make me wonder if anyone actually watched this all the way through, I found it to be a really good talk.

  • @visioneer79
    @visioneer7910 жыл бұрын

    While I admire her starting her own business at a young age and making it work, I think she's just full of herself. It's like a 14 minute Ted Talk of her talking about how awesome she is with trite self help advice. I actually expect a lot more from Ted Talks. I wanna go watch the one about the 16 year old that invented a cancer test again. That's so much better than some girl that just worships herself.

  • @Mojoojo95

    @Mojoojo95

    10 жыл бұрын

    TED 'x' Talks. its set up independently so its not the real thing.

  • @thetravelcrunch
    @thetravelcrunch7 жыл бұрын

    I think many people are missing the point and taking the title way too literally.....she's not telling you How To Retire by 20.... this was a list she wrote as a child. She tells us her stories of how she discovered her passion for life through her childhood experiences to demonstrate that you should never limit yourself. We get too boring as we age. Think back to when you were a child and anything was possible. This is the mindset we should carry with us! I thought this talk was very inspirational. Thank you for sharing your experiences Kristen.

  • @joshuarosenkranz8379

    @joshuarosenkranz8379

    7 жыл бұрын

    Then....why say "how to retire by your twenties"?...

  • @clemoutoftime

    @clemoutoftime

    7 жыл бұрын

    Hence the name of the list, "how to retire by 20"

  • @aspirativemusicproduction2135

    @aspirativemusicproduction2135

    7 жыл бұрын

    read the title

  • @Mirandamoose

    @Mirandamoose

    6 жыл бұрын

    Rachel Wright -- too right, they missed the point. People are stupid and expect everything on a plate too. And please, if it were really possible to retire by 20, most people would have done it! The people who expected to do so literally are delusional, to read this title and expect it to be literally possible.

  • @mawoodfield

    @mawoodfield

    6 жыл бұрын

    But then there's the people who think it's a simple 16 min video that can teach them how to retire by 20 LOL Then they get mad when they realize you have to do something other than watch a 16 min video.

  • @joelhoffman7173
    @joelhoffman71735 жыл бұрын

    What a beautiful talk by a beautifully-minded person who defies stereotypes! Every one who clicks on this video expecting "get rich" advice will find...just that. The thesis of this talk could be: Real retirement is passion and contributing and lifting others up. Good job, Ms. Hadeed!

  • @JuliusFawcett
    @JuliusFawcett10 жыл бұрын

    Ask yourself "What can I do right now to keep me happy?" and courageously trust your inner wisdom. You know what is right for you. Let go of fear, anger, jealousy, blame, guilt, tension, stress, sorrow, resentment, irritation, criticism and allow your true path, your passion, your calling, your purpose to unfold in front of you. I wish for you peace, love and harmony. I love you xxx

  • @brokenSnake

    @brokenSnake

    10 жыл бұрын

    The fuck?

  • @JuliusFawcett

    @JuliusFawcett

    10 жыл бұрын

    saifMSK You could be more civilised, what is it that you are attempting to communicate? :)

  • @imasomebody1

    @imasomebody1

    10 жыл бұрын

    In other words - become non-human. (letting go of fear, anger, jealousy, blame...etc etc - all those things are emotions. Getting past them and understanding them doesn't mean they "go away" - it just means you know yourself at a deep enough level to listen to them and know where they come from). Not having emotions makes us non-human

  • @JuliusFawcett

    @JuliusFawcett

    10 жыл бұрын

    Imasomebody1 Fear, anger, jealousy, blame, guilt, tension, stress, sorrow, resentment, irritation, frustration, criticism are all just thought patterns, letting them go allows us to experience the more enjoyable thought patterns of happiness, love, peace, harmony, excitement, joy. It's all human, and some thought patterns lead to a life that is more fun than other thought patterns. Money can't buy positive thought patterns, only an individual can choose them.

  • @lukaryals4138
    @lukaryals413810 жыл бұрын

    A friend told me I needed to watch this, sure glad I did. Her message is extremely powerful. As an entrepreneur myself I can say that her points are very accurate. A business will not thrive without passion, excitement, and the willingness to follow what makes you curious. I will be sharing this talk with my entire network. It is remarkable that this young woman grasps these concepts at such a young age.

  • @steveharris7938
    @steveharris79386 жыл бұрын

    Brilliant speech!!! I have to admit, the feeling you get when you do something nice for people, can not be bought but makes you feel so good.

  • @earthpet
    @earthpet7 жыл бұрын

    EXCELLENT resolution at the end! I wish more TED talks used this technique. I liked the talk. It was someone's experience that I could relate to and admire.

