Silence and ignore are the best revenge to toxic and narcs.

@tommychappell6359

5 ай бұрын

Reduce shock-factor, if caught off guard and REACT with shock/dismay. gonna blame you. If you don't expect something and it just nearly chops your legs off and shout/angry. (their gonna blame for angry reaction). even though it wasn't on AGENDA (LIST). Expect the Unexpected. people will react to anger element. but not the WHY. one day your just standing there. and suddenly someone comes behind you pulls jacket over your head. and then take 3 drinks and smashes on head. and they do that in a SPLIT OF A SECOND and then grab you and throw you over the bar or hang you upside down and punch you that can't BREATH. and suddenly your instant reaction is WTF?? as if suddenly rage in a FIT/panick/whatever (NOT OKAY). cause some guy has JUSTIFIED there complete UNJUSTIFIED RAGE at you. (They exploded). suddenly adrenaline KICKS IN, overcome with SURGE in body. reaction is be WTFFF. Or someone took child and doing that out of nowhere. but someone was watching all instead of seeing situation, all they saw was your ADRENALINE BASED REACTION. (cursing out). as if suddenly swiped from undernat the ground. (or a car wernt over a RAMP nearly took out your head, that you just DUCKED. as it nearly SWOOPED head off body). But BECAUSE side guy was watching. all they did was JUDGE YOU. for your reaction. (which to him seemed bullying). and their ones thinking, wtf bro. why would go into adrenaline surge like that? (after nearly took you out, your life. in horrific way). do you not see how fucked up that is? well. its SAME HERE. rather than blaming incident, they just see your REACTION TO IT. and think to the DELIBERATOR of INCIDIENT (POOR GUY, he didn't deserve a barrage like that). NO your gonna be rly angry. but because of power difference. they believe their CLOSE BUDDY GUY more than you. so while standing your there looking at them, dripping like sweat coming down face, feeling like you 'BEEN-HAD'. their busy mocking your reaction. (and dont even see situation played out). or some gets barrel/big tub of acid and drops on my back. but suddenly other guy is angry at my reaction. (than the incident caused it).

@tommychappell6359

5 ай бұрын

what ive learnt is that peoples POWER-Position negates other peoples PAIN. its alright for them to just throw a motorcyle at you. cause all gonna happen is other dude is gonna blame them. instead of naughty guys reaction. (but THEY twisted it, so now thats YOU who is rightful REACTIONAL perpetrator), (but for some reason they think PAL is ALL INNOCENT). system is a PIECE OF SHIT. or maybe they felt so bad one day they just exploded at you and started beating you up. (but because its THEM its okay). but you react (and now your villain). does that not seem a little odd to you? Im saying because this ACTUALLY happened to me once. (guess what, somewhere in that STORY, blame passed onto my head, like a TRANSACTION was made and then switched with the other the guy, like deal with the devil). cause I was some average guy walking arund and got swiped. (that now blame switched to me, and other letting loose their emotions is the ''victim'' in all of this, and I stand there with sweat dripping down my face knowing I was the TRUE VICTIM, this sums up my bshittery, but instead story gets pulled round so it other guy). its on another level of fucked up. (im one who doesnt get BELIEVED, but the other person who KNOWINGLY DID all of it IS BELIEVED). you think that is unreasonable or unnatural reaction to have? the perpetrator gets away with it. but the VICTIM becomes THE PERPETRATOR. (in other peoples washed up minds).

Often when someone is rude to you it's because there is something wrong with THEM not you.

@tommychappell6359

5 ай бұрын

they get worse, not better.

