How to Make Your Parrot Cuddly and Affectionate

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  • @TheParrotTeacher
    @TheParrotTeacher3 жыл бұрын

    So glad you mentioned Anthropomorphisation and us projecting our feelings onto them. They have a totally different way of feeling things and values! We can tell when they are content from observation, but it's not the same! Also the cuddles thing. We see so many people touch their birds in all sorts of places and cause hormonal behaviour and then wonder why it's happening! Also how we should encourage them to be brave and independent! Ours get training, time with us etc. But we always try to give them independent activities!

  • @TheParrotTeacher

    @TheParrotTeacher

    3 жыл бұрын

    @G Note us bird fans tend to watch the same people!

  • @angsfeatheredfriends

    @angsfeatheredfriends

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@TheParrotTeacher We do?! :P

  • @TheParrotTeacher

    @TheParrotTeacher

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@angsfeatheredfriends :P

  • @phoebezhang1190

    @phoebezhang1190

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@TheParrotTeacher True! Most bird lovers (parrot lovers to be specific) watch the same youtubers, and I personally like that because you get to connect with more people because of birds and favorite youtubers!

  • @TheParrotTeacher

    @TheParrotTeacher

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@phoebezhang1190 Totally! We've made a few friends over Instagram due to just sharing a love of parrots!

  • @klaaskingma7435
    @klaaskingma74353 жыл бұрын

    This is something everyone needs to hear MANY times when they want to get a bird...

  • @spiritmatter1553

    @spiritmatter1553

    3 жыл бұрын

    They say if you want a cuddly pet, get a dog or cat!

  • @BirdTricks

    @BirdTricks

    3 жыл бұрын

    It's not always the easiest message to hear but it's so important!

  • @klaaskingma7435

    @klaaskingma7435

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@BirdTricks it really isn’t. I have a cockatiel who LOVES scritches but will fight me when I even just think of bringing my hands close to him otherwise

  • @raptora4325

    @raptora4325

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@klaaskingma7435 oh yeah same with my cockatiel, she definitely gets a little moody sometimes and especially when shes tired but if she sees me making the scritch motion with my fingers then she’ll happily put her head down or against my hand to get some and complain when i stop

  • @spiritmatter1553

    @spiritmatter1553

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@raptora4325 well, that sounds just adorable! 🥰

  • @Khellendros05
    @Khellendros053 жыл бұрын

    I’m really glad you touched on how humans make animals dependent on them with us wanting them to need us. I see that a lot with dogs and birds too. And then people complain that they can’t leave the animal alone and it always wants attention.

  • @joshuhwuh1833

    @joshuhwuh1833

    2 жыл бұрын

    I think if you really go down this rabbit hole of logic you end up with the realization that the entire idea of a pet is rooted in this. Unless your animal is there to perform a specific task IE service animals/food/etc theres really NO good reason why we should even have a pet.

  • @solarflare2722
    @solarflare27223 жыл бұрын

    This is the first time I’m hearing NOT to pet the beak... Thanks for the video, it’s exactly what I needed!!

  • @lisascankdealejo6447

    @lisascankdealejo6447

    3 жыл бұрын

    it was my first time hearing that information too, and sadly...I have a habit of scratching/rubbing my brib's beak. Time to teach myself the new rules!

  • @ms.anonymousinformer242

    @ms.anonymousinformer242

    2 жыл бұрын

    Only reason I train my parrots to allow me touching their beak is to help cleaning food off it, by a quick swipe downward, on the sides. I also train them (because they naturally do this) to clean their beaks using a napkin or rag. I also potty train them as in they will poop over a trash if I say "go poopy" .

  • @audreycruz07

    @audreycruz07

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ms.anonymousinformer242 how do you potty train that? Please share!

  • @BirdNerdSophie
    @BirdNerdSophie3 жыл бұрын

    We have worked hard to make our flock independent and confident! If they want scritches (in the appropriate paces!) then we wait for them to ask! People are so obsessed with getting a cuddly, talkative bird which is totally the wrong reasons of bringing them in to our lives!

  • @Bullen_3

    @Bullen_3

    3 жыл бұрын

    IKR,those people really don’t understand birds at all!

  • @BirdTricks

    @BirdTricks

    3 жыл бұрын

    That's so awesome to hear 😁 It's all about respect!

