How to get over a man? | Talks with Tony

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  • @ariyellemalone
    @ariyellemalone3 жыл бұрын

    “A book a month, a course a month, & a video a day will keep the doctor away.” ✍🏼✍🏼🧐🧐💡

  • @CorporateQueen
    @CorporateQueen3 жыл бұрын

    Work on yourself.. raise yourself up. You'll wonder what you ever saw in him. Be the queen you're meant to be.

  • @felishapittman2778

    @felishapittman2778

    3 жыл бұрын

    That is the God honest truth!

  • @Ms.Haleyy

    @Ms.Haleyy

    3 жыл бұрын

    For the most part, we’ve all played the fool either knowing so or on accident. Is just her trial to go through. Hopefully she listens to this message and is blessed by it 🥰

  • @michperezzz

    @michperezzz

    3 жыл бұрын

    So true this is exactly how I felt once I moved on to bettering me.

  • @remainhumble6654

    @remainhumble6654

    3 жыл бұрын

    So true.

  • @patricemurray6412

    @patricemurray6412

    3 жыл бұрын

    So true!

  • @ZfenProductions
    @ZfenProductions3 жыл бұрын

    Me: I have to go to bed Tony: hey hey Toni gaskins here! Me: 👁

  • @reinaquisha9418

    @reinaquisha9418

    3 жыл бұрын

    ☺️

  • @mileyroe4877

    @mileyroe4877

    3 жыл бұрын

    I know right lol

  • @Getitgirl816

    @Getitgirl816

    3 жыл бұрын

    😆😆

  • @maryphillips3686

    @maryphillips3686

    3 жыл бұрын

    😃😃

  • @khocolateable

    @khocolateable

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @queenofthesouth4205
    @queenofthesouth42053 жыл бұрын

    Ladies Do Not Give A Man Your Money!!! Point Blank Period😑

  • @MYFBAMB

    @MYFBAMB

    3 жыл бұрын

    Exactly! The minute he asks for gas money, it’s time to head out.

  • @RG-ud3hd

    @RG-ud3hd

    3 жыл бұрын

    Facts!!!

  • @realtruth3762

    @realtruth3762

    3 жыл бұрын

    Where I‘m from I‘ve never even heard about ANY man asking a woman for $ but men providing for men as in their tradit.role. This is so weird and sad how some women act as if they’re the mothers to grown adult man who should be the ones providing for their women. Why would any woman do that and not peak the con game he’s running. Some guys really are moral low lives who have no honor nor pride as men

  • @VintageAfro91
    @VintageAfro913 жыл бұрын

    As soon as I heard the part where she sends him money, I was like, “Abort mission.” 😩

  • @LadyAngela678

    @LadyAngela678

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂

  • @kikic7637

    @kikic7637

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same😩

  • @Leelang931

    @Leelang931

    3 жыл бұрын

    If I was the guy I would keep popping up in her DMs too, lol I don’t blame him

  • @rickimcfarland2269

    @rickimcfarland2269

    3 жыл бұрын

    Man I won't judge the good sis because I have given a total of $40 to a man before and I was a fool in love when that happened.

  • @pajdesign

    @pajdesign

    3 жыл бұрын

    Gurrrrrrrrrrrrl. OMG my mind did the SAME. EXACT. THING.

  • @jewelsafire6844
    @jewelsafire68443 жыл бұрын

    If you want to get over a "man", FOCUS on your PURPOSE, keep loving yourself, keep praying, and continuously watch Tony's videos. And if need be, slap✋🏽 yourself several times a day to wake up! Love don't bring you DOWN, Love UPLIFTS. ♥🙏🏽♥

  • @chrissy1448

    @chrissy1448

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yep when you focusing on yourself, you have no time to even think about history. Too focused on your future.

  • @ayanareid7031

    @ayanareid7031

    3 жыл бұрын

    Amen to everything you said.

  • @janayewill3883

    @janayewill3883

    2 жыл бұрын

    And cry 😢 it gets better

  • @charlotteking8744

    @charlotteking8744

    5 ай бұрын

    @@janayewill3883 yes it does!

  • @ivelispena9697
    @ivelispena96973 жыл бұрын

    While I focused on my purpose, the right man just walked into my life without me even noticing!! Stay focused on God and His Word, the process of forgetting will be so much easier!

  • @janayewill3883

    @janayewill3883

    2 жыл бұрын

    Ok 🥲

  • @casadegaitan

    @casadegaitan

    2 жыл бұрын

    Would you mind updating on this man? Was he "the one"?

