I wish I was as socially confident as my dog.

@narasimhahm321

5 жыл бұрын

@@jlinus7251 😂😂😂😂😂😂

@LalisaManoban-qp4wt

5 жыл бұрын

@@jlinus7251 😂😂😂😂

@cinesterg6444

5 жыл бұрын

Take some actions bro no one said you can't be socially confident!

@heatherg1296

5 жыл бұрын

Lol if that was your opener to me irl, I'd be your friend lol.

@janina873

5 жыл бұрын

Scarlot Raven 😁

My problem is more that I don't actually have anything to say....

@friedbraincells9414

5 жыл бұрын

I relate to this on so many levels like are we the same person.

@shaziaayub3256

5 жыл бұрын

Same with me, in my geography class I sit next to this boy and my crush sits behind him and I'm just silent for the whole lesson cause there's no one to talk to, and I can't start a conversation. And even teachers ask me a question I panick and just mummble and everyone starts taking about me, everyone knows I'm the shy Lonley girl, but at home I'm like a boss I'm so load and crazy, I'm a different person at home and a different person at school. I wish I could fit in, #shy Squad

@briahershey3822

5 жыл бұрын

SAME

@Adam-xd8df

5 жыл бұрын

Then dont agree with people opinion all the time I have the same problem

@comradesam3382

5 жыл бұрын

This

i once heard someone say “ppl aren’t thinking of that embarrassing thing u did. everyone is too busy thinking of the embarrassing things they did.” and ever since then, everytime i do smth embarrassing, i tell myself that and i kinda feel better:D

@castitatis3976

5 жыл бұрын

I always care about what other people do and secretly cringe

@castitatis3976

5 жыл бұрын

But it doesnt change anything,you dont have to appeal to everyone

@xhmbx9548

5 жыл бұрын

@@castitatis3976 well then you suck!! Cringe on this 😂😂😂

@crzydwrf5876

5 жыл бұрын

I actually thought like this too even in real embarassing moments, and like 3 years after i just realize it was actually embarassing and keep thinking about it lmao

@castitatis3976

5 жыл бұрын

@@crzydwrf5876 ahhaha

It's so annoying when people say, "That's the most I've heard you talk before." I really try so hard to be more social, but I just can't. 😟

@frankiemffocean

4 жыл бұрын

Ikr i just say "i talk i just dont talk to you" and most of the time they stand there in silence and being awkward. Im working on being more confident. Being social was really hard and is still hard for me, but you got this and i believe you can overcome this💛

@sarah-dq5rl

4 жыл бұрын

@@frankiemffocean Thank you.

@tasoskarampetsios8310

4 жыл бұрын

Since I'm being told that a lot especially by people who don't know me that well I can tell you that it's a pretty good set-up for you to say something funny to keep the conversation going so I really haven't had a problem with that you can try it

@anilliteratefuck4747

4 жыл бұрын

I know every time I’m with my mom if I do anything like say something a little bit quiet and a person goes say that again, my mom will go sorry he’s shy. And that messes with my head so much and then I feel even more self conscious about it.

@nicolecastro6714

4 жыл бұрын

istoleyachristmascookies yes,just because I don’t talk to you doesn’t mean I don’t talk,like you feel more comfortable talking around other people than the rest

this is how i defeated shyness: life is short

@kampakidd9727

7 жыл бұрын

Expose Child that is effective

@trollvidde

7 жыл бұрын

life is too short for memes

@gautekjelstadli553

7 жыл бұрын

Nothing is too short for memes....

@gautekjelstadli553

7 жыл бұрын

except for your "business" (p*enis, if you wondered...)

@stef3927

7 жыл бұрын

Expose Child yeah, and the quote "you only live once" xD

0:08 "this is gonna be useful to you if you've ever been out" *oh ok* *closes video*

@CaliforniaChurro

7 жыл бұрын

greenhound lol ikr

@Lunk42

7 жыл бұрын

greenhound Lol I haven't been out either.

@justcr00z1ng3

7 жыл бұрын

XD nice. That's exactly like my xD

@stickbodybighead

7 жыл бұрын

greenhound I am such Ginny Weasley in chamber of secrets when she first meets Harry. I have the same exact problem just with stage fright

@janisberzins2703

7 жыл бұрын

Out? Like knocked out? I have never been too, but I did landed some sweet knockouts. Why suddenly he started to talk about shyness? I mean, wtf?

What really chokes me up is when I'm in a social situation and I feel like I'm doing really well... And then somebody calls me out for being 'too quiet.' I almost never recover from that.

@elissavetargiriou2407

4 жыл бұрын

I feel you...

@omidijioyinkansola

4 жыл бұрын

Well everyone has their own opinion. and that shouldnt limit what you feel about yourself, you are bold confident and strong even in your silence. Never try to be like anyone else be you and improve on being the best of you.

@neverstopaskingwhy1934

4 жыл бұрын

ur putting there opinion about u on a pedestal think about how much u value other over urslef

@brinplsplsplstextme-jaiden7223

3 жыл бұрын

What I do is make a joke around it.However way someone calls you out for being quiet, everyone’s attention diverts towards you. So take the opportunity to be funny, have a laugh about it.

@kassard1

3 жыл бұрын

I had to learn to throw wit at those kind of comments. Sometimes, depending on who said it, I would say I was absorbing all the information everyone revealing about themselves for future use and then give an arched eyebrow and an evil grin. Later when I became more confident and loud people would comment when I went quiet asking if I was okay, "yeah, I'm just being quiet to freak ya'll out." Again depended on the person who makes these comments, friends who KNOW you know it's anything they need to bring to your attention, people that mostly say these thing are saying that THEY are uncomfortable with your quietness and that's THEIR problem, not yours.

Confidence is literally a mindset that you can force

@possibilityyz3351

3 жыл бұрын

Hey

@gachadaisy

3 жыл бұрын

Heeyyyyy~

@bunluz

3 жыл бұрын

Heyyyyyyy~

@MrNikkiNoo

3 жыл бұрын

Heeeyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy!

@JJ-qh5yc

3 жыл бұрын

Heyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

How I overcame shyness. 1) No one cares if you're cool or uncool. They got themselves to care for. 2) Everyone is anxious about something and that gave me a major relief about mine. 3) Just talk your mind out. it's a burden if you didn't.

@bstandsforbuilding5567

7 жыл бұрын

8) Bip boppity oodele goo.

@RufaelSolo

7 жыл бұрын

9) Hakuna Matata

@RufaelSolo

7 жыл бұрын

+Alexander Delarge 12) People who care about who's gay or not are probably gay themselves.

@chris-ws7fb

7 жыл бұрын

lol you say that like being gay is bad don't trigger people

@danethenice

7 жыл бұрын

+SeagullG don't be so negative about your sexuality man.

I am greatly confident with shy people. So greatly. But with confident people I shrink. What I do is I imagine anyone I am socialising with is shy. Therefore I'll feel the need to listen to them and help them feel accepted. After all, everyone fears to be judged. It's not only you, it could be the person you are planning to approach themselves.

@kime5776

5 жыл бұрын

Woahh, I always have the exact same issue, thanks for the tip!

