Sounds like he’s only had to deal with half reasonable neighbours. The real problem comes when your neighbour acts like a child and can not be reasoned with.

@legalfictionnaturalfact3969

3 жыл бұрын

hostile neighbors love to make stuff up to cops and call cps. and often it's your management company.

@blue03r6

3 жыл бұрын

Like mine that lets off fireworks all night long

@homekodad7541

3 жыл бұрын

I want to kill my neighbour for their shouting everytime and parties I'm a student preparing for the competitive exam what to do

@homekodad7541

3 жыл бұрын

@@jessl7824 I want to kill my neighbour for their shouting everytime and parties I'm a student preparing for the competitive exam what to do

@legalfictionnaturalfact3969

3 жыл бұрын

@@blue03r6 wear earplugs

0:07 in the background. All the neighbors he has gotten rid of over the years

@trishhenley4848

4 жыл бұрын

This comment has me in tears 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@niwar8yearsago31

4 жыл бұрын

@@trishhenley4848 same 😂

@KiiKiiMC

4 жыл бұрын

@@trishhenley4848 me too, 🤣🤣🤣🤣😅😅😂😂😂💯💯

@cyrilpeter1958

3 жыл бұрын

They are dead quiet, Ha Ha Ha.

@AYouTubeChannelwithNoName

3 жыл бұрын

This was deep

never tell a neighbour that you are upset because they dont care in the first place and they will know its you if you need to take drastic action. better to fix the problem in stealth mode.. i tried to rationalize with neighbours..it doesnt work.

@sonnydelight5737

4 жыл бұрын

I hear you. The gun option is of last resort, but it's a permanent solution.

@spaceshipearth999

4 жыл бұрын

@@sonnydelight5737 don't think that will work out well for you or the other side.

@2Ryled

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly. I had property surveyed and neighbor said hes gonna cont to mow my property anyway. Then a week later all the flags and metal rod pulled out.

@DHEAD_EYE

4 жыл бұрын

rat poison works

@beaulieuc8910

3 жыл бұрын

interesting point, you are right they don't care. This is what I have learned

note to self: don't live where other people do.

@MrCoontwo

4 жыл бұрын

I wish you well living on mars or the other planets

@larrysmith2636

4 жыл бұрын

@@MrCoontwo Good point. There's not room enough to be anywhere. Thanks for the post. Have a nice day.

@artmyers6368

4 жыл бұрын

Just get out of there. Be more and more. Neighbors. Move on like that

@pockythememe255

3 жыл бұрын

Good idea i want to try that

@goldienakamoto7894

3 жыл бұрын

@@pockythememe255 i have 20 acres and still nosy neighbors man

This solution would only work with partially reasonable neighbours. The real nasty ones would turn your gesture into a business. They would think of other ways to annoy you, knowing that you’ll pay them to be considerate. Unfortunately, some people confuse kindness for weakness.

@barrylafratta5720

Жыл бұрын

that would be my luck

@natejames3299

10 ай бұрын

With respect - if you come to anyone and give them $20 for *their time* - they give you respect. Clearly you haven't dealt with people in your life.

I once had a neighbor who would turn his dog out, when he saw me outside, working in my garden. The dog would make a bee line to me, and of course, trample around in my garden. Well, my pear trees got loaded down with fruit, so I picked a pear, and threw it for the dog. She chased after it, and brought it back to me. When the neighbor seen us playing, he called his dog in, and never set her out on me again. I felt sorry for that dog.

@donze52

10 жыл бұрын

I always keep dog treats in the house and both rigs for big dogs. if plan A does not work , then home made tear gas is plan B never needed it yet, thank GOD

@ding0925

9 жыл бұрын

donze52 next to the tear gas was 1gal of gas and a bic lighter for plan "C"

@donze52

9 жыл бұрын

DW Red I pray you never need it, though you show wisdom to plan for war

@ScottZombie

9 жыл бұрын

DW Red Tape a road flare to the side of a plastic gas can to act as a time delay fuse!

@donze52

9 жыл бұрын

Scott Brown no, no play nice, we don't need those tools till the day after hopefully not even then, but never hurts to have Plan B in your mind and your blowgun close by.

You shouldn't have to pay your neighbors to be decent people.

@dottiec7943

6 жыл бұрын

Toni Franklin might be worth it.

@juanito714ok

6 жыл бұрын

There's no shortage of things I shouldn't have to pay for. It all comes down to utility.

@MrEskiedogs

5 жыл бұрын

A box of 9mm hollow point bullets cost $20 plus $500 for a reliable handgun if you don't have one so $20 ain't bad.

@MrEskiedogs

5 жыл бұрын

$60 for two years of peace and quiet is a steal unless you are someone who thrives on drama and conflict.

@highergroundgames

5 жыл бұрын

Obviously, but it's worth it to make a point.

Just a reminder why I prefer to live on the BACK of 38 acres adjoining a national forest, NO neighbors, much less neighbor PROBLEMS

@cashtaylor9804

5 жыл бұрын

Ikr! I grew up in the crowded burbs of Chicago. Now, I live on and own over 50 beautiful acres in Tn. #HEAVENSENT

@bonniemagpie1552

3 жыл бұрын

I just don't want to travel an hour to get a sandwich and cup of coffee.

@tooge47

3 жыл бұрын

@@bonniemagpie1552 Neither do I, I make my own

@johnkimball5872

3 жыл бұрын

You are so lucky I lose sleep all the time thinking if I pissed my neighbors off .

@bonniemagpie1552

3 жыл бұрын

@@johnkimball5872 , These days it doesn't take much to have cops at ones door.

But you shouldn't have to pay for that.

@donze52

6 жыл бұрын

USING TREATS YOU TRAIN A PUPPY TO BE A GREAT DOG, WORKS ON PEOPLE AS WELL

@donze52

5 жыл бұрын

SPEND LITTTLE NOW, OR LOT LATER WITH LAWYERS -- BEST TO KEEP THINGS CALM-- @@Jacob-ir6zi

@donze52

5 жыл бұрын

YOU EITHER CONFRONT WITH GIFTS, CASH OR TRADE GOODS NOW OR BUCKET OF MONEY AND POSSIBLE JAIL TIME LATER- @@Jacob-ir6zi

@usa5439

4 жыл бұрын

You shouldnt have to but its super easy

@spacelyman9482

4 жыл бұрын

@@donze52 I see your point. But there are some people who are straight vicious.

