At funeral Me: "So um, why are you here" Them: "My grandmother died" Me: Nods my head and laughs

@highflow_official

2 жыл бұрын

Ion think that's the right way to do it bro

@MixieMuse

2 жыл бұрын

LMAO

@michaels7079

2 жыл бұрын

Me: I totally agree. So whats your favorite style of cheeseburger?

@calledimabot7983

2 жыл бұрын

Me: yeah they do that

@dopestuff1714

Жыл бұрын

me asking questions : why did she die?

✨*LaUgH, LaUgH*✨ Me: tries to laugh but ends up choking and realizes why I’m an introvert while my life is flashing before my eyes😭😭

@yashirajepateriya4201

2 жыл бұрын

Are u sad that u are introvert

@sashaman1234

Жыл бұрын

Nah U just need growth mindset. Always improving, never doubting yourself or putting yourself down 💪

@mattstash2008

Жыл бұрын

As soon as she said "laugh. People like to feel like they're funny." That made me wonder how many fake laughs I've gotten from people

@wingman5100

Жыл бұрын

@@mattstash2008 facts

@Carlyy12

Жыл бұрын

Whenever I don’t find something funny, I still giggle to everything people say to just seem like I have personality. It actually works.

Ugh I hate it when you thought y’all had such a fun time chatting and think the person might want to befriend you but the next day they are dry af to you or barely greet you like what tf happened dude?? You weren’t like that yesterday 💀

@va1entinex

2 жыл бұрын

omg FRR

@highsol222

2 жыл бұрын

I have like 1 day of confidence and 3 months of "meh kill me.." Thats what happened lol.

@Pratik-qs9ee

Жыл бұрын

Me personally, could have a great first time conversation, but I don’t know what to say at the later conversations.

@_aoe

Жыл бұрын

@@Pratik-qs9ee exactly, said it well. Plus in the first meeting there might be something to discuss about in the current situation but next time the situation might be the same and there is nothing much else to say lol

@daedalus2253

Жыл бұрын

I'll be social when I want to but most times I don't really have much to say

Reading also helps with conversations. You can feel like feel like such a good conversationalist after reading. And have fun

@will.0w

2 жыл бұрын

i thought it was just me who feels like that after finishing a book LOL

@christopherhernandez8138

Жыл бұрын

What books do you recommend

@rachel7242

Жыл бұрын

Me who’s a big reader but also socially awkward and always finds a way to end up making the conversation weird:

@X_lIllIIllIl_X

Жыл бұрын

It doesn't necessary have to be a book. I personally read a lot of comments, I examine the way how others chat and I just pretend to do the same, and it usually works.

@FIIREBRICK

Жыл бұрын

​@@X_lIllIIllIl_X Thank you man I really needed that info

For me personally, talking for the first time is not a problem but the next they u just go back to being strangers again.

@Cheetah_of_Azra

Жыл бұрын

Same here

@r011ing_thunder6

Жыл бұрын

Why does this happen lol shit is wild

@r011ing_thunder6

Жыл бұрын

I thought I was toxic for doing this

@noodle_tax

Жыл бұрын

The 2nd conversation is always the hardest because you used all your dialogue options the first time 😂

@sharen_

Жыл бұрын

Sameeee😵‍💫. It's hard to become close with ppl. Even afta talking few times,tat constant thought of are we close or am I being alien here🤧.it's a mess🥲 n we end up as ppl who knw each other tatz it.

This is how you end up keeping around lot of narcissists by mistake. 😂

@prakritiupadhyay3378

Жыл бұрын

Hahahahaha 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@katsuki420

Жыл бұрын

Omg that's so true

@tiagomonteiro1742

Жыл бұрын

If the other person doesn t ask about you, stop talking to them lol, we dont want a one sided relationship

@MrYougotcaught

Жыл бұрын

If the conversation isn’t subsequently mutual, then yes, slowly minimize the conversation and excuse yourself from it forever

@nivethonj5944

Жыл бұрын

thats exactly what happened to me

I’m not good at starting conversation…or ending them…or upholding my end of the conversation. Just let me listen, you don’t wanna hear the weird ass things I have to say, just let me listen

@MonkeyDLuffy-fl3eb

Жыл бұрын

My life story 😩

@ishmaeltomlinson4378

Жыл бұрын

omg hiiii

@imake_edits

Жыл бұрын

Nah fr tho my bf is always like “Why won’t you talk?” And I tell him “I don’t like to 😭” and he still doesn’t understand bc he’s the loudest most extroverted person you’ll ever meet 💀✋ opposites attract Ig-

@elitasheen6964

Жыл бұрын

That's me right there!😭✋

@ShaniaDeville

Жыл бұрын

This also doesn't work sometimes when I have nothing to say back. Like they will say something interesting but I literally have no comment for them...