@tommychappell6359

5 ай бұрын

I know someone who is scientifically clever. but scientific criminal. which is worst combination. imagine a bully who has the mind of a GENIUS. that's what dealing with right now. they so clever that they know how to make someone a fool and get away with it. (they manipulators). or genius FRIENEMY. imagine subtle abuse/cuts/brusies over years. that getting. no-one even SUSPECTS a thing. a psychopath with mega BRAIN. they simply go on about their business. get tentacles in one by one. so eventually everyone is infested with them. that they slowly turn inwards towards you. would you grant a criminal with a SUPER MEGA BRAIN. no. yet some people do. and no-one even knows their criminal. bend/manipulate everything around them. until you get ousted. (but people would see you as problem. not subtle manipulations that go behind closed doors, that dont suspect, that person is a TARGET, and slowly getting leached upon from outside). but no-one mentions how people slowly tactically and subtly OPERATE. on such a basis. (you think im being paranoid or making stuff up). but with 30 years of living with person. I can tell you. its not. people more capable, than you realise. (but you think im talking hearsay). ill let you know that ive always been transparent to people (and I dont like making things up).

@tperk

2 ай бұрын

But I have a need to let them know that. Because they're too dense to figure it out on their own,.

@ngozieze7826

Ай бұрын

Truth

It"s important to be the better person than the rude people

@tommychappell6359

5 ай бұрын

Number 1: Dont be Weak. initially yes, but not if they keep doing it. it depends. 1. the severity of rudeness 2. How many times it happening. 3. How its affecting you. 4. If its incorrect. Be STRONG, HOLD your CODE (one thing). don't stop building. You can't stop rudeness until you are officially backed by other people/community. cowards run on people they think are easy targets.

@tommychappell6359

5 ай бұрын

Never stop working. Im taking a HOLY VOW. to make sure that people who dont deserve win. dont win.

@tperk

2 ай бұрын

Unfortunately the "when they go low, we go high" maxim has been proven ineffective especially the last few years.

@liltimVSnwo

Ай бұрын

i tried to open the door for a guy and he tried to fight me

When someone shows you who they are, believe them

I like staying calm when a person is being rude😌

Life is too short to waste your time on people who don't respect,appreciate and value you..🙏❤️..

My new motto is: "If you think you can take my kindness for weakness, you don't know who you're messing with!" I'm not a victim to anyone, BUT I'm still kind (coz that's who I am).

@user-de8mu8xh9j

4 ай бұрын

With an attitude like that, you’re best avoided.

@bumblebee_ms

4 ай бұрын

@@user-de8mu8xh9j Sounds like you should be avoided too if you got a negative connotation out of what I said. I feel sorry for you.

@graysonwalker

Ай бұрын

​@@user-de8mu8xh9jme, too...i'm from the South, we don't do rude, but we do revenge lol

In an age where people seem to hate each other for no reason, this is welcome advice.

@natemorgan1996

5 ай бұрын

It seems sad that people hate each other for no apparent reason, it sounds petty and unattractive if you ask me

@oldskoolromantic

3 ай бұрын

I’m dealing with that now, it’s unbearable and utterly confusing, especially since they’ve had this impression on you before getting to know you

@natemorgan1996

2 ай бұрын

@@oldskoolromantic I'm sorry you're dealing with that, fuck those people

@l4l253

Ай бұрын

i don’t know man, i think it’s been there for ages, even though there’s people being themselves there’s always that one person that has to act or be different because they feel like they need to be different, some time being normal is underrated.

It's awkward to set boundaries, but often necessary.

@mikeg1378

10 күн бұрын

Setting boundaries is necessary as a part of self respect. Nothing awkward in doing that at all.

If someone has a consistent need to agitate or disrespect, that is a sign of NPD! Walk away from such mental cases!

I’m not a big guy and other gents sometimes like to interrupt. Generally I call it out and that usually shuts them up. My advice: don’t put up with it…

@Noggin-Knowledge

6 ай бұрын

Love the assertiveness! Calling out interruptions like a pro. Any specific go-to phrases or techniques you've found particularly effective in swiftly shutting down those interruptions without needing to flex the muscles? 💪🔇😄

@danaschulz8441

6 ай бұрын

@@Noggin-Knowledge usually I put my right index up and say “ wait a minute; I was talking; let me finish please”. That usually does it. Sometimes they will persist and I will turn, stand, and say “ hey, I said I was talking”. I accompany this with a glaring stare which tells them I mean business. I have only had to do that a few times and the situation was resolved.

