I've never seen a discussion that is so brutally honest, so in your face, and so very relevant to these times. Ek hi video mein aapne past se le kar present, karma se lekar dharma, psychology se lekar legality aur bhi jaane kitne concepts ko itne simple tarike se interweave kiya hai, aur saari baat itne simple aur "tark sangat" tarike se samjhai hai. Hats off to you Sir...

Humans don't come with a manual. Your videos are a kind of life manual, and eye-opening. Greetings from Pakistan.

Sometimes I feel our Indian culture is so complicated. We are so mean to each other in fly for money and property and then we judge westerners for having no values Such an irony

@aadi594

Жыл бұрын

Not all , but there'll be few exceptions in any country

I wish, we had more people like you guiding the society on sensibility and practicality in our day-to-day lives.we as a society could make so much of progress. Thank you.

मैं एक एडवोकेट हूं और आप जो जो उदाहरण दे रहे हैं ऐसा लग रहा है कि आप और सारे उदाहरण मेरी निजी जिंदगी के दे रहे हैं वास्तव में हर इंसान के जीवन में ऐसा ही होता है आप बहुत बधाई के पात्र हैं कि इतना जीवंत और वास्तविक उदाहरण प्रस्तुत किया है

@suruchi15

22 күн бұрын

Awesome videos always

It all comes down to having integrity. Parents and children both should have integrity then none of the problems will occur

@Harshtongya

Жыл бұрын

Lol.. it's like defining morality. There is no black and white

Adorable Sir you are very practical man..... your suggestions are very useful but people don't change they are selfish specially old generation....they are scared of situations Old generation never changed... practice makes man permanent .

Feel lucky to find this channel... Next level knowledge of the society

Looking g after the well being of old parents is a thankless job. Even the law does not allow any extra gratification to the Shravan kumar and his wife. That's the reason parents are taking shelter in old age homes.

@gauravsinghrajawat9939

5 ай бұрын

Old age homes less than 1% . Drama zyada hai.

I completely agree with you Sir... Have seen this exact same scenario in the case of my in-laws.

I don't see any problem in giving more to the child who takes care of parents because parents also need a child's care and support. Love and care are valuable but if parents want to give something in return for it without being forced or influenced there's nothing wrong

@sureshmaurya1193

9 ай бұрын

@@annsgal2025 If he is not nikamma then what he has good values , if not do equal distribution now , Values also matters

@sureshmaurya1193

9 ай бұрын

@@annsgal2025 He didn't share the scenario when the child is taking care of the parents because of good values and he is equally doing good but he is supportive and well cultured wife, however other brothers are there in the same old building but are not taking care of the parents , he is compromising with his freedom, privacy etc and have good nature thats why parents want to stay with him , mother has option to live in separate floor/room and everyone take care of her

You are absolutely right sir! but many father s don't understand this and do a lot of bungling in their old age.

Ek dam practical knowledge ,not only for middle class but for all .👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

Thanks Amit sir, for providing such valuable information.

Yes.U r absolutely right.Each word is right for family. My father did as you say.Mother did same.Younger brother nd his wife did same

So true.. Each and everything is to the point and practical..

your content is well researched and touches the core of many north Indian Households and reveals the truth which has been prevalent but no one openly talks about. Thanks for bringing light on such topics. Keep sharing your valuable* insights with us.

Sir, I have been watching your videos from last one week. I agree with all of your views🙏🏻 Your content is unique and awsome. It has instantly brought positive changes in me . Keep going 👍🏻😊

Yes Amit ji...such disputes do happen in many families and there are ' darkness' too.

You are just very clear in the matter, Great Great Great..

All your videos are too good. Very honest and brave video on propety disputes.

No one talk this clear crisp the facts of life like you do

You bring out in open what is happening in our families , I have not come across any such videos on You Tube … That’s why I llike your good work sir … I appreciate all your videos !! Thank You!!

So many hard facts in this video sir.....simply amazing...!

Katu satya hai ,great observations ,heads off to u

Smaller family ...good parwarish ........ property division is more clearer as division less hota hai ...less chance of dispute.... . Aaj kal purani property ka dispute ka bahut bada kaaran large number of family hee hai....most cases....

Yes correct. Excellent sir. Happened with me

Kahan se itna fair judgment le aato ho sir kamaal hain

You r absolutely right sir....my husband sister doing all wrong things to us only brother for their property ..also his parents are very partial

Outstanding videos...well said sir

Very honest & practical discussion..