THANK YOU BESTIE I NEEDED THIS

@roshanayhayat1466

2 жыл бұрын

Same🥲

@roronoazoro8626

2 жыл бұрын

Bestie? Never knew people had those anymore

@jiminscheetos9950

2 жыл бұрын

@@roronoazoro8626 i...sorry bro i hope u get to experience it one day

@roronoazoro8626

2 жыл бұрын

@@jiminscheetos9950 i did but its gone now i guess, just glad that other people still have best freinds

@anonymous98237

Жыл бұрын

Cringe

I actually zoned out while listening, unintentionally, apologies, I’m actually terrible at having conversations, and when I do, I upset people.

People love talk about themselves. Every human have a strong desire to feel important. All you gotta is ask them questions abut things they care about and be genuinely interested in them. This could also be a good or bad thing because it might become annoying to just listen to someone talk all the time.

People with disorders that have trouble with human interaction are gonna have a field day with this one-

Also some people get too focused on trying to look like their listening but if you think about it, if you actually listen you won’t have to try to look like you are 👀

@meet_930

Жыл бұрын

Exact, this thing is always happening with me whenever I talk to anybody 🥲

@kurtlondon2420

Жыл бұрын

U can talk u don't have to use the f word to get peoples attention, the minute u do that, people can lose interest, in what else u have to say.

@DistortedShelf0

5 ай бұрын

Not always true, yet a strong point nonetheless. You can be looking at your phone but giving full attention to the words someone speaks, and they won't feel recognized and suspect you're not really listening. Being genuine IS the best approach.. you have that figured out. Just remember, there is a disconnect between how we feel things are, and how we actually look to the people around us.

„Laugh. People like to feel like they‘re funny.“ Girl, you didn‘t have to call me out like that. 😟😂

I was once on a date with this girl and the conversation got so silent that you could hear crickets on the background, so I asked her "How's the weather".

@Jilemeka-cj5yp

7 күн бұрын

Daamn 😐 like bro this one's really bad. I don't like to admit that I'm better than anybody in this case but this one is bad

I fucking love your video. I got my jaw fractured so i talk a lil funny now lol, add severe social anxiety.....yeah that's me. So watching this video is going to really help me.

thank you so much!!!!!!!!! I'm tired off the ones that just say "Be confident", "Make eye contact"

@sabrinahearts

3 ай бұрын

frrrr 😭

I'm always the one starting the convo💀

@perrytheplatypus3668

7 ай бұрын

How do we do that?😭

I see you girl!! You are DROP DEAD GORGEOUS & absolutely right. I see millions of followers coming your way. Love you!! ❤️💕

@Sarah-gt2tj

Жыл бұрын

Is it just me or are her eyes darker. Was she warring colored contacts before? If so, I prefer her naturally darker eyes

Im a dude. Out of all the advice, this the best. Laugh, nod and constant expression

Thank you so much!! I’m super awkward and I hate talking but bc my mom hates not socializing, she makes me socialize.. this should help me avoid dry convos! Thank you again!!

This girl is real af, thank you so much. I think I needed this.. wait yeah, I needed this a lot. 💯

“LAUGH” me: * teary eyed* ok

the energy in this video gives me the how to flirt scene in jumanji

To me what makes a difference is : show emotion and care. Showing emotions changes a conversation soooo much about anything and like smelling a sun seeming excited etc when talking about something exciting. I used to be paranoid of showing emotions but it made conversation so dry

me: so, how are you? friend: my dog died me: nods and laughs

Me, a person with autism: *desperately taking notes*

Damn I have been doing all this without even knowing.. pro-tip asking people questions about themselves is literally the winner

Also give more than one word answers. So many people give the shortest response possible, which makes it hard for other to piggyback on the statement and keep the convo going

Also another important thing is: ask open ended questions instead of simple "yes or no" questions.