@tperk

2 ай бұрын

@@danaschulz8441That's just playing their game. They tried to get you to lose your cool and it worked. They'll interrupt you again and do it stronger the next time.

@danaschulz8441

2 ай бұрын

@@tperk I don’t lose my cool; I’m just firm with them. Do you want to stand up for yourself or be a doormat?

Disarming with kindness can also appear weak and some see you as a target.

@pinkchilldivestmentor

3 ай бұрын

💯

@Kristine14

2 ай бұрын

😮. How so? I have always wondered about this. So how to react then?

@tperk

2 ай бұрын

@@Kristine14 Let them know you have better things to do and give them a 30 second time limit then walk off.

@ScorpioKingPlutoKnight

5 күн бұрын

I’d say set a boundary respectfully. For example,”I understand why you’re mad, but please don’t talk to me like that. Be respectful when you speak to me or we’re DONE with this conversation.”

@helenarichard

2 күн бұрын

He said that in the video. My new strategy is, due to necessity, to insult right back or if i get a rude question, ask three rude questions back first and not reply.

When I cross my arms towards a toxic person it’s because I don’t want their evil energy to come near me otherwise I’m open. Think the action of Firewall towards toxic speaks for itself. 👍👍

Keeping ur cool really makes them rethink their actions,,,,they r gonna realize how stupid they were to act rude💯

@Noggin-Knowledge

6 ай бұрын

Any pro tips for keeping that Zen vibe intact in the face of chaos? 😎🧘‍♂

@janespot777

6 ай бұрын

@@Noggin-Knowledge like any other great thing, the first things are the hardest, you are gonna get the urge to reply but don't, ask yourself 'what do I gain by replying?', the answer is nothing....do this a second and third time, you won't have to put in any effort the forth time, it will have developed into a habit, train your brain the way you want it to be. It's okay if u try the first time but still find yourself acting back, try again next time, try till you get there, you will be glad you did. Cheers friend😊

@tommychappell6359

5 ай бұрын

you can nevber be too careful with people these days. they will unpredictably come behind your back and smash 10 eggs on head (all in jippy of making you the perpetrator). but now because your 'PISSED' and dripping with sweat. now your the one UNBELEIEVED. and angrier you get less BELEIVED you BECOME. If I just came up to someone and I batted their head out, what think would happen to me?? I would get thrown in prison. but someone else does it to me and thats OKAYY????

@helenarichard

2 күн бұрын

No that never helps. Trust me. It makes them think they you are a pushover who is scared to talk back. Always say something. Insult them back in the exact same way. And if they ask rude questions, always point out that you do not answer rude questions.

Deal with alot of toxic down right disrespectful sometimes very narcissistic entitled type of rudeass people.

Yes I would set boundaries and not talk to them 💯😂

Humanity begins with respect so you get respected in return. It is such a retrospective trait that brings balance between individuals to communities. A respectful person is bound to be respected.

@helenarichard

2 күн бұрын

Respect yourself first. If people insult you, insult them right back. They ask you a rude question, ask three rude questions back first and don't answer theirs.

Most aggressors won't do this so if you can you will always shine in the end...even if it takes a year. Be patient. Aggressors will show a trail of antagonistic tendencies in emails and peer networking, they can't hide it well. In time, their accusations will turn on them and you will shine while growing your character traits...patience, integrity, maturity, kindness, selflessness, compassion, forgiveness and grace. Jesus taught us to love our enemies...He will do the rest

@lesliebean4594

6 ай бұрын

Eloquently put. Love this!

Dont make anyone make you feel like shit for being you. I have a strong policy now against GOSSIP. because of damage it does.

It's hard when it's the people most close to you/ family members. I try my best to not say nothing if l do it gets worse. I do get my feelings hurt often. But l try my best not to ruin my day.