Hats off to you for calling out things

Very upfront views on Ghar ghar ki kahani

Very good approach sir

I have a different opinion in this. Money can't replace everything. The couple staying with elderly parents adjust their life styles according to the whims and requirements of their elderly parents. There are many untold sacrifices from both sides and misunderstandings between couples who are staying with old parents. If according to the law property has to be distributed evenly then according to the law the nalaik son must have the right to leave his parents with the so called elite,efficient and moneyed sibling for few months and enjoy a stress free life with his family.Now a days personal nurses are earning a fortune only for having a companionship to the line senior citizens. But when a nalaik villager son does the same then why he should not get some extra ? I think a portion of the share should go to the daughter in law ( or son in law,if the daughter is keeping the parent ) of the son who is looking after the parent.

@mousumimishra9321

Жыл бұрын

To be honest even the son who stays with parents does not pay rent or emi.If he would have option then he may go out to pursue his career.He is not willingly opt to serve parent ..this is most of the cases happening

@anushuks

Жыл бұрын

I know of a relative in my village who has never gone away from village since 20 years because he has to be with his bed-ridden chacha at home. People sacrifice family holidays, family outings because there is a bed-ridden parent at home. Even the parent do not want to be left alone. The child living away is enjoying life without a care in the world, not even calling and asking the parent how they are doing. But they want barabar barabar. Barabar should be in everything, then? Yes, 75:25 ratio may be ok in such cases.

@anushuks

11 ай бұрын

@@rahulchandra2164 - Hopefully the man taking care of village property welcomes all his nephews and brothers with love every time they go to visit and doesn't sell the land.

@rahulchandra2164

11 ай бұрын

@@anushuks Yes my [eldest] grand father is died but his children taking care of everything in village. And we now don't go to village because of habit of living in Bombay. But my other relative go there yearly.

Bahut sundar Thank u again for the peace this video brings in my practical life❤ Thank u sir ❤❤❤

100% sahi baat bol rahe hai.. Sir ji..

Very good explanation sir

One absolute benefit of ur videos is Not ki ye families ki problems solve karega. More than that , It is teaching the present generation about ---- what r the real issues in a household . Specially after 50 s and 60 s. So the present ( 30,s 40s 50 s) vaali generation now know what issues r . Very clearly thru ur videos. And for sure. Whoever is watching these. Will not do the same with their own kids. When our kids grow ,problems will b different n these Problems of property , parents dominance etc. Will b already solved becuase of ur videos ( whosoever is watching these) A great service u r doing atleast to indians 👏

Sir u have put my emotions in words🙏

You are so so right.. my father inlow is a boneless man my mother in low tell her where to sit whom to talk she don't even allow him to talk my husband his son ..above all he transfer his all ancestors property to my mil...and my mil transfer that to her 3 daughters...my husband now suffering...

@msms3260

Жыл бұрын

If it is really ancestral property, your mil cannot do that without your husband's approval and signature.

Yes certainly

You are 100% right sir.

Very true nicely explained

i am unmarried in service worked day and night . now my brother and sister in law deflaming me everywhere so that i dont get married

U r absolutely right Sir. My mother- in -law and father- in- law r like that.

Sir ye bahut achi baat batayi h aapne 🙏

Agreed with you totally

Gajab insights into our society. Keep it up. Add subtitles. Your audience will expand

Mere ghr main he aisa hai main or mere husband dosri city main rehte the but hm logo ne sari jimedaria pori ko mere MIL bimar hoyi six month unka dhyan rakha bad main unki death ho gyi meri devrani ne kni job se chutti ni le jab saas bimar thi..uski beti ka bi maine dhyan rakha ...abi main apne bete ki study ke liye ghr pr as kr rehne lag gyi ...papa ka bi dhyan rakhti hu baki sab kaam bi krti hu ..rishtedaro ko bi dekhti bu ..ab devrani chahti hai k yeh ghr main vhi log rehge ..kyuki vo log shru se rehte aye hai ..job krti hai to vo sham ko 7vje atti hai aor main pori din ghr sambhalti hu ..ab papa un logo ko jada property dena chahtehai aor hme kaam ... reason hai k vo kam kmate hai ...main bahar jror rehti thi but maine sari jimmedari pori ki hai ..but ab hm es kamm property lene ke liye bi ready hai ...saas ko usne sambhala ni but saas ki property jror leni hai

Great video sir…!!!

Relateable each n every point

Yes I do agree

Absolutely right

You are superb!

Thanks nice very nicely explained.

Your words are so true

Most entertaining and wise channel.