I’ll always just ask a question and then let them answer because if they actually want to talk to me, they’ll ask me a question back. So the key to a two sided convo is to wait for them to ask too

Some of the best conversation advice I’ve heard in general. Shit like this really helps autistic people like me

Questions. Input. Expression. Pretty on point

Live it. Learn it. Love it.

I laughed when she said laugh 😂😅

I thought this was going to be click bait videos, but this is actually solid advice

This lady is speaking the genuine truth. And for that I acknowledge that 👏❤️

for youtube to push your shorts you gotta make sure the TikTok logo isn't there (ps you give out great advice😌)

Speak what’s on ur mind don’t over think just vibe simple

I think one big advice that is left out that shy people need to hear is that in order to keep a conversation going, you have to live your life. You have to go do things with your life or you will not be able to add your "input" into conversations.. So go get hobbies. Go try different foods that you have never tried. Go watch plays. Visit cities, countries, etc.. Learn about things that are popular so that you can have an opinion. If you just sit at home and watch KZread or tiktoks, that is all that you will be able to talk about. If you have nothing to say, it's because you don't have a life. Once you have a life, finding things in common with people will happen more often.

LaUgH LAUgH!! 😂😂

Thanks for the tip! I've always wondered how other people talk so mutch when they talk to me,, now I know how to do the same,, thank youuuu

Omg i love you so much! You have the best tips. I've been missing out, just found this channel😙

Her face when she said *LAUGH* *laugh…nod-nod*

Good stuff, Sahar! You do know what you're doing. LOVE when you cuss, woman! 🔥🔥🔥

Tysm cause I literally don’t know how human interaction works for some reason😀

@dragoncalloway227

Жыл бұрын

Same 💀

@nightfighter7452

9 ай бұрын

Consider autism like I did

I always like to have conversation. So, I'm almost always the one who starts the convo. I tried as much as I can not to be self-center so I always start with their things and talk about them. But you know, it doesn't work for me. Although I am welcome and willing to have a good time chatting with them, they just don't care. They don't want to explain it further except Yes/No. Sometimes, don't even bother to answer my questions. I get that some ppl don't want to talk about personal matters but I just asked light and small things. Sometimes, after they ignored me, they start a convo with an another person. Is it because they just dislike me? Is it because am I trying too hard? I tried to be as nice as possible. But feels like they don't value me because I'm too easy and cheap.

That's actually some solid advice thank you- I kinda took notes

Yes teach us how to trick y'all And call us toxic liars. Never gets old

You just described how I interact with any human ever. Lol

Needed this

Dang girl u laying out facts here. Good advice short n sweet

She just described attributes of a salesman.

Still not gonna talk to people 😘✌

@LauTbaby

2 жыл бұрын

YES!! Introvert QuEeNs over here!!

@Ijustfeelyou

2 жыл бұрын

Same😂

@msrivera360

2 жыл бұрын

i don’t know if this is your coping mechanism, but this is unhealthy? As humans we’re meant to socialize

@__anonymous__4533

2 жыл бұрын

@@msrivera360 we aren't "meant" to do anything.

@ButchyCantYouSee

Жыл бұрын

@@LauTbaby you text like a girl who browses 4chan

If we ask questions She : why do you wanna know

-nod your head and pretend like you're paying more attention than you actually are- most relatable sentence ever

The part where you said "people like to feel like they are funny" is a huge tip. Thanks so much😂🔥

okay this is actually quite helpful since i’m meeting up with a guy for the first time (as in just me and him) and this is the first thing that comes up on my recommended, THANKS BABES 🥰🥰😘😘😘😘💋💋💋😍😍

@imake_edits

Жыл бұрын

Hope it went well!!

I actually don’t have a problem with this I communicate very well. The only problem is to get the other person to stop talking 😅

when I talk to a female I look Direct into her eyes when I'm talking to her and the confidence I have is learning how to bring something to the table and being responsibility of every way

Me tryna use these advantages when gaming😂

Oml thank you 😭 there’s a really cute new guy at my school and I said like one sentence to him at lunch then we just sat in awkward silence for 14 more minutes😭

Thanks so much! As someone who has struggles with social anxiety my whole life and never knew how to talk and went through so much to figure it out for years I know this will be so helpful!

