Girl Idk how many lifetimes you’ve lived but you’re smart af

@elputas

2 жыл бұрын

Really? There are not many incentives for men to marry. They can lose everything: They can lose their children, they can lose their house, they can lose their reputation, and they can lose their freedom for something as simple as a woman's complaint, exaggeration or false accusation. Most men 30 an older know better than to sign a contract with someone who benefits from breaking it.

@SM-ce1uy

2 жыл бұрын

That's a negative mindset which also reeks of trust issues. If you cannot trust others best to be single and become a priest

@elputas

2 жыл бұрын

@@SM-ce1uy So according to you anybody who chooses to stay single should become a priest? Can you explain how you figure that?

@elputas

2 жыл бұрын

@@SM-ce1uy A single man can trust many other men and even many women, except the one he marries.

@babyc.3015

2 жыл бұрын

@@SM-ce1uy Lol 😂😂😂😂 some men don't know they like men too

1. Never cook for them 2. Always talk about future husband/wedding without including him. Do it in front of people. 3. Tell his good upstanding friend that he will make a good husband. 4. Keep the chase alive. 5. Talk about moving to a different city

@yasnyne

4 жыл бұрын

I would these tips on/close to someone that is interested in me.

@taryswilson1227

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you now I don't have to watch it

@katrinamccreary6411

4 жыл бұрын

@Mr. Beats then your not the one🤷🏽‍♀️💁🏽‍♀️and its ok!!

@Rusty-Brown_

4 жыл бұрын

90 % of men will say seee ya so ladies do these things if you want to be single

@whatsmaname9219

4 жыл бұрын

MrPieceFull your not the type of men we are trying to marry though...

girl...you got something...these dudes are highly upset in the comment section...damn

@bedwenchingwithbenifits4553

6 жыл бұрын

Lol

@MandyRichert

6 жыл бұрын

Men hate on this info because he's a Dusty! He knows it and doesn't want to be played, because he wants to be the player. That's why they even watch this channel, he's threatened! Hehehe! 😂🤣 On here, a man should shut up and realize he needs to step up himself as a man!

@theashologist

6 жыл бұрын

A woman should should "step up" herself as a woman too and not be nitpicking at what they want, but what they need for themselves first. You wanna tell a man that he has to "be a man" (whatever that dumb phrase means) then you need to be a damn woman.

@MandyRichert

6 жыл бұрын

Ashley Johnson COMPLETELY agree about woman. I don't need anyone. But for grown woman (not young without enough life experience) I understand and disagree with one statement. There are VERY FEW men that are on the up and up. Or you live in a fantasy world and refuse to see this or just young and only had a handful of experience with men. I'll say woman are the same too...but I'm not living in a fantasy world, HELL NO! I seen and experienced enough to understand why woman want to live like this. I need a healthy middle ground myself. But I get why they live like this. Some woman chose to stay dumb, or ignorant to reality! Fact!

@amo29812

6 жыл бұрын

Mrs S you will be single and not by choice! You have understand and study humans' psychology, which first and from most we are animals, people have morals only to be outta jail , so listen to Ashera, she's giving you psychology lesson to be able to live in this world and get whatever it is that you want.

I need to make sure my girlfriend don't come across this video. This woman to damn smart.

@pinkgal206

9 жыл бұрын

itsonlyhalftime666X lol

@itsonlyhalftime666X

7 жыл бұрын

@cool chicka Nope. It's not the right time yet.

@itsonlyhalftime666X

7 жыл бұрын

Once I hit my 30's I think I'll be ready and I'm being honest. I just don't want my girlfriend watching this video because I ain't gonna lie, these are some really powerful manipulative tips, and I ain't trying to be a victim to it.

@BlessedVivi

7 жыл бұрын

itsonlyhalftime666X 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@SherrellRocks

7 жыл бұрын

Wow

so true, when I first started dating my husband he told me one day I will be his wife , fast forward , we are now married.....

@elputas

2 жыл бұрын

Hope it lasts...

