How to Protect Yourself And Set Boundaries With The Fae
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I received so much great feedback and loved reading your comments on the last video and I wanted to talk about boundaries in the magic realm. I will definitely delve deeper on this subject and show examples of protective symbols that you can draw as well!
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@lyndseymichele
3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@mysticalturtle9889
3 жыл бұрын
A loophole is really just a curvy door
@GuyG.KTalesOfAnimals
2 жыл бұрын
🧚🏽♂️ “What did you say?” “What….? oh you’re talking about this?” 🧚🏽♂️”🧐🤔👉👀🧠🕵️✍️” Oh. 🙅🏻🤦🏻🙆🏻
@kennalise
9 ай бұрын
LMAO😭
For me, I have a boundary with the fae where if I tie a ribbon on my door knob, I wish to be left alone. And they always have respected that which I honestly really appreciate. I also have a boundary of "please do not approach me outside at night during the darker half of the year, especially if I'm alone" bc winter and my mental health don't always agree and so harmless encounters can often stress me out a LOT. they also always honor that one which is GREATLY appreciated. I have more but those are my top two boundaries I've set with them
@Mintfaery
3 жыл бұрын
YES those are very good 👌🏾
@michaelathompson7041
3 жыл бұрын
So. Sorry if this is a dumb question.. but how do you know what their boundaries are? Like with different fae I’m assuming they have different boundaries so how do you know what to do and what not do to? I just started getting into this whole other world and I just want to learn:)
@victoriavenomousriot4344
3 жыл бұрын
@@michaelathompson7041 That's not a stupid question at all. I started by researching faery etiquette. You can learn a lot of their boundaries through learning their customs. I also started making all of their etiquette a habit to avoid offending them, there's lots of youtube videos on it. And then, I started researching different types of fae. There's youtube videos and websites and books on them. I can't remember exactly which ones I used. C'est bon bons has a video on the fae tho where she lists her sources. And finally I waited till beltane to try and contact the fae and talk with them about any additional boundaries they may each personally have. I started by leaving an offering of berries and honey and went from there. I personally used tarot cards to communicate but there are plenty of other ways to talk to them. I just don't know much about those ways xD
@pumpkinspice59
2 жыл бұрын
Excuse me I have a question do the fae ever talk to you in your mind I’m sort getting voices coming in
@DeviousDuck222
2 жыл бұрын
@@victoriavenomousriot4344 I have another question. How do you know if they are actually there? Like how do you know if they still come by? And I left out offerings for them and they still haven’t come. What should I do?
You have the biggest Steven universe vibe EVER
@Mintfaery
3 жыл бұрын
Omg I really need to watch it 😆 I keep staring it and then stopping!
I was raised with the spirits of the forrest. I was never given the language of being a witch but was totally raised to be one. Fairies and other spirits were told to me from a super young age, there were ones to stay away from but others who liked apple cidar so I would leave a sip when we made some around the fire. It is so interesting that they have always been a part of my life and learned how to not have issues as I grew up, but I know many people who just don't know what they are getting into! Thank you for this! Also you are so funny.
@MotherNaturesEdge
3 жыл бұрын
I think it's so cool when our parents raises to be witches but don't label it. Because then there's no stigma, it's just the way things are. I was raised in a very similar fashion, and grew up to refer to myself as a witch. although I didn't have proper teaching about the faith I was always taught that they were real. I've always believed, and I've seen them as a child. Did you get to see them? I think it's so cool that they like apple cider 😁
Wow the faerie sounds like the law, “what you say may be against you” kind of thing 😂😂😂
@Mintfaery
3 жыл бұрын
SO TRUE 🤣
My wife thanks you for this... she’s convinced we have faeries in the house and she’s not amused lol. I’m not so convinced since we live in NYC and there’s like ZERO nature nearby. I can’t imagine any faeries being attracted to Brooklyn 😂. Once we move upstate maybe she’ll be ok with a faerie garden outside. I guess I would set clear boundaries about the garden being the only place they are allowed??? Thanks again for such a cute, informative video!!! 💖🧚🏽♀️
@Mintfaery
3 жыл бұрын
There are loads of Faeries that love the city because there are so many people to feed off of! Depending on the type of fae, they move to where they enjoy the atmosphere, a place where they can sustain themselves on human emotions or watch the different types of people. There are some that are really attracted to art and music as well, and tend to stay in areas with a lot of creatives 👌🏾🥰
@monetfae
3 жыл бұрын
Hmmmm... So now I’m thinking she may be right. I haven’t invited but definitely doing loads of research. I have Faerie Oracle cards that I’ve been using also so... lol. It’s totally possible. I would love the fae to visit but wife ain’t here for it 🤣 *goes to follow all of the advice in your video* 💖🧚🏽♀️
That's why in some cultures they cut homemade bread in half before bed.
