When you already know your style but don't have money to buy new clothes

@leialynn3259

2 жыл бұрын

LITERALLYY

@frogmilkk

2 жыл бұрын

SMAR

@sta._rina

2 жыл бұрын

Diy bestie

@janie9355

2 жыл бұрын

sometimes u can rework ur old ones, i still have a lot of stuff from elementary/middle school that i've diyed to change the aesthetic

@snippyhera

2 жыл бұрын

YESSS AHHH

A tip for anyone out there: Wear jewelry you feel confident in. Statement earrings, multiple rings, hair clips, etc. It’s a good way to lean toward the style you want, slowly ~

@charlie-nd1dm

2 жыл бұрын

I completely agree!! I wear crazy earrings all the time, and im now known for my earrings, it really helps me express my personality, and jewelry is overall amazing

@jelen2579

2 жыл бұрын

Yesyes, I like hairclips since jewelry is a bit irritating for me sometimes since it's hot, but still cute to wear sometimes😌👌

@funkyfitz

2 жыл бұрын

YESSS jewelry is so important!! it may seem small, but accessories rrly do make such a huuuuge difference in an outfit :D

@mingisfx

2 жыл бұрын

i wish i was able to but i wear a religious headpiece and there are a lot of earrings and necklaces that i want to wear but theyre covered by my it :(

@huh6223

2 жыл бұрын

@@mingisfx im not sure if there are some on youtube but there are a lot of good tips on tiktok for accessorizing while wearing a religious headpiece like a hijab

A tip!! Don’t worry about “oh, I really really like this, but it’s not trending” or “I only need clothes of this specific style” we are trying to find your personal style which consists of clothing you love so don’t focus on organizing stuff when making a mood board just throw whatever u think looks great and that should really help you make a closet you love :)

@greencheese3717

2 жыл бұрын

if it isn't trend we will make it a trend

@funkyfitz

2 жыл бұрын

YESSS experiment, experiment, experiment!! don't feel pressure to (for a lack of a better word) conform to one aesthetic or trends, because at the end of the day what really matters is if YOU love what you're wearing

@elsie4802

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah true. I love mori kei fashion but I’m too scared to try it out in public because it’s not trendy, hoping to get over this feeling soon..

@nez999

2 жыл бұрын

@@elsie4802 mori kei is so cute!!! it’s not my personal style but I love looking at it and finding people who wear it, please do try it out soon!

@elsie4802

2 жыл бұрын

@@nez999 aww thank you for the motivation

there was this one girl in my school who i thought had the sickest style i was so envious of her wardrobe and her confidence cause i thought i could never have the confidence to wear something like that and i really looked up to her even though i didn't know her because she really inspired me to be able to wear whatever i want without having to feel like i needed to wear something that was "socially acceptable" to not get bullied or prevent getting bullied and now im trying new things with my style so i can be like her and be the person that i looked up too :D

@elsie4802

2 жыл бұрын

Ahh this is so sweet I love this, happy that you are learning to be confident with your style!🤗

@mangokii

2 жыл бұрын

Omg yes, go youuuu

@owbru6148

2 жыл бұрын

I'm in the UK 😢 we have uniform it's rlly sad-

@Marielm5

2 жыл бұрын

Yes, I recently made a friend who looked like the individual in the video. Man they are so cool , I am too embarrassed to tell them though 😭😂❤️

@owbru6148

2 жыл бұрын

@@Marielm5 TELL THEM!

It’s crazy how much clothes can build up your confidence. I don’t have the money to buy my dream wardrobe, but I did recently buy some platform boots I’ve been wanting & I feel so good & happy in them !!

@thunderass1904

2 жыл бұрын

So true!!

@morningstartheweapon

2 жыл бұрын

Ive been wearing outfits I like and I always feel so gorgeous and confident!!

