How to overcome emotional pain in your life and let go of attachment ?

This is a Gautam buddha motivational story which can teach us how we can restrain ourselves from suffering due to attachment of our loved ones. In this new buddha story you will find answer of your question that how to avoid suffering in life.
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  • @maneeshbollu9371
    @maneeshbollu93712 жыл бұрын

    "THE LESS ATTACHED U ARE ,THE MORE PEACEFUL U WILL BE"💯

  • @manoramareddy4662

    @manoramareddy4662

    2 жыл бұрын

    i agree with i paid a price and learned a lesson but it makes us sad at the end

  • @sunitapatra5343

    @sunitapatra5343

    2 жыл бұрын

    I agree with u....

  • @sunitapatra5343

    @sunitapatra5343

    2 жыл бұрын

    I agree with u....

  • @fedesetrtatio1

    @fedesetrtatio1

    2 жыл бұрын

    And selfish and lonely. Suffering is a part of life and when you have the right companion and true god All is well.

  • @absolstoryoffiction6615

    @absolstoryoffiction6615

    11 ай бұрын

    Then the world shall feel a cold indifference upon its destruction by a former human who once held the world which was dearly to them.

  • @bigpapa2730
    @bigpapa27302 жыл бұрын

    I lost my son just a little over two years ago. I am looking for any words of encouragement and anything positive. I think that I am handling things pretty well and moving in the right direction, but it is nice to find inspirational videos on KZread.

  • @bb546123

    @bb546123

    Жыл бұрын

    Here is a Christian point of view. You have lost your son who has return your love while he was alive. NKJV John 15:9 “As the Father loved Me, I also have loved you; abide in My love.” So keep abiding in that love you have in your son and GOD will never take that love from you.

  • @duckieb345

    @duckieb345

    Жыл бұрын

  • @nerallavanisree3420
    @nerallavanisree34202 жыл бұрын

    I have never seen such a person like you in my entire life who talks about the truth in such a compassion way as you inspire me. I have no words to tell " how beautiful the lesson that u describe is" ? Who the young man you are. Thank you for always letting us to know a meaningful lesson to us. Attachment always have consequences . That's true my friend , Practising non-attachment really gives a pain in our heart ,but working on it definitely gives the more pleasure than anything in this world. You are just making our days not to be a typical one, but a day better than yesterday. My friend , your stories inspires us and thank you for motivating me like my big brother.We need this kind of you-tubers who embrace us with change and love our lives more and more

  • @deepikagopal7187
    @deepikagopal71872 жыл бұрын

    It is nice to hear but very tough to practise. I lost my mother and brother in a gap of two months and it still pains. I can't forget that.

  • @NaushadAli-ft4cb

    @NaushadAli-ft4cb

    2 жыл бұрын

    Of course it is very hard to overcome the untimely death of near and dear ones for any body .May God save all humanity from unbearable sorrow.

  • @thekendredspirit5771

    @thekendredspirit5771

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm sorry for your loss. One love.

  • @vijayalakshmirao6702
    @vijayalakshmirao67022 жыл бұрын

    So true. Attachment is the cause of all pains. But so difficult to digest. Thank you for the beautiful lesson.

  • @noreenebostick9593
    @noreenebostick95932 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing via KZread. After living by myself after being married, I discovered how attached I was to people. Being alone allowed me to ask questions as to why I was attached. As time went on, I learned how to live and be alone while still being able to love. My attachment was more out of being fearful and addictive. Over time, the fears disappeared as well as the addictive thought processes. Learning to let go made me stronger, wiser and better. One of the most loving things to ever happen to and for me. I appreciate loving people and also loving myself for not being excessive.

  • @qd4051
    @qd40512 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for all the beautiful stories full of Buddha's wisdom! Thank you for spreading positive energy!

  • @danthemansmail
    @danthemansmail2 жыл бұрын

    Exactly the right video at exactly the right time. Thanks of that.