@aimeeastorga210

4 жыл бұрын

I Thought I was the only one Lol, Tbh a lot of my friends are introverts and I become confident when I'm around them. Lmfao xD I can do a lot of craziness/wildness since they got mah bacccc ~ ^^

@esther9210

4 жыл бұрын

I’m the opposite. When ppl are talkative, it causes me to become talkative

@mallorielouann546

4 жыл бұрын

Wow, I am the same way. This comment just opened my eyes. I had no idea that others are like that around people too. I am going to try and convince myself to get into this mindset. Thank you.

@marinasironiabad4207

4 жыл бұрын

Oh good I relate to that in a whole other level,also if there is a group of 4 people I stress easily because I’m quiet.

I can't even poop when someone standing outside my bathroom door

@roshi1645

4 жыл бұрын

DR. oxygen TeXseng I can’t even go toilet when someone is at my house, or I’m at someone’s house , I get so shy I just wait till they leave

@snowflake8629

4 жыл бұрын

OMG ME TOO😂😂😂😂😂😂😭😭😭

@skkzzzz

4 жыл бұрын

SAMEEEEEW

@sey8893

4 жыл бұрын

DR. oxygen TeXseng , i relate so much

@itskylierae

4 жыл бұрын

OMG SAMMEEE😂

I talked to a stranger yesterday while in the elevator. No kidding i feel really proud about that. Slowly but surely cracking that shell!!😁

@spiritoftherain5852

3 жыл бұрын

If that would be me I would pass out on that elevator

@enniswhalen2428

3 жыл бұрын

BWN - Great that you felt some sort of progress, but, please, be careful . . . .

@spiritoftherain5852

3 жыл бұрын

@@enniswhalen2428 THAS IMPORTANT

@nikfarah9036

3 жыл бұрын

social anxiety club : we are proud of you

@sonicfx5431

3 жыл бұрын

@@enniswhalen2428 what do you mean? Like seriously I'm interested

The more people who call me shy or ‘quiet’ the more I act that way. It’s really annoying cause I can’t control it. Like when I finally open up to someone and am talking, if they suddenly mention that I am talking for once and not quiet I will close up again. People always say to me -Omg you’re taking for once -The quiet girl is talking!! -wow you actually have a voice!! UGH I NEED HELP

@mattthegamer144p6

6 жыл бұрын

Isabella Bedford same here I really don’t like the attention, every time I end up actually talking to someone, someone else would be like He’s actually talking

@princessfluffybottom1933

6 жыл бұрын

Exactly guys. I used to get people do that to me all the time. Just forget about all the people that you 'think' are judging you. It's all in your head, they perobably have better things to do lol. That's how I stopped feeling bad when people did it. On the other hand, it's not their intention to actually make you feel bad. They are probably just judgemental and ignorant. They probably judge so much that they are immune and don't realise that what they are doing is bad.

@doodgeslagenmug

6 жыл бұрын

Isabella Bedford same. When i said something once someone just said: it is talking. I was like :(

@Pau-il6mg

6 жыл бұрын

OMG somone that understands me this literally happens to me since 1 grade and now I’m in 7 grade :(

@chiaraguillen2324

6 жыл бұрын

So relatable hahaha

It's actually amazing to find someone on KZread giving advice that doesn't feel like they're talking out of their ass and really makes you feel like you're walking away with useful information.

@Charismaoncommand

7 жыл бұрын

Appreciate that!

@noneofyourbusiness8252

7 жыл бұрын

Tom!? Agreed. I can't tell you the amount of vacuous crap found in many educational/instructional/motivational youtube channels. Stuff like: "Tip #1: Greet people with a smile." Charisma On Demand will sometimes tell you the obvious but will also put it into context and explore the subject with more depth. I appreaciate that it analyses the mindsets behind these issues of shyness, lack of confidence and self esteem. Great channel.

@pushpas.6679

6 жыл бұрын

Tom!? ,search alpha m, 👊

@amaracea

6 жыл бұрын

Tom!? Is that you Tom!? omg!

@BLMeredith87

6 жыл бұрын

coltonw83 jr. Problem with Alpha M is his videos are guaranteed to have huge waffle about sponsors, sometimes you can just tell instantly his videos were made just for his newest product plug.

I hate it when you hangout with a group of people you know but aren't really close with, and you try to join in their conversation, but you can't relate to anything they're talking about. 😔

@sarahibrahim8642

3 жыл бұрын

Your end sentence is very relatable but I never hang out with a group of people . I’m around one in my bus and at school but it’s not like they had a choice to invite me

@adamwyatt1902

3 жыл бұрын

Just because you don't know how to relate, you can try to understand, and that means a lot to others. Especially if owning up to not knowing much about the subject and asking them to teach me more if it's something they enjoy talking about.

@biollante746

2 жыл бұрын

Uhh, if you try to look at it logically (probably not what you should do in this situation but I will), If you cannot join in their conversation/ talk to them, because you can't relate to anything they're talking about, that means, if they're talking about something you CAN relate, you will be able to join the conversation/ talk to them Now, how do you make them do that... Bring up the topics you relate to yourself? idk I mean, if they're hanging out with you, that must mean they should be willing to talk to you about stuff you talk about? Ugh, the fact that you aren't really close with them is making this difficult!

@tfahad2051

2 жыл бұрын

If they're laughing at something, ask them to tell you that story and they'll be happy to tell you because they also want to laugh.

@Black.Sabbath

2 жыл бұрын

@@adamwyatt1902 Why would I want to be "taught more" about pregnancy or nails?

“How to stop shyness in 60 seconds” *video is **9:45** minutes long* My whole life is a lie

@legends3ud

5 жыл бұрын

Carlitos Espinosa LMAO literally

@templarexemplar35

5 жыл бұрын

He meant the actual process he explained should take 60 seconds

@carlitosespinosa

5 жыл бұрын

Templar Exemplar woooosh

@templarexemplar35

5 жыл бұрын

@@carlitosespinosa oof I got wooshed

@strangechild

5 жыл бұрын

That’s what I was thinking lol

I have a tip. Just don’t care what anyone thinks. When you have a thought in your head, don’t replay it over and over to make sure it’s perfect, just say it. Also, if you want to make a friend, just go for it. Who cares what they say? Who cares what they think? It’s your life. Gain confidence

@shaziaayub3256

5 жыл бұрын

Min Yoongi thank you, I just remember this comment and I start to be me, I'm slowly getting better, thanks so much

@livvy177

5 жыл бұрын

Easier said than done haha

@nicholasnoel01

5 жыл бұрын

yeahhh👏👏

@s4muraik290

5 жыл бұрын

You just helped me gain 3 friends in my first day somewhere new ty so much

@user-sx7fu5ir2f

5 жыл бұрын

That works until someone actually walks up to you and says something

I wasn't shy when I was younger... but all the sudden I kinda just shut myself out. Sure I'm going through that middle school time where you feel kinda insecure, but it seems worst for me. I'm basically one of the quietest people in my grade, and that has some benefits, I don't get in trouble, but my range of friends is kinda small. There's a somewhat odd group of people that I'm kinda just nice to, but when I sit with them because they seem lonely, I act like an idiot for a hour before I tell myself, calm down.

