How To Get Confidence like Tyler Durden
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Fight Club is easily one of the most influential movies in the past few decades. And why? because it's relatable. It tells the story of a depressed consumeristic man who finds his way into a less depressed consumeristic life by the means of a man named Tyler Durden.....
yeah hes pretty much literally me.
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Holy cow, the quality on this video is top tier. I can tell you're a credible source of advice just by the way you speak. It's Genuine. Never lose that, please!!
You have a great voice to listen to. And when you stop caring about what other people think (within reason: you don't have the right to hurt people) improves your life *dramatically*: you stop letting the opinions of "other people" affect your behavior, and how you feel about yourself. (And if Tyler were an out of shape dude, no one would have been inspired by him. Sorry, not sorry.) All the best.
Confidence is sexiest trait a man can possess.
You have something really good going on here. Keep on the grind!
Keep this up mate. If there is truth behind your words, then you will go far kid.
(3:30) I once had long night conversations with a girl I had a crush on. To lighten the interaction and have a more open chat, I decided to have a small drink but with high percentage. Surprisingly, this worked for me, I was able to relax and communicate more freely. However, it's important to note that this approach isn't for everyone. Personally, I tend to feel less comfortable in conversations, with the exception of conversations with close friends and loved ones. Anyway.. I think you giving great Advice man! I will try to work on it.
literally the point of fight club was to reject self improvement, just let go
@abreian
11 ай бұрын
as much as I agree, the next logical thing from “letting go” which idk what that means to you or anybody, is becoming the best version of yourself. Tyler’s quote about self improvement is referring to working towards a meaningless goal just because to give yourself some dopamine hit like masterbating. If someone is to find their purpose and work towards it, it is not meaningless, and it provides an outlet for fulfillment as well as not just looking for meaningless joy in the consumeristic dopamine filled world.
@arfius6134
9 ай бұрын
Tyler didn't tell to REJECT self improvement ...
@PapiStolet
8 ай бұрын
My theory when Tyler says self-improvement is bullshit and self-destruction is the answer is that getting out of your comfort zone and doing things you don't want to do, like when he says to space apes starting and losing a fight, that's true self-improvement is not the one that makes you feel good in the moment but has achieved long-term benefits. Accept self-destruction (improvement). Let me know your theory I’m interesting
@Beleth420
8 ай бұрын
I thought the point was to stop wasting your life and that its literally showing us, how men need purpose or we will become like that. Obviously everything is up to interpretation I've not actually watched it for about 6 years lol. Oh and that the current working climate and how we are as a society is ruining our mental and basically become zombified having stagnated in such a boring mundane 9-5 life when we used to have purpose not just a shitty job and be a wage slave being depressed all the time LOL. All these men come to tyler because they have nothing to live for. I think I need to rewatch now aha.
@PapiStolet
8 ай бұрын
@@Beleth420 great thought mate, we just need a purpose in life :)
Love your vids, thank you bro
This is actually really good advice
The intro is Awesome
Thats straight to point Btw your abs are insane dude 🔥
Great physique brother.I respect you work ethic.
good content.
Anyone notice he wrote durdan instead of durden
😭😭the way these jokes be placed
Thank ya
Ik im late but along with being strong, confident and hot he also rejected self improvement, favouring destruction. Hence the paradox
Step 1: have split personality disorder.
@kaylebsingsstuff
2 ай бұрын
Check, what's next?
@mrdudeman57
2 ай бұрын
@@kaylebsingsstuffreal
@Upuiff09
2 ай бұрын
step 2: HAVE SPLIT PERSONALITY DISORDER
underrated song at the end
MEN WHO WEAR THE BLUE RALPH LAUREN BATH ROBE WILL BE REMEBERED FOR MILLENIA 🗣🗣
Good one❤😂
Self improvement is masturbation. Now, Self destruction.
Peak soundtrack
Be yourself
If u not prepared mentally don't do it. Do it , but prepare. Don't jump all in 😂
In both american psycho and fight club, the whole message is that people become futile by only focusing on "self improvement", but in my opinion, some aspect has become futile if you're only putting effort on that, and nothing else. No, self improvement is not masturbation, but masturbating on your ego with self improvement is.
Ima do these things and come back with the result
@DutchVanDarLinde
7 ай бұрын
Oi mate what happened
@user-zh7kp6fu2j
6 ай бұрын
Hey bro how is it?
step number 1. have plot armour.
Bro got the same abs genes
"Self improvement is masturbation."
@TheP0dcastHub
4 ай бұрын
"But self destruction" 🫰
one letter w
Buddy you missed the whole idea. You're not supposed to be like them. The characters itself like they are supposed to be. Be yourself.
@abreian
8 ай бұрын
It’s just a video about confidence at the end of the day man, im not saying to be exactly like Tyler Durden.
1. It's Brad Pitt
whats at 6:00?
Interesting brother, never watched the movie but nonetheless good video
@abreian
11 ай бұрын
thanks for the support von, keep up the good content
@socialdestroyer
9 ай бұрын
go watch it!!!!!
3:29 dude what💀💀💀
American pyscho is a movies not abt killing ppl but how u should feed ur "good side" also ur hobbies amd ur bad side so u wont be the nice guy or full on bad guy anime shit Fight club just dp something that makes ur life better just not stressful hobbies just enjoy life
What's the intro theme name ?