You're a good man. I'm consumed with revenge. These idiots must pay.

@DHEAD_EYE

4 жыл бұрын

Lol

@brkngkyl

3 жыл бұрын

😂

@lenidubelinc000

3 жыл бұрын

Right!

@hahaha9133

3 жыл бұрын

Shit........... I trapped my neighbors cat and relocated that MF. Domolished my old front yard/garden , then built a new garden and their cat started to make it it’s new toilet . I didn’t hurt the damn cat just hurt my neighbor where it hurts and dropped it off 8 miles away🤣

@homekodad7541

3 жыл бұрын

I want to kill my neighbour for their shouting everytime and parties I'm a student preparing for the competitive exam what to do

Nope! I understand your logic, but I disagree with paying someone to do what is right.

@alisharosey7948

5 жыл бұрын

Agreed. These are not nicd people. They'd end up doing more things you hate so that they can blackmail you into paying them to stop.

@filthyfilter2798

4 жыл бұрын

Disagree as much as u like... where is your solution...

@trishhenley4848

4 жыл бұрын

@@filthyfilter2798 cameras and if that don't work beat their ass

@beaulieuc8910

3 жыл бұрын

@@alisharosey7948 yes, that could happen the humans will take advantage of you

@rodneyleon3645

3 жыл бұрын

You pay people to do what's right all the time. If they do something you like, like cook a good meal or produce a good car or an entertaining movie, you pay them.

When I was in my 20's I lived in an apartment with a hispanic couple who had 6 kids. Every freaking morning at 6am when the dad went to work all the kids would pound on the hood or side of the car as he drove off. Told them, told the manager, after 6 months I was out of there.

This is a brilliant idea and I would love to have a neighbour like you. But unfortunately, some neighbours are just selfish, pathetic lowlife losers who believe they have the RIGHT to act the way they do (verbal abuse, dumping etc) and no amount of bargaining will make them see sense. Some people are just in a class of they're own... a very low one.

@donze52

7 жыл бұрын

at least try plan (A) before considering plan (B)

@bonchidude

6 жыл бұрын

I hear you sister!

@19.sciencetechnology30

6 жыл бұрын

Courtney Macpherson Really, youd love to have a neighbor like this fucking stupid old man? How much would you like to have this idiot as a neighbor, if you ended up with the noisy dog next to you because he bribed someone? Exactly

@denisemezynski8014

2 жыл бұрын

@@19.sciencetechnology30 Oh.....you poor lil Snowflake 😜Go cry to someone who gives a 😤 😆

@JUDGEME5150

Жыл бұрын

I have one of those

I love how this guy is keeping his calm for every situation. Very nice man. The kind of neighbord everyone loves! :-)

@eltorocal

6 жыл бұрын

marpa Yep, a RACIST at heart!

@interfectus99

4 жыл бұрын

Yup, the kind that you know you can get money out of as long as you keep coming up with new unwanted behavior

@homekodad7541

3 жыл бұрын

I want to kill my neighbour for their shouting everytime and parties I'm a student preparing for the competitive exam what to do

This works as long as the violators are sensible. If they genuinely don't care, they'll take the money or whatever offered and continue to do it or in the situation that I'm dealing with - they'll continue to have a high amount of traffic coming and going - that blast loud music from their cars at all hours of the night and early morning.

@donze52

6 жыл бұрын

living next to a trailer court for 44 years with my wife we have found drug pusher, hoods and illegals know if they keep the neighbors happy they can go about their business with much less cops at the door-- also works for most others who need wee bit of training just as you train a dog or horse to do what you want--

@exoticlady3scanines

6 жыл бұрын

Good luck with that, you've found something that works for you. Me being female and trying that with males, they will be looking for some thing sexual. I tried being cordial and that does not work. What I've found that works for me, is being stern, showing them cut and dry that I'm serious and I don't tolerate any bs, period. Three examples: 1st, a neighbor used to rent the house across the street with his "gf/baby mother" and their daughters. There was a constant stream of noise from the yelling, music from the cars, fighting, glass breaking, etc. I tried being cordial, in turn he took it as an invitation to try to openly flirt with me. 🙄 They became backyard breeders and their dogs would constantly be out roaming the neighborhood. He'd try to intentionally agitate the pit by raking a shovel over concrete in front of it and kept it wearing weights. Him and his homies would constantly try to make open passes at me. 2nd, another crappy neighbor that rented the house next door. He seemed to be friends with the wonderful neighbor that lived across and he'd partake in trying to openly make advances at me too. 🙄 At one point, he got a dog that he kept in the backyard and at some point he moved out and left the dog chained in the backyard - with no food or water. I ended up rescuing the damn dog being that animal control didn't come in the 3 days that I called. Such wonderful examples of mankind, those neighbors are - with all of their noise pollution and contributing to the other behavior along with his fellow homie across the street. The dog had been wallowing in his own fecal matter as the heavy chain had gotten tangled. Yes, great people. You cannot reason with everyone, because not everyone are civilized, some people are absolute trash and anyone that mistreats animals or kids are the most disgusting individuals. As I've observed these same low life type mistreat their kids as well, but "hey" maybe your way works for you. I choose to get them TF out of my neighborhood. 3rd, another renter, him and his ever changing "gfs" they'd sometimes argue and fight. They'd have a constant stream of guests that would come and go at all hours blasting such wonderful music from their cars. Their house sits next to the bedrooms on my home. They were shooting guns one evening. 4th, another one - a renter, as with most renters (not all), they have a temporary mindset and do not think about whomever lives around them, so most (not all) lack respect. It is supposed to be an older mother (60+) and her (30+) daughter renting that home, with the daughters kids, but they keep a steady stream of traffic at all hours that blast music from their cars, yell, hangout in the front yard. And don't get me started on the uncouth, lazy, disrespectful, trifling heathens teenage boys that hang out there. Those parents don't care about their disgusting kids as long as they can text them. So your way works for you, but it really is based on who you're dealing with and if they'll want something more from you. You being a male will have a different outcome as if you were a woman, you may not have the same outcome in dealing with idiotic, disrespectful males. And, I'd rather not coddle anyone to try to pacify bad behavior. In many instances it only begets more bad behavior.

