How To Go From Dating to Being in a Relationship

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Do you want to turn the person you're dating into your boyfriend or girlfriend? Here are the 3 steps you should take when making your casual dating into a committed relationship. Whether it's your first time dating, your first relationship with a guy or your first relationship with a girl, following these steps will help you overcome any nervous feelings and decide if they are the right partner for you.
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  • @kaliel375
    @kaliel3758 жыл бұрын

    I really like this video josh and you inspire me to be confident everyday . I always look forward to your videos and they're really good . You make me smile daily

  • @TheJoshSpeaks

    @TheJoshSpeaks

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Kaliel Russell Thanks, I really appreciate it!

  • @flaco1024
    @flaco10248 жыл бұрын

    Nice video Josh! Keep it up.

  • @candyhernandez9035
    @candyhernandez90358 жыл бұрын

    People really need to learn the difference between dating & being in a relationship. Good job josh!

  • @rishy9752
    @rishy97528 жыл бұрын

    Hey Josh! I love your videos, been keeping up with them for a while now. I would love it if you could make a video on how to be a more charismatic person.

  • @dan-ie7xl
    @dan-ie7xl8 жыл бұрын

    love your channel bro !!

  • @rileyduggan945
    @rileyduggan9458 жыл бұрын

    thanks josh! this really helped

  • @zacmoukgames921
    @zacmoukgames9218 жыл бұрын

    Good tips and catchy song. Automatic subscriber

  • @reminixce
    @reminixce8 жыл бұрын

    thank u Josh it really helped

  • @robjenaki
    @robjenaki8 жыл бұрын

    Love your videos

  • @filln2960
    @filln29608 жыл бұрын

    Good idea thanks

  • @pkmnm2fan
    @pkmnm2fan8 жыл бұрын

    I need help. So my girlfriend and I started dating about 5 months ago and it's been great. I had a friend, who happened to be a girl, and when we started dating, I was no longer friends with this girl. She later texted me a couple weeks ago and said she misses me and is sorry for whatever she did wrong. Me and my friend that was a girl hung out and talked all the time. I told my girlfriend she texted me and my girlfriend says she doesn't want me talking to her and hanging out with her like we use to. What should I do?

  • @nathan3926
    @nathan39268 жыл бұрын

    mate I done it she said yes the 3 second one. can you do a vid on how to tell your friends

  • @premierespiritomb6937
    @premierespiritomb69378 жыл бұрын

    So my crush always acts like she likes me, but today she made a rude comment, then told her friend that I was annoying. (I'm friends with that person so I asked her) I was going to ask her out but now I'm having second thoughts. What should I do?

  • @llourenco5572
    @llourenco55728 жыл бұрын

    OK, so there's a girl in a few of my classes. I had a big crush on her for a while, after a mini holiday thing with my school she supposedly told her friends she likes me. They tell me I should ask her out and so does my best friend. I can talk with her and mess around (spent lunch trying to save us both from the wrath of my friend's lucozade or however that's spelt bottle) and I see her staring at me a lot. My problem is I have only seen her a couple of times without her friends (who I hate with a burning passion) and I don't want to pressure her of start gossip if I do ask her out. Do I wait for one of these rare moments or go for it in front of her friends and risk gossip and pressuring her?

  • @Stokie99
    @Stokie998 жыл бұрын

    hey josh i have a crush on a girl but i'm moving to a new school i would like to ask you if i should just let it go or should i keep trying. please help

  • @MegasaloPT
    @MegasaloPT8 жыл бұрын

    Hey Josh, how are you doing ? I love your vids, but i have a big issue: I like a girl and she is really social and stuff , and i have watched a lot of videos and im 90% sure she likes me back, my friends say the same. What should i do? Try and invite her to the cinema? Try and talk to her when she is with her friends(99% of the time)? Go up to her and say how she is doing? I get really nervous and run out of things to say when im next to her, she is always trying to talk to me outside classes and i can only talk to her by text messages. Halp bro pls PS:We have been mensaging for 2 weeks and we have known each other for 2 months.

  • @Justin-yn5py

    @Justin-yn5py

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Megasalo PT Well if a girl is going out of her way talk to you chances are she likes you. As for asking her out, just ask her if she wants to go with you to x activity. It can be anything, but i think a movie is the wrong way to go because a first date should be about connecting and getting to know them better. Also go up to her and talk to her even if she is around her friends because it shows confidence and if you run out of things to say have story or a topic in your back pocket to pull out if the convo reaches an awkward point or simply end it. Good luck.