  • @beefaye6861
    @beefaye68613 жыл бұрын

    What helped me is to cut off all contact and ALL ties to him...throw away all pics old T-shirts and everything associated with him....it works ...Im a witness 👍 you can do it grl.

  • @tatyana3579

    @tatyana3579

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes it works like a charm.

  • @andthnwat

    @andthnwat

    3 жыл бұрын

    That stuff has energy attached...good to get it gone.

  • @lilrodz

    @lilrodz

    3 жыл бұрын

    Amen 💯

  • @KatbeautyG

    @KatbeautyG

    3 жыл бұрын

    I need to hear.this too. Going through right now. Thank you!😭

  • @Ms.Haleyy

    @Ms.Haleyy

    3 жыл бұрын

    Amen!

  • @Wealthybaby
    @Wealthybaby3 жыл бұрын

    men asking women for money is just such a turn off, I can’t find a drop of liking for a begging man... I don’t even like for a man to joke about asking me for money😕.

  • @cherh

    @cherh

    3 жыл бұрын

    Fact!

  • @tarao4382

    @tarao4382

    3 жыл бұрын

    Exactly!!!

  • @pooh4025

    @pooh4025

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me either.

  • @maryphillips3686

    @maryphillips3686

    3 жыл бұрын

    💯💯👌

  • @Nekole1

    @Nekole1

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same here. Huge turn off for me. Truthfully, I will cut him off quick. This is a deal breaker for me.

  • @Michelles_Daughter
    @Michelles_Daughter3 жыл бұрын

    I remember how painful it was when I still wanted my ex. It literally took me a couple of years to get over him. Thank God I’m passed that point in my life. I was literally losing my mind. When I look back I can’t believe I went through all of that 🙏🏾💜

  • @reinaquisha9418

    @reinaquisha9418

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm glad you're able to see him in your rear view mirror 🎉🎉🎉✌🏾✌🏾✌🏾

  • @therealwatayaya

    @therealwatayaya

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes looking back like how could I waste such precious time!

  • @alicehardy8040

    @alicehardy8040

    3 жыл бұрын

    Been There and got the T-Shirt..lol

  • @mymakersdaughter6041

    @mymakersdaughter6041

    3 жыл бұрын

    Oh Jesus, I hope it doesn’t take years😭!

  • @keziahbrutus

    @keziahbrutus

    3 жыл бұрын

    Others won't know the feeling till they've been there😌 I wasn't even in a relationship with him but it took me 7 months to get over him. It's real y'all

  • @anointedstilettos
    @anointedstilettos3 жыл бұрын

    "I wasn't a real women, he wasn't a real man, and we didn't have real love" ~TG

  • @trecheshoto-harris2436
    @trecheshoto-harris24363 жыл бұрын

    I truly enjoy your messages. I was once “stuck on stupid” until I started to replace old knowledge with new knowledge. Keep doing what you’re doing.... blessing women one day at a time.

  • @eileendom5858

    @eileendom5858

    3 жыл бұрын

    I was once stuck on stupid and parked on dumb. Thank God for these videos and Tony.

  • @joannaharrison8402
    @joannaharrison84023 жыл бұрын

    I’ll tell you how to get over him. Think about the sting of that deception that caused him to be an ex. Every time you start obsessing bring that to the forefront of your mind.

  • @nu4968

    @nu4968

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thiiiiissss!!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @heyyashleyyy2669

    @heyyashleyyy2669

    3 жыл бұрын

    Exactly what I do lmao

  • @ladyb3796

    @ladyb3796

    3 жыл бұрын

    Works every time.

  • @virtuouswoman1846

    @virtuouswoman1846

    3 жыл бұрын

    "That works for me "

  • @monaebethea2389

    @monaebethea2389

    3 жыл бұрын

    Facts!!

  • @KrystleLaughter
    @KrystleLaughter3 жыл бұрын

    The key to getting over an ex is to fall back in love with you. Your ex is an ex for a reason. If they treated you badly then why do you want them back? It's because you don't have self-love. You've wrapped your worth and value in your relationship. Develop a relationship with yourself. Remember what makes you happy. Try new things. Set some goals.

  • @maryihezie1190

    @maryihezie1190

    3 ай бұрын

    I love this!😊 This really lifted me❤

  • @BeBeautifullyYou
    @BeBeautifullyYou3 жыл бұрын

    When a woman taps into and starts realizing and trusting HER INtuition {Inward teaching}, she gains 20/20 vision, the gps is always right and her heart and mind are at ease!

  • @Dr.Elaine1
    @Dr.Elaine13 жыл бұрын

    “When you think about him, you pull a lesson from it.” TG

  • @reinaquisha9418

    @reinaquisha9418

    3 жыл бұрын

    Wisdom....