@midniteriko2231

5 жыл бұрын

Drew Stephenson me 2 but now im anti soical

@swissairguh9493

5 жыл бұрын

MidniteRiko I'm just to busy worrying about me and what to say I don't actually say it so most of the time i don't say anything

@toastaex9679

5 жыл бұрын

Drew Stephenson i can relate to that so much

@savbaddie5425

5 жыл бұрын

Drew Stephenson OMG SAME. I’m just so shy. It’s hard for me to open up to anyone anymore. And the people I hang around aren’t the people I really want to hangout with. I just hang with them because I don’t want to be alone at school. Idk what happened to me. I stress because of the fact I can’t even be myself anymore💔

@ChapulinMarijuano

5 жыл бұрын

Savbaddie1 Xxx same

I'm just reading the comments because it's actually helping me have confidence lol

@bastac2993

3 жыл бұрын

yea it helps me see that ım not the only one xd

@urmomluver1169

3 жыл бұрын

@@bastac2993 Gucci Gucci flip flops something something in my socks

@kgkomrin

3 жыл бұрын

Where's that pfp from

@nukar5193

3 жыл бұрын

Wronggggg,. the comments will make you feel okay at being shy and awkward. And if your seeing this video, I don’t think that’s what you want. You can Try this, whenever you see a comment you can maybe relate to, say to yourself I can no longer relate to this comment and then don’t like the comment at all and process what just happened😌I hope this help

@willtrojan8854

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah same

“Confidence comes later, the actions of confidence come first!”

@skyhunter520

3 жыл бұрын

This is the best advise ive seen in the comments so far.

@xRiPw0lFx

2 жыл бұрын

This is fire 🔥 that was great

@Brah-bb8of

Жыл бұрын

@@skyhunter520 so I have to be confident before being confident

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@___Denis___

5 жыл бұрын

yeah lol

@fairytailrose6277

5 жыл бұрын

Exactly my thoughts lol

@evalolacookie

5 жыл бұрын

Read more

@masonpritchard4560

5 жыл бұрын

Lol.....me

@jarensprague5316

5 жыл бұрын

Same

How to stop shyness: Step 1. Do things that you don't do when you're shy Thanks professor.

@mathew633man

7 жыл бұрын

I don't think farting in public is such a good idea

@Shireen-pj7rh

7 жыл бұрын

Good one 😁😁

@callum7081

7 жыл бұрын

Matt shitting in public?

@TheOfficialTeyloh

7 жыл бұрын

I think you are missing the point...you're supposed to let yourself feel shy. So you will feel really bad for 30 seconds, because you're nervous and you have to let your body process the shyness. Once you do that, you'll naturally just feel better because you know it can't get any worse.

@mathew633man

7 жыл бұрын

***** i actually like your analysis.

“It never ceases to amaze me: We all love ourselves more than other people, but care more about their opinion than our own.” - Marcus Aurelius

@mondraymondo

Жыл бұрын

Fascinating!!

@scholaroftheworldalternatehist

Жыл бұрын

Because that is how we judge our worth - by comparing to others.

I hate being shy it keeps me from doing what I wanna do in life. I wanna be a dancer but I'm shy and people are so judgy. :( I hate myself sometimes.

@danm1063

4 жыл бұрын

Join school clubs, any job in customer service. It'll help a lot

@elonstephen2321

4 жыл бұрын

@Asia Brown ur nice

@AyamatsuSakura94

4 жыл бұрын

I'm dealing with that right now!!! I want to learn hip hop but I feel awful.... and old...

@yara4486

4 жыл бұрын

“Judgy” .... HAHAHAHAHA-

@Moana_moo

4 жыл бұрын

Savannah Marshmallow i’m even more shy in social situations than on stage. Like stage is the only place i get lose. It’s just that too crowded places drain my energy. And many of my friends are so comfortable in big crowds while i love to party and dance i feel the best in a less crowded area of the club yet they want to be in the Center and it drains me...in less crowded places i am still shy but i feel more comfortable...I’m a performer though

So, my friends dared me to introduce myself to someone randomly on the street (because I'm really socially awkward) so I walked up to this girl and said, "Hey, I've never met you, you're really pretty, I'm shy, and my friends dared me to do this. Can I get your name?" Now we're friends, and I don't know how to end this comment.

@Spacemanfilms2002

6 жыл бұрын

Princess TNT are you guys more than friends

@RenzoIsHereYT

6 жыл бұрын

Princess TNT your balls just got bigger in that moment

@glassunicorn1525

6 жыл бұрын

that's awesome

@siencetalk7470

6 жыл бұрын

damn you have a big one there man.

@MrFox_Adventures

6 жыл бұрын

raggex X good luck! definitely can be hard to make friends if your not used to doing so. biggest part is the continuous effort to get out of whatever is holding you back, and getting out of the comfort zone into what is actually going to help you progress

Great now my boss fired me when he saw i looked like I couldnt care less during our meeting

@kj5960

7 жыл бұрын

IM CRYING

@chrissabry7529

7 жыл бұрын

Then you did it wrong

@Whxyte

7 жыл бұрын

humudu oh hey, you might wanna try to keep an attentive face (just keep your eyes on the person speaking even as your brain blanks out, nod a bit when the person pauses to take a breathe). like charlie says, to the degree that you can. there are certainly a lot of places where you still have to be uptight, esp work meetings. however if you can tweak and see how much you can get away with, then you can slowly adjust to the lowest level of energy state in the work meeting without getting 'caught' and use it as a reset time. or even easier is to take a toilet break and use the time to reset a bit.

@oldaccount133

7 жыл бұрын

humudu 😂😂 Sorry, but dude, not to be mean, but that seriously made my day. Have at least a little bit more interest next time. 😉

@nataliecao9409

7 жыл бұрын

Then ur boss sucks

His smile is bigger than my future

@ems3599

4 жыл бұрын

Everything is bigger than my future

@YourSuzerain

4 жыл бұрын

He's low-key hot

@joshua_hurtado

4 жыл бұрын

Andreas Viks LMAOOO STOP OMG

@ejej_shej7958

4 жыл бұрын

@@YourSuzerain i agree ngl

@jupiter1852

3 жыл бұрын

Lmao same

When someone talks to me and I don’t have anything to say or relate to, so I just awkwardly laugh quietly and just stand there. Also when someone laughs behind me I always expects them to laugh at me.

@mohamedkerouf3601

4 жыл бұрын

(bad english i know) I used to be like you You just need to put this head in you head "nobody care's about you"

@mohamedkerouf3601

4 жыл бұрын

It helped me so much

@bonbonpony

3 жыл бұрын

@@mohamedkerouf3601 Thanks, now I have depression ._. Just kidding ;)

@friendlyneighborhoodloser2639

3 жыл бұрын

i get like that too but what you have to realize is that everyone else feels like everyone is watching them too. everyone is so focused on themselves and their friends and their problems that they’re probably hardly noticing you. if they are noticing you, it’s most likely for a good reason. like when i notice someone it’s almost always because i like something about their appearance or outfit or whatever. they’re not laughing at you, believe me

@biollante746

2 жыл бұрын

@@friendlyneighborhoodloser2639 People also notice things they don't like

Step One : Reset Step two : Open up Step three : Creative in conversations Courage is key word

@ThySheepie

6 жыл бұрын

BAngelZ 09 But you see, that doesn’t just help everyone. That comment can help people that are quite new to this, but resolutions don’t just happen as easy as this. For example, me.