@justpeachy_honey4430

2 жыл бұрын

@@morningstartheweapon that’s really good to hear !! It’s what you deserve

@sta._rina

2 жыл бұрын

Im still trying to figure out the kinks in my style and stuff but yea i feel alot better wearing a fresh funky fit i like instead of just a hoodie and leggings lol

@geminianarchy

2 жыл бұрын

same but a gummy bear choker and cat ears from hot topic bec im poor :,)

lil tip: we all go through an awkward phase of drastically changing your fashion style. it usually happens when you’re first developing your style, but it’s gets better trust me. i looked super weird for a while but now i know exactly how i like to dress, but it didn’t happen first thing. hope this helps! :]

@nothatswrong286

2 жыл бұрын

Omg i feel like this is happening to me right now because ive been trying to change my style like very drastically and it feels weird also my mother will think its weird

@sydneyyy420

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you!!!

my favorite tip is to just have ONE pinterest board for all of your clothes, shoes, and accessories. it helps when you’re looking for things you want to see what colors and sorts of vibes you lean towards

@elsie4802

2 жыл бұрын

For me I have one main “personal style” board which shows my fashion style and the style I want to have, to make it easier when shopping etc. And then I have a board with just other random more experimental fashion that I like.

@mademoiselleLN

2 жыл бұрын

It really helps to visualise what you like just with an overall idea of what your style looks like and it helps when you want some new clothes because you actualy know what you want

@itsjiala

2 жыл бұрын

I love this Tip! It is very smart to make your boards more concise. I just made a video about Finding Your Personal Style! I provide some other great tips to add check it out! ✨ kzread.info/dash/bejne/op5p18ydl9zTXdY.html

@sta._rina

2 жыл бұрын

yeah! and its alot nicer to have it be like 10-30 pins bcuz then your style is more refined and you know what your style actually is instead of a big jumble of stuff you kind of like

@london2518

2 жыл бұрын

@@sta._rina lol me n my 1000 pin board 🧍‍♂️

The way I dress often looks terrible to other people, but I feel good wearing it, and I think I look great, and I love it. I'm currently wearing brown pants, a yellow turtleneck sweater under a grey sweater vest. Is it the epitome of aesthetic and fashion? No, it's actually kinda ugly, but do I think I look incredible? Absolutely I do.

@bluebubble612

2 жыл бұрын

Love this energy

@agnes0909

2 жыл бұрын

If you feel good in it you defenetly look good in it!

@adrijajane6098

2 жыл бұрын

that gives me emma chamberlain vibes and I'm suuuper here for it. you do you homie, i live seeing people feel confident in their fashion :)))

@nana-pd7ee

2 жыл бұрын

i imagine this still looks super cute tbh 🥰

@quozy__

2 жыл бұрын

i would NEVER wear that but it probaly looks good on u!

I think one of the factors that affect the mentality of “dressing up” a *certain* way is like the environment around you. As someone who’s in the middle of girly and edgy I can’t really achieve a good wardrobe as I have to rely on my parents when buying clothes. They’re quite judgmental and the fact that when other people give me clothes they literally look like they’re from justice or clothes that aren’t my style at all it’s so hard to say things like “oh I’m sorry I don’t wear that” or “oh sorry but I don’t really like that.”

@sta._rina

2 жыл бұрын

remember you can always upcycle acessories and clothes you already have :]

the weird thing about dressing up is I feel really confident wearing my outfit but the "fantasy" sort of goes away when I see myself in a mirror later on in the day

@xoxo.y

2 жыл бұрын

that's exactly how i feel. it kinda gets worse when i'm trying new thing in public (if that makes sense)

@user-lw1iu5up4e

2 жыл бұрын

It’s the opposite for me, at school I feel like a hot mess. But when I get home, I look amazing- and I wish I would’ve been more confident at school.

@sydneyyy420

2 жыл бұрын

@@xoxo.y its kind of comforting for me too know other people feel the same way too

@tal1isk

Жыл бұрын

@@user-lw1iu5up4e same!

i'm so happy i finally started dressing the way i had always seen other people who i looked up to dress like because i just feel so much more confident now than when i was just wearing whatever clothes. i still feel kinda awkward in public but with my style refelecting my personality more it definitely helps!!!

@funkyfitz

2 жыл бұрын

YAYYY I am so glad that you feel happier now!! fashion is such a wonderful medium for self expression, & being authentic to yourself definitely helps w confidence

I’m usually a person who looks for efficiency, comfort and style, and this is my personal advise: Create two Pinterest boards, in one you put everything you like, everything. Shoes, clothes, jewels, makeup styles. On the other board you’ll only add pattern items. An example: you noticed you had 10-20 pins with the same Dr. Martens Jadon Vintage. That means that subconsciously or not you’re attracted to that item, and is something you can re-use multiple times. In the beginning buy *core* pieces. Like a plain color shirt that you can overlay with multiple items, or a jacket that will look good independently of what you wear on the bottom, from then on slowly buy more items that fit your style. Try experimenting with DIY, and please avoid buying stuff you won’t need anymore after it’s done being a trend!

