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I’m not watching because I want my ex back… I’m watching to support Coach Craig and to learn to be attractive in my next relationship ❤

@Lanes8930

Жыл бұрын

Go you 🤗

@susananavarrete2801

Жыл бұрын

@@Lanes8930 thank you ☺️

We broke up 9 months later she came back asked me to help because she had been abused by her new partner I helped her get sober and fight the courts and deal with mental health and poor physical health. She left 8 months later when she started drinking again and cheated. I asked her to come home and talk to me and she wouldn’t. So I just left. Now I’m trying to keep distant from her

@rwentfordable

Жыл бұрын

Reading your comment that distance needs to be permanent.

@tommytennant6536

Жыл бұрын

@@rwentfordable you think? I’m starting to think so too… she went mad at me because after I left I told her mam what she was doing (going out drinking, doing drugs, sleeping about with dealers, not taking medication, not going to hospital appointments, out for days on end) she went mad at me for telling her mam. But I was the only one who knew the path she was on. I couldn’t just leave and let her continue on this path… I think i did the nice thing

@CallforthePriest

Жыл бұрын

@@tommytennant6536 You tried to do the right thing Tommy. Unfortunately she threw it back in your face, you tried and thats all you can do. Just dont get wrapped up in her issues and let them drag you down too.

@tommytennant6536

Жыл бұрын

@@CallforthePriest thank you. I’m trying. Im trying to just fill my life with work and keep myself busy. Starting a weekend job soon. And I’ve blocked all her contacts. Focusing on me and only me.

@BiefBinkDVS

Жыл бұрын

​@@tommytennant6536 i can agree with the others. You tried everything on your end and in my opinion.. I have a boundary where if someone cheats on me, i declare it as permanent red as the trust is broken and there is no opportunity in repairing. This may sound very hard but it is the truth. Again, you did everything in you to make things going well and having a healthy relationship. But I can highly recommend you move on as I'm sure you want to get the best out of your own life.

Cool video, I'm still struggling with the end of my 7-year relationship. My significant other, who I considered to be the love of my life, left me a month ago, and I can't seem to shake the constant thoughts of her. Despite my efforts to bring her back into my life, nothing has worked, and I feel frustrated and hopeless. I've tried to move on, but my heart still longs for her, and I don't see myself with anyone else. I apologize for sharing this here, but I just can't seem to stop missing her.

@christopherkraft5553

Жыл бұрын

@@AndrewNewton-fn Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

@christopherkraft5553

Жыл бұрын

@@AndrewNewton-fn Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

I’m proud of myself yesterday was my exs birthday and I didn’t reach no matter how bad I wanted to text her happy birthday

@TomAndrews91

Жыл бұрын

I hope I can be this strong. Well done to you.

This truly works (like craig said only once you are back in contact with your ex). It worked for me a good few years ago now. Craig gave me similar advice in coaching calls and emails, tailored to my situation. My ex came back and we were happy for a while. Sadly i didnt keep doing the work and we broke up again (or maybe it just wasnt meant to be). Im now in a new relationship and i still remind myself of this advice as i think it is important for keeping attraction alive in a long term relationship. For example following an argument, even after we have talked about the issue and made up, i will often want to keep talking about it even days later. I think anxious people often focus on wanting to fix everything and want reassurance etc. This advice reminds me there is a point where this behaviour becomes off putting and it is better to focus on having a good time together. This strengthens the attraction and connection which may in itself iron out issues. Thanks craig, margaret (whose spirit is with us) and victoria

Took the leap and purchased ' the knowledge volume 1'. Here we go craig. Look at Me Doing the work 🤗 its my mission to come back with a success story.

@CoachCraigKenneth

Жыл бұрын

Commit to it 30 minutes a day and always review your answers 🙌

2 years almost and havent heard a word. But ive heard from 3 other ex’s that i don’t care about in that timeframe

Love you Coach!

Terrific advice.

You might not be aware of it yet but your ex has already changed the relationship dynamic & put a serious dent in the love & trust you once had. You’re grieving the loss of something. It was taken too soon & it feels unfair, just like when someone dies. Attempting to reanimate the corpse of a beloved relationship seldom works out how we want it to sadly.

