How To Practice Self Love

Wondering how to practice self love? Self love is more than just changing your hair, getting a new wardrobe, or attempting to redefine yourself. Self love is obtaining an appreciation for yourself that stems from the physical, emotional, and spiritual support you provide yourself. It's not a fixed state, but it grows through actions that lead to maturity over time. Self care encompasses four different parts- self awareness, self worth, self esteem, and self care. Establishing self love can be a long journey, so here are a few tips on how to love yourself and practice self love.
Previously, we also made a video on things you need to know about self love: • 8 Things You Need to K...
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  • @Psych2go
    @Psych2go3 жыл бұрын

    PsiFam! We posted a community poll yesterday asking which video topic you'd like to see next. Self Care seems to be the top pick from the poll. Here is it!We also made a video on Signs You're Mentally Breaking Down kzread.info/dash/bejne/kX-mo6WOYdLOqJM.html. Hopefully you'll pick up some self care tricks from this video!

  • @kiwii1027

    @kiwii1027

    3 жыл бұрын

    :)

  • @ilikeketchup5497

    @ilikeketchup5497

    3 жыл бұрын

    Wuv you

  • @umii._.z00mii

    @umii._.z00mii

    3 жыл бұрын

    :0 yasss a self love video :D

  • @Bananamilk1300

    @Bananamilk1300

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yay

  • @calcifiedthembones328

    @calcifiedthembones328

    3 жыл бұрын

    Awww yeah bby!

  • @TheMerc1101
    @TheMerc11013 жыл бұрын

    Self love is more important than finding a partner. The true partner is always with you from beginning. Which is yourself

  • @dsyrdragon3309

    @dsyrdragon3309

    3 жыл бұрын

    Damn I’m a pretty shitty partner then

  • @raphaelalavi9385

    @raphaelalavi9385

    3 жыл бұрын

    I guess I’m in a forced relationship with someone I hate for the rest of my life then

  • @TheMerc1101

    @TheMerc1101

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@raphaelalavi9385 I was about to be in a force relationship couple years ago, but end of the day . I just walk away without saying anything. I didn’t regret doing that of course. I just don’t want to be in a relationship with anyone. For now

  • @SorenFinch

    @SorenFinch

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@TheMerc1101 You sounded like you dodged a bullet, good for you friend :] Hope you’re doing well!

  • @TheMerc1101

    @TheMerc1101

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@SorenFinch yeah I did. Couple of times. I didn’t regret any of it. I’m just best off being by myself. For now or course, and I’m doing good

  • @diane7371
    @diane73713 жыл бұрын

    Self love isnt about fixing yourself. Its about falling in love with the parts of yourself youve been trying to fix.

  • @diamond_0613

    @diamond_0613

    3 жыл бұрын

  • @anayansi_iris

    @anayansi_iris

    3 жыл бұрын

    Oh that's lovely ❤️

  • @maroulaki8113

    @maroulaki8113

    3 жыл бұрын

    thanks sis

  • @loverlin7582

    @loverlin7582

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yasss

  • @nokwandajobe1021

    @nokwandajobe1021

    3 жыл бұрын

    😏

  • @Nakyahremixit
    @Nakyahremixit2 жыл бұрын

    My motto in life: “BE A GOOD PARENT TO YOURSELF” which to me means doing things that a awesome parent would do but for yourself--- I love this❤️

  • @biancagador

    @biancagador

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much! I needed to hear this one

  • @natureisawesome1

    @natureisawesome1

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much ❤️

  • @trevorcaleb7604

    @trevorcaleb7604

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing

  • @mariehaverty8209

    @mariehaverty8209

    2 жыл бұрын

    This is it, give ourselves all the care/attention we give to others is really all we need to do. 👍❤️

  • @JB-kp7pw

    @JB-kp7pw

    Жыл бұрын

    This is awesome. I needed this. Thank you.

