You know a narc is cheating when they are breathing.

@svetlanaantonio

Жыл бұрын

😂😂

@siesiechampion

10 ай бұрын

Lmaoooo

@nv_chino

6 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂

@duck9886

3 ай бұрын

😅😂😅😂 ✅✅✅✅

Also when they pull away and de-value you , at that point they are already with another person for emotional supply and are gonna replace you soon .

@moonglow1158

9 ай бұрын

Hmm how awful

@moonglow1158

9 ай бұрын

Yeah , they reallly don’t like it when go away on your own bc you know something is up . They only Hoover you back to discard you . One might think they would admit and be mature about it nope. They need to discard or hope to triangulate you forever .

@luizenidog5016

9 ай бұрын

@@moonglow1158 yeah so very true as well . In my case its her loss , I'm handsome I was loyal I've had offers from other women so the ex can take her junk elsewhere, it took me a while to realize this , I had to heal to get there , crazy how they become your every wish and fantasy until their done with you , well this guy here is gonna search for my Unicorn , I'm done with the fish 🤣 .

@nv_chino

6 ай бұрын

@@moonglow1158you know. Smart one, that you are

You get accused of being paranoid.

@erehistruth2356

Жыл бұрын

Or being insecure.

@codywhatshisface7220

10 ай бұрын

Fr

@nv_chino

6 ай бұрын

Yep. And 10/10 you’re not. That’s just what they do as a defense. And try to trip you out aka gaslight you

@nv_chino

6 ай бұрын

@@erehistruth2356yea they said that before

@rozalina531

2 ай бұрын

Gaslighting, lovebombing, devaluation, discard, repeat = Typical covert narcicistic abuse. No contact or 'grey rock' forever is the only option. Standard 💯

It's not fun for them if their not cheating.

I would say...."your right, I don't deserve you, you need to leave "

@monaj4079

6 ай бұрын

And when you do wanna leave, they become crazy and saying you can't leave me after you showed me the love and support you did🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️like what the hell... I told him that's on you not appreciated the things I gave you SMH

All Narcs do. They can't help themselves. They've done it from the start.

“No honey, I’m not.” Was always his answer. Played me like a damn fool

@ummumami

Жыл бұрын

"there's literally no one else, I go to work and come home to you"

@kasandramullins9890

6 ай бұрын

He swore on his dead fathers grave...

@duck9886

3 ай бұрын

@@kasandramullins9890 mine sweared on his dead granny grave. They’re such pieces of shits 😅

His personal grooming suggests he was cheating..

How do you know a narcissist is cheating?? YES

@MAA77723

Жыл бұрын

Yes!

My ex :" im 32 im getting old. Id never do that, im tryna settle down with you. Why would you ask me that?" WHOLE TIME CHEATING LMAO but also tried to accuse me of cheating knowing im not like that which is why he chose me to keep me in his pocket

@octoberfire13

9 ай бұрын

Literally same here. 😢 I am broken 💔 and I poured all of myself into him and thought what we had was actually "sacred" .... nope, he was cheating from the start and now I have been discarded and at the very end, he did it all right in front of me like it was a completely different man I had been with for a year and engaged. Now my heart is enlarged (like WTF, look up broken heart syndrome, especially if you are a real empath or kind person, It sucks that he is off having a great time and doesn't even remember who I was after destroying my life and making it all about him and "our love (what he kept saying we were doing and I finally believed him lol)

@duck9886

3 ай бұрын

@@octoberfire13trust he will Hoover you. Stay so strong please. Do not take him back.

We are just friends , famous last words of the narcissist

@erehistruth2356

Жыл бұрын

Yeah they are friends that have sex. If I told my story people would truly be shocked.

I asked him and he said I was the one cheating, he said that the one accusing or asking about it is the one doing it

@stephanniev9

Жыл бұрын

But if they were the ones to accuse first and we say that to them when they ask then it doesn’t count and doesn’t work like that. We are just trying to do a reverse psychology or something.

@janiseluvspink8769

Жыл бұрын

wow your guy sounds alot like mine . its amazing they have the nerve to turn it around on us and accuse us of what they are really doing . smh 🙄

@malicedewon1376

11 ай бұрын

B...h told me that 😂

When I found out he was cheating, that was the Question he ask. Makes me feel confused. Thanks to God showing everything.