@JoeBidenSucks42069

Жыл бұрын

truer words may have never been spoken. the more time i have spent away from my ex the more i think about how much better i am doing without her in my life.

@johnnycalderon9951

7 ай бұрын

Idk about this my ex was married for 12 years until he past away from covid and they broke up for 6 months and got bcj together. We broke up becuz we just kept having stupid arguments over stupid stuff. We never try to fix it until one day it just blew up. Now in no contact I'll give it some time and see. But even if we get bck together now we know what the relationship was worth. But she has to come to me if she doesn't it's her lost.

See that’s what is difficult. We are long distance and he doesn’t want to talk on the phone at all for some reason. He initiates texts and memes every few days but no real conversation on a deeper level. He has mentioned me coming there and him coming here but no solid plans. Uuugh I just want this to be over.

Maaan am I struggling today. It's 9 days since I last heard from him and I've convinced myself I'm never going to hear from him again. It's so hard to work on yourself when I don't seem to care about anything anymore. I miss him so terribly. He is my best friend and love of my life 😔

@CallforthePriest

Жыл бұрын

I feel you lanes, im dealing with a very similar issue with my love :(

@trance499

Жыл бұрын

same goes for me, with the difference im blocked for 9 months. miss her terribly, and im also convinced I'll never hear from her again

@mjgray0820

Жыл бұрын

Same here I want my wife back 9 days of no contact

@Lanes8930

Жыл бұрын

Hugs to all 🤗 I really hope it all works out for us how it's meant to ❤️

im 37 and my ex is 35 and we was in a 11 year relationship. we spilt up a 1 1\2 ago when i left our home but in that time we was sleeping together and getting on very well. we also have a 5yo son. before we split up she got a new social life with a bunch of single mothers that we already knew but would be good for her and our son to have little friends! so a 1 1\2 go by being spilt up but seeing each other and getting on well. the last time we slept together was the 12th of dec and on the 16th she said we need to stop and went cold! my world turned up side and it was the first time i realised id lost everything! anyway 2 weeks go by and i got it out of her that she's talking to someone else! ive truly seen my errors and can see hers but she's not interested because of the new stuff she's feeling even tho at this point she's probably only meet him once, she's really isn't the type of girl to be sleeping around that's why i fear she's really looking at the new guy as a serious mate! i think she's a FEARFUL AVOIDANT! she's turned so cold she's unrecognisable. since that time ive worked on myself by hitting the gym and actually feel loads better apart from this nightmare im living in! what's my chances of getting her back?

Hey Guys this is so true. - I did great at almost all the steps in this video besides the "where do I stand" area :(. It initially only took her 4 days to reach out to me after she broke up with me and after a span of maybe 2-3 weeks, we started texting, going out on dates, etc. On our last date instead of ME living in the moment, I SELF-Sabotaged myself by asking her for more clarity on where I stood and what she wanted from me. At that specific moment, we worked it out but 3 days later I ultimately informed her that I don't feel as if I was being heard in regards to my needs and yet I'm giving her what she wanted. - All in all I OVERWHLED her. That's the ONLY thing I can think of that went wrong and just from that one instant I haven't heard from her in 7 weeks smh. If I could do it again I would have just lived in the moment (I don't have any regrets but it just sucks because I knew I shouldn't have said it before I actually said it anyway lol).. - I've run into her since (last week to be exact) but I simply just told her that its good to see her, gave her a compliment on her new haircut, and told her I forgive her (she started to cry) but I had somewhere to be and also didn't want to overdue my stay as for she was studying so I got that off my chest and walked away with my head high (I was shocked at how much strength I had at that moment but I think it came from doing the self-work over these past 7 weeks. I still have hope but that one moment in time caused me 7 weeks of not hearing from her). - I'm keeping the hope alive but I'm continuing to invest in ME. Good luck to you all and learn from my mistake.

What about a ghosting situation? Would you still not address it?

She's actually a coworker. Makes it so tough. Never dated, but we are close.

How do you get face to face with someone if you can’t contact them?