Just something to remember, if someone does come up to you to talk smack about your outfit don't feel bad about it. Feel bad for them that their day, or maybe even their life is so sad that they felt the need to take time and effort out of their day to try and make you feel bad for *gAsP!* trying to dress the way you like.

@SM-yz4hi

2 жыл бұрын

i’d also say try to remember that they’re just a person. you’re just a person. their opinion isn’t more important than yours. they’re not the arbiter of what is and isn’t cool and at the end of the day their opinion has no effect on your life

I finally started to dress the way I want and I feel so much more confident! I have a preppy, 70s, colorful, type of style, which I am soooo happy with! 😄 I still want to work on building my wardrobe, but I’m finally excited to get dressed in the morning.

@snippyhera

2 жыл бұрын

Sounds so adorable! Best wishes on your style journey

Tip! You might like a trend and want to go for it but it might not suit you/you don't feel comfortable wearing them. I tried to go for the "egirl" style trend with fishnets and all and though everyone said I looked great I felt super uncomfortable so now my wardrobe is mostly just pieces I feel super comfortable wearing and its finally a wardrobe I love! But don't be afraid to experiment still :-)

@broookenoellee

2 жыл бұрын

i had the same experience- i started dressing alternatively through the e-girl trend but it looked horrible on me lol

@Chris-fe1kx

2 жыл бұрын

i agree with you but sometimes trends can be helpful in introducing you into new pieces you might really like & keep/implement into your own style, even after the trend ends

@marig6202

2 жыл бұрын

I used to like the white, black and pink grunge aesthetic with that bunny hat but I realized it was a little to out of my comfort zone and I didn’t think I’d actually wear it, now I’m just sticking to this baggy clothing/weird prints aesthetic (idrk the name for it yet lol)

let’s be honest anything fits u sis I need to learn lmao

i love her editing and style omg

@funkyfitz

2 жыл бұрын

AWW THANK U!!

I've finally started trying to wear whatever I want, starting with jewellery, and it feels so cool honestly. I've always loved like- homemade looking jewellery and I've started making bracelets out of can tabs and stuff and I already feel a lot happier. I won't be leaving the house until like- November because lockdown but we're in Spring, going into Summer at the end of November, and I'll be able to show off my cool homemade bracelets without them being hidden and stuff. Plus, whenever I think about it, I wonder what others think when they see some random long hair blonde bitch with platform boots, a bunch of silver jewelry, laces tied in rainbow pentagrams lol and in their school uniform jus walking across the quad to their other very cool looking friends. Idk it makes me feel cool.

@itsjiala

2 жыл бұрын

Don’t be afraid to be YOURSELF and express your self! Even shopping in different sections! I just made a video providing some Awesome Tips to help find your Personal style and become a trend setter!! Check it out, let me know if it helps kzread.info/dash/bejne/op5p18ydl9zTXdY.html

@lillablack8837

2 жыл бұрын

pls i made a necklace out of can tabs too i love it sm

@ghost_shivers5276

2 жыл бұрын

u sound so cool looking- also yesss i have like 10 homemade necklaces

@spiritdraws1312

2 жыл бұрын

@@ghost_shivers5276 lmao I hope I look cool as well, then again the looks new year 7 students hae been giving me this year make me think I probably look cool. Plus, I wear another pair of doc martins that have heart buckles, a pink hear indented into the back of he shoe and then the top of the flap thing behind the zipper. They're undeniably cooler than the previous ones and I feel cool. I like to think me and the few other alternative year 10's have allowed younger students to feel like they're allowed to express themselves while still wearing school uniform, thankfully our uniform rules are very slick and we can accessorise to our hearts content along with whatever hair/makeup we want A lot of new students are scared to express themselves going into highschool and I think seeing other students expressing themselves how they want is great, I've already seen a slow influx of kids going outside the base uniform last year and this year. Long comment in rely to yours but yeah I hope I look as cool as I sound, esp since I've gained a lot more jewellery that I wear since making the og comment