  • @adritabasu8790
    @adritabasu87903 жыл бұрын

    "Dear person whoever reads this, Hey, you, yes, I'm talking right to you. I hope you will see yourself with the eyes I see you one day. Because I can tell you have some awesome music taste :) you're such a beautiful human being and worth and enough! I hope you know that you do only need yourself to be happy!! I know society build up the standard that whenever you're alone, you're not living a happy life. But in fact that is not true, if you start to realize that you actually deserve all the good things happening to you,you will treat yourself a lot nicer!! I hope you let yourself rest. Don't beat yourself up over past mistakes,over regret and over everything your mind wants to destroy you. I wish I could remove all those demons inside of your head because you deserve to feel happy! If you ever feel lonely,then watch the sky, because you know, someone,at the same time is watching the sky too.. maybe feeling the same way! I'm glad you exist and I hope you won't ever remove your own spot in this world..maybe you don't feel like you belong here but, Angel..then build your own home here. I don't want you to leave this world unhappy. I want you to live every little second, I want you to feel alive, don't want you to see yourself just existing, you deserve it!! Whatever happened, it's not your fault, the demos in your head recognize that you have a beautiful heart, they want to take it because they have never seen such beautiful heart as yours..so why let them win over you!? You're not selfish for isolating yourself,but you deserve to talk to someone. If you're reading this, then please never forget to breathe and smile!! Don't live up to other standards! It's your story..not theirs!! Live for those who couldn't..smile for those who forgot what a genuine smile is...love like there's no other..hug like it's your last one!! I Love You and sending you hugs!You're so strong, you're still here and I'm proud of you!! YOU ARE NOT USELESS. READ THAT AGAIN! YOU ARE WORTH IT. READ THAT AGAIN!! YOU ARE LOVED. READ THAT AGAIN. I AM GLAD YOU EXIST. READ THAT AGAIN!!! YOU ARE NOT A PROBLEM. YOU ARE HUMAN AND YOUR FEELINGS ARE VALID. READ THAT AGAIN. YOU ARE NOT BEING DRAMATIC!! You're not a burden to anyone.. don't be afraid to talk, use your voice!! You're beautiful inside out. Your body is beautiful the way it is!! Please don't starve yourself. Please eat..I know it's hard but you deserve food. You deserve to eat and drink. I LOVE YOU SO MUCH. READ THAT AGAIN.I WISH I COULD HUG YOU RIGHT NOW..SO A VIRTUAL HUG WILL DO.! It hurts me to see you're in pain :( You deserve so much luv. Don't let your emotions control you. Don't let them get the best of you. I love u I love u l love u I love u I love u please don't let go I'm sorry that no one is hearing you, I'm sorry no one is noticing that you have lost yourself.I wish I could take your pain away..it hurts me to see the pain on your eyes. I love you through my words and I mean it. I just want you to stay.. hold on a little longer okay! Please? For me?? I hope you have an awesome day/morning/ evening/night If it's night for you..go to sleep. I know it's hard to fall asleep right now but you deserve a good sleep. If you have nightmares, please don't let them fight you. If it's day for you, don't start it by such sad music. I know it's impossible to have a good day with such mindset but take baby steps..start by drinking two cups of water in the morning and so on... You will start building little healthy habits. If it's evening for you, you're probably overwhelmed and stressed. I want you to know it's okay to feel the way you feel. You don't need to be scared. Of course you're overwhelmed or stressed, I mean who wouldn't!? But it's impossible to know that when you feel that way,you should do a little self care..such as taking a bath for example? You deserve to feel at aese and relaxed. And if you're somewhere in between, I hope you know that you're stronger than you think... I know that you will make it :) Now, wipe those tears away and smile for me. you really don't know how much a smile can brighten someone's day, do you? I hope one day yours will become a genuine one where you don't need to fake it anymore. Because I can't say this enough. You deserve a good smile and to feel alive. You're worth more than every fooking cent in this world. Remember, crying is not weakness. Let it out as much as you can but don't let the emotion control you by giving up. It's okay, you're here, you're safe, you can let it out. Did anyone asked you how are you feeling today? If not,how are you really?? I don't think you're doing good, but you will feel good at one point. Don't give yourself up. I'm sorry you feel misunderstood. But anyone who gets to be with you, doesn't know how fooking lucky he/she/they is :)Enough with beating up yourself for today, okayy? -- The stranger that cares about you more than anything!! I hope this is enough for you to stay strong today.. Tomorrow will be a new day,a new start....let go now! I hope you can stay. This is your sign to stay and treat yourself with LOVE, you deserve it. And in case no one told you today, again...I'm so proud of you. I hope you will remember my words! :) Untill tomorrow my Friend! :)" all credits to another commenter ... on another video ;)

  • @Lisa-fn8cv

    @Lisa-fn8cv

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, I really needed this. 🥺

  • @joegifford2599

    @joegifford2599

    3 жыл бұрын

    That is so thoughtful of you 🐨

  • @allisonwhite976

    @allisonwhite976

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you... beautiful and uplifting...u made me smile really big....thx #muchlove

  • @felixculpa9303

    @felixculpa9303

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you stranger on the internet for telling me what no one ever has.

  • @Sulam2490

    @Sulam2490

    3 жыл бұрын

    This was beautiful, thank you xoxo 🙂

  • @sav9212
    @sav92123 жыл бұрын

    1. Forgive yourself 2. Be mindful 3. Act on what you need 4. Set boundaries 5. Protect yourself 6. Live intentionally 7. Show up for yourself 8. Practice self care Thanks Psych2Go for all these self love practices. Self love is so so important, I cannot stress this enough

  • @minsuga6426

    @minsuga6426

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for your lovely summary x -Monica

  • @Mtz2604

    @Mtz2604

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thaaaank you 🤗

  • @crusherbeatbox3146

    @crusherbeatbox3146

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for taking your Time writing this 😊

  • @hwanyiee

    @hwanyiee

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank You! 💖🍃

  • @WisdomWealth77
    @WisdomWealth773 жыл бұрын

    When your opinion of yourself goes up then you’ll stop trying to get so much validation and attention from other people. 💞

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    3 жыл бұрын

    I think this is the best comment out there. Well said x -Monica

  • @CyndyTangerineyyyy

    @CyndyTangerineyyyy

    3 жыл бұрын

    Love this. Very well said!!

  • @Jzombi301

    @Jzombi301

    2 жыл бұрын

    what if it goes up too much and you become a narcissistic, egotistical, self-centered piece of human garbage?

  • @pedroba76

    @pedroba76

    2 ай бұрын

    agreed. I noticed it.

  • @niranjan.jadhav
    @niranjan.jadhav3 жыл бұрын

    Self care is when you sitting on a mountain and closing yours eyes and just enjoying the weather so relaxing and helpfull to heal yourself from outer world

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    3 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely!

  • @kaeyashenanigans2352
    @kaeyashenanigans23523 жыл бұрын

    if your child is smiling at their phone, it’s because they’re watching Psych2go

  • @liam_er

    @liam_er

    3 жыл бұрын

    that’s me rn 👺

  • @cherrycrumbles7014

    @cherrycrumbles7014

    3 жыл бұрын

    Very true my friend XD

  • @dsyrdragon3309

    @dsyrdragon3309

    3 жыл бұрын

    What’s a smile

  • @navi9764

    @navi9764

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@dsyrdragon3309 it's a curve that sets everything straight

  • @user-fe3un3cf1q

    @user-fe3un3cf1q

    3 жыл бұрын

    same thing with crying

  • @jackalart
    @jackalart3 жыл бұрын

    0:43 forgive yourself (too much self-deprecation can be harmful to your health) 1:13 be mindful (keeping a journal, meditating, etc.) 1:41 act on what you need (knowing what gives you energy/happiness) 2:14 set boundaries (ref. Maslow's hierarchy of needs) 2:44 protect yourself (bringing supportive people into your life) 3:08 live intentionally (make choices towards a goal) 3:39 show up for yourself (acknowledge the effort you've already given is important) 4:08 practice self-care (exercise, eating healthy, etc.) i am sped

  • @HaloJumper7

    @HaloJumper7

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lmao, awesome. Thanks!