@donze52

6 жыл бұрын

I normally do not read long comments, yours I did, and must say I give you much respect and would not want you to be my enemy with that said, I think kindness and talking should be plan (A) even if you must say at the same time--- this is what I want-- "nothing more or less from you"

@exoticlady3scanines

6 жыл бұрын

I tried talking and it has only led to constant frustration. It comes down to some people's mentality, some people are just rude and were not raised with civility. Again, your way may work for you, but that does not work for every situation. Plus I can't pretend to be cordial with anyone that lacks common respect for others. Take care.

@guyazbell7437

6 жыл бұрын

HelloMarie cops can't enforce the law either because that would mean the cops are waysist

Self inflicted extortion. BRILLIANT!!!

@homekodad7541

3 жыл бұрын

I want to kill my neighbour for their shouting everytime and parties I'm a student preparing for the competitive exam what to do

Here I thought this video would have plenty of bad, nasty ideas to get at your neighbour but instead you used wisdom and love to resolve the issue. I am impressed and humbled by you. Thank you for showing me another way.

@donze52

7 жыл бұрын

BLESSINGS TO YOU AND YOUR'S--- YOU MIGHT ALSO LIKE MY FILM ( BATTLES WITHOUT VIOLENCE)

@howabouthetruth2157

6 жыл бұрын

I'll be the first to say always use DIPLOMACY at first, when dealing with bad people.......But BRIBING a bad person is WRONG. What kind of message do ya think that sends to ALL jerks?

@rogermcm1

6 жыл бұрын

It was commerce in action plain and simple

@theelectricman2820

6 жыл бұрын

Bazinga02 this is how Christians live..... 👍✌

@chromechromosome956

6 жыл бұрын

Bazinga02 You shouldn't have to pay people to treat you right and with respect. If we had stricter laws about making loud noises so close to other's homes this would not be an issue. No one should be able to make very loud noises near anyone's property. If you want to be loud savages go make the money for a large amount of land and get lost. Good laws will force people to keep it down. Freedom is not stepping on the toes of others. Civilized people do not get loud outside. Push for laws. We need more.

Lol, I remembered watching this years ago when I was thinking of a solution to a problem neighbor this week. I’m living in an otherwise quiet and peaceful neighborhood for the last year, and all of a sudden the next door neighbors kids recently got an ATV/Dune Buggy - doing short circuits down my street, subjecting my house to loud engine revs every single minute for hours a day. Your solution worked wonders! The only problem, you didn’t give a tutorial on how to dispose of the bodies, so I’m flustered on what to do next!? Just kidding ;) ... I printed out my state laws re: ATV’s on public streets and tossed in a 5 dollar bill as a sign of goodwill, mailed it anonymously. No more obnoxious noise. Thanks for the tips!

Thats good advice until you get a psychopath neighbor like the one I had for 10 years. She was a miserable old retired woman who set up video cameras around her property to monitor her neighbors 24/7 and then sat at home all day and night thinking of ways to harass everyone in the neighborhood in any way she could by making false complaints to the police, fire dept. post office and local gov't and by filing frivolous lawsuits in which she would often hire homeless people and clean them up enough to appear in court and act as witnesses lying on her behalf. At one point a frustrated police officer investigating a dispute even hinted that a hit man might be the solution to everyones problem. But she finally sold her home and moved away there was a big party on the street!

@povnw8985

5 жыл бұрын

OP; I got a pair of neighbors just like that.

@sixpackbinky

5 жыл бұрын

@@povnw8985 me too and one minute they take your side on an issue , the next they cause trouble.

@beaulieuc8910

3 жыл бұрын

my narc mother is like that, lots of frivilous lawsuits

I don't think this will work for my noisy neighbors!

@pokerman9108

5 жыл бұрын

this might work. kzread.info/dash/bejne/eGVqspqnntfcobQ.html

@harleyme3163

5 жыл бұрын

mine will... Phantom of the Opera through my 4 19" subs.. if they dont bounce off the cieling at 140 db turn it up to 1/2... lol merantz 2000 watt amplifier (got sound sys from a banquet hall that sat over 1000 ppl lol)

@gabhandebrun1871

4 жыл бұрын

Harley Me What about your other neighbours though if you do that yr making it worse on them,

donze 52 that may be fine for people who can afford to give away $20 or $40 to people who don't deserve it. But some of us are simply not in that position. You shouldn't have to pay anyone just to be decent human beings.

@bonchidude

6 жыл бұрын

He is not a bad man. He moved his dog to the other side when the first neighbor complained. He obviously cares about his dog. He is a sensible neighbor. There are not too many around. He was not paying for him to be a decent human being but rather an small incentive. It worked. This is better than getting things to degrade into chaos.

@bonchidude

6 жыл бұрын

DB Cooper, you are 1000% right!

@OnTheAir

6 жыл бұрын

We "shouldn't have to" do a lot of things we do. But if it solves the problem for you, why not?

Tall fences make better neighbors. I found the best sollution to maintaining a happy neighbor relationship...SPACE BETWEEN THE HOUSES. And there cant be too much. So love thy nieghbor by making yourself remote.

@donze52

6 жыл бұрын

if it works for you fine, but the more remote neighbor feel the more likely they are to not care about what their neighbors want or need--

@bluecollarlit

6 жыл бұрын

Familiarity breeds contempt. Keep distant.

@donze52

6 жыл бұрын

thanks for comment, but we agree to disagree---

@AngryHybridApe

6 жыл бұрын

donze52 Fair enough

@tommcdaniel2208

6 жыл бұрын

You got it, 100%. But, us apartment dwellers have to be craftier.

I think most neighbours would ask for more of a payoff than what he's offerin.

@beaulieuc8910

3 жыл бұрын

true

Shouldn't have to pay people to be courteous... But I digress...

@pokerman9108

5 жыл бұрын

The idea with the kids is great. He also gets to know whats going on. those kids know everything. They also don't fuck with his shit.

THIS GUY IS A WISE MAN. HE SHOULD BE RUNNING THE COUNTRY.

@donze52

10 жыл бұрын

thanks for watching and kind words, for sure we would be giving tax dollars over seas and it would be legal to buy prescription drugs from Canada along so many common sense mind sets. keep safe

@animadvesion8297

10 жыл бұрын

Hmmmm, interesting idea. Bribe the enemy. Spend a few million giving them something they want instead of billions waging war.

Bribing people to be respectful and neighborly.

@beaulieuc8910

3 жыл бұрын

It may work for a short time, and then after a while when it doesn't work, full guns blazing!