The blazer skirt tie combo makes you look like a chainsaw man character I love it lol

i just saw someone at my school that literally looked just like you but with your old red hair and im glad that youre an inspiration to a lot of people including me, the person i saw today, and way more :)) keep it up

Honestly like posting my outfit of the days has helped a ton with my confidence when it comes to clothes, and its lovely getting feedback from others about my style :D

Ai Yazawa is my queen of fashion always and forever. I recently read Gokinjo Monogatari and I think I finally found my style in what Mikako wears. Reading/looking at art is indeed one of the best ways to find one's personal style. I really enjoyed this video and I think you did really great at explaining all your points. Good job!

@meanddoc

2 жыл бұрын

Same!!

@anika-banikakee-kee1097

2 жыл бұрын

ai yazawa is god tbh

i really love using depop for fashion inspo, people get super creative with some very niche items, and there is no ~persona~ attached to the fits

Ahhh I used to get bullied and my self esteem is really low and I don’t have any confidence but I’ve been trying to build up my closet to something I feel comfortable in and this video really helped me I still have a long way to go but thanks for this

i love the idea of a physical moodboard. i have these old japanese fashion magazines that idk what to do with so i might try this!

this is why i recommend you to all my friends who want to dress more alternative :)

YES! Paradise kiss it’s super good! The style of each character really fits with they’re personality, but that’s mainly because Ai Yazawa has a really good sense of style herself and is really good at creating characters and stories. Also really glad you liked it and mentioned it cause this is the first time that I hear someone talking about paradise kiss usually when I ask people nobody really knows her

I personally sew and use bleach 2 personalize my old clothes 2 my aesthetic more and I recommend this a lot bc not only does it @ a value 2 it but also u can literally do whatever u want and go crazy with it!! There r a lot of tutorials on you tube which helped me a lot :]

@merrrr3173

2 жыл бұрын

i really wanna learn how to sew!!! do you maybe have a video you reccommend for a starter?

The problem is I like clothes an i hunk they’re cute on someone skinny, and then I put it on and I just don’t look good, it doesn’t fit right. Hurts my heart

@oak31391

2 жыл бұрын

Same- it’s honestly heartbreaking…

@sleepieste

2 жыл бұрын

here's the thing, the clothes are meant to fit you, not the other way around, you're not meant to fit the clothes. get yourself some better clothes that u feel comfortable in

@daniaalh1864

2 жыл бұрын

now i know fast fashion is to be avoided where possible, but SHEIN has been a game changer for me as a midsize person whose proportions don’t fit into a lot of mainstream fast fashion. SHEIN has exact cm/inch measurements in every article of clothing which can help you find pieces that are more likely to fit you before buying, and seeing pictures of people with a similar body type in the reviews can help you match expectations. the quality isn’t always stellar and it may not be ideal for lifelong staple pieces, but it’s good for trying out styles that are hard to otherwise find in stores. My one tip would be to avoid overconsumption - try one article of clothing from whatever style you want to try, then you can expand when you know you like it. good luck :))

@catreenel

2 жыл бұрын

same, its like i dont have the right body type for it :/

im suuper awkward at school but upgrading my wardrobe has helped me soo much. getting compliments on my outfits are EVERYTHING!!! i found some cheap (at least for here) corsets at spirit halloween. like- i have 3 corsets from there 😃 anyways i live in mississippi and theres literally no good clothing stores for my style- halloween stores are def good for cheap alt accessories 💀

I have an idea that might help people get confidence for what they wanna wear. Just think, everyone has worn something weird, people have a style, if people judge me for what I wear, what they’re wearing should be judged as well. It just works for me when I want to wear my ramen hoodie in public.

@orangeworm

2 жыл бұрын

i literally wear slippers sometimes when i go out even if it doesn't really go with my outfit lol,, always value comfort over what other people may think! i struggled badly with my anxiety recently until i started to wave those thoughts away and place trust in doing what i wanted instead of fearing others' opinions.

everyone saying the dont have money to buy their dream wardrobe but i have money, just not a supportive parent 😭

@toqa6735

2 жыл бұрын

Same

@user-kg6pr1iv4i

2 жыл бұрын

My mom has raised me on "deals" so even though I have the money it just doesn't feel like I should?? Like I don't want to pay that much. 😩

@iris-jm1vt

2 жыл бұрын

@@user-kg6pr1iv4i Literally!! I lived with -$10 shirts and when I see anything above that its automatically a no! 😭✋🏽

Tip: You don’t have to find an style, just wear whatever you like. It’s just what I feel ,of course you can find an style.