  • @sandeeppathak5932

    @sandeeppathak5932

    3 жыл бұрын

    U r awesome.

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the summary ;) -Monica

  • @arkeet1073

    @arkeet1073

    3 жыл бұрын

    I've already gone too far. I can't do anything now 😔

  • @samuraiboi2735

    @samuraiboi2735

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@arkeet1073 well yo speak to a therapist if your having problems😒

  • @tani0510
    @tani05103 жыл бұрын

    One thing that always makes me doubt myself is when i dont get results as high as i expected , self expectations are another cause why my self confidence keeps getting lower. I want to just appreciate myself for the efforts i put in even though the result isnt that satisfying:(

  • @tani0510

    @tani0510

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Gotta change my name Great ! You got this

  • @HeartlessUsagi

    @HeartlessUsagi

    3 жыл бұрын

    Remember this: you do what you can and that’s better than not doing any effort at all..!! :)

  • @user-qq2ri4ly1y
    @user-qq2ri4ly1y8 ай бұрын

    I've been depressed and feeling low since last 5 months. My boyfriend who proposed me marriage cheated on me and I also lost my job. I'm surviving each day with a little bit of hope. Thanks for this video and the comments, they really helped me feel hopeful :)

  • @TheGoodNurse95

    @TheGoodNurse95

    6 ай бұрын

    Ow sorry , it is enevitable part of life ! but how are you now

  • @jackbrattan1040

    @jackbrattan1040

    6 ай бұрын

    You will get through this!

  • @PallaviSharma-ug9wp

    @PallaviSharma-ug9wp

    5 ай бұрын

    I know you are brave and you are gonna do better for yourself Sending a lots of love to you Keep working hard and give yourself the best results❤ Parents and God have proud on you❤

  • @Verifiedmuslima

    @Verifiedmuslima

    4 ай бұрын

    Go right through it it’s meant to be.

  • @Alexz5040

    @Alexz5040

    4 ай бұрын

    I hope things are going well for you ❤

  • @laura.bt83
    @laura.bt832 жыл бұрын

    Hello there! 👋🏻 Just wanted to add something for those who struggle with self-deprecation: - Before you judge and condemn yourself for whatever reason you have, examine if the negative thoughts and beliefs you hold about yourself are really your own or are imposed on you by others (family, societal expactations, etc..) That is what helped me come out of self-loathing and like I don’t deserve happines. That’s what really shifted it for me. I know I deserve to be happy now, and know I am allowed to put myself (self-care) first. I’m worth my own love. ❤️

  • @mariehaverty8209

    @mariehaverty8209

    2 жыл бұрын

    👍❤️👏

  • @Kefiandsolani

    @Kefiandsolani

    2 жыл бұрын

    And gods love❤

  • @laxxayy
    @laxxayy3 жыл бұрын

    I hug myself to sleep after having a hard day I'm that lonely

  • @tejavigneshs6893

    @tejavigneshs6893

    3 жыл бұрын

    Sending u virtual hugs 🤗 Same here too🥺

  • @laxxayy

    @laxxayy

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@tejavigneshs6893 ❤️

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    3 жыл бұрын

    Pishug

  • @laxxayy

    @laxxayy

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Psych2go ❤️

  • @Rozehunnie

    @Rozehunnie

    3 жыл бұрын

    I hug an extra pillow... It helps.

  • @Farigiraf12
    @Farigiraf122 жыл бұрын

    Tearing at the part when she says “forgive yourself”. It really helps open your eyes to so much about yourself

  • @forgesoulfire1320

    @forgesoulfire1320

    7 ай бұрын

    No joke it feels like I forgive myself, then another thing goes minutely sideways asmr bang somehow brain makes it my own fault for the faltering, like it needs it, you know...

  • @valeriequinn9982

    @valeriequinn9982

    Ай бұрын

    I just started with the ho’oponopono meditation a few days ago and it’s oddly helpful. It’s basically “I’m sorry, please forgive me, I love you, thank you” and you’d be surprised at what comes up to be worked out or forgiven. It’s very simple & powerful. I hope you try it 💗

  • @hippyelise1

    @hippyelise1

    Ай бұрын

    Forgiving myself is the hardest thing I am trying to do.❤

  • @richasaxena6636
    @richasaxena66363 жыл бұрын

    This is so important for a trauma survivor like me.... I have forgotten to live and love myself. I wish I could come out of this situation and emerge as a strong and healthy person like I was before.

  • @user-qi1iz5di2e

    @user-qi1iz5di2e

    Жыл бұрын

    Me too

  • @JennyG.COW5
    @JennyG.COW5 Жыл бұрын

    I want to add that under #4: "Set Boundaries", there can be a difference between getting out of your comfort zone and listening to your inner self (emotional, Spiritual, or mental) or even physical body. For instance, sometimes when I wake up either from a nap or for the day, I might not feel like doing anything or going anywhere. However, once I attend an activity, go to Church, visit with Family, or whatever, I often feel better for going rather than staying surrounded by my four walls at home. I wasn't always like this, but I recently I've noticed this about myself. I don't know if its related to a possible addition towards electronics or if it's in relation to something emotional and psychological that I haven't yet discovered. In either case, I am glad for the small victories of getting over my insecurities and selfish desires and allowing myself to get lost in the moment. And yes, sometimes I Have turned down activities whenever I felt Super Tired or when I really just didn't want to go. But when I have felt like I can, and I make the efforts to do so, I feel so much better connecting with others. 😊

  • @AKKritter
    @AKKritter3 жыл бұрын

    As an empath I can absolutely agree with all of these, self care is important and can turn a person's life around.

  • @ElizabethAVanCleve

    @ElizabethAVanCleve

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yep! Another empath here. Self love was my salvation!