  • @sheloves3663

    @sheloves3663

    3 жыл бұрын

    That’s a good one 🙏🏽

  • @officialwatchamber
    @officialwatchamber3 жыл бұрын

    There is no magic potion 🙌🏼🔥 I learned to heal/get over my ex and it happened when I did the work. I spent time with God, I said affirmations, I started a journal and I got the KNOWLEDGE (Tony 😆). Over time ... the healing happened and I was able to free myself. It’s not easy but it’s SOOOOO worth it ♥️🙌🏼🙌🏼

  • @coachalexiseanes5505

    @coachalexiseanes5505

    3 жыл бұрын

    So true!!! Time is key

  • @pooh4025

    @pooh4025

    3 жыл бұрын

    You sound just like me. I done everything you listed. That journaling was very therapeutic I highly recommended it.

  • @officialwatchamber

    @officialwatchamber

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@pooh4025 yassss sis!! For sure. I’m going to get back to doing it.

  • @officialwatchamber

    @officialwatchamber

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@coachalexiseanes5505 amen 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

  • @dublingirl1691

    @dublingirl1691

    3 жыл бұрын

    ❤️💯

  • @andthnwat
    @andthnwat3 жыл бұрын

    "Fruit...veggies...keep ya legs closed." - TG I want this T-shirt

  • @Getitgirl816

    @Getitgirl816

    3 жыл бұрын

    😆😆 Truth!

  • @andthnwat

    @andthnwat

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Getitgirl816 It's ike reading Proverbs 😂❤💯

  • @Getitgirl816

    @Getitgirl816

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@andthnwat yes ma'am!

  • @jsav9979

    @jsav9979

    3 ай бұрын

    Lol😂

  • @lifetimesocialdistancer6113
    @lifetimesocialdistancer61133 жыл бұрын

    After a breakup, you got to be in a season that is all about YOU! Take your money and splurge on yourself. Spoil yourself with what you want. Spoil yourself enough that you won't have any money to borrow anyone else. That is where you should be right now. Give yourself a little spa treatment every weekend. Watch how much you'll start to glow. Go out and have fun. Accept the invitations that come your way. Try things you've never done before. Create new memories. You'll keep adding so many things to your to do list that you'll be like "wait, what guy? Who?"

  • @chanellove3482

    @chanellove3482

    10 ай бұрын

    🙌🏽

  • @antoniaadams2084
    @antoniaadams20843 жыл бұрын

    Its not him I need to get over thats done. Its the experience.....

  • @KellyMonet76
    @KellyMonet763 жыл бұрын

    There may be a soultie at play here. The process of breaking a soultie is painful. Do not avoid the process or you will be in the same situation again. We avoid pain, but sometimes it is necessary to heal the brokenness. Remember, when you hit rock bottom, Jesus is the rock at the bottom.

  • @lauramapani3627

    @lauramapani3627

    2 жыл бұрын

    The wisdom in this!!!

  • @sheloves3663
    @sheloves36633 жыл бұрын

    Things that helped me: - work on a hobby/passion - remember WHY it didn’t work out vs the good stuff/representative - Think of where you’d be if you didn’t move on in 5 years - Block him on everything, including social or change your number if you have to. It’s possible. You feel stuck and then one day you’re thanking God you got away 😂😭💜

  • @ayanareid7031

    @ayanareid7031

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing. We need to support each other.

  • @rickimcfarland2269

    @rickimcfarland2269

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes a hobby will take her mind off of him and eventually she will think of him less and less.

  • @sheloves3663

    @sheloves3663

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@rickimcfarland2269 Yes, I literally made bigger goals and reconnected with my gifts and worked more (like Tony suggested). It takes work but so worth it ♥️

  • @mac3643

    @mac3643

    3 жыл бұрын

    I think it was a bad thing to do but yesterday I texted him that some of his action were abusive and it made me depressed and this is why I had to leave. I also asked him to block my number and delete it (I also keep him blocked and deleted but I never forgotten his phone and sometimes unblock him to block him again...)