@yingqiuzhou133

6 жыл бұрын

Grunge Lord it is true

@uditchakraborty7741

6 жыл бұрын

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@dm7539

6 жыл бұрын

BAngelZ 09 no, save it and if you fail, load up ur previous save

@jimenamorote3105

6 жыл бұрын

I can’t do that

I had to act in front of my school. Most of the people were fine with it, and I was fine with it. I was expecting to get a small roll or just be a background character... but I got the lead role for some reason. I’m fine with speaking in front of people, doing speeches, things like that, but I’ve never had an important lead role. I was nervous and I literally couldn’t think that I could do it. Skip to the day of the play, I was backstage. I ran up to one of my classmates and told them that I couldn’t do it. I broke down and I got nervous. My friend told me that all I had to do was be myself and make people laugh. I couldn’t back out at the moment, so I just got on stage. Hundreds of eyes were on me, but I kept going. I said the first line... and then people laughed. I liked that my comedy and acting was making them laugh, so I kept going. Now I’m in drama club and a theater geek. I’ve been in so many plays and met so many people. Just take a chance! No matter if you’re scared or not. I took a chance and it changed my life. You should too!

It used to bother me a lot when people say, “are you always this quiet?” or when I’m thinking I’ve been talking a lot or loud, and people say, “you are so quiet.” I’ve gotten over it. I once had a boss tell me, I need to stop being so quiet and speak up if I want to get somewhere in life. Well I’m a nurse, and my patients love me. I also have a wonderful husband and three beautiful kids. I get most of my thoughts out on my channel or through some type of social media or writing.

@nova.miller

Жыл бұрын

Somebody that took some acting classes for a while said this "Our acting coach there would make us act 1 by 1 and ask us what the person's mistakes were. Everyone would say a few different mistakes. Like how they talked quite or something. And the coach would say 'there were like a 100 mistakes there. But you only noticed a few of them because you have those mistakes too" I don't know if it's true cause I actually talk pretty loud even though I'm shy but I notice when they are talking quiet

Is it just me or when I wear something covering my whole face or something like a mask, I have more confidence?

@skyhunter520

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly!

@bonbonpony

3 жыл бұрын

Well then now is your perfect time :q

@daydreamer-ty8fs

3 жыл бұрын

Same

@sarahibrahim8642

3 жыл бұрын

I have less my eyes just don’t look good and I feel like I’m the ugliest in my class .

@sara-xc2ti

2 жыл бұрын

same

how to defeat shyness : *L O T S O F T E Q U I L A*

@danielsuelzle4364

5 жыл бұрын

this actually worked for me haha. Like I would get drunk and remember how I acted, then do the same at parties sober and I learned social skills lol

@desertedlandz

5 жыл бұрын

Daniel Suelzle yo why is that smart

@HondaS-fk1mi

5 жыл бұрын

YES

@user-yn4pu2ux5l

5 жыл бұрын

2 shots of vodka

@maszamap3888

5 жыл бұрын

Little bit of drugs

how to eliminate shyness for guys. 1. Tell yourself "I'm not a bitch" and go for it. Sounds simple but it works. The harder decisions in life are normally the more beneficial ones. It's easy to be lazy, easy to fantasize about what you could/would do. Harder to take action and risk failure/rejection. It is the worst to let yourself down. That's probably one thing that leads to mid life crisis is you look back like "i should of/could of done this." Fuck all that, just go for it. You will feel proud of yourself. Hope this comment helps at least one person.

@davidtendernuts6982

7 жыл бұрын

penile 1 Actually yes, I do. Not everyone that uses the internet is an anti social house freak. I'm giving advice based on my own experiences.

@davidtendernuts6982

7 жыл бұрын

***** can't argue with that. amen

@davidtendernuts6982

7 жыл бұрын

Alexander Delarge you made the mistake of saying it out loud right in front of her my friend.

@idontknowwhatmyusernamesho5540

7 жыл бұрын

+David TenderNuts I have crippling depression

@Slechy_Lesh

7 жыл бұрын

+anythingnew If you're interested in shallow women - which you must be, else you'd have had more exposure generally - maybe you need to rethink things a bit.

“Anxiety is like not being able to live with yourself or express yourself” - Axel Dobbins

I just don't feel like the thoughts in my head are important enough to be spoken or engaged in a conversation.

@taebae5410

4 жыл бұрын

oh my goodness same.. thing is im into learning languages and this is sooo much more amplified when you struggle even being able to say simple thoughts. sometimes i just shut down and dont hardly say anything. i dont like it because it can affect others negatively, but i dont know of much else i can do

@dylon4906

4 жыл бұрын

He mentions that in this video tho

@benlewis720

4 жыл бұрын

It’s worth it, “chime” in as he said in the video! Just little bits of expressing your thoughts are great and get easier with “chiming” in

@neverstopaskingwhy1934

4 жыл бұрын

you're not beig yourself when you're shy think about it my man truth

@fdb1539

4 жыл бұрын

So? Listen to what other people talk about. I guarantee the conversations these people have are FAR dumber and more unimportant than the thoughts you have in your head.

How to stop shyness in 60 seconds *Video is ******9:44****** *minutes long*

@Waterlily321

7 жыл бұрын

alejandro jara in real life it'll take you a minute to do this, he couldn't explain all this in 60 seconds, come on!

@alejandrojara6872

7 жыл бұрын

Eleanor Its A Joke Come One!

@Szobiz

7 жыл бұрын

alejandro jara my first thought

@smoke4131

7 жыл бұрын

the video streched by 1 sec it's 9:45

@tutorialgirl4469

7 жыл бұрын

alejandro jara IKR

ive gotten to the point where i dont want to fuck with anybody. i think im ok with being alone now. its wierd

@marcudan3453

6 жыл бұрын

Stony Tark you are like me bro.. i thought i'm the only one

@poisonpotato1

6 жыл бұрын

Same

@simonkitty1910

6 жыл бұрын

Same, I hate talking to people looking at people and it's just ugh

@isaacnewton2844

6 жыл бұрын

Leah Howze Rip mate

@simonkitty1910

6 жыл бұрын

But, still don't know why I have friends idk I weird.

Some advice for people who get nervous in social situations: stop thinking about yourself as somebody who gets nervous in social situations. When you’re talking to someone, don’t think “oh god, I’m talking to someone right now, time to panic” instead, just take a deep breath, calm yourself. The other person really doesn’t care as much as you think they do, and I bet they’re feeling self conscious too. Instead, tell yourself that you’re confident and relaxed. Become interested in what the other person is saying. Focus outward, stop trying to see yourself from the other persons eyes. Ask questions, make remarks. If you’re relaxed, questions will automatically pop into your head.

