I was a SAHM. My kids are 30 this June. I struggled with feeling like it was enough more so now that they are gone than when they were around. I was so busy being mom and wife that I never realized if it was an issue not working for money. My husband worked hard, long hours and it was so wonderful to be home to have home cooked meals everyday, get the grocery shopping done, clean the house so it was comfortable. I love organizing and planning trips and doing so many things that if I was too tired to do wouldn’t happen. I respect all women for whatever they choose to do. Being a SAHM I belonged to a playgroup, then hung out with the moms I met at the school I volunteered at. Now, it’s a whole new ball game. My kids are gone and I am a creative so I started an Etsy kids printable shop for parties and it may not have taken off yet but the joy comes from waking up and planning. I am grateful now that I have the time to go on vacations with my husband and friends that love planning girls nights. Whew! Sorry. Rambling. Good vlog.

@HollyHomebody

4 жыл бұрын

Michele momoftwins I totally agree and think about that often - it’s such a blessing being able to just focus on the stuff at home rather than having to juggle both. Good luck with your Etsy shop!! 💕

Good tips. I remember when I was a little girl ( a long time ago ), we lived in a house that only had 4 rooms. Living room, kitchen & 2 bedrooms. Bathroom was an outhouse. Winter time we had a chamber pot that one of my brothers had to empty and clean for the next night. Baths were done in a wash tub in the kitchen.. Clothes were washed in a wringer washer on the back porch. My grandparents house had a wood burning cook stove in the kitchen.. My grandmother cooked every night even if it was 100 degrees. No air conditioning. They also had 1 room that didn't have a floor,, just the dirt ground.. I am so thankful and happy I have a toilet and bathroom to clean, along with the other conveniences of my home. Believe me, I have days I don't want to clean, then I think of these things which motivates me to get busy.

Nice to find another homemaker on KZread 😊💕

Great tips, Holly! Being home with Alex all day is such a blessing, but it’s also a huge adjustment since my busy waitressing days before he was born. I was used to a different pace and a different kind of energy that I got from the restaurant. I felt useful there. It’s so important to understand the value of being a homemaker. It is a high calling, when we view it correctly. Thank you for bringing attention to this topic! 💗

@HollyHomebody

4 жыл бұрын

Jenny For Your Thoughts couldn’t have said it better myself! 💕

This was a blessing to me I am not a stay at home mom, praying that I do become one, thanks for the tips Blessing you and your family

Your tip about having people works. Seriously. The only reason we have people over often is so that we keep our house clean!! Lol

Wonderful video! Thank you for sharing!! My son is 7 and my daughter is 3. We homeschool, and things can get a bit messy! 😅 We use the timer trick, but I call it "A Musical Minute" basically I play any song that they want, and they try to pick up their room before the song ends. It's hilarious and so much fun and I was surprised it worked so well. Lol. Musical Minutes typically happen right after our lessons are done and again right before bed. It's fun to see everyone doing their share of the chores. And music is just good for the soul!! 💕 I look forward to seeing more videos from your channel!! -- Brandi Renee

I completely agree with you! I never made the full switch to SAHM but having a baby has taught me how to appreciate the comforts of home.

I definitely agree with the social media thing. I struggle with KZread... Watching motivational videos help me be productive but at the same time people are showing their newest or favortie purchase and it makes it harder for me to be content with our current possessions. I am struggling to find a balance.

I've been home with my 3 kids for almost 4 years now and I love everything you suggested. I also think it's great to have a hobby that is for you as the Mum and that it makes us better mums when we don't feel guilty about still doing things we enjoy.

@HollyHomebody

4 жыл бұрын

My Mum Makes I totally agree!! 💕 great tip

It helps when the person working outside of your home appreciates the work you do and the fact that it really is more of a 24 hour obligation, which you will also need a break from on occasion, like a girl's night out or something similar as an occasional change of pace... I never got that appreciation from my ex-husband. I also wanted to homeschool our kids, but he had zero appreciation for my efforts. So, I have worked outside of the home for many years... and my babes are grown and making me a happy grandma and I am still working outside the home... I am glad you get to enjoy this homemaker status!

@HollyHomebody

4 жыл бұрын

Carol Lee I am so sorry to hear that. 😔 I completely agree and I can’t imagine how hard that would’ve been to be unappreciated!

This was very helpful! I love the way you described looking at homemaking & how to change your mindset. Thank you 😊

This just made me feel better. Thank you so much for this video. Being a SAHM is so much more difficult than I ever imagined. Now I feel like I can do this.

I loved this video. Thanks for the tips. I am not married yet, but I work from home, so it has me thinking about how to manage my home and work when I eventually fill the house with kids

I love homemaking. I searched up homemaking and your video came up. 🤍

Loved the timer trick! I finished so many tasks today by doing it

Thank you Holly!