  • @atomgonuclear
    @atomgonuclear10 жыл бұрын

    I admire confidence, however I can see that it has somewhat deluded her into having a sense of over-confidence. Being a small business owner is great, however this story not the majestic fairy tale she makes it out to be. From which her sole happiness comes from helping others. She attributes her success to entrepreneurial skills, however she failed to see the pattern in which her whole life story comprised of using other people for her self gain without actually creating anything innovative. It went from using her little sister, to using her family and friends, and now using poor college students. Innovation is true genius. This story has none. I'm not bashing, Im just trying to bring this story back down to planet earth.

  • @litieguai6306

    @litieguai6306

    10 жыл бұрын

    I was kind of thinking that too, but then the inner child thing struck a good chord with me. Especially the last statement "I think my inner child has always known what's in store for me, and I think yours does too."

  • @kylelifesk8high

    @kylelifesk8high

    10 жыл бұрын

    thats the problem in a world where nothing is supposively from earth you cant bring it back because it was never here, i get what your saying but theres actually something wrong in the project pink she did start it herslef with a group of other kids and she isnt using poor college students they choose to be there and its very beneficial to them too because they get hours and money, but she also works as a cleaning lady too don think she doesnt do the work cause she does. i believe you have taken the message and missed the mark a bit

  • @joshualassing2121

    @joshualassing2121

    10 жыл бұрын

    Agreed. Well said.

  • @jestnutz

    @jestnutz

    3 жыл бұрын

    Agreed.

  • @vaibhavverma3652

    @vaibhavverma3652

    Жыл бұрын

    She is actually a businesswoman not an entrepreneur

  • @tremendousjones
    @tremendousjones10 жыл бұрын

    Speaking of curiosity, as I'm listening to this, I'm making my coffee and beside my cup was the orange skins from the Orange i just ate, and i said, I wonder what it would taste like if I put the skins in my coffee? It taste awesome!! a new experience born out of curiosity! entrepreneurs rule the world! :)

  • @robert10197
    @robert101976 жыл бұрын

    "we were most human when we were kids" great quote

  • @kathanshah1305
    @kathanshah13058 жыл бұрын

    The Title should be "Kristen brags about her life" because she so smart

  • @carlasefrin376
    @carlasefrin37610 жыл бұрын

    I love how you talk about being creative as kids. You are right, we worked on projects and played with friends for hours because there was nothing else getting in the way. We were excited. It is important to have that same excitement in our adult life. I also like how you say that in order to be creative we have to connect dots that normally wouldn't be connected. It's so true...the only thing that will expose us to those dots is by being curious and experiencing new things. Bravo! Tremendous job!

  • @jyoungswag
    @jyoungswag10 жыл бұрын

    I think the point she's trying to get across is to think of the bigger picture. I started thinking this when she gave the example of her wanting to be a waitress at a young age, then thinking why be a waitress when you can own the diner! I think if you get this meaning out of the video, it's a good watch!

  • @jyoungswag

    @jyoungswag

    10 жыл бұрын

    Actually that's just on of her points! Another one is getting in touch with your inner child! She gets into that at the end!

  • @Mr.Mannikin
    @Mr.Mannikin8 жыл бұрын

    How everyone missed the biggest and most repetitive message of this ted talk is completely beyond me. Funny how THEY seem to be upset that the speaker has had a pretty fulfilling life thus far. HOWEVER. FOR CLARIFICATION, HOW TO RETIRE BY 20 ---- FOLLOW YOUR PASSION, HAVE FAITH AND BELIEF IN YOURSELF, NEVER GIVE UP, STAY CURIOUS. Thanks Kristen.

  • @MegaToxic3

    @MegaToxic3

    8 жыл бұрын

    Exactly, Do what you love, and never work a day in your life.

  • @naghamjamal2802

    @naghamjamal2802

    7 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @discordant8543

    @discordant8543

    7 жыл бұрын

    How to retire by 20? Be born into wealth, or get pregnant with some rich guys kid.

  • @thelastofitskind3034

    @thelastofitskind3034

    7 жыл бұрын

    Death lol

  • @benkhan2908

    @benkhan2908

    6 жыл бұрын

    You may also believe in Santa Claus.

  • @MakinMovies7
    @MakinMovies78 жыл бұрын

    Wow, what a self congratulatory lady.

  • @JD..........
    @JD..........9 жыл бұрын

    Not too helpful. Sorry to say, but misleading title and little to no practical advice. Disappointed.

  • @DomingosNovela

    @DomingosNovela

    9 жыл бұрын

    Jacob D Wunsch amen

  • @broqentoys

    @broqentoys

    9 жыл бұрын

    Jacob D Wunsch agreed

  • @JD..........

    @JD..........

    9 жыл бұрын

    ***** Good one.

  • @JD..........

    @JD..........

    9 жыл бұрын

    ***** if you disagree, feel free to list her practical advice and steps to retire by 20, as said in the title.

  • @adamcook717

    @adamcook717

    9 жыл бұрын

    Jacob D Wunsch I disagree with you & you can find the answer for yourself and get the advice you are looking for by watching it over n over again until it sinks into your head. When you have that ground breaking moment when you finally understand the message feel free to apologize to verybrightdarkness for the ignorance.