  • @brendendavis8596

    @brendendavis8596

    8 ай бұрын

    Captain oviouuuuuuerrr

  • @KK-ij8vy
    @KK-ij8vy3 жыл бұрын

    let's be honest, we all voted this topic for a reason -also, thank you for your tips! this video is really informative :3

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    3 жыл бұрын

    For sure! :D Next running topic is on personality. So, I can't wait for everyone to react to that video :D - Cindy

  • @genocide5730

    @genocide5730

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes sir

  • @yunielelis

    @yunielelis

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Psych2go Yaaaay

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    3 жыл бұрын

    What did you think of this video? -Monica

  • @dsyrdragon3309

    @dsyrdragon3309

    3 жыл бұрын

    I liked it , but is there a video on how to stop cutting yourself

  • @CherylMuir
    @CherylMuir3 жыл бұрын

    If you are reading this: You are valued, loved, and so worthy 💗

  • @gracehazel3697

    @gracehazel3697

    6 ай бұрын

    So are you! ☀️❤️

  • @tilly5103
    @tilly5103 Жыл бұрын

    i actually cried during this Video because i realized how awfull i feel about myself right now. Thank you so much for letting me realize that something has to change!

  • @Todo_akaicyhot
    @Todo_akaicyhot3 жыл бұрын

    If you're feeling down, or when you just feel lonely and tired... One of the best ways to relax and calm down is to listen to some good music... Sometimes I feel insecure, but I always recover myself by listening to meaningful songs that motivates you and makes you feel good. Also a big thank you for making this video and helping a lot of people. You guys motivates me to help people. Thank you 💕

  • @rayahflorano4359

    @rayahflorano4359

    2 жыл бұрын

    Can u suggest some musics pls

  • @Todo_akaicyhot

    @Todo_akaicyhot

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@rayahflorano4359 well it mostly depends on what kind of music you like. If you like to listen to the lyrics more than the music, search sm songs like Million Reasons by lady gaga, photograph by Ed Sheeran, I won't give up by Jason Mraz etc. If you like to listen to music, just listen to sm Lofi to relax

  • @mariehaverty8209

    @mariehaverty8209

    2 жыл бұрын

    👍❤️👏

  • @eud64_
    @eud64_2 жыл бұрын

    Currently I'm going through a long time relationship break up and some deep old wounds are starting to show up. It's important to learn how to love yourself first so you can be ready to love someone else in the future. It may be painful to accept it, or even harder to see it in the first place but in the end, it's what's gonna be the best for you.

  • @lilianne959
    @lilianne9593 жыл бұрын

    What I found that really helped me to self love is to treat myself just as I would treat my loved ones. I wouldn't deprecate them, or ask them for more than that they are able to. I would try to make them feel better if they are down.

  • @ElizabethAVanCleve

    @ElizabethAVanCleve

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thats good wisdom! Thanks for sharing.

  • @Martezpan
    @Martezpan3 жыл бұрын

    at this point I expect there to be at least one Dream SMP/Popular KZreadr reference when Naphia is the animator

  • @Jiyu_Starfam

    @Jiyu_Starfam

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lol

  • @SmoLollipop

    @SmoLollipop

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes xD

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    3 жыл бұрын

    lolol we love naphia! and also dream! -Monica

  • @TumbleBell

    @TumbleBell

    3 жыл бұрын

    YESS!!! I found a L’Manburg flag

  • @Jiyu_Starfam

    @Jiyu_Starfam

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@TumbleBell me rewatching to find that and I found it:

  • @ek7453
    @ek74533 жыл бұрын

    *Only from a place of self-love can you offer correction to yourself and to others.* This quote is from a wonderful book: Steps to Knowledge - The Book of Inner Knowing, by *Marshall Vian Summers*

  • @alwalw9237

    @alwalw9237

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for quoting this here. Steps to Knowledge has changed my life. I hope others will examine it and see if it is what they have been searching for in life. It has been an absolute life saver for me and I want that so much for others who are hurting in this world.

  • @fastrunner3799

    @fastrunner3799

    3 жыл бұрын

    I agree, steps to Knowledge is certainly a life changing book.

  • @frutticam
    @frutticam Жыл бұрын

    It’s a gift from yourself to embrace each imperfection 💛

  • @juliangarcia8037
    @juliangarcia80378 ай бұрын

    Me and my gf recently broke up after 4 years. So much went on and after everything I’ve been feeling lost. I thought I found myself after being single for a long time, before me and her got together but I was wrong. when we broke up I realized all the stuff about me that I thought I knew was wrong and I just realized I never really loved myself or even told myself if I’m okay, I just kept pushing no matter what happened. I need to take a step back and see myself all overs again. Here’s to a new start and journey

  • @saishrutipanda2353
    @saishrutipanda23533 жыл бұрын

    Is it me who always knew that self love was important but never really did it?! I didn't know I was so tough on myself until just now. Love this channel, thank you so much

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing your experience. It's easy for one to be hard on ourselves and sometime we forget to love ourself. I'm happy to hear we can help! - Cindy

  • @wojowniczagosza236
    @wojowniczagosza2363 жыл бұрын

    No one Me-looking for my favorite streamers Easter eggs* [edit] 0:14 sykkuno scarf 1:28 ender boi 1:45 cute Ranboo plushie! 2:00 technoblade plushie and l'menburg flag as carpet 2:49 little l'menburg flag 3:15 Tubbo bee plushie 4:12 Tommy bandana

  • @SmoLollipop

    @SmoLollipop

    3 жыл бұрын

    Both the topic and the drawings are wholesome. I can't sleep xD

  • @Cat-vp8ow

    @Cat-vp8ow

    3 жыл бұрын

    YES BRUH I AM SCREAMING

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    3 жыл бұрын

    I love that, an observant person ;) -Monica

  • @meg-tan

    @meg-tan

    3 жыл бұрын

    1:14 i think the lil guy is wearing a ranboo mask

  • @subhobrotonath5160

    @subhobrotonath5160

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah what!.....

  • @brighterperspectives7057
    @brighterperspectives70573 жыл бұрын

    Definitely agree! Self-love is not just those me-times but also the difficult choices and decisions we make for ourselves.