  • @angsfeatheredfriends

    @angsfeatheredfriends

    3 жыл бұрын

    I've talked with younger people in a parrot discord about their wishes for a cuddy pet, I highly suggested they got a dog or cat instead, among 100 other reasons a parrot might not be right for them right now. It is a pity they don't require potential parrot owners to watch some sort of informative videos about the species before purchases. Then again impulse shopping is what makes up a majority of pet sales (pet stores love that!!) :(

  • @lainarian6902

    @lainarian6902

    3 жыл бұрын

    My grandmother adquired two parrots cuz she wanted them to talk, then she started to live with us and everyone in my family get upset and say that I'm exaggerating cuz when I see the parrots get nervous or scared, I say my family to not scream or approach to the cage, they always say "You are spoiling them", "They don't need salad", "I don't see why I can't be near the cage" and I only get more and more frustrated cuz I only want what is best for the birds :c

  • @Bullen_3

    @Bullen_3

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@lainarian6902 Poor birds! And i’m so sorry no one will listen to you,that must feel awful,bc you feel for those birds,and that’s a bit disrespectful of them to disgard your advice. No offence to your fam,ofc. Strange birds are SO misunderstood, compared to other animals. It’s probably bc many breeders and stores out there,would rather make them sales,then explan,how complex birds are and,the work it takes to keep them healthy,and risk losing sales.. Not saying all are bad..

  • @HelloHi-sk6kv
    @HelloHi-sk6kv3 жыл бұрын

    Okay, to be honest I needed this... XD but I went to a pet store the other day and they had a Moluccan Cockatoo. But the saddest part was that they barely payed any attention to her health. You could see a big part of her foot had a cut on it and she could barely stand. What made it even sadder was that the people didn’t notice. Luckily I told them and they were able to get the foot better. And she got a great owner who had the time and used to own a cockatoos. 😅😁

  • @Ansonidak
    @Ansonidak3 жыл бұрын

    I think one of the biggest things I've learned from this channel is to respect the birds wishes and learn its body language. My green cheek lets me know when he wants head scritches or cuddles and when he just wants to hang out.

  • @angelaliriano8426
    @angelaliriano84263 жыл бұрын

    I personally don’t own a bird but I binge watch your channel so much, and I learn a lot. I didn’t know birds were hormonal. My mind was blown. Thank you for educating us.

  • @Loveofpets
    @Loveofpets3 жыл бұрын

    Quote of the day " Birds and Humans don't mate " 😀 Love this video, every bird owner or potential bird owner should know this.

  • @high-bi-password
    @high-bi-password3 жыл бұрын

    It’s nice to see you talking more candidly about these issues instead of beating around the bush because people don’t want to hear that they’re putting themselves first, that they’re projecting their own needs and wants on the bird, and that they might be using the bird to fill a hole in their life that they need to deal with instead of putting the responsibility on their pet to make them feel better, because ultimately keeping animals properly takes work and commitment. I think a lot of people justify their own behavior for exactly that reason: they don’t want to admit that they’re not putting in the work that they should and that they’re not doing the best for their bird. They’d rather ignore the criticism and try not to think about what they might be doing wrong and focus on the bird’s behavior.

  • @petsprofessors3939
    @petsprofessors39393 жыл бұрын

    The thumbnail was adorable!!

  • @bkm2797
    @bkm27973 жыл бұрын

    Always good to remind those with the desire to cuddle, how to go about it in a healthy way.

  • @angeladengg3169
    @angeladengg31693 жыл бұрын

    Oh my ...soo true for all animals. My dog also needs her freedom and people find her sweet looking but she does not like to get touched from people she does not know. And the people are always shocked like “why every dog should like to get cuddles ”🙈. Also people are very upset that the animal is insecure and then aggressive. But it is like you said the outcome of making them extremely dependent and defensive of the human. Love how honest you always talk about these topics always can reflect ... we all should reflect our own behavior... I always find something where I should take a step back 😂

  • @prittyugly86
    @prittyugly863 жыл бұрын

    The cockatiel shows me affection with head tilts

  • @duruu7030
    @duruu70303 жыл бұрын

    I have been waiting for this video ❤️

  • @georgesabitpol
    @georgesabitpol3 жыл бұрын

    Love my birdies so much, they are becoming more and more cuddly as time goes. I feel so blessed to have these little balls of feathers in my life. They are 2 white capped pionus parrots

  • @Weirder_the_better
    @Weirder_the_better3 жыл бұрын

    I love your channel. I’m only just starting the process of getting a bird but wanted to do a lot of research beforehand. I am so glad that I saw this video - it’s so important.

  • @aubrey_hash255

    @aubrey_hash255

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thats amazing

  • @BirdTricks

    @BirdTricks

    3 жыл бұрын

    You are definitely doing the right thing by taking it slow and doing your research 🙂 I'd highly recommend volunteering at a local sanctuary or rescue if you are able - it's the best way to get some prior hands on experience!