@lesliealund

6 ай бұрын

It is best to say nothing. I've experienced exactly what you are saying; for me I follow my brother who lived by Proverbs: Blessed is the man that holdeth his tongue, he keepeth his soul from trouble. I agree with you totally.

@tommychappell6359

5 ай бұрын

Tolerance is HARDDDD (but sometimes necessary). one thing I would say is dont get outmatched. you can bet the other has been playign game. if they are playing game. it means that they are trying to beat you. they do that by outsmarting opponent and making them look stupid. remember how cowards operate, dont forget their human but dont forget part of them is coward too. remember that is it not always best tactic to say nothing. but if you do say something (make it count, in few words as poss). start to worry about what other peoples agenda might be. I have a friend who been ''best friend'' for past 30 years and ive seen him starting to move/change. if you want to stop evil/injust from happening. look at people who trying to get one over the other. cause they are the subtle manipulators who know how to play the game. they make good person look like bad one (and worst part is no-one knows their doing it, thats how dangerous they are). They are MANIPULATORS for a reason. because they KNOW how to manipulate someone. (that no-one even knows they did it, or in fact even ARE a manipulator). it would shock people to realise that people in front of you (are manipulators). their like hidden subtle roots/weeds that lie on the paving road. when no-one looking they grab target (without knowing). they latch out and pinched person back underground. (like fly trap).

@tommychappell6359

5 ай бұрын

Dont forget about peoples agenda's. you can bet some of them have ulterior motives. its not ENOUGH to stand up to people. its NOT. you also have to beat them as well. or take back power. Do you think that any time a weed gets hit by some bit of anti-weed liquid they stop, no.. they keep on growing. cause thats the nature of it, the nature of the game. growth/multiplication. so take your ulterior friend. so you spray a bit of anti-toxic juice on them. you think thats stopped them. maybe for a time sure.. (sureee). but their gonna keep on growing until eventually. now your encumbered by weedsville. soon they become immune to tactic and grow other ways. to circumvent your tactics against them. so the real and proper way to deal with it. is to keep on growing yourself. so that they never get chance to. but the minute you stop growing. their gonna immediately take over again. (like viruses and anti-virus). you've got to be the anti-virus. their not just gonna stay in the ground. their gonna keep on going. growing their roots. until eventually roots claw you over. (encumbered by them). and no-one will care. because they wont see what is actually going on. they are subtle/hidden manipulators. and when your in a friend group with genuine friends. their gonna frame you as baddie. and then when you argue back. genuine friends have are gonna see you as ass one (noo lost friends). its a HIDDEN BATTLE. (that no-one but you can see). because they are your FRIENEMY. and frienemies claw people from behind. (it is in their secretive nature, dont beleive me? try having one yourself). THEN come back to me and say HOW EASY it is. (your frienemy will leak/bleed into MAIN friend groups and convince them that your the problem, and with force/conviction, and then your gonna be seen as outcast or ousted from group). anyone who says otherwise have not had SAME PRIVILEGE . (maybe theirs not anything wrong with me/CONVICT after all). maybe its all other party, who have got their TENTACLES in it. and making it so struggling to breath. (like hidden pyschopath who enjoys torment/suffering of other). people are capable of anything. with covert/underhand tactics. you can bet that at the beginning everyone is gonna love you, but person by person, leech by leech, soon manipulator is gonna have their hand in it. where they convert everyone into hating you, piece by piece. the fact they are so SUBTLE is exactly what makes them dangerous (subtle is affect happens over TIME, so no-one sees what is going on). it is hidden/secret form of bullying. and it is understated in this society/world. not something talked about. the problem? no-one beleives it. why? because manipulator is manipulating you right now, to CONVINCE you into illusion. by making you feel good or making situation SO VIVID AND BELEIVABLE and FORCIBLY STRONG with conviction. that it suddenly becomes like yeah I see. you think that. but you dont see what their real game is. which is that they are subtle and covertly and eventually/gradually wearing down other individual. you wouldn't ever BELIEVE people are capable of such things. (well.. they are). because secretly their problem is with individual. and their goal is to SLOWLY but surely remove that person from their life. (by convicing everyone a thing is true or the truth, bend and manipulate reality so that becomes the THING). hidden bullying genius at work. they would never operate by doing something directly. its gotta be indirect and OVER TIME. make it sound like torture. well its nearly just as bad. (and infinitely worse, for undetectable it is). if they could, make a piece of wood snap and fall on head and cover it up. they WOULD. but a manipulator is far more SUBTLE than that. (have is it creeped out yet?). it should be. this is the REAL INTENTIONS of certain people. and they are clever/smart. so make it look like their behaviour is never even a thing. perhaps they might even gossip behind your back. and not let you know. if they feel blood/pain of other they gain intense satisfaction over it. (secretly). because their hidden criminal. or heroic with criminal subtle undertones. (they work by SECRECY and live by it).