  • @RealNoelleofc
    @RealNoelleofc7 ай бұрын

    I don't need anybody to love me if I love myself

  • @yoongisass7859
    @yoongisass78593 жыл бұрын

    Little by little, I’m becoming my favourite person :)

  • @Jiyu_Starfam

    @Jiyu_Starfam

    3 жыл бұрын

    😁👑💖

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    3 жыл бұрын

    There you go! You should be treat yourself as a queen/king :) - Cindy

  • @ElizabethAVanCleve

    @ElizabethAVanCleve

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yay! You're on your way to an AWESOME life journey.

  • @linakmelbarde5569
    @linakmelbarde55693 жыл бұрын

    Was there a little Ranboo plush in one of the pictures? And Techno and a L'manberg flag? Or am i crazy?

  • @thecamobaron

    @thecamobaron

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes those were MCYT stuff and No your not Crazy- 1:17 Ranboo Mask? 2:07 L'manberg Flag + Techno

  • @dsyrdragon3309

    @dsyrdragon3309

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes

  • @RF-jl3qb

    @RF-jl3qb

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes I spotted them to. :) Really nice. XD

  • @lumauve7807

    @lumauve7807

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ah yes let's go mcyt fans, munching on those little Easter eggs

  • @kamrynbell8107

    @kamrynbell8107

    3 жыл бұрын

    3:18 bee plushhhh

  • @Maaaay2
    @Maaaay22 жыл бұрын

    I'm so greatful for your messages in this video! I just looked through my inner work progress, trying to find new or much more deeper ways to love myself and bring back my energy onto me. By hearing this kind of input I started to glow up more and loving myself more. I'm also glad to have a caring family and partner who accepts me for who I am and encourage me to reach my goals. I'm just realizing that I'm on the right path now. Always remember, uncondition love comes from within you.

  • @mmoderva
    @mmoderva3 жыл бұрын

    I'm a person that hates themselves and...I cried after watching this video cuz I didn't knew what to do to like myself and feel better.... Thank you so much for making this video! From now on i'll practice what you said and try to love myself more. Thank you! 💖

  • @AmouAnyuon

    @AmouAnyuon

    9 ай бұрын

    Awe that makes me sad. I hope your doing better now💜

  • @sisyphus.nights
    @sisyphus.nights3 жыл бұрын

    I'm bored so Kim Namjoon of BTS : It's hard to admit but we can't solve every kinds of problems. Sometimes it just feels to much to bear myself. But when things are too tough I think of the faces who I love, and who love me like you, shit truly happens and it might not change but it's okay to fail and tumble. I hope we could stay strong and fly together, whatever what's underneath the ground.

  • @youngforever570

    @youngforever570

    3 жыл бұрын

    :)

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    3 жыл бұрын

    I stan BTS

  • @r.i.n.n.i.e

    @r.i.n.n.i.e

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Psych2go omg yaay, my favorite channel stans my favorite artists 💜💜💜

  • @youngforever570

    @youngforever570

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Psych2go good to know !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @sandra.v437

    @sandra.v437

    3 жыл бұрын

    💜💜💜💜💜💜

  • @manognax
    @manognax3 жыл бұрын

    You probably wont see this comment. And that's ok. I just want you to know that you have helped me get through a lot. I appreciate how much effort you put in your videos. And that made me interested in Psychology too!! I love your calming videos, thank you.

  • @celliaputri6658
    @celliaputri66583 жыл бұрын

    I'm so glad, i've started to be more care about myself and i feel more peace and got my enough happiness. It took a long journey to realized it, man ngl having a relationship goals is amazing. But enjoying exploring yourself more could got unexpectable experiences and it was all worth it. For those who still struggle to love them self don't be afraid to start to forgive yourself, you're a human being after all

  • @ivanbao2083
    @ivanbao20832 жыл бұрын

    I have found exercising particularly helpful when I am overwhelmed by all sorts of negativity (loneliness, self-doubt, fear, uncertainty, etc). And of all exercises, I feel martial arts are the most effective at combating them. There was a night I feel completely overwhelmed, drowning in loneliness in my little residence room. Out of a random thought, I clicked a video of beginner Muay Thai coaching and began to follow the actions of the coaches in the video. It was surprisingly effective at kicking those negative thoughts out of my mind. Every punch I throw feels like smashing into the face of those negativities, and by the end of that 30 min video, it literally feels like I am the last man standing with all those negativity as enemies lying around me, dead.

  • @mmarimarimari
    @mmarimarimari3 жыл бұрын

    This is giving me deja vu, something about voting for this topic in a poll? Psych2Go is such a good channel, informative and clear but, most importantly, listens to their fans.

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    3 жыл бұрын

    We made a community poll yesterday. Majority voted for this video to release next. So, I did :). Thank you for your kind words. We really hope our video will make a positive impact on your life. - Cindy

  • @melon7514

    @melon7514

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lol yea I voted on the pole, then about five minutes later I saw the notification

  • @Fangirl21

    @Fangirl21

    3 жыл бұрын

    :D

  • @GoingSwimmingly
    @GoingSwimmingly3 жыл бұрын

    I honestly like to watch this channel in general when I’m less than great, and it often helps But the references sprinkled in here and there just actually make me so happy, they’re not all that noticeable but still are fun,, good job to the animator’s attention to detail!