  • @Weirder_the_better

    @Weirder_the_better

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@BirdTricks Thank you so much - that's a great suggestion!! I will definitely look into local options.

  • @tammy6678
    @tammy66783 жыл бұрын

    Always such good knowledge and advice

  • @lilianubia3648
    @lilianubia36483 жыл бұрын

    great advice as always, thanks for the video

  • @paolar436
    @paolar4363 жыл бұрын

    thank you so much for including captions on your videos!

  • @JROCKTC
    @JROCKTC3 жыл бұрын

    This was so interesting and informative! I liked how you explained about how to much touching can trigger a hormonal reaction in your birds. I’ve learned from this video, basically, take it slow and calm with your bird. Absolutely learn to read THEIR body language. Also, don’t forget, when you are touching your bird, they can feel your energy. That’s why as bird parents, you have to remain calm, and happy, and in control. This was an awesome video!🥰🦜Thank you Jamieleigh, spot on as always!🦜💖NanaJ🦜💙

  • @high-bi-password

    @high-bi-password

    3 жыл бұрын

    Honestly this is a great video for birds but any other pet as well!! There would be many more happy animals if we were more in tune with THEIR needs.

  • @craigroberts6439
    @craigroberts64393 жыл бұрын

    Our female Green Wing loves to sit on my lap every night when we watch a movie. Over all she is a very affectionate bird. We only scratch her head though. Enjoy your videos very much.

  • @juliebaker4611
    @juliebaker46113 жыл бұрын

    I need a comet in my life ❤️❤️🥰 loved the video, keep up the good work xx💕💕

  • @suzannesharpeOUCH
    @suzannesharpeOUCH9 ай бұрын

    Excellent points. Thank you for opening my eyes on this entire subject!!

  • @nayelienava
    @nayelienava3 жыл бұрын

    Love your videos, I’ve learned SO many things on this channel. Would love to see some cockatiel videos !

  • 3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @charmacmillan7062
    @charmacmillan70622 жыл бұрын

    This was so interesting! I've seen so many videos online of really cuddly birds and had no idea of the implications of it! Definitely a base piece of knowledge for owning a bird!

  • @sbaumbach1899
    @sbaumbach18993 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this video. The information was really helpful in identifying some of the issues that we are experiencing!

  • @rebebristol5696
    @rebebristol56963 жыл бұрын

    So interesting , thank you !

  • @abigailjohnson328
    @abigailjohnson328 Жыл бұрын

    Love to hear your truth-telling. Thank you.

  • @gracekealoha4525
    @gracekealoha4525 Жыл бұрын

    Amazing! What a good boy! I like your tactic and he look like after the 1st one stroke rub that he was all inn! Love it

  • @donnanelson9181
    @donnanelson91812 жыл бұрын

    One of the best and most intelligent bird behavior videos I’ve ever seen. Thank you.

  • @cherrygaisford9810
    @cherrygaisford98103 жыл бұрын

    My sun conure is so sweet and cuddly. He is a quiet sun conure. Very content. He is 20 years old now. I have to admit I do pet and kiss him a lot, but he doesn't need me all the time. Best parrot ever

  • @martinhblake
    @martinhblake3 жыл бұрын

    Wow, I didn't not most of this information and I just got 2 Amazon babies. Awesome video. It will help me and my birds a lot. Thank you !!!!!

  • @annadavis236
    @annadavis2363 жыл бұрын

    Excellent video! People really need to hear this sooooo many people think all parrots are cuddly and it’s not the case!

  • @Leeeuuuhhh
    @Leeeuuuhhh3 жыл бұрын

    I was avoiding this video cause I didn’t think I would like it but boy was I wrong. Spot on. Love it!

  • @VenusAD
    @VenusAD3 жыл бұрын

    The title had me concerned, but I kept faith and watched it, and I'm glad I did! Great job as always. I constantly remind people that it's perfectly normal for a bird not to be cuddly, especially with very standoffish birds. And just because they don't want to cuddle or be pet, doesn't mean that they don't enjoy being with their owner. Both of my birds (bgm and sun conure) like to be touched, but it's usually brief and very much on their own terms. Sometimes it's a bit longer, but usually it's like, a few scritches for my sun and maybe 5 to 10 minutes for my bgm, depending on if he's having a big head molt or not. Mostly they just like being in my space and hanging out for their quality time. My bgm also likes really interactive conversations, mostly consisting of me repeating whatever word/sound he's making lol

  • @lhmcd5538
    @lhmcd55383 жыл бұрын

    You talk so much sense. With any animal, bird we have to let them be as independent as possible. Thank you very much. May you please take care and stay safe.