As my father use to say “Catch more flies with honey Than you do vinegar” I’ve learnt this lesson and you would be interesting to learn from good sir. I use to own a trailer park and you are 100% correct. It’s amazing what a $5 pizza can accomplish also. Thank you for sharing

@donze52

6 жыл бұрын

thank for comment and wisdom you wrote, I am an old ranch hand/ wife and I lived next to this trailer court for 44 years, raised our family here-- have yet to run into folks that wee bit of cash or treats got them to see it my way--

I had my older bicycle stolen and then two night later I saw a 20 year old guy riding my pink girls bike downtown ...I went up to him and said ..that's my bike ,I'll give you $20 dollars for it back …..but if you don't take that offer and I see that bike downtown again I will make sure you cannot ride it ...He didn't give my bike back for the $20 ...so the next time,a couple of days later, I saw that bike locked to a pole downtown I superglued EVERY single screw and nut on that bike ,seat,wheels gears ect..and HIS lock …..nobody could move that bike or steal any part of it for over 3 years and the city finally cut the pole down when they did road work redesigning that block , and threw the bike away …..yea I still didn't get my bike ,but every day I walked past that bike I knew I had given that guy a chance to do the right thing and he had to look at that bike every day too ..sometimes ,the situation is a balance ,not a clear win, so I think I know what you are talking about

@RiffRaffMama.

6 жыл бұрын

Superglue? Superglue is removable with acetone - easily purchased from any supermarket. If someone wanted to, they could quite easily have removed your bike, no worries, including yourself - because it's not like you couldn't have cut that lock off. Three years? Superglue doesn't weather well. 6 months and it would have dried and cracked and become useless, again making your bike perfectly movable. I don't know what you're trying to achieve here with your story, but I call bullshit.

@marsflee3815

5 жыл бұрын

Let the thief find some acetone and start putting it on the pink bike he loves so much. (It's not going to happen)

@JR-lk8fe

5 жыл бұрын

keep serial numbers on all equipment, etc. Put it in the stolen property report to the police. Give the guy a choice. either give the bike back or go to jail. You could also make the guy an offer he can't refuse. I would rather get the bike back instead of spending $20 on Super Glue.

@thiery572

5 жыл бұрын

@@JR-lk8fe But how can she find the bike or the thief?

@yolandarivera6872

5 жыл бұрын

Not bad at all for a girl. So it proves that the thief was not that smart after all.

Bill, you're a very smart man.

@katedunno1230

7 жыл бұрын

Smart fella

@donze52

7 жыл бұрын

thanks for watching, you might also enjoy my film ( boy that stopped a general )

@infotube6335

7 жыл бұрын

Yeah that sounds good but my neighbors purposely insult me through my walls and I feel like I can't do anything about it

ANSWER: Move to trailer park that's next to a grave yard. Nailed it.

@donze52

9 жыл бұрын

not as bad as it sounds, when first married we bought a home on the outskirts of town, yep next to a trailer court on one side and Cemetery on the other, neither side bothered us and life was so good at $2 a hour wage we could save money every month. no more with the dollar dying and our elected acting like Dictators.

@TomahawkTom

9 жыл бұрын

donze52 There you go.

Love it! I gave my neighbor hunting rights on my land 20 years ago .he mows and plows and we are both happy with the arrangement. Get more flies with honey. Good job!

I like this guy, maybe not all of his ideas work but he’s really trying to avoid a neighbour war. Fair play and good luck to him 👍🇬🇧🇺🇸

@donze52

2 жыл бұрын

your very kind- now married 49 years and still there with few troubles- you stay safe and healthy

the ppl I have a problem with don't care about money. they just don't care about anything. they just want to do anything they want they even break the law a lot.

It sounds smart to have peace but if you continue paying people to be civil some may see it as a weakness and may exploit you by inflating the price.

@donze52

7 жыл бұрын

been a ranch hand now for 43 years with my wife-- training bulls to be calm by using treats-- works for people as well --

@bonchidude

6 жыл бұрын

Peter, they can do that and get nothing further. Because if they even think of doing that, then they get nothing. Or very little. simple yes

You can also do what the new manager of a Unimart did that had a 'teenagers ' problem. Nothing seemed to work til he arrived...and played Barry Manilow on their outdoor speakers!

I listened to you….it Worked! Good Neighbor across the street installed a Wind Chime that was crazy noisy! It drove me crazy. I went over to her house, rang the doorbell and she came to the door. I said these Girl Scout Cookies are for you but I would like to ask a favor from you? She declined the cookies with a gracious attitude and I explained that the Wind Chimes are really bothering me. She apologized and immediately took the Wind Chimes down and thanked me for coming over to ask her about the problem. THANK YOU MR. BILL. I have since used your tip a number of times and shared your knowledge with Family Members and Friends. It is amazing what $20 or something simple can get a positive outcome from others. I apologize that it took me 12 years to let you know of your success in teaching me. God Bless you and your Family. Be well. You Sir, have made a positive difference to many. Bravo.

I am not a fan of rewarding bad behavior. Maybe it depends on the situation.

@donze52

10 жыл бұрын

wisdom you write, still if a puppy is bad, a training is faster with treats, a bad neighbor is little more than a puppy mindset. untrained to care about others you can help them that may last for the rest of their lives. if it fails there is always plan B

@jmallett6081

10 жыл бұрын

So if I hear you correctly, give a pit bull a treat for being in a dog fight, treat him and he'll learn faster. What is the treat for really? Behavior doesn't reward wrong behavior continuously, don't treat, then the dog will think, oh, behave bad, no treat,, do I really want the treat, let's rethink why I receive. If humans don't think, monster dog.

@donze52

10 жыл бұрын

J Mallett you speak wisdom, a dog or a man can be trained to be bad or good. Training with treats only makes it a game and puppies and people enjoy games. good behavior can be trained. see my short film ( battles without violence )

@rickclines2909

10 жыл бұрын

He didn't reward bad behavior. He rewarded good behavior.

@jmallett6081

10 жыл бұрын

Rick Clines Maybe it depends on perspective, of course.

dude, if you ever run for any kind of office, you have my vote.

This guy is smart. You get more bees with honey so you speak.. On the flip side there certain types of neighbours that can’t be talked down. They thrive on drama and live for starting it with people because they hate their own lives. Telling them you are annoyed about what they are doing can be the worse thing you can do sometimes. From my experience this type of person will usually “shoot them-self in the foot” somehow if you ignore them long enough.