Girl he’s literally been using these tactics on me🤣🤣no wonder i want to marry him so bad

@tempesttking5715

4 жыл бұрын

therealdess ٤ 🤣🤦🏾‍♀️😆

@aminah761

4 жыл бұрын

therealdess ٤ 😂

@felistacharlie515

4 жыл бұрын

saaaaameee ,but im over that shit

@venty5197

4 жыл бұрын

Hahahaha😂😂

@babyc.3015

2 жыл бұрын

When he says "I'm looking for a girl to fall in love with" while talking to you dump his a$$

**WARNING** doesn’t work on men with low self esteem 💀

@ahmina.animha8902

6 жыл бұрын

Ratchet kingdome that’s okay.. you’ll never have anybody 🙂 keep on

@BadamosiYusra

5 жыл бұрын

Who wants to marry a man with low self esteem anyways?

@rsvp-dc5629

5 жыл бұрын

Low Self-Esteem ... Keep it real, baby! No MONEY!

@vanaphill2454

5 жыл бұрын

then dump the men with low self esteem

@PragmaticMoves

5 жыл бұрын

Or men with sense. Are men really that stupid 🤔😯....ok well that explains 🤣🤣

This might manifest another man LOL

@babyc.3015

2 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂💯💯💯💯

I've watched this video at least a dozen times. I giggle every time I hear "Give em the move"! I feel like you are having an intimate convo with me! I appreciate you sharing the GAME!

@elputas

2 жыл бұрын

Well, there are not many incentives for men to marry. They can lose everything: They can lose their children, they can lose their house, they can lose their reputation, and they can lose their freedom for something as simple as a woman's complaint, exaggeration or false accusation. Most men 30 an older know better than to sign a contract with someone who benefits from breaking it.

tis is making my toes curl. the advice is delectable.

sometimes your looks are enough. I met an older guy and he wants to get married already and his financially stable

@kyracoach

6 жыл бұрын

Great honey , make sure he treats you like a queen before during and after.

@NoName-sp5dp

6 жыл бұрын

... so he wants kids

@Lalajewel

4 жыл бұрын

Yesss you’re so right!

@bingbong2697

4 жыл бұрын

Them old heads be capping

@chanelknight6880

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly, I met a older guy saying the samething and he played me smh . Asshole

lol you are smart, girl, love you. psychology is all, thats how I got my husband to marry me too:)))

I’m so excited to try the “you’d make a great husband one day” to my boyfriends friend. Even though he’s already expressed getting married and taking care of me financially when I move to him I just want to see him squirm a little 😂 this the most real advice. My boyfriend and I dated when we were younger and it didn’t workout. Neither one of us knew what we wanted and I didn’t know the game. 4 years later and I’ve used all your advice and this man is going to support me and I can do what I want with my life, live how I want and be who I want. And that’s how you fucking do it. Couldn’t have done it without you.

@elputas

3 жыл бұрын

And you are not even embarrassed to type this?

@ceewoody7310

11 ай бұрын

@@elputasyou sound dumb. Why would she be embarrassed and she’s winning? U must be a dusty

You and Anna Bey are gonna have me set for life. Thank you so much😭😭

@NatalyF17

4 жыл бұрын

Ava Williams yes girl!

@claudinechodzi5712

4 жыл бұрын

Same here

@white2925

3 жыл бұрын

Same here

@roniron3622

3 жыл бұрын

Yes! I would also add to your list Chloe_ (hypergamy) Aly Art (body type, makeup, hairstyles), but MOST IMPORTANT Meredith Miller and Dr. Ramani (narcissists) so you can identify red flags in the first date and get rid of the Dusties

@sayyida_aishaa

Жыл бұрын

I swear yes!!! And wizard liz too

Thank you soooo much! Im 24 and ready to settle down. Your videos have given me so much self worth. Thank you big sis :)

@robertmartin6238

6 жыл бұрын

Has any of this advice worth?

@katrinamccreary6411

4 жыл бұрын

Give it Time

@Quinlio

3 жыл бұрын

And you're 27 now 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@naviifra2374

3 жыл бұрын

@@Quinlio lol whats funny 😂 i want to know the joke.

@frenchwithbonjouracademy1656

3 жыл бұрын

@@robertmartin6238 it works on real men bcz broke men act like a woman

BRB gotta trick my bf lol

@bikerchic650

6 жыл бұрын

Mikaya Moorleghen lol! Did it work?

@MrMarcomedina

5 жыл бұрын

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@mikayacox3035

5 жыл бұрын

bikerchic650 lol yes I’m actually engaged!

@HoneyHoneyBaby

5 жыл бұрын

Mikaya Moorleghen Wow...Congratulations!!!