  • @Missa219
    @Missa2192 жыл бұрын

    I don't have words to thank you to helped me to understand my depression and coming out of it and teaching me how to forgive myself and self-love. Thank you so much you're doing a really great job

  • @cmbzmail
    @cmbzmail7 ай бұрын

    5 minutes to happiness all these I practice this is great. You reminded me to take it easy on myself, give myself credit for what I have done, set daily positive intentions. 5 minute pep talk full of easy self actions done daily will free me from self harm and stuckness to feeling loved and carefree. Thx 👍👍👍

  • @imposter_chan2636
    @imposter_chan26363 жыл бұрын

    i just want you all to realize how amazing you are. you get up every single day, and live. it’s amazing, you’re amazing. and just think about it, human beings are so adorable. they worry about what others think, when others are just worrying about themselves and what you think. everyday they try to live up to something called “standards” and they don’t realize that in the end we all will either be dust or bones. don’t let others get you down, just live! because you’ll only live once, and it’s just a waste to think about stuff like that! :)

  • @GoldenMushroom64

    @GoldenMushroom64

    3 жыл бұрын

    You are very kind thank you

  • @imposter_chan2636

    @imposter_chan2636

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@GoldenMushroom64 Nono, thank you! i don’t really get called kind a lot so it’s nice to get called that every once in a while!

  • @HikiOmo
    @HikiOmo2 жыл бұрын

    It's been 18 years and I've never loved myself even since my childhood so learning this is going to be difficult

  • @kronikzblehtcgs3303
    @kronikzblehtcgs33032 жыл бұрын

    This was short and simple , none of those long boring videos, I love this , thank you for sharing.

  • @theolivianicolestories
    @theolivianicolestories3 жыл бұрын

    To the person reading this: You are who you are. You are a gorgeous and beautiful creation. You are a masterpiece. You are who you are. You are strong and courageous. You can absolutely do it. You are powerful. Remind yourself that you are who you are. Move forward with your determination, and conviction. You can absolutely do it. Have a great day ahead, Remember you are who you are. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @ifrahjama2215

    @ifrahjama2215

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you 💜💜💜💜😊

  • @ifrahjama2215

    @ifrahjama2215

    2 жыл бұрын

    You too

  • @lenkadubecka6018
    @lenkadubecka60185 ай бұрын

    I’ve been in a very dark place for the last few months, but want to get better, and this video is a great starting point. I sometimes get lost in all the tips from different people, on how to practice self-love, but this video was extremely helpful and really got to me. Thanks for making these videos!!

  • @parkerwaldo3204
    @parkerwaldo32043 жыл бұрын

    After recent events that happened in my life, I have slowly started to do things that are helping me feel better about myself. This video not only reinforced the decisions I have made, but also shared new ones that I think I can start doing. Maybe my life is worth something.

  • @hendrikmario5208

    @hendrikmario5208

    3 жыл бұрын

    I can introduce you to this great powerful man who help me to bring my ex back you

  • @hendrikmario5208

    @hendrikmario5208

    3 жыл бұрын

    You can text him now on WhatsApp

  • @hendrikmario5208

    @hendrikmario5208

    3 жыл бұрын

    +2349058821669

  • @foufavibe

    @foufavibe

    Жыл бұрын

    Your life is always worth it and you are always worthy 😊

  • @francheska2113
    @francheska21132 жыл бұрын

    loving yourself seems much easier than finding a partner because you don't have to wait. the person who loves you is right there

  • @artgenics9957
    @artgenics99573 жыл бұрын

    I think self care is one of the easiest and the best ways to self love, doing something for yourself just gives you a rewarding feeling

  • @reallifepsych3309
    @reallifepsych33093 жыл бұрын

    If you’re so early that you’re reading this comment, congrats!

  • @fireice3040

    @fireice3040

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yay

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hey, nice seeing you around :) -Monica

  • @reallifepsych3309

    @reallifepsych3309

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Psych2go Hi Monica :) I hope one day we can work together

  • @mbcommandnerd

    @mbcommandnerd

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks!

  • @gremlinwc8996

    @gremlinwc8996

    3 жыл бұрын

    A week late but yo

  • @mental-hope1718
    @mental-hope17182 жыл бұрын

    Forgiveness is an act of love! Yes it might be hard at first but learning to forgive yourself is the first step to reaching full happiness! Thank you so much for this amazing video🙏🏽 Remember to take care of you regardless! You should be your top priority 💞

  • @charlottew.8460

    @charlottew.8460

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much! This is something I'm struggling with at the moment. It is getting better though. I will get to the place I want to be an someday!

  • @mariehaverty8209

    @mariehaverty8209

    Жыл бұрын

    Happiness is power👏🦋

  • @adenikeowolabi7162
    @adenikeowolabi71622 жыл бұрын

    I hardly comment on video's but this is literally the most beautiful words I have read or seen, you such a big blessing, giving people you don't know a beautiful words to make them realize their self worth, this right here is gold, wherever you are may you never know bitterness or sadness and may you always be a blessing to the world, much love

  • @heroic9887
    @heroic9887 Жыл бұрын

    I’ve noticed a pattern in the video where it tells you NOT to overwork yourself and give yourself some time to yourself. But one of my main problems is that *I don’t know when a break should really happen and for how long* .Trying to forgive myself is a pain too.. I’m gonna be here for a while Heh..

  • @Sunflowerboss

    @Sunflowerboss

    Жыл бұрын

    Hey. I struggle with this too. When I finally get into the work flow after days of procrastination, I’m afraid to take a break because those breaks last for days too 😅 Here’s something that helped me. I Set alarms for an hour and for that hour I focus only on the task at hand (you can also do 30-45 mins whatever you are comfortable with) and after that hour I take a break for 15 min. I do this throughout the day and for some reason it helps a lot. It lets me work as well as take a break in peace. Hope it helps!

  • @aidanabila143
    @aidanabila1433 жыл бұрын

    I am practicing self love but it comes and goes since I have mental breakdowns couple years ago. But I feel a lot better after doing this. This video reassuring me that I am on the right track for self love. Thank you so much 😊

  • @null9020
    @null90203 жыл бұрын

    who ever animates these things, i literally love you so much the dsmp references are just amazing

  • @khanhhanguyen7310
    @khanhhanguyen73102 жыл бұрын

    I know that I have not yet fully loved myself, but according to this video I think I have been realizing and doing it for a while, and I felt good. What's sad is that I let someone came in my life and made me doubt it. So It is really important to not hurry yourself into a relationship. Please try to love yourself as much as you can until no one could make you think you deserve less.