Love this. Thank you!

love it

Yes, but _his_ answers are short and diplomatic, so it ends up with me interrogating him Ugh, this is frustrating, I'm usually good at this

@Artemis-A24

11 ай бұрын

That’s not really a flaw tbh. For me personally short answers mean I’m not interested. But again that’s just me

Me who can't show emotion cause I'm dead inside

I HAVE SO MUCH THINGS TO SAY BUT SHE MAKES ME GO BLANK LMAO HELP

“My dog died today…” “HAHAHAHAHAHA”

@NamelessForNow1

Жыл бұрын

« Ahahaha i agreee » *nodding*

@CutieZalbu

Жыл бұрын

Lmfaooooo you’re so funny

It’s not rocket science. Ppl can’t hold conversations because they don’t rely on trust themselves, they are to busy thinking about how to keep a conversation they it ruins everything. It’s not really about what you say but more like how you say it. Be right with yourself and you’ll focus and hold a convo. Being yourself had a deep meaning. We say we are ourselves but we aren’t most the time

@shawntelchinn84

Жыл бұрын

Maybe I think I’m boring because I just work, eat, and sleep. Also watch tv. Nothing special to talk about over here.

@dragoncalloway227

Жыл бұрын

@@shawntelchinn84same like what do I say when all I do is study watch KZread and go to sleep 💀

You are my older sister!!!!! You have the best, inspirational, and beautiful advice and I love you!!!!!!!!

"LaUgH, LaUgH, people like to feel that they're funny"

When she said laugh it was really funny

am i the only one who plans and imagines a whole convo or discussion in their head but when the time comes, they have nothing to say.😭

Excellent work

I hate talking but I love to listen and observe people

What if you get the vibe that the person doesn’t wanna have a conversation, like they replying with one word answers

Thank you so much. You're the best help I could ask for. Thank you so much

“Hey so my entire family just died..” “HAHAHA” *cries*

There's this guy at my school I'm trying to make friends with ...he's really nice.the only problem though is that I struggle with socializing but thanks. This was really helpful.

Great tips, thankyou!

Well when I want to start a conversation my mind always goes blank

"People love it when they 'THINK' they're funny" 😂😂😂😂

1. Questions (be a good listener) 2. . 3 enthusiasm

Dang! She pretty! She also has that good vibe energy that makes you want to tackle the day...like everything's going to be alright. And you know what, b!tch? It is! Everything is alright. 😏

bro i always spam random ass questions that don't have anything to do with anything like "which superpower would u have if you could choose one"

I know but I don’t know but I always needed this, thiiisss is what I need to know written Infront of me so I could read it back to myself, always wondered what the elements were, now I got it, thanks mamacitoooo

I suck at conversations. I grew up without close friends, and without a girlfriend.

These are great tips. Thanks

You are the ultimate bestie and an human! ❤

I'm not interested in conversations, I'm interested in building a life with someone

actually I am a introvert yes, but sometimes I try to get out of my comfort zone, today, I talked more, like laughed and expressed myself more while talking yeah! I'm afraid of showing myself much but today since the boys were misbehaving in our dance class they were sent back to our classroom, while the girls were made to do some cartwheels and all, walkover and stuff, and ik that but I didn't wanna show, but I decided to do it and honestly I actually felt so good, I even helped a friend of mine (she's new to me) and talked with her, during lunch 😁😁

I strive to channel this chicks energy

This is awesome!! Great tips! Love the passion and energy conveyed too 😂🔥

Instructions unclear I now own a soviet era typhoon class submarine

Good ‘tricks’ but i believe at the core of it all, we have to be more present in the moment when conversing with someone and listen attentively, with that u tend to ask much better impacting questions… It will take some time to perfect this however

I recommend taking an improv class too. It helps a lot with being in the moment and getting out of your head

istg i love ppl who just ramble and dont stop talking, i honestly js like zoning out and listen to them go “and then asyshrnblahlablablabalblabla”, the only con is when they ask “so what do you think?”

As someone who isn’t good at convos, this is totally true.

Me: watches this Also me: wondering how many times someone has laughed at one of my stupid jokes to keep up a convo

I needed her advice when i was in high school 😅😂