@maureen_momo

5 жыл бұрын

Yaaaaaassss huni

Stamping for myself: 1:38 2:06 2:23 2:33 2:43 3:09 3:31 3:52 4:29 5:09 5:58 6:03 6:08 6:36 7:07 7:21 8:03 8:12 8:54 11:05 12:37 12:56 13:29 14:08 14:53 15:09 16:10 17:39 18:31 19:34 21:20

I've been on a break from men for the last 7 months since I've got a bad "picker" with choosing the guys that I actually want. I just stumbled across your channel. These videos are super informative, and helpful. I think once I get everything sorted with what I want in a relationship, I'll take these ideas to heart/head with me. Love it.

@fatoumatabah198

6 жыл бұрын

Gothhana

@migyalmama

Жыл бұрын

update?

Oh my goodness! Shera struck nerves in this video coz dusties are on rampage in the comment section🤣🤣🤣. They are trying their hardest to make their points and how else to do it than the oldest trick in the bag, tearing every word of common sense down. Men quit playing, y’all know she is telling the gospel truth. Just stop playing and go make some money.

Keep it business so true don't whine to a man love that example

Bish you slick lol I do all this stuff subconsciously but now I'm aware of why

@ButterCookie1984

4 жыл бұрын

Because its witchcraft

@elputas

2 жыл бұрын

Well, good luck getting a man...

This is so funny not because of what she saying but because I've done all of this (not knowing) I would tell my bf when I get married the honeymoon will bethis my wedding my wedding MY WEDDING then he starts with the us us us everything was us then I started cooking for him full meals for about 3 days then I just stopped Everytime he says he hungry I hand him takeout menus lol then the moving thing for me it was actually a genuine conversation because I really do then he flips like what about me what about us ....anyway my point is I need a one on one hun you inspire me so much and I apply or have already applied your knowledge to my everyday life how can I book a session with you

@librarianrose4472

4 жыл бұрын

How did it turn out

i applied the same concept with a man that i wanted him to commit to me. it worked. and guess what all reverse psychology works on men. soo women just relax your p and let the man work work for it...

@kenyattabrown29

3 жыл бұрын

How long did it take?

I love your passion in this video! Please make more videos on tricking men.. I love it and this shit is legit not a bunch of boring, common advice many people which don't work. I agree with you. In life, you have to use tricks to get what you want. This is evident even when getting a good job.

@elputas

2 жыл бұрын

I think what you said can be defined in one word: prostitution. Well, good thing you're honest about it...

I love her she's so right!! Lmao ! make it happen baby you're in charge! Not him ALWAYS 😂

@elputas

2 жыл бұрын

Really? You actually think so? There are not many incentives for men to marry. They can lose everything: They can lose their children, they can lose their house, they can lose their reputation, and they can lose their freedom for something as simple as a woman's complaint, exaggeration or false accusation. Most men 30 an older know better than to sign a contract with someone who benefits from breaking it.

Don’t cook for your man for real those are husband privileges 😂

@xavierwoodley

3 жыл бұрын

Husband? Or slave disguised as your husband privileges? Most women appear to believe a man is garbage unless he worships her. It's sad as can be.

@elputas

2 жыл бұрын

Let me guess... You're still single right? Divorced?

@babyc.3015

2 жыл бұрын

@@xavierwoodley Nobody wants a simp lmfao

@xavierwoodley

2 жыл бұрын

@@babyc.3015 I know that's a lie. Most, if not all women want a simp. He just has to physically look like an "alpha" male, so you don't feel like you "settled."

@babyc.3015

2 жыл бұрын

@@xavierwoodley I'm not someone without boundaries so I wouldn't want to attract a man w/o it as well. If he's a simp he's a loser. Ew

Shera, your hair is really beautiful

Lol i did some of the things you said and my boyfriend allready sqweezing my leg because i said damn where is my future husband then he started squeezing my leg lol i was trying not to laugh all through this and it worked for me i was excluding him out lmafo hehe it got him thinking to1

How about not having sex until you're married.

@mandisashabalala6466

7 жыл бұрын

+Cool Chicka Then, they were not meant for you.

