how to influence people as an introvert(the Thomas Shelby guide)

how to influence people as an introvert(the Thomas Shelby guide)
Introverts aren’t typically popular or paid attention to, which is why Thomas Shelby stands out. Tommy Shelby has the perfect balance. He’s introverted but still respected and feared. That’s because he’s perfected that dark, steely confidence that makes people both respect and fear him.
Even though Thomas Shelby is fictional, most of his habits can be adapted to our everyday lives. Of course not exactly the way Tommy applies it, but the psychology is real and can help you influence people and command respect in your life. So, in this video, I’ll share how you can project the Tommy Shelby type of confidence.

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  • @gladysburns35
    @gladysburns359 ай бұрын

    Being a good listener is extremely important. When you listen you learn much about the people as well as the reality existing around you. Also when you listen to people they do seem to be drawn to you. Quite frankly it is just respectful to listen to people when they need to talk or vent about a matter.😊😊😊

  • @Night_Hawk0
    @Night_Hawk010 ай бұрын

    Keep it up Dude, I like ur videos nd all the things related self improvement nd can see difference inside me. Peace.

  • @thomasshelby_4866
    @thomasshelby_48669 ай бұрын

    This motivates me 😳😳

  • @gaboogiemen5627
    @gaboogiemen562711 ай бұрын

    QUALITY CONTENT

  • @ecplse
    @ecplse11 ай бұрын

    as an intj this is quite useful.

  • @HumanxHuman

    @HumanxHuman

    10 ай бұрын

    I'm an Intj also. Thomas Shelby is an Intj in first 2 seasons. And 3 to 5 he's an Entj.

  • @itsShadowmonarch

    @itsShadowmonarch

    10 ай бұрын

    Good thing about us intj is we can switch to entj in very emergency situations lol

  • @tylerkonrade4474

    @tylerkonrade4474

    10 ай бұрын

    Y’all’s problem is you apply acronyms to describe yourselves😅😅 Intj Entj blah blah who gives a fuck

  • @balaexe1510

    @balaexe1510

    10 ай бұрын

    I get that were intj That doesn't change the fact that were batj at night

  • @xjar215x

    @xjar215x

    10 ай бұрын

    That personality test is outdated and false.

  • @-xeno-5802
    @-xeno-58029 ай бұрын

    every man would tremble beneath another man's gun

  • @321livhuRacing
    @321livhuRacingАй бұрын

    Why am I always the one taking the shots about my height

  • @spankey88
    @spankey8810 ай бұрын

    He’s an actor trying to portray a ptsd soldier traumatized by war that’s leading a brutal gang that became the og mafia… so just be a sociopath and mafia boss and smoke cigs to be cool lol

  • @bluevickings1206

    @bluevickings1206

    8 ай бұрын

    Bruh the intelligence he used was exceptional , and smoke those days were normal. Infact you trynna be cool by commenting this shit

  • @AzariahYalanBenjamin

    @AzariahYalanBenjamin

    7 ай бұрын

    Typical surface layer weak interpretation. Try harder. He’s an extremely intelligent character and hardly traumatised. The actor does a great job or portraying somebody who had experienced terrible things and used them to become stronger. If he is traumatised, he’s certainly not bogged down in it. That makes all the difference.

  • @sludgerat666

    @sludgerat666

    7 ай бұрын

    ​@@AzariahYalanBenjaminHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAAAAAAA

  • @AzariahYalanBenjamin

    @AzariahYalanBenjamin

    7 ай бұрын

    @@sludgerat666 thanks for your extremely in depth analysis.

  • @lov1ah

    @lov1ah

    5 ай бұрын

    ​@@AzariahYalanBenjaminTry rewatching the series again, but this time pay attention. Tommy tried to kill himself at least twice. If that doesn't ring any bells, I feel for your psyche...