  • @mylifewithmarmalade4624
    @mylifewithmarmalade46243 жыл бұрын

    Excellent video! My sun conure tends to be all about the scritches, napping as smushed into my face as possible, and making sure my hair and eyebrows are all straightened out. But there are days he’s in a “no-touchy” mood. All about listening to him and letting him set the tone.

  • @robbieruthig6131
    @robbieruthig61313 жыл бұрын

    OMg I’ve wanted this video for so long. Thank you so much jamieleigh! I love you 💕

  • @Mirai_Inoue

    @Mirai_Inoue

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me too

  • @phoebemorris2382

    @phoebemorris2382

    3 жыл бұрын

    I need it so much!

  • @elinarirhodan3760
    @elinarirhodan37603 жыл бұрын

    Excellent info in this video, thank you! I have two male budgies, only a month apart in age. The 1yr-old has recently started to accept a couple of seconds of head scratches in the evening when he's calm and settling in for the night. The 11-month-old is still terrified of my hand being near his head, but he doesn't fly away any more and instead just sidesteps; we're getting there! Both have them have come a long way with being comfortable around me and in our shared space, and I love seeing how much they change and gain confidence :)

  • @amandamorcan3330
    @amandamorcan33302 жыл бұрын

    100% true!! 👌🏼 I’m so glad I watched this as I’ll be picking up 2 cockatiel babies when they are weaned in the next week... so this has explained everything perfectly 😊

  • @whats_herName
    @whats_herName3 жыл бұрын

    This really makes me think about ancient history and stone carvings how birds were worshipped back thousands of years ago. Very fascinating.

  • @alipetuniashow
    @alipetuniashow3 жыл бұрын

    Love this channel😌

  • @BirdTricks

    @BirdTricks

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your support!

  • @deborahsensale6576
    @deborahsensale65763 жыл бұрын

    Thank you sooo much for this video. My Quaker definitely loves to be with me but does not like to be touched. I didn’t know about touching his beak. He lets me rub it even though I don’t do it often but I won’t be doing that anymore. I’ve never owned a bird and he was sort of a rescue since he doesn’t like his owner. Your videos have helped me greatly. Thank you sooo much.

  • @dantini1146
    @dantini1146 Жыл бұрын

    Wonderful link and informational blog. I don't even own a bird but I learned so much from it. This video and that blog should be in every pet store and given to each new bird owner. I know they'd appreciate the info or decide that a bird is not for them.

  • @animalfamily7378
    @animalfamily73783 жыл бұрын

    Omg thanks so much

  • @spiritmatter1553
    @spiritmatter15533 жыл бұрын

    🥰 I love Comet! ☄️ 🦜

  • @BirdTricks

    @BirdTricks

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me too 🥰🥰

  • @bishoywalid4852
    @bishoywalid4852 Жыл бұрын

    you gave me alot of help with the training tips.thank you so much, i have 2 cockatiels that hate something called physical touch😂but this vid will help alot

  • @teamparadise6644
    @teamparadise66443 жыл бұрын

    Amazing video, thank you for the truths behind petting a bird! I only scritch my birds if they ask me for it, I pet their heads, cheeks and necks only.

  • @dmmalpert
    @dmmalpert3 жыл бұрын

    FINALLY someone is saying this! I have been keeping and raising parrots for over 4 decades and I am so tired of seeing people ruin good birds with their own need to have a cuddly bird. Cockatoos suffer the most from this. These birds are often rehomed multiple times because the original owner finds that the neediness they have installed in their bird results in negative behaviors such as biting, plucking, and screaming. And then subsequent homes are not normally equipped to deal with helping to recondition a bird to overcome these behaviors. My own cockatoo came to me as a biting, screaming, feather chewing wreck that had no idea what a toy was. Yes, he wanted to cuddle for HOURS, and as soon as he was returned to his cage, the tantrums began. It was so bad that the woman I was supposed to get the bird from gave him to someone else and they were calling back within hours wanting to return the bird. Instead the woman had her bring the bird to me. The woman herself only had the bird less than a week. The bird was only about a year old at that time! It took months, but that bird is now better adjusted, learned how to play with toys and self entertain himself, and he rarely screams now. Where he used to pace up and down in his cage, how he keeps himself occupied with toys and his feather condition is improving. We are still working on the biting as he has decided that my husband is a rival for my attention...so he actively flies at my husband and tries to attack him. And he will bite me if my husband is anywhere within sight. This is what results when we impose our own needs on birds...they pay the price for it. I do give this bird affection, but in healthy amounts, and our handling sessions focus far more on encouraging the funny behaviors he likes to do (he likes to dance to music), and far less on cuddling. Thank you for bringing this important topic to light!