  • @sheloves3663

    @sheloves3663

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@mac3643 Yes, give it time and when you start wanting to talk to him, reminder the negative things about him and realize your mind paints a fantasy of that person as a way of self soothing/coping. You got this 💪🏽

  • @2cuteemari
    @2cuteemari3 жыл бұрын

    “That was y’all lil raggedy relationship “ 🤣

  • @FredaFaithkennedy2523
    @FredaFaithkennedy25233 жыл бұрын

    "He got yo credit score looking like yo weight"🤦🏽‍♀️🤣🤣🤣🤣💨

  • @kymistryw

    @kymistryw

    3 жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣😂🤣

  • @lil.ms.j7156

    @lil.ms.j7156

    3 жыл бұрын

  • @shaniceshanice8735

    @shaniceshanice8735

    3 жыл бұрын

    I didn’t catch that 😂😂😂

  • @RubyRoxxie
    @RubyRoxxie3 жыл бұрын

    The wishing you could just get over your ex instantly.. don’t miss that feeling at ALL! You truly just have to do it. Move on and realize that you are deserving of love, the way you love and greater. There is happiness and peace on the other side! 💯🙏🏽

  • @msbarbhenry
    @msbarbhenry3 жыл бұрын

    This is right on time Tony. I literally just got my heart broken yesterday & I’m beginning the healing process & it’s difficult. I was deceived by a grown boy & after he has shattered my heart, I’m left to pick up the pieces & create a new reality without him. 😔

  • @janeiahcarpenter6351

    @janeiahcarpenter6351

    3 жыл бұрын

    I didn't even know I was getting dump, he just showed up Thanksgiving with his ex. Grown ass boy.

  • @ena__we4205

    @ena__we4205

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@janeiahcarpenter6351 very childish

  • @Yohannes02

    @Yohannes02

    3 жыл бұрын

    🙏🏿

  • @msbarbhenry

    @msbarbhenry

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@janeiahcarpenter6351 wow, I’m so sorry to hear that sis. I may not know you but I feel for you. Hang in there love, there IS a light at the end of the tunnel. Whatever isn’t blessed by God is His protection. You deserve better

  • @eerynessential

    @eerynessential

    3 жыл бұрын

    You will be okay if y'all have no child together..Even better!! I have a child, but I'm 100% done with my daughter's Narcissistic dad. He's very demonic it's so disgusting! I dontvallow my daughter to be left w. Him alone! Work on breaking that soultie! Block him & change your number, remove mutual friends if they bring him up to You! Tony is speaking 10000000% FACTS, but this is Always Spiritual FIRST. Please watch ASSC DIRECT w. Quinn Holliday. He speaks on Narcissist.. Dr. Carmen Bryant, RC Blakes Jr., & a host of other people speaking on tht.I promise you you will have similar stories!! Grown boys are Narcissistic Men! They are Demonic!! They love bomb, devalue, & discard.. Please watch videos on Narcissistic Abuse. Peace, Love & Light💕

  • @marshellepayne4020
    @marshellepayne40203 жыл бұрын

    I finally left a relationship that wasn’t going nowhere in August. Once you’ve been hurt you don’t look back i mean who is intentionally looking to be hurt again. Not the kind I experienced. Once I was gone I was gone. Yes it hurts because I spent 6 years w/ him but nothing worth that pain again and it was toxic. Ladies focus on you and your healing stay busy

  • @janayewill3883

    @janayewill3883

    2 жыл бұрын

    How are you now ?

  • @shiaspiritual962
    @shiaspiritual9623 жыл бұрын

    I can’t be the only person crying 😭 laughing when he do his scenarios, Tony Is the truth the only person that can make a valid point , teach and make you laugh at the same time .. love ❤️ watching his videos .. Never had a man ask me for money 💴 and if I did ima laugh in his face then throw up the deuce ✌🏽.. please girl focus on you and cut him all the way off .. he’s an Ex for a reason

  • @luulips

    @luulips

    3 жыл бұрын

    And when he has the man saying “you know I’m from the streets” I holler! 😂😂😂

  • @scarletroseechos5690

    @scarletroseechos5690

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes ♥

  • @candracurryofficial
    @candracurryofficial3 жыл бұрын

    Get under God's wings and detox from the relationship. Let him wash and clean you and make you new for you to have peace and give your soul rest!

  • @chanellove3482

    @chanellove3482

    10 ай бұрын

    🙏🏾🙌🏽

  • @FutureAttyInTheMaking
    @FutureAttyInTheMaking3 жыл бұрын

    1. Pray, 2. Forgive, 3. Release, 4. Know You’re Self-Worth/Value/Self-Confidence, 5. And Move on and Never Look Back (not even a slight glance over the right shoulder)..Stay Blessed and Highly Favored Beautiful People! 🙏🏼💛

  • @rickimcfarland2269
    @rickimcfarland22693 жыл бұрын

    Asking for money?! Sis, he should be calling to see if you need anything, not calling you to tell you what HE needs.