@M20248

7 жыл бұрын

Darnell Hendeason No sex before Marriage only happens Representative. of Georgia. Armenia. & Muslim countries... age is no involved if you not 50...

lmao your laughs in this kiiiiiiiiiiill me! I gotta set my stuff up to start dropping these hints. I love you and your vids btw

It’s not a trick... it’s pressure and if y’all bummy asses can’t stand the heat well🤷🏽‍♀️ move on so a real man can take y’all place lol #dusties

@SuperSupersackboy

5 жыл бұрын

Aint nobody worried about marriage except women lol

I love these videos straight to the point !💕 thankyou for all the tips

Before watching this video I’ve said thing like that like “my husband” and my bf gets so upset that I talk like that so I stopped lol but I’ve been doing wifey things for a bf oh no

@gg6162

4 жыл бұрын

Same here. I always do the "when I get my husband one day" thing. It gets him everytime lol

You are amazing!!! Point. Blank. Period. Keep doing all that you do ❤️ I get so much inspiration from you.

@elputas

2 жыл бұрын

Amazing, huh? There are not many incentives for men to marry. They can lose everything: They can lose their children, they can lose their house, they can lose their reputation, and they can lose their freedom for something as simple as a woman's complaint, exaggeration or false accusation. Most men 30 an older know better than to sign a contract with someone who benefits from breaking it.

Instructions weren't clear. I got engaged to a cook book 😐

@elena7659

5 жыл бұрын

Kim Jong Splooge 😂😂

at the start thought this doesnt sound good but it all made sense . good job girlll !! 💓

Got to love SheRa, you always make my day ! 👏👏❤

I saw this video years ago and it popped up on my recommendations today.. of course I re-watched it.. your advice is Brilliant Shera ✨💛

@elputas

2 жыл бұрын

Now, here's also another advice also from a woman: kzread.info/dash/bejne/pKCqr6OMj5WWe5c.html&ab_channel=karenstraughan

you couldn't make this video in april while I was still in relationship? hahaha

You're best maind opener most American women. I'm European & I think same us You. Thanks you Halpin women's... Amen

I enjoyed this video. Absolutely super advice.

I'm learning, girl!!!

Girl I didn’t know you had another Channel what’s the link because I get spiritual too lol...with watching your videos and a lil candle work I’m back with my dude but I’m learning to train him, thanks for all your help can’t wait to start watching your other channel love you bye 😘

@elputas

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah, and here's also another advice also from a woman: kzread.info/dash/bejne/pKCqr6OMj5WWe5c.html&ab_channel=karenstraughan

I’m literally scream laughing at how smart all of this is

This is insane 😂and I’m sure it works !! Shera you are amazing ❤️❤️

Damn wish i would have seen this video a year ago!

I wish I had seen this sooner. Thanks for the enlightenment

Sometimes, by healing our own selves we are healing others indirectly.

It sad to say this is true sometimes we women play this sort of mind games to get respect and chase by men but to certain degrees else it becomes superficial and deception.

Btw I love your videos they are so empowering. I was that nice girl not too too nice because my mouth can get crazy. But as I am 30 with a small kid I aint taking anymore b.s.

@paperclip6993

6 жыл бұрын

If you have another man's kid, you can't play this game. It's to easy for a man to walk away from all the mess that comes along with being a single mom. A very low value man can't play this game ethier.

Lol .. "Are u momies kid too"

well said u just make my day.i loooooove u.

lol,Girl you are Crazy,but I totally agree,Love your Insights!

I’m watching again for husband number 2😂

@elputas

3 жыл бұрын

How sad.

I don’t know why this video cracks me up 😂❤

I agree she is right on! LOL

I do this!!! I forgot I watched this forever ago. I got this!! 💪🏾👑

@elputas

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah, and here's also another advice also from a woman: kzread.info/dash/bejne/pKCqr6OMj5WWe5c.html&ab_channel=karenstraughan

I need a BFF like you! I like the way you think! 🔥♠️

@elputas

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah, and here's also another advice also from a woman: kzread.info/dash/bejne/pKCqr6OMj5WWe5c.html&ab_channel=karenstraughan ...

how long should i wait before i give him the ultimatum because all of this is very useful information really love your channel

I'm loving it x

Girrrrrlllll. I already know all of this. I swear this is true....

lmao!! okay its worth a shot. great advise.

Your older content used to be much wiser , relatable ..

GREAT video!

You preach it SheRa!!!!

You’re the best!! 😂

My ex must have been watching your videos because I swear he tried all theses things on me....even left me to see if I would beg him back...well he he still the sad ex wishing he can get back what we had...smdh

Hi Shera love this lip color. What color is it?