4 months into a break up with a pwbpd. They monkey branched and moved in with the guy a month later. Cheated on him for the last 3 months and he knows. They seem unshakeable. Can't go full no contact because we have a child together but felt the transition from back up to total vilify. I don’t see any hope. Not that i accepted the back up placement or anything. But my daughter needs her mom and her mom has all but abandoned her.

@JoeBidenSucks42069

Жыл бұрын

then you need to be there for your daughter.

@irinarusu5523

Жыл бұрын

Be the best father you can possibly be, please

This didn't work for me cause my ex was still with the rebound !

Oh Craig, Do I have a story for you! 🤣

He reached out and offered friendship and I reacted out of anxiety and questioned him about what he was feeling and could we slowly get back to where we were. I then said no to friendship but recanted and said I’d try. He said we could spend some time doing the things we used to do. I said great, could we talk again? No answer but it’s been 5 days. I believe he’s on the autism spectrum and is scared now. I know I’ve pushed him away again. I have been considering my anxious behavior and believe I could return to the girl he was attracted to if given the opportunity. Do you think it’s too late? He said he loved and missed me and had many wonderful memories with me. Is that enough to bring him back?

does this apply to the dumper as well coach? im the dumper and i say that with shame and i regret breaking up

Can anyone answer this question or tell me if Craig advised on this 😊 so if you go no contact, and your ex reaches out. You respond and exchange 2 or 3 texts. After that do you go no contact again or is it ok to initiate texts?

@TomAndrews91

Жыл бұрын

I'm in the same sort of boat. I've only lasted a few days before I've messaged my ex and she's initiated the conversation too a few times. We've had long conversations again already. I don't know if I'd call it flirting, but she's already told me that she still has feelings for me and this is all while she's with another guy. I am trying to make no contact work, but we're in a weird place as we stayed friends after the breakup and I don't know if I should have done that. I'd feel guilty if I deleted her now. I always try and make it so she messages me and not the other way round, but sometimes I end up relapsing. I have to learn to get better at that and have more self control. I think you should make them chase.

@Lanes8930

Жыл бұрын

@@TomAndrews91 I bought volume 1 and 2 of Craig's workbooks ( cos it's all I can afford right now) but they truly have helped me learn and lot and helped me calm down. I wish you all the best my friend 🤗

@TomAndrews91

Жыл бұрын

@@Lanes8930 I'm glad they're helping you 🙂 I'm considering deleting her and going proper no contact so I can authentically heal. Wishing only positives for you. We can get through this. Give yourself the love you deserve 🤗

@TomAndrews91

Жыл бұрын

So today I found out my ex is possibly (hopefully) breaking up with her boyfriend because she told me it's not going well and she even admitted to me it was karma. I'm being there for her and trying not to push things right now. I'm happy, but trying not to let it get to my head. We're friends again after me deleting her. I felt ignoring her was a bad idea and she was already angry about that to start with. The whole thing with her current boyfriend made her mood worse though.

@TomAndrews91

Жыл бұрын

She ended breaking up with her boyfriend and we're back together now 🙌

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Just went to see my ex girl after 6 weeks limited contact(3kids together) no begging from day one only said when she broke up that I think we shoulf try to repair things. We had s3x twice in 2 hours, she asked to stay overnight but I kindly refused. Still I can see her interest is very low but we will see. Let me know guys if you wanna know more I will comment back but trust the process its working what coach says and few others on yt!!! Ah yes she asked to see her to close her self employment in my company but its so easy only takes one phone call or simple 2 mins online form so I think she used it as excuse

@super_street_racer5094

Жыл бұрын

Im curious whats next?

@TheRelaxRoom

Жыл бұрын

@@super_street_racer5094 next is her pull back 😄 just dropped off my kids and she was angry said that I wasted her life out of nowhere... probably cannot find anyone new with good game or because she is single mother now with 3 kids(all under 3 yrs old) but yes she is angry now for no reason probably cause she see me happy, polite, no begging etc just focused on kids and my new business and I think her life is not what she planned to be

@super_street_racer5094

Жыл бұрын

@@TheRelaxRoom well im glad you got the good end of it and that you are happy!

@TheRelaxRoom

Жыл бұрын

@@super_street_racer5094 thanks yes I feel good and I hope you too