  • @peaceful_and_blessed2879
    @peaceful_and_blessed28793 жыл бұрын

    I like when Tony says the grown boy is crying boo hoo, saying, “Im not cryin cuz you know I’m from the skreets”! 😂

  • @iamTiffanyEmpowermentPodcast
    @iamTiffanyEmpowermentPodcast3 жыл бұрын

    He is a bum asking for your money

  • @officialwatchamber

    @officialwatchamber

    3 жыл бұрын

    That part!!

  • @msslim7658

    @msslim7658

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂

  • @mariejilberia5908

    @mariejilberia5908

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂 yes basically

  • @aries81M

    @aries81M

    3 жыл бұрын

    The worst kind of man

  • @Glamrocs

    @Glamrocs

    3 жыл бұрын

    Facts

  • @laurencuthbert414
    @laurencuthbert4143 жыл бұрын

    Three words: FOCUS. ON. YOURSELF. It works every time.

  • @msvonne6044
    @msvonne60443 жыл бұрын

    Purpose expedites healing (if you walk in your purpose you will walk in healing).

  • @ladyb3796

    @ladyb3796

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ooh, I needed that!!!!!!

  • @eerynessential

    @eerynessential

    3 жыл бұрын

    Love This!!!!!🤗

  • @breewelch5982
    @breewelch59823 жыл бұрын

    I must say, now that I know I’m supposed to be loved like how Christ loves the church. None of my relationships were up to par. I’d rather keep busy than miss anything in the past.

  • @VJ-zw7xz

    @VJ-zw7xz

    3 жыл бұрын

    True

  • @lil.ms.j7156

    @lil.ms.j7156

    3 жыл бұрын

    I felt this. If I'm being honest none of my relationships were even relationships.

  • @nataliet.3023

    @nataliet.3023

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@lil.ms.j7156 I agree. It hurts to acknowledge this but it has to be done, that way you know what not to accept next time. I look back at my relationship with my daughters' father and I'm like that wasnt no real loving relationship and that man did not love me like he "claimed" he did.

  • @jaim2976
    @jaim29763 жыл бұрын

    Tony you ain’t nothing but the truth.. I wish I’ve heard/knew this years ago. Wasted a lot of valuable time.. young ladies” DON’T STAY FOR HIM, LEAVE FOR YOU”.

  • @TheTiaNetwork
    @TheTiaNetwork3 жыл бұрын

    The block button is my favorite button of all time.

  • @sylviasalcedo8569
    @sylviasalcedo85693 жыл бұрын

    A Tony video a day, keep the fools away! 💯👏🏽👏🏽

  • @latoyablackman8063

    @latoyablackman8063

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes it does!!!

  • @acd1168
    @acd11683 жыл бұрын

    It’s true. You just get really, really busy. That’s how I got through.

  • @VJ-zw7xz
    @VJ-zw7xz3 жыл бұрын

    Asking for money that would’ve instantly move on . A man is a provider not loser

  • @cindeed4422
    @cindeed44223 жыл бұрын

    “He just want your MonTee”! 😂

  • @roja_xo5527
    @roja_xo55273 жыл бұрын

    I swear I be getting my mental purse and track shoes. Gots to go. I can honestly say it hit different when a man make you feel stupid. I really need that at times.

  • @tchiz6236
    @tchiz62363 жыл бұрын

    Please read A women's influence!!! I just finished reading this wonderful book early this morning. This will give you the answer to your question. You have to work in order to move forward. I thought I had real love but after doing the work, reading A women's influence, learning and building myself, I realized I didn't have real love. You must put the work in to HEAL and move forward!!

  • @IamKarryanne
    @IamKarryanne3 жыл бұрын

    It’s the acting for me 🗣🗣😭😭 I know I done been played before 🥴

  • @paulasullivan3224
    @paulasullivan32243 жыл бұрын

    He said “I lost y’all purse”! Is he referring to the ear phones he uses as a purse? I tell ya, I hollered. He is a whole mess....too funny!

  • @mymakersdaughter6041

    @mymakersdaughter6041

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes, he misplaced the ear phones😩!

  • @deespeaks._6315

    @deespeaks._6315

    3 жыл бұрын

    Why he said Purse though lmaooo

  • @renees8199
    @renees81993 жыл бұрын

    Asking for money, he see you as an ATM. Block him. Feed yourself with knowledge and strength. You will get through this.