@isabellamorgan7026

2 жыл бұрын

True

I would love to have you as my neighbor. Peaceful solutions to problems are possible and most of the time lead to mutual respect between the parties involved. To many times though the first instinct is to be the bull in the china shop which only makes matters worse and harder to resolve. Thank you for taking the time to post this. You are a true role model and I hope all those that see this video will stop and think if and when they find themselves in such a situation.

Wow, not sure were you all live but here in the Bay Area, CA USA if you have a barking dog all we have to do is call the 1 800 number and they will get a warning. If the dog does not stop. They will be fined. If it persists then the dog will be removed. All anonymously done here, no hard feelings, costs no money.

He makes it seem so easy. This was brilliant

@donze52

9 жыл бұрын

I am just an old ranch 62 years old. been on ranch for 41 years. see my film ( how to handle cattle and people ) on donze52 channel

@homekodad7541

3 жыл бұрын

I want to kill my neighbour for their shouting everytime and parties I'm a student preparing for the competitive exam what to do

A fool and his money, are soon parted. Bribing people not to be jerks? - What a stupid idea.

@donze52

6 жыл бұрын

ranch hand does not make much money after 44 years on the job, still I use treats to train 1,500 pound bulls to be calmer and it works on people, maybe even you sir

@beaulieuc8910

3 жыл бұрын

It is worth trying out new tacticsd and seeing what happens

I had a crazy female neighbour. We lived in flats. She would slam the main doors loudly and terrorise the block. Nobody challenged her. It was left to me. I OUT CRAZIED her. Laughing maniacally and goading her, till she lost it and attacked my home with a hammer. Luckily a neighbour had witnessed her and I saw through the keyhole as she smashed my door glass. I told the council, if it's my SKULL next, i'll sue. They moved her.

There's a peaceful disconcerting way about you, I believe you just freaked him out.

@donze52

8 жыл бұрын

see my film ( 101 shooting for non shooters ) on donze52 channel

@shawndonald78

8 жыл бұрын

donze52 Some confusion as to your recommendations intent and any implication, if existing.

@shawndonald78

8 жыл бұрын

donze52 My comment was ment to be complimentary. My meaning being, a person should more wary of a man with a calm demeanor rather than a loud mouth tough guy.

@helenhighwater5313

7 жыл бұрын

"Walk softly and carry a big stick", I think Confucius may have said that. The good book says "a soft answer turneth away wrath". The down side of giving money is the next thing is the person may demand regular payments for ongoing dog control.

@donze52

7 жыл бұрын

Never in 43 years has anyone demanded more, not saying it wont happen-- but used as a training tool just like on the ranch training 1,500 pound bulls to stay calms means they and I area safer--

God bless Mr Bill ... the world would be a much better place with more men like him in it.

@AngryHybridApe

6 жыл бұрын

steve torres But ...wasnt Mr. Bill always getting beat up by ringmaster Sluggo?

Lived in Raleigh, NC next door to a renter. She had two BiG yapping dogs. Could not use my back deck because of their constant barking. Asked that she move them to other side of yard or take them inside for awhile. Her response....”they are dogs, they are supposed to bark”. TAPE RECORDED them. Next grill on our deck.. with yapping dogs....set tape recorder next to fence... full volume...so friggin dogs were barking at themselves. Three minutes... her damned dogs were inside. Mission accomplished. . Try it.... it works....

You're a wise man. A box of donuts to the police department once a month is worthwhile as well, I've found.

Wise man ....... But it is like PAYING A RANSOM to the instigators

@noevilea8370

8 жыл бұрын

+Rick S. Yeah but as he says it could have been way more expensive if other options had been tried including the police.

@sundevilification

8 жыл бұрын

+Rick S. 25 dollar people can always afford 1 dollar types. Wisdom is priceless.

@123ertr

8 жыл бұрын

+Rick S. you made me laugh. if you pay ransom to terrorists they win .

@sundevilification

8 жыл бұрын

"God's justice doesn't sleep forever." Thomas Jefferson.

@donze52

8 жыл бұрын

+sundevilification -- old tom was a very wise man-- unlike the bunch running the nation today--

where's a good tornado when you need one?

I seen a cop TV show and a line stood out from the baddie ,he said "if you treat people like animals they'll act like animals". Too true.

You sir are the passive aggressive champion. Well done.

We had a kid that drove past our kids walking up the rd too close and too fast. He didn't wanna listen but after he couldn't keep his car running for more than a mile or two at a time he had more time to listen on foot. It's amazing what knowledge of basic auto mechanics are worth.

@1980bwc

7 жыл бұрын

Phil Lowman I like your style sir! lol. I can think of alot of things to do to put a stop to a bad neighbor without giving them money.

@Customwinder1

6 жыл бұрын

Phil Lowman Well played.

He handled the situation with the neighbor brilliantly!

@donze52

9 жыл бұрын

thanks for watching, and yep worked for my wife and I for 41 years next to this trailer court of course there was Plan B and Even C but they were never needed hard for people to be mean when you give gifts but the price of war is so much more in dollars and for your soul see my short film ( battles without violence ) on donze52

@TheMentalRelapse

9 жыл бұрын

You handled that situation perfectly, and with your method you difuse all the tension and anger. I think you would make a damn good hostage negotiator!

@donze52

9 жыл бұрын

TheMentalRelapse it is said by Law Enforcement that Mr. Bill has stopped more fights in McCook than any cop nope not a cop, nor teacher nor preacher but on the streets for 32 year as Mr. Bill puts me in the right place at the right time. you might like my short film ( 101 shooting for non shooters ) on donze52

@TheMentalRelapse

9 жыл бұрын

Ill definately check the film out.Thanks for posting!

My neighbor is a police and he has no respect to the neighborhood, play music super loud and hanging out with annoying friends in the garage also park his cars everywhere!

@donze52

6 жыл бұрын

bully with a badge is very dangerous -- do not want him an enemy-- he could easily plant drug on your place and you go away for 20 years-- with that said, off him small things-- garden produce? or perhaps odd tools for his shop? things to get on his good graces, might just come out and say, ( you owe me nothing, but I got your back) if someone does something to your place when your gone, I will tell you-- that may go a long way

@uchibauki2515

6 жыл бұрын

donze52 thanks for the advice :-)

@gigiw.7650

6 жыл бұрын

+donze52 Home baking works really well, I've found. Even boxed brownies!