  • @12minecraftpe
    @12minecraftpe8 жыл бұрын

    Josh I have a girl that I like and we are really good friends but last year I moved from my old middle school but we still talk and I really want to ask her out but I don't know how to do it can you help me

  • @dylanmorales2209
    @dylanmorales22098 жыл бұрын

    There's this girl I knew in school a few years ago, and I kinda liked her, but I found out she also liked me too, so I asked her out, and she said she wasn't ready for a relationship. She's in my class now, but it's been a few years since we talked, I think she still likes me but I'm not sure, when I try to talk to her, it gets awkward. Someone please help me!

  • @mayteoliva9290
    @mayteoliva92908 жыл бұрын

    Hey josh I just want to know is making your crush jealous makes them want you

  • @matthewmorris6653
    @matthewmorris66538 жыл бұрын

    my friend wants to know how to ask a girl questions and have it so she doesn't feel like she is being interrogated. like questions to start a conversation or to find out stuff about her.

  • @wealldie1dayy
    @wealldie1dayy8 жыл бұрын

    could you help me get a girl if i have done somthing wrong and everybody knows abput it

  • @dylanpeacock4430
    @dylanpeacock44308 жыл бұрын

    I'm in a interesting situation.me and this girl both like each other but neither want to be in relationship at the moment because theres some personal stuff we both need to deal with.the girl is very trustworthy and nice but I feel like she likes some else more.i know this because before I knew she liked me she listed the people she had a crush on and labeled me as 3 behind 2 people.the number 1 person who is one of my friends also happens to like her and I'm not really sure what to do.

  • @kintech1860
    @kintech18608 жыл бұрын

    Hey josh can u help me I am In middle school and I haven't talk to my crush in a long time every since 5th grade and I want to talk to her but I'm rather too nervous every or I don't know were to start but think it's mostly because I'm nervous plz reply and get back to me

  • @christiancarrero8186
    @christiancarrero81868 жыл бұрын

    im the new kid in school and I already have a crush and she dosn't even know me. But I will try to follow your steps josh thank you

  • @TheJoshSpeaks

    @TheJoshSpeaks

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Christian Carrero Hey, I made a video all about how to be the new kid in school which might help you out: kzread.info/dash/bejne/rKaB0JucgNbfn8o.html

  • @jackdriscoll4930
    @jackdriscoll49308 жыл бұрын

    Hey Josh, forget what I said on the last comment lol! Big question here: I've had girlfriends in the past but I've had to like get to know them. Exactly the idea of this video. My crush currently I know pretty good because she's been my neighbor for about 5 years, recently I just starting liking her a lot. Few days ago I went with a walk with her, and yup definitely like her lol. Should I just tell her how I feel and hope for a chance? Or ask to hang out once more and take another step trying to guide forward a bigger bond I guess you can say and then make that move if I even have to?

  • @luisrosas8672

    @luisrosas8672

    8 жыл бұрын

    It would be a good idea really to hang out more,because if you hang out with her more there can be a possible chance of you being able to know if she likes you back,but you know man it's your shot and chance at this don't mess this up and good luck😀👍

  • @jackdriscoll4930

    @jackdriscoll4930

    8 жыл бұрын

    Already made progress, looking to make more! Thanks brother

  • @loganpotter8188
    @loganpotter81888 жыл бұрын

    hey josh when I talk to the girl I like I stutter alot when talking and most of the time she does not notice me

  • @dimitrisvagenas7705
    @dimitrisvagenas77058 жыл бұрын

    I have a big problem! I do not know how to kiss her .. can you help me out ? can you tell me how ? I am 13 and it is my first kiss of my life.. it is important! :(

  • @miguelvilla7268
    @miguelvilla72688 жыл бұрын

    i am in big trouble i have friend that is a girl but she's not getting it she's telling me she's dating a guy and his friend thats a boy is backing her up I tell her if she likes me but she says no and her friends tell me she likes me but she doesn't want to prove it but i don't have a clue how to get the truth out of her

  • @NerdLove
    @NerdLove8 жыл бұрын

    Really great advice as always! awesome video man!!

  • @TheJoshSpeaks

    @TheJoshSpeaks

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Nerd Love Thanks for checking out the video and for all the helpful comments you give to people across the other videos as well!

  • @charlieflowers3673
    @charlieflowers36738 жыл бұрын

    Can you do a video on how not to be a boring person or signs that show that you are boring

  • @TheJoshSpeaks

    @TheJoshSpeaks

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Puking Rainbows Hey, I made this video a few weeks ago on how to not have boring conversations: kzread.info/dash/bejne/iq5rvLNwqMnOgqQ.html

  • @HeroesUnite.
    @HeroesUnite.8 жыл бұрын

    What if you already asked a girl out and she said no but you are still in love With her, should i ask her out Again? If so what should you do that second time around

  • @TheJoshSpeaks

    @TheJoshSpeaks

    8 жыл бұрын

    +SlendermanGaming RBLX Hey I made this video a long time ago on being persistent with the girl, check it out: kzread.info/dash/bejne/qp94x6enp9GWnZs.html

  • @HeroesUnite.