@ScorpioKingPlutoKnight

5 күн бұрын

Go ahead and set boundaries with them. You don’t have to disrespectful back, just respectful say something like do that again and I will walk away.

Walk away.

“Always forgive your enemies; nothing annoys them so much.” ― Oscar Wilde

Excellent!👏👏👏

They will say things like "You cannot handle someone who calls people out on their BS, and who calls people stupid/idiots and says what he/she thinks" as if it is everyone else's fault, they never think the problem lies with themselves, and no further.

just tired of people being rude :(

Good tips.. useful info to actually use against ignorance

This helped. Some guy I was working for was really rude and called me a name that would usually make me get into a physical fight. I couldn't tell if they were just joking or serious because it came from nowhere. It bothered me for a couple days because I didn't respond in kind but now I'm glad I kept my cool. Sometimes I get guys that are shorter than me to cause a problem over nothing because I have a pretty friendly nature and it triggers shorter Guys that use aggressiveness to make up for something they are lacking.

This is a quandary. You can be passive with your anger or you can be aggressive with your anger. Or you can hope that some day, you meet at least one normal person who really shows up.

Silence or ignore the person n move on. Let it slide

@SariahLoves

Ай бұрын

Horrible advice they just get worst you have to stand up to them and put them in their place

Going no contact.

@tommychappell6359

5 ай бұрын

how about when have best friend who hangs around another best friend? but one of them drags down?

My Mother told me: " before you say an angry word count to 10". Its timely I found this video today because I had to deal with disrespect earlier. I kept my cool and noticed a sticker publicising the organisation's participation in a scheme to call out/whistleblow discrimination. Said the magic words which got their attention and thankfully was able to articulate the disrespect to the best of my ability. From then on the service I got was tiptop but whether it will bring about lasting change for the better or they just take it out on someone else more vulnerable, who hasn't seen this video, is another matter..............................

@Keithfire100

6 ай бұрын

@Dark_Spark007 That's good to know if people like you don't want to see the world go into chaos it might help some people if share this video if they care enough the message must spread we got 8 billion people in the world time for people to be mature plus I shared this video

@Dark_Spark007

6 ай бұрын

@@Keithfire100 thanks for your reply. Will of course share when and where applicable and from now on put it into practice because word of mouth is also a powerful messenger.................................

@Keithfire100

6 ай бұрын

@@Dark_Spark007 ok

Two wrongs don't make a right Lead by example by responding with respect and maturity

@tommychappell6359

5 ай бұрын

stop bro. its like 1000th time ive heard that.

@tommychappell6359

5 ай бұрын

and dont forget about being authentic, be yourself when must. (but dont go overboard).

@etherealmoonlight67

Ай бұрын

No❤

😁🙋...It helps to set the tone with the first words you speak .. being friendly and expressing appreciation for help you are seeking or willingness to help others with a problem they are having. Sometimes someone just needs to vent before we can come along side to give assurance and the help they need instead of pointing out where they are obviously wrong.