@donze52

6 жыл бұрын

brownies are a great tool of learning for sure including a plan A in troubled neighborhoods

@vulgardisplayoftruth2060

6 жыл бұрын

Did it work?

Simple words of wisdom for how to deal with problems. Years ago, I had a rental property and things went sideways with the young family renting from me. The man moved out and then a whole bunch of bikers moved in with the woman and her children. They pitched tents in the yard and hung out all day long. I showed up and asked for a few minutes of their time. I explained that if I showed up in a week and they had all packed up that I would have $100 waiting to give to each of them. On the appointed day and time I showed up and they were all lined up ready to drive away, so I paid them. Was it fair that I had to pay them to leave a property they weren't paying rent on - no, but way faster and cheaper than doing a legal eviction process.

Mr. Bill, I find your nonconfrontational approach most refreshing. I think that things would be better if more people used your way of dealing with neighbours

@donze52

9 жыл бұрын

thank you for watching my film perhaps you'd consider watching on donze52 ( How to make $12,800 from a Pepper Plant ) or ( Battles without Violence )

get a clue, I understand where you are coming from...but most nasty neighbors wont be bought off bc they just don't give a damn

@stevebutler812

8 жыл бұрын

I'm not sure you understand his approach. He handed him the $20 in order to get the guy to listen to him, and also made it very clear he did not have to do anything. To get a person to listen to you with an open mind is not easy, and I'm a professional in mental health. His approach is very elegant. There is a form of therapy known as Cognitive-Behavioral, but it's all about change. This approach changed the dog-owner's behavior, but his initial offer of the $20 just to listen got the neighbor to listen from a perspective of willingness to actually hear what he was saying. It was risky, in that the neighbor could have treated him even worse, assuming he was an idiot who is throwing money away. But, it was worth the risk, and it's hard for most normal people to treat someone badly if they have a good feeling towards that person. Hence, when some person walks up to you and hands you $20 for just listening to them, it's going to be more difficult for the dog owner to just ignore the guy. It wasn't about buying him off as much as getting the person to listen / hear his problem, and change his attitude towards his neighbor.

@prissynonee1999

8 жыл бұрын

what you are calling cognitive behavior, or more importantly bribery for good behavior will only work for those who are willing to have their behavior modified...where I am coming from, forced to deal with the savages of the denizen 24/7...proof can be seen on my channel. I fully understand his approach, but good neighbor policy can't be bought w/ savages, they only return with more negative behavior expecting, or demanding payment...aka welfare system is based on this ideology but gone haywire, rife w/ corruption. Btw, never cared for Skinner and his outmoded sadistic theories of conditioning and has been proven wrong w/ the advances evolutionary biology, nuerobiology & nueropsychology.

@-_-Code-_-

8 жыл бұрын

judging by your videos you need to find a hobby.

@donze52

8 жыл бұрын

I have 150,000 views a month on my donze52 channel, think most would call that a hobby-- might check out my 600 short films--

Guy: *holds gun with finger on the trigger* me: *waiting for it to accidentally go off*

Thanks for the ending. I'm at a crossroad, I'm going to get my bible.

Rational thinking. Although If I was that neighbor I wouldnt take the money id try to resolve the problem with him.

Well, being polite is one thing, rewarding bad behavior is another. Still, far more clever than most people.

@donze52

10 жыл бұрын

you spend time training a puppy to be a good dog so it is with people, training them with treats or cash,, will have a much better chance of having a neighbor that you can trust. lot cheaper than a bucket of lawyers and cops at your door, or a neighbor that wants to get even for the rest of your life:

I had a neighbor that played loud music and had lots of parties I eventually went over and just joined the party After being there a while I told my neighbor that I had to go home and get some sleep he turned the music down and has never been unreasonable about Since we get along just fine

"If you ever once pay the danegeld, you never are rid of the Dane" Bribing people to be left alone is a stupid idea.

@donze52

6 жыл бұрын

do not know what that word means, but been training bulls for decades to be calm with treats, find treats with folks as well---

@myozbubble

6 жыл бұрын

Your point is proven wrong by this very video.

@foggyozarkgal348

6 жыл бұрын

thank you! "g" has a problem with God and America too it seems huh

@emmettanderson6680

6 жыл бұрын

emmett|

@dylanhenderson7992

6 жыл бұрын

My god i feel sorry for that wee man. the ones accepting his money need a good kick up their arse

Someone write the Vatican. This fellow deserves sainthood.

@donze52

8 жыл бұрын

+Degrelle Holt No thank you, just an old ranch hand with my wife for 43 years that use treats and wee bit of cash to train neighbors what their parents forgot to teach them.

@degrelleholt6314

8 жыл бұрын

+donze52 I understand. But I must say, the world needs more old ranch hands.

@lesterpace5625

7 жыл бұрын

Degrelle Holt and alot of young ones too

I like how you handled it. Worked and there were no problems. Good thinking.

Here from your latest video where you say you're 68 years old; I can't believe it's been ten years now!

Good move ...really good negotiation skills ...I’m going to try it...❤️thank you

Not every neighbor dog issue is this cut n dried, very few actually. Some people only respond if you show you won't be bullied and are willing to go to similar lengths in order to make them as uncomfortable as they have made you.

@timberkrev7978

6 жыл бұрын

Tildy Vena 100% agree and would love to here your story.

@ohwell2790

6 жыл бұрын

It has always amazed me that the owner of a dog will listen to their dog bark all day and it does not seem to bother them. They will defend the mutt not matter what. And, when you complain, you are the problem. Then when they need some help who's door do they knock on, YOURS.

@A2Z1Two3

6 жыл бұрын

I have several 'bad neighbours' all with dogs, every morning they let their dogs out into their gardens before they go to work. As soon as one dog goes out, it barks to call to see what other dogs are out in their gardens, before long they are all barking at each other. It settles down after a while, but by then I am already disturbed. I am retired and I looked forward to not be having to wake up at 6 am, but that dream has been ruined. Should I go round 5 or 6 neighbours and ask them all to get up earlier to take their dogs out for a proper walk, and then offer them money to do it, I think not. I might get one or two to do it, but I would not be able to afford to pay them all, even if they were all in agreement. This plan therefore has limitations, so I am happy to listen to affordable solutions? ( I have moved my bedroom to the back of the house and use earplugs, but when they all join in it's really noisy, and I still get disturbed) I don't have a dog ( although I like them) as I measured the negatives of dog ownership as outweighing the positives, but why should I,and others , suffer the negatives of others' dogs?