A friend of mine told me that apart from me,no one knows who i really am , so why believe what they say about me? She was right all along.

@Jack1994hoo

2 жыл бұрын

Because the way they perceive you influe ces how they trest you and if you have to interact with them frequently thst can be a problem?

Longest 60 seconds of my life.

@lukemai336

6 жыл бұрын

ikr

@ahmadshabeeb9299

6 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@iirfaxxn3637

6 жыл бұрын

Crownz LOL

@thefriendsoffantasies8045

6 жыл бұрын

Same 😂

@andreasrs69

6 жыл бұрын

Spartos That's bc it's 10 mins

So I guess I'm not the only socially awkward person here •_•

@publicacc4295

6 жыл бұрын

Steve Yo what you have to say doesn't matter

@fractionpassion

6 жыл бұрын

If that’s you in the profile pic then you’re hot af.

@WhatTEVER3459

6 жыл бұрын

No...no you're not

@nickyennerell

6 жыл бұрын

Yep

@Augkiyoo

6 жыл бұрын

Steve Yo I'm also socially awkward

shyness is a quality that implies a divergent way of being that is undervalued & stigmatized for non-neutral, motivated reasons, ("everyone should be and act in the world in the same ways"), and the impulse to "kill" it is quite alarming, because it suggests shy people should... not exist? SHY PEOPLE ARE VALID AND VALUABLE. I want a video from a shy person teaching loud people to be more shy or self aware. Loud people are often grotesque to those of us with higher sensitivity.

@Black.Sabbath

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly, why aren't extroverts the problem?

You want to stop being shy, start a fight every day with a stranger and lose it like in the movie 'fight club '

@bobwoww8384

3 жыл бұрын

aziz adventures Sounds incredibly emotionally effective however; compellingly psychotic. Cant see prolonged success outside of the truly mental. Perhaps understanding exactly what you mean is enuf to classify me as mental AF but that actually makes sense

Bruh, being in school and not knowing where to put your arms is so fuckin true

@resinds.p4898

6 жыл бұрын

Trevor Houff what can i do for that .

@MortyMortyMorty

6 жыл бұрын

Resinds .P *Cut them off*

@MortyMortyMorty

6 жыл бұрын

Resinds .P jk dont take it seriously

@brokencop7629

6 жыл бұрын

WhiteWalkerPepe too late

@saberfan

6 жыл бұрын

typing this with my nose

I just have a question you are obviously amazing with the information you have, but the question is where did you learn all this?

@Charismaoncommand

7 жыл бұрын

Mostly from self study and observation. I wish there was a school that taught this, but I've yet to find one

@h_dls7993

7 жыл бұрын

Okay thank you for responding, and thank you for all the amazing videos

@vangelicest4183

7 жыл бұрын

Charisma on Command You're hot

@exodos2499

7 жыл бұрын

Vangelicest gayy

@mschell350

7 жыл бұрын

we spend like 5 years learning about the pythagorean theorem in school when we could actually be learning useful things like this !!! i am the definition of shy. I really needed this video. Thank you

Maybe some of us experienced being bullied that's why we don't have confidence and we always hide . Being shy or socially awkward sometimes misinterpret other people , some see you as arrogant , shy or mad.

Let's just take a moment to appreciate his smile at the thumbnail.

I usually find that if I unzip my fly and flash my gear to the nearest person it helps a ton

@melissapetraz2134

7 жыл бұрын

DaNyAaLcEc haha best comment here

@mikeymagic3739

7 жыл бұрын

DaNyAaLcEc wut..?

@ethanlaurette9185

7 жыл бұрын

DaNyAaLcEc Just don't get that confident, or you could be charged with sexual assualt lol.

At the club me: “hey what’s up! where’s the photo copier”

@kaylafisher3691

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂

@kamimura8289

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

I don't talk much in social situations, (parties, going out to eat, etc). So when I do talk, everyone listens to me.

I’m not the slightest bit shy when I’m around my friends. In fact I’m the most confident in the friend group. But when I’m not around my friends, my social skills fall apart

@slemanramadhan6525

Ай бұрын

Same broo💀💀💀

Hmm, this is not a problem for me. I usually space out while people talk, then I have no idea what they are talking about. Then I space out again because...whats the point anymore! Goddamn, I will die alone, wont I?!

@cosmicchaos1878

7 жыл бұрын

me too

@thestrawberryshogun8373

7 жыл бұрын

I'm guilty of this omfg yes!

@Manuel-jr6op

7 жыл бұрын

Sammme

@KevsUploads

7 жыл бұрын

Eric Cartman facts

@kathleenl.a6414

7 жыл бұрын

This happens to me too. lol

When i want to say something i just cant say it ...

@doodgeslagenmug

6 жыл бұрын

Mateja Stankovic Me too, it’s awfull and depressing.

@arelitorres2760

5 жыл бұрын

Damn it happens to me too 😓

@MinYoongi-my9wr

5 жыл бұрын

I have a tip. Just don’t care what anyone thinks. When you have a thought in your head, don’t replay it over and over to make sure it’s perfect, just say it. Also, if you want to make a friend, just go for it. Who cares what they say? Who cares what they think? It’s your life. Gain confidence

@doodgeslagenmug

5 жыл бұрын

Min Yoongi you’re right! No rumination. Thanks!

@savbaddie5425

5 жыл бұрын

Min Yoongi I knowww but when I do say I’m not going to replay that thought again it eventually keeps popping up in my head and it’s just so hard to talk to the people I really wanna be friends with.🙁

Im REALLY shy, theres literally no cure.

@calioutuuiu6432

4 жыл бұрын

iiSimplyBubbly maybe becoming someone else

@mchelibob

4 жыл бұрын

iiSimplyBubbly same brooo

@neverstopaskingwhy1934

4 жыл бұрын

you're not beig yourself when you're shy think about it my man truth

@sznity594

3 жыл бұрын

dont try to be a different person, afterall an original is worth more than a copy

@ShadowWolf_

3 жыл бұрын

Do you atleast talk at school?at all?I know I don't which is a reason I don't have any friends and never had...hopefully you have friends..

I don’t understand myself, how do I know almost everybody in my school and everybody know me but I can’t even learn how to be social and maintain these relationships 😭😭 I just feel so out of place

@fdb1539

4 жыл бұрын

You feel out of place. The solution? Actually be out of place. If you feel even more out of place, go somewhere else. If you feel in place, congratulations.

@TheRealTact

2 жыл бұрын

@@fdb1539 what?

pro tip: you can watch these videos all you want, but it won't do anything for you if you don't go out and practice what he says. "If you want something you've never had, you'll have to do something you've never done".

@Charismaoncommand

7 жыл бұрын

I concur!

@bernaa1888

6 жыл бұрын

Is that a Les Brown quote?

Is it me or does his mouth looks edited?

@arelitorres2760

5 жыл бұрын

😂💀

@lifeashami402

5 жыл бұрын

Narutske Umazachi no I see it too

@Codemanlex

5 жыл бұрын

Narutske Umazachi 😂😁😂😁

@dezkightz

5 жыл бұрын

its not just you lol

@blazinbytes9099

5 жыл бұрын

*glass shatters* himym fans will get this

when someone says that I’m shy and why im so quiet I became more shy and quiet . Im really trying to hard to be not one. I often cry because of my shyness , its really depressing... i dont know what to do in my life anymore its really hard.