  • @Specklezz
    @Specklezz3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for making this video. Sounds like I gotta backtrack a bit to make more progress with my cockatiels accepting this behavior, they are comfortable to some degree with me, like I can 'boop' their head with my finger (and can hold it there sometimes for a Mississippi), but they would not tolerate me hovering my hand over their head. Gosh I wish it came more easily to my birds though. My previous cockatiel was a massive cuddlebug, but he was also the clingy kind. My current two tiels are much more independent, but I sure do miss giving them scritches like I did with the previous bird I adored. We had a consult a while back and I tried to capture them asking for scritches but it honestly got no where, instead it just got my two birds to ask for scritches from eachother more. Oh well looks like I gotta work harder!

  • @ArashiSpecter
    @ArashiSpecter3 жыл бұрын

    I’ve made plans to go visit a parrot sanctuary so I can learn more about birds, but the only thing that’s holding me back is Winter Storm Uri. I hope I can go soon! I’m determined to own a bird one day once I learn all I possibly can and put it into practice properly with birds that I do not own (I.e. while learning at a parrot sanctuary). Thank you BirdTricks for also being a great source for lessons and advice on how to care for and train birds.

  • @Gabeloveyou
    @Gabeloveyou Жыл бұрын

    You are a genius savant. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @cherylseay7372
    @cherylseay73729 ай бұрын

    Awesome info in reference to the link provided to Pamela Clark's blog. A must read for any bird owner new or old.

  • @TheArtOfShard
    @TheArtOfShard3 жыл бұрын

    Me watching this video: yes, mmh, exactly! Some one tell my friend who says my Budgie hates them because she can’t pet him! He doesn’t hate you he just don’t be a cuddle birb

  • @rxxniaa_ae
    @rxxniaa_ae3 жыл бұрын

    My budgie,” Richie” hates to be peted... But he is still cute! Also, I dont really force him for me to pet him, BUT HIS SINGING IS AMAZING!

  • @taistudobom
    @taistudobom3 жыл бұрын

    I'm planning on get a Plum Headed and I heard that because they don't preen their mates, they don't understand touch as "being cuddly". I have had only pet rats and I'm trying to get on the right mindset before meeting this cutie, because I don't want to talk on the wrong language with him. Thanks for the video!

  • @NadzisMadz
    @NadzisMadz3 жыл бұрын

    We just got a 6 week old macaw cant wait to start training

  • @AMQ85
    @AMQ853 жыл бұрын

    I enjoy watching your videos ! This makes a lot of sense. I have a bird that wants to be with me, enjoys sitting on my shoulder or lap or anywhere. and we play together with toys, I can call him/her and it comes. but touching or petting, big no. I don’t mind not touching its head. But he/she is really aggressive to my fingers, unless i have treats in my hands 😅.

  • @stefgusa8872
    @stefgusa88723 жыл бұрын

    I’m a big fan

  • @chompzapple8744
    @chompzapple87443 жыл бұрын

    I try and make sure my bird is tolerant with other people, and animals, especially since Ringnecks are viewed typically jealous and Aggressive. So I aim for the tolerance of touch anyway. He typically hates pats at the moment, but he still wants attention from me as in talking to me, and he now happily steps up on my hand. I will try these techniques later down the line.

  • @bassking722
    @bassking7223 жыл бұрын

    I don’t understand how you do what you do but you are amazing with a great gift. My birds must be broken or I’m the one that’s broke. Please help 😂

  • @Tyrack9420
    @Tyrack94202 жыл бұрын

    Well said, some people might not LIKE what you have said, but that doesn't make it untrue

  • @ringneckparrotaviary175
    @ringneckparrotaviary1753 жыл бұрын

    Good vid

  • @sierrasaville8233
    @sierrasaville8233 Жыл бұрын

    My bird is a little bit cuddly, she likes to be very close to me (always wants shoulders) and lately she’s been asking for pets and very receptive, but this is definitely a newer behavior 😅 she’s wanted to be in my space since the day I met her though! ❤

  • @yevgenyamuyamina2992
    @yevgenyamuyamina29923 ай бұрын

    Thank you. Great and helpful. My green cheek conure loves my younger daughter and I think she also did some “damage “ by patting him incorrectly. He allows me to scratch his head and around the eyes but in his terms. Love your channel. Learned a lot.