  • @SussyBacca
    @SussyBacca9 жыл бұрын

    Yikes. So much for inspirational talks from TEDx. Not only did she NOT retire by 20, or give instructions how to, or "change the world" with her "pray on students" cleaning business, or even make an impact, she simply tooted her horn for 15 minutes and said "be curious". Wow. Such a novel idea... and tried to "prove" being curious is a good thing with such deep thought such as "the NASA rover to Mars is named, guess what? curiosity, see?" Wow. Amazing insight, if you we're 5.

  • @jameswood7614

    @jameswood7614

    9 жыл бұрын

    holy shit I couldn't have said it better

  • @Trach3a

    @Trach3a

    9 жыл бұрын

    I could, but lets just leave it at dat.

  • @nialljamesbuckley

    @nialljamesbuckley

    9 жыл бұрын

    Trach3a "Wow, your son sounds just like itzhak perlman!" "that IS itzhak perlman, my boy sounds just like that"

  • @Paragon231

    @Paragon231

    9 жыл бұрын

    LMAO, so true

  • @annimacca8786

    @annimacca8786

    9 жыл бұрын

    Nick your a bit rough around the edges yeh. She may not be retired but i bet she is doing very well indeed. Perhaps better than you.....?

  • @jaclynshawmsbisii3521
    @jaclynshawmsbisii35218 жыл бұрын

    She seems like a really focused woman and a hard worker who like to help people. Kudos

  • @kirillkich1204
    @kirillkich12046 жыл бұрын

    To retire at 20 you need a mindset that doesn’t separate life and fun from work. That way you won’t ever need to retire and focus on collecting the maximum amount of positive memories.

  • @reaperluke3518

    @reaperluke3518

    2 жыл бұрын

    Basically, you have to make intensive brainstorming sessions during the college years to know with 100% certainty what is your dream job, following the appropriate training/studies to nail that job, while also making sure that your grades are so good you will triumph over other candidates for the same position and that the market for that job isn't oversaturated and will not become obsolete during the 40 years you will have to work. You need to be perfectly sure, perfectly focused, and have perfectly accurate information on everything. Seems to be easier said than done.

  • @alaayassin6131
    @alaayassin613110 жыл бұрын

    I think it's time to find our passion instead of wasting our lives in something we hate

  • @euwyn
    @euwyn9 жыл бұрын

    Imagine a 40-year old, well-dressed male entrepreneur standing on that stage and relating the exact same story, and you'll find out that the reason y'all are so skeptical, is simply because you aren't fond of a 23-year old fresh graduate teaching you to do things!

  • @diegowaahere

    @diegowaahere

    9 жыл бұрын

    Bam! Haha 👌

  • @Karolina-xz6qt

    @Karolina-xz6qt

    9 жыл бұрын

    YES! or everybody would be cheering and tearing up if it was a minority saying same things even though essentially their life story was the same as this girl's. because she's a white female and good looking she's instantly written of as a bossy bitch that exploits other people.

  • @hremaddox

    @hremaddox

    9 жыл бұрын

    Not true. I am a female and a feminist and I found her talk very self-aggrandizing and short on true content for the viewer.

  • @euwyn

    @euwyn

    9 жыл бұрын

    Heather Estes you gotta remember that she is 20: she doesn't have decades of experiences and content to share about. As far as I'm concerned, she did a good job explaining her life in business and her journey to where she is. Why would you expect a 20-year old young female entrepreneur to speak like say, Bill Gates? She didn't speak to garner a standing ovation.She spoke what she could.

  • @hremaddox

    @hremaddox

    9 жыл бұрын

    Euwyn Goh That's an interesting point.

  • @Numecka0
    @Numecka08 жыл бұрын

    It's so funny I've had this same debate over and over in my head about where I'm headed in life. Trust the journey. Thank you Kristen

  • @QuantumGenetic
    @QuantumGenetic9 жыл бұрын

    what she is saying: Curiosity + Trusting yourself + Using your intuition = Success

  • @rturae
    @rturae10 жыл бұрын

    "If you've never failed, you've never lived"

  • @kroanosm617
    @kroanosm6179 жыл бұрын

    The comments here are terrible. So much hate and ignorance.

  • @justWatchin97

    @justWatchin97

    9 жыл бұрын

    no she didn't

  • @breakholdtv2389

    @breakholdtv2389

    9 жыл бұрын

    But they're funny

  • @jnandreas

    @jnandreas

    9 жыл бұрын

    Kroanos M breast implants

  • @tochotocho

    @tochotocho

    9 жыл бұрын

    Kroanos M what are you expecting from average people? That's why they live average, are paid average and will be forgotten... like average people do.