@strawberrymilkshake112

2 жыл бұрын

Profile picture source?

I LITERALLY WANT TO CRY WHENEVER SOMEONE TALKS TO ME LIKE .🧍‍♀️

"How to stop shyness in 60 seconds" Answer: get drunk

@KADU1978

6 жыл бұрын

It works wonders every single time but be aware, in office or professional situations alcohol is quite hard to mask and can easily backfire real quick.... Don't ask me how do I know ...LOL

@mireyasalazar1784

6 жыл бұрын

Dark Psionic 😂😂

@Peter-200

6 жыл бұрын

Worked for me

@lourancia

6 жыл бұрын

Dark Psionic So true

@kcalhoun8944

6 жыл бұрын

Dark Psionic no drunk i ain't officer

He makes it look easy af but in reality it's really not, at least for me.I'm too awkward.

@camilledoodle6069

6 жыл бұрын

iknow its hard but look your watching stuff like this means u value how to improve or learn n stuff don't give up

@miszBEB0x

6 жыл бұрын

camille doodle yes!!! we can do it guys

@hunterparker9988

6 жыл бұрын

DocZero hey me too I'm socially akward

@FrenchWhiteBread

6 жыл бұрын

DocZero same I gtg cry in my bed now

@dollyri1995

6 жыл бұрын

Hunter Parker yes DISTURBED!!

Aye but us shy people are the best once you really get to know us and we break our shell😌

For some reason I’m shy when my parents are near my classmates but without them, I feel comfortable to talk

1. walk outside 2. drop your pants 3. let them laugh 4. run away 5. cry it off cry it off

@phoenixzappa7366

7 жыл бұрын

cryy it offf

@MrNeurodrive

7 жыл бұрын

@PatrickAllenNL

7 жыл бұрын

8. Then get hit by a bus which catches fire

@danieltownsend8085

7 жыл бұрын

9. tell your mom's flirty friend that she looks really good

@bcnicholas123

7 жыл бұрын

10. get a restraining order placed on you

The problem for me is that I actually don't have anything to say .... I blank out or just stay silent.. like.. what should I say??, how do I maintain conversations.. I usually have really short conversations with strangers because I don't know what to ask ... this is a problem for because I want to do nursing as a career and *communication* is the one of the *MOST ESSENTIAL SKILLS* for this course 😢😭.. I Overthink a lot too which is soooooooo bad 😢

@g.j

5 жыл бұрын

ONCE FOREVER Twiceuu Just show interest towards the other person once you initiate the conversation,show interest to what they say. The other person will keep it going. Only hope it wont bore you though, so be sure you have genuine interests or maybe just practice it till it becomes your second nature. People like to talk about themselves after all.

@hemanth1453

5 жыл бұрын

same like me

@edgar7456

4 жыл бұрын

@@g.j But I try to talk with another introvert. It doesn't work because she doesn't talk, she's introvert or really shy idk but I can't speak with her because she just want to listen and I don't have anything to say

@esther9210

4 жыл бұрын

Ask a question, ask a question about their response and see if u can relate. If u don’t relate, repeat the steps.

@hapalapa8762

4 жыл бұрын

Does anyone else pick that shy person to talk to so u feel more confidence

I'm not shy I just really have nothing interesting to say.

@axziz0094

4 жыл бұрын

Samee

@MVPVIK

3 жыл бұрын

yeas

@afro990

3 жыл бұрын

Lange foaga ikrrr same

@langianimations416

3 жыл бұрын

@حارث يزن Hareth I do lol

@langianimations416

3 жыл бұрын

@حارث يزن Hareth I'm not I really just don't like talking 😆

So I am a shy, timid person and I don’t talk much. I also talk low so people would say “Can you speak up?”, “Talk louder I can’t hear you”, etc. My dad told me to stop being so timid and to be confident. Like... it’s not my fault I was born like this! It’s not my fault that I was autistic and couldn’t speak! I didn’t ask to have speech classes since I was 2! This is how I am and I feel like I’m being punished for it. Well they want me to not be timid... Imma show them what happens when I’m NOT timid...

I don't want to small talk with people I don't know, without sounding rude, some times I just don't care enough to talk to some people, I'm quite a lot of the time, and only talk when it's about something i have good input about, I don't believe in just talking for the sake of it, but when I do talk about things, it's really coming from somewhere of truth and something I have really thought about and has meaning and that way I'm really being me, not just talking because socially I feel like I should, but this is just how I feel, but as you said in the video, i think for people that want to be more open.

@shafwandito4724

6 жыл бұрын

Zyprox in short: YOU ARE INTROVERT

@Weloz92

5 жыл бұрын

Same. Many have said to me that, when I speak, everyone feels like that my opinion means serious business just because I won't flap my mouth around all the time like a lot of people.

@gorrillawarfair

5 жыл бұрын

Same, i fucking hate "weather talk/small talk".

@oliverford5367

2 жыл бұрын

If you don't start talking to people, you'll never get to know anyone

omg this is what my theater teacher emailed me lmao

@thecyberninja2708

6 жыл бұрын

squishy mochi loll really thats funny af

@noodlery7034

5 жыл бұрын

Is that legal

Me: Hey this is totally random but have you read any good books? Person: yes Me: Hey this is totally random but...

@SanDiegoSouth

4 жыл бұрын

A response to that yes is: What did you like about the book?

@blakestratton2382

4 жыл бұрын

"Hey this is totally random, but have you considered the flaws in our country's tax code?" Yeah that's why I have no friends

@bread5414

4 жыл бұрын

@@blakestratton2382 just look for people that admire your quirks

@brinplsplsplstextme-jaiden7223

3 жыл бұрын

If people give a one worded response, ask questions that either draw them out or require them to elaborate. Do you remember the names on any of them? Oh great, could you tell me about the story? What was your favorite part, or what did you like about it? And then you could proceed to give your thoughts based on their responses. Or give the answer to your own question whether they ask you or not.

@SinoLegionaire

3 жыл бұрын

@@blakestratton2382they don't deserve a friend like you.

Today I applied the stomach rule to calm me down before a speech and the 3 second rule to look at people. It really helped. Started watching your videos a week ago and already starting to notice a positive difference. Thank you!

I tried the part about introduction, I walked up to some girl, said "Hi my name is your name" and she walked away awkwardly.. What did I miss here?

@jhonjohnjonjondoe5011

6 жыл бұрын

Because you don't just walk up to them hahaha. You walk up to them after you made eye contact and say something it can be nice or it can be about something you are acting like you are looking for which most likely works best since you can pick anything that you can make fun of or joke about. Doesn't have to be like what he said something you are really looking for. Example: I was a teen when I used to go to the mall just to have a social interaction with a girl. I intentionally had made eye contact but that was Obv. I then walk towards her and she tries to walk around you because I make it look like I was just gonna keep going but instead I move with her and she moves the other way then say hey can I ask you why you keep trying to cut me off? Boom it's pretty easy and always make it silly so it never feels personal and it is light hearted. That allows them to open up. Make sure something you do or say you have no emotions attached to it and that will make you not nervous about it. I always liked to make it a joke out of a normal everyday social interaction I have and she has everyday so they have some sort of connection or emotion attached to it. For instance how I did what I told you I did. Everyone walking in the mall tries to move out the way of each other so she never seen it coming but because she knows that it came from a perspective that has a emotion attached to it. I know this was long winded but explaining the WHY it works is what will make it work.