  • @polks6
    @polks63 жыл бұрын

    I really enjoyed this I have a orange head caique cooper she has been laying a brood since 2017,she is 8 or 9, I bought her at 6 months and we have a good great relationship.i think I’ve made her become very dependent on me , I’ve pet her all the ways you said not to but not 30 minutes lengths, she is currently sitting on 3 eggs, I take her from her nighttime cage ( where she laid them) breakfast snack lunch snack dinner snack giving her some away time from sitting . She sits for about 28 days then realizes nothing is going to happen and goes back to the 2 year ....on a sugar high... theirs way to much more to this story but thank you for this video.. very helpful and insightful.. your quite right about our needs human needs as I was becoming an empty nester and cooper filled the void as another child. I have a very hard time just leaving her sit in her cage all day , so I took her out quite a bit.

  • @jonathanbuckland2517
    @jonathanbuckland2517 Жыл бұрын

    i agree

  • @johnfoster6194
    @johnfoster61943 жыл бұрын

    Great training ideas. Our first bird was a Dusky Lory. Ya probably not a great choice for a first bird. The previous owners for whatever reason had to give it up. CoCo loved to be touched, played with, would roll over on his back for tummy rubs. Currently we have a 24 year old yellow nape Amazon named Ollie. We purchased the bird as a baby, so I finished the hand feeding process. Ollie will tolerate my touching to a point, then he lets me know when it's enough. My daughter is the only other person in the family that can even get close. I'll give these ideas a try and see how that works. Thanks

  • @priyanshumehta3762
    @priyanshumehta37623 жыл бұрын

    Love you

  • @GeorgieGirl1012
    @GeorgieGirl10123 жыл бұрын

    So important, thank you for this, wouldn't it be awesome if the parrot sellers would offer a course & a behavior video for the new owners. I remember when I first saw a large parrot as a pet in a extended family member's home. I was instructed not to interact but the bird really wanted to be with me, I was told this "parrots mate for life so when you get a parrot it picks you as it's mate and will not befriend others". Even though I was a kid I thought of this as really gross and who would want a pet like that! As you so clearly noted & discussed here although they cared for the bird & kept it well & happy they actually set up a very cruel and weird relationship causing the bird to be so needy for them, although I think that bird secretly was saying "save me" when it attempted to be friendly towards me. Thank you for all your helpful advice.

  • @VoiceNote-zu3hr
    @VoiceNote-zu3hr3 жыл бұрын

    Hi everyone, i have a budgie and he likes to come to me everytime i called his name but after i got another bird which is a lovebird, my budgie started to forget about me and start cuddling with the lovebird😂

  • @D33n0zaur
    @D33n0zaur3 жыл бұрын

    My bird is a green cheek conure and I did obtain her from a breeder. She is super friendly always curious and flying to people's heads, which is what we're working on stopping, and she's always begging for scratches, pets, or just being on me. Truely a velcro bird lol. I love her but wish she had some independence which is being worked on.

  • @CVersailles
    @CVersailles3 жыл бұрын

    My first budgie, Babi, was VERY affectionate - see, e.g., "Budgie Li'l Babi Kisses on Cue" - but I also taught him to be VERY independent - see "Self-Entertained Budgie Li'l Babi". Subsequent budgies have not really liked to be touched, so I respect that. Currently I have 5 rescue budgies and 3 of them are OK with kissing me on the cheek. I also had a green-singing finch that "tolerated" kissing (see "Kissing Tamed Serinus Mozambicus"). This bird, by the way, is the only finch on You Tube to perform a pseudo-formal recall exercise (see "Have Treat, Will Travel").

  • @roisinokane7172
    @roisinokane71723 жыл бұрын

    Part of the reason I chose an African grey as a companion is that they tend to be less needy and clingy than other species. Now, can you make a video , ‘how to stop your bird snatching your glasses off 50 times per day’ He is OBSESSED with them 👓🤣

  • @dianem.6118

    @dianem.6118

    3 жыл бұрын

    Mine too she just keeps pulling them off lol

  • @raptora4325

    @raptora4325

    3 жыл бұрын

    yeah definitely less than other species but they’re definitely pretty clingy with their favorite person. mines just a 2 year old and he definitely acts his age but i feel he needs a lot of attention more towards playing with him and getting that young energy out of him because he sure does have a lot or else he’s destructive but hes also got a good balance on neediness too especially in the mornings

  • @roisinokane7172

    @roisinokane7172

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@raptora4325 mine is the same age and yes, wry destructive. He was chewing the wooden beading around my door so I put a life size cut out of Danny De Vito in front of it as he scared of him 🤣He also can’t be allowed in the kitchen as he throws my spice bottles off the rack to hear them smash, same with crockery.