    @HeroesUnite.

    8 жыл бұрын

    ***** Thanks

  • @redzone1494
    @redzone14948 жыл бұрын

    Hey josh my friends caught me on your channel for advice and have been picking on me for it what do I do

  • @TheJoshSpeaks

    @TheJoshSpeaks

    8 жыл бұрын

    +RedZone There's nothing to be ashamed about. I remember in college I was reading a book called "The Game" which is focused on how to talk to girls and my friends were laughing at me saying "haha why do you need a book to talk to girls?!". After several years, I feel like I've learned so much and done so much with what I've learned that now when I talk to them, they ask me questions and feel silly for making fun of me for educating myself.

  • @jaredlantin
    @jaredlantin8 жыл бұрын

    Man....I had a crush and she liked me back, but like in a couple months she doesn't like me anymore. She likes this other boy. I still like her and I want her to like me back again;( What do I do?

  • @kenmaster7544

    @kenmaster7544

    8 жыл бұрын

    Not much just move on man

  • @rexdeadpool8686
    @rexdeadpool86868 жыл бұрын

    what does a girl mean when she says I'll think about it

  • @tw1styy_138
    @tw1styy_1388 жыл бұрын

    hi the josh speaks im having trouble on aaking a girl out that i really like can u help plz i really want to impress her 😦

  • @xxchaoscauserxx5205
    @xxchaoscauserxx52058 жыл бұрын

    hey Josh do you have a girl friend

  • @meglobal1065
    @meglobal10658 жыл бұрын

    Hey Josh or anyone who is willing to help me was wondering if you could help me with my situation. Okay here is the story I sit infront of this girl i like and my friend told her that i like her and she said that i was adorable what does this mean. What should i do should i just ask her out or be friends. Also, i forgot to mention i talk to her and she laughs a lot at me when i make even the dumbest of jokes and but sometimes she acts like she is interested by touching me and stuff other times she acts like she is a kinda close friend talking even though we met like 3-4 months ago thennother times she acts just as if im another person and she doesnt really care what i do. Plz help im confused and really like this girl:)

  • @filln2960
    @filln29608 жыл бұрын

    Josh, there is this girl I like, but I have no idea how to talk to her. what do I do, what do I say to her?

  • @luisrosas8672

    @luisrosas8672

    8 жыл бұрын

    if you don't know is she likes you back don't take fast steps first try to gain some confidence in yourself try to approach her and start a conversation

  • @lantiterolli3889
    @lantiterolli38898 жыл бұрын

    Hey josh can you make a video how to pick up mature women?

  • @carlose17
    @carlose178 жыл бұрын

    hi josh

  • @adriangaribay2710
    @adriangaribay27108 жыл бұрын

    how do i ask a girl that is in 6 grade but thier sopost to be in 7th grade

  • @charliesceene2619
    @charliesceene26198 жыл бұрын

    there is this girl i like and idk if she likes me what should i do

  • @dylanhernandez696
    @dylanhernandez6968 жыл бұрын

    What should I do if a girl likes me but has a boyfriend?

  • @luisrosas8672

    @luisrosas8672

    8 жыл бұрын

    really man I wanna help but there's nothing to say,but if I had to give you information try to ask her friends what's going on they should know especially her best friends

  • @clovernebula7648
    @clovernebula76487 жыл бұрын

    100th comment.i did this and when i was going to ask out my crush at the school dance my friend told me they were dating so shit

  • @riazraja6082
    @riazraja60828 жыл бұрын

    boy friend or girl friend, nah, i want to make her my wife

  • @gochujang111
    @gochujang1118 жыл бұрын

    Hey you seem like a guy who knows alot about relationship stuff. So I am 16 and I've never had a girlfriend before. There is one girl who is very special to me since about half a year. We met at a party and she started taking to me. We almost text everyday and we met a few times already. 3 weeks ago I told her my feelings and she said that I am really important to her but she is not sure if she wants something serious right now. Since the she takes even longer to respond to my messages but sometimes she literally spams me with messages. Does anyone have an idea how I should deal with those mixed signals of my crush?

  • @dylanmorales2209

    @dylanmorales2209

    8 жыл бұрын

    She's just trying to confuse you, but she probably does like you. So you should try to ask her out to a movie or something.