@Eudomac99

6 жыл бұрын

I don't think you get the joke. He literally went up and said "My name is your name".

@axel253

6 жыл бұрын

Ohhhhhh my god😣

@blank9062

6 жыл бұрын

jbrdbr111 idk I don’t see anything wrong...

@horizon5677

6 жыл бұрын

Well that's a pretty cool introduction. I woulda speak with you.

I can only imagine how many introverts you have made more confident to be social. You got a great channel and here is to 1 million subs!

@Charismaoncommand

7 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the encouragement!

The job I wanna do kind of needs me to present once or twice a week.. Actually I used to extroverted when I was younger but then my parents taught me in ways where they completely shattered my confidence, now I’m 16 and I realize the problem which is confidence so I’m working on it. This is why I want people to know that it’s not them, or their parents, it’s the ways they were raised. Edit: pretty much what most people need is a boost of confidence. When presenting or speaking to someone and you feel shy, you may not realize it but you feel smaller than that person you’re talking to. This is why you have to tell yourself that you are the best and nobody is better than you. I did that during a presentation and it actually worked.

I'm so shy that I don't even take pictures of myself and post them because Im always thinking what people are gonna think when they see it. Or maybe they see flaws I never saw

@nikfarah9036

3 жыл бұрын

100% relatable...i do post pictures but i will archieve after 5 min

I never liked the word "Charisma", so the name of the Channel made me feel kind of skeptical. After watching some of the videos I can see how much helpful they are. I rarely suscribe to the Channels and quite seldom a video seems to deserve LIKE. But the channel deserves approbation. :)

@Charismaoncommand

7 жыл бұрын

Welcome to the channel! That means so much.

@badassherbivore3338

6 жыл бұрын

There are motivational channels that give tips, tricks, and steps on how to change bits and pieces of your life but all of them explain things very vaguely, this guy makes it clear and logical. I subscribed today.

@Skiddleszsz

6 жыл бұрын

Charisma sounds like Christmas. Just connect weird words with awesome shit.

@Skiddleszsz

6 жыл бұрын

this was kind of a joke btw, not trying to sound assholish :)

Thank You Mate I don’t have social anxiety sometimes I shake when I’m scared or freaked out or can’t breathe or feel like I can’t. And I’m learning how to be more social I’m really trying I know it’s not anxiety It’s just me. This helped a lot.

@lqvxnderr5696

6 жыл бұрын

Same

@jemuzu0944

6 жыл бұрын

Me too bro

@jemuzu0944

6 жыл бұрын

And i just use my phone to avoid shaking

@riell.4021

6 жыл бұрын

Same

@brunosantez6334

5 жыл бұрын

Melody York Not certain about the points made but ,if anyone else wants to uncover shyness treatment try Renkarter Anxiety Method Report ( search on google ) ? Ive heard some super things about it and my mate got excellent results with it.

I'm extremely introvert but I think I got to a successful enough way of networking and meet people. The point is, you don't have to necessarily say much. People are super duper intrigued by people who can actively listen. You don't have to really storytell or anything. Just introduce yourself, and then ask a question. And not an "how are you doing?" one, but actually some that may interest them. Ask about something you are passionate about, and that leaves to the other part the chance of an open answer. You can ask about their favourite kind of music, if they've ever tasted that dish, if they know somewhere to go eat or stuff like that. Y/N questions are conversation killers, but if you are able to find a common ground it'll make things way easier. What also helps a lot is to go to events that revolve around a topic. For example, I'm a huge nerd and I know quite a lot about the indie gaming industry and community. I thrive in that kinda situation where I can ask about a certain controversial topic, network gathering opinions, etc etc. To talk about business or to ask people out there's always time, but if you need a good impression or simply want to enjoy your time, things will be soo easier if you find a common ground and try to move to deeper levels. Also, people will appreciate that more. Many just meet and chat about what they do, but what's really important is to get someone to talk about what they love doing, or open up about a concern, or something else. Sometimes I believe I don't find anything to say not because I'm just shy, but because what's being said is not really of interest to me, so I try to actively drift the conversation to something different, or limit myself to listening to what they have to say, or even better explain politely I don't know anything about the topic they may be talking about, but tell them I'd love to know more and if they can explain me that.

I often struggle to communicate/interact with people, have been watching a lot of your vids. Over the last year I found myself doing more and more social interactions, even if they were out of my comfort zone. So, thank you Charlie

I'm not shy but I'm a dope to door salesmen so I had to watch this just in case.

@saladpits3349

7 жыл бұрын

daamn you be slangin dope

@yunglife1244

7 жыл бұрын

Dope to Door? Wow 🤔

@itztueazy5779

6 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@ItsNessaTho

6 жыл бұрын

These comments are killing me 😂😂

@joyitadarling5815

6 жыл бұрын

dude, and you deliver too? my mans don't even deliver XD

i remember i saw this documentary about a guy that took shyness to the next level, like he got to the point where he couldnt even talk to his family. he had this psychologist helping him get over it, and one thing she had him do is walk a banana in public. i felt like i could take something from that, cause most of the time im afraid im gunna make a total fool of myself in social situations. i feel like everytime you do a little screw up, its just enough to keep you fearfull, what you really gotta do is fuck up so bad that afterwards your like, man, i dont think i could do something that bad even if i tried to recreate it, it almost desensitizes you in a way. i mean you could totally go and walk a banana down the street and i think it would help a shy person immensely. idk if i could do that hah, even tho i know it would help me. you know people would be telling the story of the man they saw walking a banana for ages

@HeyVeatiful

5 жыл бұрын

Chuck Aule ajajkakakas omg I actually wanna try this. It seems like such an icebreaker!

@Sindruzzzz

5 жыл бұрын

Lmao where can I watch that documentary?

@TF80s

5 жыл бұрын

@@Sindruzzzz you would just become the town oddball who everyone whispers about which will then make you feel like a depressed reject who's only friend is a bruised banana.

@bingoing

5 жыл бұрын

@@TF80s what a downer

This sounds like really good and practical advice. Something I've noticed in my observations of my own social anxiety is that the moments before interacting with someone is often far worse than when I actually do go for it. The trouble is learning how to get out of my head. I want to try your advice this week. Thank you very much for this video!

Man we need more people like you honestly your such a legend for creating charisma on command

I have a question: For some reason I have a problem with making eye contact, I will be having a conversation and it's all good when suddenly I completely freak out about when and how to make eye contact, as if I've forgotten how to and what's appropriate and what not. This will distract me from the conversation and I'll want to get out of it as quick as possible. I have ADD so it may have something to do with that, and I also find it happens when I'm talking to men more often than talking to women. Does anyone know how to fix this?