  • @siewyinglee3807
    @siewyinglee38072 жыл бұрын

    Very wonderful words of wisdoms for we human beings living in this samsara world which we bear with immense sufferings and pains. the Buddha teachings and lessons which taught us are the golden rules for humans to execute and learn in our daily lives. Thanks for your upload of this video's and deeply appreciated.

  • @cecilialayer459
    @cecilialayer4592 жыл бұрын

    👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍BUDDHA LESSONS, attachment is suffering.

  • @sandhyamakwana5795
    @sandhyamakwana57952 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this wonderful teaching method 😇

  • @siewyinglee3807
    @siewyinglee38072 жыл бұрын

    Attachment is the greatest pain and sufferings for human beings. We will much at peace when we attached to nothing. We feel calm and peace in our mind being unattached to emotion, people scenery and things..practice non attachment is foremost necessary in our lives. Thanks for your video and indeed so appreciated.

  • @rainsnowflake4664
    @rainsnowflake4664 Жыл бұрын

    Since I these videos found me my like is starting to change. I'm so grateful for all of these amazing stories thank you

  • @sonianaik9461
    @sonianaik94612 жыл бұрын

    It's feels good to hear but in reality it's difficult. If u have a family and ur living with them than there is always an attachment. It's only possible for those who juz abandon their family and seek spiritual help🙏

  • @faribakayyod8761
    @faribakayyod87612 жыл бұрын

    🕊Buddha’s wisdom is intoxicating🕊

  • @deskitangmo5297
    @deskitangmo52972 жыл бұрын

    Attachment is one of the cause of suffering,I try to practice non attachment 🙏💐

  • @TheDhammaHub
    @TheDhammaHub2 жыл бұрын

    The catch-22... if you _want_ to get rid of the pain, you make it stronger... when you neither want it away nor want it to stay, it vanishes

  • @ratonikh7400
    @ratonikh74002 жыл бұрын

    So true, now it gives me lots of relief, thank God I came across this video at the right time

  • @aartiyadavett6372
    @aartiyadavett63722 жыл бұрын

    Inspirational story 👍👍 God buddha 😊

  • @ashwinisirsat5660
    @ashwinisirsat56602 жыл бұрын

    Sir please🙏🙏🙏 make a video on non - attachment practice

  • @sallynaidu1000
    @sallynaidu10002 жыл бұрын

    Food for thought. Soon beautifully explained. TAKE CARE. N Thanks GOD BLESS YOU. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @ramkrishnapaul1778
    @ramkrishnapaul177829 күн бұрын

    Thank You So much Hare Krishna

  • @realtyhaven
    @realtyhaven2 жыл бұрын

    Brilliant!! Thanks for the animation and share Shailender! God Bless!

  • @patrickdupe700
    @patrickdupe7002 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing 🙏☺️

  • @lokeshwariraju9493
    @lokeshwariraju94932 жыл бұрын

    Good lesson from buddha. Right the less we attached the more happy we can leave. I have a brother who became irresponsible drunken and harsin my mother. My mother not able to control him nor punish him. The things became out of control. I am taking care of financially for them. But I have no peace thinking of them . I am not able to control what's happening. I dont have father and I am happily married. But always there is some suffering I dont know why. Even when I am poor I lived happily. Now I am just thinking what to do how can the situation can be controlled. I just left to god. I decided I do my responsibility but I have to be strong and tough with them.

  • @randydavis7718
    @randydavis77182 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Again For Another Profound Video, I value these so highly.

  • @manoramareddy4662
    @manoramareddy46622 жыл бұрын

    wonderfully said i wish i learned this 20 years back ,i would not have gone throw all these misery , worrying about children and grand children

  • @noreenebostick9593

    @noreenebostick9593

    2 жыл бұрын

    Worrying about children and grandchildren were experiences that allowed you to think of your loved ones. While the satanic kingdom meant it for evil, God has meant it for good. I am speaking from my own experiences of dwelling excessively over my children and grandchildren. I started asking deep questions being alone and discovered I needed to be more responsible of and for my thoughts and actions, Over time, worrying became a process of concerns and letting go, Attachment to people is another form of addiction.