  • @ssunbathe
    @ssunbathe2 жыл бұрын

    Today, I'm going to make a difference in the way I treat myself. I feel like I care more for others than I do myself. Thank you for posting this video!

  • @jesschio9350
    @jesschio93503 жыл бұрын

    You made this just in time, I wasn't feeling good about myself lately. 💖

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    3 жыл бұрын

    You got this! Happy to hear It made it just on time for you - Cindy

  • @jesschio9350

    @jesschio9350

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Psych2go :D Thank you! ♡

  • @dsyrdragon3309

    @dsyrdragon3309

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Psych2go hey above this comment is someone who is thanking you kinda wholesome

  • @ElizabethAVanCleve

    @ElizabethAVanCleve

    2 жыл бұрын

    Keep it up! Its worth it. I know from experience!

  • @mariehaverty8209

    @mariehaverty8209

    2 жыл бұрын

    👍❤️👏

  • @strawberry01753
    @strawberry017533 жыл бұрын

    0:43 1. Forgive yourself. 1:13 2. Be mindful. 1:41 3. Act on what u need. 2:15 4. Set boundaries. 2:44 5. Protect yourself. 3:06 6. Live intentionally. 3:37 7. Show up for yourself. 4:08 8. Practice slef-care. 。☆✼★━━━━━━━━★✼☆。 I hope u have a nice week.

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank youuu -Monica

  • @strawberry01753

    @strawberry01753

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Psych2go

  • @uyangabattulga9653

    @uyangabattulga9653

    3 жыл бұрын

    🥰

  • @Edith864
    @Edith8643 жыл бұрын

    Getting to know your attachment style& working on it if insecure, would be a huge gift in self care :)

  • @adambernache3210
    @adambernache3210 Жыл бұрын

    When I heard "Living with intention" made me cry really hard, it hit different. Thank you for the reminder.

  • @rutatijunelyte7179
    @rutatijunelyte71793 жыл бұрын

    That was so helpful! Becouse self love is what I am working on now. ❤️Lots of love who are reading this, know that you are just were you need to be and what is happening-is happening for a good reason. I believe in you and want you to believe in yourself the same way I believe in you. ❤️💖💕

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    3 жыл бұрын

    Wonderful! Thanks for sharing!

  • @rutatijunelyte7179

    @rutatijunelyte7179

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you ❤️💖💓💕

  • @mbcommandnerd
    @mbcommandnerd3 жыл бұрын

    I already meditate from time to time, so knowing that it can help with self-love as well is amazing to know. Thank you so much for these wonderful videos, Psych2Go!

  • @littleliv7924
    @littleliv79243 жыл бұрын

    You have gained another subscriber, I find your video so uplifting and motivating. I had to get a journal and start taking these steps to self love. Thank you so much for this. I we be back to update on how things will go. 👍🏼❤️😊📝📒

  • @avantikamunde8385
    @avantikamunde83853 жыл бұрын

    Thank you sis for you making this type of videos. It's really help me.❤️

  • @remonemo123
    @remonemo1233 жыл бұрын

    Love how she’s doing Dream smp drawings once and a while, it makes me feel more happy 💙🥺

  • @sisyphus.nights
    @sisyphus.nights3 жыл бұрын

    I needed this. I'm been counting all my mistakes for the past 2 weeks 💀

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    3 жыл бұрын

    Mistakes happen. Self-love is a long term effect on yourself for the better. You got this! - Cindy

  • @samyuktasam9532
    @samyuktasam95322 жыл бұрын

    I am an introvert and I used to be very strong and confident about myself. My friend with whom I was attached very much left me without particular reason, after that I started to feel insecure about myself. I still don't let people to know me. But I have found my way I am getting over it. It's a gradual process to accept your flaws and to fall in love with yourself.

  • @APOLOGETICACE
    @APOLOGETICACE8 ай бұрын

    this has been an eye opening for me not that i wasn't aware of it but for more of a deep understanding of what needs to be done. thank you this has been a wonderful video keep up the great work.

  • @Dil.Careem
    @Dil.Careem Жыл бұрын

    Practicing self-love means accepting and embracing who you are, flaws and all. For me, it involves taking care of myself physically, emotionally, and mentally. It means being kind to myself, forgiving myself for mistakes, and giving myself permission to take a break when I need it. Practicing self-love also involves setting boundaries, saying no to things that don't serve me, and surrounding myself with positive and supportive people. It's a journey, and some days are harder than others, but I believe that cultivating self-love is essential to living a fulfilling and happy life.

  • @GinaSwire
    @GinaSwire2 жыл бұрын

    What a wonderful message of this video! I've seen the seen the importance of self love especially when I work with women who feel uninspired and out of love for themselves and help them to feel radiant, empowered, and love from within.

  • @smashkin92
    @smashkin922 жыл бұрын

    Your voice is so soothing and your video so helpful that it makes you the mom I never had.

  • @prettycurly9101
    @prettycurly91012 жыл бұрын

    Before I watch this video, I just wanted to say thanks!!!!! Your videos are helping me to be a better me. I'm so happy to have found this channel 💓 ☺ 💗

  • @strawberrypie1173
    @strawberrypie11733 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, I think we all needed this. 💕 Btw the Little dance at the end was soo cute I can't-💕💕💕

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    3 жыл бұрын

    You’re welcome 😊

  • @IKEMENOsakaman
    @IKEMENOsakaman3 жыл бұрын

    I always write a diary every night before I go sleep. This makes me feel like I'm living intentionally. Who else writes diaries?

  • @SaggyRats

    @SaggyRats

    3 жыл бұрын

    That’s a really good idea! I’m gonna try that 😁

  • @sirivenneladara8947

    @sirivenneladara8947

    3 жыл бұрын

    I do! I try my best to write as regular as possible. It also helps to get stuff out of ur mind. Especially sadness and anger

  • @slayre1408

    @slayre1408

    3 жыл бұрын

    I don’t call mine a diary, but I guess that’s kind of what it is. It’s just a journal where I can stash my thoughts when I’m tired of carrying them around.