@patrickguitar8676

6 жыл бұрын

Tildy Vena I like that notion

@henryjones4812

6 жыл бұрын

I recently retired and moved in to a somewhat rural area with a small cluster of homes (5 or 6). I have a bully neighbor who tells me what to do with my property, has been disrespectful on numerous occasions, and apparently views my kindness as a weakness. I don’t feel a need to be nasty and I really wish the best for the guy, however, being disrespected (and in my opinion abused) is not acceptable. I got him to stop his unacceptable behavior in a passive way....I found out that he put his fence illegally on our property line before we bought the property. I told another neighbor (she is the neighborhood gossiper) about this , his disrespectfulness, and my solution of putting up my own fence that he definitely wouldn’t have liked. As weeks came and went with out our usual impromptu ‘neighborly’ talks, we finally made eye contact as we were cutting our grass. I looked at him--he stared at me--I stared back without hesitation or change of expression. This exchange happened several more times in which it was obvious that I was creating and welcoming these situations. Now...he’s like a little puppy dog with his tail between his legs. Basically it was like punching a bully in his mouth but in a passive way.

Man I'm at that weird place on KZread again .......

@donze52

7 жыл бұрын

thanks for watching, I have many short films to enjoy like ( 101 shooting for non shooters)

@MaximusX67

7 жыл бұрын

Ha - no, you're video was actually good! It's just that I started off watching a couple of short documentaries about war, which led me to some science experiment video for some reason, which led me to a video from a guy who has built a small greenhouse in his front yard (again, not sure why/how), which then led me to an ABC News piece on 'Bad Neighbors', which finally led me to your video ..... nowhere close to where I started off at. I do this often ..... fall down the 'KZread Rabbit Hole' and binge watch hours of videos that, by t he end, have nothing to do with where I began.

@donze52

7 жыл бұрын

would warn you to be careful as there are many traps that look ok, till you get into them, just saying keep safe, watch your back

@kentuckywomen8305

5 жыл бұрын

You put a smile on this face Maximus!Like your sense of humor too.

Your going about it the hard way. The best way to get rid of a terrible neighbor is to have flowers and candy sent to his wife anonymously with notes saying how much fun you two have together and ask when she's going to finally have saved enough money to finally leave her husband.

Blessed are the peacemakers.

@homekodad7541

3 жыл бұрын

I want to kill my neighbour for their shouting everytime and parties I'm a student preparing for the competitive exam what to do

Man, those are some good ideas. Problem is I aint paying people to act respectful.

@donze52

9 жыл бұрын

David Spennachio for 42 years wife and I don't pay for respect but rather use it as a training tool forpeople who's parents forgot to teach that. not a forever thing, just for training and it works so far for us.

@davidspin581

9 жыл бұрын

I'm with you on the parents not educating, but to me, I'd have a hard time with your style.

@donze52

9 жыл бұрын

David Spennachio my plus 500 short films I have made are only giving options to live by.see my film ( Nobody wants him ) on donze52

@davidspin581

9 жыл бұрын

I watched "Nobody Wanted Him" not sure why you directed me your story. But you have an interesting channel, so I subscribed.

@donze52

9 жыл бұрын

David Spennachio was just showing you a wee bit of why I lived my life the way I doyou might like my short film ( Under ground banking)

I could've just used that bat in tube beginning of the video to take care of that dog.

@SinisterAngel1

8 жыл бұрын

😂 not unless you want the police over at your house and then found shot if you continue to be hostile ;)

Got a dog whistle on a ten hour loop. Point a big speaker at the wall and crank it up. You can't hear it, and it'll drive the dog nuts.

@starlight8302

3 жыл бұрын

Dumb idea.

Most people especially new neighbours are nervous and un sure especially if u live alone or a minority group this man has the spirit of discernment Praise the Lord

This is so funny, and awesome. Thanks donze.

@donze52

8 жыл бұрын

you might also enjoy my film ( battles without violence ) on of course donze52 channel-- keep safe

The moral of the story... reward bad behaviour... SO WRONG!

@donze52

6 жыл бұрын

if a puppy is doing something wrong and you use treats to reward them it that wrong?-- if your child proves a good deed giving them then a treat is that wrong? Even God offers gifts if we do right down here on EARTH

@79sartu

6 жыл бұрын

Alexander: You are definitely RIGHT! Peace and Quietness is my Right! When I'm home , I want peace and quiet. Your home is your castle, regardless of where you live. I had some neighbors shoot fireworks all through the night, past 12 am as well as after 2:am. The neighbor across the street was someone that I knew; so I got up because I couldn't sleep, went to my door and hollered to them that they needed to go inside. They didn't. I got up after time passed, got dressed and went there, woman in her thirties, her male friend, her 11 year old son, and OMG her 3 year old daughter still shooting fireworks. She stated to me we are going in in a little while. I didn't get any sleep that night and had to be at work the following morning at 8:am. I had developed a tension headache that lasted all day! When I got home that evening which was the next day; I worked in my yard tying up and removing small branches, weeds, vines and other cuttings., I was constantly jumping every time that a firecracker that was shot. When I finished ; I went to the house across the street that was shooting them. Two teenaged girls were the culprits. I told them that they needed to go inside. I informed them that I wasn't going to listen to that noise tonight, which was after 9pm. They continued and I called the P.O. P.,O. finally came after I called a Sergeant. P.O. , too kindly informed them that they really weren't supposed to be shooting fireworks . Culprits mammy and her lover came out, got nasty, talked nasty to me because I wanted them to know that I was SICK and TIRED of their continued noise. P.O. left and they went back to shooting them. I called P. O. again and the officer gave them an example affidavit of DISTURBING the PEACE and informed them that I would file charges if their noise continued. SO FAR, IT HAS BEEN PEACEFUL!!!!!! I intend to do some more things with GOOD NEIGHBORS to make this the norm as well as other issues being addressed, heard, executed and resolved !!!!!

lol you are such a genuine kind man. I was looking for answers more along the lines of silent terror. Like in your situation feeding the dog antifreeze would be my go to. Thanks for the video

sounds like a how-to video for training animals

@donze52

3 жыл бұрын

was field hand on ranch part time for 45 years, so I do know how to handle livestock- 4 and 2 legged critters