  • @genasoriano559
    @genasoriano5592 жыл бұрын

    Wow! Impressive story. I learned a lesson from it. So true attachment can always make me suffer but detachment can give me happiness and peaceful life. Thank you for sharing this beautiful message. I really like it.

  • @nzcc1503

    @nzcc1503

    2 жыл бұрын

    But how do I detachment ? How

  • @142umamageshwari5
    @142umamageshwari5 Жыл бұрын

    Much needed for me❤️❤️

  • @trankt54155
    @trankt541552 жыл бұрын

    Buddhism is deep rooted in logic and reason----so much so that everything is so impersonal and detached----down to barebone science and physics....

  • @AkhilAIIMS
    @AkhilAIIMS Жыл бұрын

    Thank-you so much sir namo buddhaya❣️

  • @JohnnyLinn
    @JohnnyLinn Жыл бұрын

    These videos give me reasons to live

  • @iampossible9212
    @iampossible92122 жыл бұрын

    I am greatful to you Thanks for inspiring us

  • @vasanthijayakumar811

    @vasanthijayakumar811

    2 жыл бұрын

    Tnks for ur nice voice & story. 🙏👍👏

  • @iampossible9212

    @iampossible9212

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@vasanthijayakumar811 not at all

  • @upscspot_official
    @upscspot_official2 жыл бұрын

    Great!!!!!!!

  • @Krakenwerfer
    @Krakenwerfer2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this story. It helps me a lot.

  • @PRNadh
    @PRNadh2 жыл бұрын

    Excellent story,💯 percent 🙏🙏🙏

  • @saravanan4086
    @saravanan40862 жыл бұрын

    Very Nice 👍, Thankyou.

  • @parveenmulla8506
    @parveenmulla85062 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely right sir i wl do my duty n no love no attachment now better

  • @shrinivasganure4197
    @shrinivasganure41972 жыл бұрын

    Thank u sir, my gratitude to u , means a lot

  • @shaktymoy
    @shaktymoy2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the video. Upload more videos.

  • @hetalkhatri8018
    @hetalkhatri80182 жыл бұрын

    Wow, This was a great lovely inspirational story !!! It's message is absolutely right , loved that ! 💖THANK YOU for the wisdom !!!🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @mitaleesss
    @mitaleesss2 жыл бұрын

    It's a good story, but.. How would you call someone alive when he isn't emotionally involved with someone (with special love bond) or something (dream or aim or his purpose of being) How's that life of detachment will be considered as the life lived to the fullest? Will you be able to justify your own detachment to yourself on your deathbed, saying I "lived my life"? Does The Creator haven't given us free will and right to choose our path, without speaking of punishment (pain) ?

  • @tanjohnny6511

    @tanjohnny6511

    2 жыл бұрын

    Emotions are also impermanent.i am sure sure there are times we are fed up with our family or love ones.everything is impermanent in our world,if we are attached to it,we will suffer when separation happens and it will happen sooner or later.even cosmologist says someday our earth will be gone.this is not our permanent home,do not cling to it as yours,even our bodies is not ours ultimately for we cannot stop it from dying.🙂

  • @advocatedeepaanand7585

    @advocatedeepaanand7585

    2 жыл бұрын

    Ur ultimate truth is death. We are bound to die sooner or later. U will even be questioned once your body leaves soul as 1) who is ur creater ? 2) what have you did good things while you were alive.

  • @mr.magnificentmanoj
    @mr.magnificentmanoj2 жыл бұрын

    Super ... thanks for reminding

  • @jayantidhar9957
    @jayantidhar99572 жыл бұрын

    Excellent.🙏🙏

  • @divya.amrit4489
    @divya.amrit44892 жыл бұрын

    Good message...👍👍

  • @vennela8869
    @vennela88692 жыл бұрын

    Thanq sir.