  • @jewelsafire6844
    @jewelsafire68443 жыл бұрын

    He's an EX, that got the nerve to ask for money💵?! That's an EX that got to be given the 🪓! I work too hard for mine. NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!🤨😒✌🏽

  • @ew0711
    @ew07113 жыл бұрын

    Man, the way I just laughed when you said " you went to buy something, they call the police on you, yo credit score so bad" 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤭

  • @msbenham11
    @msbenham113 жыл бұрын

    I uber eats and listen to the videos all day and stay getting read...I appreciate it

  • @etetetet2576
    @etetetet25762 жыл бұрын

    The feeling is so heavy. I hope I get out of this without losing myself 💔

  • @erynd.9911
    @erynd.99113 жыл бұрын

    Breaking a soul-tie is hard but you have to do the work each day...you have to get up and do the work..its that simple and easy you must be committed to the process and for me I was determined to move on, heal, grow and get the knowledge because I did not want to make the same mistakes in the next relationship and I knew that if I remained bitter and angry it would be hard for God to bless me. Also, ladies lets be real...if a man is still able to contact you it is because you are allowing him to do so bc the door is still cracked open. 🤷🏾‍♀️shut the door all of the way and block that man on everything sis! He no longer deserves to have access to you.

  • @SunkissedKuri
    @SunkissedKuri3 жыл бұрын

    Erykah Badu said, you gotta keep going through it. After you get tired ENOUGH, you'll evolve. 🎯

  • @je39981

    @je39981

    3 жыл бұрын

    Well said.

  • @kingsagenda
    @kingsagenda3 жыл бұрын

    I shared one video of your called "man to man" or something similar to that with my 18 year old last weekend and he's been binge watching you ever since. He is very intellectual and a real thinker. I'm BLESSED. Him and his 17 year old brother are good kids never been in trouble, focused....just got good heads on their shoulders. Anyway, he really is taking in what you have to share. Thanks for the gift. ❤️✝️

  • @blacksongbird100
    @blacksongbird1003 жыл бұрын

    Real talk. As you hear the wisdom and advice from the videos and see bits and pieces of your situation, you'll feel yourself detaching from the fool in your life. Your "ego" or bad habits may resist this process but if you keep doing this you will notice yourself thinking "Hunh? What did I ever see in him?" He might not even be physically attractive anymore. You'll also notice that when you think of him or engage with him again that your emotions will be different. He'll feel more like a former classmate or someone from the street rather than a "loss". The more you invest in your education, i.e. videos, the faster you'll get over the guy without moving into your old patterns of taking him back or replacing him with an "identical twin".

  • @aS-qu1vp

    @aS-qu1vp

    2 жыл бұрын

    Preach !

  • @sherylleelee
    @sherylleelee3 жыл бұрын

    An ATM that misses the money withdrawer that never makes deposits.

  • @divaland7

    @divaland7

    3 жыл бұрын

    Jesus! This HIT SO HARD! Felt this in my shondo‼️Story of my life 😩😔

  • @toneyfox6328

    @toneyfox6328

    3 жыл бұрын

    Jus a narc narcing

  • @missHLE

    @missHLE

    3 жыл бұрын

    🥺😭

  • @prettyb5130
    @prettyb51303 жыл бұрын

    I appreciate all the gems u drop. Keep giving up game it's building women up 1 at a time. I'm one of them🥰

  • @officialwatchamber

    @officialwatchamber

    3 жыл бұрын

    Amen and amen 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

  • @dnatural753

    @dnatural753

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yessss!!👏

  • @MrsMiller22

    @MrsMiller22

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me too! Wish I would have known this before I started dating

  • @nikkiwalker2017
    @nikkiwalker20173 жыл бұрын

    And might I add...all these "how to's", can be applied, in life, in general. Sometimes, we as women, need to shift our focus. Just get over the man, lol but "how to glow up, become abundant, and walk your life path and soul-mission" is exactly the 3Bs. That makes for a win-win situation. 💯💯💯

  • @Jenny-gw6gg
    @Jenny-gw6gg3 жыл бұрын

    I am witness to everything Tony is saying in this video. I took ever step he mentioned and that is how I freed myself from my ex. As I was healing, God started revealing things to me about my ex because I was ready to accept it. "The truth shall set you free". Do the work and be patient with yourself. It took some time but you'll get through it.

  • @rachelf4883
    @rachelf48833 жыл бұрын

    Finally purchased A Woman’s Influence audio book today. Gonna listen while driving to and from work.

  • @antoniac1234
    @antoniac12343 жыл бұрын

    You have to go no contact with someone if you really want to get over them.

  • @anointedstilettos
    @anointedstilettos3 жыл бұрын

    "A book a month, a course a month, and a video a day will keep the doctor away" ~TG. Got it ✔

  • @jenniferthompson5146
    @jenniferthompson51463 жыл бұрын

    The more distance you get from him the more clarity you will have. Block block block! I think about all the tears and stress and false hopes vs all the peace I have now!!! Also: Get out and about and you will be reminded that there are lots of men out there and that they are still attracted to you! The work of healing only really starts to happen when you cut him off completely, in my experience.