It doesn’t matter cause they say it’s your fault why they are doing so

@tinyshinyyyy

3 ай бұрын

Mine said you know when men are not satisfied with their woman and don’t get peace they will find someone to cheat with. What a revelation

"She is just my friend. So what that she is sitting in my lap at a cafe and smiling just so, while you are at work? ...How did you see those pictures?"

@marywilsonvocalist2181

Жыл бұрын

Yes..a distraction put back onto you...bizaar crap ay

She’s on point 💯

Having to ask the question to begin with, you know the answer. With narcissist, they always flip it or spin it back upon you like it’s your fault. I bought my wife a ring, and had to apologize to her for accusing her of cheating on me and when I gave her her that ring, she said “aww all it’s gonna do is remind me of him”. That’s abuse in itself.

Very true. The saddest thing that can befall any person is being a narcissist. It's a curse. My experience with a partner that was a covert narc made the notion that evil works within people, very real

Truth!! My ex wife would reverse it every time or say she should should be with someone else who trusts

@nv_chino

6 ай бұрын

Sorry😂 I told mines, see ya haaaaa

I got “you shouldn’t have figured it out!” 😂 really!!

I get malicious sarcasm from her “O really!!? What did the voices tell u!? Who is he? What’s his name? I’d love to know too!! 🤣😂😆”

They are breathing …

@ChannelFiend

Жыл бұрын

My thoughts, exactly!

Most narcs cheat.

Omg 😳... My lover did just that... When I told him I felt like just another notch in his belt, he literally told me he was pissed off that I would even say such a hurtful thing and would just move on... so we broke up. It was so sad ... but he's been ghosting me for almost 9 months now. ✌️😢 Wishing him loving light 💕❤️🎊

@marilynmonroe6130

Жыл бұрын

Dear girl, he's not ghosting you, he has another receptacle. O contact and working hard on your damaged self worth is so valuable for the quality of the Rest of Your Life. Let the demon go. Been there, happier than I ever dreamed possible now.

Truth truth truth ....

All i did was ask her and what she did was flip it on me then act like a victim! Her actions spoke louder its just that i was too focused on working to make things happen that i couldn't see the red flags.

I love this girl ❤ - she tells it just the way it is- go girl 👏

Lol… when you know that the energy is off , that’ll let you know that something sinister is in the air. At first in my youth, it was hard to figure out because I wasn’t as smart and experienced as I am now

Expose the narcissist for who they really are and make sure you have no mercy on the them. 👍

I gave so much effort into the relationship that when he constantly accused me of cheating it was a huge insult. So I'm not sure if this is true

They will also tell you they are and threaten you.

@nv_chino

6 ай бұрын

Yea some can be bold. Mines were the sneaky type

They accuse you of cheating

They ain't a narc if their not doing anything behind your back

How do you know if a narcissist is cheating? Well the answer is all narcissists cheat. It's a matter of when if you're with one or they have been but they haven't been caught by you or you haven't picked up on it

Exactly my experience.

Or they whip it out even if you didn’t even mention it. I told him I would love to see you interact more with me and it’s taking a toll on me and he immediately went like “I care about you and it’s not because we don’t see each other much that I’m cheating on you”. He gave it away and I didn’t even ask but at the time I didn’t see that he was closing the doors of suspicion.

But I reply like this! When dealing with obsessive jealousy and insecurity, I either lose patience and dont know why i bother or point if they never understand who i am. Or I I'm angry they'd even think that about me in the beginning as I think it taints our trust which I thought was growing perfectly. However, I've also been treated like this when I had a narcissist boyfriend who was lying to me very obviously for 6 months and consequently made me ill with the gaslighting. So I find this one difficult..depends on circumstances.

It is like how can you tell when a politician is lying,,their lips move. How can you tell if a narcissist is cheating? They are, just trust me

All cheaters are narcs.

Far too much detail. If they have high narcissistic traits then Yes is the answer. They are always setting up secondaries. Always.

Its the other way around actually. They accuse you of cheating and try to make them self feel better .

I got accused of absolutely everything. Even attacked dragged by my hair just for picking up shopping on my lunch break( deliver driver for super market), saying I hate lies! then his side piece showed up an his face was like a deer in head lights. He ran inside the house hiding when he eventually came out by which point I’d got to my car to leave, an the girl left, he said “just think how we have hurt her, bringing her into our drama” 😮wtf

Riigghht, I don't deserve you. Would you please discard me? Thank you.