@amarajrulla9365

7 жыл бұрын

DelRey maybe you need to be more open with the person crack more jokes make more cheeky ones so ull feel more open with him. I used to be like this with another girl I had in class untill I got confident enough to like make some cheeky jokes (sexual or not) and now have no problem talking to her

@Lynnvandenbrink

7 жыл бұрын

thank you for the tip! I'll keep it in mind

@amarajrulla9365

7 жыл бұрын

DelRey np appreciate it if u wanna be cheeky u can look at their nose and they wont notice the difference but be natural so u dont have to think about it 😁.

@THE7thz

7 жыл бұрын

I'm not the only one with ADD :))

@MarxHaven

7 жыл бұрын

When I first started in sales I was told to look the person in their right eye to show you are listening. It takes you out of your head trying to figure which one to look at lol. Once you put it in your head that this is the way things should be in conversation it becomes the norm and you don't think about it anymore you just listen.

Learn to live and act on your voice instead of analyzing and criticizing ur self before lift off.THAT WAS EXTREMELY HELPFUL TO ME.THANKS!

@Charismaoncommand

6 жыл бұрын

~ Glad to hear you're finding it helpful!

@jzrc7908

5 жыл бұрын

i can do this but the problem is i may being too extra

Ahh I'm crying I'm so shy god help me

@aliiiichum

3 жыл бұрын

SAME. it literally pains me to talk to another human being

@infinity9171

3 жыл бұрын

Same and even if I do try to talk to someone I just get to AWKWARD

@AmielCetraro

2 жыл бұрын

how are you now

My social anxiety is sooooooo bad, I don’t know how to deprogram myself from feeling the need to preform and put on this ego facade

It's weird, it feels like if you actually know me. I'm definitely subscribing

@Charismaoncommand

7 жыл бұрын

I know where you live. Just kidding! Welcome to the channel!

@MrMMAJER

7 жыл бұрын

Lol thanks!

@GuyLogen

7 жыл бұрын

He probably knows psychology. It's a great tool for understanding people.

@MrPatrickbuit

7 жыл бұрын

It's called the forer-effect

@616Haggard

6 жыл бұрын

Julian Ramirez That's called a crush, Julian. It means you want him inside of you.

this channel is just beautiful

@maximillianschauer1439

7 жыл бұрын

it amazes me every time

I find it incredible that this video and a lot of what you do is shot in one take with little or no jump cuts! It comes across so authentic and it's a practice I hope to emulate as I get started with my youtube channel. Awesome work!

When I was a real estate appraiser and I wanted to break the ice with a homeowner, I would ask them about their pets. It was something they were passionate about, without being too personal.

How to overcome shyness : be born a different person.

@fattshea8085

5 жыл бұрын

wrong

@tehprotrollboi6472

5 жыл бұрын

bam, you've officially given into effortlessness, if you want to fix your problems, then you have everything you need to do so, you just don't know it if you think like that

@jkrollingsheep1463

5 жыл бұрын

@@waseemshah3571 oi noooo

@baldevkumarmohta8770

5 жыл бұрын

@@waseemshah3571 shut up

@xhmbx9548

5 жыл бұрын

@@baldevkumarmohta8770 but he is right tho! LOL

How I defeated my shyness: I imagine the person standing in front of me is a poop

@vain.a2

6 жыл бұрын

Minabbit well a lot of people are pretty shit

@SlothBird

6 жыл бұрын

I imagine that they are dead corpses standing in front of my cold soul. All you have to do is shove a murder list in their faces, and make them regret ever asking or judging about you by burying their dead body when you finally found the perfect time

@maryJaeJ

6 жыл бұрын

😂 It may work....only if he woldn't be my crush and see him as a really cute poop.

@petergalinari7118

6 жыл бұрын

That would make me laugh so hard in front of whoever was in front of me haha. This definitely wouldn't work for me

@jewelzthegemini1388

6 жыл бұрын

Minabbit I lold

You're the friend that everyone needs.

You guys can do it! If anything, look at the hundreds of comments from people saying they feel the same way as you! We're all in the same boat together, so let's work hard and become more confident every day!

@Sb-hj1om

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks

why does his mouth remind me of the joker. im not being mean i swear lmao i like the joker

@MewSakura12

7 жыл бұрын

Kevin Hernandez maybe but he has a beautiful big small

@guide8571

7 жыл бұрын

Ally Munoz i find his mouth sexy .

@cursedwings7584

7 жыл бұрын

I think that it would be successful. But instead of people machines. lol

@FatUnicorn2797

7 жыл бұрын

Ally Munoz I see it now! :0

@josephinewang3325

7 жыл бұрын

Ally Munoz It reminds me of Jeff

thank youu i need this haha i'm so shy especially at school. i always watch the people that i've been wanting to talk to since like last year and i couldn't get a word out of me to any of them. then eventually two of the people i wanted to talk to graduated at the end of last school year-and i never even got to introduce myself :/ i think i'm gonna try talking to people now, usually i get so close to asking someone a question or saying "hello" but what stops me is: what if they ignore me? what if my voice cracks? what if they don't hear me? what if they don't like me? so then i just contain myself & i don't say a word.. it's just so much more easier to talk to boys than girls. i've had someone ignore me :( and one time my friend tried complimenting this girl on her sweater and she got ignored, it's really discouraging. SO PEOPLE, WHEN SOMEONE TRIES TO TALK TO YOU: DONT IGNORE THEM

@glassunicorn1525

6 жыл бұрын

It is really rude to ignore people, but maybe that girl was out of it. I sometimes accidentally ignore people when I'm thinking:)

@edwintarucmasanque5286

6 жыл бұрын

moonchild we're same.I'm a shy girl too!Ever sinse I'm elementary and now I am grade 7 I am shy.I cannot talk much.Because other might ignores me.I don't want to be ignored.I always think negative thoughts.I am not participating in school.And When the time i talked,they can't hear me because my voice is too soft. I feel uncomfortable when I am around with many people.Yes,I have a lots of friends,And yes I am lucky to have them,But now I don't know what to do because I am shy to join them. The one thing that can make me proud is to overcome my shyness!

@JC111414

6 жыл бұрын

I think about those same questions but I wished I would have said more to those people instead of being quiet.

@lucywanjiku9723

5 жыл бұрын

Ur not alone ave been going to a new school for a week and I haven't talked to anyone only this one girl who I keep following n now she thinks I'm weird

i’ve been working in retail for a few months and one of the things i always get is “you’re so quite” “you should try to talk more! be louder nena!!” and because i’m a naturally shy and socially anxious person it’s SUPER hard. (i actually thought i could get over this by working at a clothing store smh 💀) and after trying a few of these tips and others from other videos and articles i’ve gotten less of those previous comments and more of ones like “you did so well today!” or “woah i didn’t know you had an outside voice!!”😂😂 so i just wanna say a big ol thANK YOU creator because you helped me feel more comfortable and lowkey more accepted at my job and in social environments in general ! 😌💞

My shy friend sent me this video and I’m here to help you. There’s 7 billion people on earth and your worried about like 0.00001% of them. Do better and just realise everyone’s the same.