  • @mac3643

    @mac3643

    3 жыл бұрын

    I get an emotional knock down every couple of weeks. Now after 10 weeks I broke up no contact. These soul ties are hard thing really.

  • @tsjordan31
    @tsjordan313 жыл бұрын

    “Your credit score looking like a shoe size”. 😂 😂 😂 Whew TG knows he’s funny.

  • @NR-yt4ku
    @NR-yt4ku3 жыл бұрын

    Tony can you do a video on why you think our fathers choose not to educate there daughters on self love and how to choose a good man. Why are parents so silent?

  • @letitiabelk1067
    @letitiabelk10673 жыл бұрын

    Your videos really do help!! I could not get over that clown till I started watching

  • @Synquette
    @Synquette3 жыл бұрын

    Wow! Had to pause this video because as Tony was talking I’m literally listening while writing a blog post. I was or I’m going through a similar situation but because of this situation as well as being confined indoors because of C19, I’ve started a blog/website, a second Instagram page focused on knowing your worth, started a KZread channel, a podcast, relaunched my book and writing a second book & go to the gym 4 times a week! I am not playing anymore or sleeping on my dreams or potential. I want to successfully graduate from the Tony Gaskin’s Real Love academy as valedictorian majoring in the 3 Bs (Brain, Brand, Body) & steering clear of all 🚲 ! Thanks again Tony, your words are not falling on deaf ears but it’s definitely needed

  • @magalir.535

    @magalir.535

    3 жыл бұрын

    You go Queen!!

  • @Synquette

    @Synquette

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@magalir.535 thanks & right back at cha 👑

  • @sylviasalcedo8569
    @sylviasalcedo85693 жыл бұрын

    The reason I listen to listen and loyal, is because since I have been listening to him, I have experienced 99.9% of what he says about men. I totally admit this. When women ask me who I listen to and why, I say, cause I have gone through what he's talking about, 💯💯💯💯. Thank you for my life change!

  • @jam1369
    @jam13693 жыл бұрын

    This information helps individuals and our society as a whole.

  • @lynnjones7695
    @lynnjones76953 жыл бұрын

    Knowledge BUILDS confidence, yes sirrrrr!!!

  • @erinncole6246
    @erinncole62463 жыл бұрын

    I really LOVE talks with Tony! Not only are you hilarious but you touch on so much! You have helped me so much! Thank you for blessing us!🙏🏽

  • @mstijuni
    @mstijuni3 жыл бұрын

    Him asking for money, should be the turn off of forever

  • @denisemyers733
    @denisemyers7333 жыл бұрын

    Old knowledge. With new knowledge. Then apply now that’s a Game changer for sure. No more SOS for me.

  • @krystalsmall-mortley5003
    @krystalsmall-mortley50033 жыл бұрын

    Experian said to hold you !!! I'm dead 🤣

  • @lindalovehearts
    @lindalovehearts8 ай бұрын

    This a whole reality show segment 😅💛💜🩷

  • @kymistryw
    @kymistryw3 жыл бұрын

    Tony stay giving someone a cookie 🍪😂😂😂 😂😂😂😂

  • @natashafreeman2220
    @natashafreeman22203 жыл бұрын

    Let go by focusing on Leveling up so you can better attract someone of quality and good character.

  • @mitz1919
    @mitz19193 жыл бұрын

    When he replays grown boy behavior he does not miss a beat! It’s sad but everything u re-enacted was exactly to a tee what I have witnessed.

  • @Just_Me71
    @Just_Me713 жыл бұрын

    With love I tell you to listen to Tony. I waited 18 years for my baby's daddy to grow up and come home. 18 years!! We started talking last year and he tells me that he's sowing his wild oats. I have to remember the hurtful things that he has said to me so that I can get it through my thick head that no, he doesn't love me. It's finally getting easier. He called me this morning and I didn't answer. I'm not playing the get him back game. I honestly didn't want to talk to him. Being respectful, I did text him later and he replied and that was it. We continue to talk because our daughter is having problems. But, please, condition your mind and listen to Tony. He is truly a godsend. I wish you peace.

  • @toneyfox6328

    @toneyfox6328

    3 жыл бұрын

    I wanna sow knockin the piss outta him, dont worry sis u kno now n I pray for peace n that u know who u are in Gods eyes xoxo

  • @LadyAngela678

    @LadyAngela678

    3 жыл бұрын

    Dont wait on no man

  • @Just_Me71

    @Just_Me71

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@toneyfox6328 I appreciate you.