People with dogs should be keeping them in the house. Well-trained dogs should be just fine. I agree completely. Its better to be friendly and work things out as much as you possibly can than try to bully people

@lawrencegoralski3029

8 жыл бұрын

bigger dogs have to be outside for exercise and personal space

@jdsparks100

8 жыл бұрын

+Steev Don then spend time with the dog. Walks, fetch ect a

@lawrencegoralski3029

8 жыл бұрын

jdsparks100 oh, of course

@lawrencegoralski3029

8 жыл бұрын

***** 6 pm is a little early to stop

@lawrencegoralski3029

8 жыл бұрын

***** I see

The back of my yard ends on a home and a cul-de-sac. The people living on that house used to dump beer cans onto my yard when they had parties. I was getting tired of it but I'm to busy to do something about it. About two months ago one of their rabbits escape and my dog started to chase it on my yard. I grab my dog and gave them permission to catch the rabbit. In the past two months they had at least 5 big parties and I haven't found another beer can. Sometimes they just need to put a friendly face on that big fence to stop the bad behavior.

@donze52

9 жыл бұрын

well done, well said, better to be at peace, than at war that never ends you might like my film Battles without Violence

@eliaschevette

9 жыл бұрын

I'll check it out. Where can I find it?

@donze52

9 жыл бұрын

David Quintana my channel ( donze52 ) Battles without Violence or you might like my short film ( If I was the first Black President )

@itzgangstabob

9 жыл бұрын

i wished people would throw beer cans into my yard i would appreciate that since i would crush them put them into a bag & make a little money

@donze52

9 жыл бұрын

itzgangstabob I made a short film on making money called ( hard cash for Kids ) or another one is ( How to make $12,800 from a pepper plant ) both on donze52

God please give me the strength to have this man's demeanor

@donze52

6 жыл бұрын

been around ranching as a hired hand for 44 years, used treats to keep bulls calm and myself safer-- works on folks as well---

I refuse to pay for my neighbors to be considerate

@donze52

4 жыл бұрын

YOU GIVE A PUPPY TREATS TO HELP BECOME A GOOD DOG, WORKS FOR PEOPLE AS WELL

@eerice704

4 жыл бұрын

donze52 I understand, but an adult human should not need to be payed to act like a human. Respect to you for answering comments on this video years later though

its a health risk to keep your finger on the trigger while handling a firearm

It's fine if you have a person who is not a nut job. I am living next to one who likes to play loud music just to harass me and he even told the cops that he will keep on doing so because he can. He also let his dog loose to poop on other's people yard including mine. He parks his boat in front of my driveway to block me and many more I don't have time to list. He uses racist slur. He uses illegal drugs, beat his wife, slashed his own daughter's tires. He is a nut job. He is also very nosy, he sticks his nose in everybody's business. So, no amount of money will solve this problem. I had many shouting match with this A-hole and I will not back down. He finally learned that he was messing with the wrong guy and now he stopped. So, sometimes you have to stand up to an A-hole whether you want to or not. I did try the polite way but it didn't work in my case, so at times you have to be rude to rude people so they know how it feels. Thanks for sharing!

A suggestion for all the inflexible hardnose posters saying they would not pay anything, don't move into a trailer court. It's a roll of the dice on who lives next door and they just might be crazier and meaner than you could imagine.

Man's a saint and a psychologist.

Like your thinking... But... some neighbors are "impossible" to deal with!

@donze52

4 жыл бұрын

never know until you try, many ways to skin a cat is an old saying-- so getting along with bad neighbors may be a challenge but am sure your up to it-- good luck

Everybody has a responsibility to consider all others with everything they do, just as they'd expect others to be considerate of them. Anyone who allows a dog to bark incessantly, plays loud music, constantly makes unnecessary noise, or pollutes the air so as to cause smells or discomfort to others, should face very heavy penalties, and if they fail to pay, they should be given the neighbor from hell in the cell next to theirs, or even have to share a cell with such a person. There is no excuse for any of the above, all of it can be prevented with a little consideration for others,

@donze52

10 жыл бұрын

it is always better to give a little, pay a little to keep a bad neighbor from becoming a life long enemy. at least it as worked for me for 40 years.

@donze52

10 жыл бұрын

punkinhoot I am sorry you disliked this film I made, perhaps you would like my film (Never talk to cops) on donze52 channel

Kindness goes along way but by buying and paying them to keep the music turned down and moving your dog in doors also teaches that behaving badly has it's reward.

I know that this video was made back in 2011, but this right here is just pure Southern Home Folks And I Love it! I’m in the South.. but this reminds me of my papaw who’s in heaven now and all kinds of memories. Hope this guy is still around and doing well!

You're definitely a great problem solver.

@donze52

9 жыл бұрын

thanks for kind words you might like my short film ( Battles without Violence )

@kimu4885

7 жыл бұрын

donze5

Paying your neighbors protection money????

@donze52

7 жыл бұрын

no just training him to be neighborly with money or garden goodies

Most of us don't have money to throw away like that. We need every penny on which to survive. Decent people should not need bribing to be decent to others.

I love this!!! I had some TERRIBLE neighbors years ago who just might have gone for a deal like this. I tried many times to talk to them about the loud music at 2 to 3:00 in the morning, to no avail. It was in a trailer park and their power meter was on the same pole with mine. One night at about 3:30, the music had been booming extra loud for over an hour. I went out and shut off their power and went back into my house with no response to their angry screaming. After a few minutes their power came back on but no music. From that point on there was never a problem with their music again. Also they were very friendly to me when they would see me outside, and there was never a mention of that night.

Your a very smart gentleman well done genius!!

@donze52

9 жыл бұрын

better to spend little now rather than a lot later with lawyers or another way we train a puppy so he will be a good dog, it also works to train nieghbors

@mrssmurf55

9 жыл бұрын

The world needs more people like you!!

@donze52

9 жыл бұрын

Ann marie White thanks for kind words, bet you also fight the dark side keep safe, and healthy

I bought my neighbors a gallon if wiskey waited till they got drunk. Call the cops on drunks raising hell. Cut there music up max and watched. Problems solved.

@cutiepie2353

3 жыл бұрын

Genius!

Excellent attitude. I would have asked politely and if he had refused or ignored me, I would record the dog's barking for an hour or so, then play it back to him when he is trying to sleep. Tough for him to complain to the cops about that since you don't even have a dog.

This fella has good since. He does the best he can with the situation.