  • @justWatchin97

    @justWatchin97

    9 жыл бұрын

    Gerardo Leal Villarreal Gerard the game changer everyone, watch out

  • @rangicoffey6703
    @rangicoffey67036 жыл бұрын

    You're amazing. You have found your passion and purpose, and that matters more than retiring before you're 20.

  • @yoyoz333
    @yoyoz3338 жыл бұрын

    "my inner child knows what's best for me, and I think yours does too.." NO. when i was a child I wanted to be The Terminator and jump over Mac trucks on a motorbike with a shotgun.

  • @kayholand_

    @kayholand_

    4 жыл бұрын

    your name though xDDD

  • @abrahiemdash7676

    @abrahiemdash7676

    4 жыл бұрын

    Epic name by the way XD

  • @JimTheCurator

    @JimTheCurator

    3 жыл бұрын

    It's not too late. :)

  • @haricharanreddy3417

    @haricharanreddy3417

    3 жыл бұрын

    obviously, You can do that : ]

  • @anora_abduhamidova

    @anora_abduhamidova

    2 жыл бұрын

    It's because you was told to be someone but not curious about who you are

  • @bryandefrata1642
    @bryandefrata164210 жыл бұрын

    Very well done. The key is finding and doing what makes you excited and never losing track of your inner child--the part of you that isn't afraid of risk or judgement. Some of these comments are so ignorant and I am willing to bet those of you who left them are not successful in your own lives. Incredible talk.

  • @poehamilton8731
    @poehamilton873110 жыл бұрын

    Well I think I get the overview of this talk. If you are born to two parents in a free county where one is a lawyer and makes over six figure income and a stay at home mom, live in a wealthy area where people will give you extra money for no reason cause they have so much, live in a environment where your parents are open-minded, accepting and allows for you to express yourself and go through trails and error. While taking advantage of other people to satisfy your craving for purpose or satisfaction, then use this newly gained self confidence to get people to do promote your "business," thus making your life awesome. The problem with this mindset is of such. One, kids are not born into prosperity. There parents work minimum wage jobs and have no realistic way of being financially successful. Another is peoples habitat will hinder child development and the people as well will prevent growth and desire. On top of that, some people grow up with compassion and empathy for others to the point they don't live in a false world of "gimme" "gimme" "gimme". Some people don't get everything they want or have an attitude that resembles it. Im glad she made her dream come true, but she has no idea what price id came to. It most likely cost her parents a ton of time, patience, money, and effort that most of the worlds families cant afford to do because of bills, debt, deadlines, stress and so on. Let alone the people she stomped on and only imagined herself as the victor. But were her mentality to become universal and everyone had her way of thinking, the world would eat itself up. People would destroy one another. She needs people like me who don't like taking advantage of others and use people for selfish goals. So in my conclusion, I respect her intentions for pursuing your passion, but try and put yourself in another persons shoes and imagine how you might feel and want to be treated. I'm sure you would feel very bad about your goal in life.

  • @Bytedesigning

    @Bytedesigning

    10 жыл бұрын

    While I agree with the majority of what you said, having rich happy parents that encourage you and being able to find a lot of suckers to help out does make completing a dream goal easier, I would not necessarily think that makes the goal bad nor should she really feel bad for achieving that goal, because so many other people in her shoes probably never would have started a business or figured out what to do in life and ended up in jobs they hate. Second, there is always hope for people working minimum wage jobs to get better jobs or figure out ways to improve where they are in life, ... temp office jobs that lead to state office jobs is a way...Find a temp agency! Or take a night school class, etc. I know plenty of people working minimum wage raising kids who manage school as well (I don't know how they pull it off but they do) I know figuring that out while working is tough but it is better then working at Target for life. Third, you are what your habits are, self help books, more people interaction (with nice people! Rare I know...) will help with mental and emotional blocks. There is so much free information on the internet that learning new skills should not be a roadblock (it takes about 20 hours to get pretty good at something not expert or anything but enough to really understand the skill and figure out steps to mastering it). You can work your way to be debt free, (definitely) healthy and probably pretty stress free but it takes a lot of commitment, time, money and mounts of courage. But commit and belief are the hardest part...If you can get past that barrier life will work out. Perhaps not quite how you think it will but, it will work out.

  • @stanceb.9867

    @stanceb.9867

    10 жыл бұрын

    your attitude stinks and it will keep you in that miserable state you clearly live in

  • @KatelynLesk
    @KatelynLesk8 жыл бұрын

    I loved this!!! I can definitely relate to following that feeling and seeing all the dots connect when I look back over my life and childhood!!

  • @Soteniliene
    @Soteniliene8 жыл бұрын

    She reminds me of the person in school you don't really like. She really only talked about what she did without discussing why/how they were good. And it's easy to value curiosity over all else when you already have a secure life. Go tell someone who's lost their home that they should value curiosity over all else. Or someone who has nothing to eat, or someone who has no money. Focus on this moment? Don't worry about the future or the past? That's the voice of someone who's never wondered if they'd eat tomorrow or if they'd suffer tomorrow. This is the voice of someone who's never suffered. And so what if your employees donate their time? That's messed up in it's own right. You should do it yourself! Pay your employees to clean houses for cancer patients, then refuse payment form the cancer patients. Don't ask your employees to work for free, that's messed up!