  • @imustbegettinolder4434
    @imustbegettinolder44342 жыл бұрын

    Thank you.

  • @mrbritesideoftheroad
    @mrbritesideoftheroad Жыл бұрын

    Thank You ❤

  • @HDWire
    @HDWire2 жыл бұрын

    Namo buddhay

  • @asmahusafi
    @asmahusafi2 жыл бұрын

    Too good👏👏👏👏 amazing

  • @bsid3549
    @bsid3549 Жыл бұрын

    Yo i just saw this and said why nit watch it its just some mins and i'll lesrn something good from it but the bad thing is i haven't subscribed to u yet my bad broo thanks for this videos im gonna subscribe rn have a good day and keep it going :)

  • @AkashGupta-jy1nr
    @AkashGupta-jy1nr2 жыл бұрын

    Great 👍

  • @divyanshpratapsingh6871
    @divyanshpratapsingh68712 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely true

  • @gopubm64
    @gopubm642 жыл бұрын

    Eternal truth...

  • @hounddog7256
    @hounddog7256 Жыл бұрын

    hence the importance of pausing along the journey in life to appreciate what you have, while you have it, to take note, and be thankful to the creator because eventually, it will end & when this happens, you'll look back and be grateful for the experience while you had it, without any regrets or guilt and be at peace with yourself.

  • @kimberlydavis5034
    @kimberlydavis50342 жыл бұрын

    Nothing is permanent and I've had many, many emotional sorrows in my lifetime. My only strength and guidance comes from my Creator of the Whole Universe.

  • @creationartnature
    @creationartnature2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks,❤️🙏🌷🌼🌺🌺

  • @openmindedwonderer
    @openmindedwonderer2 жыл бұрын

    Love it ❤️

  • @munnamichael778
    @munnamichael7782 жыл бұрын

    I don't want any attachment in life bcoz i have already got the result of being very attached 😪

  • @forfun8205
    @forfun82052 жыл бұрын

    I understood very well

  • @mitchusani8424
    @mitchusani8424 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you

  • @thembinkosidube3918
    @thembinkosidube3918 Жыл бұрын

    You get sorrow from those,you consider yours... Thank you...

  • @ciscaxaveriaesw3000
    @ciscaxaveriaesw30002 жыл бұрын

    Thank you. But it is not as easy as words to be practiced

  • @clairelaus5696
    @clairelaus56962 жыл бұрын

    nice one !!!

  • @thinlasnamgyal4392
    @thinlasnamgyal43922 жыл бұрын

    A simple and practical solution not to get attached with people and things.

  • @titogoongoonsmith9479
    @titogoongoonsmith94792 жыл бұрын

    I guess this explains how he was able to live without the guilt of abandoning his son... I can't imagine how hard my son's life would have been had I chosen to abandon him the same way his mother did... It has always made it hard for me to accept what the Buddha has to say knowing he came to his enlightenment through abandoning his family.. no wonder he preaches non-attachment...

  • @sudipsarkar1903
    @sudipsarkar19032 жыл бұрын

    jai buddha

  • @peaceofmind1355
    @peaceofmind1355 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks

  • @djgeol3892
    @djgeol38922 жыл бұрын

    Im in process healing now , thx for sharing this video

  • @rockybalboa2983

    @rockybalboa2983

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'v been in process healing too, ....for 4 years. She's happy in new marriage but I can't deal with it and move forward. My attachment was stronger than her. It is life:)

  • @sameersingh3032
    @sameersingh30322 жыл бұрын

    Very nice

  • @ashokakanabur3809
    @ashokakanabur38092 жыл бұрын

    Great quotes and back ground budda photo. Please keep sages nature and great men back ground photo