  • @alicehardy8040

    @alicehardy8040

    3 жыл бұрын

    God Bring You Strength

  • @elviaperez7315
    @elviaperez73152 ай бұрын

    This is where im at in my life and now its time to LISTEN and stop being stuck on stupid ❤

  • @shifeniajackson2512
    @shifeniajackson25123 жыл бұрын

    The knowledge that Tony gives is so helpful. I was blind, but now I see.

  • @love7loyalty-MHA
    @love7loyalty-MHA3 жыл бұрын

    "That's real typing now. I ain't just playing with keys, yeah I know how to type" 😂😂😂😂😂😂 Uncle Tony, love for us to know he can type 👨🏾‍💻👨🏾‍💻😂😂

  • @alicehardy8040

    @alicehardy8040

    3 жыл бұрын

    He crazy......need this video fr

  • @ed000
    @ed0003 жыл бұрын

    The 3 Bs- Brain,Brand and Body!!

  • @nikkirowland
    @nikkirowland3 жыл бұрын

    I’m ready for that community Tony!

  • @natoshiastallworth1395

    @natoshiastallworth1395

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yesss

  • @msbarbhenry
    @msbarbhenry3 жыл бұрын

    Wheww chile, the way Tony be giving these scenarios, you would think he be a fly on the wall when things play out lol the reactions & responses be so on point

  • @VJ-zw7xz

    @VJ-zw7xz

    3 жыл бұрын

    FACTS

  • @avianne
    @avianne3 жыл бұрын

    Totally excited about the new community!

  • @latishaturner5114
    @latishaturner51143 жыл бұрын

    Love these videos. Always a good message and a good laugh. That crying scene took me out😂😂

  • @katinafrierson9461
    @katinafrierson94612 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, I needed to hear this! Brain, Brand, and Body!!!

  • @elizabethschilling7178
    @elizabethschilling71783 жыл бұрын

    Do the work!! Best advice Tony give us!

  • @sharonkeggins290
    @sharonkeggins2903 жыл бұрын

    Hey Brother! We need our purse when we gotta go😂😂😂😂God bless you with the new community site! I’m ready and excited to be part of this 🙏💕

  • @masyiotownsend6939
    @masyiotownsend69393 жыл бұрын

    Mr. Gaskins...THANK YOU! God bless you and your family.❤️🙏🏽

  • @luulips
    @luulips3 жыл бұрын

    Awesome video as always Tony. Stay blessed.

  • @nolalmills7762
    @nolalmills77623 жыл бұрын

    I'm caught back up 🙌🏾 keep em coming Tony I look forward to these everyday! Thank you ❤️

  • @nikkinanette8807
    @nikkinanette88073 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Tony. God bless you and your family.

  • @msdurham2
    @msdurham23 жыл бұрын

    I have learned from watching you Tony that I had to cut my ex off completely everything blocked phone and social media. And we have kids together but I refuse to have direct contact because I had the Dummy Award waiting 16 years for the man I had 3 kids with to stay who he has always been. So no we can't be friends, that does nothing but give him access to me and me to hold on. Thank you for helping me realize I needed to CUT IT OFF completely and get busy! Be Blessed.

  • @greenIMONSTER008
    @greenIMONSTER0083 жыл бұрын

    You're sooo sweet and patient with all! Thank you for your service Tony! What a blessing

  • @aurorasmith4805
    @aurorasmith48053 жыл бұрын

    your videos are a God send. I came on this video devastated because i immaturely block this boy a couple months ago and i went to search for his snap but couldn't find it bc he blocked me too. Now im looking at my mess and feel so inspired to clean it up. But then me being me i searched up his snap and to my surprise it popped up again. When an hour ago it wouldn't pop up for nothing even though other ppl with his first name were. Now idk if i should move on.

  • @sharlitawilson6503
    @sharlitawilson65033 жыл бұрын

    Hey Tony, great video!!! I needed this for myself. God continue to bless you so that you can bring blessings to the women who are here listening and putting the work in.

  • @krissyhartley6224
    @krissyhartley62243 жыл бұрын

    I am experiencing these feelings so strongly right now, so I told myself, go listen to Tony. I'll be dammed if this isn't the exact thing I needed direction on! Thank you so much! ♡

  • @vivienne___
    @vivienne___ Жыл бұрын

    Tony you always hit the nail on the head with your re-enactments of the performances these men make to make us feel for them .. I just wish I came across your channel years ago