@MotherNaturesEdge
3 жыл бұрын
This is interesting to me, do you have any further information? Or maybe some idea of what culture does it so I can look it up? Thank you.
LMAOOOOO that little "vampire.." at 10:07 im dying
OMG I've been wondering about this for a WHILE, thank you! Like, I don't want to DISrespect them if they're not doing anything to me, but I have never wanted to mess with fae and would rather not have them in my living space.
Gonna make an iron horseshoe for my door with the engraving: “keepin the fae at bay” 😂
I recently started working with the fae and have had a few scares here and there. This video kept stopping and cutting out words (specially the St. John wort). My main concern is then messing with my kids and husband, specially my older daughter is interested in them, so it’s good to know I can set these kinds of boundaries. Thank you!
This is a brilliant video and so enlightening! I've always been very curious about the fair folk and creatures of mythology and folklore, and I would absolutely love to encounter them! However, I'm aware of how dangerous they can be, and as a beginner/closeted witch still living in a home which is very much Christian, somehow I don't think it would be a good idea to invite them in. I do like to leave occasional treats in my area of the garden though, usually some kind of sweet homemade drink, like spiced cream or sorrel. Your fair folk videos have been so useful, as I now know ways to increase likelihood of encounters with them (basically being kind to nature and respectful, and growing a lot of stuff) without necessarily having to work with them yet. So thank you! 😊❤️
Definitely needed this, thanks! That draw/repulsion thing of desire/fear of the fae. Celtic background creates and odd relationship. Respect and maybe fear...
@damascus9876
3 жыл бұрын
Same 😩
Thank you for your fae videos!! I watch everyone of them and it helps me to bond with the fae! 💚💚 Can you make a video about faery symbols?
Thank you for this! I just started researching the Fae, taking time to get to know them before reaching out. 🧚♀️🦋🌸
I am just like you. I can't have fragrant sweet or flowery scented perfumes and creams or I will get wicked migraines, so bath and body works products are a no-no for me. Earthy scents are the only things I can have or light baby powder scents work fine too. Every since I transitioned into my natural hair years ago and I started using natural scented oils and things, I've learned that those scents don't make me sick, so eventually I started using those things, not just in my beauty routine, but into my every day life. Plus I've learned that earthy scents work well my naturally strong body odor. So if I try to use sweet scents on myself mixed with my earthy body odor, I just end up smelling sour. Idk why I'm telling you all of this. I just originally wanted to say that I have migraines too but I just went on a tangent. 🤣 Love your channel tho!
@Mintfaery
3 жыл бұрын
Hahah, yes though! I agree that earthy scents work so well with our natural scent. YES, I'm all for the smell of cedar and oak and honey 👌🏾
I like the explanation of the boundaries you set. It seems very well thought out. I should try to incorporate some of those Also at 13:22 this reminds me of ace ventura pet detective and the scene when he's in Africa going to the game wardens trophy room and he gasped several times and was like "what a lovely room of death"
honestly so happy to have found your channel, you have such warm vibes and I learn so much from you
I love your background! I haven’t been on your channel in awhile.❤️😻🙏🏾
@Mintfaery
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks love! 😊
@SEKHMETSHOMEOFALCHEMY
3 жыл бұрын
@@Mintfaery thank you for responding❤️😻🙏🏾
I have binged watched a lot of your videos today and can I tell you how much of an interesting and educational person you are. thank you so much and I hope you continue making videos. thank you for your effort
I’m watching this while I’m sick and it’s making me feel so much better!! Thank you Mint as always
You crack me up so much. Now I have to rewatch what you said. 😂 That Twilight reference erased everything. 😂 love you
Your redcap story spooked me fora week and a half, but I'm super interested in Studying Wc & W & the occult now. I did have a question about the level of danger when fae knows that you can see them, But i don't really know how to pose it. I'll continue to study, Your channel Has been SO soothing to find. I feel like I can be more comfortable with my style of passion for any topic By watching. releasing shame, anger, and fear.
Oh my gosh! I was just outside where I wished on a star to learn ways to protect myself & my daughter from having scary night time encounters. And here you are!! Most of my scary experiences tend to be with inner earth or space beings, but last night....I can only describe it as a shadow faery. I need to set better boundaries. Thank you for this video!