@Noggin-Knowledge

6 ай бұрын

Love the strategy of setting the tone with positive vibes! Do you have a go-to friendly phrase or icebreaker that you find works like magic in diffusing tension and opening up a space for assistance? 🌟🗣😊

@kingsdaughter317

6 ай бұрын

*Thanks* for your question. 😊..Actually *Thanks* is the Word I like to use in advance .. just like you already do. If I'm typing .. I also like to use smiley faces and hearts. Anything we can do to express L-O-V-E now day(z) is usually appreciated. Gratitude shown to people on the other side of the computer screen is usually a 🎁. So here you go: *Thanks* for asking. 💞🙋💞😊

this girl on my basketball team has such an issue with everyone. she has anger issues. she yelled at me the other day cuz she got into an argument with another teammate and i asked if she was okay. she yelled at me saying i should stop interfering with her business. next time i see her on the floor looking upset i’ll ignore her and i wont talk to her and i wont even acknowledge her. because i know where that’ll lead me to. embarrassment, disrespect, and more anger.

When they disrespect you, you know they have pain. They are in a worse place than you. Usually it’s jealousy they will love to be you but they are incapable of praise you because they are faulty and would never be brave or do what you do. There’s a phrase on El Quijote about jealous people” Are the dogs barking my dear Sancho? So we are continuing our trip”

Have this problem with my wife I chose to create distance for my own mental health

Best thing is to work on a fast comeback. I always have so many good ones but they are always too late because these rude people run off into the sunset fast. I was depressed working in the garden and my neighbour basically said well whatever keeps you busy. I should have immediately said something like well at least I am not with one foot in the grave. I swear, just be rude back. Good people let too much slide thinking that it is nicer to not get wound up about it. But you will stay bitter about it if you never say anything back. And if people ask rude question, simply say you do not answer questions like that.

That was excellent

I just recently spontaneously re-interpreted a persons snide comment in a way that supports me like: ah, you surely mean it this way.....(insert positive Interpretation), right? Then walk away

My sister is super disrespectful to me, I embrace it! ❤❤

When someone reveals who they are stay far away from them. If they're @ work have little to no contact with that individual(s) as much as possible. Stand strong in the The Lord and give the battle to the Lord and watch God work.. Satan and demons are very real people....

We all have bad days it’s easy to over react No one’s perfect 👍🏻💕

💯

My advise is don't approach them and avoid as much as possible!

@babycakes8434

3 ай бұрын

It is not always possible to avoid them if they are your boss, spouse, or a parent...

First of all as far as rude people go if you're talking about teenagers all bets are out the window. In a person who happens to be rude to everybody is what we call an asshole. There are also some people that you cannot be nice to. In one sentence they tell you to try and disarmed the situation and the other sentence to tell you to walk away. People are reactionary you can't always think what do I do now? It's when it's during your work that you really have to hold your tongue.

@Noggin-Knowledge

6 ай бұрын

Navigating rudeness can be like a tricky dance, especially with the unpredictable moves of teenagers! How do you find the balance between disarming a situation and knowing when it's best to gracefully make your exit, especially in a work setting? 🕺💼🤔

I have a hard time keeping my emotions in check. Working on it. As I want to lash out at an aggressor.

@Noggin-Knowledge

6 ай бұрын

Acknowledging the challenge is the first step to mastering it! What strategies or techniques have you found helpful in working on keeping your emotions in check, especially in moments where you feel the urge to lash out at an aggressor? 🌊🧘‍♂😊

@marthaanderson2967

6 ай бұрын

Just look at them , stay calm in the assured knowledge that you are not a toxic insecure selfish person that they are . Rise above it and count your blessings . Walk away .

@tommychappell6359

5 ай бұрын

I have found personally that MANAGING/MANAGEMENT is first step, im going to be honest though. the trick isn't in not being hurt. no your gonan feel that. sting. and its gonna burn. but then you have to stop what comes after, reaction. everytime I have tried not to feel hurt or feel anxious about situation it hasn't worked. you can't just wish away feelings. but what I have learnt is you can show a poker face that shows you havent been affected.

dont launch into assault. first of all. 2nd of all. if any wrong assumptions going around. you got to adress them and soon.