  • @hemantsalaskar6004
    @hemantsalaskar600411 ай бұрын

    🛐

  • @scorpionphilosophy911
    @scorpionphilosophy91110 ай бұрын

    4:15 lol

  • @checkthelastmonday61

    @checkthelastmonday61

    9 ай бұрын

    😂🤣

  • @johnclarkson128
    @johnclarkson12810 ай бұрын

    Tommy Shelby is a not a fictional character. He is a British historical character. Cillian Murphy is an actor playing a part brilliantly reading a script portraying a personality you are describing.

  • @jayali8392
    @jayali8392Ай бұрын

    And no fookin fighting

  • @_cartijay_
    @_cartijay_2 ай бұрын

    I am literally a Shelby

  • @Vikas_Urn
    @Vikas_Urn4 ай бұрын

    How can i stable face expression in every feeling, please name some books or make some videos,

  • @gowshik1468

    @gowshik1468

    2 ай бұрын

    be a conscious person

  • @PhilipEngle
    @PhilipEngle8 ай бұрын

    Congratulations for saying the most obvious information about Thomas Shelby’s character. I was hoping to find something that was more in depth. This works for someone who hasn’t seen the show. I think Thomas Shelby would disagree with a lot of the content.

  • @ziapalekar8106

    @ziapalekar8106

    8 ай бұрын

    Like what?

  • @risingmenyt
    @risingmenyt11 ай бұрын

    I'm a big fan of your youtube channel and prepared something especially for you, can i send it to you somewhere?

  • @SejoSejo-bt5fx

    @SejoSejo-bt5fx

    6 ай бұрын

    Yes

  • @ziapalekar8106
    @ziapalekar81068 ай бұрын

    Is thomas shelby's character really an introvert?

  • @Itan_Hillsan

    @Itan_Hillsan

    7 ай бұрын

    I wouldn't consider him one tbh

  • @ritikthakur4358

    @ritikthakur4358

    6 ай бұрын

    To an extent he can be called an introvert but he is very confident in the way he approaches things. This confidence of his masks his introverted side.

  • @robgrant5272

    @robgrant5272

    3 ай бұрын

    No doubt he’s one of

  • @rome316ae3
    @rome316ae34 ай бұрын

    We should acquire the triats and qualities of thomas shelby. We should not be like or act like thomas shelby

  • @user-bv2bu7ub7z
    @user-bv2bu7ub7z7 ай бұрын

    JESUS loves you. JESUS died for our sins. He wants to have a closer relationship with you. JESUS is coming soon. you can have a closer relationship with JESUS by becoming a born-again Christian and also by reading your Bible daily. Heaven and hell are real. Personal relationships with Jesus will help make heaven

  • @Lux736

    @Lux736

    3 ай бұрын

    Jesus is trash😂😂

  • @rafaelludicanti2
    @rafaelludicanti29 ай бұрын

    Yes, yesterday Ibtried to warn them about it. They are so into their lies they are blind to what they have become. You fools. Why did you believe in emotions expressed by the cellphone? If you had follow my advice you would have known yoi were wrong. I have the most beautiful vouce on this earth. You had now reason to say no. It would have actually make you feel good.

  • @user-mu2bj7cf8h
    @user-mu2bj7cf8h2 ай бұрын

    3:37 Wdym how would someone use a deep voice if their voice is not deep? 😂

  • @cyberyousef7519
    @cyberyousef75199 ай бұрын

    Lmao if you live in London then you will at least be in 3 life and death situations in your life

  • @thirdid3067

    @thirdid3067

    9 ай бұрын

    Serious? Why

  • @TheOutlierToday
    @TheOutlierToday5 ай бұрын

    You're not an introvert. You're just scared of people.

  • @wisie707

    @wisie707

    5 ай бұрын

    Yes bro I'm so scared of them they are sooo intimidating 😱😱😱

  • @rome316ae3

    @rome316ae3

    4 ай бұрын

    That's called social anxiety

  • @user-bv2bu7ub7z
    @user-bv2bu7ub7z7 ай бұрын

    JESUS loves you. JESUS died for our sins. He wants to have a closer relationship with you. JESUS is coming soon. you can have a closer relationship with JESUS by becoming a born-again Christian and also by reading your Bible daily. Heaven and hell are real. Personal relationships with Jesus will help make heaven