I've been a Christian for a long time and still connect with the fae. Just make my intention for those that serve God.
I love it! 💜 So excited for the glamour video!
This is very useful. I’ve been having problems with the fae they keep touching my stuff and not returning it, but also been giving me nightmares and attacking me in my dreams so now I know some for. Of protection against them to use.
I cant decide what kind of relationship I want with the fae. I'm not sure where to draw the line. I kind of want to see them and respect them. But I also am nervous to the idea of working with and speaking to them. I love how you've been asked to clean up a bit of trash, etc for the environment. I like the idea of giving nature offerings, example being feeding the squirrels and birds. I'm pretty sure I don't want to invite them inside my home on wheels. Though I feel like theyve been around and not showing themselves. At least I believe it probably has happened before. Idk! It seems like a lot of work to work with the fae and my mundane life is already needy and overwhelming at times so I'm afraid of falling short on keeping them happy.
THANK YOU!!! I know nothing about the fae, but since buying the Sacred Self Care Oracle deck the card "search for fairies" has been popping out left and right. Yesterday I did a personal reading and purposely avoided using those cards and instead used my boyfriend's Adorabyssal Oracle deck. I was trying to pull a clarification card and I barely held the deck before the FAERIE card fell out. I forgot there was a card for them in the deck! Obviously I have a fae trying to get my attention for a month now, and over this past week picture frames have been falling without explanation. I know I'm too naive about the fae to communicate with them without severely screwing up and I needed this video so THANK YOU. I'm in over my head 😭❤️
I jus wanted to say that I absolutely ADORE U n Ur videos girl!! I am 43 and I have been drawn to ALL of the above that Ur videos are ABOUT!! An I have learned SOO much watching U an being ABLE to have a DIRECTION to follow while tryna navigate this New world!! I guess U can say I pretty MUCH had an awaking and I MUST say that every since the VERY POINT in time that I have finally found what my heart an soul has NEEDED I have NEVER been More CONTENT or HAPPY in My skin as I am NOW!! 💜💜💚💚 I also love Ur obsession with the color GREEN!! Lol my Sister who is my other half an very Best friend, she loves GREEN JUS like U girl friend!! My jam is PURPLE!! If U CLD SEE my hair color ud see My obsession with purple is the SAME!! I totally resignat with U an Ur vibe!! I like how U take time to break dwn the Fae an what U think they are an Ur exsperiances with them. It's VERY helpful to a newbie HERE!! 🤣😂💯💯💜💚💜 Thanks for putting out the content that U do!! IT'S AWESOME GIRL!! DNT EVER change!! So much love an appreciation Frm FLORIDA!! 💜💜🌴🌴💜💜 ALSO I need to say U MUST get told alot how easy U ARE to LISTEN TO an take advice from, and I'm willing to bet that U are equally a good listener as WELL!! I'm comfortable with Ur vibe an have NEVER met U in person but feel U are a chill person!! Thanks again!! 💯💯💜💜
I was so excited to see that you uploaded a video! I love learning from you and you make me laugh and instantly smile! Thank you!
I needed this Thank you 💕
Love your fae videos 🧚🏼♀️
I’m sooooo excited for the next video!!!!
I'm just binge watching everything you have put out there for us little energy beings 🥰🥰🥰🥰and i love your content, and energy.
Once again what a lovely video, your energy just makes me smile. You're such a ray of sunshine. And I feel like that gets used a lot, but it is truly an accurate descriptor of you. Thank you for the video, I learned so much. I also love how you been doing unboxings during the videos. Hope you're staying safe out there, and I look forward to your next video.
Thank you so much! I don't work with the fae but your videos are just so relaxing.
That Houseguest reference was everything! : "There was bloods and bubbles and butts. I saw him bite my friend and his head came off."
@Mintfaery
Жыл бұрын
Yessss 🤣🤣🤣 and his eye was on meeeee
I freaking love you MintFaery. I always enjoy learning from your videos & watching your spunky, fun energy. Thank you for posting such goodies!🙏✨🕉
You are delightful and beautiful and you are one of my first sources of information about the Fae, so this is all so new and exciting for me😄!
Love your personality!
Thank you for this advice 💖
i really love your content, i've been binging on your videos lately so interesting & helpful¡!! sending you lots of love, girl < 3
@Mintfaery
3 жыл бұрын
Oh thank you!