🎯 very similar defence.

Finally someone said it i knew it

Not if the victim has been subject to abuse for 20+ years the narcissist trys to trow it back on you mine even tried to convince me the lady at the store seen me kiss someone outside, when i went to ask her they changed the story around

Best accent on earth!

He’s hollering at me

He blocked me. Just because I said he hurt my feelings I texted him from another number saying hi and he goes. What's up? What are you doing? And then he called me and I said Hey, he said Hey, I said. Don't you know who this is? You know who this is right? He goes, no. I said you don't know my voice. He goes no. I go say my name Tony say my name and he wouldn't. He hung up. Then when I texted was me? He called me fucking stupid and call kinds of awful names

@michaelporlier8957

3 ай бұрын

When I see other people's stories it makes me realize that my narc is the same. The patterns are the same. I love and want to help them so badly, but the disrespect the name calling... they only come back because they know we will be here... it's such a vicious cycle. I hope you're doing alright

@jen4yahwehsal176

3 ай бұрын

@@michaelporlier8957 Thank you. He's gone. His phone was disconnected. I think he got fired from his job I believe it was a demonic assignment he's gone. My faith in god is even stronger

Lol exactlyyyyyy Oh ! You saying I’m cheating on you! It’s because you have no trust in me oh it’s not because I did win the past that I’m gonna do it again ,,, blah blah he will answer that way!!!

What about: “That’s going to break me away from you if you ask again “ in my mind it said it’s happened, and it will happen again easily, if you keep asking. Serious inquiries please 🙏

💯 I've heard delusional. But her final email said exactly that. Crazy making

So if him and I are in an argument and let's say I haven't painted my nails for a long time and I saw a pretty nail polish that my daughter was using and I picked it up and started to paint my nails. And then later when he left for work he texted me saying that he knew that I was painting my nails because he thought that I was cheating, meanwhile I thought that I was expecting a baby his baby and we're going on 5 years of being together. So to tell me he was just really guilty of something he may have done himself? Please somebody respond am I stupid

@nanabear2.026

Жыл бұрын

They project, if he suddenly accuses you of cheating, it’s a very bad sign.

@HeavenTriesIt

Жыл бұрын

My Narcissist husband that im trying to leave treats me like this. When I want to lose weight When I start wearing makeup again If I ask to get my hair done If I want new clothes When I talk about finishing college When I apply for a job My husband will start acting very paranoid and begin to accuse me of talking to men. It will be at the most random times. He's allowed to go through my phone. But if he catches me looking through his... All of a sudden he gets really hypersensitive and violent. He keeps me looking ragged... And won't buy me any clothes. Although he always has money to keep himself in nice clothes with a nice haircut to match. Basically he's trying to make me look less desirable because in his head he think I cannot do better than him. Narcissist love to control too much! Also they try to break your confidence down overtime. It always starts off with something small like doing your nails and them flipping out.

💯

Major confession...hmm...okay. Good to know. 🙏 Vengeance is mine saith The Lord.

My gut says he’s cheating I can’t sleep With him

@tinyshinyyyy

3 ай бұрын

Don’t do it, stay clean…God knows what they carry around

Dean Delgado from Astoria

They talk

Are you Icelandic?

Damn....to a "T".

Well fuck

You can't see them

Yessssssss

Hey Aletta, zo erg zijn ze he.

Ik denk dat ik jouw ex narc had ontmoet, en begon te vertellen dat ik net uit een narc relatioship kwam... later liet hij me fotos van jouw zien... was n tijdje geleden hoor... heb hem daarna niet meer gesproken... maar was wel apart ❤❤❤❤

are you Finnish?

👏👍

😢

Hmm, they are alive?

Mine brings her home

@erehistruth2356

Жыл бұрын

Oh hell naw. Mine goes to her house, but acts like they are friends. Most of his friends don't have morals or values so you know what's going down.

Your take is wrong on so many levels.

Are you serious? Who cares about the narc The fact that I commented is that I'm waaayuuu over that What is it? A NARC? 💪💯🤔🤣🤣🤣

For a short, you sure dragged this out. Get to the damn point.