  • @raptora4325

    @raptora4325

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@roisinokane7172 oh yeah mines the same in the kitchen too. anything thats a good size that he can pick up like maybe a bottle of vitamins or something he’ll just go go the counters and throw stuff off of them or just go explore. Theres also this one spot on the cabinet he likes where he will stand there and stick his head underneath the little window curtain and pop out playing peekaboo or he just closes and opens the windows blinds there.

  • @roisinokane7172

    @roisinokane7172

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@raptora4325 they need a lot watching. Like a toddler 🤣

  • @ItsForTheDogs
    @ItsForTheDogs3 жыл бұрын

    It's a riot that you said birds don't like having THEIR space intruded upon. I can't tell you how many times Jewel the cockatiel will fly to my shoulder. She loves being with me and she'll explore a room as long as I am there, but she will go to my shoulder whenever she wants, even if I am cleaning up her mess. She jumps on me any time she wants.

  • @carolhartley4448
    @carolhartley4448 Жыл бұрын

    Excellent topic and the oh so true, this needed to be explained, and you of course did a great job, i try to explain this to my boyfriend, he needs to watch this, my conure really doesn't even like head scritches, he does like it for perhaps one second, also soo right about them letting them being checked out, like his feet and he on cue will my hand he does roll over, but that's a trick, sometimes he leans against my neck, (wing closed?of course) he does that if he chooses , so soft!! He also when molting does let me pet his head. Best info ever, thanx so much!👍🎉btw he on cue wiĺl lay on my hand and trust me with that!!! He's target trained/ clicker , indoor flight trained, still work with his indoor flying everyday, another btw, i target/clicker train for about 3 minutes each day, he looks forward to training, cuz he'll go to the perch or chair and stand there til he gets some kind of trick training, I did learn everything from you and dave, so thanx again! My bird does come to me on cue, so far so really good!!

  • @sherriblake620
    @sherriblake6203 жыл бұрын

    My parrot loves being close to me, tolerates head scratching, and allows me to pick him up if needed. His preference is talking and playing without cuddles.

  • @LauraBethHelen
    @LauraBethHelen3 жыл бұрын

    Yes, this is be talked about frequently, so people don't forget.

  • @barryklinedinst6233
    @barryklinedinst62333 жыл бұрын

    I give my Amazon's head scratches and they love it

  • @duckmama
    @duckmama3 жыл бұрын

    Lol my first thought on seeing the title: Get a dog instead?

  • @high-bi-password

    @high-bi-password

    3 жыл бұрын

    It’s sad bc people do the same thing to dogs, they get the “cuddly” stereotype and are mistreated just as often because of that.

  • @duckmama

    @duckmama

    3 жыл бұрын

    ​@@high-bi-password I think I maybe understand what you mean? I know a person who just wants to cuddle her dog and that's it. As a result, she gets treated by the dog as if she were a low-ranking puppy. The dog bosses her around. And that's not healthy or positive. But that being said, dogs really are demonstrably more cuddly than parrots. Human-to-dog physical affection seems to translate better than human-to-bird physical affection. Maybe it's a mammal thing? I've never seen the dog equivalent to nest building, regurgitating, hormonal rage caused by a T.V. side cuddle or a scratch behind the ear. On the contrary, they seem to enjoy it as a pack-bonding type thing. Parrots and many other birds, though, only want that kind of attention from a mate. That's it. They are not cuddly creatures.

  • @high-bi-password

    @high-bi-password

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@duckmama yeah, basically the idealized image of dogs as this perfect cuddly pet often completely ignores actual dog behavior and causes issues in the relationship that people either aren’t aware of or outright ignore. Domestic dogs definitely have a unique evolutionary relationship with humans and they are much more mentally primed to see humans as one of their own rather than a threat. However, people push this WAY too far and often invade their dog’s boundaries / make their dog uncomfortable with the extent of the affection, like handling their body in a way they don’t like, and people will ignore all the signs leading up to a fight and then blame the dog for being a mean dog, just like with birds. Dogs have more margin for error, but that creates an even bigger expectation of how cuddly and dependent on them their dogs should be. Which is all the more confusing for a dog because they DO love you and they DO need you emotionally, unlike birds.