  • @Scarlettlnz
    @Scarlettlnz7 жыл бұрын

    Are u kidding me? I'm 24 and I haven't even started :( I'm getting a science degree in 2 yrs but.. when I was 10 yrs old I was just playing Nintendo, I wasn't even interested in money because everything I wanted was given to me by my family. She was a very special 10 yr old, tbh.

  • @Cordova10-8

    @Cordova10-8

    7 жыл бұрын

    No, you're just fine. Keep working hard. She's full of crap. This isn't advice, it's a huge humble brag.

  • @rainmaker6970

    @rainmaker6970

    7 жыл бұрын

    You think she is full of crap? As a series entrepreneur and someone who retired when i was 30 and had set that goal at 18 before I went to college and have never used the BBA I got in those 4 years ; she is encouraging imagination, curiosity and to be in touch with your inner kid - only 3% of the population is destined to own a business, but at least this video put into the right young kids they can get the support they need ; I am always so surprised how many negative comments are on these TED talks

  • @cassandra9581
    @cassandra958110 жыл бұрын

    Change this to: How to Manipulate and Alienate Strangers

  • @uba1493
    @uba14938 жыл бұрын

    This is fantastic! I wish my upbringing was like that. The things we get from our childhood have a huge impact on our lives.

  • @stuckupcurlyguy
    @stuckupcurlyguy9 жыл бұрын

    I looked up her website, she runs a student cleaning business. "Along the way, she’s endured defeats and setbacks so devastating that most people, especially a college student, would have thrown in the towel." "From being denied a bank loan to hearing others in the business world say her dream was impossible, Kristen learned to see the word “no” as empowering." Mild peer disapproval and a bank reluctant to give her free money! Devastating setbacks indeed!

  • @evanknappmusic
    @evanknappmusic10 жыл бұрын

    What's with all the hate on this? It was an inspiring talk!

  • @renardmigrant
    @renardmigrant10 жыл бұрын

    Notably she doesn't answer the question 'How to Retire by 20' or is that just the title? If she's 23 and owns her own business she's not retired. I agree that this is basically just an ego trip for the first 11:45 and even what comes after that is no better than I could get from asking a stranger in a bar.

  • @oranavdar

    @oranavdar

    10 жыл бұрын

    if she owns it, doesn't say she's necessarily managing it on the daily basis ;)

  • @Richard528

    @Richard528

    10 жыл бұрын

    You have watched but have not listened. The title as she said was from a note that she wrote as a ten year old girl. You have taken it literal and only watched the video hoping you would learn a magic bullet that would have you retire at 20.

  • @renardmigrant

    @renardmigrant

    10 жыл бұрын

    Richard528 The title's wrong. The title should be something like 'my life story so far', then nobody's being misled.

  • @RADIUMGLASS

    @RADIUMGLASS

    10 жыл бұрын

    Richard528 Richard, anyone can tell a life story.

  • @budjitresvalles6397
    @budjitresvalles63976 жыл бұрын

    Learned something today... the rejoiner after the 'curiosity killed the cat'... 'but satisfaction brought it back'! Thanks!!!

  • @aarontoledo8757
    @aarontoledo87577 жыл бұрын

    Great advice! That is, if you are fortunate to see this while single, no kids, nothing to tie you down, etc. If you see this at 33 with multiple kids and already in the grind...well, follow your passion when you're retired.

  • @IvoryDoll
    @IvoryDoll10 жыл бұрын

    This so describes my childhood! I love it. Fantastic speaker. Thank you!

  • @n0ztic
    @n0ztic7 жыл бұрын

    Well it's an interesting autobiography and all, but I wanted to know how to retire early...

  • @towcammo

    @towcammo

    7 жыл бұрын

    and ur never gonna be able to unless u develop some vision....'find your passion and work at it' out of the mouth of babe and suckling he has ordained strength

  • @cuicanirios322

    @cuicanirios322

    5 жыл бұрын

    For that, you should read T Harv Eker’s “Secrets of the Millionaire Mind” :)

  • @BlueCollarEngineer111

    @BlueCollarEngineer111

    4 жыл бұрын

    Apparently, you didn't get it..

  • @BlueCollarEngineer111

    @BlueCollarEngineer111

    4 жыл бұрын

    Apparently, you didn't get it..

  • @BlueCollarEngineer111

    @BlueCollarEngineer111

    4 жыл бұрын

    Apparently, you didn't get it..

  • @monikamoon14
    @monikamoon146 жыл бұрын

    I think she has helped a lot of students find work and the improtant message is to find work you are passionate about and to be persistant.