LOL this video is SO funny! But true lmao

I love this video. Thanks so much for the knowledge. I like u.u also look very beautiful. I wish we could b friends so l learn more from you.

You're perfect, you're fucking perfect

You look beautiful!

This is gold!

@elputas

2 жыл бұрын

Really? Gold, huh? There are not many incentives for men to marry. They can lose everything: They can lose their children, they can lose their house, they can lose their reputation, and they can lose their freedom for something as simple as a woman's complaint, exaggeration or false accusation. Most men 30 an older know better than to sign a contract with someone who benefits from breaking it.

I love youuuu, Sheraaa

You’re so beautiful. You remind me of ms. Tina Lawson

I love this chick she's so real and funny 🤗

I fucking love you...you just saved my damn life

I just heard my man say something like,”where have you been, my wife” shera knows 🎉

ok....love this girl... Let the church say...Amen!

The reason that makes men give up his desire to marry a girl is most of the time those "games" that frustrated man. In fact, it is not the man likes to chase but he does it when he loves you. And when you play too much "hard to get", you will hurt him. He will be frustrated and will give up to marry you. That is why many women miss out the man who really loves them and want them for the rest of their life. So, girls, you must be wise when playing games with the man that you like and want him to marry you. Do not do too much so that you don't hurt him and frustrate him. Most of the time he will not show you that he is frustrated or hurt. He will suffer in secret and at the end, he will give up although he wants you.

@MandyRichert

6 жыл бұрын

eklou yawo O.M.G. really!?? ALL men do is "PLAY GAMES"! FACT! IF y'all didn't constantly try to play woman, we wouldn't even need these videos. You said this is why men don't want to marry?! Um, wrong!!!!! They don't want to cause there to busy PLAYING GAMES! Plzzzz! You talk like we got all these great men to choose from. Wake up and drop the BS

@NoName-sp5dp

6 жыл бұрын

False

@user-bu3bv6fj7c

3 жыл бұрын

Act like a lady, think like a man. So, men play games, then women play too

@jean-neowoh007

11 ай бұрын

This is most likely an insecure man with low self esteem of course he’s to sensitive to chase

hahaha I love you and your video. we Easley can be friends:) your great.

😻✨💎💍 great refresher lmao

@ashajeremiahqw8775

Жыл бұрын

You got married

@abaddierey

7 ай бұрын

@@ashajeremiahqw8775I did 😌

Good advice, a little scary but true

@seanmathews1826

3 жыл бұрын

A little scary? She openly admits she believes in manipulating men to do what she wants. This woman is pure evil.

are you mommy's kid too!!! 🤣🤣🤣

pls am addicted to u

“Are you mummy’s kid too “🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

you so gooood girl!!!!!!!!!!

This is great study material for men on the true nature of women. Its a great eye opener.

@ahmina.animha8902

6 жыл бұрын

Abeisgreat1 shut the hell up. 🤣 men can be so illiterate ...

What to do in long distance relationship?

Haaaaaaaaa!!! U the truth!!

Great video

Can you do a video on long distance relationships?

@mmaeyen

5 жыл бұрын

Yes, please!

@NA-vt6mz

4 жыл бұрын

It’s waste of time

@babyc.3015

2 жыл бұрын

Shera said she doesn't do one since she thinks it's bogus

Hahaha I actually did leave, for a month, currently in Florence, Italy for a photography course :D

Hello dear, love your videos! Do you do readings? I'd be very curious and interested if you do readings.

You’re a god send.

I really hate that this has to be mind game like.... Why does it have to be this complicated :( I'm just going to be myself n c what God does

@user-gb4lb6ic6x

4 жыл бұрын

agirl nameD this is why we dont get married😂😂😂🙂

@elputas

3 жыл бұрын

Well, it's going to be a little harder than that, sis: 1. If a man is providing, his wife can divorce him and he's financially ruined. 2. If the man stops providing, his wife can divorce him and he's financially ruined. 3. If the wife stops performing her duties, she can divorce her husband and he's financially ruined. 4. If the wife divorces her husband for any random reason, he is financially ruined. 5. If the wife cheats on him and he obviously wants to divorce her, he is financially ruined. There is no logical reason for many men to marry given the above scenarios.

Love your talking

Cool!

hahaha i love your advice it works

It didn’t work I got impatient and I left him 😭 We’ve dated for 6years