I completely cut off all the toxic people in my life (which was the one friend I've had since middle school), but I often feel lonely. Right now, I'm working on myself to attract better quality friends who don't treat me like a doormat. I've realized that my low self-confidence attracts the same kind of people into my life, and I want to change that.

@justinsane_ttv

2 жыл бұрын

You said it beautiful . I hope you will find good people and they will appreciate you. I wish you the best

@poisonedchalice

2 жыл бұрын

I know the feeling ❤

I had toxic people in my life. Thankfully I had help and I was able to deal with that.

Physically, I spend the most time with people from work. In our office of ten, one individual is very loud and very toxic. Embarrassingly, I occasionally find myself snapping at her, and often I try to find tasks outside of the office that need tending to. When I must be in the office, I find that putting on my noise cancelling headphones and listening to soothing music can be helpful.

Myka, can you please please tell us EXACTLY how to respond when someone makes an incredibly rude comment, is just rude/hostile or inappropriate? Whether a "friend", a service worker, a teacher, boss?

Yes, I'd love to know what to do when the negative/critical person is a parent... particularly when residing in the same home.

@deepikabhangole4652

3 жыл бұрын

I too have the same scenario! Would love some advice

@antivenomadams6369

3 жыл бұрын

Same here!

@skojigoquist9288

3 жыл бұрын

I had the same situation for years. What i did: i gave a full reboot to this relationship. I was very polite and i tried not to give them anything to get hold onto. On the other hand i didnt talk to them and didnt initiate any conversation at all. I didnt take any action just reaction. Also i tried to leave as many times as possible. I still visit my home sometimes j always have at least 2 but rather 3 escape routes- places and pple i can visit at times of trouble. Its not easy during pandemia. The ultimate solution was when i moved out. That made it final.

@ritaaleksandrovna4518

3 жыл бұрын

Move out would be the first and most important step

@liana2136

2 ай бұрын

​@@skojigoquist9288It sounds like you mastered the "grey rock" technique. Thank you for your helpful message. You gave me confidence that it can be done successfully.

Apart from this powerful message, I just wanted to add that I love your natural look, you look French chic and amazing❤

I’d much rather someone just tell Me goodbye so I’m not wasting my time and energy on that relationship.

I love your videos! They are so helpful. Thank you and I really hope you keep making these videos!!

Thanks you Myka for the video, very helpful!

😱 I found only 3 people in my life that enjoy to be with them.

Thanks for the video! I like your "instagram" video on etiquette, very short and straight to the point with very explicit message!

Such a timely video! So glad I came upon it!

I happened to move to another city so that helped wean away from the person who kept telling me how I should live my life!

Thank you for this!

Just love this!

I hope we get more great videos coming Myka! 😁

Tk u! Very graceful method.

I had to be hard on ending a few friendship. They stuck and I was suffering.

@mykameier7474

4 жыл бұрын

It's truly one of the best things you can do for your life. So glad you were able to be notice it and make a positive change!

Thank you so much

Very helpful video!

very helpful.. thank u!

@mykameier7474

3 жыл бұрын

I’m so glad you enjoyed it. So important 💕

I love you!

Hard, don't like to forsake people.

What do you do when it’s your parent? Especially when they are dramatic.

@pierreb7878

3 жыл бұрын

Take some distance?

let's write down a name here - moaning pheromones. how does that name make you feel? I feel like screaming until my lungs bleed.