I agreed with what you say but also who is providing care to parents day in and out is also compromising on many aspects of life e g going out on vacation or outings and care giver stress is also there hospital stays during hospitalisation monetary involvement may be there may not be there but day in and day out taking care itself is stressful daily monitoring of food acc to their choices med and their social obligations

@anitagupta8688

Жыл бұрын

Also taking care one is not doing any favours but when only one is doing it comes to one’s mind

Ur r reality Dr

Super correct 💯

I think exactly same way

You are very true 👍

Yes

Sir i salute u 🙏 v true 👍

Ur truly best

yes

SIr u discussed the problem but not the solutions..What is the solution for this and at which stage in life the decision should be taken.

Dark reality 👍🙏

Absolute truth 👌

This is a reality .

बिलकुल सही

Sir i love u for this

Super sir you are not best in the country but you are the best in the world..👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼

Happy Father's day

Good

Right

Exactly Jivan ku yahi sach hai he

Feel free

To avoid these issues in my peaceful life I opted for single child. This is one of the many reasons I opted for single child. Whatever i earn or get it will be for that child. I don't need the drama for my child.

@dhruvpandey8113

Жыл бұрын

Respectfully i want to tell you to not seek a confirmation bias for having a single child..dispute sabke beech nhi hain,chill.

@nbeu24

Жыл бұрын

And is that single child a girl or a boy? 😉

@drkk3199

Жыл бұрын

It's a girl so does it matter

@aarvind3901

Жыл бұрын

Me too , I have only one daughter

@mehatiwari5224

Жыл бұрын

And the girl is someday going to marry a boy who has such disputes and may have to suffer ...so there is no escape from the reality of the society we live in ..one way or the other It has to be resolved from the core.

Tell me solution please

Sir! You should bring the dark talk

So true

What happens when all brothers live in same house with parents? And one brother is not ready for partition/distribution due to Jeaolousy and comparioson for everything and just develop intution and percetption that other one is doing more good however that is not the case , when Jealousy and comparison takes in ones mind solution is difficult. It is not always nikamma is taking care of parents , it is about values of the Son and his wife otherwise he is ready to equal distribution today itself and let others also take care of parents he is not saying that son is very much only interested to take care of parents , All four brothers are living in the same building

सब बातें सच हैं ।

Original video

u will reach 1 million in months

I live in Mumbai but my mother's parents were in Pune, they passed away without will, my mom has 2 sisters and 2 brothers. Brothers assume all the property belongs to them both. It's agricultural land , they have sold some part of it already, they just call my mom n her sisters for their signatures cuz property is still not distributed among them. I told my mom that she should ask for her share, she knows I'm right but since so many years women were not given the part of the property she hesitates to talk about it with her brothers, she thinks it'll cause many problems in the relationship. How can I get her part of the property?

@krishna_raj9331

Жыл бұрын

Don't try to get their property. Get your father side property only. Mother side property belongs to your mother's brothers only.

@NA-vt6mz

5 ай бұрын

Hire property lawyer !!!!

Yes.

Reality है.... हम भुक्त भोगी है

Once the common civil code is enacted this property issue will be settled once and for all

Agree

It is like ki me apni khani sun rha hu

Not getting bad

Very True I have faced same situation with me

@Inspector1987

Жыл бұрын

What was the final outcome as i am also at the begining of this.

@anilbakshi4505

Жыл бұрын

@@Inspector1987 I am the elder Son having 1 younger brother, 9 years younger to me &2 sisters born & bought up in a lower middle class family but my father gave us good education within his means, although studied in Govt Schools but with dedication & with the grace of Almighty did my Engineering & had to leave my home town for Job & benefits of the Family as a whole including Brother, Sisters & Parents but in the process did not get even a single penny from my Parents including my parental house which was built up mostly out of my hard earned money My father gave every thing to my younger brother which I came to know only after his death

@dahliajaji9547

Жыл бұрын

@@anilbakshi4505 hope you are financially well off. Consider you could build a house for your family members especially parents who could live comfortably during their old age. Let your sibling live there peacefully. God will give you n your family peaceful life

@anilbakshi6681

Жыл бұрын

Dhalia ji Yes with the Grace of God I was able to build up my own house & living comfortable life with my wife , Son & Daughter in-law Thanks God

Please put some light when sister (is living with married) brother and is unmarried.both are earning well.

Sir how can I talk to u? Some issues in my family

Bilkul r8

Happened same with me. My paternal uncle cheated me

Sir if a parents having 3 daughters no son how to devide the small property parents both are no more all are fighting .

@anjal3753

Жыл бұрын

3 daughters, just divide equally