Hahaha that face is priceless
that thumbnail is gold lol
Ok question: I want to leave the fae offerings, expecting nothing back. I would just like to leave them offerings to show that I appreciate what they do for this earth. I do not intend on working with them in anyway. But, I am completely fine with them visiting/ inhabiting my garden. Is there a way I can leave these offerings without the fae seeing this as an invitation to my home or contract?
amazing video as always!
I made a whole convo between the two far when you say he was being shown the ropes lol
@Mintfaery
3 жыл бұрын
Omg yes 🤣
I’m having a major Fairy problem in my bedroom. They are coming thru a floor mirror (seems to be a portal that I also see passed on animals & earthbound Spirits use as well) but they are causing all sorts of havoc. Not listening to boundaries. Woke up to the pungent smell of flowers last night & a small cherub child in a bonnet standing next to my bed. But her wide grin was mischievous. I’ve also seen dozens of what appear to be glowing fireflies flitting about above my bed at night. This has been going on for 3.5 weeks now & I’m EXHAUSTED. Something scared my 4yo grandson last night something awful. He’s autistic & non-verbal, so there is no way of knowing. But he has NEVER been that afraid & clamoring to get out of bed. I’m at my whits end. If you have any advice, I’m all ears. I’ve always been Clairvoyant, but this is next level😢
Thank you sooo much! And I'm so excited for the Glamour video!!! I just got into the topic last week and there isn't so much content out there about it (good one, where they don't use it to bind someone to you...)
@MotherNaturesEdge
3 жыл бұрын
I have never known someone to use a glamor as a binding. What even is that? Lol
@Mintfaery
3 жыл бұрын
I think they mean, as a means to bind you. Like a lure 👌🏾
@dandelion8387
3 жыл бұрын
@@Mintfaery Exactly! In some videos that I saw while reasearching glamour magick, they said to use this certain ritual to bind your partner to you. But for me that is such a harmful act! Rituals and magick should be just for yourself or to help someone, nature, etc. Not to keep a person in your life.
@Mintfaery
3 жыл бұрын
YES, I 100% agree with you 🥰
I just noticed that the "tufty hair guy" you described looks exactly like the Totoro pillow you have behind you!
You are my favourite KZreadr.
Thank you 🙏🏾
Sorry if I start spam liking on your channel. I'm a new magic user and I want to learn. I never thought to look for magic info on KZread but the Universe led me to you and your wonderful vibes made me want to stay :)
I have always had this thing whare when somthing go's missing around the house if it takes me a long time to find somthing I hav always said that o would like that specific item back vary politely and usually after i will find the things i was looking for really easily
@florence3595
3 жыл бұрын
I have had some items go missing, usually magical items from my practice. I would like to try asking for them back politely but I also dont want it to seem like an invitation? Have they reached out to you after you asked?
@_.cloudStrawberry._
3 жыл бұрын
@@florence3595 great question! I myself no longer preform magic so i haven't had any itums of that nature go missing. However i think you can ask for thing back just be vary carful to not say thank you directly to anything. Try and say thing like thats vary kind or nothing at all. Hope this helps!
@florence3595
3 жыл бұрын
@@_.cloudStrawberry._ Oh ok I see, thanks for the help!
@rikim6938
3 жыл бұрын
this happened to me, i lost a ring that was my fave and i thought fae might be responsible so i went outside and said out loud that i want me ring back and when i woke up it was on my dresser
Love you videos.
Very helpful 🙏
Thank you so much for this beautiful video, Mint!! Loved this info. I have had a question for a while now and would love if you could give me your opinion. If I have a fae altar in my garden but have not invited them into my home (purposefully), will they assume that it is free range into my home and life? Or would they typically stay in that space? I’m assuming if you use “warding” or protective items around the house this will make it uncomfortable for them. After writing it out and getting further into your video I feel like I know your answer lol...but please let me know what you think 🙌🏼 thank you so much!!
"there was Blood, and Bubbles, and Butts" .... " and his eye was on me! His eye was on me, man!!! "
@Mintfaery
3 жыл бұрын
YESSSSS HAHAAHAHA 😆🙏🏾😆
@KatnipEvergreenOfficial
3 жыл бұрын
@@Mintfaery
Omg houseguest!! It’s been years....s/o to sinbad lol
yaaaaaaaay!!
This is really interesting. As a christian witch, would I not be able to work with the fae then? Also, how would I know if the fae had invited themselves into my space if I can't sense them?