🎯🎯👍

Throughout my entire life I have learnt the best way to handle disrespect is to yomama

@alimccreery755

6 ай бұрын

Okie dokie, what exactly does that mean? I’ve never understood because what about my mama ?

@redrag0n_

6 ай бұрын

​@@alimccreery755Well, if you wanna learn, it usually starts with yomamasofat

@babycakes8434

3 ай бұрын

What does it mean??? We want to learn!

Dr. Phil would often say to his guests, "Do you want to right or do you want to make things right?".

Good

Not easy when you have high anxiety.

"#9,#9, #9"

❤❤

If you tend to be introverted, can you move along the introversion and extroversion continuum and become tending to be extroverted??😊

😊❤

Ifaces85,,hatecrime😢

Always DISARM.

@tommychappell6359

5 ай бұрын

Thanks for that suggestion I might try that. I have found in personal experience. words like okay, idk, and things like that have worked. Ive tried to expand my vocabulary. to include those words. it also shows that your not sure in yourself. and its good middle ground to any fight. it shows NEUTRALITY. Disarm is another word for more ICE, so need ice bucket for coal. also that ANYONE of us could be unreasonable or baddie or whatever. it is human trait. all about probablities and managing probabilities best we can. thing is we never know where gonna end up. we just have to hope. its all any of us can do. but some honesty is not always bad thing either. my tip is 'EXPAND VOCABULARY'. also respect the people who stand up to you, truth is. you need someone who can do that sometimes. challenge you. help put us on a different path. (same way we try to do same for others). it might feel uneasy at the time. but what its doing is fixing you in the long run. (debatably). for example if someone challenges an assertion you make. they are helping you learn in way/pattern of thought. (which could for all know cause problems later on if unchallenged). sometimes I even felt like evil and felt glad that evil self was being challenged. (thank god part of character is being expunged). now I see ugly side. admitting own toxicities as well. (breath of fresh air, feel dissipate within me, thank you jesus).

@tommychappell6359

5 ай бұрын

being tough is admirable too. compassionately tough. not-giving up tough, forgiving tough. it shows your a chad. and dont buckle everytime someone has something to say about you. it takes more than that to beat you down. (but let me be clear dont be tough to point of losing your respect). not only do you need to be warrior of protecting yourself but one of YIN and YANG. more good (fight compassionately/forgivingly/common bond etc), less bad. fight agaisnt people, fight FOR people. you wouldn't want person to give up on you, so why should give up on other people? the truth is when we do, we in return save ourselves. (for same things see in others). the alternative of not fighting for our kind, is that we have AI (not just ai but species driven by AI) to replace us (do rly want that?) or are we gonna give it another ''PUNCH''? (in philosophical meaning) also watch how you FEEL, INSIDE. keep asking yourself how do I feel (right now). and where is that coming from? do I feel any salt/or hostility/or heat. what are you CURRENTLY OBSERVING, within yourself in the NOW. (have a checkup), this is what I do if I ever have to count to 10. I listen in. to body signals and feelings. but sometimes it can be in heat of moment. (like being watchful observer). finaly Fight to save yourself. (if possible). I dont mean to frame life as a rescue mission (but sometimes it is).

🔥LYING IS THE MOST PERSONAL ACT OF COWARDICE EVER KNOWN 🔥 “We have seen the Glory of the One and only Son from the Father” “The true Light who gives light to every man was coming into the world. He was in the world, and though the world was made through Him, the world did not recognize Him. He came to His own, and His own did not receive Him. But to all who did receive Him, to those who believed in His Name, He gave the right to become children of God- children born not of blood, nor of the desire or will of man, but born of God. The Word became flesh and made His dwelling among us. We have seen His glory, the Glory of the One and only Son from the Father, full of Grace and Truth. (John 1) 🔥YOU SHALL NOT DO EVIL NOR SHALL YOU PERVERT JUSTICE🔥

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