  • @sirivenneladara8947

    @sirivenneladara8947

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@slayre1408 So it's kind of like an emotional trash can. Lol. Well I use my diary for that as well

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    3 жыл бұрын

    I also do! How long do you journal for? -Monica

  • @lizaacookie
    @lizaacookie2 жыл бұрын

    I didn’t know exactly why self love was so important, it took me a while but now that I love myself completely I’m mostly happy for no reason and I’m not looking for love anywhere else, i feel complete and happy ❤️❤️

  • @MariMb
    @MariMb3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for those tips, I'll continue work in my self to be a better person for me, for my family, friends and for the world.

  • @payalk2898
    @payalk28982 жыл бұрын

    Loving yourself looks different on different days Some days it will feel familiar like encouraging or praising yourself but on others it will be not beating yourself up for things you couldn't do

  • @ins4nutty341
    @ins4nutty3413 жыл бұрын

    1. Forgive yourself 2. Be mindful 3. Act on what you need 4. Set boundaries 5. Protect yourself 6. Live intentionally 7. Show up for yourself 8. Practice selfcare

  • @soleil2934
    @soleil29343 жыл бұрын

    I needed this. Been losing motivation lately-and this is what i needed. Thank you.

  • @curlygirlyass1038
    @curlygirlyass10382 жыл бұрын

    your videos are amazing i just turned 13 and my life is up the walls right now im being buried in expectations stress and work overload and im trying to figure out who i am because i dont really have any friends and dont know if i have confidence or if im just embarresing myself in my life so having the time to watch ur vids is rlly helpful ty 🥰😍😁😊

  • @comcation7262
    @comcation72623 жыл бұрын

    ✨Awesome✨, the notification that you posted a video always makes my day ;w;

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm glad!

  • @Nuhuhlmaoo
    @Nuhuhlmaoo3 жыл бұрын

    I really needed this and I voted for it💖 I was a people pleaser and had no mercy towards myself. I am on ma way. I started practicing self love from feb 4 . And I really needed this (this will really help me)

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    3 жыл бұрын

    Sending love your way -Monica

  • @Nuhuhlmaoo

    @Nuhuhlmaoo

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Psych2go thanks💖

  • @user-et9nw9ls4t
    @user-et9nw9ls4t Жыл бұрын

    I've been feeling so down because I have really low self esteem and every time I see someone who i feel are just way better then me i feel the need to be like them i change my whole personality or i try to find traits on their zodiac and i put it in myself or i change what i like to what they like i just want to love myself and i feel like this video helped me a lot ty Psych2Go for making these videos

  • @cloud-ji4bp
    @cloud-ji4bp3 жыл бұрын

    i needed this, i wanted to start serious self care recently, thank you!! also the characters in these videos are SO CUTE they make my day >w

  • @Rose_01003
    @Rose_010033 жыл бұрын

    I have been working out and it has help so much with my mental health. Also am planning on getting behavior therapy for help me improve my behavior too.

  • @manifestationwithsami
    @manifestationwithsami2 жыл бұрын

    If you do not LOVE yourself, you do not respect & value yourself. Then, you think, you do not deserve the best. BUT, believe it, you deserve the best✨

  • @marcosjoel374
    @marcosjoel3745 ай бұрын

    I’m doing all these things and I haven’t felt this happy in a long time 💗

  • @gsmlprasanna9249
    @gsmlprasanna92493 жыл бұрын

    Self-care eventually changed my daily habits and then thought process.. Don't be hard on yourself just with 20min physical excercise, 10min meditation and 5min skincare routine is a good kickstart. It's just like chain process we can attract to positive side of life gradually, Anything needs time NEVER GIVE UP.....

  • @gathernaxx936
    @gathernaxx9363 жыл бұрын

    God i love this channel. Makes me happy, and makes me want to work towards better things. Thank you!

  • @senseifroggy8321
    @senseifroggy83213 жыл бұрын

    Repeat after me ♡ ~I am getting stronger every day ~I am worthy ~I have the courage to say no ~I will say yes to myself today ~I use failure as my stepping stone ~I find value in being myself ~You owe it to yourself to let go ~I will be fearless today ~I will learn something new today ~When I radiate good energy, good things will come ~I am focused and ready for the day ~I accept myself as who I am ~I will take things one step at a time ~I will not entertain what does not serve me ~I will succeed ~I am enough ~My well being is top priority ~I have the power to change today ~I can make a difference in this world ~I will not look back, but forward ~It is okay to be still ~My sensitivity is my strength ~I change my life when I change my thinking ~I can do anything but not everything ~I will make my dreams happen ~Life will be my passion

  • @upbestsalt1551

    @upbestsalt1551

    2 жыл бұрын

    To me that feels like lying

  • @aeis_tuber2094
    @aeis_tuber20943 жыл бұрын

    This is the most calm channel, your voice and the animation is so precious 🥺💛

  • @thecatsbackyard4833
    @thecatsbackyard48333 жыл бұрын

    Oh my God! I needed this lady's soothing voice so much. 😩

  • @alessadolan5718
    @alessadolan57182 жыл бұрын

    The things you'll start to attract when you love yourself is amazing ❤️

  • @canny1485
    @canny14853 жыл бұрын

    Society makes loving myself so hard but im decisive!

  • @ElizabethAVanCleve

    @ElizabethAVanCleve

    2 жыл бұрын

    Exactly!!! Kudos!

  • @xenianikolaou9222
    @xenianikolaou92223 жыл бұрын

    These are some good habits that every person should practise or at least try. My personal experience is that after you do those habits you feel much better mentally or physically(if it's yoga or simple work out) it depends on what habits makes YOU feel good but the key is to make them priorities and put your self care everyday day so you will be more proactive to other later❤️❤️❤️❤️love this video thank youu🙏

  • @stenarsk6877
    @stenarsk68773 жыл бұрын

    Started HIIT last week for my physical health and I am genuinely surprised of how big the impact is on my mental well being