  • @MsAnonCoder
    @MsAnonCoder6 жыл бұрын

    I came to this TED Talk after reading Kristen's book, "Permission to Screw Up: How I Learned to Lead by Doing (Almost) Everything Wrong. I love both the book and the talk because Kristen isn't perfect. Other people below complain that her talk isn't the height of sophistication or inspiration. But she's up there doing it, telling her story, and she's out there running a company. I adore her story because it makes me think, 'hey if she can do that, I can to" or... "if she can make all those mistakes and yet succeed overall, then maybe I should stop beating myself up about the mistakes I'm making. I actually found the TED Talk entertaining in getting a glimpse of Kristen as a little kid. She was way more adventurous and money-oriented than either I or my kids were. I'm in the thumbs up category!

  • @jasonfreeeman75
    @jasonfreeeman758 жыл бұрын

    I read the comments and I see a bunch of you scared to listen to the message here...this was awesome and inspiring, and for those that judge or assume...you will never get it and rightfully so

  • @user-oq3xp6rw1v

    @user-oq3xp6rw1v

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Jason freeman People hear the message. The problem is, it's a message for people of privilege by a person of privilege but she talks as if it's for the whole world. Unfortunately, most of the world isn't lucky to be born into an environment of financial literacy/education and the fundamentals of entrepreneurship and how money works. She makes it seem like all it takes is passion and drive... yes, for people born into that luck. For the rest of us it's not that easy nor simple. People stuck in poverty and low income have to deal with abuse, mental issues (like depression) etc that are enormous obstacles to success, which is why most are still stuck, not because rich people tell them they're lazy (that's completely ignoring the reality). We hear the message, but it's insulting saying "get off your lazy ass and use passion to make money". That's not the reality. This talk is void.

  • @marklinton4567
    @marklinton45679 жыл бұрын

    6 minutes in.... Is there a friggen point to this noise?

  • @4thlineforlife

    @4thlineforlife

    9 жыл бұрын

    nope. just pointless drivel

  • @marklinton4567

    @marklinton4567

    8 жыл бұрын

    ***** You don't know me or my financial status, yet you chose to generalize and make ad hominem attacks. perhaps it's you that's the youtube warrior. Whatever that means. Judging by the votes on this video I'm not alone in my dislike of it.

  • @meshakvb6431

    @meshakvb6431

    8 жыл бұрын

    Mark Linton Sounds about right.

  • @ryansandahl2657

    @ryansandahl2657

    8 жыл бұрын

    Mark Linton but was she right with her accusations?

  • @marklinton4567

    @marklinton4567

    8 жыл бұрын

    Ryan Sandahl Was Neo Right? I don't believe so. To judge me based on my dislike of one video doesn't sum me up. If I was closed minded I wouldn't be watching TED talks, I'd be watching cat videos or something else that didn't require thought. As for being a fool, there may be grounds for that as I did respond to someone trying to pick a fight with me.

  • @jasonselph6968
    @jasonselph69686 жыл бұрын

    5/5!!! Delivered like a BOSS!!! Thank you for the attitude adjustment, Kristen.

  • @DarenLovejoy
    @DarenLovejoy8 жыл бұрын

    I love all Ted talks videos. seriously I could spend hours watching Tedtalks videos, like women watch glee!!

  • @mightbegenius
    @mightbegenius10 жыл бұрын

    This is a list I made 10 minutes ago. I called it "why ted takes so much heat because some stories aren't important enough to be told on a stage especially when the speaker isn't talented enough to give public speeches". 1. You supposedly own a business worth millions (300 employees right?) yet your hair and clothes look like you just stepped out of a cheap salon in jersey or long island. Can't even see your face with that stringy hair. You are the prime example of the saying "you can't buy taste". 2. You had nothing opposing you. You are the definition of priviledged. Your daddy was a lawyer who was successful enough to turn down cases on a whim and your mother had enough fortune to quit a job because she was bored. You were also voted class president so you were probably the hippy popular chick. Literally, if you had failed in life it would have been more of a story than your "success". You even mentioned that you milked people for extra money at your lemonade stand as a kid so you understood how to manipulate and use your gender to your advantage at very young age. Congrats. 3. You tried to counter the bragging of your success by mentioning charity work you did, (which shouldn't have to be mentioned- see the late Paul Walker). Instead, try to be more humble. You also tried to counter it by making it seem like it was an effort to promote fortune cookie rhetoric about following our inner child and curiousity, which along with your annoying voice made the 15 minutes of this video very painful to watch. Now, bring on the next Kardashian wanna be, TED....

  • @h1ghnezz

    @h1ghnezz

    10 жыл бұрын

    BOK BOK BOK BOOOOOOOK. Get a hobby man ;)

  • @vanessaespejel8294

    @vanessaespejel8294

    6 жыл бұрын

    mightbegenius hateful words = disresect.

  • @dejakhalz
    @dejakhalz10 жыл бұрын

    This talk is all about how smart and unique she thinks she is.