  • @meghavyas1545
    @meghavyas15452 жыл бұрын

    I lost my mother 2 months back - not able to come out of it

  • @flydove-zx2ij

    @flydove-zx2ij

    2 жыл бұрын

    ONE OF THE BUDDA'S WORDS OF WISDOM, "WE ALL ARE GOING TO BE A MEMORY. MAKE SURE TO MAKE A GOOD ONE." NOT EXACTLY LIKE THAT BUT IT'S CLOSE. MEANING WE ALL ARE GOING TO DIE. NO ONE LIVES FOREVER. FOR TOXIC PEOPLE THEY SHOULD CHANGE BEFORE THEIR JUDGEMENT COME.

  • @trankt54155

    @trankt54155

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@flydove-zx2ij Please stop trying to proselytize people. No God is going to judge or punish anyone.......please stop trying to send fear into people in order to control them......and forget about heaven or hell business, would you? Only people can change themselves....the Deity is too busy for such nonsense.

  • @flydove-zx2ij

    @flydove-zx2ij

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@trankt54155 THE CHOICE IS URS.

  • @trankt54155

    @trankt54155

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@flydove-zx2ij Of course the choice is mine TODAY. You are stating the obvious BUT that was never the case though, was it?

  • @maddumasampath5688
    @maddumasampath56882 жыл бұрын

    🙏🙏🙏

  • @user-vm4nl1lf1j
    @user-vm4nl1lf1j2 жыл бұрын

    Don't be serious then less pain.i learn something.i won't be so serious anymore then won't hurt.

  • @lizreilly2493
    @lizreilly2493 Жыл бұрын

    ❤ 🙏

  • @srinivasam3638
    @srinivasam36382 жыл бұрын

    🙏🙏

  • @scsmurfette2196
    @scsmurfette21962 жыл бұрын

    My adult daughter is upset with me because I moved to another state with my husband because of health reasons so she will not talk to me. I feel so much pain and heartache. I am having a hard time “letting go” but I can not make her continue our relationship. If it was so easily disturbed, maybe the reality is our relationship was not strong at all, it was my perception.🤔 Thank you for your Words of Wisdom

  • @valmicky51
    @valmicky51 Жыл бұрын

    🌹👌

  • @flydove-zx2ij
    @flydove-zx2ij2 жыл бұрын

    MEANING EVERYTHING WHAT WE ALL HAVE IN THIS WORLD, ESPECIALLY, OUR LIVES ARE JUST TEMPORARY. WE ALL CAME FROM THE DUST & WE ALL GO BACK TO DUST. NO ONE LIVE'S FOREVER. IT'S JUST A MATTER OF WHOSE TIME COME FIRST & WHERE ARE THEIR SOULS ARE HEADED. ALWAYS THINK OF GOD OUR CREATURE & HIS SON THE LORD JESUS CHRIST.

  • @trankt54155

    @trankt54155

    2 жыл бұрын

    Here we go.......the Savior....

  • @trankt54155

    @trankt54155

    2 жыл бұрын

    And the next thing you would say is, NO other religion or person BUT Christ will save you for your sins, etc. Right?

  • @flydove-zx2ij

    @flydove-zx2ij

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@trankt54155 THE CHOICE IS URS.

  • @a.dhurkambigaianandaganapa411
    @a.dhurkambigaianandaganapa4112 жыл бұрын

    Ur stories are good for hearing but implementing in life only we get the benefit so hereafter add this content of how to practice it or achieve it.

  • @meditationthien1662
    @meditationthien16622 жыл бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @bb546123
    @bb546123 Жыл бұрын

    To live a happy life then we will have to practice non attachment only then we shall be able to live a happy and peaceful life. We attach ourselves to people because we get lonely just like everybody else. And we show love to them to improve their lives as they improve ours. The loss of a person is just someone who can no longer share that love back to us. So instead of being lonely and sad, stay attached by continuing to love that person as that person would have loved you.