I love this and needed this so much, especially during this winter and being stuck in the house with two littles ❤️

@HollyHomebody

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you! Yes I feel your pain haha

Great tips! 😊 Thanks. I'm so happy I found this video. Just watched it twice. Definitely related tips. My favorite is the gratitude tip. It's funny because as much as I thank God in prayer every day and yes mean it from the heart ❤️... something about stopping to focus on how grateful I am, how the prayers have been answered, really refreshes my perspective in my daily life. Looking forward to checking out more videos.

@HollyHomebody

3 жыл бұрын

Glad it was helpful! I totally agree on the gratitude. thanks for watching!

Thank you Holly! You really inspire me. God bless you and your family very much! 💝

@HollyHomebody

4 жыл бұрын

sweetkentucky mama thank you so much 💕

Awesome tips thank you

Really nice video. Thank you for sharing these great practical tips. I searched 'homemaking inspiration' and your video came up. I like your chill vibe. Blessings to you :)

@HollyHomebody

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you! 💕

Hi, Holly! I'm not a mom (wish I was but wasn't so lucky) but I love your videos, always did! And these tips can really be adjusted to everyone who works from home, like me! Thank you so much! The Chester appearence was great! Blessings!❤️😍

@HollyHomebody

4 жыл бұрын

Tati Charms thank you so much for your continued support! 💕

Phenomenal video, thank you 🌹

Thankyou so much for this encouraging video. I have a 4 month old baby boy. I decided to be a stay at home mom. I love staying home with him but I’ve been struggling with feeling like I don’t have anyone to talk to and feeling like Im not doing enough. I love how you said to play podcasts or audio books throughout the day. I started doing that the last couple days and I noticed a huge difference with how I feel. This video just really encouraged me. ❤️

@HollyHomebody

2 жыл бұрын

So happy to hear that 💛 I am now 3 years in and it gets so much more fun once they can talk :)

I found your video refreshing. I have been using Audible for a month and am enjoying it. It is nice to listen to something interesting while cleaning and doing mundane things. What are some of your favorite books?

Oh wow, this first thought is so true. My husband decorated and chose all the furniture himself and I gave in, even though my taste is different. I often dont feel like cleaning a space that I wouldnt have chosen that way

@lateonaname

2 жыл бұрын

That would be awful 😣 those things would not be getting taken care of in my house. I’m grateful my husband leaves it to me… I grew up in a house that my dad decorated basically like one whole man cave or a tavern 😕 but in actuality my mom didn’t seem to really care 🤷🏻‍♀️

Loved all these i cant wait to get married Im preparing☺

Great video love it so much :)

@HollyHomebody

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you! 💕

I love your name!!! I share the same sentiments on my channel. Your content here is beautiful! Happy Homemaking!! 🤎🐿🤍🤎🐿🤍

@HollyHomebody

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks and welcome!!

That gratitude for your home is really hard for me. We live in an old drafty trailer, with hideous wallpaper and floors peeling up and counter tops also peeling up 😑 i hate it. Its my biggest struggle. Thanks for the video.

@pjwilliams564

3 жыл бұрын

It is hard when your space is not nice. Try to focus on being grateful that you have a home....if you don't have to live with in-laws or have roommates, be thankful for that...be thankful for warm blankets, running water...if you have a washer/dryer, be glad you don't have to go to the laundry mat, if it's in a safe neighborhood, be glad you don't have to live in fear. And try to make one spot in the trailer that's pretty and keep your eyes focused there.

I love the tip about setting a timer. :) Ah I wish I had more self discipline with cleaning. I wonder though if now being a full time mom and homemaker do you miss Etsy & graphic design at all?

@HollyHomebody

4 жыл бұрын

Austėja Rimkutė I surprisingly don’t! It was hard for me to let go of just from an identity place I think? If that makes sense? But I feel creatively fulfilled with my KZread channel and projects around the house so I don’t feel like I’m missing anything. I could see me opening a store again in the future, but my life feels very happy and full right now 💕

@austejarimkute9111

4 жыл бұрын

@@HollyHomebody Aw, that's great! :)

Thank you Holly! Great tips! I absolutely love your dress! It’s so feminine and pretty. Where did you get it!?

@HollyHomebody

2 жыл бұрын

thank you! it's actually just a shirt - from Loft I believe a few years ago :)

Do you still freelance and have a website?

Social media is destructive. It ruined my life and I quit. I have my life back again

Holly, what a blessing to this generation in glorifying God; a pioneer to Godly marriage reformation. Let me know if you want a copy of my book: The Pursuit of Marriage Oneness: The Key to Marital Success.

Homemaking videos make me feel seen. I want more traditional friends😢

I wish this video helped lol but after 13 yrs the burnout runs much deeper than these tips lol been there done all that