@supercringeteam6666
3 ай бұрын
i dont remember but its something by mozart i think
@supercringeteam6666
3 ай бұрын
symphony 38 first movement
I still dont and will never get this masculinity shit
@kazattak
6 ай бұрын
dawg FR did these people understand the point of the movie 😭
He’s not you where’s your homeless man mansion bruh?
You are telling me to get a gun?
I think you missed the idea that Tyler was a psychotic delusion of an insane mind, and was not supposed to be someone to be emulated. You also missed the idea, if you were foung to emulate him, where he declares "self improvement is masturbation".
@radiogoon1354
11 ай бұрын
Everyone has their own Tyler durden, the narrators Tyler was everything that he wanted to be, not everyone's Tyler is out to destroy consumerism. You must become your own Tyler, be how you want to be, look how you want to look, speak how you want to speak, the more you do that the more you will let yourself become Tyler durden.
@ethanwall6994
9 ай бұрын
"People do it every day. They see themselves as they want to be. They just don't have the courage you have... to run with it," - Tyler Durden I think what he's trying to say is that Tyler Durden embodies what you want to become. So no, we're not literally becoming Tyler from the movie, rather, we are self-destructing who society and those around us are telling us who we are and letting go of all of the bullshit to become an authentic version of ourself free from fear
@minecraftspiderqueen
9 ай бұрын
Mate, i am him. I don't think you understand.
@mstrslay3752
8 ай бұрын
@@junij3524He probably meant that u shouldn't be like Tyler Durden, in the movie, as he promotes literal self destruction(1 hr sleep a day, starts a terrorist org, lives in a dilapidated house, steals human fat to make soap...) and discourages literal self improvement (improving ur physique (bus scene), getting a decent job, a decent home, sleep schedule...). I personally see it the way the two other people who replied see it tho, just explained what the guy commented is probably saying.
TYLER IS SOMEONE ELSE
Best video, but how do you stay in his mindset?
@abreian
7 ай бұрын
you must adapt into your own mindset, his mindset is only a template for confidence.
@Gmanj26
7 ай бұрын
@@abreian thank you bro, got it nailed now!
Tyler Durden is an Ideal for lonely men,like the people who follow Andrew Tate is his everything they aren’t he’s strong charismatic and gets the women he wants. But I’m the end not even the Narrater could ache I’ve it instead he learned that Durden is wrong and learns who he is
@Ben-zg8xk
8 ай бұрын
Durden was a nihilistic extreme, the movie is a warning against this type of masculinity. Its funny that although tyler durden is supposedly anti modernity and anti consumerist, he represents everything that our society values in men. The point of fight club is for men to have a balance of the narrator and tyler durden, and to cultivate real human connection.
@aliimrankaya4952
7 ай бұрын
😅😂 You just wanna be good guy
@enthalpyart220
6 ай бұрын
actually u should go for detail
self improvement is masturbation ~ Tyler Burden
🫵🏽🫡
drugs
What's the difference between your mother and a washing machine?
@abreian
11 ай бұрын
when I dump a load in the washing machine, it doesn’t follow me around for a week.
@GentlemanGaming1122
11 ай бұрын
@@abreian 😂😅 fucking hell that is funny.
tyler is not supposed to be a role model.
@YABUKIJOE2077
7 ай бұрын
Wrong
@Musashiditlapathere
6 ай бұрын
But he Is
self improvment is masturbation
You don't wanna be like him, stop.
Sigma the Alphas and Betas
confidence is good when you have a clear purpose. no, being masculine is not a purpose.
Bro packin some BEEF in his draws wtf😅. But nah youre too young you dont realise that the message is DONT become that
U look like my ex
@abreian
7 ай бұрын
who says I’m not
Shit sounds like a castrated Tyler Durden
i feel you're missing the point of Tyler Durden's character by trying to be like him
@Thebootlegmariobros
7 ай бұрын
Hes trying show how having some of tylers good traits can help in improvement
You talk too much
The whole point of Fight Club was the same as American Psycho, you're not supposed to like him or want to be him.
@lukestreng3660
11 ай бұрын
not completely true, the message he brings is great. Rip loose from consumerism and follow your dreams. become who you really want to be instead of constantly frying your brain with dopamine all day. Nevertheless, the way in which this is potrayed is very dramatic to make the movie interesting and to show the duality in the narrators own personality and tyler.
@bigsmoke2287
11 ай бұрын
I agree that you don't want to be like bateman but you do want to be like Tyler durden in the sense that he wants people to break free from all of the things making them weaker in turn destroying the weakness and creating new strength.
@ryken4456
9 ай бұрын
I want to be like him.
@chefboyardee4674
9 ай бұрын
And look at what society has made men.
@minecraftspiderqueen
9 ай бұрын
I am him.
The lips story is the most untyler durden thing ever Tyler was far from homosexuality
also adding the clip of you licking your lips definitely wasn't necessary
@abreian
11 ай бұрын
It certainly was necessary
@hasantnaz2235
11 ай бұрын
@@abreianof course it was necessary. It brought the while video together
@SpecialAbonnent
7 ай бұрын
Of course it was, it broke my nofap streak
If you're watching this your already lame