I feel confident when wearing my style, idk it's like my body and mind is happy and it feels like everything it perfect, I would've tried it way sooner had I known the feeling of it

you can also get some incredible inspirations from film! the styling of your favorite character tells a lot about you in my opinion. also, in film, a character could wear simple everyday outfits and they still speak for their personality... same goes for music of any subculture bc fashion is often related to it! have fun and be creative ! don't put pressure on yourself

My only problem is I'm poor and I'm very restricted in what my parents let me wear :/ But your video is great I can see all the effort and passion you poured into it

When she said online thrift store for "womens and kids". She rly meant it, there aren't any mens clothes. Is there a similar website like Thred Up with men clothing and accessories? LOVE YOUR CONTENT!!!👍👍😁

i didn’t even know grunge fairycore was a trend on tiktok, i’ve always just loved that aesthetic :o

I love how she says “Hello my dears” It just gives a little more ✨

EARLY??? ANYWAYS SO EXCITED HUN. i feel like categorizing your style + color palette is super important to styling, even if your style fits multiple aesthetics. stay true to yourself loves!!

I'm so happy you did this type of video I struggle with confidence and style mostly from what people say to me

no bc i was so confident now it’s so hard to leave the house, i can not handle when people stare or laugh i’m also going thru a hard time so it doesn’t help at all

I feel that I’ve started drifting towards a more lolita/ kawaii/ yami kawaii style.

editing is amazing 😭 i love how she spend her time on the editing💗

You know life is great when you both find your style AND have confidence wearing stuff. I have reached the epitome of such life.

ur literally my biggest inspiration fashion wise tysm for creating ur content

I recently stumbled upon your channel and I FELL IN LOVE thank you for keeping me company and helping me with things that have been making me STRESSED omg😫

this was adorable! i don't even struggle with my style but i still found this so comforting and sweet, you seem like such a warm person!💓

i really love watching your videos! i’ve been following you since the beginning of your tiktok and i really enjoy how you express yourself with your clothing and how you help others as well! i really love how your style has evolved, i’m going start using some theses tips and see how my style evolves as well lol! i hope whoever tries these tips achieve their desired style lol!!!!

I LOVE LOVE LOVE how you are showing people how to find THEIR own styles!! People say to be yourself until it comes to how your dress and your style-

clothes really helped me. a lot. I have severe social anxiety, and dressing fancy actually helped me, especially when I am given compliments !! even a guy at my school I barely talk to agreed that my outfits are pretty 🥹🫶 of course I am not the only person in the world with SAD (social anxiety disorder) so it may be different, but if you're comfortable, I definitely recommend :]

I've been wanting to explore my fashion more by watching you, you're such an inspiration.

Thank you! These were actually useful tips :)) I especially liked the mood board idea cause I feel like I enjoy a wide variety of styles so I'm gonna make one to really see my whole aesthetique!

Ai Yazawa is one of my biggest inspirations…her work is just so good 😭💗💗💗

PERFECT. TIMING. I just got home from school and I wanted to watch something, it's like you know what I wanna watch, how Rui? ❤

@gaby.santosss

2 жыл бұрын

@@lydiabugzz :)

your editing is so beautiful i love it sm

Thank you for these tips! I’ll really make use of them, I used to rush to getting in the style I wanted and my parents kept getting shocked, and now that I watched this video I’ll start slow! :D

omg thank you because you and your channel inspired me to wear what i like and now i think of myself as a little avatar that i can dress up whenever i want 😊

For my fellow babes in school, please remember NO ONE CARES WHAT YOU ARE WEARING!! Everyone is just in school, because they have to be. No one notices what anyone is wearing, other than freshman’s. Only freshman’s really think this is middle school, where they think they are adults and are majority “pick me girls.” Teachers also don’t care, some don’t ever care if it breaks dress code. The teachers are just happy you even rolled out of bed at 6-7 a.m. and got to school: congrats if you dressed cute this early.