  • @tln.0116
    @tln.01162 жыл бұрын

    Ryt ²

  • @ashwinka7355
    @ashwinka73552 жыл бұрын

    ♥️

  • @chandrakantbelote773
    @chandrakantbelote7732 жыл бұрын

    Great lesson 👍💞💞 The less you attached the more peaceful you'll be ✨

  • @paulciampo2104
    @paulciampo2104 Жыл бұрын

    I am at a place where I am questioning things. When faced with a life without attachment, I feel depressed and destroyed and unfocused... They say attachments are a part of human health. Attachments that come and go... To let go is to become uninvolved with passion and have no drive - in my case. Where is the middle ground? To need people or not need people. To feel empty and peaceful... Or happy for those fleeting moments... I don't know... Life seems uncertain

  • @ingodwetrust.8600
    @ingodwetrust.86002 жыл бұрын

    👍

  • @saidasayh1258
    @saidasayh12582 жыл бұрын

    👍🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏💖

  • @miliduronto5672
    @miliduronto56722 жыл бұрын

    The less you will attatch the more you will happy...

  • @lifeyoumanage7966
    @lifeyoumanage79662 жыл бұрын

    Word of Wisdom :)

  • @minivijay5757
    @minivijay57572 жыл бұрын

    Story is good but not for humanlife only for saints.when there is no attachment in husband and wife there is chance of divorce.when there is no attachment between siblings there property family issues.when there no attachment to studies students fail to have interest in knoweledge.Attachment with acceptance to good aswellas bad in life will be much more inspirational than just leave attachment alone.Learning to ACCEPT what ever comes to by the universe is a better policy than living without attachment.Man is made as a social beings with emotions and attachments and sorrows and happiness.Live attach enjoy and accept the betrayal if it comes and move forward.Godbless.

  • @varghese3
    @varghese32 жыл бұрын

    Relationship based on attachments... without that it is lifeless.... One should be sanyasi living in jungle...

  • @munnamichael778

    @munnamichael778

    2 жыл бұрын

    Who u love

  • @briannarobinson7708
    @briannarobinson77082 жыл бұрын

    But how do you love without being attached? Does this mean that you have to keep people at arm's length to keep from feeling the pain when they're gone? (Genuine questions)

  • @a.dhurkambigaianandaganapa411
    @a.dhurkambigaianandaganapa4112 жыл бұрын

    How to practice non attachment?

  • @lizfranze9149
    @lizfranze91492 жыл бұрын

    Does this mean don’t get attached to family, friends, etc? This doesn’t make sense to me as being attached to family has always made sense so am now confused 😕

  • @wishfulguy4819
    @wishfulguy48192 жыл бұрын

    Those practice deep Buddhism such as Monk cud achieve detachment as they never interact or having bondage with anyone such as family members. As a nornal person, we did hv own family, Friends, love one who we hv built emotional attachment. Therefore, it is not easy to practice Buddhism on Distachment unless we gave up worldly matters.

  • @alantan9585
    @alantan95852 жыл бұрын

    If we talk about material things we can detached from it, certainly not your beloved family.....

  • @janeyd5280

    @janeyd5280

    2 жыл бұрын

    Alan Tan well said.

  • @flydove-zx2ij

    @flydove-zx2ij

    2 жыл бұрын

    NOT ALL FAMILY ARE BELOVED FAMILY.

  • @nimsith9983
    @nimsith9983 Жыл бұрын

    pls tell background song

  • @monat3448
    @monat34482 жыл бұрын

    My mom is not feeling well and and my husband doesn't want them to stay with us . with this attachment am suffering a lot .my mom ask me you take care of me and don't no what to reply.

  • @tapashupanchbhai1449
    @tapashupanchbhai14492 жыл бұрын

    But if u don't get attach to your responsibility then how u will be going to complete it ? I simply means , how not to get attach with u r responsibility ?