  • @clareryan9032
    @clareryan90328 жыл бұрын

    Really enjoyed this speech especially the closing, it was really optimistic.

  • @TheRealMe333
    @TheRealMe3339 жыл бұрын

    I can't get enough of the inspirational words flowing from the this video

  • @youwhatsuptube
    @youwhatsuptube10 жыл бұрын

    your mommy & daddy gave you everything

  • @GroundhogJay
    @GroundhogJay9 жыл бұрын

    So, this isn't so much a talk as it is a rambling, autobiographical bragging session?

  • @Y10Q

    @Y10Q

    9 жыл бұрын

    Jaysus TheAlmighty obviously you missed the point. The only difference between the rich and the poor, is desire. Notice how she was always trying to do something. Always. Thats what you need. A huge drive forward. Without that desire you will never amount to anything. Rich people don't stop when they have enough to survive. A poor person will get enough to survive a month, and they are happy. This phenomena also explains why Rich are never happy. Even with money they are always trying to get more and more and more and more. Chris Rock said it best. If Bill Gates woke up with Oprah's money, he would jump out of a window.

  • @GroundhogJay

    @GroundhogJay

    9 жыл бұрын

    What a load of crap. I know poor people who work and work and work for everything they have. The difference is that most rich people step on other people to get their riches, or are born into it, or have advantages that most people do. This woman clearly did that, by basically hiring people to do the work and reaping the majority of the benefits. Even as a child, she said that she got her sister to do all the work and kept the money for herself. And sold the items of her parents in order to make money. The difference, especially in this case, is not desire. It's being a sociopath.

  • @GroundhogJay

    @GroundhogJay

    9 жыл бұрын

    And rich people do stop. It's just that having money makes it easier to make more without having to do anything, compound interest and the fact they get the majority of stuff, strangely, for free. I have a huge drive, but will never be as rich as them because I don't have the killer and deluded instinct.

  • @Y10Q

    @Y10Q

    9 жыл бұрын

    Jaysus TheAlmighty no thats not true. See Just think about t his. You give $10,000 to a poor person, what does he/she do?? Goes out and buys a car, a nice shirt, nice shoes. They are broke again within a day. Now you take that $10,000 and give it to a Rich person. What do they do? They go out and dig a hole and bury it and wait for an opportunity to double the money. And you know this is true.

  • @GroundhogJay

    @GroundhogJay

    9 жыл бұрын

    No, I don't. Because you are talking in such sweeping generalizations that I can hardly take you seriously. I was dirt poor, but I have worked and studied and saved to make myself more than comfortable. Every money I got, I saved and turned into more. And I will keep doing that as I keep working and working. I'm never going to be rich, but to say that all poor people lack ambition and the like, is insane. As is saying that all rich people will double it. Paris Hilton is rich, but I never see her digging a hole. No, her money doubles from being born into it and having opportunities most people with twice her abilities and intelligence and drive with never have.

  • @julierbaldwin
    @julierbaldwin7 жыл бұрын

    Great insights! Thank you!

  • @CedarPathMoney
    @CedarPathMoney8 жыл бұрын

    You are a very well-rehearsed public speaker and storyteller. This is one of the most simple yet artfully articulate talks that speaks to a mentality that clever news titles can never properly explain. People get stuck in a career for years that they hate and I feel for those people because I was one of them. Nice touch of motivation to create action.

  • @dani45216
    @dani452169 жыл бұрын

    this is such a misleading title, the content is actually about imagination and following your heart in business...

  • @coolpatrickandryan

    @coolpatrickandryan

    9 жыл бұрын

    That is how you retire early.

  • @dddmemaybe

    @dddmemaybe

    9 жыл бұрын

    I think it's supposed to be figuratively retiring. Because you stop doing work and start engaging in a passion of sorts.

  • @freshfestplatte
    @freshfestplatte6 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for wasting 15 minutes of my time where I could engineer something nice. Nice regards from Germany.

  • @millienexu5684
    @millienexu56846 жыл бұрын

    I don’t know about anyone else but I honestly thought this talk was so riveting and interesting! I loved how she spoke and feel compelled to add more of that in my life

  • @ShoroukA
    @ShoroukA8 жыл бұрын

    Thank you everyone!! because of you, I know not to waste my time!

  • @hpdutube
    @hpdutube9 жыл бұрын

    A completely unimaginative, vapid, and derivative talk by a self-serving woman.

  • @justcallmeassinine

    @justcallmeassinine

    9 жыл бұрын

    I think you mean derisive, not derivative. The noun is derision,which means "to talk down to " with disrespect.

  • @liamjones8468
    @liamjones84689 жыл бұрын

    I zoned out after like 30 seconds. She looks and sounds like a gold digger, that's all I took from this

  • @Vidaluz09

    @Vidaluz09

    9 жыл бұрын

    IF she was a gold digger she wouldn't have her own business.