  • @high-bi-password

    @high-bi-password

    3 жыл бұрын

    ****leading up to a bite, not fight, although people do think that dogs are “just playing” even when their dog is clearly picking a fight bc all they can see is this stuffed animal creature

  • @iranisarkar2359
    @iranisarkar23593 жыл бұрын

    We have 2 cockatiels they would come out of the cage for treats and one of them would keep howling if she sees us asking us to take her out but sometimes she would still keep howling even she is outside of the cage ....we give her treat she calms down and again start howling once she has finished that....both of them are comfortable coming to us for treats but not with touching them

  • @marenhaugen5283
    @marenhaugen52833 жыл бұрын

    The pandemic has really hurt us as far as socializing our cockatiel. My husband is the one who strokes his back. I stick to the head and neck, How ever, Rascal has done tail rubbing on me. As I have been told, when he starts this behavior, he goes back to his station or palace. He is good, and now fully flighted, but not fully trained. Much love to you all, Maren

  • @teddydalton8507
    @teddydalton85073 жыл бұрын

    Have you made a video on the pros and cons of a pulled and hand reared bird vs a co-raised bird? I would love to hear your opinion on which is better or if it's species and situation dependent.

  • @valeriebrentin2692
    @valeriebrentin26923 жыл бұрын

    The first time i met Ko Ko, (umbrella cockatoo) he came up to me, and rolled over onto his back and into my arms. He is very cuddly.

  • @lisascankdealejo6447
    @lisascankdealejo64473 жыл бұрын

    oh dear, I knew not to pet the back, wings, chest...I did not know about the beak. Thank you for the information, now I know to avoid that!

  • @lilbread-mr9ct
    @lilbread-mr9ct3 жыл бұрын

    My African Grey loves his pets

  • @Ash43509
    @Ash435094 ай бұрын

    Some birds are like people and don’t like physical affection as much as others. I had two green cheek conures, one was needy and cuddly and constantly wanting affection and the other one just wanted to sit with you but he didn’t want you handling him too much. If either one didn’t want petted I just backed off and respected it and never forced it. My non affectionate conure liked being sang to and talked to and showed affection in his own way.

  • @justinvincent2520
    @justinvincent2520 Жыл бұрын

    My african grey is naturally cuddley. I have had her for a few years and without any specific training she love her head and neck to be scratch.

  • @HeyMichaelLeo
    @HeyMichaelLeo8 ай бұрын

    I wish my chosen lifestyle, location- environment was appropriate to get another bird or two. I enjoy their temperament. I love to interact with nature in all it's variations.

  • @sandraallievi3694
    @sandraallievi36943 жыл бұрын

    I dont pet all over. I stick with head n neck. Beak. N my bird loves cuddles, kisses, independent time, playtime, shower time and all great foods time, he loves to sit in window n get sunlight. Thanks to you, my baby bird got all well rounded treatment. My family all take care of him in everyday I do n bird loves it. I wanted to see u give them affection.

  • @drfill9210
    @drfill92103 жыл бұрын

    Good work! The title is click bait- draws ppl in- and it hits them with the truth :). Fyi there is a rather boring bit still very good channel called "plumes of oz" which shows natural parrot behaviour and explains it. Strongly recommend- even for experts such as yourself :)

  • @ApexPrimals
    @ApexPrimals Жыл бұрын

    I’m a very physical person so what I did was give my bird a treat whenever she tolerated me touching her head. Though I can tell she’s not a big fan of head pats.

  • @abhij1032
    @abhij10323 жыл бұрын

    Love ❤️ from india 🇮🇳!!!!!

  • @Ansonidak
    @Ansonidak3 жыл бұрын

    My green cheek also uses the wave as his go-to begging move. I always figure it's because wave was the first trick I taught him after step up.

  • @lisascankdealejo6447

    @lisascankdealejo6447

    3 жыл бұрын

    my sun conure is starting to lift his foot up randomly, I actually don't know why because I've never done tricks that involved him waving/lifting his foot!

  • @Ansonidak

    @Ansonidak

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@lisascankdealejo6447 You can now train him to wave as a trick by capturing the behavior he already does. :)

  • @sajaeweda9369
    @sajaeweda93692 жыл бұрын

    I’d like to learn more about this it’s sounds interesting can you make another video more detailed my budgie doesn’t let me pet her I was only able to pet her like twice ever I’d like to be able to pet her more than that

  • @lauranagy9029
    @lauranagy90293 жыл бұрын

    Hi! Do you know kakarikies? If you do what is your opinion about them? I have a 5 month old one and she is very active and she like flying around the house.

  • @brandongillis1971
    @brandongillis19713 жыл бұрын

    My green cheek cuddles on a schedule lol

  • @dianasaur2131
    @dianasaur21312 жыл бұрын

    Even the most daring people and creatures enjoy physical contact affection and cuddles, especially at the beginning or end of the day, with flock/pride/herd fellows. Having calm cuddle soothing grooming time limited to these times can have health and wellbeing benefits too, and help transition to quality sleep and trust. Keep in mind this is to be relaxing and caring like going for a therapist massage or soothing a child or friend rather than for the lover in your life.