I just bought a elderberry plants 🌱 Over 5 for a child local honey 🐝 helps for allergies sniffy runny nose helps build immune system has to be local honey.My son was on Allergy medicine for years and then someone told me about this and ever since he has never needed allergy medicine 🐝
Love you doll. Can you please make a version of your bear hood and sell them?!! 🥰🥰🥰
NO REDCAPS ALLOWED!
omg where did u get ur hat!!!!! i love it so much
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@meek8847
3 жыл бұрын
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You've a message from the underworld... Reach out to receive.
I like ur hair
As a bonafide Brat in the kink world........................ Yeah this is my advantage over any entity LOL loopholes are our THING.
I enjoyed this one as always, but I have to ask, what did Use on your face you look radiant!
Hi, I’m new in witchcraft (only been doing it for a year) bit later in my life I would like to have a positive replay ion ship with the far but not work with then. How would I go about that and what type of boundaries would I set? Also loved the video your always so calming
Girrrrl, my friend has faes in her home and she didn't invited them😂 now she moved and they came with her😂 what does this mean? She's a little scared 😂
Ok but have you ever just hung out with them for long period of time? Because that would be cool
HOUSEGUESSTTTT!!
@Mintfaery
3 жыл бұрын
YESSSS
Your glowin effervescently glad I discovered you💚 when 👁 did 💓 you Mama Mint🌿
HOUSEGUEST lol
@Mintfaery
3 жыл бұрын
OMG YESSSSS 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@mistystorythyme2452
3 жыл бұрын
@@Mintfaery 💚💚💚
How do you receive msgs from them? Like how do u know what they r asking u to do and how do u know they agree with ur terms? (Also I love ur thumbnail ^-^)
Hey hey third 😝
Can you talk about specific offerings the fae would like?
I feel like I genuinely invited them into my life when I was younger and now I need time apart. How do I reset boundaries when they need to change? Are the steps the same? Do these changes have consequences?
Hey i just watched your moon water video and i would like to know do you have to keep your water outside ir can i have it beside my window
Hey do you guys think it would be a good boundary to only allow Gnomes as the only fae I will work with until I open to more? I’ve always had a connection with gnomes and I feel comfortable with them and until I get more skilled I don’t feel comfortable reaching out to other fae, would that be a boundary that would be alright?
Can you change your mind with your boundaries? Like invite them in, then express the boundary later that you don’t want to let them in?
OMG what was in the lip balm!!! 🤣
Hey mint I love watching your videos you have made me reach out open my awareness I need to talk to you I have a question that I really need your help with
i dont know if this is normal or not, but my first encounter with the fae was one of the little bright glowy ones telling me to get out of the shower because i was using too much water. is that normal when i didnt try to contact them or anything?
What if i want to make them a space in my garden but dont want to interact with them, see them or them coming in my house. Can i do that and just make it clear by saying it to them and like right a little rule poster in there space?
I don’t know if this is offensive to faeries and I don’t want it to be, but how do you know if they are real? Like how did you get proof they were? And how did you get them to visit your garden? How do they know when you have left offerings out for them? Thank you!
I had a question what do we do with our offerings I have been leaving them on my altar how ever I used some that will eventually start to smell and I haven't a clue what to do with them...
Love ur haaat wheres it from
I recently read that you shouldn’t use an iron cauldron if you work with the faze. Any thoughts on if this is true?
I wanted to do a fairy garden with my kids for spring. Is there a way to go about this properly?
@Mintfaery
3 жыл бұрын
Yup, state your intention woth the garden 👌🏾 Out loud, say what it is and who is welcomed there and set the parameters, then enjoy!
Interesting that you say some fae do not like bread. My household spirits prefer bread. Specifically homemade bread, not store bought. I tried to give them tequila once and they hated that. I think I have a brownie that I inherited and has been around for possible centuries and some sort of native American cat-sized creature that doesn't talk but likes to cause trouble, but not quite enough for me to banish it.
How do you know if the entity in your home is from the realm of the Fae ?
I can see them from a far? and not work with them?
Do they speak to you out loud or is it more telepathic? 💗
Is it reasonable to put my boundaries into writing as sort of an agreement/terms and conditions type thing? I just have trouble articulating this kind of thing outside of writing, but I'm also afraid of it becoming an invitation for loopholes 😅 I tried to be specific and reasonable, and it mostly covers things a well-meaning spirit would follow by principle anyway.
do you think it’s possible to experience death when coming in contact with fairies/fae?
I have a question… i would EVENTUALLY like to work with the fae. The thing is I have cerebral palsy and an wheelchair bound & my wheelchair is obviously made of metal/iron will the fae still work with me or will my wheelchair repel them?