@midnightthoughts111

2 жыл бұрын

100% agree i remember when i struggled with self love so i thought if i will wear weird attentional clothes i would bring some eyes on me and ppl will notice that I exist but the result was completely the opposite no one did i thought the problem was with my clothes and i spent my whole money on clothes and still no body cares, since that time i realized that no one cares about your clothing and even me don't care about ppl clothes

me: dresses up aesthetically my family: OmG ArE u TrYnnA ImPrEsS SomEOnE??

I just wana mention how much I appreciate u and ur content,, I got rly triggered and watching ur videos is helping me calm down since the vibe of ur channel is so calming and chill,,,, tysm

you’re literally so pretty

OMG THE QUEEN HAS ARRIVEEEDDDD IM SO HAPPYYYY

Thank you so much rui

i never noticed how pretty your eyes are oh my god i couldn't stop looking at them :'( they SPARKLE

This was such a cute video, I liked the advice it was really good!

Soo, we ain't gonna talk abt how pretty she looks- luv u rui 🤎

Some of my own tips thatve helped me: - Make Friends who Are interested in similar styles as you or are confident. Being around confident people has made me so much more confident myself! - Make sure that before you buy a piece you know what you’ll wear it with, and stick to a few diff main colors in your wardrobe such as basic colors and 2 or 3 bold colors - Find designers/magazines/people you can rely on for inspo! - Try new things!!!!! Hope this helps :)))

Through the whole video i couldn't get my mind off of how dang good your makeup looks like dang its so pretty. And i for real love those earings

I was really excited for this new video cos Rui's style is so unique and I wished my style could be as distinct as her's but THANKS SM FOR THIS VIDEO, I needed it lmao,

I realised I don't fit into a label and I just started dressing how I wanted and how I felt like that day! I freaking love how you can be so colorful or so dark sometimes! LOVE! 🖤💖

Omgg I loved your vidssss😭 how did i not know your channel beforeee🤧

I've pretty much worn the same style throughout my life. I finally gained the confidence to start expirementimg a bit.

Thank you, I needed this rn

Your makeup looks so good in this video!!! omg howww

You really make my day when you post a new video Your very calm and beauty and you gave me new dress ideas

this was super fun to watch, it was very helpful, and i love it a whole lot

Saaame ai yazawa really changed my style, she's really inspiring

Thanks for the help!! i love your videos, keep up the great work!

all i know is that your style is for sure my style thank you

Thank you for all the helpful advice!! I will be using it :3

Omg you look so pretty i love your style 😭

why is this the first time in finding ur channel?!? like im obsessed with ur hair,earrings and just the vibe u give off. like i can tell u have a great aura omg!!! but pls of u havent get food, water and take care of urself

tysm, Rui! this was so helpful :D

ty for the confidence tips i rlly need them

your channel is the best i-

Omg I love your earrings!!

your editing is amazing!! and your content is so cute :)))

will def use ur tips love them !!!

This is exactly what I needed!

Love your vids and style tysm for this ♡

this advice is literally so spot-on. I started making smarter decisions when buying clothes, making mood boards, and lists of essentials that I needed, and started building up my wardrobe over time. it took like half a year, but I'm way happier with my current style, than my old one. If you're really worried about what people are gonna say/think, the best advice I can give is to just say "f_ck everyone, and their opinions, I'm h0t, and I look good no matter what I wear." and remember, you can pull off any style, all you need is confidence.

Thanks girl, this was really helpful ✨😌

really loved this!!!

Yay thanks for the video and you’re so pretttyyy !!💓💗

ok gnna cry becuz idk i’ve been feeling pretty lost lately and like i came here after looking at this superrrr cute cardigan- it’s venti themed but my wardrobe is generally dark but it’s so cute and watching i realized that i don’t need to have a set style yk? just what i like :”) i’ll figure out a way to style it hopefully but idk :”) seeing the baby pink and blue dresses in back with your general wardrobe i,,, sighs this is just one long drawn out way to say i’m getting a cute sweater thank u thank u

u should do a closet tour!! i’m in loveee w ur style!

I recently have been trying to find my style, and it’s been going pretty well. I got some doc martins a could of weeks back and now I feel a whole lot more confident, plus I ordered some new clothes which will hopefully come soon. Thankyou so much!! 😁😊

thank you rui

You’re literally so swaggy