  • @liamjones8468

    @liamjones8468

    9 жыл бұрын

    Vidaluz Ortuno Nacho You have a lot to learn son.

  • @Mateo-et3wl

    @Mateo-et3wl

    9 жыл бұрын

    imagine what some people might say about your appearance. would they be wrong?

  • @liamjones8468

    @liamjones8468

    9 жыл бұрын

    ***** All I hear is "You're black" and they are absolutely correct

  • @keribirmingham

    @keribirmingham

    9 жыл бұрын

    she wasn't. and your so fucking sexist. sooooo fucking sexist. she was an entrepreneur that helped create 300+ jobs. had she been a man you probably would've realized the accomplishments over the looks because you're a misogynistic ass so fuck you.

  • @SPLIFBEATZ
    @SPLIFBEATZ7 жыл бұрын

    curiosity is blamed and shamed, becuase people could see their potencial and rise above their illminded, fearminded heads. you are the best advice for banning schools (which does the exact opposite of what you dou) static learning. no place for thinking on your self or even beeing on your own. just beautiful to see what happens if people reach their potencial through their natural emotions.

  • @TheDKPower
    @TheDKPower9 жыл бұрын

    Wonderful, inspiring talk! Why so many thumbs down??? A lot of jaded, disgruntled people out there who have no more hope?

  • @audreyadams9498
    @audreyadams949810 жыл бұрын

    So inspiring! Thats what I mean going for whatever that makes you happy..this chick is pretty, classy and has ambition..something more women should aspire to. Kudos!

  • @chadllera9949
    @chadllera99499 жыл бұрын

    Whatever can be said about her speech/message, she's up there speaking and she runs her own business.

  • @barbiiexcalii

    @barbiiexcalii

    9 жыл бұрын

    Thank you! I don't understand why everyone is complaining about this. I took a lot away from her speaking.

  • @chadllera9949

    @chadllera9949

    9 жыл бұрын

    You're welcome. I got something out of it as well. Maybe the title threw people off. I think maybe they were expecting something more like a shortcut to financial success, kind of thing. Something more concrete, you know?

  • @GodWearsTee

    @GodWearsTee

    9 жыл бұрын

    Lauren S Not really complaining, but more like criticising of her method of taking advantage of the students, which is based on assumption (Because she didn't really mention it) that they are not full time employee, and most likely underpaid, while it seems she's not really contributing anything to the society because she is "retired" very early, in a sense that the students is making money for her in general. However her view of life as cliche as it may, its still inspiring, just not her method.

  • @Rattielicious

    @Rattielicious

    9 жыл бұрын

    yeps, she sure is...and still being a user! Passion did not motivate her, her greed and selfishness motivated which is why she doesn't have any problem with exploiting other people and instead pats herself on her own back for having done so. Not a role model I would aspire to emulate. Only truth she has stated is about curiosity, creativity which comes natural as a child...until the worlds systems get a hold and force conformity.

  • @barbiiexcalii

    @barbiiexcalii

    9 жыл бұрын

    How is she greedy?

  • @LaRola1697
    @LaRola16977 жыл бұрын

    skip to 13:48. i really like her message here. she's right if we actually listened to our inner child or those "wild dreams" that we've always had in the back of our mind then maybe we could get somewhere... i think that's where the answers are to be found.

  • @XXKyle182XX
    @XXKyle182XX8 жыл бұрын

    How can anyone hate on this, so inspiring, love this

  • @jamescarter4013
    @jamescarter40139 жыл бұрын

    a REAL good tip to help you enjoy your youtube video experience is to not read the comments -.-. I actually dont agree with the "Retire at 20" Cause most really successful people have a work ethic so crazy that they basically never retire..

  • @eveningcommenter6312

    @eveningcommenter6312

    9 жыл бұрын

    My grandfather retired. He got board. He has 2 jobs for fun.

  • @jamescarter4013

    @jamescarter4013

    9 жыл бұрын

    Haha I bet he has a wonderful personality. i had a doctor who was like 84 said he didnt want to retire

  • @eveningcommenter6312

    @eveningcommenter6312

    9 жыл бұрын

    James Carter I love my grandfather. He loves everyone and helps everyone with everything. Sad thing is that my grandmother passed away at 67 which broke his heart.

  • @jamescarter4013

    @jamescarter4013

    9 жыл бұрын

    =[ sorry to hear that

  • @ericbooth9584
    @ericbooth95846 жыл бұрын

    Great story. I appreciate the message!!!!!!

  • @krystinjones7373
    @krystinjones73736 жыл бұрын

    If you do what you love and what you’re passionate about then it’s not really “work”....that’s why it’s captioned retire by 20 she’s doing what she’s passionate about not working at some mundane job she hates... I loved it!.!.!

  • @lizgichora6472
    @lizgichora64727 жыл бұрын

    Encouraging, thank you very much.