  • @gochujang111

    @gochujang111

    8 жыл бұрын

    +dylan morales yeah you're probably right. I'll just ask her out ind the next month or so. I think I am waiting too long anyways... And no risk no fun I guess (:

  • @gochujang111

    @gochujang111

    8 жыл бұрын

    +ChickenCoopskateco Company Yeah I just texted her that I'd like to meet and that I want to talk so she knows whats up already! I told her how I feel and asked what her mixed feelings mean. We've been a couple for 3 weeks now!!!

  • @gochujang111

    @gochujang111

    8 жыл бұрын

    +ChickenCoopskateco Company Thanks man!!!!! (:

  • @longboarddude8101
    @longboarddude81018 жыл бұрын

    So basically, ive had a MONSTER crush on this girl for like ever. Today in the hallway, she walked over to me and KISSED ME!! So as she kissed me, the principle of the school came in and suspended both of us. What Do I Do??????????

  • @nathan3926
    @nathan39268 жыл бұрын

    Help me I fancy a girl I'm in middle school. but she is so pretty . I just can't get the words out.( will yu go out with me.HELP

  • @TheJoshSpeaks

    @TheJoshSpeaks

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Nathan the knight Hey, an easy way to take the pressure off of yourself is to make it less formal. Don't say, "will you go out with me?", instead say "hey, you seem like a pretty cool person. We should hang out sometime". That way it's an easy and open invitation rather than a direct question. If she says no, then you can just say "that's ok, I feel like I would need more time to get to know you too" and continue being friends for now.

  • @Skiloose
    @Skiloose8 жыл бұрын

    I found Waldo on Joker! :-p

  • @TheJoshSpeaks

    @TheJoshSpeaks

    8 жыл бұрын

    +skeluxgaming haha good catch. I gotta hide him somewhere else next time!

  • @rexdeadpool8686
    @rexdeadpool86868 жыл бұрын

    I really want to ask out this girl named ****** but I don't have the guts to do it my friend ******* try to motivate me to do it but I just can't so if you could help me Mr. Josh that would be great 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @luisrosas8672

    @luisrosas8672

    8 жыл бұрын

    when I asked out my girlfriend I just went up to her took a deep breath and asked,but if she said no you should still be proud of your self because if she says no you just did something most guys can't do p.s. take this quote in mind "Don't wait until the perfect moment,take the moment and make it perfect".

  • @rexdeadpool8686

    @rexdeadpool8686

    8 жыл бұрын

    Alright thanks man

  • @luisrosas8672

    @luisrosas8672

    8 жыл бұрын

    rex Deadpool Your welcome have a merry Christmas and happy new year hopefully it works out man😊😊😊👍 If you wanna Kik mines is Luis_Rosas_101

  • @rexdeadpool8686

    @rexdeadpool8686

    8 жыл бұрын

    You too and have a nice day

  • @luisrosas8672

    @luisrosas8672

    8 жыл бұрын

    +rex Deadpool OK have fun

  • @robjenaki
    @robjenaki8 жыл бұрын

    Keep me goin

  • @TheJoshSpeaks

    @TheJoshSpeaks

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Scorch Gaming Thanks, I appreciate it :)

  • @quinberg2675

    @quinberg2675

    8 жыл бұрын

    +The Josh Speaks DOES YOUR BREATH STINK ?

  • @TheJoshSpeaks

    @TheJoshSpeaks

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Furious Hash Why? Can you smell it from over there?

  • @quinberg2675

    @quinberg2675

    8 жыл бұрын

    +The Josh Speaks YES. TECHNICALLY I CAN FEEL IT

  • @xxchaoscauserxx5205
    @xxchaoscauserxx52058 жыл бұрын

    and Thiers a girl I like but she has a boyfriend

  • @momentumwizard4332
    @momentumwizard43328 жыл бұрын

    Josh need help! can u add my FB cause I don't get notofocations when u reply on here Connor Petrie I'm holding a orange bucket

  • @kevindcetolene5905
    @kevindcetolene59057 жыл бұрын

    trippadvice

  • @FIRENAUT-yg9lk
    @FIRENAUT-yg9lk8 жыл бұрын

    I feel like I can't get a gf because my teeth are a little yellow

  • @christiancarrero8186
    @christiancarrero81868 жыл бұрын

    I like this girl shes to hot for me to tell her that I like her

  • @braedenlybarger1938

    @braedenlybarger1938

    8 жыл бұрын

    Just flirt with her as much as possible. You don't always need to be the best looking guy to get a girl to like you. You just have to flirt to build her attraction to you.

  • @sviolagarth
    @sviolagarth8 жыл бұрын

    How not to break up

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